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  • @agu5t7
    @agu5t7 2 года назад +2440

    I don't think the transphobes will ever be okay tbh💀

    • @RobyntheRobin
      @RobyntheRobin 2 года назад +102

      I agree, thansphobes will never be ok.
      Also idk why but I always find that skull emoji really funny when I see it.

    • @spoonikle
      @spoonikle 2 года назад +93

      I agree. Not possible to deny a humans right to exist and be “okay” at the same time.

    • @ramenbomberdeluxe4958
      @ramenbomberdeluxe4958 2 года назад +2

      Honestly, im also sensing some sexism in there too. People go on and on about how "wahmen weak, cant defeat men in sports, manly manz and muh bio advantagez", completely going against any common sense and ACTUAL science.
      Hey transphobes, and sexists while we're at it, have you stopped to consider that
      A: Bio males arent these monolithic olympian athletic Gods that will always outclass women regardless of training on either or both parties part?
      B: Women are able to be pretty damn competent and strong without being trans or on steroids?
      God, I'm so sick of this sports debate.

    • @koa3244
      @koa3244 2 года назад +29

      Fr 💀

    • @end3r_phant0m
      @end3r_phant0m 2 года назад +21

      Exactly how are Transphobes ok

  • @Aspensauce64
    @Aspensauce64 2 года назад +247

    The only “super straight” guy i know has been single their entire life. Your honour, I rest my case

    • @keyboarddancers7751
      @keyboarddancers7751 Год назад

      Nobody wants to have kids anymore!

    • @sub_rapier
      @sub_rapier Год назад +17

      Who would have thought that making your entire identity about hating people isnt attractive ??? /s

    • @cuddlesthefoxdeer
      @cuddlesthefoxdeer Год назад +1

      this reminds me (it's a liiiittle bit off topic but it's still about ''super straights'')
      a little while ago i thought about the way one of my friends rejected me.
      after a while i figured out he was a ''super straight''.
      because i remember him saying ''i don't really like... you know... i just like GIRLS who were, well... GIRLS since they were born''
      i remember my guy saying he doesn't want to have kids so infertility shouldn't be the issue.
      and you can still have nearly identical genitilia with surgery
      so there'd be not a single reason despite not wanting to ''deal with'' a trans partner
      to keep things short: finding out when somebody is ''super straight'' is a really shitty experience that i do not wish on anybody, anyone can be a ''super straight'' even those you hold close to you and you thought you could always count on.

    • @iandaughdrill5889
      @iandaughdrill5889 11 месяцев назад +5

      I have a friend who used to say he was super straight, until I told him that it was just made up to hurt trans people. He's pretty neutral on the issue, and I told him it's fine to not want to date trans people, especially since he wants kids. He stopped saying he was super straight because he doesn't want to hurt people.

  • @basketchaos
    @basketchaos 2 года назад +389

    “Be transphobic. It’s a fetish.” had me thinking they meant transphobia is a fetish 😭😂

    • @somebodyspetbug
      @somebodyspetbug Год назад +30

      Not me thinking the same thing lmaoo✋😭

    • @wind6339
      @wind6339 Год назад +14

      I thought so too lol

    • @justjade256
      @justjade256 Год назад +7

      SAME

    • @thatdumbass9856
      @thatdumbass9856 Год назад +3

      ​@@somebodyspetbug same lol

    • @sub_rapier
      @sub_rapier Год назад

      well considering with the first post being about a transphobe looking for literal po*n of trans women they might are lol

  • @matheohno
    @matheohno 2 года назад +474

    I’m trans, a trans man, my dad supports my transition but is transphobic against Trans Women 🤦‍♂️🙄, because he thinks they are predators. My brother also only supports Trans Men, and only supports my transition because he wants to take my testosterone 🤦‍♂️, and my Mom is fully supporting me, but she knows some people that transitioned mtf and then regretted it so she is scared I will regret my transition she also thinks I’m autistic which I probably am but I’m still Trans so I won’t regret it cause I know I’m a boy since I’m 4 years old

    • @rhymerlegend2717
      @rhymerlegend2717 2 года назад

      You’re still a girl. Be careful

    • @renatayuuki5705
      @renatayuuki5705 2 года назад +8

      You're lucky they support you

    • @matheohno
      @matheohno 2 года назад +62

      @@renatayuuki5705 yeah I am, but my brother doesn’t respect me and only supports me because he wants to take my Testo. And my parents also have difficulties using my pronouns etc,and they know for over 2 years now.
      But what I am happy about is my grandparents they are even more supporting and they also try to use my pronouns not like my parents and brother, so i know I’m lucky but there are still problems, like my brother being homophobic and even tho it doesn’t affect me it’s still triggering me

    • @lyannaschwimmer869
      @lyannaschwimmer869 Год назад +2

      @@matheohno are you four years old? Sorry it said at the end of the paragraph that you were four, just wanted to clarify

    • @matheohno
      @matheohno Год назад +37

      @@lyannaschwimmer869 no I’m 17, I’ve just known since I’m 4 that I’m a boy

  • @Machinte
    @Machinte 2 года назад +72

    If having blue hair makes you trans, then Hatsune Miku is a trans girl. I love this headcannon.

    • @qwertys7gp
      @qwertys7gp 2 месяца назад +3

      MY THOUGHTS!!! Maybe Mikuo could be but idk

  • @audreyelizabeth2370
    @audreyelizabeth2370 2 года назад +290

    Regrettably the blue hair and pronouns meme that has been going around has turned into a vocal stim for me. I just keep going around saying "damn babe you got blue hair and pronouns?"

    • @mikuenjoyerXD
      @mikuenjoyerXD 2 года назад +34

      I feel like i found my people lol, my adhd makes me have silly vocal stims too XD

    • @pokemonfanthings4444
      @pokemonfanthings4444 2 года назад +5

      @@mikuenjoyerXD SAME

    • @Doveghost
      @Doveghost Год назад +19

      Technically, all people with blue hair do have pronouns

    • @warriorsproductions8304
      @warriorsproductions8304 Год назад +9

      @@Doveghost True because everyone has/uses pronouns, it's just funny because usually the ones who say they don't use pronouns don't understand in the slightest that pronouns aren't some trans people thing

    • @notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil
      @notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil Год назад

      BRO SAME ITS ONE OF MY TICS KSKAIOWOQKWKQOAPAKAO

  • @basementdwellercosplay
    @basementdwellercosplay 2 года назад +650

    As someone going into historical studies and anthropology, the studies where you dig up remains to study a culture, I really don't care if future anthropologist looks at my skeleton and says yeah that's a lady. Okay, I'm dead, most I could do is haunt them. But likely the future historians could easily look into my life and see I was trans... so

    • @hi.im.sophie
      @hi.im.sophie 2 года назад +17

      agreed also good luck in your studies!

    • @existenze69
      @existenze69 2 года назад +10

      I don’t care -I’m being cremated 🔥…lol
      Also, yes, good look with your studies!! 🤚🏻

    • @enbyarchmage
      @enbyarchmage 2 года назад +5

      I commented a very similar thing on this same video a while ago, but you were able to express that idea better then me. It's only fair to press F and pay respects.
      F

    • @existenze69
      @existenze69 2 года назад +1

      @@enbyarchmage Thank you. To be fair, I’m certain many, many people thought about it before we did ☺️
      I mean, with billions of people about to die in the coming years -what insane archeologist would be crazy enough to start digging up graves??? Noah is right, transphobes are truly bat***t crazy.

    • @j0nni235
      @j0nni235 2 года назад +4

      @Fucking grass Literally doing both of y'all's studies. Majoring in anthropology, minoring in linguistics lol. I friggin love linguistics but the only university in my state has it only as a minor, so I'm majoring in anthro to compliment it. Also currently doing a semester-long project in my anthropology class about trans healthcare in my university.

  • @jemmadobbygriffin3127
    @jemmadobbygriffin3127 2 года назад +267

    not exactly a related topic but why do we call our private parts private and then dress according to them? like if they are truly private then someone not knowing what you have in your pants regardless of gender should be the ultimate goal right? to keep our privates private?
    just something my ADHD brain has latched itself onto 😅

    • @growingsucks456
      @growingsucks456 2 года назад +25

      I’m a fan of everything u just said👏🏻

    • @pescadobaby
      @pescadobaby 2 года назад +22

      i like where your head's at

    • @handlecannotbeblank
      @handlecannotbeblank 2 года назад +21

      Ultimate gender stealth

    • @Amberxxbbunni
      @Amberxxbbunni 2 года назад

      Maybe bc people are allowed to see yours, but probably have bc of the we dress

    • @aceofspades3257
      @aceofspades3257 Год назад +12

      I-
      Oh god, now my ADHD brain has latched on to it, WHAT HAVE YOU DONE

  • @Kays_Cottagee
    @Kays_Cottagee Год назад +69

    my aunt said it best "if a trans woman is in a bathroom with a little girl the worse they are gonna do is help with the kids makup"

    • @Mrsaretz
      @Mrsaretz Год назад +4

      That’s sweet😊

    • @gone_mad-tryagainlater
      @gone_mad-tryagainlater Год назад +1

      I think (as a trans woman) the worst thing a trans woman could do in a bathroom with a little girl is do a murder, because remember: anyone could be a murderer

    • @cvntyspicedlatte
      @cvntyspicedlatte 5 месяцев назад +4

      Omg I love that 🥺

    • @ROYAL_INDIGO_LORE
      @ROYAL_INDIGO_LORE 7 дней назад

      That’s not the worst tho

  • @enbyarchmage
    @enbyarchmage 2 года назад +1869

    As a History undergrad, i can say that the "dig your bones" is even more pointless than it sounds. First, if the existence of trans people is well-known 1000+ years from now, archeologists will bring up the possibility that someone may be trans (or at least gnc) if the "male skeleton" is found alongside feminine things, for instance. Also, If there is still documentation on that person's life, and historians manage to track it and translate it, scholars would learn that she's trans. So yeah, the transphobes will not be right even in a thousand years.

    • @ShizzyMcCreepii
      @ShizzyMcCreepii 2 года назад +194

      + the fact that we tell skeletons apart via bone density. on testosterone your bone density increases. on estrogyn for a prolonged time, or just not going through male puberty decreases bone density. they wouldn’t even know the person was trans.

    • @FennekinBraixen
      @FennekinBraixen 2 года назад +34

      @@ShizzyMcCreepii Now I'm curious tho. Like, as far as I know you have to take testosterone/estrogyn for years and I kinda always thought you would have to take it for the rest of your life. And if that is so, wouldnt that mean the density would go back to it's original state if someone didnt take harmones for a while? Or does that simply not happen after you die? Or maybe I'm completly wrong to begin with but now I'm really curious /gen

    • @Meeko4eve39
      @Meeko4eve39 2 года назад +1

      Plus, if I'm not mistaken because we don't bury our dead the way that people did thousand years ago our dead bodies don't decompose the same way anymore. So you need to factor that in. And also... Cremation is a thing??? So there goes your skeleton-based argument... Literally burst into flames^^

    • @juniperfox1064
      @juniperfox1064 2 года назад +56

      @@FennekinBraixen Generally when people die it wouldnt make a difference. idk how the changes happen if you stop HRT while you are alive, but if you had those changes and were still on hormones when you die…i dont think your hormones would be doing anything cause youre dead. like your body isnt generating anything new youre just decomposing.

    • @ShizzyMcCreepii
      @ShizzyMcCreepii 2 года назад +36

      @@FennekinBraixen well, when you die everything in your body freezes. So no, nothing happens after you pass. As for your first question, most binary trans people take hormones for the rest of their life, however not always. Bone density is semi permanent. Once you gain, it won’t necessarily decrease to original size. However, it does definitely decrease with estrogyn, which induces a female puberty. After awhile, your ‘puberty’ will finish and if you stop taking estrogyn and then take, say, T in stornger doses again (since trans people use larger doses to make up for lack), you will once again inscrease. It’s about your body thinking its in puberty. its the same way the other way around, howver most trans people also block their opposite hormone. It hasn’t really been studied all that much, since trans people often dont have that much visibility. from what i’ve read its also far more prominent in trans mascs and less so trans femmes though, like a said, a decrease has been found. its just not as jurastic as the inscrease in density.

  • @Courtmaster121
    @Courtmaster121 Год назад +52

    I had something similar happen on one of my videos on tiktok. I am a cisgender woman who has short hair and is into men's fashion and people have commented "I bet you wanna be called they/them too" and stupid crap like that and it's just so sad. When I was little I was just referred to as a tomboy but now I get people all of the time asking or stating that I "must be trans" or nonbinary. Why can't I just be a woman who loves men's fashion?

    • @Zemhyst
      @Zemhyst Месяц назад

      That is fair and so rude of them. I'm a transgender man who loves both feminine and masculine clothing! It is possible to be a woman and like the non traditional clothing.

  • @starlightlion8603
    @starlightlion8603 2 года назад +183

    The funniest thing about the skeleton nonsense is that skeletons are identified as 'male' or 'female' (or otherwise) mainly by the method and/or paraphernalia around the body, not the weird pelvis thing

    • @thewitchstarot6975
      @thewitchstarot6975 2 года назад +7

      @@abcxyz2927 actually it's anatomy

    • @idasvenning3892
      @idasvenning3892 2 года назад +21

      @@abcxyz2927 Op: "we don't usually use the pelvis to determine sex"
      You: "you know you'd die without your pelvis???"
      Bro what kinda point do you think you're making 🤡

    • @idasvenning3892
      @idasvenning3892 2 года назад +5

      @@abcxyz2927 that makes two of us! Have fun!

    • @susanleslie6178
      @susanleslie6178 Год назад

      @@thewitchstarot6975 Not completely, or you wouldn't have archeologists labeling some skeletons as gender unknown.

    • @thewitchstarot6975
      @thewitchstarot6975 Год назад +4

      @@susanleslie6178 ... That's the whole point. Archeologists get many skeleton's sexes wrong.

  • @meepmoopiethe3rd
    @meepmoopiethe3rd 2 года назад +586

    From an archaeological perspective (as someone with an archaeology degree): There are SO MANY fucking cases across the world of someone whose skeleton (which, I might add, doesn't always clearly show sex) are buried in way or with grave goods that contradict their apparent gender. Like, a ton. I believe there was a viking burial that was reassessed recently where the person in it has always been assumed to be a man because of the way this person was buried, but after some DNA testing it was proven the person was biologically female. The conclusion, then, is this person either lived as a man for trans reasons or whatever other reason one might live as a different gender.
    So no, anthropologists in the future will likely NOT see the remains of a trans person and misgender them by accident. There's a good chance, by then, we'll be able to ID stuff like that better and be able to say something more like, "Chromosomally they were male, but based on literally everything else they were female."
    Besides all that, literally who cares? If I'm dead, who's it hurt if someone assumes I'm a woman by my bones?

    • @1-Goose-On-The-Loose
      @1-Goose-On-The-Loose 2 года назад +66

      Honestly as a trans person I care more about the history of trans people not being erased than what gender people think I am by my bones one day. If they ever even find my bones.

    • @meepmoopiethe3rd
      @meepmoopiethe3rd 2 года назад +43

      @@1-Goose-On-The-Loose I know what you're saying here, but "if they ever find my bones" sounds so ominous 🤣

    • @bentelaursen297
      @bentelaursen297 2 года назад +2

      Egypt had female pharos.
      Now some are trying to identify Hatshepsut as trans. She wasn't.

    • @kaylawilliam7893
      @kaylawilliam7893 2 года назад +10

      I think another thing with this is people often put our current gender roles onto dead people. For example, there was a viking burial recently found with a skeleton of a person with female DNA but they were buried to warrior grave goods. We shouldn't assume that they're Trans. I mean, maybe they are, we don't really know since I don't believe we know their name or anything like that. Especially because in that older culture women fought in battles. Granted, not as much as men but it wasn't as if it was a unusual thing by any means.

    • @wacawaka1802
      @wacawaka1802 2 года назад +1

      You realize that’s the point right? I don’t think anyone you using the style of butiel. That’s an argument your side made up to make the other side look stupid. The whole point of this analogy is that you aren’t around to tell them your gender.

  • @makenzileg
    @makenzileg 2 года назад +57

    She wants to see what people are doing in the bathroom without their consent to prove that those people are spying on others in bathrooms without their consent? Sounds pretty illegal imo

  • @RianLyons
    @RianLyons 2 года назад +184

    The whole “They’re gonna dig you up in 1000 years and blah blah blah” thing always gets me. They’re basing this on the pelvis bone alone. As far as I’ve ever learned it’s the only bone in the human body that’s distinctly different between males and females. What about intersex people? A person could have the sex organs of one sex and the pelvis of another. In 1000 years all of the sex organs will have long ago decomposed but the pelvis will remain. Unless the body ends up somehow mummified there’s no way to know what sex a person is by their skeleton alone. Not to mention sex =/= gender so regardless of what pelvis you have there’s no telling what gender you lived as. There HAVE been skeletons uncovered which had the pelvis of a particular sex while having been buried with items associated with a gender that does not match their sex. These bodies are identified as transgender.

    • @lollypopfiend
      @lollypopfiend 2 года назад +39

      Honestly, as someone studying archaeology, the pelvis rarely even survives to be studied, haha. In one site I helped at, the wooden coffins had collapsed under the weight of dirt and most of the remains were pretty much pulverised

    • @RianLyons
      @RianLyons Год назад

      @stopIgbtpleas Here’s the attention you are so desperately seeking because mommy and daddy never loved you since you’ve wet the bed starting at age 2 and as recently as last night. Burn the flag. I mean it, burn a million flags. They’re made of fabric. The flags themselves mean nothing. You’re burning nothing. The pride and dignity that those flags represent can never be burned, can never be destroyed. All of the evil people through history who have tried to obliterate us from the planet have failed. Even Hitler (who subjected queer people to all of the same tortures and inhumanities that he put the Jewish peoples through) failed, as well. Your little homophobic temper tantrums, like yourself, are meaningless and no one cares. Mommy and daddy won’t love you any more than they presently do (or, more accurately DON’T) because you’re a bigot. Congratulations, you’ve made a massive clown out of yourself for absolutely nothing.

    • @teaartist6455
      @teaartist6455 Год назад +3

      There are differences in other bones as well (specific angles, mostly) but the kicker is that there's significant overlap between "male" and "female" skeletons so a pretty big percentage of skeletons (I seem to recall around 20-30% but that may be wrong) can't be clearly sexed.
      Further, even if archeologists decide that it's likely a male/female skeleton...they're still occasionally wrong.
      Also, a lot of the time skeletons are not sexed based on their bones (specifically because that's tricky business), but based on the things they've been buried with (leading to things like the now-identified-as-afab viking warrior being assumed to be male for a long time).

  • @coralovesnature
    @coralovesnature 2 года назад +81

    This is not related to the video, but I recently played Noah’s music for my 64 year old dad and he loved it. My dad is not formally diagnosed with ADHD, but him & my whole family are pretty certain he has it. I did not give him any background info on Noah before playing the songs, and when I played Underachiever, he said that he could really relate to it as someone who didn’t do well in school and struggles to focus. I then told him how Noah has ADHD and he thought that was pretty cool. He also said Noah “sounds like a really normal guy who is standing up for people who are a little different.”
    My dad doesn’t normally get so into musicians I play for him compared to how interested he seemed in Noah and his message, so I just wanted to share. It made me happy!

  • @Nat.Des.
    @Nat.Des. Год назад +6

    When I was 11 I came out to my mom as trans masc and she/my school signed me up for some kind of medical thing, I always called him 'my trans doc' because he talked to me about options I could get for early trans medical care and omw to all of the appointments my mom would look me in the eyes, in the wait room, and would ALWAYS tell me "you're a girl, you're my daughter, I'm doing this so that the court won't take you away"
    Moved away a year later, never been happier. Turns out, she was abusive and the school board/court/doctors didn't believe the mental abuse I and my sister went through :)

  • @Ribbityoutube
    @Ribbityoutube 2 года назад +269

    I came out to my friend as non-binary, she always says to me now “hey GIRL” just to make me uncomfortable. Should I stop being friends with her? I don’t know.

    • @juliagrossman6996
      @juliagrossman6996 2 года назад +143

      If she never did it before then yes. I say hey girl to everyone regardless unless they tell me it makes them feel uncomfortable, but if she just now started doing it that’s toxic af

    • @Gabs_Mex
      @Gabs_Mex 2 года назад +125

      Oh damn, I have some advice. I would talk to her about it like "Hey, you have to stop calling me girl, I am NOT a girl and I need you to respect it." And if she doesn't, honestly, you're way better without her.

    • @eurosoul5593
      @eurosoul5593 2 года назад +73

      Calmly tell her how it makes you feel & ask her politely to stop, it’s okay if you get emotional but just be honest w her & if she disregards your feelings afterwards then thats not a very nice friend

    • @nicknelson9477
      @nicknelson9477 2 года назад +21

      I think you should talk to her and say to her like i know you probably dont realise but it hurts me when you say hye girl, Because i dont think shes doing it on purpose and also you cant stop being friends with her over a mistake, But if shes doing it on purpose then yes maybe, but talk you her

    • @Copernicus-f1t
      @Copernicus-f1t 2 года назад +19

      yea you should, if they cannot be respectful you can do better

  • @kayladraper8073
    @kayladraper8073 2 года назад +411

    I’m a cis woman but I love watching these videos to educate myself about the trans experience. It never fails to baffle me why so many people hyperfocus on trans people’s bathroom usage. These people need a hobby. Someone’s gotta pee. Leave them alone. Quite frankly I think it’s way more predatory and “scary” to be so focused on what toilet someone is using.

    • @annika6592
      @annika6592 2 года назад +10

      same!

    • @bone-thief
      @bone-thief Год назад

      Hey! I'm a trans man like Noah, if you have any questions and want to chat feel free to ask away. Btw my youtube is super messed up right now so if you comment please like this comment so it pops up and I can reply, tags for some reason don't notify me but likes do, Idk why or how to fix it

    • @monicadaniels784
      @monicadaniels784 Год назад +11

      Thank you!

    • @monarch_0v2
      @monarch_0v2 Год назад +15

      We need more people like you

    • @ng38477
      @ng38477 Год назад

      You're a handmaiden waiving away the concerns of other women in order gain male validation. Truly pathetic.

  • @kallycat7481
    @kallycat7481 2 года назад +67

    "Having blue hair doesn't make him trans "
    Me who's trans and just dyed my hair blue:✨💅I'm slaying enough to piss people off

  • @_kismet_
    @_kismet_ 2 года назад +149

    Holy crap I love the humor combined with the editing, lmao.

  • @docopoper
    @docopoper 2 года назад +94

    7:54 This response had me laughing because I read it as transphobia being a fetish.

    • @the-entity
      @the-entity 2 года назад +12

      me too💀

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 2 года назад

      That's actually closer to the truth too, because a lot of transphobes fetishize trans people. That's how you end up with chasers.

    • @ladyscribbles6134
      @ladyscribbles6134 2 года назад +10

      Wait that’s not what it was saying? Wow, I can’t read at all lmao

    • @almightykellus2585
      @almightykellus2585 2 года назад +17

      Because it was censored in the thumbnail, I initially read it as "Be transphobic. It's a fish." and was thoroughly confused.

    • @ladyscribbles6134
      @ladyscribbles6134 2 года назад +4

      @@almightykellus2585 😂

  • @Thecuxspm
    @Thecuxspm 2 года назад +72

    About the skeleton one:
    Archeologists usually look at the stuff the body was burried with to see if the person was male or female.
    So, if a trans woman is descoverd by an archeologist the archiologist will say she is woman.
    The bone argument is therefore wrong and stupid.

    • @mammoneymelon
      @mammoneymelon 2 года назад +22

      yeah,, also do they think EVERYONE gets buried?? like,, cremations are really common lol

    • @paadoxal
      @paadoxal 2 года назад +8

      yeah also cremations and so many people now have headstones

    • @wacawaka1802
      @wacawaka1802 2 года назад

      Until they test and then they will change it. :T so no, this point is stupid

    • @properantagonist
      @properantagonist 2 года назад +3

      @@wacawaka1802 in the words of miniminuteman, context really matters in archeology. Scientists will look at the entire context of the person's burial, any additional information we might have about their life and death, etc. Even if we are able to tell the sex of the remains, the most important part is going to be the context. And there are many many cases in which apparent male/female remains are found in the context that suggests the opposite gender.

    • @wacawaka1802
      @wacawaka1802 2 года назад

      @@properantagonist how? The separation happened not that long ago so unless we are digging up murders i don’t see how we would say that. Also with trans people the difference is the brain. Which has long since rotted away

  • @ecosysteem
    @ecosysteem 2 года назад +17

    i panic every time i have to pick a toilet and people out here trying to make it seem like im going into the women's toilet to make them uncomfortable....

    • @luca_diaz
      @luca_diaz 2 года назад +1

      I love your pfp

    • @ecosysteem
      @ecosysteem 2 года назад

      @@luca_diaz hhehe thanks

    • @luca_diaz
      @luca_diaz 2 года назад

      @@ecosysteem :)

  • @ashbox7544
    @ashbox7544 2 года назад +16

    I had a really good conversation the other day with a senior in my drama class about queer things and straight things, this whole conversation stared because as we were funneling into the auditorium there was this very nice she/they asking everyone their names and pronouns and the senior was asking about they/them pronouns. He came to sit next to me after that and asked if I had any preferred pronouns I told him I do (they/he but primarily they/them), then for the next 15-20ish minutes we were laughing at transphobes and homophobes as well as "super straights". This was honestly one of my favorite experiences explaining pride and other queer things to a cis-het man

  • @cloudysheep5844
    @cloudysheep5844 2 года назад +328

    Me: *tries to explain to my parents I'm trans*
    My parents: "YOU DON'T HAVE TO FOLLOW EVERY TREND YOU KNOW, STOP LOOKING FOR ATTENTION, YOU'RE JUST CONFUSED."

    • @scxxt3r_
      @scxxt3r_ 2 года назад +72

      I don’t understand parents who believe their child is “following a trend” when they come out as trans

    • @jbird4478
      @jbird4478 2 года назад +8

      @@scxxt3r_ Because many kids are so it is a logical concern to have as a parent.

    • @cloudysheep5844
      @cloudysheep5844 2 года назад +11

      @@scxxt3r_ Yeah, ikr, like WHY just WHY

    • @cloudysheep5844
      @cloudysheep5844 2 года назад +12

      @Fucking grass Happy for you!

    • @scxxt3r_
      @scxxt3r_ 2 года назад +8

      @@cloudysheep5844 FR LIKE what is their thought process?

  • @WhatsInANameArts
    @WhatsInANameArts 2 года назад +27

    3:20 fun fact, the only legit thing that can even distinguish in a skeleton between biological men and biological women is the angle of your pelvis. another fun fact, the standards for determining a skeleton's sex is based on the population's average which means that most people's skeleton's don't fall in line with the standards for either categories. another fun fact, archeologists don't use skeleton measurements to determine the skeleton's gender unless there are no personal belongings buried with the body and also that many archeologists recognize that there are more genders than male and female and that some people are trans.

  • @Doleryn
    @Doleryn 2 года назад +94

    Oh my Gods ! The toilets one is hilarious.
    So, I'm AFAB Non-Binary Woman (I still identify as a Woman to some extent) and so, I still use the Women's bathroom.
    I was on Twitter (Always this place) talking about how Public Women's Bathroom are filthy af and other Women ("Real Women" 🤣) were trying to correct me, being like "You're not talking about Women's bathroom, it's not possible, they can't be dirty, because Women are perfect, Men are the disgusting ones" and there was this one person that was asking me which bathroom I was using and stuff and thought that I was using both, switching back and forth depending on how I was feeling that day or something like that, it was hilarious.
    From the moment you have pronouns in your bio or your name, they always assume that you're born Male and the way they say that Trans people transition because of misogyny, I can say that those people who are obsessed with Trans people saying how they are all Male Predators, are just misandrists, at this point.

    • @FrozEnbyWolf150
      @FrozEnbyWolf150 2 года назад +25

      It's also a textbook case of DARVO, given that trans women are disproportionately more likely to be assaulted when using public bathrooms. Meaning it's actually the transphobes who are creeping on people in restrooms, and reacting violently whenever they see someone they think doesn't belong. Very often transphobes will mistake cis people for being trans, and do the same to them.

    • @Itri_Vega
      @Itri_Vega 2 года назад +18

      I'm a trans man. I used the women's bathroom until I got a binder and knew I would start testosterone because I had safety concerns regarding the cis men on the men's toilet. Now I mainly use the unisex toilet at work and the men's toilet anywhere else because I am a man and increasingly look and sound like one, and know I would make women far more uncomfortable than a trans woman ever possibly could.

  • @sanriol0ver223
    @sanriol0ver223 Год назад +23

    My biology teacher supports trans students and asked us all our pronouns on the first day of school. She’s been in biology probably longer than most turfs have been over 18.

    • @keyboarddancers7751
      @keyboarddancers7751 Год назад +1

      Check your spelling. People are not patches of grass!🤣

    • @losteden6390
      @losteden6390 Год назад

      Then your teacher is part of the problem

    • @quisait5794
      @quisait5794 Год назад +5

      @@losteden6390 Acceptance and respect is an issue, you’ve heard it here first

    • @lMlNY0URWALL
      @lMlNY0URWALL Год назад +2

      Yasss they slay

    • @fa1ryf0x3s
      @fa1ryf0x3s 4 месяца назад +1

      Give me your biology teacher.

  • @secondhand_reject14
    @secondhand_reject14 2 года назад +68

    Damn. Don't we just love transphobes. Also. Everytime I see Arielle Scarcella brought up, I'm so ashamed I used to follow her. I'm a lesbian, more masculine, short hair. And i have had blue hair lol. And guess what. I'm not trans! Just because you present yourself a certain way, doesn't mean anything! These people are so fucked up its kinda funny. SMH.

    • @Zemhyst
      @Zemhyst Месяц назад

      Hey! It's ok, we all do things we regret. We are human, we do that. What matters is we grow! (I'm a trans man!)

  • @Milk-hj5ke
    @Milk-hj5ke Год назад +24

    Ive started using "Of course YOU have hair and pronouns" to transphobes and i love it

    • @montee3766
      @montee3766 9 месяцев назад

      what does that even mean?

    • @Zemhyst
      @Zemhyst Месяц назад

      @@montee3766 They were clearly talking to you if you don't know what it means!

  • @viviannn2307
    @viviannn2307 2 года назад +45

    Found your channel about a year ago, thought you were cool, forgot about it, came back a few weeks ago and have been binging your amazing content ❤️ also I thought I was trans, I’ve seen myself as a guy sun consciously ever since I was little, but watching your videos helped me realize I’m actually genserfluid, Ty

  • @ecosysteem
    @ecosysteem 2 года назад +33

    tw// transphobia (specifically towards nonbinary people)
    recently someone asked what gender my friend was "just because im concerned" after telling him i was going to meet a friend and when i said they were nonbinary he pushed me to explain what it meant and proceeded to say he was just trying to understand and kept asking whether they were a boy or a girl and what genitals they had and i just kept repeating that they were neither and that their genitals were none of his business, a lady joined in to question me and a dude was just looking at me and it really felt like an attack.. needless to say i didnt come out as nonbinary to these people x

    • @LeoTheVampire
      @LeoTheVampire 2 года назад +8

      I'm so sorry this happened to you :/ especially non-binary people can have it hard because people are so used to the binary system, which is awful. When I came out as genderfluid (I'm an afab transmasc, actually) my family also didn't understand, and it was wildly unnoticed by my friends. Even though I'm not fluid I now understand how people feel in situations like that. I hope you have a good day! You deserve it.

    • @ecosysteem
      @ecosysteem 2 года назад +2

      @@LeoTheVampirethanks!! i avoided that person afterwards and had a real good time!!

    • @manifestationsofasort
      @manifestationsofasort Год назад

      Transphobes will really be like "being in a bathroom with a trans person makes me uncomfortable :(" and then proceed to interrogate trans people about their (or someone else's) genitals 💀

    • @lucad9667
      @lucad9667 Год назад

      @@LeoTheVampire Maybe we are so used to the binary system because...there is only the the binary system and non-binary is a fake thing to seek attention? Ever thought about that that?

    • @LeoTheVampire
      @LeoTheVampire Год назад

      @@lucad9667 you have the gay picrew profile pic but behave like a transphobe? are you like 12? What in nature is binary? There is rarely any binary system in nature. Not to mention that non-binary people have existed for centuries in history. In hawaiian culture, in african and black-american culture (also called 2-spirit). You can very easily find evidence for non-binary people existing.

  • @muunwulf4706
    @muunwulf4706 2 года назад +50

    I actually encountered a super straight in the wild recently, and the thing that they opened with (after declaring their super straightness) was, and I quote: we know that there are not multiple genders.
    Multiple, as defined by the Merriam Webster Dictionary: consisting of, including, or involving more than one

    • @FennekinBraixen
      @FennekinBraixen 2 года назад +4

      At first I wanted to say "I'm sorry that happened" and to debunk their statement but now I'm just astouned at the sheer stupidity of super straigts/transphobes

  • @ahyesbsoisosman2919
    @ahyesbsoisosman2919 2 года назад +79

    The transphobes were never okay. Also I'm so excited for the new song

    • @wacawaka1802
      @wacawaka1802 2 года назад

      Transphobia is just the new heiratic

    • @montee3766
      @montee3766 9 месяцев назад

      I can't belive you would say that about people with phobias. I suppose you think people with arachnophobia are downright hilarious.

    • @Zemhyst
      @Zemhyst Месяц назад

      @@montee3766 I hope you're joking because hating and fear are two different things. P.S. look up the definition of phobia..

  • @mfbfreak
    @mfbfreak 2 года назад +22

    'Sir, do you have any undeclared trans-identified offspring with you' is something only a TSA Security officer would say :D

  • @ari81420
    @ari81420 Год назад +11

    my best friend just came out as trans today and i’m so happy for him 🖤

  • @DarkArtifice23
    @DarkArtifice23 Год назад +16

    having blue hair isn't what makes me trans
    it just means I have cooler hair than you

  • @JustThatOne__Person__
    @JustThatOne__Person__ 2 года назад +35

    I don’t think the transphobes are ever okay

    • @wacawaka1802
      @wacawaka1802 2 года назад +2

      Transphobe is basically just your version of hieratic.

    • @blakksy
      @blakksy Год назад

      @@wacawaka1802 how about stop commenting EVERYWHERE for attention, go get some bitches

    • @NathanIsTired
      @NathanIsTired Год назад

      @stopIgbtpleas Ok bruv, burn it, but be careful, you might burn yourself

  • @lucyxg22
    @lucyxg22 2 года назад +89

    I’m so excited to for La La La to come out omg it sounds so good, honestly can’t wait to see you on Tuesday :)) thanks for making awesome videos and songs Noah 🫶

  • @BooklikesBFDI
    @BooklikesBFDI 8 месяцев назад +3

    I remember when I was little(like 1st or 2nd grade) my mom said "Some woman are born in men's body's and some men are born in woman's body's." and I just said "Okay!" I left to go play with my toys or smthn. Learned transphobia.

  • @BL00DY_IC3CR3AM1
    @BL00DY_IC3CR3AM1 Год назад +5

    I'm a trans guy and I made a bracelet for the trans flag and my parents haven't noticed. It's been like 5 months lol

  • @beatrizafonsecacarvalho7943
    @beatrizafonsecacarvalho7943 2 года назад +46

    im majoring in biology and im nonbinary 😎 deal w it transphobes

    • @ladivaeu7795
      @ladivaeu7795 2 года назад

      Wonderful, then you will learn what is a male and what is female body parts.

    • @beatrizafonsecacarvalho7943
      @beatrizafonsecacarvalho7943 2 года назад +20

      @@ladivaeu7795 yeah! and im learning too that our bodies are very complex and that a body part is not going to determine gender, and sonetimes, even sex, once we have a bunch of different hormones and intersex people exist! anyway, you should know... gender and biological sex are not the same thing. and honestly whats the point of being rude with the trans comunity for free?

    • @namelesswolf2625
      @namelesswolf2625 Год назад +5

      ayy same here. ironically the biggest issue producing transphobes out there is lack of education, misinformation, or sometimes straight up science denial.

    • @NathanIsTired
      @NathanIsTired Год назад +2

      I am a medicine student and ftm! So, same!

    • @montee3766
      @montee3766 9 месяцев назад

      If you're in an American college then they'll just reinforce your beliefs and won't teach you shit. Let's hope you at least learn something true.

  • @shylee_the_emo
    @shylee_the_emo Год назад +4

    Right before this video I got an ad that said “Alejo was gay. He was found dead in Argentina. Stabbed 42 times” and the worst part was it was unskippable

  • @lhproductions61
    @lhproductions61 2 года назад +8

    My nephew just came out as trans and woah the transphobia from people in his own family. Father refuses to use his new pronouns. Awful awful this kid has never been anything close to feminine and for his dad to be like that is sickening. Being part of changing his room at his moms watching how happy he getting new clothes and bedroom stuff. Like you said idk how you can watch someone be happy like that and deny it.

  • @Fleur_3032
    @Fleur_3032 2 года назад +13

    So excited for La La La to come out!! it sounds so good from the clip we got to hear!!!

  • @DeathIsEasy2
    @DeathIsEasy2 2 года назад +30

    I am 28 and remember watching Arielles content when i was a teen. I dont remember her being so transphobic but now that i see her i cant help but feel ashamed i ever liked her. I am genderfluid and i am a lesbian. By now, I am so used to old lesbos with bad haircuts have shitty takes about my sexuality and gender, its basically the norm. "Lesbian" spaces are so rare because terfs are also the new norm. Its all so sad.

  • @user-bt9wj1fb5k
    @user-bt9wj1fb5k Год назад +5

    I have blue hair and my trans friends call me blue hair with pronouns and we confuse all the straights

  • @ryla8195
    @ryla8195 2 года назад +22

    I don’t even need to watch the video. The transphobic are NOT ok.

  • @sp00k1tty
    @sp00k1tty Год назад +3

    its more common to see queer youth because theres more information/language available to help them explain their experiences. not bc its trendy. smfh

  • @dollsie_lemon
    @dollsie_lemon Год назад +6

    Bro I keep getting a transphobic ad before your vids, AND ONLY YOUR VIDS-

  • @teeth7155
    @teeth7155 2 года назад +13

    I might be going on hormone blockers! :) I know this doesn’t have to do with the video but I’m really excited about it!
    Edit: I got hormone blockers!! The procedure was great and the hormone blockers are going to be really important to my transition. :)

    • @teeth7155
      @teeth7155 Год назад +1

      @@howdyyall4335 yeah! I’m really excited. Expect for blood work, that sucks

    • @somebodyspetbug
      @somebodyspetbug Год назад +1

      That's great! Good luck 🤗🤗

    • @somebodyspetbug
      @somebodyspetbug Год назад

      @Stop Igbt ?

    • @teeth7155
      @teeth7155 Год назад

      @Stop Igbt so great news, your entire channel is graphic violence and hate speech. Which is against RUclips guideline. So you will be banned.

  • @luca_diaz
    @luca_diaz 2 года назад +30

    Hey Noah, just got back from your concert. Loved it, it was mine and my friend's first concert and we got dragged into the mosh pit. It was so fun and I got a few videos :)

    • @Ruisbbg
      @Ruisbbg 2 года назад +5

      I'm the best friend!!

    • @Nate-wc5ps
      @Nate-wc5ps 2 года назад +5

      Hey i was at that concert too :)

    • @Window._.
      @Window._. 2 года назад +2

      I went tonight too it was insane, it was so good wasn’t it

    • @luca_diaz
      @luca_diaz 2 года назад +3

      @@Window._. Definitely :D

  • @coena9377
    @coena9377 2 года назад +6

    So I know the phrase “Be transphobic. It’s a fetish.” is implying that being trans is a fetish but I thought for a sec it was implying that they were transphobic because being transphobic was a fetish of theirs and I was like… look I’m gonna kink shame you for this one champ.

  • @tiredbaymaxripoff2818
    @tiredbaymaxripoff2818 11 месяцев назад +3

    My girlfriend is mtf, and she actually has some bone structure problems! Half of her ribcage is male structure while the other half has the bone structure of a female. Gave her a little bit of a euphoria moment.

  • @Crystre
    @Crystre Год назад +2

    About the “super straight comic” I’m pretty sure it was actually a comic about being trans comic that they recolored. They’ve done it quite a bit.

  • @kaylasolomon9578
    @kaylasolomon9578 2 года назад +11

    actually, blue hair DOES make you trans! i dyed my hair blue and a few months later, the gender crisis began👍/j

  • @CorrineCraig
    @CorrineCraig 2 года назад +8

    Nooo, I thought you meant "is being transphobic okay" as in is it acceptable
    I was like NOOOOO

  • @BJCMXY
    @BJCMXY 2 года назад +5

    This is why my subscribed list has been adding people like Noah lately.
    They have an awesome sense of humor and the delightful personality that makes things better.
    As for that sibling thing... I'd be fine if my sister was happy as it would mean she wouldn't call me up as an unlicensed therapist for whatever she's gotten herself into because she's impulsive.
    Luckily, growing up with our mother taught me to set boundaries, on what I can do for others.

  • @minabrunkhorst9954
    @minabrunkhorst9954 Год назад +3

    I really hate the argument "1000 years ppl are going to misgender you." In a 1000 years either we'll probably have cooler tech or we will be dead

  • @FrozEnbyWolf150
    @FrozEnbyWolf150 2 года назад +10

    I prefer to call her Arielle Varicella, because just when you think she's gone for good, she comes back years later like a bad case of shingles.

  • @kymaniplayz104
    @kymaniplayz104 Год назад +7

    Alright that's it, I'm calling transphobes by the wrong Pronouns.

  • @Bree_999
    @Bree_999 2 года назад +5

    I hate the " 'trans' predator in the bathroom" saying transphobes use. Sad to say but if someone wants to hurt someone, they will do it regardless of what gender, sexuality, etc they are.

    • @rhymerlegend2717
      @rhymerlegend2717 2 года назад

      Disregarding women and their feelings because of some confused men

  • @MF2_Official
    @MF2_Official Год назад +5

    A thousand years after a trans woman dies they wont be like omg this is a man they will be like FUCK YEAH A SKELETON I love this job

  • @medotexe12
    @medotexe12 2 года назад +5

    the editing is class

  • @embersolace8356
    @embersolace8356 Год назад +3

    also on the bathrooms thing I am saying this as a nonbinary person who people call she her a lot (despite binder and body hair and a naturally traditional masculine body) I have panic attacks going to the bathroom. I do NOT want to make someone uncomfortable hell i don't even want to GO into public bathrooms

  • @stacythememelord
    @stacythememelord Год назад +2

    11:08 I like how the superstraight flag is the same colors as phub lol

  • @BrookieTheCookie_
    @BrookieTheCookie_ 2 года назад +63

    Hey Noah, would you mind doing a video on different gender identities and what they mean other than men/woman/enby? Thanks!
    Coming from a girlflux teen who’s a huge fan

  • @Oliv3eR4T
    @Oliv3eR4T 2 года назад +3

    I JUST GOT A 5 MINUTE AD TALIKNG ABOUT THOSE GENDERBREAD AND GENDER UNICORN THINGIES

    • @andrea446
      @andrea446 Год назад

      I got at ad for cookies lol

  • @shin_zouu
    @shin_zouu Год назад +2

    I love the “Seek help”

  • @RetroVRR
    @RetroVRR Год назад +3

    You’re my fav RUclipsr rn.

  • @PEAK__
    @PEAK__ Год назад +4

    ppl need to understand that, YES, there's a difference between trans women and cis women (same with trans men and cis men) but there's NO difference between trans women and WOMEN (or trans men and MEN)

    • @losteden6390
      @losteden6390 Год назад

      There's a massive difference ... people don't need to understand your bs ...

  • @makenzileg
    @makenzileg 2 года назад +5

    3:20 Bold of them to assume the world will still exist in 1000 years

  • @juniperfox1064
    @juniperfox1064 2 года назад +8

    people really dont get how uncomfortable it is for YOU as a gnc looking person to have people react to you in the bathroom. what bathroom do nonbinary people use? if the only options are multiperson mens and womens rooms, its a lose lose for me! i’m risking confrontation either way.

  • @VDotBlank
    @VDotBlank Год назад +7

    My question is why would they be digging up my skeleton 🤨

  • @cerberaodollam
    @cerberaodollam Год назад +1

    GNC girl here. I'm pretty aware of those physical differences. In fact, I wish there was a cure for femaleness. Being strong and not bleeding for no reason are positive things, no matter how you look at it.

  • @heyitsmakayla111
    @heyitsmakayla111 2 года назад +24

    it's really interesting how they think making another word to describe a human being that doesn't identify with the body they were born in is an issue yet someone had to make up the words man and woman. they are literally just words they don't actually mean anything we just use them to specifically describe a person, you can't get mad and say that being trans is made up when gender is literally a made up thing itself someone had to make words to explain if someone is a "man" or "women" those 2 words are made up just like every other word in the world all it does is help people describe things. it's not that deep like come on why do these people care so much what someone else identifies as it literally doesn't effect anything 😭😭 your genitals don't describe your gender they're literally just body parts that's it🤷

    • @jbird4478
      @jbird4478 2 года назад +2

      We used those words to describe biological males and females. That's what it means and there is a LOT more to that than just genitals.

  • @marzbar479
    @marzbar479 2 года назад +5

    hey Noah, i would like to say thank you so much for making videos. i just found out that one of my kittens passed away and was finding it very difficult to deal with and laughing at transphobes was somehow exactly what i needed to keep my mind off of it and the way you react to them always makes me smile :)

  • @Al-go3tc
    @Al-go3tc 2 года назад +3

    I'm nonbinary and I am AFAB. Just bc I have a high voice I tend to go to the women's restroom bc if I get trouble they leave me alone when they hear my voice 90% of the time.

  • @TheDemonAscended
    @TheDemonAscended 9 месяцев назад +2

    11:18 agender here, if there's a neutral toilet then I use that one, if not then it's whichever one doesn't have p ss all over the toilet seats or the one with fewer people.

  • @sketchiscribblr8285
    @sketchiscribblr8285 2 года назад +22

    im just gonna say, you dont even have to be a trans woman for some jackass to look at your bones and decide 'yeah this is a man'.
    its believed that they found Amelia Earheart's bones like 80 years ago on the island of Nikumaroro. they dismissed it at first as being a man's bones but by actually examining photographs of her and the bones and what have you, they have concluded now that those bones were female and theres a very high possibility that it was her.
    what I've never understood about that argument, tho, why should I care? if theyre far enough in the future that digging my dead ass up is archeology and not straight up graverobbing, one- Im dead what do I care? two- all theyre gonna find of me is a headstone next to my dad. I'm gonna be cremated and have a tree planted on my ashes somewhere.

    • @punkithecat
      @punkithecat 2 года назад +2

      I also plan to have my ashes buried and become a tree and just have a stone or something. Actually I love the idea of having those kinds of cementaries in the future, just a bunch of trees with names.

    • @sketchiscribblr8285
      @sketchiscribblr8285 2 года назад +3

      @@punkithecat the only issue I really see with the idea is that sometimes trees just dont make it. They arent the best grave markers, but it would be cool to see

  • @classypotato9478
    @classypotato9478 Год назад +2

    My family said that the old woman mentioned in 12:01 to 12:28 shouldn't have been fired and that she was doing the right thing,I facepalmed so hard that it hurt my face

  • @kaylinsnyder14
    @kaylinsnyder14 2 года назад +6

    I am a cis woman I'm 26 with two little girls under two years old. My husband and I have very open beliefs that you can believe in God and know that he loves everybody no matter what. you're not going to hell because you love someone that's the same sex or because you decide that you don't want to wake up and hate the body you're in everyday, I couldn't imagine how painful that would be. If either of my children or my husband decided one day that they wanted to live their truth my job as a wife and a mom is to make sure the four walls of our home are their safe place.
    I truly don't understand why some people are so ugly and hateful to people that just want to be comfortable and happy in their lives. I am so sorry to anyone that has ever experienced homophobia or transphobia of any kind. I don't believe that it's correct to use religion or politics against someone to make them conform to what you want and what you believe is right. As long as a person is not hurting children or animals I truly don't care! be happy, live your life. We only get to live on this planet for a certain amount of time and it's not my place or anyone else's to tell someone else how to live. I love you and I love your Channel! you genuinely bring a smile to my face every time I watch your videos❤ I'm sorry if this comment isn't grammatically correct or if I have run on sentences I'm laying in bed with my babies and my husband and I'm trying to type as quick as possible❤

    • @KittanyFox
      @KittanyFox 2 года назад +1

      You’re an amazing mom

    • @kaylinsnyder14
      @kaylinsnyder14 2 года назад

      @@KittanyFox thank you love❤

    • @crowspears3265
      @crowspears3265 Год назад

      Great parenting right there

    • @blakksy
      @blakksy Год назад +2

      We need more people like you fr

    • @crowspears3265
      @crowspears3265 Год назад

      @Stop Igbt You gonna start burning LGBT books as well?

  • @a_phoe.nix_
    @a_phoe.nix_ 2 года назад +5

    I just came back from your concert best thing everrrrrr 🖤🖤🖤

    • @Window._.
      @Window._. 2 года назад +1

      Samee it was insane, loved it so much

  • @TM-yq4wk
    @TM-yq4wk Год назад +6

    I'm a cis-man who puts he/him pronouns in his bio...
    For me it's just my way to support my trans* friend in everyday life. I once spoke with a good friend of mine who said, that it would really help them if they wouldn't be automatically outed to everyone by putting pronouns in their bio. So I an a lot of my cis friends decided to put our pronouns in our bio so we would normalize it a bit in our social cloud.
    Since then I've heard positive reactions but also negative ones from other trans*peoples.
    I'm not quite sure what to do. 😅
    But on the other hand I think that it shouldn't be a problem to anyone if someone else (wether they are trans* or cis or neither) puts their pronouns in their bio. 😅
    Am I wrong about this?
    And if so: why?

  • @jay_vali
    @jay_vali Год назад +4

    I had a former friend once say to me: "Why do you care about how mtf trans people are treated. Just be happy that you as an ftm are accepted in society."
    I didn't k ow what to say because firdt of all transphobia is wrong so I'll always speak up about it, no matter if it's against me or other people and she really thinks being fetishized by many cis straight women is "being accepted in society"? Both ways are disgusting. And it's false that ftm don't get any hate anyways either.

  • @UpsideDown_Bat
    @UpsideDown_Bat Год назад +5

    I love your necklace where did you get it- and I’m also bisexual and trans! (Ftm and pre-everything) (:

    • @Liam-es7jx
      @Liam-es7jx Год назад

      I think he got it custom made hope this helps

  • @harveyhaslostit
    @harveyhaslostit 2 года назад +2

    Yeah, my poor trans bones. It's so difficult being stealth ever since all the people I meet everyday are wearing their damn x-ray glasses all the time!
    Can't go outside without my lead armor anymore or else their gonna see my skeleton

  • @notrhyette
    @notrhyette 6 месяцев назад +3

    Omg he released the song on my birthday!!!

  • @Canadaball155
    @Canadaball155 19 дней назад +1

    As a trans woman who sucks at every sport in existence, I don't get why people think that the moment their best by someone they must be trans

  • @Angryand5ft4
    @Angryand5ft4 2 года назад +28

    Me: Mum, I think I'm trans
    My mum, who works with multiple queer and trans/nb people: Okay, do you want to talk about it? Do you wat me to call you _?
    Me: I-Yeah, thanks
    I love my mum :))

    • @Echofan0808
      @Echofan0808 2 года назад +3

      Hand her over, she is now my mom

    • @Angryand5ft4
      @Angryand5ft4 2 года назад +3

      @@Echofan0808 I-what- * last name vanishes *
      what the fuck?

    • @Echofan0808
      @Echofan0808 2 года назад +4

      @@Angryand5ft4 haha!!! I now have the power of a supportive parent
      Finally
      After so many years

    • @Angryand5ft4
      @Angryand5ft4 2 года назад +3

      @@Echofan0808 Oh nooo :( I hope it gets better
      BUT ALSO NOOOO, MY MUUUMM

    • @Echofan0808
      @Echofan0808 2 года назад +2

      @@Angryand5ft4 HEHEHE TAKE THAT

  • @1991birthday
    @1991birthday Год назад +3

    Yes, I’m non-binary & use the women’s restroom but it’s not to make people feel uncomfortable, it’s because I’m afab & there isn’t a third choice, obviously I’m not going into the men’s room, would be a little awkward even though I prefer presenting more masculine. Whoever said that forget that not every non-binary person is amab & even if they are & prefer the women’s restroom because maybe it lines up better with their identity, so what? As long as it’s not some creepy man pretending to be apart of the community, it’s fine, people have to go to the bathroom so let them go where they’re comfortable. I typically try my best to not even go in public spaces, sometimes I wish I could be like that kid in Lloyd in Space where their species just absorbs liquid so they don’t even go to the bathroom. Would make things easier, not having to use the restroom in public anymore.

  • @margravesharky1520
    @margravesharky1520 2 года назад +6

    Good video thank you for brightening my day. Nice to have a laugh at these people. I hope the future where trans people are accepted and not a big deal comes true.

  • @eckoschreiber
    @eckoschreiber 2 года назад +3

    Love your vids, informative and entertaining!;o) And thought, that the whole "1000 yrs later being read wrong" reflects rather bad on the reader not the "object"... Like, look at these adoring roommates hugging for eternity. Recommend "Book of Queer", great series!

  • @WhichDoctor1
    @WhichDoctor1 Год назад +2

    The thing about skeletons is that any trans person who starts hormones in their late teens early twenties is going to have a skeleton that is extremely hard to distinguish from the average of their chosen gender. Because the skeleton keeps developing hormone specific traits into the mid 20s. The things usually used to determine the sex of a skeleton are brow ridges, with of pelvis and shoulders, thickness and density of long bones, hight. And as it is now some skeleton’s cannot conclusively sexed this way because natural human variation means some cis people have a mixture of those traits. So anyone who started hormonal transition early are likely to have highly ambiguous skeletons. if they were lucky enough to get on puberty blockers first there skeletons will likely be indistinguishable from their chosen sex.

  • @Sillehmonkey
    @Sillehmonkey 2 года назад +3

    LALA COMES OUT 3 DAYS BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY AHAHSHDHDHDHDJDJDJ

  • @NoahhNoahhh
    @NoahhNoahhh 2 года назад +7

    Releasing this after a concert is a power move

  • @txddyzzzz
    @txddyzzzz 2 года назад +10

    Super Straight😳 I haven’t heard that in a while and I think I was better for it 🙃

  • @neonblkhole
    @neonblkhole 11 месяцев назад +2

    lmao I thought from the thumbnail that they were saying being transphobic is a fetish

  • @blakethefish
    @blakethefish Год назад +3

    I dyed my hair blue AFTER I came out, not before!