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  • Life strategist Dr. Phil McGraw helps couples where one spouse is too controlling. (Original air date: October 2, 2012) Watch more of The Oprah Winfrey Show on the WatchOWN app: bit.ly/watchownapp
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  • @OWN
    @OWN  5 месяцев назад +7

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  • @teenindustry
    @teenindustry 23 дня назад +12

    Calling him a wimp was awful. She is emotionally abusive to him. A woman experiencing this would not be ridiculed and this poor guy shouldn’t

  • @MeganSmith80
    @MeganSmith80 Месяц назад +13

    This poor guy obviously needs help. I hate that people are hating on him.

  • @KC-ns9do
    @KC-ns9do 5 месяцев назад +55

    That is/was a toxic marriage. That wife is a narcissistic bully.

  • @turly07
    @turly07 4 месяца назад +28

    Why are they directing it all at him when she is the one who is a narcissistic bully? If he were treating her like that people would have sympathy and understanding for her

    • @philippamcqueen5430
      @philippamcqueen5430 4 месяца назад +5

      Completely right thier...tines have changed since then...thiers no 'man up' rules anymore..he's afraid of her..he couldn't speak up to her..couldn't watch it all as they went about things completely wrong

    • @yogalyfe
      @yogalyfe 3 месяца назад +4

      I think they're just trying to have him accept this isn't normal and he doesn't deserve to be treated that way. They most likely think she's a lost cause so they're focusing on him.

    • @karahupp4589
      @karahupp4589 29 дней назад +1

      They already spent an episode on her! Now they are trying to get him to wake up. At least that’s my understanding of it.

  • @29sagittarius51
    @29sagittarius51 3 месяца назад +22

    I’d love to know where these couples are now, 12 years later

  • @Greenway1234
    @Greenway1234 5 месяцев назад +50

    I wonder if they’re still married today.

  • @yogalyfe
    @yogalyfe 3 месяца назад +12

    Do they have children? Could you imagine watching your father be treated that way? And im sure her behavior doesnt end with him. Someone in my life treats her partner this way and it makes me so uncomfortable to be around them. She is so lucky to have such an incredible husband and i do not understand how she can treat him that way.

  • @96no12
    @96no12 5 месяцев назад +16

    For a 2001 oprah episode, the energy gives 80s early 90s oprah when that show was more dramatic

    • @MaryjaneLove
      @MaryjaneLove 5 месяцев назад +5

      . -&& 90s and 2000s was the best episodes of oprah from the book club to the angel network from Erin kramp and George Dawson . . My God my God ii miss Oprah . . .❤❤❤❤

  • @stephani633
    @stephani633 5 месяцев назад +18

    That’s so mean that they keep calling him names .::

  • @mm7846
    @mm7846 5 месяцев назад +17

    19:08 This is why Oprah and Dr. Phil are awesome 💗 They help us cut through the crap and see ourselves more clearly 🙏🫶

  • @oliviaLOVEShenry
    @oliviaLOVEShenry 4 месяца назад +24

    He may have experienced this in his childhood, it’s a trauma bond. If he doesn’t want to change this, then we should just leave him to it.

  • @elizabethsalvatore1633
    @elizabethsalvatore1633 29 дней назад +3

    “ Don’t breathe like that”!😂 REDICULOUS!! 😵‍💫

  • @mudokonslig9205
    @mudokonslig9205 5 месяцев назад +17

    People were so disrespectful to John.

  • @beverleycumming1876
    @beverleycumming1876 2 месяца назад +5

    Notice how the wife holds his hand with an iron fist

  • @jacintacody133
    @jacintacody133 3 месяца назад +6

    The way Wendy looked at her husband in the audience before they went on stage spoke volumes.

  • @Wiseguy429
    @Wiseguy429 3 месяца назад +6

    Awesome interview I love Dr. Phil and opera together

  • @Dreambig29-654
    @Dreambig29-654 4 месяца назад +26

    I dont think he loves her! It’s a trauma bond, like between a hostage and a kidnapper 😮

    • @anythingandeverythingABCLife
      @anythingandeverythingABCLife 18 дней назад

      people need to stop using that description, the stockholm syndrome. patty hearst, the first "stockholm" victim, the one that robbed the bank with her kidnappers, said that she hates that term, that she always knew she was in danger, always knew her kidnappers were her kidnappers; she only went along because she needed to stay alive, not because she was relating to her kidnappers

  • @suzettemyers6058
    @suzettemyers6058 2 месяца назад +3

    I would like to see the first episode with John and Rochelle!

  • @sonjag.8686
    @sonjag.8686 4 месяца назад +5

    Well, if someone treats my like that, my affection would be frozen too! ( her comment on the sleeping part)

  • @sonjag.8686
    @sonjag.8686 4 месяца назад +5

    Those controllers should ask themselfs what kind a sick version of a partner they like! Cause on thing is for sure: this is not the real person! It’s like you have a lot of money and people are nice too you because of the money! You don’t know who is real and who is fake!!
    I love, when people have the freedom of choice and still choose you!!
    That would make me feel much better than putting pressure on people to do what I want!! ✌🏻

  • @Star-dj1kw
    @Star-dj1kw 3 месяца назад +4

    I can’t believe this lady has the guts to show her face 😂

  • @shelaghhiggins6070
    @shelaghhiggins6070 3 месяца назад +1

    Brilliant. 👏👏👏👏

  • @victoriaparsons4378
    @victoriaparsons4378 2 месяца назад

    No judging here. Learned a thing or two from this interview/show. Love to all!❤

  • @LindaCasey
    @LindaCasey 4 месяца назад +4

    You're fully alive and fully yourself when you can live by your own rules .. have your lovers and have your friends, but keep them separate from your own goals and dreams.

  • @1927su
    @1927su 5 дней назад

    It’s amazing the things we would NOT tolerate from friends/coworkers etc ever, are so readily accepted from a spouse… smh

  • @rubymaddy3161
    @rubymaddy3161 14 дней назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @reighbow2
    @reighbow2 5 месяцев назад +10

    t.agree with the lady in red saying that he is a very strong man. The problem is that he just doesn't have really good boundaries

  • @MaryjaneLove
    @MaryjaneLove 5 месяцев назад +7

    . &&&& that wife is stuck in her ways and thats so sad . . . nevertheless ii would love an update on this couple . . . ❤️💯

  • @franchahadera6927
    @franchahadera6927 2 дня назад

    Stairs at night: easy fix. Fridge in the bedroom.

  • @peacepocket
    @peacepocket 3 месяца назад +4

    If this was reversed and a man was treating a woman this way, everyone would be OUTRAGED! This is disgusting behavior. His wife is psychotic!!!

  • @stephani633
    @stephani633 5 месяцев назад +7

    I’m sorry i just have to say that this is completely ridiculous… he needs to run away from her fast !!!

  • @sarahlynch3
    @sarahlynch3 5 месяцев назад +5

    Wow so mean 😢

  • @donnahague8983
    @donnahague8983 4 месяца назад +4

    I would hope he has come to his senses by now and left her … anyone know???

  • @hennagal7360
    @hennagal7360 18 дней назад

    "As a matter of fact he's ALL CAPS ! " 😂😂

  • @kimmcpadden5371
    @kimmcpadden5371 5 месяцев назад +7

    A woman being controlled they wouldnt call her a woss ,now men being controlled is serious topic ,even on this dhow doctor phil calling him a wuss,its hard to for a controlled person to get brzve and srand up to the controller,a man on dr.phil in 2023 would bever be czlled weak or wuss

  • @sonjag.8686
    @sonjag.8686 3 месяца назад +2

    I believe the controlling partner trained their controlled partner believe that only they make a good decision! So the controlled partner is afraid to make decisions because the controlling partner will destroy every idea of a decision!!

  • @lynseycassidy5506
    @lynseycassidy5506 3 месяца назад +6

    This is appalling hello gender equality this man is a victim of abuse !calling him a wuss would never be ok nowadays its uncomfortable to watch the victim blaming

    • @karahupp4589
      @karahupp4589 29 дней назад

      Omg calm down😂 they spent a whole episode ripping her apart and letting her know how horrible she was.

    • @lynseycassidy5506
      @lynseycassidy5506 29 дней назад +1

      @@karahupp4589 I am calm its called an opinion 🤣

  • @route-66barefoot16
    @route-66barefoot16 4 месяца назад +5

    These are evil bullies. Not wife.

  • @micheleannthomas116
    @micheleannthomas116 22 дня назад +1

    Gosh I remember this show so clearly. Wonder what happened to these two? 🤔

  • @lydiaewang5011
    @lydiaewang5011 5 месяцев назад +2

    Hello

  • @donnaturbide4573
    @donnaturbide4573 5 дней назад

    Read that she a realtor and he is an agent and works for him

  • @sonjag.8686
    @sonjag.8686 3 месяца назад +1

    What about getting surprised by your partner?! Instead of controlling anything and anyone✌🏻

  • @michaelb7647
    @michaelb7647 4 месяца назад +3

    This is great and all but iyanla vanzant would of got to the root cause of why they behave this way. Childhood traumas etc.

  • @suziekane9605
    @suziekane9605 2 месяца назад +1

    I love the lady in Red, she is strong

  • @ezraesther620
    @ezraesther620 5 месяцев назад +5

    I think he's hurting and tramatized that's y he's allowing her to do wateva she wants

  • @synneazaro
    @synneazaro 18 дней назад

    Manipulation is the word, not control

  • @synneazaro
    @synneazaro 18 дней назад

    Cohesive control

  • @lestudio76
    @lestudio76 24 дня назад +1

    He chooses to stay.

  • @synneazaro
    @synneazaro 18 дней назад

    Dr Phil don’t understand narcissistic abuse

  • @caroldorsett8170
    @caroldorsett8170 2 месяца назад +1

    don’t want to come home any more and I didn’t. I hit critical mass!

  • @drknow1997
    @drknow1997 4 месяца назад +1

    Where is John’s mother?

  • @1927su
    @1927su 5 дней назад

    Saying “ Daddy does it wrong” in front of the kids, is terribly wrong!! It teaches those kids not to respect their Dad/ parental alienation.
    also called ABUSE - 😮

  • @catherinesinclair7727
    @catherinesinclair7727 9 дней назад

    He can't cope on his own

  • @Wiseguy429
    @Wiseguy429 3 месяца назад +2

    I can understand the soda part because it’s so bad for you but there’s a way to approach it but he is a wimp lol

  • @pamduncan9181
    @pamduncan9181 2 месяца назад

    Way too many commercials to watch.

  • @rutauokareuelu-vp8yq
    @rutauokareuelu-vp8yq 18 дней назад

    👍👍💖

  • @melissapietrok8050
    @melissapietrok8050 25 дней назад

    I don't think his heart is into it at all wants to be controlled 😢

  • @kathyturner9150
    @kathyturner9150 19 дней назад

    He should threaten divorce unless she gets help.

  • @Enufalready771
    @Enufalready771 25 дней назад

    He sounds alot like women who have been abused by their partner. He has lost his sense of self as separate from the wife. I think it probably happened over time.

  • @cm5691cm
    @cm5691cm 18 дней назад

    30 cases of cola and a lifetime of Diabetes II. Soda is gone from my house. Watch .... The Game Changers. Stop the sugar if you have any sense at all.

  • @lorettamiller4536
    @lorettamiller4536 4 месяца назад +2

    I wonder if they're still married

    • @user-db9eh6si8w
      @user-db9eh6si8w 4 месяца назад +1

      They checked back with them like over a decade ago. They were still married then. A couple with no children. By choice. Apperantley the advice helped them. Curious to know if they're together today too :-)

  • @TwentyTwo_22_
    @TwentyTwo_22_ 5 месяцев назад

    Brit here: What's O and 400?

    • @amelialouisa8541
      @amelialouisa8541 4 месяца назад +3

      0 as in he's won nothing and 400 how many times she's gotten her way. A score basically

    • @Claire-cc7lb
      @Claire-cc7lb 4 месяца назад +3

      Means she’s won every argument, he’s given in every time

    • @TwentyTwo_22_
      @TwentyTwo_22_ 4 месяца назад +2

      @@Claire-cc7lb Thank you Claire, I get it now! x

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 6 дней назад

    When I liked Oprah …….

  • @nicholasnstarz5676
    @nicholasnstarz5676 4 месяца назад +1

    Doctor Phil was out of line, there's a way to help the couple without bashing the wives

  • @jameshenderson7696
    @jameshenderson7696 6 дней назад

    Let's face it, if the roles were reversed these days and he was doing that to her he wud be labelled as the biggest scum bag on the planet

  • @maryannhope8276
    @maryannhope8276 5 месяцев назад

    Smdh 😖🤪🥴

  • @SantanaCampbell
    @SantanaCampbell 4 месяца назад

    God says it's love to allow someone to dominate you. Ask Christ the King!

  • @Kookoo347
    @Kookoo347 5 месяцев назад +3

    Operah and Phil are revolting human beings!!!