You both suck. He picked the absolute worst time to say that to you, and you lashed out in pain and exhaustion. Once you both calm down have a proper conversation about all of it, and remind him he needs to get a new cardigan.
YTA ..but I think it's the drugs that were talking. He's a man, he remembered something about the laundry, something he doesn't normally do and brought it up before he forgot about it again
What he said is absolutely normal. Seems like op just wanted to fight.
You both suck. He picked the absolute worst time to say that to you, and you lashed out in pain and exhaustion.
Once you both calm down have a proper conversation about all of it, and remind him he needs to get a new cardigan.
YTA ..but I think it's the drugs that were talking. He's a man, he remembered something about the laundry, something he doesn't normally do and brought it up before he forgot about it again
Yta, he shouldn't have came at you like that but you do choose to stay home, so both of you are TAH