Find a list of soothing phrases and have your wife pick three and memorize those. When she's anxious give her a hug and softly say those phrases in her ear. Example: we're going to get through this together. I'm not going anywhere. Your needs are important to me.
I think Yoda would say: " *Leave or don't leave, there is no dealing with it* " .. apologizes for sounding like a Sith Lord right now but your dangerously entering the arena of asking for manipulation advice. But I suppose if you wanted to play on the darkside, you could strategically make sure that you are always placed in the Rescuer role and make sure there is always a 3rd party that is the Persecutor.. because we all know they are always going to be the Victim. Project that life out.. a wasted life on a beautiful planet - but always trapped in the drama.
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Your videos are super insightful and helpful! Thank you for the content! Excited to watch this one :)
Find a list of soothing phrases and have your wife pick three and memorize those. When she's anxious give her a hug and softly say those phrases in her ear. Example: we're going to get through this together. I'm not going anywhere. Your needs are important to me.
Would love some vids on dealing with anxious-avoidant women
I'm dealing with one now, man,it's crazy
I think Yoda would say: " *Leave or don't leave, there is no dealing with it* " .. apologizes for sounding like a Sith Lord right now but your dangerously entering the arena of asking for manipulation advice.
But I suppose if you wanted to play on the darkside, you could strategically make sure that you are always placed in the Rescuer role and make sure there is always a 3rd party that is the Persecutor.. because we all know they are always going to be the Victim. Project that life out.. a wasted life on a beautiful planet - but always trapped in the drama.
An amazing video, very helpful, especially with the examples of you and your wife, not just some general ones 🙌🏻
Wish my ex was aware of what you are saying, instead of going with blame game.