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  • @anastasiahanna
    @anastasiahanna 2 года назад +181

    I don't know who's idea it was to unlock these Oprah Show episodes, but whoever you are, you are a genius and I LOVE YOU! Thank you!!🙏💗💗💗

    • @sha1841
      @sha1841 Год назад +1

      Absolutely brilliant because RUclips is another passive income stream for Oprah not only from the views but from ads. 😉

    • @PatriciaWilliams-sc7nc
      @PatriciaWilliams-sc7nc 3 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @franchahadera6927
    @franchahadera6927 2 года назад +38

    My husband had a big thing about how to load the dishwasher. So he got to do it his way. I rinsed the dishes and he loaded. Worked for us for 25 years. He's been gone 11. We sure saved ourselves grief. And adored each other to the end.

    • @karencarroll8888
      @karencarroll8888 2 года назад

      yes me & mine also

    • @kayakingirl7252
      @kayakingirl7252 2 года назад +2

      Sounds like you had a wonderful relationship! I'm so sorry for your loss♡

    • @sha1841
      @sha1841 Год назад

      My condolences

    • @katscratchfever3506
      @katscratchfever3506 Год назад +1

      This is beautiful. This is a healthy relationship. Sorry for your loss.

    • @marywrenn5262
      @marywrenn5262 11 месяцев назад +1

      I'm so sorry for the loss of your love and best friend.

  • @myfriendisaac
    @myfriendisaac 2 года назад +133

    THIS IS THE CONTENT I WANNA SEE 👏🏾
    You just can’t beat classic Oprah episodes!

    • @iiiMUNiiiQUE
      @iiiMUNiiiQUE 2 года назад +3

      It’s what we’ve ALL wanted to see!!!

    • @janedoe7229
      @janedoe7229 2 года назад +6

      I always search for classics. Very hard to find. This is gold.

    • @AtticTapes14
      @AtticTapes14 8 месяцев назад

      Dr phil show itself is even better

  • @BarbaraMishkov
    @BarbaraMishkov 2 года назад +39

    When she told him how she felt 😢 I couldn't help but cry too!!!

  • @annisaarthur-castro6227
    @annisaarthur-castro6227 2 года назад +49

    The black husband was insecure about his wife's accomplishments and tried to cut her down to size by criticizing her as a wife and mother. This was to make himself feel better bout his self-perceived professional mediocrity. Who knows, she probably belittled him about his professional ineptitude, compared to hers. But he was really trying to down her to make himself feel more like a man. He smirked when she spoke on how deep the motherhood comment stung her. Like he was savouring the moment all over again.

    • @janedoe7229
      @janedoe7229 2 года назад +3

      Absolutely hands down you got it.

    • @cindysammy2513
      @cindysammy2513 2 года назад +3

      I agree. He's overcompensating.

    • @cay820
      @cay820 2 года назад +4

      This the comment I was looking for 👏🏽

  • @AndyJanel
    @AndyJanel 2 года назад +20

    NEVER use the word divorce to hurt or pressure your spouse. The only time that should be mentioned is when you genuinely mean it as an ultimatum.

  • @carriebell3566
    @carriebell3566 2 года назад +38

    Yes! That’s the definition of winning. Dr. Phil is right. The stupidest thing people do in a relationship is compete with their partner. A relationship is a partnership. What benefits you benefits me and vice versa.

    • @carriebell3566
      @carriebell3566 2 года назад

      @Tony Malveaux and a win, all of it in one thing. Competition is the dumbest thing you can do. It is as dumb as thinking of any team competing against each other 😒

  • @kevvintage7654
    @kevvintage7654 Год назад +6

    Who takes a doily stain personally? If its so special frame it and hang it on the wall behind protective glass.

  • @cindysammy2513
    @cindysammy2513 2 года назад +12

    He's insecure about his wife's job. He's very inadequate. Once she became a lawyer, he felt out of her league

  • @SuLawn
    @SuLawn 2 года назад +16

    Dr Phil and Oprah, wow, double whammy. My idea of heaven 😍.

  • @aliciarenk4279
    @aliciarenk4279 2 года назад +10

    Keeping peace, is more important than to be right.

  • @Whoeverheardof
    @Whoeverheardof Год назад +6

    Gosh this taking me back to my high school days 🥹 Oprah at 4 right after school.

    • @46foryounger
      @46foryounger 5 месяцев назад +1

      This generation has no clue the contribution she made to peoples life with these impactful shows 5 days a week.

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 Месяц назад

      Same! Especially the music when the show starts. I even remember the after school snacks i used to eat while watching the show ❤

    • @ambika66681
      @ambika66681 Месяц назад +1

      Ya, it brings back a lot of memories. Classic Oprah is d best!

  • @lindahebb4832
    @lindahebb4832 2 года назад +13

    I have said it before and I will say it again. Thank you so much 😊 for posting ful episodes we very much appreciate it

  • @amxx3291
    @amxx3291 2 года назад +58

    Eric is simply extremely insecure that his wife is, by the world's standards, extremely successful so he tries to put her down so that he can feel better about himself.He needs to be reassured that he is still the man in this relationship and that he is the head of the family despite his wife's success.

    • @sararomero7090
      @sararomero7090 2 года назад +12

      Yes! He’s not upset about how she loads the dishwasher, he’s hurt that she doesn’t do it the way he says she should, because in his eyes, that translates to: “she doesn’t value my advice or opinion”. But when you’re constantly criticizing someone, they shut down and don’t even want to listen to you anymore.

    • @normajanedehoag3660
      @normajanedehoag3660 2 года назад +3

      Psychology

    • @normajanedehoag3660
      @normajanedehoag3660 2 года назад +3

      Psychology 101

    • @elizabethgrogan8553
      @elizabethgrogan8553 2 года назад +4

      @Amyx x I would never refer to my husband as "head of the house". My parents taught me that. They worked like a team in all matters. I earn far more money than my man. We each put the same amount of money into

    • @elizabethgrogan8553
      @elizabethgrogan8553 2 года назад +3

      a joint account, to cover all the household bills and purchases, eating out, cinema tickets etc. I have savings and investments

  • @elma2221
    @elma2221 2 месяца назад

    These episodes with Dr. Phil..they made me put pieces together for many of my personal questions. Especially the one “How to heal a broken heart.” Thank you Dr. and thank You Oprah.

  • @randomspectator8383
    @randomspectator8383 2 года назад +3

    this dr phil i can watch. the 2021 and 2022 dr phil is not watchable.... bring old dr phil back please

  • @jaehaymond3423
    @jaehaymond3423 2 года назад +5

    Hi OWN It's Me Jae! I Remember Seeing This Episode! Thank You! You Can't Beat Classic Episodes of The Oprah Winfrey Show!

  • @TheMary1027
    @TheMary1027 2 года назад +5

    Wow I’m watching this alone now but making my husband watch it but every couple should watch this

  • @sararomero7090
    @sararomero7090 2 года назад +13

    Imagine how these couples would feel if after insulting and screaming at each other, one of them walked out the door and got into a car accident or something? How would they feel if that person died and the last thing you said to them was something awful and hurtful? I make sure that every time I leave the house I tell my husband, “I love you” because you never know what might happen.

    • @taraji_b
      @taraji_b 2 года назад +2

      That actually happened to a friend of ours, he got into a fight with his pregnant fiancé and she got into the car to leave and 3 miles down the road she crashed speeding head on into an electrical pole and was killed. About 6 years later he had a massive heart attack in the car on the way home from work and died, he was only 39, I don’t think he ever spiritually recovered.

    • @sararomero7090
      @sararomero7090 2 года назад +2

      @@taraji_b Oh my gosh I’m so sorry 😞

  • @joesoap572
    @joesoap572 2 года назад +9

    4:55 mins into this and I'm contemplating staying single for the rest of my life

    • @RoadWarrior48
      @RoadWarrior48 Год назад +3

      I’ve been through it all, over the years. I’m a very happy and healthy senior without a man. 🥰😊

    • @46foryounger
      @46foryounger 5 месяцев назад

      You won’t miss much trust me.

  • @selinaskhosana1705
    @selinaskhosana1705 6 месяцев назад

    🎉🎉stil relevant even today....I used to watch 20yrs ago...stil love to watch them again❤

  • @shirleytheresia
    @shirleytheresia 2 года назад +3

    To me it seems like the classic conflict between sanguine versus melancholic personalities. The two are hell when together, but when they grow up and work together their different ways of doing things, they are really power couple

  • @dip.2271
    @dip.2271 Год назад +1

    Absolutely, Oprah.

  • @JillianClaireRox
    @JillianClaireRox Год назад

    I love Dr. Phil!

  • @MA-ur1ns
    @MA-ur1ns 2 года назад +5

    Highlight of the entire video..”set your VCR…” lol my my how technology has evolved

  • @normajanedehoag3660
    @normajanedehoag3660 2 года назад +5

    That is true cause the only Time my husband and I talk is when we argue

    • @normajanedehoag3660
      @normajanedehoag3660 2 года назад

      and we just got done arguing and angry at each other

    • @Whoeverheardof
      @Whoeverheardof Год назад +1

      I’m sorry y’all should go to marriage counseling or something.

  • @SuLawn
    @SuLawn 2 года назад +3

    Method in my madness, I believe that the universe provides what I need, not always necessarily what I want. I believe 🙏

  • @crazeekids9744
    @crazeekids9744 2 года назад +8

    I ain’t buying what Eric is selling.

  • @normajanedehoag3660
    @normajanedehoag3660 2 года назад +1

    Not winning but argue in such a way with a purpose for both to be ok with it

  • @SuLawn
    @SuLawn 2 года назад +1

    Hi universe, I shush, get quiet, get calm 😌 and feel the universe whispering to me.

  • @u-no-who
    @u-no-who 2 года назад +3

    The 3rd couple can frame the doily, in a nice frame, and hang it, on a wall, in the dining area. A small picture of the woman, who crochet the doily, can be added either in the frame next to the doily or in a separate matching frame hanging next to the framed doily.
    It would make a great conversational piece, it would look very nice, and it would illuminate some arguments.

    • @christyelkins
      @christyelkins 2 года назад

      Hello, doily couple here, Oprah actually had the doily framed and matted for us. It is very beautiful and now protected.

  • @whereisacbijustice-4ssrdis737
    @whereisacbijustice-4ssrdis737 2 года назад +1

    God bless u Oprah Winfrey And her Show w...w😎😎😋😋😋😋😊😀😀😊😊😀😀😊😀😋😊😊😁😁😊😁😋

  • @crazeekids9744
    @crazeekids9744 2 года назад +9

    That second dude is totally checked out and regretting marrying her and having all those babies. But he knows he would be destroyed financially if he left.

  • @ThornyRoseV
    @ThornyRoseV Год назад +1

    My husband is my best friend and we can talk about everything. With the years toxic masculinity is not as common as it was and it shows.

  • @sweetartbloemfontein5332
    @sweetartbloemfontein5332 2 года назад +3

    Pigs are actually one of the most intellegent animals !!! LOL*

  • @karencarroll8888
    @karencarroll8888 2 года назад

    we talk laugh..disagree &..always i love you..

  • @braeutchen41
    @braeutchen41 2 года назад +4

    Put the doily in a picture frame with velvet behind it.
    It makes a beautiful showpiece. And label the back: Grannie jones made this 1852....it went thru the civil war....ta da ta da ta da.
    Like that !!!

    • @christyelkins
      @christyelkins 2 года назад +2

      Hello, doily couple here, Oprah actually had the doily framed and matted for us. It is very beautiful and now protected.

    • @braeutchen41
      @braeutchen41 2 года назад

      @@christyelkins hooray !!! Thanks for telling me!🖐🏻☺️

  • @meltaylor7984
    @meltaylor7984 2 года назад +1

    It's crazy to think I was three when this aired.

  • @saranefati751
    @saranefati751 2 года назад +1

    My dad was allways a slob about THE dishes so My Mom let him DO hes thing and after he was done she went in to THE kitchen and redid it No arguments they were toghtere until My dad died and now she dont wanna meet anybody new becuse they had a real special bond

  • @cnovikamaharani
    @cnovikamaharani 2 года назад +1

    I'm crying while I haven't even got married yet.

  • @MrBobbo18
    @MrBobbo18 2 года назад +2

    There is a proper way to load the dishwasher…. Fill it and don’t run it half empty. Don’t put in items that take up too much real estate or get used everyday.

    • @clareshaughnessy2745
      @clareshaughnessy2745 2 года назад +2

      Here’s the thing, what’s more important to you, having the dishwasher loaded ‘correctly’ or having a happy home. If it’s the dishwasher, that’s fine, you’ll soon have it all to yourself!

  • @normajanedehoag3660
    @normajanedehoag3660 2 года назад +4

    My husband used to tell me that he will take care of our kids so I could go out with my girl friends

    • @carriebell3566
      @carriebell3566 2 года назад +2

      You were married to an angel

    • @leigha2814
      @leigha2814 2 года назад +4

      I mean, that's what good parents do.

  • @kevvintage7654
    @kevvintage7654 Год назад +1

    The second couple needs to find 2 hours a week for a date night. Most important, no work talk, no mention of children from the time you leave for the date, to the time you walk back in the door at home.

  • @janedoe7229
    @janedoe7229 2 года назад +5

    My son doesn’t permit me to load his dishwasher. Lol. He told me it drives him insane if things aren’t placed as he thinks they should be. My ex husband same way.

    • @clareshaughnessy2745
      @clareshaughnessy2745 2 года назад +4

      My ex woke me up at 2am one time, absolutely furious because, once again, I had loaded the dishwasher ‘wrongly’ , that’s why he ended up being my ex

  • @clareshaughnessy2745
    @clareshaughnessy2745 2 года назад +1

    Jeez, I use 5000 words a day just commenting on Dr Phil!

  • @nanettewinston-armstrong9294
    @nanettewinston-armstrong9294 2 года назад +2

    💓

  • @kevvintage7654
    @kevvintage7654 Год назад +2

    Argueing is not discussing.

  • @dharam149
    @dharam149 2 года назад +11

    Seen it way back. Why would you upload it again. Please upload tanya’s kitchen table episodes, patti LaBelle making potato saLad with oprah, Brandy’s entire interview and oprahs legend ball.

    • @kirbzmom
      @kirbzmom Год назад +1

      I've never seen it before.

    • @Whoeverheardof
      @Whoeverheardof Год назад +1

      No we like the old Oprah episodes. We need a lot more.

  • @victoriam7508
    @victoriam7508 5 месяцев назад

    Bom dia Opraha Winfrey eu só Victoria Deus ti a bênção todos os dias da sua vida e sua família também 👸👍❤❤❤

  • @sonjag.8686
    @sonjag.8686 2 года назад +3

    if the second couple where divorced and it is his time with the children all for himself. I wonder how many times that will take place, until he throws the towel! I think he only stay in the marriage for her to take care of the children for him to have eirs and escape to his bar!

  • @adamristow2229
    @adamristow2229 2 года назад

    The old school years are over! The from the 1950s and back are over

  • @MrDedvalson
    @MrDedvalson 3 месяца назад

    If there is a proper way to load the dishwasher, let the husband do it 💯. He just wants to make himself feel better.

  • @marylett3546
    @marylett3546 2 года назад +1

    He don't even look interested,he look bored!

  • @jessicalow9163
    @jessicalow9163 2 года назад +2

    I wonder if there still together

    • @christyelkins
      @christyelkins 2 года назад +3

      Doily couple here!!!! We are still together and better than ever!

  • @gabyloibl5172
    @gabyloibl5172 2 года назад +4

    Okay, and that last supposedly grown man, who can only yell when he gets upset- jesus christ how UNATTRACTIVE. How unconscious can one be, and remain. I would be surprised if those 3 sentences from Dr. Phil made him change. I don't care what he went through to have anger issues. Get therapy and be better.

    • @christyelkins
      @christyelkins 2 года назад

      I am actually the wife in that couple, how grown of you to judge another human as being UNATTRACTIVE. It is so easy to sit behind a keyboard while you judge and bully others. For the record he has changed and 20 years later we are still together and have a great marriage.

    • @gabyloibl5172
      @gabyloibl5172 2 года назад +1

      @@christyelkins good for you he got better. And anyone is UNATTRACTIVE who needs to yell around! And then also, why do you defend this behavior? You don’t even get it that my comment was pro you.

    • @kirbzmom
      @kirbzmom Год назад +2

      @@christyelkins No offense, but you went on the show and put it out there in front of everyone and so people will have opinions. And we only get to see about 5 minutes of your lives, so it isn't always an accurate depiction.
      I also agree with you that people can be harsh and there's no reason to be. But its easier to have an opinion because it's not personal for us, but it is for you. And obviously YOU didn't like the behavior either or you wouldn't be on The Oprah Winfrey Show.
      But having said all that, so happy to hear you're doing so well!! To many more years of happiness. 🥂

  • @ingridphillips8243
    @ingridphillips8243 Год назад +2

    It seems like the husband in the 2nd couple is just done! He's probably having an affair!

  • @mariposa6615
    @mariposa6615 4 месяца назад

    Erica and Eric's relationship didn't work because Eric is a queen.

  • @normajanedehoag3660
    @normajanedehoag3660 2 года назад

    We don’t use cush words

  • @gabrielavaldivia4139
    @gabrielavaldivia4139 2 года назад +4

    I dont bélière him. He is jalouse of her succès.

  • @braeutchen41
    @braeutchen41 2 года назад +2

    Hes cute ......but what does he do for a living.....it takes a really strong man to live happily w a really brilliant woman........he's cute.....but he's NOT your equal mentally......😏

  • @sonjag.8686
    @sonjag.8686 2 года назад +2

    It seems like couple #2 husband is not paying to much attention on his family cause he already has them! Secondly, nobody wants a wife who is yapping all the private family business with friends! So, he taking it to easy on that part! When Dr. Phil told him, he could call his wife, that he’s able to come home earlier and take the children, the husband seems to get afraid to actually handle the children!

  • @vickimerritt2832
    @vickimerritt2832 2 года назад

    Sorry, Dr. Phil missed the mark especially on couple 2,

  • @kodo988
    @kodo988 2 года назад +3

    I never thought this man was a good therapist. Even in his own show he never resolves anything.

    • @kirbzmom
      @kirbzmom Год назад +4

      That's too bad. I disagree. I've applied a lot I've learned over the years to my own life.

    • @katscratchfever3506
      @katscratchfever3506 Год назад +2

      Cool cause his amazing career says otherwise. Also, he’s a doctor, not a therapist. Stay mad

  • @SuLawn
    @SuLawn 2 года назад +2

    What are you saying underneath what you're saying? Bottom line.

  • @lovingmayberry307
    @lovingmayberry307 2 года назад +10

    Dr. Phil always blames the husband more than the wife, ALWAYS.

    • @papi4805
      @papi4805 2 года назад +1

      That's not true at all. As soon as he started talking about what to fix with the husband, he looked at the wife and said "I'm not just picking on you I'm sure she does this too"

    • @ernestinemorrison2799
      @ernestinemorrison2799 2 года назад +1

      Loving Mayberry no one always does always

    • @clareshaughnessy2745
      @clareshaughnessy2745 2 года назад +2

      I don’t think he does. But what he does have is experience of being a husband and a very strong idea of how to be a good husband. If it was me I’d see each person’s point of view, but I’d have a little more to say to the woman about being a good mother because that’s where my experience and passion is.

    • @katscratchfever3506
      @katscratchfever3506 Год назад

      The husband is the head of the family. So yes, they have a responsibility.

  • @ingridphillips8243
    @ingridphillips8243 Год назад

    "Dr" Phil is very misogynistic!

  • @milesmayhem5440
    @milesmayhem5440 6 месяцев назад

    Dr. Phil gives the worst advice to men.