UNLOCKED Full Episode: "Save My Marriage After Affair" | The Oprah Winfrey Show | OWN
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UNLOCKED FULL EPISODE: "Save My Marriage After Affair" | The Oprah Winfrey Show
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Whoever decided to finally stop being stingy with full episodes- we appreciate you❗️
From own network right... Lol same feeling 😂😂😂
VERY THAT!!!
😂😂😂 exactly! I’m thankful but Imma need them to step it up a smidge more. I need playlists by season…too much?
@@Yoosushipper same here, lol. I love these old Oprah shows.
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Seriously though, to the person who gave permission to allow full episodes of past Oprah shows on this channel, thank you!! The audience loves it!
🎉yes we do
UNEDITED and minus the commercials!
I am obssessed. Problems back then still exist today! Which means gender roles in marriages have barely changed over the years.... despite all the changes to our society
Every time I hear that intro, it takes me back to being a kid at my grandmother’s house ❤️ after 4 hours of soap operas. 😂
I know i love that song i have to dance to it!
Yes!!! Or Mom watching it - took me back to the 80s.
@@thefrogsscalp777:
And the 1990s...for me, I think of this show as a 1990s show.
Haha heck yea!
Fake
These mini clips of interviews with people on the street is so cringey 🤣 so interesting to see how candid people were willing to be on national television.
Right??!!! I was shocked especially since this was 30 years ago
Duh , one dude pretty much said he almost murdered his wife like sir 😬 He said his mom had to convince him to take his hands off her throat
Probably did not imagine something like RUclips woukd exist someday
the lady who said her reaction would be to make love to her husband like he had never had it before!?!!what???
Some of the most beautiful women in the world have been cheated on. It’s NOTHING to do with another woman being cuter. Mostly it’s because they are new- simply that
Sad, but well said!
Preach
Yes absolutely, just different, nothing to do with looks at all.
To the first guy… tell me you're having an affair without telling me you're having an affair😂😂😂
Or else he should have been a romance writer!! 🤣😊😅
I would give anything to see where these couples are now
you can hire a private investigator
@@Gabi-gd6qv 😂😅
😅😂😮😂😂❤ that was funny LOL but I would love to see what happens to these couples two years five years ten years down the road I see some couples come back on Dr Phil show that changed for the better. But more or less not so many of changing for the better but usually divorce. But I'm praying for everybody here today to us stay together and work out all their problems and went on to love wonderful lives❤😊 God bless them all, and all stopping by to watch some vintage Oprah. 🙋🙏😇
I loved Oprah during this era!
The theme music just took me back... Good times.
I remember feeling so bad as a kid when the closing music comes in thinking I wish these episodes ran longer. Cut to 40-year-old me still feeling this way. Classic Oprah rocks!
The fashion on the stage is incredible!
Those stirrup pants!
I love Oprah’s blazer - omg I’m so happy to NOT be at the office today and that I’m home watching this 💜. I so desperately need to rest.
@@angelasharp7259 I Loved loved loved stirup pants.👍😜
I love these old episodes of The Oprah Winfrey Show!!!
Oprah should go back and gather all the old guests that are still alive and have ascension check up talk shows with these same folks, we'd LOOOOVE THAT!!!!! GOOD STUFF AND OPRAH!!!
Doc said a mouthful “You can never overcome an affair, but you can come to terms with it.” He also mentions purging every detail to move forward whether one stays or goes.
It's very difficult to get over that rage and it hurts when you give it your all and the other partner doesn't and then they expect to be forgiven and moved on without thinking about the other feelings
The biggest conflict I think is when the hurt person wants to hear ‘I was wrong and I’m sorry’ again and again whenever the hurt comes up. But the guilty party wants it over and done with because it makes them feel bad
Who Ever Reads this, I Pray that you have a Truly Prosperous + Super Blessed & New Year!!
That therapist dude should've been given his own show instead of Dr. Phil.
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I'd be gone ASAP. Once the trust is gone it can never be recovered
These episodes bring back happy Oprah memories; Monday through Friday Channel 4 from 4PM-5PM.
Phew. This reaffirms my decision long ago to not get married again.
That early 90s intro tho! ❤
None of them like or respect one another...through all of the smiles and hand-holding ---they respect themselves all the less.
The marriage was in trouble before the affairs took place. The underlying problems have to be addressed before moving forward.
Sometimes trouble leads to an affair. But often it's just that the opportunity is there and the cheater is selfish in those moments.
They broke their vows when they were fighting all the time. Yet, they're focusing on the affairs.
The first husband does not care about his wife. Body language
Neither does the second husband, and he hated her way before she cheated!
Omg these 80's high hair women & guy mullets are cracking me uppp! 😂
I don't know about y'all but I just want to buy every episode. Like boxed sets for each year. I would love that.
I love old Oprah episodes- Bring on more!
Would love to know if any of these couples are still together
Always always trust your gut feeling!!!
I would love to know how many (if any) of these couples are still together. I truly don’t know how people move on from affairs. It takes an incredible amount of patience and strength that I don’t have,
If you and I were married I would be faithful to you and only you do you believe me😂🙏🏿
@@mrmoneyblack1s ⚠️⚠️⚠️🤨 CREEPER ALERT
Google the last couple!! Really a horror story.. he, if the records are correct, wed the daughter that they had taken custody of after divorcing Ann... Yikes...
@@volgadisbudak8574 what did you Google? I out in "anne and (whatever his name was) + Oprah + (episode title) and nothing came up.
That woman had valid reasons to be upset with her husband in their marriage, but for her to act like HE’S in the wrong for HER sleeping with his friend is WILD!!
nah its all her fault. she was getting dicked down by her friend and she took all the money and got an apartment.
He had disdain and disrespect for her so much that he didn't want to put any effort into fixing the issues in their marriage. He didn't have the guts to leave the marriage! And now that she cheated, he gets to play the victim, that he was wronged! She didn't and still doesn't want the breakup! Her cheating was an act of frustration for him to finally take her unhappiness seriously! He is a coward who could't be a bad guy and leave an unhappy marriage first, and waited for his wife to cheat so he had an excuse to leave! He hates her from the way he speaks to her and he hated her way before she cheated!
The theme song just took me back in time. 😄
She’s two weeks in?? She hasn’t even begun. She will only know what she wants months down the line
Thank you for sharing this!!
When trust is broken in a relationship time to divorce! 🙄🙄🙄
i see all these Christian women thinking that to be "submissive" is to stick to vows only THEY kept. if they READ the Bible they would see that really the only allowance God gives for divorce IS infidelity.
& not domestic violence or drug abuse?
When he said implants….. he lost me!!!!
9:49 the "sad" remix of the 89 Oprah theme....
The beginning of the “Talk Show Wars!”
Those stirrup pants take me waaaaaay back! Thanks OWN for the unlocked episode!
More full episodes please
Oprah, I have watched many of your videos and have enjoyed them....I understand your great success. You come across in a truthful and humble manner...an amazing lady. Warm regards from Rome, Italy.
❤ add warm wishes from Melissa I from Columbus Ohio.🙋🙏🙏🙏😇
3:30 I feel this woman’s pain. 😢 She doesn’t deserve this!
I love that Doctor. Best Advice ever
Doug's wife was full of HERSELF &the other blonde was giving her heart to a man who didn't deserve her pure & rare Love. I wonder how these couples are today.
Thank you sooooo much for these old spt I’m loooving it ❤
I’m amazed that there’s more outrage and approbation towards the best friend than the husband!! And why the hell did the husband get to choose ?? Well I’m thinking the best friend has got the better end of he deal because the wife is stuck with a cheater- with a MULLET!!
HE DOESNT SEEM REMORSEFUL. HE SEEMS LIKE ALL HE CARES ABOUT IS HIMSELF,. IW OULD RUN FROMT HAT LOSER, I DONT THINK HE COULD AFFORD TO DIVORCE HER SO HE STAYED N THE HOUSE.
The wife who cheated. I don't personally understand people who can't take responsibility. I realise both people in the marriage take a share of blame when things aren't working. But she seems unapologetic for what she did. Just angry about him and their relationship.
Because she knows that he hated her way before she cheated!
I'm not the type of person to forgive cheating. I would never trust the same so it would be pointless
Hell no! I wouldn't even be friends with that person afterwards either.
What a great doctor
Happy New Year
Omg. Picked up a broad at a gas station??? Cannot remember??? Come on now. Run!!!
31:32...Oprah's thick brows had a cute way of slanting upward at the bridge of her nose.
Oprah has a wonderfully vivid, expressive face that shows her emotions so clearly.
The intro!!! I’m old but I don’t remember that intro. Absolutely love it!
Once a cheater always one
30:02 Joseph Chunestudy (mullet zig zag sweater) is now in prison; he was found guilty of incest.
Seriously? Omg
I WOUKLDNT BE SURPRISED, HE CAME OFF AS SELF ABSORBED NARC SICKO.
Keep unlocking, thank you!!
this episode is so funny in so many ways and comical on many levels.can they repair the marriage maybe maybe not but one should consider trying at the very least to make it work.
You can save your own marriage. You have to be willing to forgive and move on. You cannot hold on to the pain. You have to face it and forgive and heal genuinely. Period.
Easier said than done. The onus often falls on the one who was cheated on to forgive and heal and move on. The cheater needs to acknowledge the wrong with what they did, the hurt it inflicted, and actively work on changing to facilitate the healing.
@@kimmiet1980 obvious you missed my healing comment. Its for both parties. Common sense.
Wise words. Peace & Blessings
@@Sis_Izzie It's not common sense because, as I stated, the onus often falls on the one who was cheated on when these situations arise. My comment wasn't attacking your comment. I've actually been through it and, from experience, both parties have to be willing to do the work and that's not always the case.
@@kimmiet1980 agree. A lot of the times the person who cheated expects the person to just move on and it’s not that simple.
Wonderful see you can make it!🙌🏾
I am 6 minutes in and already I’m thinking “girl that was a blessing.” No offense to the first husband…. Or something… 😆
"it really hurts Oprah I won't forget it" 😭😭
"I know you won't" ☺️☺️
Lmao, what??!!!
Both of these men have a disdain for their wives! The one who cheated doesn't feel remorse, just makes an excuse that it's his drinking! It's amazing how casually he talks about putting himself in the situation to be able to cheat! He has no respect for his wife! The one who's wife cheated has not done anything to save his marriage - she pointed out problems way before she cheated, and instead of putting in the effort into changing and improving, he did nothing, and waited until she cheated so he could play victim!
Remember God loves you!!♥️
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.
Please turn your life around and repent.🙏
the clock is ticking....
Amen
Amen
To th e person who posated these episodes! Thank you! Question. Do you know where I can get a copy of the list of all Oprah's shows?
Would be good if it all was on dvd box set.
Darling Oprah. 💜💜💜
I like Oprah's hair in this episode
I use to love that song
People need to have more substance than monogamy in their relationships such that they don't feel cheating is the worst thing in the world.
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That theme song reminds me of the episode of fresh Prince of Bel-Air when they went to Oprah LOL
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Come on 🗣 they really talkin that ish on stage right now!!
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The blonde woman takes no responsibility has zero remorse for the affair then admits she has substance abuse ..she has the issues . run man run then has the cheek to then blame him for everything
But he hated her way before she cheated! He knew he was in an unhappy marriage and instead of leaving, he decided to wait until she cheated to make her the bad one!
Problems here aren’t infidelity, it’s drugs and alcohol
A heart shaped bed with pink sheets is macho and exciting, the many chinned bloke seems oddly easily pleased.
Heart-shaped bed and pink sheets sounded tacky, even back then.
Nothing's more macho than a big heart-shaped bed 😳
hahaha stop
He certainly didn’t look like Casanova either!
He clearly felt like a stud being able to take his favorite prostitutes to a hotel that had those types of options 😂
@0:46 Sorry for that boss if his wife knows this lady, and that she works in his office‼️
Heart broken...seeing....that...
Welcome to Fahrwangen, same feelings, different illusion. 🥂🇨🇭🌻🌺🇦🇺
Thank you America for explaining.
After they had a night with me, they go into history. Während der Zeit wo ich eine eigene Meinung bekam entwickelte ich so viel Wut, dass ich Dani im Bett fertig machte und er am Schluss froh war, dass ich in die Schweiz flüchtete. Als erstes mal 6 Monate zu meiner Mutter, genau die gleiche Zeit wie Melania in NY zurück blieb.
I forgot how much Oprah interrupted people.
Just remain single.
I wonder if these couples made it?
They'd all be their 60s now probably
Wow!! Things have changed. Staying with someone you hate for a “family”.
That happens in the majority of families, unfortunately...
Women want to be "married" and usually doesn't have her own money/ account to survive.
They'll usually move to another room in the house & hate her husband & without realizing it, make it hell for their children......sad.
My sister & I are products of their terrible decisions.
you can actually see the slow turn of the rusty hamster-wheel that goes on in his mind.
Literally just made this dumb decision and i regret it. Making someone else feel bad about themselves just cuts deep..
Did you come clean?
how ridiculous that the therapist was kind of blaming the man for not being willing to go to therapy. both parties were unhappy and his wife had an affair. Sometimes, you gotta move on
Bom dia Opraha Winfrey eu só Victoria gosto muito do seu trabalho eu Deus ti a bênção e todos os dias da sua vida e sua família também 😂🎉❤❤❤
Its very easy… If your partner cheats, its about them, not you. It speaks to THEIR inability to be authentic and present in your relationship. They get off on the rush of the betrayal. They do not know how to ask for what they need. Perhaps they do not think they deserve more than a dysfunctional relationship. Whatever it is, it is THEM. They have deep issues to figure out. You wont ever ‘fix’ them. You can of course decide to accept them and their issues (which speaks to your own issues) but there is no way to “heal” the other person. There is NO reason to stay unless you are looking for an open relationship.
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Doug and Teresa don't like one another, AT ALL! She's snarling on the outside, you can imagine how she feels on the inside. He's...gone...
26:16 😂😂
Oprah , well you certainly aren’t helping …adding things like….visual you can never forget…. And beyond rage …maybe she could have put it out of her mind…or maybe her love for him is so strong maybe it wouldn’t have gone into rage , but the power of suggestion is real and now she probably feels that it should Go into a rage . I think she should ask her how she feels not tell her
WOW. Look at this. I'll say this on a personal level: if my boyfriend/husband ever cheated on me, it would be an immediate cut-off because I would never be able to trust him again. I'd always be wondering, what's he doing? What is he thinking? IS he talking to her now? Etc. That is no way to live. That is not peaceful at all!
To the woman who is still with her cheating husband because he chose her by default, I feel sorry for her! It's not funny at all, yet she just is chuckling and laughing ... I don't know if it's a nervous habit or what, but it isn't funny. He is a narcissist. She is pathetic. The best friend is a phony, back-stabbing [female dog] but anger doesn't deserve to be pointed at her as much as the husband. I honestly see that lady as a sad, and lonely woman who was desperate enough to stay with a narcissistic pile of flesh. He actually said that she should be the one to leave because it's his house, too. WHEW! That woman .... I just feel sorry for her.
From 11/06/1990:
This first man (in blue) telling under what circumstances and places he would have an affair was too funny. I know he looked a little "plump" but hey, sometimes that doesn't matter. He also spoke like he has had some experience in this arena.
Dale: Broken down car, ride home, played darts and a few beers. All this led to him being in bed with the person from the "service station" who "gave him a ride" home!
Darryl & Theresa: She cheated with a "pretty good friend" of Darryl's.
Joe' had an affair and child with his wife Anna's best friend.
The sad thing about these types of shows is there is always something deeper going on behind all the accusations, anger and cheating. Spouses just don't step out unless something is very wrong.
I appreciate the people coming on to tell their stories.
Meets girl at gas station. Hey can I get a ride home? “Sure! My wife doesn’t get home until 4:00 when Oprah comes on!”
Dont go back. Stay silgle
Agree!! And I wish the church would stop pressuring women to take their husband's back!! (Some churches)
That “Dr” is a pathetic example of a person, to suggest “implants” for the man’s wife
Well it might help both of them fortunately.
Her- feel better about herself
Him- something fun & new!❤
You cant punish him by withholding the daughter.
She wasn't born with that color yesterday!!! That's a terrible thing to say. Not all blondes are trru blonds, and not all blonds are stupid.
It's an expression.
Dumb blonde jokes and stereotypes were quite popular at the time.
The audience didn't like it either.