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The best thing to ever happen to her. She was becoming a sugar momma. I hope she learned from her mistakes.

Tell him he’s more than welcome to marry one of those women, while you divorce him and take your daughter.

Nta

Nta, think about a divorce, he doesn’t respects you.

ABSOLUTELY NOT! WHY SHOULD YOUR WEDDING BE DESTROYED CUZ BIL'S EX IS UNBELIEVABLY CRAZY!!! SHE HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU OR YOUR WEDDING! DO NOT CHANGE THE DAY OF YOUR WEDDING & IF YOUR SIS OR BIL PUSH HARD, TELL THEM YOU REFUSE TO HAVE YOUR SPECIAL & BEAUTIFUL WEDDING DAY RUINED BY HIS EX & KID'S! MAKE IT CLEAR YOU & YOUR FIANCEE ARE NOT OK WITH HAVING YOUR WEDDING CRASHED, BEING SCREAMED AT, BEING UTTERLY DISRESPECTED & THROWING TEMPER TANTRUM'S FROM A FULLY GROWN ADULT WHO'S SERIOUSLY CRAZY & FROM KID'S!

There is more than enough evidence to get a restraining order

Dad was too busy playing savior to realize he had a child to protect himself. OP’s a kid and didn’t signup to be a traumatized then told to be grateful for the opportunity

Your father is the AH bringing that kind of trouble in your life. There was more than enough to get a restraining order very early on the fact that they did. Was proved how cowardly and useless they are. You have no obligation to that.

1:17 from shorts

It's unfortunate that the kids have been so poorly guided, but given the prior behavior, you did what was best to keep mega drama away.

I've had Crohn's Disease for 23 years. Some days I hurt so bad I can barely move. It affects every joint in my body. I've been to hell and back many, many times. It does ruin your life. I'm sorry you're going through this. Paracetemol is basically Tylenol, which doesn't even begin touch the pain. Your aunt is mentally ill. Being sick is not fun, nor is it a way to get attention. It s*cks, and she just doesn't get it.

Well I would have at least waited till I was already out of the house for good before spilling that kind of opinion but uh doesn’t matter you are completely right here

Bruh, divorce is the way

Sorry that your religion doesn't allow you to have a life. Time to get out and take your kids with you if possible.

YTA. The woman did nothing wrong. You can be mad at her ex. But she did nothing wrong to you.

Your feeling are 100% valid! You will probably need help to prses these emotions and come to terms woth them. You are however wrong and woth age you will hopefully understand. It is not your dad's your step mom's or the kids fault this herbal man was doing horrible things to you and your/her family. Your anger is miss placed but you are not wrong to feel that way

Nta

LOL, No. Just to be aware, not a single person could ever actually be vegan. Literally everything has some sort of animal product in it, including the produce you have in market. Not even talking about the amount of animals that have to be slaughtered for the vegetables (an argument easily debunked by simply understanding that the majority of those vegetables are going back into the animals), but the sheer amount of animal products in each and every, pesticide, preservative, oil, water, and fertilizer, as some examples, anyone claiming their doing it, "for the animals" whilst preaching about how "these things are living creatures" is automatically being dishonest. I respect vegetarians, because they can at least act not like ginormous hypocrites. Most vegans when confronted with the fact that it would be almost impossible to go full vegan without ultimately producing everything themselves, will buckle and break going from, "well at least I try not too" no, no you don't. If you actually cared you would have researched everything about this way before now. Also note that a vast majority of commonly thought of vegan products, contain chemicals, more then likely, taken from an animal in some shape or form. A vegan who knows this, and still acts all high and mighty, pretending they're "oh so perfect" which tends to be alot of vegans, is not actually a vegan, their a narcissist who needs to be better then everyone else. And I dont need them riding up my rear end for making choices out in the open, which they make behind closed doors.

1:16 the shorts

NTA: Those who live in a glass house should not cast stones. In other words, if she can't take it, she shouldn't give it.

1st comment ❤ love ur channel btw❤

Lol, nta all the way

NTA, ignorant, holier than thou vegans is the reason a lot of people check out when they hear the word vegan because no one wants to deal with an over grown veggie toddler.

Nah

Nta. Ex wife defo crazy 😂

Hahaha they definitely took the custody calendar into account. Good for them. Easier than paying for security at the wedding.

Youre both AH here. She was upset about the divorce and was clearly stressed about it. However she definitely punished you for leaving an unfaithful, which is wrong. Were you being very public about the divorce? If so, I can see wht she'd be pissed she doesnt want everyone at her wedding gossiping about her parents marriage imploding. Still dropping the relationship over not walking down the aisle seems like you like being her Dad for the perks/prestige.

Nta

Nta, absolutely

nta, we shoud let ppl do what they want

NTA, ThatVeganLady is NOTORIOUS and regularly makes other people feel like crap with what she posts and how she posts it. It’s just karma at this point

No put it in a safty deposit box or they might try to steal it from you.

Nta.

1:03 from the shorts

Ah yes the classic "family is mad cause i wont help but also they refuse to help". Nta. Not your responsibility. Grandma can step up

NTA That's what she gets for being an attention seeker.

1:14 for the short

So u tell the girl not to do it myltiple times, she does it ant way and then ur the bad guy. Nope.

Always get a paternity test before putting your name on the birth certificate

Drop him but also so many people work 40 hours a week.. this is weird

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 OP needs drop that man right away. This entire story from the nudge and so forth just showed that he's a walking red flag and that she needs to run, not walk, away from him

If i was OP, i would respond, "So it's okay if dad has another woman after losing you mom?"

Waaa waaa waaa, my feelings and my feelings only. That's how stepmother sounds.

Is your girlfriend 5 years old? She needs counseling

NTA Use this to get more custody as she clearly isn’t capable to care for 2 kids so she can keep her youngest while you have your only child with you

I will never understand why people don't want to get paternity tests done if ur not cheating. Men don't have a guarantee that these babies r theirs like women do. If a stranger walked up to u in the street and said "hey, ur my parent" u wouldn't just accept it and move on. U would get a paternity test to make sure before welcoming them into ur home and life. Why is it any different when a woman gets pregnant under mysterious circumstances. The .1% chance u have of getting pregnant with birth control is due to failure of said birth control. I.e. if ur using a condom and there is a hole in it or it breaks, that's where pregnancy occurs. If this kid was checking for damage before and after and not seeing any signs, it's HIGHLY likely that this baby isn't his.

Right I have a diary and sister keeps reading it I mainly write about my trauma and that I feel like my family hates me

Nta

NTA, and iff he has constant withdrawls it's unsafe in a workplace. I suggest you report this to HR, because this has created a very unsafe and unfriendly work situation.

Had a friend same age difference. Also previously married. So why does he pick an eighteen or nineteen year old? Because he thinks you are young and not so able to know when you are being mistreated. And you can easily be talked into leaving friends and family and relocating far away. So now you have no one to go to for help when he starts telling you how incompetent you are and finding every fault there is in everything you do. And it is now your job to take care of the kids. In fact, all kinds of things are now your job and you do everyone one of them badly. And don’t even think about leaving him because you would die out there on your own because no one would want you as a friend or help you. And one day he will decide that you are so bad and you make his life so hard that he has to punish you. So he hurts and beats you and he is so angry because you make him do this to you. He isn’t a victim, he is a predator. What you want for your life matters. Him telling you that you should put that aside for him is a big red flag. Telling you that you are not seeing what is right in front of you is a red flag. Him telling you that he is the exception is a red flag. Him getting angry at you for wanting what you want is a red flag. Your friends telling you you should apologize to him so they won’t be uncomfortable now that they realize what kind of person he is but they don’t want to believe it because he hasn’t shown that side to them means you should look for friends that are going to look out for you. Don’t apologize for looking out for yourself. That is just Daily Survival 101. Pop quiz and you passed knowing what you want for your life and, bonus, avoided being undermined by a dirt bag. Keep up the good work.