Very true!!! Watching your video it sounded like you had my mother as your mother! Thank you for posting this video. It helps me to understand my mother is the problem, not me...🙏
It’s a game changer to finally understand your mother now that I’m older. There was no crossing her and she had zero boundaries which were taught to me. I’m healthy and healed now that I understand it all through videos like this💪
Thanks for sharing. I’m so glad more people are educating on this nightmare. You waste a lot of decades trying to fix the unfixable. You will never acheive enough, give enough or forgive enough. It’s a bottomless pit
I hope you don’t take this as an insult as, it’s not at all meant to be. I am a black woman, raised in the US, I had a covert narcissistic mother, I went no contact, she died and I feel no guilt. I also know that parental narcissism is not culture-specific. But, I have an Indian family, who moved in beneath me and the narcissism is becoming pretty apparent. My gut tells me it’s not just a mother thing, but has transferred to the adult daughter. The grandmother, adult daughter and young daughter live together. The mother has been trying to coerce me, into being her child’s free nanny. I think this is as per coaching from the grandmother, as well. It’s as if they feel, “What are you busy doing, when this child needs watching after.” No doubt, there is racism involved. But, whew! My feeling is, keep that sh*t in there! I WILL NOT be forced to watch your child, to allow her to play in my apartment and you ARE NOT getting the key. But, it’s not without learning enough about narcissists, to know that they will try to make you feel guilty and look bad, about something you probably shouldn’t be doing and never agreed to, in the first place and they’ll smear you, to make others feel the same. It is also that they’re punitive and warped. Like, “I’d have called 911 for you, when you had a medical emergency. But, I didn’t, since you refused to be my child’s nanny.” But, again, it’s not culture specific. The former neighbor was a lesson in narcissism, on her own and she was born and raised here, like my mother. The only cure in my family? There’s no next generation. So, we’ll die off, without spreading this nightmare!
Very true!!! Watching your video it sounded like you had my mother as your mother! Thank you for posting this video. It helps me to understand my mother is the problem, not me...🙏
It’s a game changer to finally understand your mother now that I’m older. There was no crossing her and she had zero boundaries which were taught to me. I’m healthy and healed now that I understand it all through videos like this💪
Thanks for sharing. I’m so glad more people are educating on this nightmare. You waste a lot of decades trying to fix the unfixable. You will never acheive enough, give enough or forgive enough. It’s a bottomless pit
They literally never get tired of abusing and exploiting.
My mother is a hardcore covert narcissist and she is crazy .She doesn't leave me a single minute alone.
True!....🤣 I'm less worried of alien invasion than having to be near my mother ever again (fortunatelly it's not possible,since she has passed).
I hope you don’t take this as an insult as, it’s not at all meant to be.
I am a black woman, raised in the US, I had a covert narcissistic mother, I went no contact, she died and I feel no guilt.
I also know that parental narcissism is not culture-specific.
But, I have an Indian family, who moved in beneath me and the narcissism is becoming pretty apparent. My gut tells me it’s not just a mother thing, but has transferred to the adult daughter. The grandmother, adult daughter and young daughter live together. The mother has been trying to coerce me, into being her child’s free nanny. I think this is as per coaching from the grandmother, as well. It’s as if they feel, “What are you busy doing, when this child needs watching after.” No doubt, there is racism involved. But, whew! My feeling is, keep that sh*t in there! I WILL NOT be forced to watch your child, to allow her to play in my apartment and you ARE NOT getting the key. But, it’s not without learning enough about narcissists, to know that they will try to make you feel guilty and look bad, about something you probably shouldn’t be doing and never agreed to, in the first place and they’ll smear you, to make others feel the same. It is also that they’re punitive and warped. Like, “I’d have called 911 for you, when you had a medical emergency. But, I didn’t, since you refused to be my child’s nanny.”
But, again, it’s not culture specific. The former neighbor was a lesson in narcissism, on her own and she was born and raised here, like my mother. The only cure in my family? There’s no next generation. So, we’ll die off, without spreading this nightmare!
Beware and enforce boundaries. Stay safe.