Cut and run, she knows what she did, let her take the responsibility for her own bs. Sometimes you need to cut out the bad stuff, no matter how long you've known them or cared about them. The fact that she wants you to stay doesn't mean squat, if it did she wouldn't have done that to you in the first place. Not your responsibility
She didn’t care about the negative ramifications of what her cheating would do to you but now her bum trash self is manipulating you so she has it easier and also is the affair partner but throwing his money around saying he will pay for this or that, news flash he’d have to contribute no matter to the up bringing up his child and he’ll always be around. Show yourself the respect your trash spouse didn’t have for you and walk away with dignity.
dna, divorce. cut your losses. who cares what kind of money, she should have thought about that before she stepped out. regardless of how long, how could you allow this to continue. you should think of the future, once a cheater she will always be a cheater
Theres a lot to unpack here. I am glad you are looking out for yourself. Understand I say the following out of honestly and kindness. At the end of the day you have only you, know what’s best for you, and can trust yourself, thoughts and feelings. I one hundred percent understand you had a long history with your ex-wife but sometimes walking away is the best thing. From what you said it sounds like she didn’t value your history, you or your relationship. She cheated so easily, hurting you deeply and to expect you to be ok with this makes her a bad person. You’re right she tried to guilt trip you. It’s not your fault she lost her job or has no family to help out. There are plenty of single mothers with no familiar support who raise their children on their own. Maybe she should’ve had her own financial plans aka savings or try to find another job. Being pregnant is not an excuse. The motivation and “brining us together” comments are just BS. If you can’t be motivated without having an affair and a kids then she needs a reality check and to learn from her mistakes. As for bringing you two together, more like dividing. Not you or anyone else should have to wake up everyday and be reminded of a betrayal. Just as you shouldn’t have to worry about her cheating ever again. Remember: once a cheater, always a cheater.
Nta leave her she made her choice to cheat and get pregnant, let your wife live with her consequences, of course she wants you to stay to take care of her kid
Wow the guy even put the words doormat and simp to shame. No wonder his wife cheated on him because she knew the guy isn't leaving her no matter what. Pretty sure she will keep on seeing the other guy and put this guy on baby duty while she has all the fun.
Cut and run, she knows what she did, let her take the responsibility for her own bs. Sometimes you need to cut out the bad stuff, no matter how long you've known them or cared about them. The fact that she wants you to stay doesn't mean squat, if it did she wouldn't have done that to you in the first place. Not your responsibility
NTA I wouldn't recommend being a stepdad in general, let alone to the affair baby. Divorce the goofy, and get more experience dating.
Honey, this is all on to her. Get out a dodge
She didn’t care about the negative ramifications of what her cheating would do to you but now her bum trash self is manipulating you so she has it easier and also is the affair partner but throwing his money around saying he will pay for this or that, news flash he’d have to contribute no matter to the up bringing up his child and he’ll always be around. Show yourself the respect your trash spouse didn’t have for you and walk away with dignity.
She's using Olympic level manipulation
Hopefully OP goes through with the divorce.
dna, divorce. cut your losses. who cares what kind of money, she should have thought about that before she stepped out. regardless of how long, how could you allow this to continue. you should think of the future, once a cheater she will always be a cheater
Dump the 304. OP should not suffer because of her choices.
Theres a lot to unpack here. I am glad you are looking out for yourself. Understand I say the following out of honestly and kindness. At the end of the day you have only you, know what’s best for you, and can trust yourself, thoughts and feelings. I one hundred percent understand you had a long history with your ex-wife but sometimes walking away is the best thing. From what you said it sounds like she didn’t value your history, you or your relationship. She cheated so easily, hurting you deeply and to expect you to be ok with this makes her a bad person. You’re right she tried to guilt trip you. It’s not your fault she lost her job or has no family to help out. There are plenty of single mothers with no familiar support who raise their children on their own. Maybe she should’ve had her own financial plans aka savings or try to find another job. Being pregnant is not an excuse. The motivation and “brining us together” comments are just BS. If you can’t be motivated without having an affair and a kids then she needs a reality check and to learn from her mistakes. As for bringing you two together, more like dividing. Not you or anyone else should have to wake up everyday and be reminded of a betrayal. Just as you shouldn’t have to worry about her cheating ever again. Remember: once a cheater, always a cheater.
Nta leave her she made her choice to cheat and get pregnant, let your wife live with her consequences, of course she wants you to stay to take care of her kid
Wow the guy even put the words doormat and simp to shame. No wonder his wife cheated on him because she knew the guy isn't leaving her no matter what. Pretty sure she will keep on seeing the other guy and put this guy on baby duty while she has all the fun.