You're speaking the truth. I'm 32, home schooling my kids, they're more social than any kid from public school. Also you're not the first person to say it's child abuse to send your kid to public school. My wife was, then me. So you're the third. 😅
As someone who's been homeschooled, I can say that it has genuinely been one of the main factors for my current success. My parents let me write a book when I was 9, and in terms of social life, I've become one of the most outgoing and confident people in my social circles. There's also often homeschool groups in most countries so I've never missed when it comes to interacting with people my age. I look at those who have been brainwashed through the school system and it's made me realise how degraded society is becoming. Homeschooling is the solution, I can attest it that.
Was it hard for you adapting to the "outside world" and making friends after you was homeschooled cause ik some kids have a hard time adapting cause they've been in this homeschool circle for a very long time
@@lyadderouazi4219 There was no adaptation needed, I was never alienated or isolated from society in anyway, as is a common misconception around homeschooling. My parents have good, tradional, non-woke and open minded beliefs, which has lead to me being more "normal" then most of my peers. I will admit that their are a few "hippie airy fairy" people who homeschool their kids, who's kids ended up on the lower end of the intellectual spectrum, and of course their are the neglecting parents who's kids didn't end up getting a proper education. It is really up to the parents to what level of achievement they want their children to achieve, so I think by the time people like us want to raise children, we need to make sure that we are bringing them up to be good and successful people, like what is explained in this video.
See my whole problem with home schooling is getting an actual understanding of what I was being taught. Now I did online schooling which I’m not 100% if it’s similar. I was getting 80s and 90s when I should have 100% have gotten 50 maximum on those subjects. It was just too easy
As a 14 year old living in America enrolled in the public school system I have a few things to say. My parents are very anti-self-improvement. My mom is indoctrinated by the media and social media, She thinks that me wanting to be a masculine man is gross and disgusting she has said that the way I am is gross to my face. My dad thinks he's right all of the time and is very limiting to me. I have taken it upon myself to become even a shadow of the man that I want and understand I need to be you saved me from degeneracy Hamza, I thank you.
I was homeschooled for 3 years (14-16yrs old) and that time was super educational for me. I learned how to get shit done by myself, to find discipline to study, resist temptation for lazyness, take full responsibility for the way that my life is going, all while having tons of free time to seek what i like. Surprisingly i was very social, in the evenings i would go to BJJ club, hiphop dance classes, acting classes, language group classes and others (i actually have met my long term girlfriend on 7 days backpacking camp for homeschoolers in the mountains). I think that every child should be homeschooled for at least 3 years. To put that into perspective i had the time of my life in primary school and highschool, meeting many of my current friends and having amazing teachers (not a public school), but i still think that homeschooling was the best.
homeschooling should teach you how to face the world. The more you know and understand about it the more you will get to set your child up for success. General Education's bullshit, and the things you learn about are borderline outdated and matters of casual hobby at best. So instead of doing rats ass biology do something you enjoy or WOULD enjoy if you'd do it, while also preparing him for the outside world. Don't actively chase to prepare yourself necessarily, but I suggest you'd venture over as many things as you can... That's what Life used to be about...
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Hamza you are absolutely correct, I am 16 in going to a public high school right now and it is literally impossible for me to fit in and make friends, I know two guys who are somewhat into self improvement but no where near the level that I am and that's it. All my jeffery "friends" make fun of me for not wanting to do drugs sit around and eat shit food with them, I have been very alone the past few months, but I wouldn't say I'm lonely because I know I'm not missing out on anything. I never considered home schooling, mostly just because of my age and I haven't thought much about fatherhood, but I agree that it is the best path. And the "missing out on social skills" is bullshit. I know a few home schooled kids who have way better social skills than most kids you would find at my school, and they are infinitely smarter. By any chance you're reading this, I'd just like to thank you for changing my life, I have been watching since September and have made so much progress on every front of my life, thank you so much Hamza.
My friends drink alcohol, smoke weed and cigarettes all the time. (We're 19) I hate that so much that I began distancing myself from them so that I am not influenced by these people.
Dude I just graduated last year. I was blessed to be disconnected from the “norm”. I don’t talk to almost anyone from school and I’ve found a group of guys locally who are into the same stuff as me. You won’t regret the missed parties or the girls that could’ve been
Looks like you have 2 more years. Bro you have to know that humans influence each other even if they want to stick to their own values in the first place. I've been in the exact same situation, what I did was to influence the other guys with positive energy instead of getting influenced by them. I really hated some of these guys. Suckers. But now they are okay. Drink no more alcohol, lift weights, we have interesting discussion Sometimes. Believe me it's better to have them on your side for than have them against you. No need to become close friends, just try change them so that they are better.
My mom homeschooled me for many years as a kid, and it was the best thing my parents did for me. I ended up being so much more independent and strong as a young boy, learning how to do work on my own and learn in a focused way one-on-one. I fully believe homeschooling is the best route, it completely avoids all indoctrination that goes on in public and even private schools. Those skills my mom taught me are genuinely life-changing and now help me become an independent lifelong learner. I even had a social life as my parents put me in piano lessons, sports, etc. As a father or mother, you should be a teacher and role model in as many ways as possible. Learning from them, especially if done the right way, creates such a special bond with your parents that you can't emulate when you simply send them off for 7 hours a day to be brainwashed.
I disagree. If I were to homeschooled I never would have grown abilities to understand school system, myself, meet best friend (which I have known ever since 8th grade) and socialize with others. Granted I wasn't that popular kid who everyone knew if you dont include the fact that I was the local target of school bullying. But It gave me valuable experiences that I couldn't get from homeschooling. Also there is this angle of dyslexia. In school I was given the necessary amount of attention because my academic hinderance. My parents didn't have the tools to fix/correct my learning difficulties. Only speaking therapist and school has those skills and background. Also I'm from Finland and our school system is one of the best if not the best one out there so why I wouldn't give same opportunity to my kids If I ever have ones?
@Normaali Ihminen you can easily make friends and have good social skills from homeschooling bcuz homeschooling ≠ staying at home for ur whole life Currently it's much easier to discover yourself if ur homeschooled, u prbbly know this teens follow trends and try to become the best and appear the best they could in front of others I wouldn't see that ad discovering myself let alone the word stuff that happens in certain countries and the brainwashing from their peers like questioning sexuality
@@What_are_handles I reiterate: parents rarely don’t have necessary tools to tackle dyslexia especially if family is from working class background. Only schools and its teachers who are university educated can spot those learning difficulties. In Finland every school teacher has university degrees. That’s mandatory for getting into education career.
@@normaaliihminen722 I disagree because finnish schools are literally the #1 in the entire world. We have it a lot harder anywhere else, for example, germany…
Thank you Hamza. This video came out the day after I got my mom to unenroll me from a public charter school and start homeschooling. This is exactly everything I've been thinking about lately. Wish me luck boys, my progress is going to be unbelievable
Hamza. Everyone knows that you change people's lives by guiding them. But you know how they say people 'find themselves'? You've inspired me to experiment in different ways with myself on improvement and I'm truly finding an intrinsic level of progress which I couldn't get externally. Thank you, and keep helping other people do this.
@@juanamador5140 bro I think there comes a phase where we can guide ourselves which leads to much better progress than getting external knowledge, and I think it's just something every person on self improvement goes through at some point
Hi Hamza, So im now 13y old, i live in Brazil and i discovered your channel with 12y and i'm so grateful for you, i started to going to the gym, reading, really going in to self improvement, sorry if have some english errors, i am trying to getting better at that language, so thank u Hamza for everything u teach me :)
I’m graduating from high school in one month from a private school. Over the years I went to 2 public schools and 2 private schools and I’m telling you there is close to no difference. I can name so many kids at my current private school who are living a filthy dirty life that I wouldn’t want my children being around. Thank you for speaking truth Hamza.
same im half homeschooled, like i attend a dedicated online school, and there is a little bit of a difference because the one im going to actually has entry requirements and a selection process but there are still a ton of crappy people
@@-whackd yep my mom died when i was 7 but she was one of the best woman in this world. She taught me most of the things about balanced diet, what to cook when. In a week everyday cook fish, 2 day cook chicken, one vegetable items everyday by the side and not dry foods it has to be cooked well and every friday special food items bcz its weekend in Bangladesh. My mom's dream was to become a cook. And she was the most disciplined in my family and my dad is also a strong man he worked in defence. I miss my family i live far now 🖤
You open my eyes hamza I’m a 16 year old in Highschool and every since starting self improvement I’ve felt like I’m the odd one out. People find me weird for reading during lunch, or my free time in classes. They class me crazy for working out at 4 in the morning. They find me not using socials anymore strange or doing drugs strange. So thank you for helping me realize I’m above average, and there’s a reason I don’t fit in
I'm 22, I am the primary caretaker of my son, and I am going to do everything in my power to create a life of love and creation, the kind of life we're meant to have . A life of purpose. We will create the systems and way of living that we needed as children.
Personally i think Switzerland is by far the best country to raise you're Children. I grew up there and the education system is honestly amazing and you have so much social activities its almost impossible not to find friends.
I also live in Switzerland. Nowadays Swiss education is all about feminism and lgbt. Apart from this it is a fantastic country: safe, rich, beautiful, with a solid global reputation. It's probably the best place to raise a daughter. But too safe to raise a son. To raise a daughter in Europe --> Switzerland. To raise a son in Europe --> Netherlands or France.
@Itsme Alex I wasn't aware about that law. I wrote Netherlands because it is a country were violence can happen. But it remains a country with a lot of opportunities to build a great life if you work for it. Same as France.
I'm grateful for your kindness in sharing information like this. I know you will be able to raise your kids well and teach them to be better than our generation could ever be, and again thank you for helping us with how to do the same for our own children. You've genuinely changed (and saved) hundreds of thousands of young men's lives, and you've changed mine. Thank you.
As someone who was homeschooled up until highschool, at the age I was I didn't have much to do with the free time that homeschooling gave me. Due to this I decided that I wanted to go to school. I ended up going to a private high school and I'm almost on my last year of high school. My thought is that homeschooling is good but you have to help your children find passions that they can chase and things they can work toward in the extra free time and at that time in my life I decided that I wanted a more fixed schedule. If I was to be homeschooled now, I would have more passions to work on in the free time, earning money, working out, making music, etc. Homeschooling is good if you are ok with a more "up in the air" schedule.
Your parents should have forced you into cadets, a martial art, working out, 4H, maybe a type of dance class, etc. Unfortunately your parents didn't put in effort to expose you to anything in your free time.
@@-whackdtbh to me it doesn't matter if someone has a "mediocre" life. A mediocre life is only mediocre if you want it tobe. Someone who lives a mediocre life but is happy with lives better than someone with a mediocre life and hating it
Bro, your content lately has been like no other. It aligns exactly with my mindset and world view. I'm looking forward to continue this journey with you. Really appreciate all you're doing.
I was homeschooled for 2 years and just now going back to a high-quality school. My parents understood that there were crazy people in public schools, especially during Covid-19, so they homeschooled us. I'm not even kidding, I learned more in 1 year of homeschooling than 4 years of public. I won't lie, I was a bit lazy from here and there and during the end but still, incredible. As we go back now my parents made sure that the school, we went to would honestly set up an incredible future for us. Opportunity, goal setting, and not being forced to follow the scripted way of life. I love and truly appreciate my parents.
Mate you literally took the words out of my mouth, i was always a rebel against the school system, Honesty one of the best times i remember from Secondary School in year 11 was climbing the fence out of school at Lunchtime and walking home scott free like a badass to my loving Family ,So Glad i dont go to that brain-washing prison. Fuck the system, i had always felt this way before even watching you Hamza, i am grateful that i have this higher conciousness and wisdom, Glad i found Someone to relate to ,Love you Hamza youre a GodSend its never too late, to save the younger generation, youre awesome Man.
To homeschool children we must develope and improve ourselves. To be able to share with a child valuable knowledge about the world and science. Otherwise we will be just toxic parents who can't even explain basic and elementary things to him
Thank you for sharing your view on homeschooling, I agree with everything you have said and i have always argued the same thing within regards to schooling systems and socializing being a homeschooler myself etc youd definitely make a great dad when the time comes 💯💖✨
All of my issues stem from being bullied in school. Not just verbally, but physically. I had a friend that was homeschooled and he was friends with all the people playing sports, which have a much higher % of good people than the average school kids. Bullying is the biggest problem in my eyes.
Take it from one Hamza to another, homeschooling is the way forward for sure. I’ve always planned to do so with my future kids, God willing. My parents were pretty based and way ahead of their time realising this 20+ years ago. Back then there weren’t many resources for home education, but they made it work. Socialising was never a problem for me, since as you mentioned, I would always be at some sort of extracurricular class. Homeschooling us afforded us the liberty to spend our time as we wanted to, so my childhood/early teenage years consisted of martial art training, spending time in nature, memorising the Quran and studying at the optimal rate for us (without being rushed/hindered by the classes progress). Furthermore it actually instils a love for learning into your kids, rather than just rote learning useless knowledge dictated by some authority figure to regurgitate in an exam and forget. Looking forward to seeing where this series goes!
I disagree. You would be damned if you have learning difficulty and you were homeschooled. Also I'm from Finland which has continuously ranked one of the best school systems out there so why I wouldn't give same chances to my kids if I ever want?
@Gal Gameplays not true. Also I’m more than happy to pay more taxes if I get more socioeconomic benefits like non paid education, healthcare. I don’t have to sell arm and a leg for ambulance services or hospital bills
@@normaaliihminen722 Finland has a far better school system than most of the rest of the world. With that said, I think it goes back to what Hamza was saying; I’d like to think that we’re developing into the sort of men who could handle any potential learning or educational difficulties our kids could be faced with. The obstacle has always been the way. Besides, I know for a fact that I’d rather help my kid through that and bring in professionals where necessary rather than handing them over to the educational system to wreak havoc on them. I don’t think schools really go out their way to accommodate those those with learning impairments. But to each their own. It’s a personal decision I guess. If they need to attend a school to tick certain boxes or achieve mandatory high school qualifications later on then fair enough. I went to a bricks and mortar school to do so in my later teenage years. The thought of sending a young child to school is sickening to me though
This was amazing. I have just become a father and I know that I've got a lot of room to grow. I want my son to be the best he can. Thank you for your discipline Hazma 💪
Alright I get the point: social life won’t be ruined. I’ll homeschool my children alright, but my concern comes from not the friends but the enemies and conflict. I feel that the conflict and situations I have personally experienced have built my character and I can’t simulate such while homeschooling. Generally, if the children are in like an MMA club, they’re probably well mannered kids there to begin with. What I’m questioning is 2 things: First is how will they build the mindset to get out of conflict and stressful situations without being inside those scenarios, because it doesn’t matter how many books you read, you’ll not retain. any of that when the time comes and things start going down. I’m also concerned on the second thing, the value of my information on them. I don’t want my really important lessons to be ‘Just another teaching’ or ‘Oh look, Dad is telling us something again’. Because I will have to teach them more things and talk more, value of my words will eventually start to go down. Just like over-saturating the market with a product. Again, I will still homeschool, but these are just the things I’m thinking of that I feel are not answered well in my head.
Right but with the way things are going right now, there isn’t much conflict at all. And if there is, boys are taught to talk it out and not be aggressive. That’s at a very young age and that’s why shit doesn’t actually go down that often. Bc kids are taught that being disagreeable and rebellious is bad, when it’s really about a balance and learning to be assertive. Also, you can definitely roleplay.
If your son knows MMA, why would anybody try to get into a conflict with him, understanding that we will just end up in a choke-hold, apologizing profusely.
@@BerserkerErik In context of peer pressure among teens it seems that 99% cases can be easily solved with even a very mild version violence. I mean would you pick one someone, who can mop the floor with your ass? I guess not, so...
An Important metric for choosing where to raise your children is Neighbors, when the parents are friends with the neighboring parents and the children are friends with the neighboring children you form a wonderful community that surpasses any school in terms of developing social skills, they play football or basket ball or ride bikes together in the streets, they form a bond together that may last a lifetime, they help each other through adversities and celebrate occasions together meanwhile in school even if you have a best friend if you don't live close you're very likely to lose touch and go your separate ways once school ends. Btw there are many people commenting about homeschooling their children or being homeschooled, can you perhaps do a few episodes interviewing with them so we can learn from them?
I'm 14 turning 15, I enjoy these videos soooo much I can't tell you, but in the back of my head I'm always thinking, do I need to be watching this. It's weird because I think that but I'm also waiting for videos from Hamza. If I had big brother, you would be it. I am a big brother and I'm trying to teach my brother these things who is 12 and just started high school, so maybe I leave him alone unless he comes too me, I don't know. I've implemented about 90% of your videos into my life, waking up at 6am, getting a workout in for about an hour, increasing my calories in healthy manner, getting all my work finished, helping out my family in every way possible I could. Then I get home, more work, do boxing, eat, sleep, repeat. I've given up social media such as TikTok and Instagram and all that, but obviously my hormones are just randomly taking over which I let them tbh. I've sold my Xbox and gotten rid of all my video games so I have little to 0 distractions and I feel 10x more productive, I see the world differently now. Each video I watch, I'll implement this, even if I don't have too worry about it for now, I still keep on thinking about all of it. Thank you Hamza, I'm 3 months strong on self improvement and hopefully for the rest of my life.
Hamza thank you so much for switching to these longer form videos. I' ve been watching these videos again and again and taking notes, it's really positively impacting the areas of my life I want to develop. Again man I owe you big time, we all do. Thank you for what you do 🙏
I wasn’t homeschooled but I have a homeschool freind, on my baseball team. He has been homeschooled his entire life and he’s perfectly fine, social “normal” or whatever people say he has media but I find it’s if a child is not homeschooled, teach them how media works teach them to not do those things at parties and stuff like that. I am extremely grateful for how my parents raised me, they taught me to say no to drug, drinking ect when I was young. Homeschooling is really the move with extracurricular to help with social interaction trust it people!
From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I am grateful you made this. You have shifted my beliefs about schooling. I was raised in a prestigious private school, and I certainly can see the issues within it. You have prepared me so much better than anyone else for when I become a father one day
@@SquidShield hardly any different i studied in the top 1 school here in india now i study in public school no difference(sorry for my english i dont speak english)
@@SquidShield I certainly think private schools can much better than public schools, but that’s if you find the right school. They definitely are out there tho, Ik my level of intellect comes from the intensity I was put under at my private school. Of course, as Hamza said, you have the most absolute control over your child’s education by homeschooling them and hiring private tutors.
Totally agree! Not sure if it's been mentioned but as I'm commenting half way through, you would also have full control on your child's diet. Me myself I'm reversing my chrohns disease, (agian system says not possible) so nutrition is so important for me. Love the work bro keep it up!!
I'm twelve, and have started self improvement. I appretiate you and your videos, your tips of life, and I believe what you say. You are a good role model, and your videos have really helped my physical and mental state. My dad has pushed me to jog every week with him, with me pushing a fith of a mile every time I run. I am applying ways to improve my physical state by lifting weights and playing futbol in my backyard. You always have the right advice for me and I appretiate that. I told my dad to check your content out and he hasn't yet but he will soon! Thanks Hamza! PS (I really enjoyed the new video and talked to my parents about it.)
You know, I think the next few generations are going to be good ones. I’m 19 and I stopped watching content like this because I like to keep my mind focused on my own direction, I could care less about what the lost are doing or thinking. Occasionally I’ll watch some of this content, and seeing all the 14 - 15 year olds on this is truly incredible. When I was 14 I was not aware of this. I can only imagine all the great fathers being produced from this movement, I believe that generations proceeding us will break the cycle. Imagine all the wonderful men we will create. The worst part about all this is watching your family defend the indoctrination. It’s fucking sad. People need help man.
Im a bit late, but you should also consider India. The climate,the food and resources, the values, the systems and even the homeschooling law is as you have defined. So you may probably like it, and even the costs are very reasonable with future prospects looking sexy for the country and its 90-95% way different than what the media(especially western) portrays it to be.
This one is quite the eye opener for many kids I think, even if the video is about parenting. It really helps to reduce the doubt one has, when being stuck at school and being discussed at it for most of the time. Love you Hamza
Tbh Hamza is pretty accurate. I’m 16 and I go to a military Highschool in America on the east coast. Ever since Hamza has woke me up. I started to notice how almost every single kid, whenever we get a free period of time away from work or something, EVERYONE AND I MEAN EVERYONE IS JUST ON THEIR PHONE, whether it’s on tik tok, Instagram whatever. And I’m the only guy in the entire class who just has a book pulled out and I’m reading it. I’m the only kid in my entire 5 classes in the entire day who is Reading a book. And at the lunch table my friends don’t even talk to me, why? Because they are all on social media. Almost everyone in my school is a fucking zoomer where every fucking waking second they have to be on Tik tok, their all like fucking robots and it makes me sick
Bro I am 15 and i had the same thought that I should homeschool my children because school culture will basically make our children worse and this video has cleared a lot of thoughts in my mind thank you , you are guiding us like an older brother
Lowkey you right. If you think about it, you really gotta have a Buschwacker mentality in order to succeed in public school. Basically I had to keep secrets from my family at the same time do good in school to where I fly off the radar and still fit in. Basically my parents still to this day don't know about the other side. Doing Double Duty Could be stressfull
I'm young but this video allows me to listen and observe your thoughts about becoming a father, keeping this for the future as it makes sense, please don't delete this.
My granny died on 9 April/19 ROZA of Ramadan. Please help me Hamza. Make a video on how to heal from the grief of Losing a loved one. If you ignore it, you already know you're gonna feel this pain at some point in your life. HELP!
Just remember she is on a better place right now, without feeling pain. She is totally okey you are the one who has a problem and thats totally on your control. There is no absolute need to feel something negative. As you said its going to happen 100% you will experience it too. Its the circle of life nothing to worry about
just commenting to boost your comment sorry for your loss and I hope you recover soon!! don't grief her her life but celebrate her life death is inevitable so we cannot let grief stop us from the path of self-improvement. 💪💪
@@rrealgr Thanks You so much and I just wanna is that... There is nothing more than family and your loved ones. Just take care of them as you were made for doing so. May good bless you and your loved ones 🙏
I was homeschooled from young and am based in Australia. Best thing my parents ever could’ve done. I’ve been able to do more activities outside of ‘school’ and meet more people in half the time it takes kids who go to school to learn
@@pseudoplotinus Did a large number of activities outside of my schooling. Since I would often finish by midday every day, it meant I always had the afternoons free for different activities like, drama/performing arts, football, sword fencing, martial arts, gym and dancing just to name a few. I would always meet new people at these activities
@@pathfinder011yup any sports or something like even just learning robotics can make you socialize just dont go often with parents so you can socialize with others more rather than talking to your own parents
As someone in a British public school for the next few years it has been only a negative those around me trying to ridicule my good habits and enforce my bad ones I thank my parents for teaching me a level of resilience I'm quite proud of but everyday is a war on degeneracy a fight against bad influences I will definitely be home schooling my children my dream is to build a tribe around groups of good parents with good kids. No matter how my life goes I will always be thankful for you Hamza, mad respect.
Hamza it’s been a bit since I’ve watched your videos. But every time I return I realize how based you are. This video is exactly what I’ve been thinking for the past few weeks. I just graduated high school and I can say with absolute certainty it did me no favors. I have started thinking about how I want to raise my children and based on my experience alone, I need to homeschool them. You have reaffirmed my thoughts. Keep preaching🙏🏻
Thank you Hamza. You open my eyes every time you post. I still have a long way to go but fuck it, I'll continue learning and growing for the sake of my current family and my future one.
You are literally speaking about something that i was thinking about all the time lately, just like you've took the Words out of my mind. Im 15 and a few months ago i discovered homeschooling. I convinced my parents to let me do it. Next school Year im starting. Im schocked this wasnt even talked about when i was choosing my high school ( my primary teachers didnt even knew about this possibility fun fact ) Only a random video on RUclips made me realize this. I Cant stand the current school system, i feel like its made for people that Dont have a clue why they exist (the teachers too) and are too scared to take the responsibility on their own hands. I will never let my Child go through that.
I was home-schooled. I am 27 and from New Zealand. Because of the way I was raised, I was able to experince many places and meet lots of people of all ages and from all around the world. I have very good social skills and have lived in many countries abroad as an adult. I will certainly home-school my children, or consider some simmilar alternative to mainstream public school. Here Hamza says a lot of true and valuable things. Listen up. It is also seriously hard work to homeschool a whole family, I think, however I also think it is a meaningful sort of hardwork.
Bro New Zealand is known for being one of the best countries in the world, the people are very friendly, cute and charismatic, open to help you. I met a New Zealand citizen here in Mexico City. Best regards✌
For the past 2-3 years I have been all-in on self improvement. I went from a kid who loved to party, drink take substances and had no outlook on the future. I am now not even close to through my self-mastery journey but I have come along way thanks to these big RUclipsrs. I have moved to bali, build my businesses and live my dream life each day. I have decided to start my own RUclips channel in the hope of helping just one young man who like me was lost in this world with no idea how to tackle it. I want every young man to feel how it feels to achieve the goals you set out and have complete control over your mind and body. Thank you for all the advice over the years Hamza! Here’s to being 1% better every single day 💪🏾
Hi hamza you have made an amazing community helping people grow including me just have something for you if anyone wants it I made a quote that is hope is like a fire you need only one person the smallest ember to set the world alight with it
Hamza, as I have gone through school, I’ve realised how much I dislike the system, and how indoctrinating parts of it are. Whilst it is not all teachers, it is a majority. I am lucky to have some teachers who are like second fathers to me. Some like minded peers of mine have bonded together over this idea, in fact they got me listening to you. I think the statement that you are only the average of the 5 people around you is true in school. And though I agree, homeschooling would be optimal, it is not always possible, and I think I’ve got the next best way. Very insightful hamza
I was homeschooled, but watching this just made me realize that my parents were just really bad at doing it I didn’t have my first friends until 2019 and then came the pandemic
I think some things people fail to consider is the negative affects of a single point of view can have on a child. It can be very manipulative and can lead to a child having a warped sense of reality. Not to mention while I agree school definitely not perfect there are lessons to be learned which are very important for example history "those who ignore history are doomed to repeat it"
One of the best vids I've seen in months, if not years. I was set on private school for my kids, but you've forced me to reconsider. People like you make me excited for the future despite modernity surrounding us.
Hi Hamza, i have some arguments for public schools/ against homeschooling that are actually important. 1. In my country (germany) depending on how well you graduated you can or can not study certain stuff at an university, or not get certain jobs. 2. Public schools are free and when you are not earning that much money private tutors can be too expensive and when you cant pay for them and you are teaching your kids yourself you probably dont have enough time to work and earn money. Hope you read this, thanks.
Bruder, möchtest du wirklich in diesem dem Untergang geweihten Höllenstollen dein Leben verbringen. Ich bin Deutschland für viel dankbar aber wir müssen einsehen, dass es nicht das Land der Zukunft sein wird. Außerdem, und ich sag' dir das als Landsmann aus reinstem Herzen, komm' aus diesem Schule-Uni-Arbeit Mindset raus, bevor es zu spät ist. Das ist der Weg führt, wie der große Tate sagen würde, in die Matrix. Dieser Weg wird dich zu 100% nicht erfüllen. Du wirst miserabel leben und das kann nicht dein Ziel sein...jeder meiner einstigen Freunde ist jetzt an der Uni, studiert irgendetwas ohne großen Plan dahinter, manche haben schon geheiratet verdammt...mit 18. Diese Männer werden nicht Geschichte schreiben; sie werden keinen Bekanntheitsgrad haben. Überleg' dir gut, wohin du gehen willst im Leben...Europa steuert in eine dystopische Zukunft und nein, ich bin nicht irgendein Verschwörungstheoretiker. Diese ganzen an sich herumfummelnden, Fortnite und Twitchsüchtigen, tageslichtscheuen Gnome sind die Politiker, die Polizisten, die Lehrer von morgen...das _kann_ einfach nicht gut gehen. Aber alleine aus dem Grund weil du Hamzas Content konsumierst, weiß ich, dass du mehr sein wirst als Andere in deinem Leben. Viel Glück auf deinem Weg, Bruder. Du wirst es brauchen.
idk how schools in the west are, but I really don't mind going to school here, in India. there are so many memories and so many friends I made. everyone is welcoming and accepting. missing school is like missing 3/4 of my memories. plus the farewell, the teachers, bunking classes, the punishments, the 'still managing to score' thing, all of those are memories which make me happy everytime I recall them. I just passed high-school and now will be going to med school. also activities like debating, school football team, the symphony, and the events my school Organises etc are really good for exposure, I won't trade them for anything. but again, I'm grateful and fortunate that I'm a bit more privileged than an avg Indian household, and the specific school I studied in etc. another positive side to this story is, because of all the drama I went through when I was just 12-13, I was really mature by the age 14-17 (at least more than the kids of my age, and this is not my opinion, but my parents' and friends') so before you take a decision, please consider all the factors
Not sure that our schools are great or something but there is no social security in our country so completing school is a big achievement , believe it or not . In developed countries of the west you have basic minimum social security so not going or forcing yourself to go to school makes much more sense . Plus as Indians we don’t know how to operate on our own and ultimately we are our group . Not in the west you become a better individual .
That bit about 'you remember what it was like! ( at school)' Its right. I had the worst time of my life in public secondary in the UK. It set me up knowing what I had in store for me. I felt so ostracized. I sat and ate alone. I had no one. I wish I had a dad that was there and that could homeschool me or teach me real life skills. I hated going through all the ideological shit that school rammed down our throats. I just wanted to learn about what I loved. The education system is broken I remember thinking everybody here isn't like me. I ended up going back there and working in IT for a while. it's as much of a circus/prison as it is for the teacher as it is for a child there. It still makes me laugh a little that my collogues thought I was weird for not watching films
I have just removed my children from school after this its going to benefit them and myself my son is comming home everday with bruises he is not coping with the social life in school. Its destroying his soul so thank you for the push 😊
I have to say Hamza, i love the path you are currently going down right now. It is a great honor seeing how you've matured over the years, your video styles mirroring that. At first, you had some very good advice to give, in mostly long form videos, but still didn't know that much and was still quite young. Secondly, you had that Jeffrey and Adonis phase. Your longest one by far, and where the phrase "You learn from your mistakes" really makes sense. Your videos were mostly short form, from 8 to 12 minutes, with catchy thumbnails to draw as many viewers as possible. You made inflammatory statements to keep people hooked on the videos, and they really weren't fulfilling their supposed purpose of getting people of the internet, since they were such big sources of dopamine and validation. But now, you have the, as i like to call it, "Actual Adonis" phase. It started with the video titled "I have fulfilled my purpose", and now, you make only long form videos, 50 minutes to 2 and a half hours long, with, might i say, amazing content that fulfills the original purpose, of helping young men like myself, to escape this reality, this hole we have dug for ourselves and create a mountain with the dirt around us. Thank you for everything Hamza, you have changed my life for the better, in ways i cannot see right now, but only in the future. I hope to see you grow much more in the years to come. God Bless you, your mission, and all the young men who follow you.
Reading won’t give them social skills hamza, I’m homeschooled myself and saying that book will give them good social skills is like saying knock knock jokes are funny. And I have to teach myself algebra, I don’t have a teacher I have to teach myself every subject
@@christophermartin9404 Huh? You clearly dont know hamza lmao. Also hamza didnt say the book would be the ONLY teacher, he also said his children would go lots of sports and so one lmao, actually listen
Dude wears a robe like he's a prophet. He just reeks of self-obsession. The fact that half his stuff is never properly researched or considered, comes off as strongly one-sided and one-dimensional. I mean, he goes off online talking about how going to Uni is a scam. Like sure.. I hope you'll be fine having a doctor operate on your tumor going by a RUclips tutorial lol.
To Hamza: when you talk to someone you most likely can relate to their degeneracy and understand them Better because it’s something you actually experienced. If your child never experiences any of that they may have a social barrier where they can’t relate to most people unless that person also had the ideal upbringing.
You do have a point. There's a concept about tribes, and relating to people close-enough to your life experience. I find this TED talk very insight regarding the five stages that tribes seem to exhibit: ruclips.net/video/xTkKSJSqU-I/видео.html . However, to relate to someone you can find a point of similarity to create common ground. Even if you didn't have many of the same life experiences. Sometimes just being willing to listen to someone is enough of an opening, and people who are taught patience and delayed gratification (more likely with homeschool than public school) will make better listeners and advocates. God bless you.
8:19 "The two Things that will f*ck your child" 13:13 "Teachers vs Books" 14:30 "How did people learn before school?" 16:42 "Teach them yourself & find qualitied tutors" 22:45 "The best countries for home-schooling" 36:16 "England vs Dubai" 43:30 "Are you actually a good father?" 50:20 "Don't travel around to find the right country" 53:15 "Hard times should be controlled"
As someone who’s spend 8 years in public school and recently moved to homeschooling, everything that Hamza said is 100% true, sending your child to public school is child abuse. If feel so much happier since I’ve moved to homeschooling and I have much more time now for meditating, gym, reading books… Also my social skills improved drastically after I got homeschooled bc I could actually focus on improving my social skills, rather then doing stupid math tasks all the time that won’t help me in live at all.
@@attatchment I have to learn the same subjects as I had to in public school because sadly it’s not allowed otherwise in my country. But the teachers ( I get homeschooled trough zoom calls with teachers) are way more enthusiastic abt their work then the ones in public school. School is way more fun now because the teachers actually want to teach u abt the subject rather then just making u do stuff for the sake of doing something. But as Hamza said in his videos, in some countries u get to choose ur own subjects when homeschooled. So the best would be if u just inform yourself about the homeschool regulations of ur country.
In Finland we have very good and flexible study system and I think that we have good atmosphere in school what doesn't push children too much in bad things depending what friend group you hangout with. And we have olso strict rules in school. (15 years old boy)
Lets see a video on how to raise a feminine girl because I feel like I’m starting to get the idea on how to raise a boy but a girl is a different story I want my future daughter to be completely feminine
Give her love be in her life. Dont force things on your child it will only make them resent you. Best thing you can do is be her first love and through her mother show how a man should threat women. Based on those things she will choose men in her life.
You're 100 percent right on this Hamza. I read a story of someone on Quora and this man was too a Pakistani like you and a smartass guy. Founder of a company and multimillionaire. He home schools his kid and guess what his youngest daughter has learnt 4 languages till 9 urs of age. His oldest son and daughter gave the GCSE at 15-16 and aced the tests. Homeschooling is the future
Hello hamza I’m 13 and I have been bullied almost all of my life but that has made me stronger and thought me discipline and I think I finally found my purpose in life after thinking and that is using everything I have went through and deliver some karma and protect my tribe and help people who are weaker than me in other tribes
I hear you Hamza but I've got a disagreement. I think you'd be a better father to raise your kids here in New Zealand, on the south island. The people here are hard working men, they build things. It's not uncommon for people to take a years off to build their own house from scratch. The nature is so expansive you can run through the woods doing wolf cries. How many stars can you see in your night sky? I walk through the woods at night, with the only light I see coming from glowworms next to the river and the stars peaking through the canopy. No war is coming to New Zealand, and New Zealand isn't seeking any war. Here is a land of community, everyone knows everyone, there's 1.2M people on the south island, theres almost 9M in London alone. If theres EVEN A 1% POSSIBILITY that your kinds could have a better life here, wouldn't it be at least worth your time to visit and see if it's true yourself? You're making this video because you're concerned about how to raise your kids, and you've done some research because you're not sure where that should be. Why not live in a place where community is of highest value, where theres no war, where theres so much nature with waterfalls and the cleanest water and air. Are you SO CERTAIN that England is the right place that you'd bet the LIVES OF ALL YOUR CHILDREN ON IT? Come to New Zealand, from a brother to a brother, the worst thing that would happen is that you'd learn you were right. P.S. New Zealand has no capital gains tax and the drinking culture is only bad if you hang around the wrong people, which wouldn't be a problem for you anyways
I agree bro new zealand south island is stunning, mountains in every direction you look, so much wide open space, incredible weather and amazing people
As a Muslim that has been living in Dubai for all 18 years of my life, studying from kindergarten to high school in a private school and currently in my first year of university, I'm saddened by the states of many Muslim and non-Muslim males and females I have met here. During school, I knew girls that had multiple ex-boyfriends by the time they graduated and these girls had family issues, constantly overthought, and one of them even had sleep issues. A few other girls even lost their virginity in their early teens and many guys were addicted to pornography. The guys and girls were constantly 'friends'. Both girls and guys used to post their bodies all the time on social media for everyone else to see. Most people I knew during school were social media addicts, constantly partied (even in yachts), listened to degenerate music non-stop, and a few dozen of them were also addicted to substances like vapes and alcohol. Almost no one I knew was (Islamically) religious, no one gratitude-journaled, self-journaled, meditated, prayed, tried to make money, etc. In university, I'm seeing most of the same things, which is extremely unfortunate. Minus very few girls that are religious and dress religiously and so on. I certainly cannot talk about all Muslim countries and even other cities in the U.A.E, but Hamza is right. We have become weak, mostly because of things such as the Internet, school, and - worst of all - absent and/or weak parenting. May Allah Azza Wajal/God The Almighty protect us all from all evil in the world and grant us amazing spouses and children that will do wonders for the world.
In shaa Allah your situation will improve. Even though you see and try to help all of these people and take them towards the right path, certainly you have to focus in yourself a bit. Trying to help too much will cause you severe burnout eventually, and the value of your words will go down. Trust me, help yourself too
@@oceanicmage Salaam, I can confirm. Once I started taking Islam seriously, I wanted to help my peers by giving the advice of staying away from parties with alcohol, gender mixing and music; A year later, I finally understood that Allah (SWT) guides whom He Wills.
@@oceanicmage of course, I realized this firsthand and I decided not to bother with other people unless they either actually want to be helped or I'll have authority over them (ex: wife/wives, child(ren))
I went to a private school for all my life and I still do at 16 yo. I’m very grateful for staying masculine and at the top of the students with no degeneracy and with a beautiful girlfriend. I agree with the majority of points of this video but I’ll teach my kids to remain masculine and not degenerate and I’ll make them aware about the system. Thanks for this video, it will probably help me in the future.
13:17 ABSOLUTE TRUTH‼️ I currently am going to University for a degree in Teacher of English. Trust Hamza and trust me. The old teachers were bad, but the new wave? The next generation is DOOMED. You have people aiming to be teachers who have not showered in a week! You have people who can’t read a book. Heck, books like How to Win Friends and Influencer (Kerry Patterson) aren’t mandatory reads. Oh yeah, but some bullshit netflix show is a must watch for cultural awareness. Boys and girls, who will become your kids’ teachers. Are going out to party, drink themselves to death, eat a bunch shit food, fuck and suck each other (as Hamza describes it). Your child will have to look up to them, take advice from them. And the worst? Those perverted teachers will take your daughter for 1:1 tutoring… Do with that as you wish. I am genuinely afraid of schools in the future. My dad thinks I am an idiot. Take this word from someone on the inside.
I can see both sides to this. I myself went to public school in Europe and it wasn’t easy ngl but it also taught me to go against the flow and think for myself. I’ve got into self improvement all by myself. So I think if you can teach your kids well they can endure public school without getting corrupted but of course home schooling is the safe option.
You're speaking the truth. I'm 32, home schooling my kids, they're more social than any kid from public school. Also you're not the first person to say it's child abuse to send your kid to public school. My wife was, then me. So you're the third. 😅
Putting your kids in public school will mean your daughter is on birth control by 14 and your son questions his gender.
You and your wife sound based
bas e
i am so grateful that public schools in my country aren't so bad like in the west
@Hshs Bshs bro a child who didn't even hit puberty wouldn't even care about his/her friend's gender
As someone who's been homeschooled, I can say that it has genuinely been one of the main factors for my current success. My parents let me write a book when I was 9, and in terms of social life, I've become one of the most outgoing and confident people in my social circles. There's also often homeschool groups in most countries so I've never missed when it comes to interacting with people my age. I look at those who have been brainwashed through the school system and it's made me realise how degraded society is becoming. Homeschooling is the solution, I can attest it that.
100% Yeah. Someone once told me that you only start truly learning when you leave school, and I'm glad I was home-schooled for as long as I was
Was it hard for you adapting to the "outside world" and making friends after you was homeschooled cause ik some kids have a hard time adapting cause they've been in this homeschool circle for a very long time
@@lyadderouazi4219 There was no adaptation needed, I was never alienated or isolated from society in anyway, as is a common misconception around homeschooling. My parents have good, tradional, non-woke and open minded beliefs, which has lead to me being more "normal" then most of my peers. I will admit that their are a few "hippie airy fairy" people who homeschool their kids, who's kids ended up on the lower end of the intellectual spectrum, and of course their are the neglecting parents who's kids didn't end up getting a proper education. It is really up to the parents to what level of achievement they want their children to achieve, so I think by the time people like us want to raise children, we need to make sure that we are bringing them up to be good and successful people, like what is explained in this video.
See my whole problem with home schooling is getting an actual understanding of what I was being taught. Now I did online schooling which I’m not 100% if it’s similar. I was getting 80s and 90s when I should have 100% have gotten 50 maximum on those subjects. It was just too easy
As someone who's been homeschooled I agree but for me cos it was mainly in COVID i did feel lonely but i was able to think outside the box fasho
As a 14 year old living in America enrolled in the public school system I have a few things to say. My parents are very anti-self-improvement. My mom is indoctrinated by the media and social media, She thinks that me wanting to be a masculine man is gross and disgusting she has said that the way I am is gross to my face. My dad thinks he's right all of the time and is very limiting to me. I have taken it upon myself to become even a shadow of the man that I want and understand I need to be you saved me from degeneracy Hamza, I thank you.
Good luck man ❤
A shadow? No. Do not accept weakness. Never surrender never back down. Don’t walk around like a shadow. Walk around like A MAN
trust me bro, when youre 17 to 19 ur mom wont talk to you like that, just be patient with her. soon you wont even feel like she did anything wrong
hey dude how do you get a job like something like doctor when you are homeschooled ?
You are doing the right thing, don't stop
I was homeschooled for 3 years (14-16yrs old) and that time was super educational for me. I learned how to get shit done by myself, to find discipline to study, resist temptation for lazyness, take full responsibility for the way that my life is going, all while having tons of free time to seek what i like. Surprisingly i was very social, in the evenings i would go to BJJ club, hiphop dance classes, acting classes, language group classes and others (i actually have met my long term girlfriend on 7 days backpacking camp for homeschoolers in the mountains). I think that every child should be homeschooled for at least 3 years. To put that into perspective i had the time of my life in primary school and highschool, meeting many of my current friends and having amazing teachers (not a public school), but i still think that homeschooling was the best.
see!! There’s so many benefits to it.
homeschooling should teach you how to face the world.
The more you know and understand about it the more you will get to set your child up for success.
General Education's bullshit, and the things you learn about are borderline outdated and matters of casual hobby at best.
So instead of doing rats ass biology do something you enjoy or WOULD enjoy if you'd do it,
while also preparing him for the outside world.
Don't actively chase to prepare yourself necessarily, but I suggest you'd venture over as many things as you can...
That's what Life used to be about...
Good job, m8.
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Hamza you are absolutely correct, I am 16 in going to a public high school right now and it is literally impossible for me to fit in and make friends, I know two guys who are somewhat into self improvement but no where near the level that I am and that's it. All my jeffery "friends" make fun of me for not wanting to do drugs sit around and eat shit food with them, I have been very alone the past few months, but I wouldn't say I'm lonely because I know I'm not missing out on anything. I never considered home schooling, mostly just because of my age and I haven't thought much about fatherhood, but I agree that it is the best path. And the "missing out on social skills" is bullshit. I know a few home schooled kids who have way better social skills than most kids you would find at my school, and they are infinitely smarter. By any chance you're reading this, I'd just like to thank you for changing my life, I have been watching since September and have made so much progress on every front of my life, thank you so much Hamza.
Closely relatable.
My friends drink alcohol, smoke weed and cigarettes all the time. (We're 19)
I hate that so much that I began distancing myself from them so that I am not influenced by these people.
Dude I just graduated last year. I was blessed to be disconnected from the “norm”. I don’t talk to almost anyone from school and I’ve found a group of guys locally who are into the same stuff as me. You won’t regret the missed parties or the girls that could’ve been
@@Vigilant69 Even younger kids do that which pisses me the fuck off and which is why i hate our generation
Looks like you have 2 more years. Bro you have to know that humans influence each other even if they want to stick to their own values in the first place. I've been in the exact same situation, what I did was to influence the other guys with positive energy instead of getting influenced by them. I really hated some of these guys. Suckers. But now they are okay. Drink no more alcohol, lift weights, we have interesting discussion Sometimes. Believe me it's better to have them on your side for than have them against you. No need to become close friends, just try change them so that they are better.
My mom homeschooled me for many years as a kid, and it was the best thing my parents did for me. I ended up being so much more independent and strong as a young boy, learning how to do work on my own and learn in a focused way one-on-one. I fully believe homeschooling is the best route, it completely avoids all indoctrination that goes on in public and even private schools. Those skills my mom taught me are genuinely life-changing and now help me become an independent lifelong learner. I even had a social life as my parents put me in piano lessons, sports, etc. As a father or mother, you should be a teacher and role model in as many ways as possible. Learning from them, especially if done the right way, creates such a special bond with your parents that you can't emulate when you simply send them off for 7 hours a day to be brainwashed.
I disagree. If I were to homeschooled I never would have grown abilities to understand school system, myself, meet best friend (which I have known ever since 8th grade) and socialize with others. Granted I wasn't that popular kid who everyone knew if you dont include the fact that I was the local target of school bullying. But It gave me valuable experiences that I couldn't get from homeschooling. Also there is this angle of dyslexia. In school I was given the necessary amount of attention because my academic hinderance. My parents didn't have the tools to fix/correct my learning difficulties. Only speaking therapist and school has those skills and background.
Also I'm from Finland and our school system is one of the best if not the best one out there so why I wouldn't give same opportunity to my kids If I ever have ones?
@Normaali Ihminen you can easily make friends and have good social skills from homeschooling bcuz homeschooling ≠ staying at home for ur whole life
Currently it's much easier to discover yourself if ur homeschooled, u prbbly know this teens follow trends and try to become the best and appear the best they could in front of others I wouldn't see that ad discovering myself let alone the word stuff that happens in certain countries and the brainwashing from their peers like questioning sexuality
Your parents sound based
@@What_are_handles I reiterate: parents rarely don’t have necessary tools to tackle dyslexia especially if family is from working class background. Only schools and its teachers who are university educated can spot those learning difficulties. In Finland every school teacher has university degrees. That’s mandatory for getting into education career.
@@normaaliihminen722 I disagree because finnish schools are literally the #1 in the entire world. We have it a lot harder anywhere else, for example, germany…
Thank you Hamza. This video came out the day after I got my mom to unenroll me from a public charter school and start homeschooling. This is exactly everything I've been thinking about lately. Wish me luck boys, my progress is going to be unbelievable
Good luck bro
Keep up the good habits
I did the exact same thing a year ago, now I’m also homeschooled and on track to graduate college at 18
which country?
Hamza. Everyone knows that you change people's lives by guiding them. But you know how they say people 'find themselves'? You've inspired me to experiment in different ways with myself on improvement and I'm truly finding an intrinsic level of progress which I couldn't get externally. Thank you, and keep helping other people do this.
me too, i feel at this point hamza is just making money and not helping that much
@@juanamador5140 bro I think there comes a phase where we can guide ourselves which leads to much better progress than getting external knowledge, and I think it's just something every person on self improvement goes through at some point
@@juanamador5140 What? It's the opposite? the fuck are you talking about? I learn SO much more from these videoes
My girls who love watching Hamza 👇 Seriously, thank you Hamza, your mindset and teachings are what we need!!!!
lol
this is good to see
occasionally, i tune in lol
Good to see
w woman
Hi Hamza, So im now 13y old, i live in Brazil and i discovered your channel with 12y and i'm so grateful for you, i started to going to the gym, reading, really going in to self improvement, sorry if have some english errors, i am trying to getting better at that language, so thank u Hamza for everything u teach me :)
its awesome you've got into self improvement so young- keep up the good work bro!
Qual parte do Brasil ? Sou do Rio de Janeiro irmão, assisto ele tem 2 anos quase. O cara me ajudou muito.
Amen, brotha
@@luisfilippi478 sou do rio grande do sul
You’re going to take over the world if you start this at 13
I’m graduating from high school in one month from a private school. Over the years I went to 2 public schools and 2 private schools and I’m telling you there is close to no difference. I can name so many kids at my current private school who are living a filthy dirty life that I wouldn’t want my children being around. Thank you for speaking truth Hamza.
Same bro
same im half homeschooled, like i attend a dedicated online school, and there is a little bit of a difference because the one im going to actually has entry requirements and a selection process but there are still a ton of crappy people
what do you mean by 'filthy dirty life'?
@Michael G true same here at my school
My child gives me so much joy and purpose, there's no motivation like it. Huge congrats bro 🙏
Big W
W parent. God bless you and your child.
@@fujiwarachoki 🙏🏻
@@Krequit 🙏🏻
Im a girl but still listening bcz it is a very important topic to discuss in this modern world where most people dont do.
People who want to become good mothers should know about homeschooling and nutrition.
@@-whackd yep my mom died when i was 7 but she was one of the best woman in this world. She taught me most of the things about balanced diet, what to cook when. In a week everyday cook fish, 2 day cook chicken, one vegetable items everyday by the side and not dry foods it has to be cooked well and every friday special food items bcz its weekend in Bangladesh. My mom's dream was to become a cook. And she was the most disciplined in my family and my dad is also a strong man he worked in defence. I miss my family i live far now 🖤
@@MMArobi 🥲
@@MMArobi God bless
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Looks so beautiful seeing you achieving all of your goals and building a family and being happy. I'll improve myself too:)
Being a father and homshooling them to become the next leader, warrior, king. Is the most important life goal for those of us who couldn't make it.
Since when did ice cream trucks still exist
1345 January 19
Uhm
Actually
1978 December 3
Maybe 4000BC
Bros never seen an ice cream truck
I live in literal forest and I've seen those few Times. Where do you live then😂
You open my eyes hamza I’m a 16 year old in Highschool and every since starting self improvement I’ve felt like I’m the odd one out. People find me weird for reading during lunch, or my free time in classes. They class me crazy for working out at 4 in the morning. They find me not using socials anymore strange or doing drugs strange. So thank you for helping me realize I’m above average, and there’s a reason I don’t fit in
You have changed my life, thank you brother!
I'm 22, I am the primary caretaker of my son, and I am going to do everything in my power to create a life of love and creation, the kind of life we're meant to have . A life of purpose. We will create the systems and way of living that we needed as children.
Personally i think Switzerland is by far the best country to raise you're Children. I grew up there and the education system is honestly amazing and you have so much social activities its almost impossible not to find friends.
I also live in Switzerland. Nowadays Swiss education is all about feminism and lgbt. Apart from this it is a fantastic country: safe, rich, beautiful, with a solid global reputation. It's probably the best place to raise a daughter. But too safe to raise a son.
To raise a daughter in Europe --> Switzerland.
To raise a son in Europe --> Netherlands or France.
@Itsme Alex I wasn't aware about that law. I wrote Netherlands because it is a country were violence can happen. But it remains a country with a lot of opportunities to build a great life if you work for it.
Same as France.
I'm grateful for your kindness in sharing information like this. I know you will be able to raise your kids well and teach them to be better than our generation could ever be, and again thank you for helping us with how to do the same for our own children.
You've genuinely changed (and saved) hundreds of thousands of young men's lives, and you've changed mine. Thank you.
That name sounds Ethiopian
@@disksector I am Ethiopian, are you?
@@lasanga2548 Yeah
As someone who was homeschooled up until highschool, at the age I was I didn't have much to do with the free time that homeschooling gave me. Due to this I decided that I wanted to go to school. I ended up going to a private high school and I'm almost on my last year of high school. My thought is that homeschooling is good but you have to help your children find passions that they can chase and things they can work toward in the extra free time and at that time in my life I decided that I wanted a more fixed schedule. If I was to be homeschooled now, I would have more passions to work on in the free time, earning money, working out, making music, etc. Homeschooling is good if you are ok with a more "up in the air" schedule.
Your parents should have forced you into cadets, a martial art, working out, 4H, maybe a type of dance class, etc. Unfortunately your parents didn't put in effort to expose you to anything in your free time.
@@-whackdtbh to me it doesn't matter if someone has a "mediocre" life.
A mediocre life is only mediocre if you want it tobe.
Someone who lives a mediocre life but is happy with lives better than someone with a mediocre life and hating it
@@-whackd They did, I never said they didn’t, it was just my choice that I wanted to spend my time on a school schedule
Bro, your content lately has been like no other. It aligns exactly with my mindset and world view. I'm looking forward to continue this journey with you.
Really appreciate all you're doing.
where r u from bro?
I truly want to thank you. I live in the US and you have restored my faith in my country.
I was homeschooled for 2 years and just now going back to a high-quality school. My parents understood that there were crazy people in public schools, especially during Covid-19, so they homeschooled us. I'm not even kidding, I learned more in 1 year of homeschooling than 4 years of public. I won't lie, I was a bit lazy from here and there and during the end but still, incredible. As we go back now my parents made sure that the school, we went to would honestly set up an incredible future for us. Opportunity, goal setting, and not being forced to follow the scripted way of life. I love and truly appreciate my parents.
That rant on Eastern countries vs Western changed my mindset on this topic.I agree with what you said exactly.
Mate you literally took the words out of my mouth, i was always a rebel against the school system, Honesty one of the best times i remember from Secondary School in year 11 was climbing the fence out of school at Lunchtime and walking home scott free like a badass to my loving Family ,So Glad i dont go to that brain-washing prison. Fuck the system, i had always felt this way before even watching you Hamza, i am grateful that i have this higher conciousness and wisdom, Glad i found Someone to relate to ,Love you Hamza youre a GodSend its never too late, to save the younger generation, youre awesome Man.
Same consciousness
@rxjdeep yeah man you know that feeling
@@Gg46879 you know it
You’re a legend mate. 👏
To homeschool children we must develope and improve ourselves. To be able to share with a child valuable knowledge about the world and science. Otherwise we will be just toxic parents who can't even explain basic and elementary things to him
Thank you for sharing your view on homeschooling, I agree with everything you have said and i have always argued the same thing within regards to schooling systems and socializing being a homeschooler myself etc youd definitely make a great dad when the time comes 💯💖✨
His videos saved me from taking my life thnx bro you made me go from jeffrey to addonis
Love your videos
All of my issues stem from being bullied in school. Not just verbally, but physically.
I had a friend that was homeschooled and he was friends with all the people playing sports, which have a much higher % of good people than the average school kids.
Bullying is the biggest problem in my eyes.
yes, daniel.
Take it from one Hamza to another, homeschooling is the way forward for sure.
I’ve always planned to do so with my future kids, God willing. My parents were pretty based and way ahead of their time realising this 20+ years ago. Back then there weren’t many resources for home education, but they made it work.
Socialising was never a problem for me, since as you mentioned, I would always be at some sort of extracurricular class. Homeschooling us afforded us the liberty to spend our time as we wanted to, so my childhood/early teenage years consisted of martial art training, spending time in nature, memorising the Quran and studying at the optimal rate for us (without being rushed/hindered by the classes progress).
Furthermore it actually instils a love for learning into your kids, rather than just rote learning useless knowledge dictated by some authority figure to regurgitate in an exam and forget.
Looking forward to seeing where this series goes!
I disagree. You would be damned if you have learning difficulty and you were homeschooled. Also I'm from Finland which has continuously ranked one of the best school systems out there so why I wouldn't give same chances to my kids if I ever want?
@Gal Gameplays not true. Also I’m more than happy to pay more taxes if I get more socioeconomic benefits like non paid education, healthcare. I don’t have to sell arm and a leg for ambulance services or hospital bills
@@normaaliihminen722 Finland has a far better school system than most of the rest of the world.
With that said, I think it goes back to what Hamza was saying; I’d like to think that we’re developing into the sort of men who could handle any potential learning or educational difficulties our kids could be faced with. The obstacle has always been the way. Besides, I know for a fact that I’d rather help my kid through that and bring in professionals where necessary rather than handing them over to the educational system to wreak havoc on them. I don’t think schools really go out their way to accommodate those those with learning impairments. But to each their own. It’s a personal decision I guess.
If they need to attend a school to tick certain boxes or achieve mandatory high school qualifications later on then fair enough. I went to a bricks and mortar school to do so in my later teenage years. The thought of sending a young child to school is sickening to me though
This was amazing. I have just become a father and I know that I've got a lot of room to grow. I want my son to be the best he can. Thank you for your discipline Hazma 💪
Your like that big brother we never had, thanks for your content! 🙏🏼
thank you for giving us 55 minutes of your time, full of wisdom and knowledge.
Alright I get the point: social life won’t be ruined. I’ll homeschool my children alright, but my concern comes from not the friends but the enemies and conflict. I feel that the conflict and situations I have personally experienced have built my character and I can’t simulate such while homeschooling. Generally, if the children are in like an MMA club, they’re probably well mannered kids there to begin with. What I’m questioning is 2 things: First is how will they build the mindset to get out of conflict and stressful situations without being inside those scenarios, because it doesn’t matter how many books you read, you’ll not retain. any of that when the time comes and things start going down. I’m also concerned on the second thing, the value of my information on them. I don’t want my really important lessons to be ‘Just another teaching’ or ‘Oh look, Dad is telling us something again’. Because I will have to teach them more things and talk more, value of my words will eventually start to go down. Just like over-saturating the market with a product. Again, I will still homeschool, but these are just the things I’m thinking of that I feel are not answered well in my head.
I got a sales job and customer support job at 17 the social conflict I got from there was way more formative than the stuff I got at school.
Right but with the way things are going right now, there isn’t much conflict at all. And if there is, boys are taught to talk it out and not be aggressive. That’s at a very young age and that’s why shit doesn’t actually go down that often. Bc kids are taught that being disagreeable and rebellious is bad, when it’s really about a balance and learning to be assertive. Also, you can definitely roleplay.
If your son knows MMA, why would anybody try to get into a conflict with him, understanding that we will just end up in a choke-hold, apologizing profusely.
@@robmik83 Knowing mma doesnt make you immune to the criticism and the stresses of everydaylife my guy, not every situation is solved with violence.
@@BerserkerErik In context of peer pressure among teens it seems that 99% cases can be easily solved with even a very mild version violence.
I mean would you pick one someone, who can mop the floor with your ass? I guess not, so...
An Important metric for choosing where to raise your children is Neighbors, when the parents are friends with the neighboring parents and the children are friends with the neighboring children you form a wonderful community that surpasses any school in terms of developing social skills, they play football or basket ball or ride bikes together in the streets, they form a bond together that may last a lifetime, they help each other through adversities and celebrate occasions together meanwhile in school even if you have a best friend if you don't live close you're very likely to lose touch and go your separate ways once school ends.
Btw there are many people commenting about homeschooling their children or being homeschooled, can you perhaps do a few episodes interviewing with them so we can learn from them?
I'm 14 turning 15, I enjoy these videos soooo much I can't tell you, but in the back of my head I'm always thinking, do I need to be watching this. It's weird because I think that but I'm also waiting for videos from Hamza. If I had big brother, you would be it. I am a big brother and I'm trying to teach my brother these things who is 12 and just started high school, so maybe I leave him alone unless he comes too me, I don't know. I've implemented about 90% of your videos into my life, waking up at 6am, getting a workout in for about an hour, increasing my calories in healthy manner, getting all my work finished, helping out my family in every way possible I could. Then I get home, more work, do boxing, eat, sleep, repeat. I've given up social media such as TikTok and Instagram and all that, but obviously my hormones are just randomly taking over which I let them tbh. I've sold my Xbox and gotten rid of all my video games so I have little to 0 distractions and I feel 10x more productive, I see the world differently now. Each video I watch, I'll implement this, even if I don't have too worry about it for now, I still keep on thinking about all of it. Thank you Hamza, I'm 3 months strong on self improvement and hopefully for the rest of my life.
Everything is going up.
Bro's entering high school at 12💀💀💀 but yeah I agree with you, you are honestly doing a great job in your younger brother's future
I love you, Hamza. You have helped me save myself. Thank you for all your videos, made me and my future children stronger and healthier.
Hamza you’ve changed my life bro thank you so much
Hamza thank you so much for switching to these longer form videos. I' ve been watching these videos again and again and taking notes, it's really positively impacting the areas of my life I want to develop. Again man I owe you big time, we all do. Thank you for what you do 🙏
I wasn’t homeschooled but I have a homeschool freind, on my baseball team. He has been homeschooled his entire life and he’s perfectly fine, social “normal” or whatever people say he has media but I find it’s if a child is not homeschooled, teach them how media works teach them to not do those things at parties and stuff like that. I am extremely grateful for how my parents raised me, they taught me to say no to drug, drinking ect when I was young. Homeschooling is really the move with extracurricular to help with social interaction trust it people!
From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I am grateful you made this. You have shifted my beliefs about schooling. I was raised in a prestigious private school, and I certainly can see the issues within it. You have prepared me so much better than anyone else for when I become a father one day
Private schools bullshit. I go to one, it’s an excuse to bill people
Do you think it's still better than public schools, or hardly different?
@@SquidShield hardly any different i studied in the top 1 school here in india now i study in public school no difference(sorry for my english i dont speak english)
You think there are not issues with home schooling ?
@@SquidShield I certainly think private schools can much better than public schools, but that’s if you find the right school. They definitely are out there tho, Ik my level of intellect comes from the intensity I was put under at my private school. Of course, as Hamza said, you have the most absolute control over your child’s education by homeschooling them and hiring private tutors.
Totally agree! Not sure if it's been mentioned but as I'm commenting half way through, you would also have full control on your child's diet. Me myself I'm reversing my chrohns disease, (agian system says not possible) so nutrition is so important for me. Love the work bro keep it up!!
I'm twelve, and have started self improvement. I appretiate you and your videos, your tips of life, and I believe what you say. You are a good role model, and your videos have really helped my physical and mental state. My dad has pushed me to jog every week with him, with me pushing a fith of a mile every time I run. I am applying ways to improve my physical state by lifting weights and playing futbol in my backyard. You always have the right advice for me and I appretiate that. I told my dad to check your content out and he hasn't yet but he will soon!
Thanks Hamza!
PS (I really enjoyed the new video and talked to my parents about it.)
You know, I think the next few generations are going to be good ones.
I’m 19 and I stopped watching content like this because I like to keep my mind focused on my own direction, I could care less about what the lost are doing or thinking.
Occasionally I’ll watch some of this content, and seeing all the 14 - 15 year olds on this is truly incredible. When I was 14 I was not aware of this. I can only imagine all the great fathers being produced from this movement, I believe that generations proceeding us will break the cycle.
Imagine all the wonderful men we will create.
The worst part about all this is watching your family defend the indoctrination. It’s fucking sad. People need help man.
Im a bit late, but you should also consider India. The climate,the food and resources, the values, the systems and even the homeschooling law is as you have defined. So you may probably like it, and even the costs are very reasonable with future prospects looking sexy for the country and its 90-95% way different than what the media(especially western) portrays it to be.
Rape capital of the world oof
This one is quite the eye opener for many kids I think, even if the video is about parenting. It really helps to reduce the doubt one has, when being stuck at school and being discussed at it for most of the time. Love you Hamza
You are changing my life. Thank you
Oh my God ur gonna be POWERFULL father
Tbh Hamza is pretty accurate. I’m 16 and I go to a military Highschool in America on the east coast. Ever since Hamza has woke me up. I started to notice how almost every single kid, whenever we get a free period of time away from work or something, EVERYONE AND I MEAN EVERYONE IS JUST ON THEIR PHONE, whether it’s on tik tok, Instagram whatever. And I’m the only guy in the entire class who just has a book pulled out and I’m reading it. I’m the only kid in my entire 5 classes in the entire day who is Reading a book. And at the lunch table my friends don’t even talk to me, why? Because they are all on social media. Almost everyone in my school is a fucking zoomer where every fucking waking second they have to be on Tik tok, their all like fucking robots and it makes me sick
Bro I am 15 and i had the same thought that I should homeschool my children because school culture will basically make our children worse and this video has cleared a lot of thoughts in my mind thank you , you are guiding us like an older brother
Lowkey you right. If you think about it, you really gotta have a Buschwacker mentality in order to succeed in public school. Basically I had to keep secrets from my family at the same time do good in school to where I fly off the radar and still fit in. Basically my parents still to this day don't know about the other side. Doing Double Duty Could be stressfull
Yeah honestly I’m 16 and in australia. No way I’m sending em to schools here
@@drmg735 ikr i never want my kids to get to highschool here and not fit in because there not degenerates that vape and do drugs at 14
I'm young but this video allows me to listen and observe your thoughts about becoming a father, keeping this for the future as it makes sense, please don't delete this.
Hamza is really the wisest man alive
This guy is so articulate. Truly inspired me.
My granny died on 9 April/19 ROZA of Ramadan.
Please help me Hamza.
Make a video on how to heal from the grief of Losing a loved one.
If you ignore it, you already know you're gonna feel this pain at some point in your life.
HELP!
Just remember she is on a better place right now, without feeling pain. She is totally okey you are the one who has a problem and thats totally on your control. There is no absolute need to feel something negative. As you said its going to happen 100% you will experience it too. Its the circle of life nothing to worry about
just commenting to boost your comment sorry for your loss and I hope you recover soon!! don't grief her her life but celebrate her life death is inevitable so we cannot let grief stop us from the path of self-improvement. 💪💪
@@senatorarmstrong3327 Thank You 😔
@@rrealgr Thanks You so much and I just wanna is that... There is nothing more than family and your loved ones. Just take care of them as you were made for doing so.
May good bless you and your loved ones 🙏
go read the quran and listen to an Islamic lecture on this topic. don't look for hamza's advice in these things
I was homeschooled from young and am based in Australia. Best thing my parents ever could’ve done. I’ve been able to do more activities outside of ‘school’ and meet more people in half the time it takes kids who go to school to learn
How do you get to know new people?
@@pseudoplotinus Did a large number of activities outside of my schooling. Since I would often finish by midday every day, it meant I always had the afternoons free for different activities like, drama/performing arts, football, sword fencing, martial arts, gym and dancing just to name a few. I would always meet new people at these activities
Now I'm feeling lonely.
So the solution is to enroll in afternoon academies?
@@pathfinder011yup any sports or something like even just learning robotics can make you socialize just dont go often with parents so you can socialize with others more rather than talking to your own parents
As someone in a British public school for the next few years it has been only a negative those around me trying to ridicule my good habits and enforce my bad ones I thank my parents for teaching me a level of resilience I'm quite proud of but everyday is a war on degeneracy a fight against bad influences I will definitely be home schooling my children my dream is to build a tribe around groups of good parents with good kids. No matter how my life goes I will always be thankful for you Hamza, mad respect.
Hamza it’s been a bit since I’ve watched your videos. But every time I return I realize how based you are. This video is exactly what I’ve been thinking for the past few weeks. I just graduated high school and I can say with absolute certainty it did me no favors. I have started thinking about how I want to raise my children and based on my experience alone, I need to homeschool them. You have reaffirmed my thoughts. Keep preaching🙏🏻
Thank you Hamza. You open my eyes every time you post. I still have a long way to go but fuck it, I'll continue learning and growing for the sake of my current family and my future one.
You are literally speaking about something that i was thinking about all the time lately, just like you've took the Words out of my mind. Im 15 and a few months ago i discovered homeschooling. I convinced my parents to let me do it. Next school Year im starting. Im schocked this wasnt even talked about when i was choosing my high school ( my primary teachers didnt even knew about this possibility fun fact ) Only a random video on RUclips made me realize this. I Cant stand the current school system, i feel like its made for people that Dont have a clue why they exist (the teachers too) and are too scared to take the responsibility on their own hands. I will never let my Child go through that.
I was home-schooled. I am 27 and from New Zealand. Because of the way I was raised, I was able to experince many places and meet lots of people of all ages and from all around the world. I have very good social skills and have lived in many countries abroad as an adult. I will certainly home-school my children, or consider some simmilar alternative to mainstream public school. Here Hamza says a lot of true and valuable things. Listen up. It is also seriously hard work to homeschool a whole family, I think, however I also think it is a meaningful sort of hardwork.
Bro New Zealand is known for being one of the best countries in the world, the people are very friendly, cute and charismatic, open to help you. I met a New Zealand citizen here in Mexico City. Best regards✌
For the past 2-3 years I have been all-in on self improvement. I went from a kid who loved to party, drink take substances and had no outlook on the future.
I am now not even close to through my self-mastery journey but I have come along way thanks to these big RUclipsrs. I have moved to bali, build my businesses and live my dream life each day.
I have decided to start my own RUclips channel in the hope of helping just one young man who like me was lost in this world with no idea how to tackle it. I want every young man to feel how it feels to achieve the goals you set out and have complete control over your mind and body.
Thank you for all the advice over the years Hamza!
Here’s to being 1% better every single day 💪🏾
The rant at 30:04 is amazing. I've been thinking about this for so long and I noticed you have too since you left Dubai
Hi hamza you have made an amazing community helping people grow including me just have something for you if anyone wants it I made a quote that is hope is like a fire you need only one person the smallest ember to set the world alight with it
Hamza, as I have gone through school, I’ve realised how much I dislike the system, and how indoctrinating parts of it are. Whilst it is not all teachers, it is a majority. I am lucky to have some teachers who are like second fathers to me. Some like minded peers of mine have bonded together over this idea, in fact they got me listening to you. I think the statement that you are only the average of the 5 people around you is true in school. And though I agree, homeschooling would be optimal, it is not always possible, and I think I’ve got the next best way. Very insightful hamza
I was homeschooled, but watching this just made me realize that my parents were just really bad at doing it I didn’t have my first friends until 2019 and then came the pandemic
I think some things people fail to consider is the negative affects of a single point of view can have on a child. It can be very manipulative and can lead to a child having a warped sense of reality. Not to mention while I agree school definitely not perfect there are lessons to be learned which are very important for example history "those who ignore history are doomed to repeat it"
Agreed
Ye
100%
Yep
Agreed
One of the best vids I've seen in months, if not years. I was set on private school for my kids, but you've forced me to reconsider. People like you make me excited for the future despite modernity surrounding us.
Um Hamza you’ve literally been speaking to my soul with your recent videos.
Hi Hamza, i have some arguments for public schools/ against homeschooling that are actually important.
1. In my country (germany) depending on how well you graduated you can or can not study certain stuff at an university, or not get certain jobs.
2. Public schools are free and when you are not earning that much money private tutors can be too expensive and when you cant pay for them and you are teaching your kids yourself you probably dont have enough time to work and earn money.
Hope you read this, thanks.
f*ck Deutschland
Bruder, möchtest du wirklich in diesem dem Untergang geweihten Höllenstollen dein Leben verbringen.
Ich bin Deutschland für viel dankbar aber wir müssen einsehen, dass es nicht das Land der Zukunft sein wird.
Außerdem, und ich sag' dir das als Landsmann aus reinstem Herzen, komm' aus diesem Schule-Uni-Arbeit Mindset raus, bevor es zu spät ist.
Das ist der Weg führt, wie der große Tate sagen würde, in die Matrix. Dieser Weg wird dich zu 100% nicht erfüllen. Du wirst miserabel leben und das kann nicht dein Ziel sein...jeder meiner einstigen Freunde ist jetzt an der Uni, studiert irgendetwas ohne großen Plan dahinter, manche haben schon geheiratet verdammt...mit 18. Diese Männer werden nicht Geschichte schreiben; sie werden keinen Bekanntheitsgrad haben.
Überleg' dir gut, wohin du gehen willst im Leben...Europa steuert in eine dystopische Zukunft und nein, ich bin nicht irgendein Verschwörungstheoretiker.
Diese ganzen an sich herumfummelnden, Fortnite und Twitchsüchtigen, tageslichtscheuen Gnome sind die Politiker, die Polizisten, die Lehrer von morgen...das _kann_ einfach nicht gut gehen.
Aber alleine aus dem Grund weil du Hamzas Content konsumierst, weiß ich, dass du mehr sein wirst als Andere in deinem Leben.
Viel Glück auf deinem Weg, Bruder. Du wirst es brauchen.
He has this kinda mindset that everyone can just make money online. Ansonsten sehe ich das eher so wie du^^
idk how schools in the west are, but I really don't mind going to school here, in India.
there are so many memories and so many friends I made. everyone is welcoming and accepting.
missing school is like missing 3/4 of my memories.
plus the farewell, the teachers, bunking classes, the punishments, the 'still managing to score' thing, all of those are memories which make me happy everytime I recall them.
I just passed high-school and now will be going to med school.
also activities like debating, school football team, the symphony, and the events my school Organises etc are really good for exposure, I won't trade them for anything.
but again, I'm grateful and fortunate that I'm a bit more privileged than an avg Indian household, and the specific school I studied in etc.
another positive side to this story is, because of all the drama I went through when I was just 12-13, I was really mature by the age 14-17 (at least more than the kids of my age, and this is not my opinion, but my parents' and friends')
so before you take a decision, please consider all the factors
Bhai india me jaisa system ha vaisa nahi ha idhar
mature in the sense what i want to know the details 🤔
Not sure that our schools are great or something but there is no social security in our country so completing school is a big achievement , believe it or not . In developed countries of the west you have basic minimum social security so not going or forcing yourself to go to school makes much more sense . Plus as Indians we don’t know how to operate on our own and ultimately we are our group . Not in the west you become a better individual .
Indian schools are so fire, i love this ❤
enjoyment and learning mixed together. but the education system is fucked. i agree.
Same, my school life was probably the most memorable moments I had in life. Almost guaranteed daily blast of fun.
That bit about 'you remember what it was like! ( at school)' Its right. I had the worst time of my life in public secondary in the UK. It set me up knowing what I had in store for me. I felt so ostracized. I sat and ate alone. I had no one. I wish I had a dad that was there and that could homeschool me or teach me real life skills. I hated going through all the ideological shit that school rammed down our throats. I just wanted to learn about what I loved. The education system is broken
I remember thinking everybody here isn't like me. I ended up going back there and working in IT for a while. it's as much of a circus/prison as it is for the teacher as it is for a child there. It still makes me laugh a little that my collogues thought I was weird for not watching films
Same homie i also do not watvh movies😂😂😂
I have just removed my children from school after this its going to benefit them and myself my son is comming home everday with bruises he is not coping with the social life in school. Its destroying his soul so thank you for the push 😊
I have to say Hamza, i love the path you are currently going down right now. It is a great honor seeing how you've matured over the years, your video styles mirroring that. At first, you had some very good advice to give, in mostly long form videos, but still didn't know that much and was still quite young. Secondly, you had that Jeffrey and Adonis phase. Your longest one by far, and where the phrase "You learn from your mistakes" really makes sense. Your videos were mostly short form, from 8 to 12 minutes, with catchy thumbnails to draw as many viewers as possible. You made inflammatory statements to keep people hooked on the videos, and they really weren't fulfilling their supposed purpose of getting people of the internet, since they were such big sources of dopamine and validation. But now, you have the, as i like to call it, "Actual Adonis" phase. It started with the video titled "I have fulfilled my purpose", and now, you make only long form videos, 50 minutes to 2 and a half hours long, with, might i say, amazing content that fulfills the original purpose, of helping young men like myself, to escape this reality, this hole we have dug for ourselves and create a mountain with the dirt around us. Thank you for everything Hamza, you have changed my life for the better, in ways i cannot see right now, but only in the future. I hope to see you grow much more in the years to come. God Bless you, your mission, and all the young men who follow you.
Reading won’t give them social skills hamza, I’m homeschooled myself and saying that book will give them good social skills is like saying knock knock jokes are funny. And I have to teach myself algebra, I don’t have a teacher I have to teach myself every subject
I swear this guy uses bots for his comments bc they're all saying the same thing 🤔 except for you Thank God.
@@christophermartin9404 Huh? You clearly dont know hamza lmao. Also hamza didnt say the book would be the ONLY teacher, he also said his children would go lots of sports and so one lmao, actually listen
Bro at least try to watch or listen to the full damn video
@@Ichigoat794 fr🤣
@@Ichigoat794 I’m to busy, I have to do algebra and it’s hard to pay attention
I was supposed to be doing it 3 hours ago but I was on youtube
This video is a peak example of Dunning-Kruger effect in action.
True
exactly lol. this dude doesn't have any idea of what he´s talking about.
100% I thought i was the only one not blindley believing everything he says. I think he has some god-komplex as well.
@@crappusmaximus1268 Where's your six-pack?
Dude wears a robe like he's a prophet. He just reeks of self-obsession. The fact that half his stuff is never properly researched or considered, comes off as strongly one-sided and one-dimensional. I mean, he goes off online talking about how going to Uni is a scam. Like sure.. I hope you'll be fine having a doctor operate on your tumor going by a RUclips tutorial lol.
Hamza you're really building the next generation of strong men! May God bless you
Your video wasn't ''all over the place''. I found all you said very valuable. Thank you for sharing all your thoughts with us
To Hamza: when you talk to someone you most likely can relate to their degeneracy and understand them Better because it’s something you actually experienced. If your child never experiences any of that they may have a social barrier where they can’t relate to most people unless that person also had the ideal upbringing.
You do have a point. There's a concept about tribes, and relating to people close-enough to your life experience. I find this TED talk very insight regarding the five stages that tribes seem to exhibit: ruclips.net/video/xTkKSJSqU-I/видео.html . However, to relate to someone you can find a point of similarity to create common ground. Even if you didn't have many of the same life experiences. Sometimes just being willing to listen to someone is enough of an opening, and people who are taught patience and delayed gratification (more likely with homeschool than public school) will make better listeners and advocates. God bless you.
8:19 "The two Things that will f*ck your child"
13:13 "Teachers vs Books"
14:30 "How did people learn before school?"
16:42 "Teach them yourself & find qualitied tutors"
22:45 "The best countries for home-schooling"
36:16 "England vs Dubai"
43:30 "Are you actually a good father?"
50:20 "Don't travel around to find the right country"
53:15 "Hard times should be controlled"
As someone who’s spend 8 years in public school and recently moved to homeschooling, everything that Hamza said is 100% true, sending your child to public school is child abuse. If feel so much happier since I’ve moved to homeschooling and I have much more time now for meditating, gym, reading books… Also my social skills improved drastically after I got homeschooled bc I could actually focus on improving my social skills, rather then doing stupid math tasks all the time that won’t help me in live at all.
If you don’t mind me asking are the subjects you learn when your homeschooled better than public school subjects
@@attatchment I have to learn the same subjects as I had to in public school because sadly it’s not allowed otherwise in my country. But the teachers ( I get homeschooled trough zoom calls with teachers) are way more enthusiastic abt their work then the ones in public school. School is way more fun now because the teachers actually want to teach u abt the subject rather then just making u do stuff for the sake of doing something. But as Hamza said in his videos, in some countries u get to choose ur own subjects when homeschooled. So the best would be if u just inform yourself about the homeschool regulations of ur country.
This is exactly what I was thinking of, thank you Hamza!
Jordan Peterson talks about fatherhood being an experience that matures you, I look foward to having a beautiful family one day inshallah
In Finland we have very good and flexible study system and I think that we have good atmosphere in school what doesn't push children too much in bad things depending what friend group you hangout with. And we have olso strict rules in school. (15 years old boy)
ok, but lgbt leftist propaganda?
Only Hamza can tell you not to pick the country based on your feelings but still decide to go to england because he likes the nature
Fr 😂
Lets see a video on how to raise a feminine girl because I feel like I’m starting to get the idea on how to raise a boy but a girl is a different story I want my future daughter to be completely feminine
Id love to see a vid like that as well!
Give her love be in her life. Dont force things on your child it will only make them resent you. Best thing you can do is be her first love and through her mother show how a man should threat women. Based on those things she will choose men in her life.
You're 100 percent right on this Hamza. I read a story of someone on Quora and this man was too a Pakistani like you and a smartass guy. Founder of a company and multimillionaire. He home schools his kid and guess what his youngest daughter has learnt 4 languages till 9 urs of age. His oldest son and daughter gave the GCSE at 15-16 and aced the tests. Homeschooling is the future
Asim Quereshi!! Love him
Hello hamza I’m 13 and I have been bullied almost all of my life but that has made me stronger and thought me discipline and I think I finally found my purpose in life after thinking and that is using everything I have went through and deliver some karma and protect my tribe and help people who are weaker than me in other tribes
I hear you Hamza but I've got a disagreement. I think you'd be a better father to raise your kids here in New Zealand, on the south island. The people here are hard working men, they build things. It's not uncommon for people to take a years off to build their own house from scratch. The nature is so expansive you can run through the woods doing wolf cries. How many stars can you see in your night sky? I walk through the woods at night, with the only light I see coming from glowworms next to the river and the stars peaking through the canopy. No war is coming to New Zealand, and New Zealand isn't seeking any war. Here is a land of community, everyone knows everyone, there's 1.2M people on the south island, theres almost 9M in London alone. If theres EVEN A 1% POSSIBILITY that your kinds could have a better life here, wouldn't it be at least worth your time to visit and see if it's true yourself?
You're making this video because you're concerned about how to raise your kids, and you've done some research because you're not sure where that should be. Why not live in a place where community is of highest value, where theres no war, where theres so much nature with waterfalls and the cleanest water and air. Are you SO CERTAIN that England is the right place that you'd bet the LIVES OF ALL YOUR CHILDREN ON IT? Come to New Zealand, from a brother to a brother, the worst thing that would happen is that you'd learn you were right.
P.S. New Zealand has no capital gains tax and the drinking culture is only bad if you hang around the wrong people, which wouldn't be a problem for you anyways
yeah new zealand is amazing
I agree bro new zealand south island is stunning, mountains in every direction you look, so much wide open space, incredible weather and amazing people
Dang they build their own houses?
Thats wild, I like that
As a Muslim that has been living in Dubai for all 18 years of my life, studying from kindergarten to high school in a private school and currently in my first year of university, I'm saddened by the states of many Muslim and non-Muslim males and females I have met here. During school, I knew girls that had multiple ex-boyfriends by the time they graduated and these girls had family issues, constantly overthought, and one of them even had sleep issues. A few other girls even lost their virginity in their early teens and many guys were addicted to pornography. The guys and girls were constantly 'friends'. Both girls and guys used to post their bodies all the time on social media for everyone else to see. Most people I knew during school were social media addicts, constantly partied (even in yachts), listened to degenerate music non-stop, and a few dozen of them were also addicted to substances like vapes and alcohol. Almost no one I knew was (Islamically) religious, no one gratitude-journaled, self-journaled, meditated, prayed, tried to make money, etc. In university, I'm seeing most of the same things, which is extremely unfortunate. Minus very few girls that are religious and dress religiously and so on. I certainly cannot talk about all Muslim countries and even other cities in the U.A.E, but Hamza is right. We have become weak, mostly because of things such as the Internet, school, and - worst of all - absent and/or weak parenting. May Allah Azza Wajal/God The Almighty protect us all from all evil in the world and grant us amazing spouses and children that will do wonders for the world.
In shaa Allah your situation will improve. Even though you see and try to help all of these people and take them towards the right path, certainly you have to focus in yourself a bit. Trying to help too much will cause you severe burnout eventually, and the value of your words will go down. Trust me, help yourself too
@@oceanicmage Salaam, I can confirm. Once I started taking Islam seriously, I wanted to help my peers by giving the advice of staying away from parties with alcohol, gender mixing and music; A year later, I finally understood that Allah (SWT) guides whom He Wills.
@@oceanicmage of course, I realized this firsthand and I decided not to bother with other people unless they either actually want to be helped or I'll have authority over them (ex: wife/wives, child(ren))
@@voraxity965 100%
Ameen
I went to a private school for all my life and I still do at 16 yo. I’m very grateful for staying masculine and at the top of the students with no degeneracy and with a beautiful girlfriend. I agree with the majority of points of this video but I’ll teach my kids to remain masculine and not degenerate and I’ll make them aware about the system. Thanks for this video, it will probably help me in the future.
I can relate almost every hamza during his teenage life Im 16 I feel so lucky finding this channel
Watched this whole video till the last second and learned so much🙏🏻
John 14:6
- Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
i come to the father not jesus
Amen
its takes any person in the world 2 mins to prove that jesus is not god and the gospels are all man made come to islam brother
@@adlihamad islam is an L bro come to reality
@@adlihamad as a christian i think we should all just shut up and face the bigger problem and unite through our values
13:17 ABSOLUTE TRUTH‼️
I currently am going to University for a degree in Teacher of English. Trust Hamza and trust me.
The old teachers were bad, but the new wave? The next generation is DOOMED.
You have people aiming to be teachers who have not showered in a week!
You have people who can’t read a book. Heck, books like How to Win Friends and Influencer (Kerry Patterson) aren’t mandatory reads. Oh yeah, but some bullshit netflix show is a must watch for cultural awareness.
Boys and girls, who will become your kids’ teachers. Are going out to party, drink themselves to death, eat a bunch shit food, fuck and suck each other (as Hamza describes it).
Your child will have to look up to them, take advice from them. And the worst? Those perverted teachers will take your daughter for 1:1 tutoring… Do with that as you wish.
I am genuinely afraid of schools in the future. My dad thinks I am an idiot.
Take this word from someone on the inside.
I can see both sides to this. I myself went to public school in Europe and it wasn’t easy ngl but it also taught me to go against the flow and think for myself. I’ve got into self improvement all by myself. So I think if you can teach your kids well they can endure public school without getting corrupted but of course home schooling is the safe option.
I agree with everything you say, Hamza, and that's why I live in Poland and homeschool my kid here.
im grateful that i got opportunity to get influenced by you and your perspective of things, i think almost exactly like you since i discovered you
Big love to the Ice Cream Man