Destiny talks to Harvard Psychiatrist Dr. Alok Kanojia
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- Date streamed: 12/15/2019
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Thank you for the talk! Let me know if you want to talk about anything
you have no idea how much this talk helped me, I've had similar things happened to me in my childhood, and I didn't even realize I was suppressing my emotions. The analogy to colors really opened my mind. Thank You.
You're amazing
Thanks for doing this healing Dr. Alok!
You have a new subscriber. I spent a lot of my early years researching religion and landed on Buddhism after reading Hinduism. I really enjoyed Hinduism. I read the Bhagavad Gita translation by Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada Paramansa but didn't feel like I'd be welcome in that religion because it's so ancient and established in an engrained culture, much like the Abrahamic ones I was raised in. I liked Gautama's approach of not trusting him but finding out for oneself. Reading Jiddu Krishnamurti felt like stripping the theology from Hinduism and analysing the core concepts. He helped me a lot. I would say he saved my life ultimately. You remind me of that approach. Thank you for doing this.
At 1:39:47, how do you spell the name of that text you're talking about?
Dr K: You don't need to use examples we are both clear spoken
Destiny: *Uses an example to explain why he is using examples.*
Bestiny: Becoming Human.
@Tom H k dude
🅱️estiny
@Tom H
Also physically stunted
@Tom H
I know I am going for the low hanging fruit on the tree (just like destiny would) but I can't help myself
@Tom H is he a midget?
I've picked up the use of, "Can I just think for a second" ever since being introduced to Dr. K. It's just extremely calming to know that you don't have to speed-think every response in a conversation. It gives you time to really formulate your thoughts.
OMG. I am listening to this interview and 45 mins in. I was thinking how secure you must be in your intelligence to not be in a hurry to seem like a smart ass by thinking of a quick response. Something I am definitely going to apply in life going forward.
ME TOO. It's actually such a good deal. Has the added benefit of making someone feel special because you're taking the time and care enough to spend time thinking about what they said.
im too afraid of looking like a dummy who doesnt have a response to do that
the problem for me is if i ever do this, .5 seconds in i start to panic that i havent thought of something already and start meta thinking about it and get nowhere
@@meowmeow9326 That's alright man. Literally just tell him that. "I can't think of a good idea/reason/etc. right now, I'd need more time to think about it."
Imagine saying "i'm thinking about implementing more emotions in my life".
that’s me currently
Yeah man omegayikes BRUV
@@L0rd0fTh3N3rdz Sociopaths feel emotion too.
beep boop amirite
@@conot4006 Faking emotion is a normal human thing to do. Ever smiled at someone when you felt sad? Not accepting that you are doing anything wrong is a trait in normally functioning people as well. I'm am interested in who he is ok with killing though.
Destiny: Exploring deep-rooted psychological hurdles that are caused by past childhood dysfunctions.
Chat: "Throw him a curveball and tell him you were raped"
Lmao
This is the kind of comedy the world needs more of lol.....good one dude
HAHAHAHA
56:53 beautiful
@@ryunp you're my hero
I wish all therapists were as good as this guy.
The old ones tend to be the bad ones.
Find a psychiatrist that specializes in psychotherapy/psychoanalysis. They have to have gotten past the hurdle of getting into and passing medical school followed by an additional four years of residency training.
793Force yup! Our understanding of mental health has evolved a ton since the older generations were in school
@@eiendeeai Very dependent on location. Psychoanalysis is not common in a lot of western countries
@@jerremijnarends9996 That's why I said to find one that specializes in it. It's pretty big on the East Coast of the States and a lot of psychiatrists that train there do move to other states. But, yeah, it's a very US-centric recommendation.
43:43 LOL both so eager to share their thoughts, yet so polite
lol
ツDempseyDaPro damn right bro
When the two smartest kids in the class have a common interest. Speaking to intelligent people is nice
This dude destiny is such a narcissist holy cow
Funny timestamp
Dr. K has this ability to match his guest's personality, yet somehow remain faithful to his own
Yeah. I think it’s because he puts himself into other people’s shoes and look at things the way that person would, which I think would change you in that conversation slightly.
Bro where can I get that profile pic
@@vibe7416 nah fam you ain't been to therapy if you think anyone who's studied psych can do this
Why else do people recommend trying out multiple therapists
@@vibe7416 yea dude, most therapists suck ass where I live. it's upsetting and also kinda funny
@@vibe7416 That's the point of going to multiple therapists. To find the one you *can* open up to.
Destiny got destroyed in this therapy session.
How do u get destroyed in therapy? Its not a conpetition or debate🤦🏾♂️
@@lukeemanuels1691 just a joke buddy x
@@lukeemanuels1691 nah it's just post-modern deconstruction
@@lukeemanuels1691 That's the joke. He usually debates people.
@@lukeemanuels1691 You absolutely got destroyed. B-b-b-b-b-b-b-betaaaaaaa
And his heart grew three sizes that day, but he still frequently says the N word in private.
Uhhh based?
Seems that you don't know but he rarely says it and when he does say it, it's in a way that does not target black people. For example the South Park episode when randy says the n word. (Incase you don't get it, randy/racist people are the target.)
Really hate how people still view him that way just because he said a bad word that almost everyone uses. Also why does it matter that he uses it in private?
@@khale5750 lol, "almost everyone uses" speak for yourself.
@@Wolfhunter13564 neither do you tbf
When the unstoppable force meets the immovable object
hahaha holy shit i laughed pretty hard at this
Welcome to the Thunderdome.
Who's who?
Hornystick destiny is neither thats for sure
@@Hornystick I'd expect dr k to be the force
We're basically watching an hour and a half of individual therapy
Literally hundreds of dollars of therapy in this debate
The doc had a convo with reckfull aswell which was much more like a therapy highly recommend it :)
Right! If you put yourself in Destiny's shoes as we all can relate in a certain way, then I think we all can benefit from this free therapy session.
Do anyone have the book name that he recommends destiny in the first 10min ?
People need to realize that therapy is similar but not this. Therapy is more about trying to fix things while this was more about analysis. They didn't have any real goal in mind, which you should have for therapy.
This was an incredible conversation. I felt like Destiny felt at home for once.
Edit: ok half way through now and HOLY SHIT this guy is so good. Really slowly opening Destiny up against his will without being aggressive or disrespectful.
That’s what all good therapists do. Have you never had a good therapist? It can be hard to find one you click with but when you do, this is exactly the sort of conversation you should expect. :)
@@dsokoll9184 I'm not sure why you'd even assume they've ever had a therapist at all
@@hargre77 lol I thought the same thing 😂
@@hargre77 Probably because the vast majority of people should see one, and perhaps they're from a state or country where it's significantly less stigmatized than wherever you live. And when I say the vast majority of people should see a therapist, I really mean it. So many people, a lot of them men but women too, are walking around with tons of mental disorders and negative feelings eating away at them. By media and their surroundings they've been led to believe that seeking psychiatric help is something only crazy people have to do, and they're not crazy, so obviously they should just let it fester and tear their lives apart when they're 40 like everyone else does... Rather than actually addressing their problems and getting help.
Edit: In my experience, growing up in poor areas and financial situations, and thus having dealt with A LOT of mentally ill people (including myself and my family) Its the ones who claim they don't need or want anything to do with therapy that are ALWAYS the ones who need it the most.
Destiny wouldn't wear a sparkly pink dress in this debate.
I don't like how my legs would look in a dress is way more superficial than saying fuck wearing a dress.
@@FETTYNOP The point of Destiny using the "fuck wearing a dress" example is that it is expected of him as a male (they were talking about falling into groups around this time) to not wear a dress. He's saying it's less superficial to not wear a pink dress because it wouldn't benefit you (ugly color, ugly legs) rather than not wearing it simply because the larger "male" group says it's gay.
@@exmo7 It's easier to go to "what would my group think?" instead of "divorced from any group, what do I think?" but most people can't carve out a socially secure existence without keeping up with the Joneses.
So Destiny's definition of a deep thought process may be valuing more than just what's immediately/obviously important to you.
Maybe, he could be throwing out the immediately important concerns entirely and that doesn't seem like something most people have the luxury to do.
@@biglollol Spot on.
@@exmo7 So Destiny's internal self just happens to align solely with male fashion of the current zeitgeist? The question individualists like Destiny fail to ask is how did I develop this sense of self? Why do all my interests tend to align with the current gender I was assigned to or the current x social construct?Psychological research finds time and time again we think we are acting as our authentic selves the more and more we conform to archetypal roles. In asking the question "why wouldn't I wear a pink dress" and finding the answer "I dont like the colour pink," Destiny failed to ask the further question, "Why don't I like the colour pink?" When we realize we are all mirrors of external phenomenon this facade of this authentic internal individual dies
Destiny speaking with this guy was such a positive experience and breath of fresh air. There was no name-calling, no interrupting, no strawmen, no gish-galloping, no unfounded accusations and no feels-over-reals. I loved every second of this. Please speak to him again soon!
Well usually smart people talk this way in a conversation. But when you have retarded streamers with autism screaming their fragile opinions theres no way something good would come out of it
Yeah but what was the point of his discussion with him? It hardly seemed like a discussion about mental health. He didn't seem like he has an issue with his mental health that needs to be addressed.
They weren't in an argument though. The entire conversation was based off a healthcare professional trying to understand somone else's mind not two people with conflicting opinions trying to convince the other that their opinion was correct
@@Netherlag1 It seems his behaviours were connected to experiences for him and he learned that he will likely be missing out on normal relationships because of that.
This isnt a debate.
Destiny failed a Turing Test in this debate.
😂
Lmao at the people who actually believe his basis for not wanting to wear a pink dress.
@@Deffine he wouldnt wear it because he likes blue dresses
This wasn't a debate
Yuri Kendal it’s a meme you dolt
First saw Dr kanojia on Reckfull and since then he actually had a huge impact on me. Seeing this notification made me really excited.
Exactly the same dude. Would love to have the opportunity of a 1 on 1 session with him!
@@hagelmannen same I know his content is centered on gaming but I think he'd help me a lot.
dood same xD
His youtube vidoes should help you out a lot, plus other talks with other people will help you understand which someone in person would try to do as well.
Kevin Gor uu
Dr K: "My community is calling you a raid boss"
Me: THIS GUN BE GOOD
Destiny was repeatedly abstracting the conversation about him, whilst the doctor was attempting to personalize it & get at a specific understanding of Destiny. Dr. Kanojia did a good job of navigating Destiny's defenses to meet him where's he's at.
Holy shit, it's been a while since we've seen Destiny's hyper-focused conversation face. It's always immediately recognizable; He looks like a middle-aged man trying to power through the most constipated shit of his life.
Edit: Also, I already knew this, but this video really demonstrated just how smart Alok really is. At the start, Destiny told him how he doesn't really have much appreciation for the more spiritual aspects of teaching, and almost from that point on everything Alok said was super empirical. This is a really interesting contrast between some of the conversations he's had with Devin. Amazin.
Aaaaaamazin.
That amazin made me like this comment
The use of stimulants...
He also found a way to work it in, after having gained his respect, and kept it to an empirical explanation and perspective. Like, you don't need to believe in the religious aspect to appreciate the moral of the story. Which is extremely true.
I liked for the Amazin at the end
The line "how would Cloud Strife feel about that" made me laugh, good talk
that was kidding a childlish question lol, a question u would ask a 8 years old like " how would a doctor do in this situation", not sure it works when u get older
what timestamp is that?
@@refkibouslama7480 Makes sense in the context imo, trying to tap into the question/matter through the figure of Destiny's young self that he used to idolize
@uberkogle get nailed on cross?!
i love watching destiny have actual good conversations like this, honestly these kind of talk has been what makes me grow as a person who doesn't get out much
Hope you do get out more!
There is some good stuff to experience out there.
Also assholes and pieces of shit.
But we have to try and focus on the good stuff.
If thats true you might enjoy Jordan Peterson. He has helped me understand my mind so much.
@@Abletoth i dont hate him but not a big fan of the dude
josh merritt understand, I myself don’t seem to agree on the majority of his political views however his knowledge on mental well-being etc has helped me view things differently which have helped a lot
"So you would say that you're happy?"
"Yeah, for sure."
"What does that feel like?"
SAME
have you found the answer ever since?
There's never usually any follow up after someone answers this question, which made this all the more profound.
Had a bad LSD trip when I was 18. Totally life shattering. Changed everything. Been sober for 10 years now. What the doc said between 1:19:06-1:20:00 is what I've been saying for years and it feels really good to have it scientifically stated and affirmed.
I used it and loved it, zero regrets, I was doing shrooms before starting at the lowest dose and working my way up and learned so much about myself. I loved spending my time in between those moments walking alone at parks and thinking about life, I miss those days.
You pretty much never hear those stories with ayuasca, it seems, it least in my personal experience, that practically 100% of people who go through the process feel it was a positive experience. This makes me think the problem is not the drug but the lack of structure around it.
The most enlightening part of this conversation is that Destiny subconsciously emulates Cloud
That part cracked me up
I don't get it, since I've never bothered with (what I presume is referenced) Final Fantasy.
On that note, I haven't even watched the video yet.
@@Lyz920 cloud is presented as cool, confident, edgy, emotionless and an asocial, it seems destiny emulates his personality to an extent
@@TehChinkyAsian edgy is a retard term that doesnt apply to things from the past
@@thoticcusprime9309 what is edgy
i laughed SO fucking hard omfg at 55:36 when I read the chat say: WE ARE THE DOGS NOW, after destiny telling a really fucked up story about his grandma putting down 10-12 dogs, from where he learned to not to get attached to anything.
Bruhhh🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
krishnamurti is the guy who said "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society"
Woww❤❤❤
Therapy is never easy. Especially with a therapist that can pierce into the depths of your own mind and soul. Props to destiny for doing this publically, it probably took a lot out of him to go through with this.
I love how they are having a deep conversation about societal progress and happiness and chat is just like SOOK MY DOOK
If only all therapists were this good
I second this lol
If i knew i could go to therapy and get a therapist like this, no question i would be walking into that office to schedule a meeting TODAY
Some Weirdo I agree 100%
Many therapists are that good tbh. You just get deluded by the "Harvard" emblem, which is BS.
My therapist just gave up on me at some point and would only give me a slap on the back and say "Go gettem!" or try to get me to join their religion..
So help me understand how you are different? This was a really nice conversation. I don't think I've actually enjoyed a destiny stream in a long time. Good moment for self reflection.
+1 for that
Seems like clear elitism 😂😂
@@dripproductions8287 He has to. He's an influencer. He has to have a clear thought process about himself since he CONSTANTLY gets feedback. It's less so elitism and more so a CRAZY detailed understanding of himself.
Then why do you watch them?
@@f86tune48 Some people are better than others at certain things and there's nothing wrong with them being aware of that.
This is a anime crossover we needed
Samuel E. Howell an
Is there a way to report a comment for being cookie cutter and lame
Don't mind me just posting timestamps of good moments for later rewatches
46:00 Cloud Strife
55:50 Dog story
1:19:00 Melina malding
1:23:00 "We have some evidence that you have a track record for disrupting other people's lives"
God bless
Dog story is at 54:16 thoooo
@@aino1010 you’re bad
Melina malding where
55 minutes in: Yeah my grandma used to kill dogs all the time so I basically learned to not get attached to things.
Huh. Wonder why he's so cold
The most fascinating aspect of sociopaths is the ease with which they are able to fool seasoned experts.
Sociopathy arises from childhood trauma. Destiny didn't really have traumatic experiences, just a less warm childhood than most people. That creates a persona that seems sociopathic, but nowhere near as extreme as an actual sociopath.
@@adamcummings20 ...what? You can't know whether or not some has had traumatic experiences based on what happened to them, whether or not something is traumatic depends on how the person felt during it. It's about how sensitive they are. You have people who can get raped without any serious long-term effects, and you have people who develop crippling lifelong problems because they embarassed themselves in public as a kid. From what Destiny has described, he could easily have CPTSD.
@@Kushufy Ah ok, I wasn't aware of that.
@No Longer Human tbf, there are sociopathic aspects to his behaviour.
Calling someone a sociopath doesn't help, understanding their behaviour and making them aware of undue harm they do is significant.
Personally I watched a few recordings of his and found him gaslighting a lot. Sure he dealt with dickheads often. But he'd often bring up a non-point the other person mentions and then tries to mitigate.
The disclaimer here is that it's what I've watched.
"Nah, I think he was an asshole"
"And you modeled yourself after him?"
Destiny got paid for getting therapy in this debate. Wait....what if we just paid people to get therapy?!?!?!??!
government subsidized therapy isn't a bad idea given the widespread depression tbh, it could be profitable for the economy.
Would go against the market lel
@@willyoung859 We already have Government subsidized therapy for the people that need help the most. It is called Medicaid. Medicaid subsidized everything. That is only in Democratic controlled states however.
@@g7297 Do you believe that the vast majority of kids needed the Adderall that they are now prescribed? How about the Opioids that were overprescribed? SSRI's and other antidepressants are in the same boat. They are overprescribed leading to misleading numbers on the depression scale. You would have to completely change the way drugs are prescribed before it could help the country.
Meh Adderall is fine, sure it can be abused but I have known so many people who take it whenever they need a boost and never have developed any-type of harm from it or become junkies. Sure it CAN be bad, but lets not compare it to the opioid epidemic. Now if you want to say that kids should not be given Amphetamines then yeah I agree.
when i was growing up i wanted to be like sasuke and itachi for the same exact reason, please don't make fun of me
You were just a kid, nothing wrong with trying to find a coping mechanism for problems in your life.
anime profile pic and liberal use of nigga, yup, thats cringe
Allistair Kumaran homophobic too? Yikes
Hungry Estonian Cringey white boy pretending to be black online? Yikes
@@IBBMS Why do you beat your misses? Why do you diddle kids? Why do you watch cp?
Its fun accusing people of things because they use a word you dont like.
So why do you hate minorities?
“Do you think your emotion is a underlying emotion from happiness?”
Chat: CARPET 🤲🏻 CLEANER 🤲🏻
Funny that the two games he mentioned, ff7, and metal gear solid, both have protagonists that are orphaned. Feelsbadman.
Characters that were severely traumatized at a young age and more or less found "their place" in a world of violence and requisite detachment from things that make people happy.
@@josiahclarke3535 Quite sad. Those two games also were huge in my childhood because I would play them with my dad. He wasn't very good at giving attention to his kids so it was nice lol
1:18:00 - 1:20:00 This man just described the type of insights I had that made me drop psychedelics and pursue a consistent meditation habit instead. I feel blessed.
2:03:20 that reminds me a quote by virginia woolf, "The success of the masterpieces seems to lie not so much in their freedom from faults - indeed we tolerate the grossest errors in them all - but in the immense persuasiveness of a mind which has completely mastered its perspective.”
@@JohnSmith-eo2yx if you come up with an idea, you're already as familiar with it as possible so the only thing that requires any effort then is to put that idea into words, so it essentially comes down to good articulation and vocabulary
I haven't watched the whole video yet, but can you elaborate what this means
In for more Destiny speaking to mental health professionals in stream
Can we get a straight answer from the dude?
Ryan A. He's giving straight answers to the best of his ability and even explaining his reasoning every time
@@Existential_Dread way to not listen.
"My parents absolutely loved me, no questions asked"
"How do you know..?"
Oof
Destiny really got his brand of soylent recognised in this debate
Mans should be drinking almond milk instead. :^)
this was actually really insightful
Destiny got saved by Tifa in the lifestream in this debate
Lol. Just listening to this part, and my first thought was "Is this dude Destiny's Tifa?"
@@oppie2363 Nah that would be mouton
55:05 has to be the biggest "Oh shit, he got me" moment ive seen from destiny
To me it looked more like "Oh shit, this guy gets me"
I come back to this more than I’d like to admit.
'Can you tell me what you mean by grounded?' - BOOM, he's in. This guy just slides right up into your brain and starts looking around for advice to give hahaha, it's awesome to watch.
This conversation helped my life
Rheo as all should perhaps
Psychiatrist: hey destiny!
Destiny: I don’t really know it’s hard to say...
lol. how many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb?
one, but the bulb has really got to want to change.
your comment made me lol.
This guy is so good.
I don't wanna be that guy, but is he though? He cornered himself on more than one instance because Destiny is the last person who needs therapy
@@No_OneV I think they are only having a conversation. Destiny reflect and analysis himself very well that he don't need a therapy. And that guy is not trying to give Destiny a therapy.
@@firerocket7343 Exactly, so what makes you think that hes so good
@@No_OneV ?
like what. Are you gonna judge how good a psychiatrist is at his job by a normal conversation he had with someone? Go watch Reckful's, Sky's, Gorc's or anyone elses session with him if you actually are curious enough, which I think you're not.
@@mocha753 I watched all of them and i'm not judging anyone but its a bold statement still to say hes "so good"
This was so interesting!
you pop up in the weirdest places
What in the actual fuck is *this* anime crossover?
I’m sure reading a doctor sues book would be interesting for you
@@steffen2165 wtf
Na this dude destiny is such a narcissist
I could't imagine having to constantly calculate my social interaction to the point where I'm unable to get lost in them
It probably takes the form of a blanket philosophical approach, as opposed to sitting down with a ledger.
Can you rephrase this?
@@dawn-blade I don't think I could ever enjoy any relationships if every interaction requires a mental pro and cons list.
@@nunnie768 It's not 'requiring' that, the pros and cons are just more of a preactive/retroactive thought to be more insightful and taking caution not to end up in a bad position in life by coming up with generalised rules like most people actually do, he's just more conscious of it. It's not like he sits down with a notepad everytime you ask him on a date so he can calculate how much more you'd like him if he agreed...
Nunnie
I’m very much guilty of over calculating everything and it’s negatively affected my mental health and my ability to enjoy life. My therapist has helped me to get more “lost in things” as you put it, simply enjoying or experiencing something instead of navigating the myriad of possible paths that exist and how to manipulate them.
these 2 have to talk more.
They just vibe way too well!
this is easily one of the best conversations destiny has had on stream yet. this dude was great
This has helped me gain so much insight into why I feel like I can relate so well to Destiny in a lot of ways
Krishnamurti is extraordinary, very very intelligent person you had on here.
"I'm gonna think about this for a second..." this is how I knew this wasn't gonna be a shitty formal debate.
This has to be one of the best conversations I've ever seen on RUclips
Dr. K trying to get him to realize he's suppressing his feelings around the 40 minute mark is beautiful 😂 He just isn't budging
This is one of the most interesting RUclips videos I've ever watched.
Holy *shit* this guy is GOOD. I agree with Destiny's assessment of his methodology, he was pretty respectful, open and receptive, as well as profound. I never felt frustrated watching this, unlike many other videos.
I've personally never thought Destiny is sociopathic, he just has a different approach to emotions, but I think it's pretty obvious he's an empathic person.
Tbh I would look forward to a monthly talk between Destiny and Dr Kanojia. This was a very good listen and beneficial. And it’s really nice to see Destiny have these conversations
Damn this guy is good!
Its what you would expect from a guy who went to India became a monk, then went on to become a Harvard Med School student and work at literally the second best hospital in America. He truly cares about his job and its a breath of fresh air to see people like him. If you havent you should watch the one he did with Reckful, that resonated with me so much and it was incredibly powerful. Its sad that he passed away to suicide though, I cant imagine how Dr K is feeling.
This was actually a really cool conversation destiny. Enjoyed it
I've seriously never seen destiny on his toes this much. Or ever pivot this much. He really started pulling deep fast. I'm honestly impressed. Destiny is a solid dude. Didn't expect this in any way. God job all.
i love this. i know this will probably be lost in the sea of comments saying varying/polarizing things, but i see your joy in this conversation destiny and it gave me joy to watch you so thank you
Props to Destiny for being able to somewhat adapt and overcome the neglect he had as a child. Most people would not have had such an outcome and would have turned to drugs as a coping strategy.
Wait, do we all think that way?
I feel like destiny has a valid point when he speaks about people parroting other people's ideologies.
Me:*an hour and a half into the podcast completely consumed in the conversation*
The entire live chat: SOOK DOOK
56:20 I have a similar story.
My mother worked as a chandelier assembler for some number of years when I was a kid. She brought my brothers and I to a showing they did where a whole bunch of them were assembled.
One of the assembled chandeliers was the size of a car and was suspended over a couch. I noticed that the chain holding it to the ceiling was only like 5 links long. I asked why it had such a small chain while other smaller chandeliers had such long chains.
My mother praised me by saying "Wow that was a really good question." I was over the moon at how she had acknowledged my inquisitive nature. That's part of the reason I remember it to this day 13 years later.
@@askers_ Do you have a similar story?
WHAT'S THE REASON
destiny has balls doing this on stream, gotta hand it to him.
How can you loose when it’s not even a debate
bc its destiny
Need a debate a loser and a winner?🤔
got to see who destiny is and how he thinks and liked that , i thought that Dr.k was very professional, he'll be a great help to this community
I really respect that he's willing to shut the fuck up and think for a second to find better wording etc., that's not something I hear very often, it obviously disrupts the conversation a bit but at the same time it's easier to consume and understand, and it's also humanizing him in a way
Jesus christ this conversation was so stimulating and refreshing. Thanks Alok.
"Destiny is just larping cloud strife" LOL
Aren’t we all?
@@Americansikkunt no
"Huh"
Oooooooof, bit of denial going on, Destiny. Great conversation with Dr. K. A great psychologist exposes our biases and inner workings in ways we've never thought of before. He's so good at what he does!
Destiny talked in this debate
This is so personal. Thanks Steven for posting this vulnerable deep dive! You’re a cool, brave, dude! 👏🏾
Therapy is good for us all. This is exactly the kind of self-awareness we all deserve to experience.
Doc : "It's not that the armor you've put on gets destroyed, it's more that you can unequip it and reequip it."
Chat : "MULTI CLASS *GODSTINY*"
Very interesting. I have a very similar attitude, emotional make up, and relationship with my own family. Interesting to hear how that might have developed.
Same here
1:16:47 that’s a really good description.
its fine to think that way as a broad assumption but it ignores context.
yes a helicoptor to the mountain top robs you of learning or exercizing the ability to make the climb, much like 'its about the journey not the view at the top'.
but if you're stuck in a dark or sad place where the journey is too far or the process forgotten or never taken before, it can be useful to use a 'cheat' of a substance to force yourself to be in a state of 'im AT the top of the mountain, now i remember/know what this is like, i can do this'.
FractalPrism aaaaand that’s how people mentally damage themselves/ have bad trips
FractalPrism i wasn’t really referring to his comments on psychedelics but instead I was more focused on his general description of chemicals in relation to the brain or neurotransmitters more specifically.
@@FractalPrism. i dont care
I don't know which destiny some of these people have been watching, but he is full of emotions.
Fantastic content.
The psychedelic part reminds me of the quote “beware of knowledge that you didn’t earn”
It's like learning flamethrower without ever ember. You're gonna burn everything around you down
@@richardtickler5067 thats a stupid comment
I think that the analogy would be to learn flamethrower earlier than it was supposed to be. The word beware can be tricky.
My opinion has improved of you immensely, im grateful for your work and you sharing your journey. Keep it up
I understand destiny and my self a lot more after this RUclips clip, thanks go dr kanojia
This Dr is awesome at asking open-ended questions.
This is why I gravitate toward his content, whether or not you agree with him or not he always explains his thought process and it feels like most people don't or don't know how.
Why do people think he’s a therapist? It literally says “Harvard Psychiatrist” in the title.
Because typically in his streams he plays the part of a therapist. I think a lot of people are lead into believing that that psychiatrist = therapist/psychologist.
I'm not saying what I believe, just the impression i get from reading his chat. Kind of markets himself that way
@@alexmeyer8133 psychiatrists are trained to be therapists much the same as psychologists
@@redmen2822 I never said they weren't. But typically speaking a psychiatrist is the one prescribing medication and you only see them for 15 minutes. They usually will schedule out 3 months in advance and have a lot of patients.
@@alexmeyer8133 yeah sure, I'd just say calling him a therapist is fair in my book
@@alexmeyer8133 Lol a psychiatrist is literally a better trained psychologist. A psychologist relies more on therapy because they cant prescribe medication in the same way a psychiatrist can because a psychiatrist is a full on medical doctor.
Basically he is more qualified than a a psychologist who just does psychotherapy.
I feel the same way about relationships as Destiny. I am far from a sociopath though and am open to the emotional spectrum. I just feel when it comes down to it, people don't spend time or energy on people they are not getting something from.
58:17- 58:24 i have no idea why but i feel like he cracked destiny a little. He got all flustered.
at 58:08 he flinches when the doctor says "haven't been apart of your life"
Steven isn't Cloud, he's more of a Sephiroth.
Delvin Minor that’s a bit oversimplified.
Destiny sounds psychopathic. I didn’t get the feeling he has any empathy
This is how I imagine a humanized conversation between two A.I. to turn out
31:52 That synced up head scratch was on POINT