Dr. K Gives Insight Into The Redpill, Politics And A Catastrophic Mistake
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- Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
- Dr. Alok Kanojia aka Dr K gives Destiny insight on mental health, psychiatry, politics and the redpill...
Date: 3 May, 2023
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Destiny talks to Harvard Psychiatrist Dr. Alok Kanojia
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Discussion w/ Dr. K (Dr. Alok Kanojia) - Is Video Game Addiction a Cause for Alarm?
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"harvard psychiatrist" XD
noice Dest more of dis xD
24:23 superyes
42:50 cause then they r considered dishonest or hypocritical
46:00 yea minimize, is it the reid technique? mayB?
@vegas I like to think it was done on purpose.
@@LifeandMore7033 ur brainwashed from the west, eastern concepts are way less chill and based in reality unlike judeo christian western world BS
Dr.K has a lot of the science wrong... calories was not an "averaged" number it was actually taking into account the ATYPICAL individual. Work from home has actually had A TON of disadvantages for productivity, to the point people are inventing ways to fake being at their stations and in general production has dropped massively.
There are recommended calorie ranges across the gamut for specific individuals. But no, the VAST MAJORITY of peopel only take 2000 calories at day period.
Thank you for the great conversation 💚
Thanks for the convo DrK
@HealthyGamerGG Dont talk about the Redpill unless you have talked to Rollo or red his books. This is just doing more damage then good at this point
@@erebos7093 You cant do more damage to a destroyed mentality
@@erebos7093 you have posted cringe lil bro theres no way I wouldnt delete that shit in your shoes lmfao
@@erebos7093 I tried reading Rollo’s first book last year, it’s a pile of shit that would turn you into a resentful little virgin.
I hope Destiny has more conversations like this. Don't get me wrong redpill drama content is fun and all but I like conversations like this where nobody is adversarial and everybody is just talking about the ideas. He's been putting out a lot more content like this lately and it's been really fun to listen to.
Right! I love it…
Personally there is nothing fun about two (or 20) people talking past eachother in a conversation meant to generate clicks on their youtube page. A conversation like this where they are talking about ideas is infinitely more stimulating
💯
Redpill content is boring and repetitive asf. Watching destiny interact with them is like watching lebron dunk on 3rd graders.
I'm guessing mr Girl has made sure that Dr. K wont interact with the Destiny community anymore....which is VERY unfortunate. 2 great minds.
this is the type of content why I watch Destiny. Not the endless stupid drama and crazy orbiters he surrounds himself with.
You know for a fact 5 more Farha videos are coming right after this :(
Neither is insightful
You don't like Queertoast's disgusting voice? Shocker
You must not watch Destiny much then.
You might like the Gray Area podcast that Vox publishes. Excellent cultural and political commentary and conversations from a philosophical perspective
I know destiny talks a lot abt how the left has no male role models or self help people, but as someone on the left, dr. K has been a huge help getting me to be more productive, fit, and a better socializer. I know he doesnt have the bravado of red pill figureheads that make them so attractive to young men, but as a 20 year old dr k and destiny have been a huge help in me figuring out my place in the world as a young man.
Nahhhh lil bro glazin💀💀💀
Ok now name another person. Name at least five.
@@doublestarships646aba and preach
@@doublestarships646 why
@@roadtosuccess9243 They're not exactly on the Left. They lean Left but have strong opinions against crazy trans talking heads or other Left talking heads.
@@Stardust_Lily To better establish Destiny's point that there isn't exactly a lot of people on the Left that genuinely help people. They all share the same system that Alex Jones uses by merely exciting people with terms or points by cultivating an ecosystem of circle jerkers. Hasan is a great example of how someone on the Left sucks a ton of suck.
A certain someone is punching air rn😅
Who
@@lololroeirouweoitujg Mr girl.
Mrs. Boy
Mr girl
😂😂😂
This is where you're at your best.
Talking about legitimate issues with knowledgeable people really let's your best aspects shine.
You have fantastic conversations, and you provide excellent points and insights.
More of this pls.
I had that conversations like this are always called woohwooh or schizo or some shit. Talking about actually life advice and philosphy are so cool and helpful. This and the Scrybal discussion on LNOD have been my favorite conversation in months.
@@Conantas those were literally the only destiny content ive consumed in the past month too
ADHD for me is like, I’ll get 5% of shit done in 95% of time, but I’ll get 95% of shit done in 5% of time. I *THRIVE* under pressure, my brain doesn’t feel clogged and searching, it sharpens, everything becomes clear, the answers I search for come as fast as the questions that were asked, it’s insane.
Flow state is a hell of a thing
Same. It's like the only time i know how to get things done is when it's all about to collapse or when I feel like I HAVE TO or else consequences. It's not laziness it's like my brain just doesn't let me do the thing. This pretty much applies to all aspects of my life.
I'm the same way
Mr Girl sat crosslegged uprooting grass angrily rn
Hahaha
Midjourney I have a job for you
Dr K: *Any genuine compliment/appreciation* :D
Destiny: Sure -.-
If it was genuine they would have talked sometime over the last 2 years lmao
@@arthurporter131 what strange metric is that to gauge whether someone is genuine or not
@@exodia275 if someone says they love doing X but never do X and have even distanced themselves from doing X online in the past then it’s pretty fair to assume they are not being genuine about their love of doing X
@@arthurporter131 just because u like hanging out with an old friend to catch a movie every once in a while compared to every week doesnt mean it isnt genuine. Dr K runs a show and invites many different guests similar to any podcast like joe rogan etc.
You sound like the kind of guy that gets pissed if your friends dont hang out with you for the 50th league of legends game
@arthurporter131 It doesn't help that Destiny can't be on his twitch streams due to his ban. Dr K just recently started streaming on RUclips which allowed for this to be done
These non cancer convos heal me. I wish they were more popular.
they are popular enough online tho, you just have to try out different teachers, steven is gunna have so much more fun the more woo he gets. i was a materialist once upon time too. its absolutely freeing once you experience the cosmic giggle
this conversation is awesome, it's actually helped me to connect some dots in my own life
Me too and I’m 55. 😊
Curious what dots connected?
i binged all of dr k's talks with people that were online way back a few years ago, i learned a ton of tools that I could apply to my own life and empathy for others even if it didnt apply to me. From incel to sweet anita and even Minx, its all enlightening in the same way. Aba's talks with him are great as well but him and Destiny are a perfect combo.
@@spiritsculptor392 it made me realize how sad the life/ mindset of redpillers is. i can usually empathize with most people, like even the worst murderer was a kid once and their shit childhood contributed to their lot in life etc. but redpill shit just triggers me like few things can.
having had experiences that might push people in that direction i can understand the pain but the behavior it leads to is so bad i forget the amount of suffering these people are in and the realization is honestly making me a bit sad...
@@prettyokandy230well said. I tried ‘redpill’ for 1 day and it was insane. This guy who wrote that famous book ‘the game’ told people to pick up the phone , call random people, and just use charisma to make the people keep talking.
It felt SO stomach-churning, and deeply inconsiderate. I felt nauseous to even hear such a psychotic instruction.
I left and never looked back. I think you’re tapping into something creepy: that redpill & PUA is basically ‘hackers’ using the robotic, almost inhuman style of Star Trek logic, then using it to invisibly get their way out of fellow humans.
It’s that weird combo of robotic hacker and human connection that makes it truly freaky.
I respect Dr. K so much. His deep knowledge of psychiatry and any other medical fields aside, he is such an amazing listener an conversationalist. He know exactly when to sit back and let the other person talk and when he asks questions they are always so intriuging and you can tell that they get the other person thinking. I really aspire to even be half as good a listener as Dr. K
There’s so much brain rot content these days, it’s so refreshing to listen to an intellectual and thought-provoking conversation. Hope you do more with Dr K!
There is a ton of good conversations being had, you have to seek them out instead of the brain rot content
Don't worry! Once you catch the brain rot yourself it stops seeming so bad.
@@Borrelaas Too bad they are buried in all the brain rot to find.
There's a lot of high quality content online, you just have to search for it.
I wonder if Dr. K sees all of Destiny's toxic traits like glowing red auras lol.
@@Zinojn To think that the only setting you can speak to a psychologist would be therapy seems more odd to me.....
@@Zinojn I think the fact that he uses his fame and platform to hook up with deranged or mentally ill women like a cult leader is enough for me to know he ain't all there lol. I'm not someone from the Right and I am Left leaning but I know 99% of these political streamers are on some ego trip. I don't trust any streamer honestly. For me once I realized how much of a cult like environment these streamers cultivate I tend to see them as walking red flags.
@@Zinojn Read the title of the video, no one claimed this was an AoE healing episode.
Its a discussion between 2 people. Not hard to work out brother.
@@franklingoodwin it’s what he calls the 1 on 1 “therapy” calls
@@franklingoodwin Area of effect is a very old term used for a very long time lol.
Was wild when he asked if he could swear, Dr k said sure, then Destiny said thanks my Nigga
How rare is it for Destiny to start out a conversation with "Hold on.. How have you been doing??"
Breathe of fresh air. I know he thrives off of arguing and debating and thats fun and all but this was nice
A surprise, to be sure, but a welcome one. Hope more Dr K content in future. Also after the whole MrGirl things, there something ironic and funny about the two people he went after, having a 2 hours discussion and he's never brought up. Imagine how insignificant your moral crusade was. Its like that quote - The best revenge is living a successful good life and just being happy.
@@jonasjensen9305 don't ruin the moment
MrGirl went after DrK? What a loser lmao
Would love to see more with Dr. K
I'm starting to think that Mr. Girl just likes to go after gud people. Like at first, I didn't trust this guy, but after seeing that he's clearly trying to understand the trauma that gamers go through and after seeing Max trying to ruin Steven's career over the most petty BS I've now realized that it was clearly Max who was the problem.
@The Profesionalist one of the big reasons I couldn't stand Mr. Girl was because of his anti Dr. K arc early on. I feel he's such a force for good, and seeing Max (and to a lesser extent chudlogic and maybe a few others) go after him so hard-core really soured them to me.
@@pmanattack7363 OH WAIT!!! You're tellling me THIS is THAT Dr. K?!?!?! The fuck? He comes off as a literal professional mental health DOCTOR and he is! The way I took it from Mr. Girl was that Dr. K was just this "chad coach who thought he knew better and was trying to coach others." I didn't think Dr. K in Mr. Girl's words was a LITERAL DOCTOR. I never gave credence to those conversations anyway because I didn't know who Dr. K was. Glad I didn't give credence to it back then. Sheesh. Dr. K is dope.
@@Jake38nine yup that's Mr redacted for you
@Blueline If someone has actual experience and studies behind them and they are actually nuanced and open minded, it's hard for me to take criticism of them seriously. So I have no idea what outter space mushrooms Mr. Girl is on, but he should go back to space. Nobody wants him here.
Damn, im not even 30minutes in, and i can already tell im going to be taking alot home from this video, currently the ADHD talk is hitting me HARD. I really appreciate these sort of talks because it tends to put you in a sort of weird position where you end up looking back into yourself alot. "Its not my fault that i have [insert mental Illness], but its my responsibility to manage it" shit that hits home tbh
I appreciate it too especially since it's hard to even talk about it to people close to you as it often seems misunderstood by other people and even myself.
Then there's the dogshit you see on tiktok with people prescribing ADHD symptoms with very general and sometimes normal traits that makes a bunch of undiagnosed people cling to label and use it as excuse for everything wrong that happens. Makes me want to never talk about it and deal with shit on my own.
As a girl I've always been on of those who didn't care about make up and clothes so it was always a bit of a mystery to me when people would talk about how terrible instagram was to teens and just in general how looks cause girls so many issues. Then once when I messed around with instagram filters it all clicked when I saw what it could do to my face. I'm an older gen z so had all of these things in high school but never cared about social media and taking selfies. I was on tumblr talking about anime
If you don't inherently crave the validation and attention of your peers, it's no wonder that an algorithm designed to click into that impulse does not hook you. Gotta remember that everyone is different
also a tumblr loser but I put one korean filter on one time and was so blown away how nice it looks that I had to delete the app, felt like a peek at a crack high
you don't have to care about anything to get simps. Easy Mode.
@@j.2512 huh. You talk like being a male isn't easy mode.
@j.2512 no one said otherwise lol wtf. Also it's not easy mode. Women have it hard too. (As do men because Im already predicting you'll complain about that)
You have a twisted view on women and femininity based on your remarks.. hope you will one day become emotionally intelligent enough to understand why what you're saying is unhealthy and unhelpful.
It's okay to talk about issues that women or girls face without shoving issues that males have into the conversation. Talking about issues that women / girls face doesn't invalidate other issues.
Sounds like you're trying to be contrarian just because. There's no value added to the conversation from what you said.
Destiny I have been watching you weekly for almost 5 years. This is one of my favorite conversations of yours ever and I would do anything to listen to more conversations between you guys. I know it’s cringe but I really have looked up to both of you individually for years and then seeing you guys coming together is just so cool to me.
Edit: Also gotta shoutout the channel pursuit of wonder since im already naming cringe shit that I look up to.
I believe they have had two other conversations in the past. If you weren't already aware.
That isn’t cringe bro you just got good taste
Cool it with the hotdoggin and showboating Bertt. We all know you wouldn't really "do anything".
@@88mphDrBrown My friends tell me im hotdog water.
@@88mphDrBrown Like you know when you boil a hotdog on a stove. and the water look all yellow and stuff and smell kinda funny but then the hotdog taste so good.
Please do more videos with this person, one of the most insightful and entertaining videos I’ve watched. Thank the both of you! 😊
this was a pretty good convo tbh i love how dr K gives steven so much room to explore and explain
I'm so glad the two of you talked again, two of my favorite creators having an intellectual conversation.
I really think Dr. K and Destiny are some of the most authentic people in this space. They each bring their own special insight to the conversation and have good chemistry to glue it all together. I’d kill for a podcast.
Truely a great conversation with a lot of genuine insights into ourselves. Will be rewatching this one
Dr k: i love talking to you man
Destiny: Sure
such a gem. I honestly like all destiny angles but I'm particularly grateful for thoughtful conversations like this
Real question is how long before a certain someone claims this is abuse for having Dr k on his stream 🤨
Nah they would say that they're both mutually abusing each other and are both problematic for platforming the other 😆
Dr K x Destiny is my favorite collab. I hope you keep continuing it.
The most calm dialogue tends to be the most valuable, we need more dialogue like this in the world.
I think there's a place for calm, as well as for learning. If someone is being challenged it might not be calm, but is how we grow into biiiiiig bushes hehe
AINT NO WAY! The next chapter of the Dr K - Destiny talks been released! I love those Dr K conversations and I think you guys have great chemistry! I think you should talk to each other more, it's often very interesting and educational.
Dr K is the best. Helped me rethink a lot of aspects of my life and move on in a productive way. Great stream.
I didnt think i would listen to the whole thing but here I am. Fascinating. It felt like an actual exchange of ideas with respectful discourse.
More of this please
I love this. My two favourite streamers having a great conversation. Really made my day yesterday seeing this live.
You two pushed the boundaries of the intelligent conversation I'm used to hearing from the both of you. I hope I see more Destiny and Dr. K content!!
The only kinds of videos of Destiny where I'll watch the whole thing. Great stuff.
Any conversation with Dr. K is always a treat.
What Destiny said about emotions being non-random, is true. I give my Dad a lot of shit for being racist, but the reasons he gives are extremely justifiable, to be perfectly honest. He owns a small company that used to employ a lot of Italian & Irish people in NYC, the local population, and everything was mostly fine. He moved the company to a different location because of the 08 housing crisis, and the local population was mostly black. He hired locally, and his employees stole from him, productivity was bad, they were rude employees, etc. The business almost went under because of it. He has an extremely negative disposition towards black people "now", that never existed before. He is fine towards other races, and the local population he currently hires is white & Latino, and has little issues. But he 100% swears off ever hiring "specifically" black people, and continues to be not racist against any other race of people.
It's shitty, but he has "literal data to back up his claims". It's extremely hard to fault him, where his business legitimately almost failed, because he was being reasonable and not selectively hiring based on race. And every time he tries to "give a black person a chance", and correct his faults, with almost 100% accuracy, out of potentially just bad luck, that new employee inevitably steals from the company, and has to be fired.
You can call it fucked up all you want. But he very legitimately almost went bankrupt, and his new behavior is a learned behavior. Shitty, but certainly learned & non-random.
I'm black and working with East Indian people is making me racist so I can understand your dad completely.
Does you dad think they stole bc they were black or bc they were poor and were raised in a shitty house hold and just so happened to be black?
@iRpersonality What would the difference be? Either way you would avoid Black people. I get there's a difference in outlook, but either way most people would say you're racist. Which is why people like his Dad will likely never care.
@@irpersonality2673 I gave him that argument. He said that all the Italian & Irish people he hired were poor too. And the local people he hires currently are poor as well. He has less, to no issues with well-off black people. He says it's a cultural issue, specific to poor black people.
@@TheWhisperingPenis There is no difference in the ends, really. The only difference is that he's not just, "Some random dumb-fuck that arbitrarily hates a specific race for no reason."
It's more like, "Some guy that worked for something for 15+ years, and almost had it ripped from his hands in the span of 1 year. And by some form of inaccurately calculating why that event took place, blames it on something that was correlated to the event, but not directly causal." Call it a flawed, but learned, coping mechanism.
The ends are the same, but I don't think he falls into the category of the old-timey, stereotypical, "we-don't-take-kindly-to-folks-like-you" 70 year old white hillbilly with a shotgun.
Love this. Something soothing about two intelligent people having a great conversation.
This is some of the absolute best content front two of the realist people out there in the internet ether. The world truly needs more discussions like this 💯
Koto Amatsukami dat ho
More Dr. K PLS.
I tuned into the end of the stream.
One of the moset useful bits of media ive consumed in the last 10 years, and offered incredible insight. thanks to both of you. Needed this.
On some real shit, I think this has been one of the best videos and conversations destiny has ever had, especially in a very very long time.
This was a breath of fresh blue hair
I feel like I’m going to have to listen to this every once and awhile and reevaluate myself from the last time I listened to the new present time.
31:00
First time hearing this concept phrased like that, but that's exactly how my life has played out the last couple years. I pulled myself out of this pit of anxiety fuelled despair through taking on my own challenges one step at a time. From literally being a suicidal teenager with no motivation to do anything, in just about 3 years, I managed to get a good paying, full-time job, buy my first car, make a lot of new friends, and transform my own life. So I agree fully that the core mechanism driving my improvement was a shift from passive stress to active stress, and that all the techniques I learned through therapy of how to deal with my anxiety was just a means of rebalancing the stresses in my life.
but why do you consider those external factors “improvement” rather than your enlightened mental state? this might just be semantic tho lol.
I caught this live and it actually motivated me to go out and go for a walk. Love Dr. K
this was cool, I actually sat through from beginning to end. It’s nice to listen to something that is longer than 1 min long, but remain engaging all throughout.
When destiny finishes a long point, he says “yea” really fast and quietly to indicate he’s done ranting
I recognise something fundamentally dysfunctional on being this analytical in life ( I see it on Steven and specially on me ) however how beautiful it is to connect with your mind. I can't escape my condition, at least not now and meanwhile I find it illuminating to listen to you Destiny. More convos like this 👏🏻
FInally a refreshing discussion that doesnt involve quiznos, drama or dumb red pill alphas
This is the kind of conversation that made me watch Destiny all these years. Conversations that make you think.
Oh this is a collab I didn’t realize happened. Very cool seeing my subbed channels interacting
This is by far the most wholesome destiny YT comment section ive ever been in❤
Damn Destiny this one was wonderful. I gained so much insight and honestly even a bit of hope with dealing with mental issues. I really appreciate this content, thanks.
2 Hours of my Life spent greatly.
Definitely a great stream and helped my brain.
Honestly my favourite video on RUclips I learned a lot! Will actually rewatch this podcast later to internalise some of this stuff...
This was the best talk so far.
Great stuff Zack. Don’t rush through the stories. Every step is so interesting. Don’t miss anything. This is your chance to grow the channel and each day of your story is fascinating. Don’t skip any steps. You’ll run out of story too soon. It’s all amazing! Slow down and let us in on every step.
Who is zack
Sanest schizo
Zack of dees nuts
This is an awesome conversation. Thanks for doing this!
Loved the conversation, big fan of both. Pls more of this kind
This kind of content is where Destiny shines imho. More, please.
Finally no drama and high quality content.
the point steven made at 4.40 is gold. i have never thought about that!!
This is probably the best piece of media I've consumed in over a year. Thank you
This made my work day like 10 times better
I love talks like this, more please!
This is the most interesting conversation on the entire channel. Woah. 👏👏👏
I loveeeeeee Dr. K it makes me warm and fuzzy to see him on Destinys channel
Such a good conversation. Thank you
Somewhere, Mrs Boy is screaming
Thank god, finally another great convo again!
Super valuable content. Really glad to be watching this 😊
This is the best destiny episode of the year.
damn, this was an amazing conversation
That was a really good conversation 👍
on the topic of identity, i think its easier to latch onto someone else's or a pre-existing idea, rather than making your own. especially in group settings. great episode
This is such an awesome conversation
People just assume that poor socialisation skills is lack of practice - how about nutrition and health?
Since I’ve started dealing with my health issues (many I had no idea I had ) and getting into the longevity community, I’m happier, calmer, clearer , funnier, overall better to be around therefore I’m more confident and more likely to be engage with others.
Such a blind spot in the mental health / medical / social science arena.
Crazy true
Yea if you are mentally unwell it wont help you deal with others. Nobody mentions this because it is a given.
Love this conversation. These 2 are legends!
Looking at the chapters, I sure can't wait for nearly an hour and a half of Dr. K and Destiny talking about selfies :)
Damn I would kill to be in a room with and have a conversation with Dr K and Destiny.
I mean I’m 19, and I’ve been having a lot of these conversations with people and it’s so fun to just pick their brain and continue to flesh out my thought process
Please have Dr. K on more often. I've missed him on Destiny's stream.
You are the one regular person who is famous on the internet. That is why you success has lasted so long. Love this conversation
This is what makes you amazing my friend. These conversations matter. Keep up the great work!
OMG I feel like i'm just joining the crowd cheering, but man what a great discussion. As someone studying psychology who's also keenly into political and philosophical debate and on the way to become a therapist myself, there could not been a better collab out there. Keep it up Destiny, you're making some amazing content and I'm really appreciative of it.
I really underestimated how much passing people on the street or talking to cashiers did for my mood. I like my own company way more than the average person, but during the pandemic, that lack of seeing people live their own lives (on top of seeing extroverts become miserable) really wore down my love of life despite it not directly affecting too much in my own life.
DO MORE OF THIS DESTINY!
This was actually the most interesting content I've watched from destiny in a while. Please do more !
This was so good mate,damn.
Watching this to bed rn but I’m definitely rewatching soon to jot down some notes. So many gems 💎 in this stream.
It gives me great satisfaction watching these episodes on 1.5x speed. Somehow it feels like payback for all the hard work Destiny speeds through on stream.
This convo explained alot for me thank you
Thank you for this conversation, some statements made me think a lot
Such a great episode.
Another Dr.K talk, very cool
These are the types of conversations I want to see more from Destiny. the recent one with Alex Conner was a great one too.
This was amazing. Dr K and Destiny has really good chemistry, and the conversation is always interesting for both audiences.