The SAD TURBULENT LOVE STORY of ANNIE AND TUFACE IDIBIA..(Revealing & Detailed)

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  • @EfunaMUSA
    @EfunaMUSA 2 года назад +57

    Women do not really get it. Just look at those beautiful children from each of those ladies! This would not have been possible if 2face did not shop arround. Imagine what our beautiful world would have missed if 2face had stuck to only one of them alone. Just my thoughts.
    Well thank you for making it very clear to people like me that have never had interest or time to follow them. My final word is that - I love them all and I pray that all these ladies should just love all the kids that have come from the loins of this great man they greatly love.

    • @Dupesvlog
      @Dupesvlog 2 года назад +123

      Your first 3 sentences are funny😩

    • @angelsoe8363
      @angelsoe8363 2 года назад +172

      No you need to sit down 😑😑😑

    • @justcallmebon2684
      @justcallmebon2684 2 года назад +202

      Gross mentality

    • @BabyC51085
      @BabyC51085 2 года назад +24

      Oh wow!

    • @nanagladys582
      @nanagladys582 2 года назад +114

      Let Annie go have another man so they wld 2 husbands in her life. Can he accept that? u are all very disrespectfull toward Ladies..& some. Of those materialistic women who can go find their one & sacrifice for their man can just come through widow. start having bastards you called children from loins how balance psychologycaly are they with all the fights juju etc?..you mess up you clean ur one mess..Bye..

  • @Letstalk_915
    @Letstalk_915 2 года назад +793

    Annie is the real ambassador of “struggle love”. It’s sad to watch.

    • @carolynololade4126
      @carolynololade4126 2 года назад +40

      Real ambassador 😂😂😂😂😂😂
      Ahswear

    • @danidoon8553
      @danidoon8553 2 года назад +43

      Seriously laughing in my dialect.
      She is indeed the correct ambassador of ''struggle love''.
      This is what happens when a woman has no self esteem for herself.

    • @ms.nneoma4331
      @ms.nneoma4331 2 года назад +1

      Hahaha

    • @mercybadoe3086
      @mercybadoe3086 2 года назад +11

      Ambassador, CEO everything LOL

    • @sandralutscher9303
      @sandralutscher9303 2 года назад +4

      @@danidoon8553 I could shake your hand
      if i see you,you are the only one here make sense.

  • @imdinma9826
    @imdinma9826 2 года назад +743

    Finding out they started dating when she was 15 really puts things in a new perspective. She was basically groomed by him and feels bonded to him. She never had the privilege of dating boys her age and realizing on time things to never tolerate from a guy. Dating an older man made her feel “matured” and wanting to keep him happy she ended up doing everything to be with him. I pray her kids dont emulate this because its really sad.

    • @ceillianicola9062
      @ceillianicola9062 2 года назад +16

      Well written

    • @kenty101
      @kenty101 2 года назад +4

      I agree

    • @keenahizuagie3306
      @keenahizuagie3306 2 года назад +19

      trueee . she was groomed

    • @mercedesUK85
      @mercedesUK85 2 года назад

      Very true. Also, women are always demonised in this position and men pitied. Women perpetuate this male worshipping culture the most!!!

    • @patienceissaka6605
      @patienceissaka6605 2 года назад +4

      Thank you

  • @johnatem2425
    @johnatem2425 2 года назад +251

    Am a man and I will never bring a fellow man down But Let's be honest that Tuface has broken this beautiful soul of a woman ...You can even see it in the Rich and famous African series ....

    • @rosegallus4048
      @rosegallus4048 2 года назад +4

      I feel like she allowed him to do that to her by continuing to stay in a relationship where there were soo many red flags before even they had a first baby together.

    • @tommylikes4511
      @tommylikes4511 2 года назад +8

      He has ,also used and abuse that poor woman. I wish black women would get treated better ,and stop settling for struggle love .

    • @akwaabakitchen8470
      @akwaabakitchen8470 Год назад +1

      Yes, you are so right brother! Thank you for seeing that in her! I felt for her when I watched the series.

  • @christophernwachukwu6972
    @christophernwachukwu6972 2 года назад +525

    That is not a "virtuous" woman in my humble opinion, but a lady who has lost her self-worth and respect because no man (including myself) has a right to treat a woman like that. That is PURE DIRT!

  • @Addie-K738
    @Addie-K738 2 года назад +331

    Annie is lucky she didn’t get any disease that could’ve destroyed her life.

    • @Mabrrrr
      @Mabrrrr 2 года назад +34

      We don't know that for a fact . Money solves quite a majority of sti's

    • @JJKA360
      @JJKA360 2 года назад +11

      She might get it one day because he still cheats on her.

    • @Padie_Mataranyika
      @Padie_Mataranyika 2 года назад +13

      How do you know? You think she’d tell the world something like that?

    • @Mabrrrr
      @Mabrrrr 2 года назад +5

      @@Padie_Mataranyika 😅🤣 facts

    • @yanikeonpurpose
      @yanikeonpurpose 2 года назад +2

      I’m listening like 👀 🐸. From all Jamaicans that are new to this situation, thank you for the thorough explanation 😅🇯🇲

  • @Truefiction40
    @Truefiction40 2 года назад +181

    Ladies, let us not romanticize these toxic behaviors, please. If you're feeling unappreciated or disrespected in your relationship, regardless of whether you're female or male, please leave. That is in your best interest. Just because it's a man committing this act does not make it right. God bless you.

  • @vuyelwamthombeni3761
    @vuyelwamthombeni3761 2 года назад +57

    Her first child being his fifth was a blessing.. She had FOUR chances to get out clean ( no marriage and no baby) and she still stayed? Like how many more signs do you need to leave? If she didn't leave then when she had no kids and was not married she will never leave him

  • @joynwosu6659
    @joynwosu6659 2 года назад +361

    Annie needs a therapy period.
    A lesson for younger women here is: Never build your identity as a woman around relationship or marriage. Annie was around 15 years when this relationship started. She was yet discover and understand what it means to being a woman. Annie views herself as invisible without tuface. She neglected her acting career. She need to rediscover herself. I hope she consider therapy and find healing

    • @charisexcel
      @charisexcel 2 года назад +17

      Yeah. She needs to start acting again. She must enjoy life despite the odds

    • @mariamwangara3786
      @mariamwangara3786 2 года назад +3

      I agree.

    • @ginakuhlmann211
      @ginakuhlmann211 2 года назад +16

      She must leave this guy, Its the only way she can be healthy mentally, he wants to be free but wont leave out of guilt, he does not love her, he feels sorry for her, She really needs help... she has no self awareness, she is lost💔

  • @amkblessed9120
    @amkblessed9120 2 года назад +422

    Annie is trauma bond and the relationship is toxic period. She needs healing, therapy and self discovery.

  • @emmab4155
    @emmab4155 2 года назад +98

    Annie has given WAY more than she has ever received in that relationship! No matter how much we love someone, our love for ourselves should come first. He’s killed her spirit & joy. The only time I saw joy on her beautiful face was when her girls joined her for vow renewals. Pure love. She was anxious around him, like he was a bird that might fly away any minute. Surely, there’s a man who has the capacity & will fully love her & her children & be faithful….it’s not hard to do. Annie, you are equally as important & valuable as he is. I pray God shows you that. We are rooting for you stateside girl! 🙏🏽👏🏽

    • @MzZophia
      @MzZophia 2 года назад +3

      Amen! This comment right here. Exactly my thoughts

    • @euniceking1053
      @euniceking1053 Год назад

      Y’all should leave tuface ooo Annie have cheated on him severaly too but bcus tuface is not type that bring things out that have done many wrongs to that man too and he keeps taking it. Enough already you people are disgusting here both side b4 judging

    • @yvonnee.2777
      @yvonnee.2777 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@euniceking1053There's proof that Tuface keeps cheating. Where's proof that Annie cheated? Supporting rubbish. Keep the same energy when a female you're related to is continually cheated on.

  • @beckyrhonda5764
    @beckyrhonda5764 2 года назад +17

    Nowonder she hated Zari, because Zari is the woman who left after humiliation from a man and Annie is a woman who stayed no matter the humiliation

  • @rachaelkish8678
    @rachaelkish8678 2 года назад +78

    Annie started dating at 15 and was so shocked that Khanyis daughter lives alone.. why am i confused..

    • @terianapride3881
      @terianapride3881 2 года назад +10

      That’s the very reason she doesn’t agree with it. Because she know she shouldn’t have been doing that at 15.

  • @kehindekareem6897
    @kehindekareem6897 2 года назад +296

    I don’t think i have the strength for what Annie went through. 🙆🏽‍♀️

    • @Trendinggist247
      @Trendinggist247 2 года назад +9

      Me too. I just can't.

    • @BukenziosCorner
      @BukenziosCorner 2 года назад +18

      Me too.. God forbid

    • @tanishanightingale
      @tanishanightingale 2 года назад +6

      Lord me neither

    • @angiefromnairobi
      @angiefromnairobi 2 года назад +19

      I wouldn't call that 'strength'.

    • @rosey3664
      @rosey3664 2 года назад +10

      I can’t do it either. I am so glad younger African girls are realising this is not worth it. It isn’t.

  • @afolukemibeautyandbrains7129
    @afolukemibeautyandbrains7129 2 года назад +280

    Tuface is a great talented guy and i admire his talent and his craft but he is the reason a lot of women have lost interest in starting from the bottom with their men.what he did to that lady is cold blooded betrayal and she may never heal from that hurt

    • @blessedbaby2732
      @blessedbaby2732 2 года назад +15

      Well spoken 👏 👌

    • @carolynololade4126
      @carolynololade4126 2 года назад +8

      Thank you for taking the words right out of my mouth.
      You’re WISE😊😊😊

    • @Irri900
      @Irri900 2 года назад +7

      You are so right ✅.

    • @BukenziosCorner
      @BukenziosCorner 2 года назад +7

      Fact only

    • @ekiagboghidi8066
      @ekiagboghidi8066 2 года назад +16

      Point of correction,tuface is not Annie’s problem… she made her choice to be were she is right now,nobody can treat you anyhow if you don’t accept it.

  • @colettechapman4323
    @colettechapman4323 2 года назад +154

    Annie suffers from a serious issue of low self esteem and worth. No issues with her loving him, but the pain that this woman has and is in is long standing and won't heal. The renewal of vows strikes me as something to keep her happy for the time (kind of like a tokeism gesture). I don't doubt this man loves her to some level, but not to the level that she needs or desires. Her pain is immense. The unfortunate thing is what she shows her children what a relationship built of love and what they should accept and tolerate. The man didn't make the same mistake twice...he made it 5 times...and there will be 5 more.

    • @christophernwachukwu6972
      @christophernwachukwu6972 2 года назад +13

      well said. It wasn't a "mistake" as you lot call it, it is a deliberate act. A Mistake should never happen more than once.

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 2 года назад +1

      Exactly!!!!!

    • @tammyted
      @tammyted 2 года назад +7

      She can't heal because the baby mama thing didn't just happen once. How did he even have 3kids from 1 woman and still calls her baby mama.that looks like lovely mama

    • @colettechapman4323
      @colettechapman4323 2 года назад +1

      @@tammyted I think we all have the potential to heal or at least have the scars covered. From another point of view, his age and her age when they met certainly explains a whole bunch of other things (such as why he would potentially go to a "woman" for his needs etc.). I won't lie.....I do think about what a big man want with a little child. Those types of things sustain fantasies for young girls who are awestruck by a "man" who gives them attention. Keeps those men on a pedestal to some degree. Anyhoo.....we all choose our paths.

    • @beckyrhonda5764
      @beckyrhonda5764 2 года назад +5

      Yes that's the reason her and Zari didn't connect,Zari is the woman who walked away after humiliation and betrayal from a man and Annie is the woman who stayed...after all the humiliation

  • @Tee_Nosike
    @Tee_Nosike 2 года назад +292

    I honestly think Annie is at the point where she is feeling like she can't leave tuface after all they have been through together. She doesn't want anyone else to come and enjoy the wealth when she was the one who stuck with him from the beginning. Yes, she may love him but I think it's more about who he is, what he has and how far they have come than it is about the love. She won't take all this from just any other random middle class man even if she loved him.

    • @diva3588
      @diva3588 2 года назад +4

      God bless you.

    • @zinnykalu1308
      @zinnykalu1308 2 года назад +39

      This is not true!!! It’s not about the material things. If it’s about the material things Annie is very well to do as well
      She just doesn’t see a life without Tuface
      Do you know what it means being with someone since 15years?? Damn!!!
      She literally doesn’t have a life outside Tuface

    • @jennkitchen4559
      @jennkitchen4559 2 года назад

      Maybe that is for the female in your family, they stay with men because of their wealth.

    • @areohealthandfitnessofficial
      @areohealthandfitnessofficial 2 года назад +2

      How did you know, did u think other women re not there? Pero family are billionaire who told you they don’t bless 2face in anyway?

    • @ngozi1979
      @ngozi1979 2 года назад +14

      @@areohealthandfitnessofficial Bless him in which way,Pero should be ashamed of herself,she left her marriage to start rearing kids for a man that didn't marry her,not one but three what was she thinking that Tuface will chase Annie away and marry her,she better move on,she have made herself a babymama for life

  • @__CJ___
    @__CJ___ 2 года назад +28

    She’s too deep in, I don’t think she will ever leave…. She had many chances to leave too. Hopefully she will build her self esteem and realize her worth.

  • @tanishanightingale
    @tanishanightingale 2 года назад +123

    Love should never hurt like that! People fight and make mistakes but he was sleeping with other women without protection and putting her life at risk. Self love is very important and having a YOU outside of your marriage is also very important.

    • @amanda51600
      @amanda51600 2 года назад +5

      We should also know that these two were very young ,still growing and exploring on 2 baba’s part at that time and with fame and money comes women and some women being what they are will do all they can to put a man in a family way without the man’s knowledge thinking that will lead to marriage. I can bet you 2baba may not have planned for those children with those baba mamas . I may be wrong but some women are Crooks regarding that area

    • @priscaakujor9475
      @priscaakujor9475 2 года назад +2

      Bravo to Annie, its not easy to tolerate such cheating, Anyway, that's the power of money & fame

    • @tanishanightingale
      @tanishanightingale 2 года назад +8

      @@amanda51600 I agree with you about them being young when they got together but you mean to tell me that he didn’t know about condoms and protection? 5 children outside a marriage seems pretty deliberate to me. You so make the same mistake 5 times 🤔

    • @babeynfimirabel8066
      @babeynfimirabel8066 2 года назад +4

      I was thinking the same thing. Just imagine he brought serious STDs and made all the women sick... Just nasty.

  • @breaellis5827
    @breaellis5827 2 года назад +95

    The fact that he got with Annie when he was 25 and she was 16 is very problematic.

    • @pennyck9468
      @pennyck9468 2 года назад +14

      Correction girl, 15 🤢🤢🤢

    • @AkireMaru
      @AkireMaru 2 года назад

      No, it wasn’t.

  • @Ukversuskenya
    @Ukversuskenya 2 года назад +24

    I must admit that you're an excellent narrator. A story beautifully and justfully told. Thank you. I knew 2face from "you are my African queen" .

  • @judithodinaka4028
    @judithodinaka4028 2 года назад +228

    Neze i really really really loved your analysis, it was soooo detailed and interesting to watch. You see that part when babies started flying everywhere was when Annie was supposed to have taken a bow and ran for her dear life.. but she was too damn attached and so so afraid to detach
    To me this love story is toxic and draining and not one I look up to

    • @zinnykalu1308
      @zinnykalu1308 2 года назад +10

      It’s so sad!!

    • @carolynololade4126
      @carolynololade4126 2 года назад +8

      This comment should be pinned 😍

    • @ngozi1979
      @ngozi1979 2 года назад +6

      Story you think it's easy for one to leave her first love, especially when the man is caring and always apologize when he err. Some men marry only one wife that make life miserable for such woman.

    • @ngozi1979
      @ngozi1979 2 года назад +5

      @@carolynololade4126 The comment is rubbish, Tuface only weakness is cheating but he is caring and easily admit his sin and ask for forgiveness. Some men marry only their wife but make the marriage miserable for them,they beat,abuse and humiliate their wife which one is better

    • @Invicibles441
      @Invicibles441 2 года назад +12

      This is the type of love story I pray against

  • @afolukemibeautyandbrains7129
    @afolukemibeautyandbrains7129 2 года назад +34

    I really love the way the story progressed, i was glued.
    But this love is one i dont ever want

  • @blessingjennifer-thebelove6822
    @blessingjennifer-thebelove6822 2 года назад +52

    All women should show high respect for themselves.

    • @sidislifeinafrica4914
      @sidislifeinafrica4914 2 года назад +1

      A lifetime movie should be made out of this.lf you agree kindly give me a like

  • @lagoslounge2363
    @lagoslounge2363 2 года назад +56

    Annie, is broken and needs help. She doesn’t love him, she’s afraid of him and wants to prove to the other ladies she won the game they’re playing. I really feel sad for her. She should seek for help if not for herself then for her daughters.

  • @terryann19
    @terryann19 2 года назад +74

    Which kind of marriage is this? She is literally broken & insecure and for what?!!! ... Basically he has three wives 😡

    • @adona3537
      @adona3537 2 года назад +12

      one is a wife and the others are concubines

    • @pastelpastry
      @pastelpastry 2 года назад +11

      Because she was groomed by him. She was 15 and he was 24/25. I've seen a lot of ladies like her that get groomed by these grown men. These men are manipulative and will make them feel like no other man would like them.

  • @rizikiokumu
    @rizikiokumu 2 года назад +20

    This ain't side chic situation. It's a man and his 3 wives

  • @ranjanah9055
    @ranjanah9055 2 года назад +52

    He was in his 20’s. She was 15. He literally groomed her. She doesn’t know who she is without him

    • @fauxgars736
      @fauxgars736 Год назад +2

      Voilà! I have a very soft spot for her. She does not know who she is, she knows him, how to love him, how to forgive him, how to take care of him, how to protect him. She was groomed and is emotionally damaged beyond repair I pray God gives her some peace and happiness.

  • @justtino4204
    @justtino4204 2 года назад +25

    Loving someone so much that you start abusing yourself.

  • @AdaezesSpace
    @AdaezesSpace 2 года назад +190

    People say Annie really loved Tuface, I don't think so. If Tuface was a regular Tunde, the carpenter, down the street...she would have moved on faster than the speed of light.

    • @theladyengineer
      @theladyengineer 2 года назад +8

      Ah! You're for drama😂😂😂😂

    • @inspirationalliving6975
      @inspirationalliving6975 2 года назад +19

      Well spoken Adaeze. After 4 kids with the baby mama's, she decided to put head. In my opinion, it's a competition for her and this is very common among African women. Marriage is the 'trophy' she won in this competition with the other women.

    • @rightmuves
      @rightmuves 2 года назад +7

      That may not be true....
      She just didn't take the hold step to leave after babies were flying about...that is disrespect.. Period!

    • @zinnykalu1308
      @zinnykalu1308 2 года назад +39

      She might have moved on, she may not have moved on
      Do you people understand what it means to be with someone from when you were a teenager??
      If it’s fame and money, Annie has it now, why has she not left
      Life is not white or black!!! There are grey areas to these things

    • @AdaezesSpace
      @AdaezesSpace 2 года назад +10

      @Zinny Kalu trust me, Fame and money can never be enough. The rich always want to get richer or atleast remain in wealth.

  • @EuddieQ
    @EuddieQ 2 года назад +12

    Annie will never leave this man,the fear of starting afresh scares her..but 2baba has no respect or whatsoever for his wife,and the saddest part is he knows Annie will never leave him..as young woman these nothing I will learn on this marriage another woman’s sorrow .

  • @bluebird4815
    @bluebird4815 2 года назад +260

    So are we going to over look how she was only 15 and he was in his early 20's??? What the heck was a twenty something looking for from a 15yr old? 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
    Annie's brain is fully groomed. Her identity is all 2face. And let's be real, if 2face was your everyday regular man, Annie would have been gone.
    Oh well, she has chosen to tolerate his behaviour. 2face knows she is not going anywhere and she will put up with it all. Goodluck to her.

    • @nneomaibeh2622
      @nneomaibeh2622 2 года назад +20

      Exactly!! My mind was focused on her being 15 while going around with 2face

    • @nanaabenadarkowaah1800
      @nanaabenadarkowaah1800 2 года назад +40

      I think he groomed her and that's also a reason why she can't leave. For her he is perfection.

    • @loysesimbar1093
      @loysesimbar1093 2 года назад +23

      This 15yrs thing is giving real R Kelly vibes grooming.

    • @lvelfe3415
      @lvelfe3415 2 года назад +13

      I agree, when she said “early 20s’:
      20y.o (5 year age difference)
      21 y.o (6 year age difference)
      22 y.o (7 year age difference)
      23 y.o (8 year age difference)
      There is a huge development between 15-20 years old (ummm…puberty and graduating school)He was in completely different stage of life!

    • @RosieTheActress
      @RosieTheActress 2 года назад +9

      @@lvelfe3415, it’s even worse than that. They have a 9 year age difference. Basically, when Annie was a 15 year kid, 2 Face was 24. Yuck!

  • @CapricornMoonGoddess
    @CapricornMoonGoddess 2 года назад +13

    Annie had a chance to make a clean break from him with no children...you did a nice, clear breakdown...thanks!

  • @kinglissa2953
    @kinglissa2953 2 года назад +27

    This is a struggle love I rebuke. I never want any daughter of mine or relative of mine to go through this. The fact that he groomed her since she was 15 means she needs a lot of therapy to wake up. The way she constantly licks his head and face. Ughhh

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes 2 года назад +3

      Yeah that showed me she was lost in the sauce. 🥴😔

  • @simplyblooming1649
    @simplyblooming1649 2 года назад +36

    Nice review Barrister Neze 👍🏾😊. I kept on thinking while watching "Young Famous and African" that Annie has really gone through so much in her relationship and marriage with TuFace. She don see wen! However, I believe that a lot of the pain she has experienced is because she chose to stay. That is a good thing, if it works for her, but I would not recommend that it should be seen as a badge of honor for others to follow. I don't believe it works for everybody. It can be a really toxic and soul shattering place to be. I'm glad to see that she comtinues to grow and place more priority on her own growth and brilliance. It was also interesting for me to hear her experience with her daughter, Olivia who has had several health challenges. That must have been a lot too. I wish them a better and more fulfilling journey going forward.

  • @etorrithesheunice
    @etorrithesheunice 2 года назад +13

    So toxic, I don't need to endured this much to prove my love, my first love I stayed a decade with got a minor pregnant .we were almost about to do our traditional marriage, guess what? I walk away boldly. He thought I couldn't take that bold step, he never stopped he went ahead and had 2 more baby mamas, what if am still around him? I will be stuck same like Annie. He came begging so we get back, but like wtf? The first me having your 5th child? I will be 34 in Sept still no child nor partner but am free from baby mama drama and constant heart ache.

    • @balafama2120
      @balafama2120 Месяц назад

      You will find your own my dear .leave that madness alone and hold your peace.

  • @uzondidiamaka6258
    @uzondidiamaka6258 2 года назад +56

    I didnt want this video to end.its soo enriching and expository. Thank you Neze for this amazing wholesome documentary.
    what i see in this relationship is a dangerous one.One capable of making one take one's life and the life of another.This kind of love have lead to murder suicide and i can bet that Annie's children are the only ones giving her the courage to go on.She is obviously depressed and have lost her self worth.She needs help

    • @TheodoreBakes
      @TheodoreBakes 2 года назад +1

      Yesss, this is exactly the stuff "fatal attraction" and "for my man" episodes are made of.

  • @charisexcel
    @charisexcel 2 года назад +23

    Being a wife is not a price pls.

  • @Immaculateve
    @Immaculateve 2 года назад +11

    If I were Annie, that man would have NEVER seen a baby from me

  • @kksal4375
    @kksal4375 2 года назад +51

    Neze! I loooove how you laid out the whole story from start to finish, great storytelling! I was hooked throughout.
    Honestly, this is very complicated, a number of factors involved here.
    But I think one main thing is that, at the end of the day, both of them fell in love when they were still immature, and this was later coupled with Tuface's fame, money and exposure to women.
    It continues to amaze me how she stuck through with him up until now. But well, since they are still together, I can only wish them the very best.

  • @peonyflowers23
    @peonyflowers23 2 года назад +21

    I understand why Annie is bitter with the baby mamas. She should also be bitter with 2face. Definitely a terrible betrayal.

  • @theexoticalaspielady
    @theexoticalaspielady 2 года назад +43

    Just a few months ago Annie was on social media displaying major distress about the state of her marriage with this man. She revealed what she was really feeling about the state of her marriage. How does that change in a few months, after years of clearly feeling insecure in that marriage. He stays in the marriage because of guilt and fear of what she may do if he left. You have said it before when a woman loves a man more he gets the message that he is the prize and all men want to meet their prize not they are the prize. Every now and then a couple are blessed to be the rare partnership where they are truly seeing each other as their prize. If a person gets that they have truly hit the jackpot, but it’s very rare these days. Most times someone of the two is settling but that’s not always a bad thing when it’s the woman but not when it’s the man. Men are not wired to settle hence their hunter instinct.

    • @Dammiescorner
      @Dammiescorner 2 года назад +6

      The series was recorded june 2021. She had distress this year. He hasn't changed

    • @theexoticalaspielady
      @theexoticalaspielady 2 года назад +14

      @@Dammiescorner Yes, Annie lowkey cannot come to terms with what he has done having 5 children with other women since she has been involved with him. No one envy’s her position at all 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @carolynololade4126
      @carolynololade4126 2 года назад +7

      @@theexoticalaspielady Absolutely nobody

    • @kinuthiakaranja8622
      @kinuthiakaranja8622 2 года назад +2

      emotional manipuation

    • @amanda51600
      @amanda51600 2 года назад +5

      @@theexoticalaspielady A lot of women will file in a very very long line to marry 2 face even now and Pero envied her position the reason why she can’t move on herself and remain to be a constant bone in Annie’s throat. Every one is blaming Annie for stooping low to marry him what about the baby mama whom he rejected after giving him file of children. Pero should be ashamed of trying all these yrs to break the two and even to the point of bribing him with children but yet she was still abandoned.If I were her I will hide my face in shame and leave these two ordained lovers enjoy their marriage in peace.

  • @UniqueBolanle
    @UniqueBolanle 2 года назад +29

    Annie has been through a lot in the hands of Tuface. I feel so sorry for her though but can never be me.

  • @mayongegbe1811
    @mayongegbe1811 2 года назад +42

    marriage doesn't cure lust .................i think if Annie Idibia understood this statement deeply then she would not have expected ''Tuface's wild ways" to end after he got married to her.....i think for the sake of her mental health , she can look for a way to tolerate her husband's baby mamas ,so she can have some sort of peace of mind to look after her own kids......hmmm i hail Annie ooo ,this kind love too hard ooo,no b for me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @judithodinaka4028
      @judithodinaka4028 2 года назад +5

      I love that word marriage does not cure lust and i will add that love doea not equate and and cannot exist when there is no self control

    • @Theowosa180
      @Theowosa180 2 года назад +4

      😂🤣😂 I nor join this kind love oooo….I nor sabi at all…..😂🤣

    • @chinenyennamonunwokoye1462
      @chinenyennamonunwokoye1462 2 года назад +4

      Word: "marriage cannot cure lust"

  • @wilson-omusodaniella4404
    @wilson-omusodaniella4404 2 года назад +13

    Your narration skills is second to none!! Love it

  • @sherlzv2290
    @sherlzv2290 2 года назад +24

    I wouldn’t stay no matter what. I left this guy I was in love with bc he had a baby while I was talking to him. I moved on so fast after that bc I was extremely disrespected. A man don’t really love you if he goes and have kid with another women.

  • @zuzunoxmtombeni4416
    @zuzunoxmtombeni4416 2 года назад +10

    Never love a man more than he loves you,you will be his door mat,Marriage is not an achievement nor you have to endure it,Annie middle name is endurance,she gives me headache because what is she teaching her daughters?

  • @StylezOfCole
    @StylezOfCole 2 года назад +63

    I don’t blame Annie for staying given the fact that he’s the only man she has ever known. I pray he grows up 😒

  • @BukenziosCorner
    @BukenziosCorner 2 года назад +36

    I'm speechless, you nailed this... I think Annie is a perfect definition of obsession, she is so obsessed with tuface that she think she can never have a life outside tuface.. It's just do unfortunate but I wish them well sha

  • @obaalady
    @obaalady 2 года назад +14

    This is emotional torture. Her marriage is toxic to her. I was in a similar situation but hey I let him go to keep my sanity and I thank God I did. When love burns, you let go

  • @ConnectWithUganda
    @ConnectWithUganda 2 года назад +7

    I don’t think Annie will ever be happy. When her and hubby renewed vows, she said something like “baby no more cheating” so cringe 😬 She needs to find herself, one’s life and happiness can’t be solely dependent on another individual, that’s giving away too much of one’s power. It’s so sad, I’m not sure what example she’s shown her daughters, I’m not the one to judge. no woman or even man for that matter should ever accept such disrespect and humiliation from another human.

  • @jokebalogun6932
    @jokebalogun6932 2 года назад +14

    That statement to stick with a man even though the man is promiscuous is stupid, foolish and not needed for any woman to do, did you know that this line of action by Annie has sent a lot of women to early grave, mental breakdown, etc etc. So Annie’s behaviour is not a yardstick for our younger girls to go by.

  • @ritarolandclosetlifestyle
    @ritarolandclosetlifestyle 2 года назад +91

    Annie tolerating the situation in the first place is stupid when a man disrespect you on that level you leave him there is no need to get married to him and start having kids.
    When you decided to accept his behavior then she don’t have to complain.
    It is because he is rich and famous that is why she accepted his behavior
    WOULD SHE ACCEPT THIS FROM A POOR GUY ? NO

    • @Theowosa180
      @Theowosa180 2 года назад +19

      God bless you oooo….lots of people are saying she’s brave…..brave for what exactly…..her marriage is not a good example for young girls to follow at all too emotional damage

    • @bolanleadisa
      @bolanleadisa 2 года назад +25

      You're underestimating the power of grooming. She was a teenager when she met him. I think she was 15 and he was 24. Her entire adult existence and identity are wrapped up in this man. Walking away may not be an option for her. Let's have some compassion.

    • @ritarolandclosetlifestyle
      @ritarolandclosetlifestyle 2 года назад +15

      A woman should always make her husband or boyfriend understand that if he misbehaved by disrespecting her that she can leave. So that he would not take you for granted.

    • @diva3588
      @diva3588 2 года назад +2

      @@bolanleadisa 15yrs is supposed to be in secondary school.

    • @amanda51600
      @amanda51600 2 года назад +4

      @@bolanleadisa thank you very much those people blaming Annie are those who have never “falling in real love “ and not all these “money love these day”There is sacrifice in “real love”

  • @dianabibalou932
    @dianabibalou932 2 года назад +61

    I have a big headache Just listening to that story! I feel for his children specially the daughters who are growing up watching their mother emotionally tortured by the one she loves. Definitely Annie must be traumatized she really need a therapy. The only big winner of this mess is the man. I really feel for the children though!

  • @Nezeville
    @Nezeville  2 года назад +17

    Love in its truest form OR an emotionally abusive relationship??👇
    Watch this also⬇️
    WHY ANNIE MUST forget MONOGAMY and ACCEPT HER HUSBAND's BABY MAMAs!
    ruclips.net/video/isaInknZ0-0/видео.html

    • @daphnieozioma
      @daphnieozioma 2 года назад +8

      I would say Annie loves Her husband more than she loves herself. It is almost like the curse of your "First Love". They started dating when she was young and the cindarella complex never left. If she had dated another genuine man in the space of the first series of children, she would not be where she is (mentally) right now, she might not have ended up with the guy, but it would have given her room to rediscover herself outside a relationship with Tu-face.

    • @daphnieozioma
      @daphnieozioma 2 года назад +2

      Secondly, people are saying its because he has money, Annie was never a broke girl. If you read some mom blogs/pages on IG you still see people who are in the same shoes with annie for deadbeat broke ass men. they have been dating since they were teenagers, now in their 30's with children, some never married the guy and the guy is living with them and cheating on them.

    • @Ada-jq7xn
      @Ada-jq7xn 2 года назад +3

      Annie is too in love and when a woman loves more, she suffers

    • @uzondidiamaka6258
      @uzondidiamaka6258 2 года назад

      Thank you Neze for this amazing wholesome documentary.
      what i see in this relationship is a dangerous one.One capable of making one take one's life and the life of another.This kind of love have lead to murder suicide and i can bet that Annie's children are the only ones giving her the courage to go on.She is obviously depressed and have lost her self worth.She needs help

  • @maryjo2394
    @maryjo2394 2 года назад +33

    Hope annie doesn't snap one day and hurt herself and the husband because it seems that marriage is her everything.

  • @akuasalaam490
    @akuasalaam490 2 года назад +19

    Annie's self-esteem and self-love is NON-EXISTENT.

  • @SimplyUju
    @SimplyUju 2 года назад +15

    I love the way you talk about these topics🥰

  • @katlehom6008
    @katlehom6008 2 года назад +16

    She has absolutely no love for herself. She's in so much pain my heart bleeds for her

  • @sbonelocele3711
    @sbonelocele3711 2 года назад +3

    It's giving I sure won't stay, but i'll be damned if I ever leave💔

  • @imohndiokho5535
    @imohndiokho5535 2 года назад +21

    Anie needs space from tuface to find herself, develop a healthy level of self esteem and learn to love herself for herself. Her happiness has been dependent on tuface for far too long. It makes her weak, vulnerable and emotionally stagnant. It almost seems like tuface married her bcus she would simply die if he hadn't and he didn't want that on his conscience. My take...

  • @vanessanjoh3759
    @vanessanjoh3759 2 года назад +12

    Ur story time is always so interesting so so interesting, 2 face na baba for dem girls chia

  • @islandgirl7519
    @islandgirl7519 2 года назад +4

    1st time hearing about him.

  • @bisolabamise
    @bisolabamise 2 года назад +9

    Wow such a detailed video ,have you considered hosting a T.V show?

  • @jobelspace5
    @jobelspace5 2 года назад +7

    This review was top notch👍🏾Well explained❤️ I wish them all the best onwards🙏🏾

  • @amelia07
    @amelia07 2 года назад +7

    Amazing review on this. Very interesting. You did great on the history. Annie has really gone through a lot.

  • @lilysimiyu4799
    @lilysimiyu4799 2 года назад +25

    “Everyone saying Annie stood up for two face and now she’s his wife ‘’.. is very stupid . That woman called Anna is very insecure about herself . ..A very beautiful woman like her should have married someone else . She shouldn’t have waited for a man who is in-love with another woman .. two face is in love with his First baby mama . He feels sorry for Ann and that why his with her but given any opportunity he will definitely go with that his first baby mama Annie just Divorce him and Move on . He loves his first baby mama can’t you see . Very soon baby number 4 will soon show up ⬆️ or the man should Marry the 1st baby mama too ..where does he want her to go with 3kids ? Ann your husband has two wives … you and the first baby mama .

    • @DorisWanjohiGifttv
      @DorisWanjohiGifttv 2 года назад +3

      Dear nimeinteract with Naija ladies and they really like enduring pain in the name of loving men

  • @lauraokoro3888
    @lauraokoro3888 2 года назад +6

    Wow! Your explanation was quite elaborate and comprehensive

  • @anulipauline8832
    @anulipauline8832 2 года назад +9

    Neze now u come!!!! First to Comment!!!
    Annie was so naive before she jumped into that marriage, she did nt do the mathematics very well, first of all, kids are involved, and u know how our culture sees male kids, she has to accept it or live the marriage b4 depression comes in, becos forever Peru will ever be in 2face heart, she has 3kids foe him, it's his children,

  • @sqrd3536
    @sqrd3536 2 года назад +21

    Marrying a player has it's consequences. This is a case of dangerous love bordering on to obsession. This is a serious sad case of ' if I can't have him I will keep him close' by giving him kids.
    Annie is in denial this guy might have been seeing other women when they met. The guy just likes variety Annie has to accept it and heal. Some women cling on to husbands than their self respect.

  • @angelaakusu5740
    @angelaakusu5740 2 года назад +16

    Love your video quality & your analysis of the whole story...very interesting and detailed. Annie's love for Tuface to me is actually toxic. She should have loved herself enough to move on to a better relationship, at least for her self respect, mental health and sanity😔 Tuface is not the only man on the planet, superstar or not... He continually disrespected her by repeatedly getting his baby mamas pregnant while in so called relationship with Annie. That kind of suffer die love is nothing but toxic. No human being is worth that much suffering, hurt and betrayal. She accepted all that terrible behaviour from him before marrying him, so there's no saying that he won't treat her worse even if he marries her. Afterall, she was okay with such behaviour all along in their relationship and it has become the norm.

  • @mercybadoe3086
    @mercybadoe3086 2 года назад +36

    The Irony of his name being Innocent smh

  • @Tee_Nosike
    @Tee_Nosike 2 года назад +7

    OMG!!! I can't wait for your next video already 😍😍 you're so intelligent I feel like swallowing everything you say😂😂

  • @gistwithtoryteller247
    @gistwithtoryteller247 2 года назад +8

    On this Annie and 2face issue eh... I don't even have anything to say. Thank you Neze for this timely and detailed analysis. Some of us knew the tale in parts but you have disserted well so we now understand it in totality.

  • @Bee_Vibes
    @Bee_Vibes 2 года назад +32

    This sounds like a horror movie 😱😱

  • @mellisakayanja7246
    @mellisakayanja7246 2 года назад +3

    I don’t think I can endure all that .. the moment I start having bby mamas I find my way out of the relationship

  • @Scoop777
    @Scoop777 5 месяцев назад +3

    It reminds me of the Stockholm Syndrome where a victim becomes attached to her abductor and oppressor. Annie was groomed and made dependant on him from 15 years of age when she was still only a child. She has no other man to compare him to since she has never dated or loved any other man.

  • @fefeasp2697
    @fefeasp2697 2 года назад +2

    Hunty..😊 you are spilling some tea..wow is all I can say. Thanks for sharing 🤗.

  • @Dailycatholicprayers
    @Dailycatholicprayers 2 года назад +5

    You really had your research done. Great video

  • @daunarees3710
    @daunarees3710 2 года назад +7

    If she is going to thrive in that marriage she has to accept them all. The children are young and he is their father and he is involved in their life. Graduation, prom, wedding, grand children and the list goes on. She needs to love herself and heal from all that hurt and heartbreak 💔

  • @soniaharrison1016
    @soniaharrison1016 2 года назад +8

    Hopefully, Annie will see some of these comments and give her a moment of "where is my self esteem".

  • @OnlyloveandGod
    @OnlyloveandGod 2 года назад +10

    A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing while a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything.....
    Not everyone can handle sudden riches and fame, remember that Tuface also ditched faze and black faze.
    Annie and tu face broke up severally during those scandals yet they always came back together.

    • @mariamasworld5440
      @mariamasworld5440 2 года назад +1

      So right

    • @jerryotakwu8039
      @jerryotakwu8039 2 года назад +3

      Yes. It pains me 2face hurt this lady. Annie. After what they have been through.

    • @DorisWanjohiGifttv
      @DorisWanjohiGifttv 2 года назад +9

      Breaking up and remaking often is a sign of toxicity not love. Dear girls learn to raise the bar for yourselves

  • @christinenzioki4588
    @christinenzioki4588 2 года назад +11

    This is Madness and disrespect of the highest level 😲😲

  • @carinamutima1631
    @carinamutima1631 2 года назад +3

    Me i to happened i knew the man first but my baby is the third one but i quit i thank Jesus Christ now i love my self and am worthy .
    That happens coz lack of self love but now ME am loved by my own self

  • @4ever911
    @4ever911 2 года назад +8

    Well detailed. Well done.

  • @sandrae4912
    @sandrae4912 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for the information. That explains a lot. I'm guessing they met when they were still too young and maybe hadn't explored other relationships. Well I doubt she had. People grow and change and the gaps in between the relationship explains a lot but they're older now. Hopefully wiser but I do agree that the other lady with 3 kids would be a problem unless she had moved on and was dating someone else. Annie has too much trauma from their past history. That takes time to heal but its up to him to be consistent in being faithful and putting her first like she has.

  • @Dailycatholicprayers
    @Dailycatholicprayers 2 года назад +9

    It’s a lot, fantasies from reading mills and boons, not loving herself enough, and wanting to stay in a comfort zone that isn’t even comfortable enough, it’s a lot with her

  • @paulettebajangal
    @paulettebajangal 2 года назад +8

    Couldn't be me. Wow. He stuck with Annie because she accepted all the BS. Not because he loved her at all.

  • @Necky.N
    @Necky.N 2 года назад +34

    Anne is madly in love with 2fface.All she needs is for 2face to create boundaries between her and other baby Mama's.

    • @ogberekeayebi446
      @ogberekeayebi446 2 года назад +7

      Pero is the problem not Anne because she can’t have 2baba she want to kuku spoil everything

    • @TheDosuFamily
      @TheDosuFamily 2 года назад +1

      She should have asked that for that and make sure he was doing that b4 she married him

    • @chinenyennamonunwokoye1462
      @chinenyennamonunwokoye1462 2 года назад +2

      @@ogberekeayebi446 some of these things are not just about the baby mama and tuface. The kids may also contribute to this.
      What if the 3 kids kept on crying over the fact that they have never experienced a regular family life like most of their peers. They communicate with their Dad and can lire him into making a promise that he will come to stay in the same house with them and their mum for a couple of weeks to give them that whole family feel.
      They would persuade their mum till she drops all objections. These kids are not toddlers that you can shun. Don't underestimate the power of children in a home o. They might not have envisaged the outcome on their mum's image before the public eyes or the effect on their Dad's relationship wirh his wife Annie.
      I am just saying my thoughts o, i haven't said that this is exactly what played out because i was not there abeg o.

    • @jerryotakwu8039
      @jerryotakwu8039 2 года назад +4

      This is best comment here so far. Annie is 2face number one before 2face choose her to marry among all those ladies. There is a reason. 2face never forget how they started he love Annie knows annie is the only woman that can build is home.the marriage life is not perfect. No lady here will tell me there marriage life is rosy. You can never here anything from the second baby mama because she knows her place. Pero want to be queen in 2face 🏰 castle but she does not have those attributes that’s what men need. No one is a saint. Annie still remain the best.

    • @sbusisiweshaba1715
      @sbusisiweshaba1715 2 года назад +1

      She's not in love, she's trauma bonded.

  • @mrsranciz
    @mrsranciz 2 года назад +3

    Tu Baba no do Annie well sha! This thing called Love...smh!

  • @candidtalkswithlauvena1835
    @candidtalkswithlauvena1835 2 года назад +1

    Woooow, I have watched the South African serie, the way you have reacted to it to this! You nailed it dearest in a mature, polite and diplomatic way👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️,you made me love Anny too much. I personally think she grew with him, and she's probably a woman of principle, yeah the pain won't go just like that, I hope the best for her. On the other hand maybe she must just learn to leave with the carater of her hubby, of wich I believe that one day in their older age things will get better. I wish them well🙏💕💞

  • @uche6782
    @uche6782 2 года назад +5

    Hahaha.. 🎶 i like woman i dey straight forward!!!!!!!!!! 🎶

  • @malingosenkunika6623
    @malingosenkunika6623 23 дня назад

    You have come a long way neze,, I do think your stories are more interesting when you use your Nigerian accent… comment from Zambia 🇿🇲

  • @njesh7499
    @njesh7499 2 года назад +3

    He is called 2 face what did she expect hahaha

  • @pattygscakesandtreats
    @pattygscakesandtreats 2 года назад +6

    she was totally vulnerable in that Reality TV show, omg. Annie don try jare

  • @gloryohia4836
    @gloryohia4836 Год назад +2

    That was really raw/undiluted love ❤️ She has 2 move on, no going back, kids are involved. That's all

  • @childofthemighty1341
    @childofthemighty1341 2 года назад +6

    Cheating men give children who look exactly like them.

  • @abigailakor
    @abigailakor 2 года назад +5

    What a prize, she should come and take award.

  • @pamelagold7747
    @pamelagold7747 2 года назад +61

    Nigerian women find pride in pain. I don't pity her one bit. During her interview her countenance of pride when she said 2face's 5th child was her first child and they go wooow!!!! That satisfied fulfilment on her face was epic. No matter what anyone says, 2face is the kind of man that fits her.

    • @Nezeville
      @Nezeville  2 года назад +33

      " pride in pain".. hmnnn
      Couldn't be put better..
      Its comes from upbringing and the mentality imposed by society..

    • @pamelagold7747
      @pamelagold7747 2 года назад +32

      @@Nezeville the society that imposed it were our mothers, we were taught to accept whatever our husbands do to us, your ability to stand the pain and grief ur husband brings to you is what makes you a WOMAN, the moment u say u can't take it anymore, then you're less than a human being, calling you a woman is going to be an insult to the "real" virtuous women who stand by their husband's bullshit.

    • @zinnykalu1308
      @zinnykalu1308 2 года назад +13

      Tuface is the kind of man that fits her…really???
      We should shaa be kind with our words

    • @pamelagold7747
      @pamelagold7747 2 года назад +3

      @@zinnykalu1308 light a candle, now place your hands over it and allow it burn you, then come back and let me pet you to sleep and sing a lullaby. I've got a sweet voice too😉

    • @carolynololade4126
      @carolynololade4126 2 года назад +3

      @@pamelagold7747 Comments like this should be pinned 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @walterdada2059
    @walterdada2059 2 года назад +5

    What difference does it make?
    The baby mama is practically his wife too. They have been sharing before now, so what's the difference???