1. The daughter left the house and refused to come back, before the wife beat her. 2. The wife laid hands on her daughter and destroyed things in the house. 3. The wife still doesn't see anything wrong with her actions. 4. The wife refused and still refuses help. This is what happens when you ignore a problem and it gets out of hand. OP should have taken actions months ago, probably years ago. I hope the wife is out of their lives for good. Oh and OP needs to tell the wives family how bad her issues are, because she needs help and need to stop her sad excuses. This DV and nothing else.
You should ask your wife is she ready for a divorce and see what she says then let your wife know that if she doesn't change her ways divorce will be your next step GOD bless you and your children and you and your children just live your best lives ever and GOD bless you.
I constantly see or hear people that are depressed and with anxiety disorders that are in abusive situations. No, you are not the problem. You have an abuser that is literally driving you insane. You need to leave.
Husband did the right thing and needs to divorce the wife. When 3 people are all saying "Your the problem", and that 1 person is saying it's everyone else, then it's definitely the 1 person who's the problem.
Stop making excuses and blaming everyone, including your own behavior for your wife’s trash actions. She attacked your child. Divorce and no contact with any of the kids and yourself as the minimum she should get why are you trying to save her feelings? She deserves nothing.
OMG! The wife needs to be in jail for assault and abuse. Tell her family the truth and if they do not believe the husband then the daughter should tell them what happened to her. Abuse is no joke even if it's just verbal at first and trust me I know. It always gets physical always.💙🌙
Ok op is NTA from experence living with a narssisst your always the bad guy, thry are always rhe victim. Its a common tactic they use. And sadly op would be better with divorce. Her issues need to stop. When it comes to attacking your own child thats the line. She needs serious help or she will end up all alone. Blaming everyone but the true bad guy, herself. Op ptobably shoukdnt have let the behivier slide but its easier saod than done. Dealing with someone like that is nearly impossible.
You need to tell her family the truth, about everything. Not just her hitting your daughter but her screaming rages just everything. But yes especially hitting your daughter. You need to keep track of calls, texts,emails. Make sure you record everything every time you communicate w her. Then fial fir divorce. Please, not just for you but this has not been a safe or emotionally/mentally good situation for your kid all these yrs. You all need to be in counseling, not just you.
Seriously? OP doesn't deserve love just because he suffers from depression? The relationship between him and the wife is obviously toxic, but in a lot of cases loved ones can offer comfort and support. I've suffered from depression in the past and I don't know where I would be without my family and my best friend.
@vErRy_BeAuTiFuL_bEaCh So they should let you die instead? Got it. But then they're going to grieve your death which in turn is also going to make them suffer. Love and support are important when you're going through dark times. I feel sorry for you if you can't see that.
1. The daughter left the house and refused to come back, before the wife beat her.
2. The wife laid hands on her daughter and destroyed things in the house.
3. The wife still doesn't see anything wrong with her actions.
4. The wife refused and still refuses help.
This is what happens when you ignore a problem and it gets out of hand. OP should have taken actions months ago, probably years ago.
I hope the wife is out of their lives for good. Oh and OP needs to tell the wives family how bad her issues are, because she needs help and need to stop her sad excuses.
This DV and nothing else.
She should be in jail and get nothing in the divorce.
I bet you that household has been pretty peaceful since she left
You should ask your wife is she ready for a divorce and see what she says then let your wife know that if she doesn't change her ways divorce will be your next step GOD bless you and your children and you and your children just live your best lives ever and GOD bless you.
I constantly see or hear people that are depressed and with anxiety disorders that are in abusive situations. No, you are not the problem. You have an abuser that is literally driving you insane. You need to leave.
I have to agree… as the depressed side who was used in an ex relationship. He wasn’t very kind in over all view.
Husband did the right thing and needs to divorce the wife. When 3 people are all saying "Your the problem", and that 1 person is saying it's everyone else, then it's definitely the 1 person who's the problem.
Stop making excuses and blaming everyone, including your own behavior for your wife’s trash actions. She attacked your child. Divorce and no contact with any of the kids and yourself as the minimum she should get why are you trying to save her feelings? She deserves nothing.
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OMG! The wife needs to be in jail for assault and abuse. Tell her family the truth and if they do not believe the husband then the daughter should tell them what happened to her. Abuse is no joke even if it's just verbal at first and trust me I know. It always gets physical always.💙🌙
Ok op is NTA from experence living with a narssisst your always the bad guy, thry are always rhe victim. Its a common tactic they use. And sadly op would be better with divorce. Her issues need to stop. When it comes to attacking your own child thats the line. She needs serious help or she will end up all alone. Blaming everyone but the true bad guy, herself. Op ptobably shoukdnt have let the behivier slide but its easier saod than done. Dealing with someone like that is nearly impossible.
You need to tell her family the truth, about everything. Not just her hitting your daughter but her screaming rages just everything. But yes especially hitting your daughter. You need to keep track of calls, texts,emails. Make sure you record everything every time you communicate w her. Then fial fir divorce. Please, not just for you but this has not been a safe or emotionally/mentally good situation for your kid all these yrs. You all need to be in counseling, not just you.
Maybe u shouldn't be w someone when ur depressed
Seriously? OP doesn't deserve love just because he suffers from depression?
The relationship between him and the wife is obviously toxic, but in a lot of cases loved ones can offer comfort and support. I've suffered from depression in the past and I don't know where I would be without my family and my best friend.
@@Maypril1894 they shouldnt have to suffer bc u do
@vErRy_BeAuTiFuL_bEaCh So they should let you die instead? Got it. But then they're going to grieve your death which in turn is also going to make them suffer.
Love and support are important when you're going through dark times. I feel sorry for you if you can't see that.
@@Maypril1894 how do u know they will be sad?
@vErRy_BeAuTiFuL_bEaCh My father ended his own life. No one in my family was dancing around in joy, I can tell you that much.