@K Dubbs Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name......
Breaks my heart honestly, she was so beautiful. Like the kind of person who'd turn heads. The fact that she couldn't see that before is tragic. She definitely was being manipulated and abused by her ex.
Hey Y'all!!! For those of you who have praised me for speaking about this so publicly, and understand how difficult it was to show my "imperfect" features and insecurities on a national and international television platform....THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. I did this show, and all the others to reach as many people as possible to show/explain how easy it is to lose your grip on the way you view your reflection, and the devastating effects this has on a person both physically and emotionally. For those of you who struggle to understand what/how/why I acted/reacted in such extreme ways, but leave encouraging and complimentary comments/replies....THANK YOU for being open to TRY to understand by showing Grace and empathy towards me. I learned years ago that reading a bunch of negative comments was counterproductive for me, so I don't read them that much. I have 2 gorgeous daughters who do read the comments from time to time, and it's hurtful to read comments that can be very cruel about their mother. There is a personal and emotional toll that is paid to stand up and shine a light in a very very dark place. It's now late May 2021. My focus in life is my husband, my daughters, close family/friends, and regaining my health, which I have struggled with for the last 11 years. I lost every single pound I gained after a fibromyalgia diagnosis as I continue searching and investigating alternative answers. Thanks to those kind enough to reserve unnecessary/counterproductive comments and judgements in favor of compassion and empathy 🙌🙏. ~Jenny Lee
She was a knockout before doing this to herself. So sad this poor woman needs so much therapy. There's so many people who have it so much worse than her- can't fathom she is so superficial to ruin herself this way
NO one is one own TOXIC... If we start believing everything you hear.. you see what I mean is even if poison is thrown at you.. it becomes POISON only when you lick it. So stop licking it (internalising it). You guys need spiritual help!!!! When you know I mean really KNOW Jesus Christ you will only laugh at people's ignorance and stupidity and arrogance and their darkness instead of obeying their "comments"
This lady has the life lesson of Loving herself. I grew up in a dysfunctional family where there was very little love. Money and things were always more important than people. One of my life lesson is to love myself unconditionally .
Such an excellent ability to see into people and understand their life lessons. I'd like to tell you my story and see what you come up with as life lessons. I love people who can see into others beautifully.
Woah, i remember watching this as a child and thinking she looked so cartoonish and over the top... And now, by todays standards she kind of just looks like every influencer
Isn't that so wild, you're absolutely right. The changes are quite conservative when you consider the difference between before and afters nowadays. Kylie Jenner is a different human being from several years ago to now and she's the same age as me. I've seen photo comparisons of her early in her surgeries to now and she looks like she could be her own mother. It's frightening.
Thats so interesting to have seen this when you were younger and see it again now and reflect on how much society has changed. Such an unrealistic expectation society pushes on us all, men I believe experience this too.
It’s crazy she was literally like PERFECT before. Like literally a model mental health is so powerful because idk how she didn’t see how beautiful she was.
Parents please acknowledge your daughters how beautiful and smart they are. Build their self esteem like steel armor from the early start so no one can shatter it.
No matter parents guide their daughters and give them true advice, the amount of exposure and judgemental society we have is enormous. Pls don't blame parents , evry parent love their child the way they are born it's a gift from god. Pls stop this social media and following celebrities
My mother and father did that. :) They never criticized anything about my appearance, either. Marilyn Monroe said, "every little girl should be told she is beautiful". That's an actual real* MM quote too.
I liked the plastic surgeon in the audience who raised the question about psychiatric counselling. Any reputable plastic surgeon will stop when enough is enough, or when the proposed surgery will go bad or dangerous. Nowadays these people just surgeon-shop in other countries though where the medical ethics are different. There was even a lady recently who had ribs removed and cartoon eyes implanted into her real eyes because she wanted to look like "Barbie". You can't make this stuff up!
@@jmjlem95 it's not facts it's abuse, plain and simple. It's exactly what got her into such a bad mental state to begin with. Support is not cruel. She can't turn back time.
This was the best year she had as far as looks wise. During this whole year she was a semi knockout. She had finally lost all the weight and toned up. Had amazing makeup and hair.
@@heartstrings110 that was 1997 when she was looking muscular. Working with him. I think she worked out with him for years. Her hair and makeup game was strong here
In this period of time we didn’t understand mental health as a culture. Shows like this would routinely have people with serious issues come on and tell us about their problems. People in a normal state of mind would marvel at them. They would be asked all kinds of questions, sometimes insensitively. This one was better than others I’ve seen especially in the end.
In wasn’t insensitive at the time. It was getting that info out to people so it would get into the public consciousness so people would even know it exists to ask questions. The learning had to start somewhere and it can’t be judged by todays standards.
I have never had surgery but I can feel how empty they feel inside. My heart hurts just listening to them talk about how much they do not love themselves. How sad!
My mom died two days after having plastic surgery on New Year's Day five years ago. The surgeons did so much on her that she didn't walk around soon after, therefore, causing blood clots to finally have three heart attacks from it. They did so much on her in such little time. My mom's friend that worked at the plastic surgeon's told about my mom's story and a girl got up and walked out of the waiting room. Think about if that's what you want because you might live but might not survive afterward and my family and I now have to see her at the cemetery. We miss her every day.
When she said 'my spirit was broken', I realized this woman is the victim of narcissistic abuse...some survive this, some don't....her spirit did NOT survive her ex-husband's abuse...and THIS is the result.
I'm sure they husband gave some hints of how he would treat his wife in the way he treated her when she was his girlfriend. I wish she would have shared this information with the audience to help some young unsuspecting girl out there right now.
being able to recoganize abusive behaviors is as important as having high self-esteem. Comments like "your bs are too small" or "your nose is too big" should never be made by any "loved one".
When the lightbulb went off and Oprah raised her arms and said, “yes.” I clapped out loud and tears were brought to my eyes. I am a drug addict, and I want that light bulb. I want it so badly.
I had a boyfriend, he told me, "physically you're not my type". I didn't realize it was a sign that I should left him, untill 3 years later I found someone whom loves me just the way I'am.
I'm happy for you girl! Funny joke, boyfriend says: "I think your tummy's a little bit too big". Girlfriend replies: "I think your dick is a little bit too small".
@Sparkle Rose exactly its so sad, I wish people would not give such people the platform that they have, I get it most of us use social media for entertainment more than we use it for educational purposes but come on making someone that famous and that rich just for having an hourglass or abs seems a bit absurd to me. I don't follow anyone that doesn't have anything more than looks to present and that helped me realize how beautiful we are and how different we look from one another. each one has something special about them and I would never want to be a copy I rather stay original just the way I was born to be
How do they look in the mirror and think it looks better?? I see so many young girls like this and it’s horrendous. They look like freaks. I find it interesting that so many young gorgeous girls do this, but look so much worse for it. Makes no sense. 🤷🏻♀️
People laugh when they are horrified..Look at the movie carrie. The nice teacher even laughed. Not at carrie, but because of the situation. It's how people function. It seems cruel on the outside, but if you understand human behavior just a little bit you can see it for what it is.
It’s so sad when people you love tell you aren’t good enough. I dated a guy a few years ago and things he told me still impact me today. Not to this level, but we need to realize the weight of our comments. We are all guilty of it , but it’s something that needs to change!
Ethical surgeons like Dr Youn refuse to even perform certain plastic surgeries and absolutely would refuse to work on someone with a psychological addiction to surgery. He has a fantastic youtube channel. There definitely are ethical plastic surgeons out there. You just need to do your homework. I think unfortunately a lot of women opt for cheaper plastic surgeons and that's where all the problems begin.
She was *gorgeous!!* It's literally the sole reason I clicked, to FF to see if that left-side pic in the thumbnail was truly her "before" pic. _Unbelievable._ She looks _terrible_ now, completely artificial and bizarre. Worse, she has no semblance of her original self. The pics even look like two different ancestries! The initial pic looks beautifully exotic. I cannot fathom her wishing to alter that. What's ironic is-- her natural face is what's "in" (preferred) now.
She was so gorgeous before and she's so gorgeous now! I even looked her up from 2022 and she looks stunning!!! I hope she feels as beautiful as she is.
Alot of people throw around the word "ugly" too much and too easily. The word ugly is ugly itself. Everyone - both men & women are all beautiful and unique in their own way!! 💕
I didn’t do the Dr. Phil show, or a lot of other shows I was asked to go on. This topic is hard to talk about, especially when you are on TV. You don’t know what they are going to ask you, and if you don’t have a great answer then it sucks that you can’t take it back. I had already gone through significant counseling and I didn’t want Dr. Phil to analyze me on TV. I love Dr. Phil, but I was scared. He didn’t need me to be there in person to tell me what was wrong. I regret not doing his show. My goal was to shine a light on what could happen and hopefully help other people get out of toxic relationships, and practice more self love. Dr. Phil knows when to be kind to the guests if it’s a sensitive topic. I didn’t give him the benefit of the doubt, and I should have.
Jenny you seem like the sweetest, most down to earth person, it’s a shame that other people have to ruin it, with or without plastic surgery you are a beautiful person, it’s great that you love animals and you love your children and your family ❤
I cried when she got a standing ovation for stating " I'll stick up with the legs"... if only society would applaud this in real-world not only when they are inside Oprah's studio, but that's far from reality in the world during decades we have been and continue to be bombarded with beauty stereotypes, I think is worse now than when this show was recorded
It took balls to get up on that stage. The ignorant audience didn't get that at all. Laughing like that at people who are opening up about their insecurities makes me wanna puke.
She looked beautiful before and after. The kindness inside shines outward. Hope she’s found peace and gives herself grace. She seems like such a genuine soul.
No relationship does this. It's the toxicity of her family of origin. Sane people do not end up in toxic relationships. And if they do, they dont stay in them long enough to get damaged. This is purely upbringing. Toxic relationships with parents, not men.
@@dailybls Sane people do end up in Toxic relationships that Destroy their Self-esteem and have to build themselves back up after they drop the Toxic person. Not everyone show their True selves at first.
I've never gone under the knife but I can absolutely relate to how she feels when she looks in the mirror. You Just can't feel comfortable in your own skin. It's very hard.
I left an abusive relationship a few months into the pandemic. it understandably messed me up but I'm so glad he never talked bad about my appearance because I would 100% be on that path if he did. abusive relationships like rewire your mind when you're in them
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name......
@@prophetisraelloladelegenes9173 shame on you for trying to scam people and using God's name to do it. You have written this exact same comment on at least one other video to a different person. While you're quoting scriptures, you might want to read what the Bible says about false prophets...
As far as the crowd goes, most people just lack empathy and so many people are not aware of their own weaknesses and don’t see themselves in this lady’s shoes but we all can learn and grow from each other when we learn to withhold judgment and offer help. I’m glad Oprah called out the sighs and said we are all here as a nation, they still didn’t get it like, nah not me, when really their kids or someone in their family can end up like the first lady.
What this woman said at 34min,34sec almost made me cry. She was honest, although it looked hard to admit. However, it makes so much sense, especially to someone whose struggling with OCD. I was watching this on my TV and had to get on my phone to share this aha moment… Change is sooo hard and when you’re fighting yourself, sometimes you give in just to feel at peace. Your own brain is your enemy… It’s much deeper than I can explain!… Maybe I’ve already known this, but something in me just UNDERSTOOD when she said it 💡… So hard to explain smh!… So glad she was honest!
When I was growing up, I hated when my Mom would make me turn off cartoons so she could watch Oprah. Now I’m in my 20s and binging Oprah on RUclips. This show is lit!
I grew up in the 90's and that's how I got hooked on it too by sitting next to my mom waiting to watch something else on TV. And As the world turns and the Bold and the beautiful 🙈
This was exactly what happened to Lil' Kim. Her exes told her she was ugly but that was a lie, she was beautiful. Now she looks like the Bride of Wildenstein.
Actually lil Kim’s initial surgeries came from her getting her face smashed in by an abusive ex on more than on occasion and from that point she kind of went down the rabbit hole. Kim’s reasons for surgery initially at least , wasn’t just because a guy down talked her looks.
@@itsjemmabond according to Lil Kim guys that she dated always cheated on her with girls she thought was prettier than her along with the physical abuse caused her to have low self esteem and I guess she thought she could fix all that with plastic surgery
My ex-husband told me so much about how I could be better. I’m so grateful that not only is he my EX-husband but that I realized he was revealing HIS insecurities AND that. I accepted myself and am now married to a man who thinks my body and face are the most beautiful things in this world. More importantly, I finally feel beautiful.
I think accepting God’s goodness and love is the foundation. He loves us and shows us how to be selfless and love others as well as giving us a healthy view of the way He created us.
DEAR OPRAH WINFREY I LOVE THIS SHOW, SO INSPIRING.WELDOEN!!!!!MADE ME APPRECIATE MORE ABOUT REAL LIFE.. I REALLY SUPPORT IN THIS.WISH I COULD SEE YOU IN PERSON JUST TO HUG YOU AND YOU BRING PEOPLE UP 😘😘😘
The reactions from the audience are quite disrespectful. The poor woman clearly needed compassion and to be told how worth she is without surgery, not people laughing at her. Oh, and therapy, she definitely needed therapy.
I remember when I was in primary school in the 90’s when I’d get to watch Oprah if I had the day off school because I was sick. It used to be on around midday in Australia and I learnt a lot! People bag Oprah now because they judge it by todays standards but really back when it started in 1986 and all through it was pretty ground breaking.
@@chandlerjohnson9694 Im next but I know what I wanna look like & the body I want so Ian gonna go overboard and then I can finally be Slim Thick or Thick with an face that's gon be pretty
She was gorgeous! I still find her beautiful because of how charming and sweet she is. What I understood is ..your personality is what makes you beautiful, if you want to look beautiful and be considered attractive you better have the best personality! I hope everyone realises that. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I don't wear tight clothes to work out. I wear what feels comfortable for me. It's not a fashion show in the gym. It is not worth losing a great love and family. She is lucky to have family.
I work-out from home. I lost 25lbs in a few weeks when I webt whole food plant based. 1 year later, still size 6. So.....you don't even NEED to work out to lose weight. Take a 30 minute walk couple times a week. You're fine!
My boyfriend always says my nose is beautiful and I shouldn’t do anything to it when I whine about how much I hate it and will change it one day. Watching this makes me appreciate him so much more than I already do, and I appreciate him soo much already :’).
Damn people’s opinions really do influence us more than we think. She looked way more beautiful than before. She was a natural beauty.Why do people do this to themselves
I'm insecure about my nose and when raising my children I said bad things about myself. Fast forward many years and I heard my daughter criticizing her own looks. I was super shocked because I thought She was gorgeous. Sadly she reminded me how I used to talk about myself and she'd always known she had the same nose. If I had only known....
@@Janellabelle I think what they mean to say is: despite people being around us, even people we love and adore, there are some things we do go through all on our own (sadly).
This is why i tell my daughters everyday how beautiful they are....you have to instill that self confidence at home before they face the harsh real world!
Don't focus on your children's looks; emphasize what good people they are, how smart, responsible, and kind they are. That is what builds self worth. Looks are only temporary and have nothing to do with loving yourself.
“No one is born ugly, we're just born in a judgemental society.”
― Kim Namjoon
You are so right😒
Yes!
👏👏👏
@K Dubbs Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name......
👏👏👏👏👏
She looked beautiful as a natural.
She didn’t need plastic surgery. She just needed to get rid of her abusive husband.
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the damage men do, and the women who allow it...smh. She really should have thrown him out the door the moment he stated those comments.
Breaks my heart honestly, she was so beautiful. Like the kind of person who'd turn heads. The fact that she couldn't see that before is tragic. She definitely was being manipulated and abused by her ex.
Hello
For sure. She looked better than Julia Roberts if I may say so
Hey Y'all!!! For those of you who have praised me for speaking about this so publicly, and understand how difficult it was to show my "imperfect" features and insecurities on a national and international television platform....THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. I did this show, and all the others to reach as many people as possible to show/explain how easy it is to lose your grip on the way you view your reflection, and the devastating effects this has on a person both physically and emotionally.
For those of you who struggle to understand what/how/why I acted/reacted in such extreme ways, but leave encouraging and complimentary comments/replies....THANK YOU for being open to TRY to understand by showing Grace and empathy towards me. I learned years ago that reading a bunch of negative comments was counterproductive for me, so I don't read them that much. I have 2 gorgeous daughters who do read the comments from time to time, and it's hurtful to read comments that can be very cruel about their mother. There is a personal and emotional toll that is paid to stand up and shine a light in a very very dark place.
It's now late May 2021. My focus in life is my husband, my daughters, close family/friends, and regaining my health, which I have struggled with for the last 11 years. I lost every single pound I gained after a fibromyalgia diagnosis as I continue searching and investigating alternative answers. Thanks to those kind enough to reserve unnecessary/counterproductive comments and judgements in favor of compassion and empathy 🙌🙏. ~Jenny Lee
GOD LOVES YOU WHO YOU ARE.....
You did such an impressive job in how you shared a challenging story in a very judgy setting and such a judgy time.
Thanks for the update! Hope you stay healthy physically and emotionally.
All the very best to you Jenny x
Y’all are so sweet!! 💋 I truly appreciate your support. 😉🥰
What kind of doctor gives someone who's still in their 20's a facelift
Greedy Doctor
Dr. Dollar
all money, shame on them
Money is the root of all evil.
The usual profiteering one.
I can’t believe how naturally pretty she was🥺😞
It's a shame she didn't see it herself😕
@@uhuraenterprise6372 because she wasnt being grateful
@@iffaarmison9924 just because someone doesn’t think they’re pretty doesn't mean they're ungrateful.
She was a knockout before doing this to herself. So sad this poor woman needs so much therapy. There's so many people who have it so much worse than her- can't fathom she is so superficial to ruin herself this way
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Your EX WAS TOXIC. He Lied to make you feel low. He tried to mentally ruin you and he succeeded.
Guys thanks for 1k likes.
NO one is one own TOXIC... If we start believing everything you hear.. you see what I mean is even if poison is thrown at you.. it becomes POISON only when you lick it. So stop licking it (internalising it). You guys need spiritual help!!!! When you know I mean really KNOW Jesus Christ you will only laugh at people's ignorance and stupidity and arrogance and their darkness instead of obeying their "comments"
@@amug3536 Agreed!
thank you...i'm all better because of you, not just oprah
@Bipasha Palit 🙌🏾💯🎯🎯🎯
And he still have a hold on her if she keep speaking on him she might be married again but deep down inside she didn’t let herself heal properly
This lady has the life lesson of Loving herself. I grew up in a dysfunctional family where there was very little love. Money and things were always more important than people. One of my life lesson is to love myself unconditionally .
Such an excellent ability to see into people and understand their life lessons. I'd like to tell you my story and see what you come up with as life lessons. I love people who can see into others beautifully.
I feel sad for this lady. She's so brave to be on stage and talk about her surgeries. What a beautiful lady, both inside and out.
Woah, i remember watching this as a child and thinking she looked so cartoonish and over the top... And now, by todays standards she kind of just looks like every influencer
Your first impression was correct. All of them look cartoonsih and over the top. People are just so obssessed with them, that they dont notice it.
Isn't that so wild, you're absolutely right. The changes are quite conservative when you consider the difference between before and afters nowadays. Kylie Jenner is a different human being from several years ago to now and she's the same age as me. I've seen photo comparisons of her early in her surgeries to now and she looks like she could be her own mother. It's frightening.
Right. She looks...normal...🤔🧐
Thats so interesting to have seen this when you were younger and see it again now and reflect on how much society has changed. Such an unrealistic expectation society pushes on us all, men I believe experience this too.
yes, its really fun time to be alive...this is like normal today even fashionable
The people laughing and gasping have zero empathy. This woman is brave to come on this show and talk about her insecurities, and everyone laughs.
I know. I really hate women sometimes.
omg yes i know !!!
isn't this the essence of Oprah?
The world was just totally different back then and way more ruthless.
We used to laugh at this. Now it's commonplace.
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It’s crazy she was literally like PERFECT before. Like literally a model mental health is so powerful because idk how she didn’t see how beautiful she was.
Lesson learned: NEVER, EVER EVER EVER allow a man nor no one to let us down.
Her husband knew she was beautiful and he couldn't handle it smh
Wow you hit the nail , she were with a narcissist
@@Glo_up576 i was about to say it
Realy like why did he marry here if he didnt like how she looked🤦🏻♀️
@@elisa5812 look up videos on narcissism, she probably was narcissistic supply
Y’all are 💯 % correct about this!!
Parents please acknowledge your daughters how beautiful and smart they are. Build their self esteem like steel armor from the early start so no one can shatter it.
No matter parents guide their daughters and give them true advice, the amount of exposure and judgemental society we have is enormous. Pls don't blame parents , evry parent love their child the way they are born it's a gift from god. Pls stop this social media and following celebrities
The problem is not parents I think the men or boyfriend most Weit women.
My mother and father did that. :) They never criticized anything about my appearance, either. Marilyn Monroe said, "every little girl should be told she is beautiful". That's an actual real* MM quote too.
And parents, teach your son's to respect women & not to conform to the toxic pressures of Society!!
@@Janellabelle well...look what Hollywood did to her!! She was another natural beauty, before they transformed her. Beautiful Norma Jean 💜
The physicians doing these procedures are irresponsible enablers.
Money is more important to an unethical doctor.
They should lose their licenses!
On the awful paper chase
I liked the plastic surgeon in the audience who raised the question about psychiatric counselling. Any reputable plastic surgeon will stop when enough is enough, or when the proposed surgery will go bad or dangerous. Nowadays these people just surgeon-shop in other countries though where the medical ethics are different. There was even a lady recently who had ribs removed and cartoon eyes implanted into her real eyes because she wanted to look like "Barbie". You can't make this stuff up!
That is why I love Oprah. She is a beautiful person who want people live a happy life by not fooling themselves.
Man people were ruthless to this girl.. telling her she looks worse now is just as harmful as her ex's comments before.
@@Spirit-Survival365 she does not look bad now, she looks like a bimbo but still cute
thank you!!
@@jmjlem95 it's not facts it's abuse, plain and simple. It's exactly what got her into such a bad mental state to begin with. Support is not cruel. She can't turn back time.
Exactly she’s still beautiful before and after
Not gonna lie Oprah looks a million bucks here
This was the best year she had as far as looks wise. During this whole year she was a semi knockout. She had finally lost all the weight and toned up. Had amazing makeup and hair.
@@beautifulwoman3058 a 1000%
Bb blood
Was this the year she was working out with Bob Greene? She looked amazing when he was training her. She hated it though. Lol
@@heartstrings110 that was 1997 when she was looking muscular. Working with him. I think she worked out with him for years. Her hair and makeup game was strong here
In this period of time we didn’t understand mental health as a culture. Shows like this would routinely have people with serious issues come on and tell us about their problems. People in a normal state of mind would marvel at them. They would be asked all kinds of questions, sometimes insensitively.
This one was better than others I’ve seen especially in the end.
In wasn’t insensitive at the time. It was getting that info out to people so it would get into the public consciousness so people would even know it exists to ask questions. The learning had to start somewhere and it can’t be judged by todays standards.
I have never had surgery but I can feel how empty they feel inside. My heart hurts just listening to them talk about how much they do not love themselves. How sad!
"You can fix it, but you can't fix what you can't see. It's the soul that needs the surgery."
Shout out to the Beyoncé lyrics
Absolutely right 👍
Yesssssssss!
YES! 🙌🏻YES! 🌷YES! 🙌🏻
Basic
She does not need a surgeon, she needs a therapist.
And I think the crowd laughing is so bizarre. I feel sad for this woman.
She need iyanla
Couldn’t agree more, this made me cry for her. She is hurting so bad, she is just so insecure. I hope that she got help, she was just hurting so bad.
I so agree
@@poohpaola You know this was atlest 10years ago right 😂 but I hope she has stopped by now
The surgeons are also human..why don't they refer them to therapists?
This segment is all about self love. We all need to love ourselves unconditionally.
My mom died two days after having plastic surgery on New Year's Day five years ago. The surgeons did so much on her that she didn't walk around soon after, therefore, causing blood clots to finally have three heart attacks from it. They did so much on her in such little time. My mom's friend that worked at the plastic surgeon's told about my mom's story and a girl got up and walked out of the waiting room. Think about if that's what you want because you might live but might not survive afterward and my family and I now have to see her at the cemetery. We miss her every day.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom my deepest condolences ❤️
When she said 'my spirit was broken', I realized this woman is the victim of narcissistic abuse...some survive this, some don't....her spirit did NOT survive her ex-husband's abuse...and THIS is the result.
Typical self pity
I'm sure they husband gave some hints of how he would treat his wife in the way he treated her when she was his girlfriend. I wish she would have shared this information with the audience to help some young unsuspecting girl out there right now.
She is surviving and thats a good sign....hope she gets over all her painful past.
I hope she'll heal eventually. She seems like a very nice person. The job she needed done most of all was a husband removal, and she did!
@@hep8008
Nothing “typical” about being addicted to plastic surgery.
She's extraordinarily self-aware. That's huge, honestly. I hope she's doing well.
Thank You!!
@@Jennyleetx All the best to you Jenny. And Jenny, God loves you and he made n mistakes!
Self awareness is the best trait anyone could possibly have
@@Jennyleetx I’m glad you left your ex-husband. Have you gone to therapy since divorcing him?
being able to recoganize abusive behaviors is as important as having high self-esteem. Comments like "your bs are too small" or "your nose is too big" should never be made by any "loved one".
When the lightbulb went off and Oprah raised her arms and said, “yes.” I clapped out loud and tears were brought to my eyes. I am a drug addict, and I want that light bulb. I want it so badly.
I said a prayer for you right now. Keep me posted. Cheering for your success.
🙏 for u
Keep holding on. It will come
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How are you doing buddy? We are strangers but I am routing for you.
I had a boyfriend, he told me, "physically you're not my type". I didn't realize it was a sign that I should left him, untill 3 years later I found someone whom loves me just the way I'am.
Sad that this type of person allows someone else controls their lives - especially her husband.
He sounds like someone that doesn't deserve a good woman.
I'm happy for you girl!
Funny joke, boyfriend says:
"I think your tummy's a little bit too big".
Girlfriend replies:
"I think your dick is a little bit too small".
Good riddance
You should have looked at his crotch and said "yea, I'm used to a little 'more' too... but you seem nice."
If she regrows her eyebrows and disolve the lip fillers a bit, she'll look a bit more natural. She's still beautiful..
Agree!!
Yeah. Her lips looks too big and if she grew out her brows
Right, she isn’t far gone yet. There’s still hope 😓, unless she got more work done.
100%
she has actual lip implants, apparently...not fillers
Having these three women come in and hear each other’s stories is really amazing
This is a self esteem problem and hope she’s in a better place mentally and is accepting herself
It’s scary that this became the new normal literally everyone looks like her now
Yes I wasn't even shocked about her surgeries because literally everyone is doing the same operations as her its just normal now
@Sparkle Rose I won't either but it became the new norm as the beauty standards got unrealistic
@Sparkle Rose exactly its so sad, I wish people would not give such people the platform that they have, I get it most of us use social media for entertainment more than we use it for educational purposes but come on making someone that famous and that rich just for having an hourglass or abs seems a bit absurd to me. I don't follow anyone that doesn't have anything more than looks to present and that helped me realize how beautiful we are and how different we look from one another. each one has something special about them and I would never want to be a copy I rather stay original just the way I was born to be
How do they look in the mirror and think it looks better?? I see so many young girls like this and it’s horrendous. They look like freaks. I find it interesting that so many young gorgeous girls do this, but look so much worse for it. Makes no sense. 🤷🏻♀️
You mean every white woman?
It broke my heart when they laughed when she said she wanted a body lift. She even stopped talking smh 😢
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People laugh when they are horrified..Look at the movie carrie. The nice teacher even laughed. Not at carrie, but because of the situation.
It's how people function. It seems cruel on the outside, but if you understand human behavior just a little bit you can see it for what it is.
It’s so sad when people you love tell you aren’t good enough. I dated a guy a few years ago and things he told me still impact me today. Not to this level, but we need to realize the weight of our comments. We are all guilty of it , but it’s something that needs to change!
She is so well spoken. I hope you get the confidence you’re seeking beautiful xoxo
When do the surgeons say enough is enough and give them a referral to therapy.
When the money runs out.
So long as money keep$ flowing they can care le$$ about a human... Mo$t of them anyway!
Ethical surgeons like Dr Youn refuse to even perform certain plastic surgeries and absolutely would refuse to work on someone with a psychological addiction to surgery. He has a fantastic youtube channel. There definitely are ethical plastic surgeons out there. You just need to do your homework. I think unfortunately a lot of women opt for cheaper plastic surgeons and that's where all the problems begin.
How often do you turn down large amounts of money?
NEVER.
She was soo unbelievably pretty before
She’s still pretty 😢
shes doesn’t look too bad now either
Exactly ! I'm like we have to stop allowing others to dictate our lives.
She was *gorgeous!!* It's literally the sole reason I clicked, to FF to see if that left-side pic in the thumbnail was truly her "before" pic.
_Unbelievable._ She looks _terrible_ now, completely artificial and bizarre. Worse, she has no semblance of her original self. The pics even look like two different ancestries! The initial pic looks beautifully exotic. I cannot fathom her wishing to alter that.
What's ironic is-- her natural face is what's "in" (preferred) now.
Who Oprah?
Oprah’s comment on her Botox was rude. It kind of undermines everything she has accomplished in her recovery.
She was so gorgeous before and she's so gorgeous now! I even looked her up from 2022 and she looks stunning!!! I hope she feels as beautiful as she is.
People, tell your loved ones they are pretty more often. And never call someone ugly, A few words can ruin someones life :(
So true.
Alot of people throw around the word "ugly" too much and too easily. The word ugly is ugly itself. Everyone - both men & women are all beautiful and unique in their own way!! 💕
Ain’t that the truth.. tell others too🥲
My ex told me I was ugly. But then he also told me I was faking it when I was in critical care after a brain bleed.
But when you put too much value on looks alone, people start to rely on that and become obsessed. Compliment people on their skills and attributes 🙌
She was very pretty. What she needed was a psychologist and to leave that husband sooner
This is why there’s Dr. Phil
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AGREED
I didn’t do the Dr. Phil show, or a lot of other shows I was asked to go on. This topic is hard to talk about, especially when you are on TV. You don’t know what they are going to ask you, and if you don’t have a great answer then it sucks that you can’t take it back. I had already gone through significant counseling and I didn’t want Dr. Phil to analyze me on TV. I love Dr. Phil, but I was scared. He didn’t need me to be there in person to tell me what was wrong. I regret not doing his show. My goal was to shine a light on what could happen and hopefully help other people get out of toxic relationships, and practice more self love. Dr. Phil knows when to be kind to the guests if it’s a sensitive topic. I didn’t give him the benefit of the doubt, and I should have.
Agreed ❤️
Jenny you seem like the sweetest, most down to earth person, it’s a shame that other people have to ruin it, with or without plastic surgery you are a beautiful person, it’s great that you love animals and you love your children and your family ❤
I cried when she got a standing ovation for stating " I'll stick up with the legs"... if only society would applaud this in real-world not only when they are inside Oprah's studio, but that's far from reality in the world during decades we have been and continue to be bombarded with beauty stereotypes, I think is worse now than when this show was recorded
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Me too. The A-Ha moment was incredible to witness.
The crowd laughing really pissed me off!
When she said "I want a body" I was thinking why are they laughing? That's messed up
It pissed me off too!! I bet they wouldn't be laughing if these women had some kind of physical illness, like cancer or heart disease etc.
It took balls to get up on that stage.
The ignorant audience didn't get that at all.
Laughing like that at people who are opening up about their insecurities makes me wanna puke.
@@uhuraenterprise6372 same here 🤦🏻♀️ it truly got me so mad. Oprah as the host, should have stop such thing...
Oprah passes me off
When that man broke down and cried at the thought of having to leave his wife... 😭😭😭
I’d be so interested in seeing what she looks like now, 16 years later
there is a update video a follow up she is fat now
@@antony9376 can you send us the link here please, that would be so nice
She looks awful!
She looked beautiful before and after. The kindness inside shines outward. Hope she’s found peace and gives herself grace. She seems like such a genuine soul.
Poor girl isn't addicted, she's broken and driven to behave in this way as a result of toxic relationships in the past
She is addicted and broken. The two are not mutually exclusive
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No relationship does this. It's the toxicity of her family of origin. Sane people do not end up in toxic relationships. And if they do, they dont stay in them long enough to get damaged. This is purely upbringing. Toxic relationships with parents, not men.
@@dailybls Sane people do end up in Toxic relationships that Destroy their Self-esteem and have to build themselves back up after they drop the Toxic person.
Not everyone show their True selves at first.
Exactly
Because of her surgery she looks like she is in her 40’s. She was perfect the way she was.
She looks 30 actually but she’s a gorgeous Barbie
White women age so badly the surgery probably helped her.
She is 45 now and looks nothing like she did in 2004
@@princess-nia she looks nothing like either picture today. She is 45 and has gained a lot of weight. She was gorgeous without the surgery
That's what I said. She looks 40 trying to look 20. Bless her. 🙏 Such a pretty girl she was..
I've never gone under the knife but I can absolutely relate to how she feels when she looks in the mirror. You Just can't feel comfortable in your own skin. It's very hard.
I left an abusive relationship a few months into the pandemic. it understandably messed me up but I'm so glad he never talked bad about my appearance because I would 100% be on that path if he did. abusive relationships like rewire your mind when you're in them
The first lady really did look like Julia Roberts. She was so beautiful. The very first surgeon should have sent her home.
Doctors should have stopped when she told them she could do everyday. Cut off an addict. U don't keep giving them liquor
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Money is the only thing that matters to most cosmetic surgeons. Not all but most.
Agreed 100%!!!!
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FF to 2022, this show was years ago, It would be wonderful to see them now. She is a very sweet person, such beauty inside and out. Bless her.
As far as the crowd goes, most people just lack empathy and so many people are not aware of their own weaknesses and don’t see themselves in this lady’s shoes but we all can learn and grow from each other when we learn to withhold judgment and offer help. I’m glad Oprah called out the sighs and said we are all here as a nation, they still didn’t get it like, nah not me, when really their kids or someone in their family can end up like the first lady.
She looked like a young Jennifer Garner when she had her first face. She was really pretty.
She was gorgeous!
Aww if only someone had told her she looked like Jennifer Garner...
Was pretty...was!
Agreed!!
Shame she cant love herself enough to see it!! Sad
I may not be most beautiful girl but I do love myself the way God made me
Amen. You ARE beautiful hunny
AMEN!!💜💜
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That’s right! You are just the way god planned! I love a face with character over someone who may be a conventional beauty any day!
And that’s how it should be! Besides beauty is in the eye of the beholder, to someone else you might be the most beautiful girl in the world :)
What this woman said at 34min,34sec almost made me cry. She was honest, although it looked hard to admit. However, it makes so much sense, especially to someone whose struggling with OCD. I was watching this on my TV and had to get on my phone to share this aha moment… Change is sooo hard and when you’re fighting yourself, sometimes you give in just to feel at peace. Your own brain is your enemy… It’s much deeper than I can explain!… Maybe I’ve already known this, but something in me just UNDERSTOOD when she said it 💡… So hard to explain smh!… So glad she was honest!
The second lady nailed it. An ADDICT will find anything to be addicted to. Its truly COMPULSION!
When I was growing up, I hated when my Mom would make me turn off cartoons so she could watch Oprah. Now I’m in my 20s and binging Oprah on RUclips. This show is lit!
That's a good boy😉
Hahah u r cute
thank your mother now go on ;)
Harpo is toxic 🎭
I grew up in the 90's and that's how I got hooked on it too by sitting next to my mom waiting to watch something else on TV.
And As the world turns and the Bold and the beautiful 🙈
This was exactly what happened to Lil' Kim. Her exes told her she was ugly but that was a lie, she was beautiful. Now she looks like the Bride of Wildenstein.
Actually lil Kim’s initial surgeries came from her getting her face smashed in by an abusive ex on more than on occasion and from that point she kind of went down the rabbit hole. Kim’s reasons for surgery initially at least , wasn’t just because a guy down talked her looks.
@@IseenDejaVu What was her first procedure?
@@itsjemmabond a very very minor nose job in 1998 and liposuction
@@pinek8564 The nose job I can understand, but how does liposuction fix abuse?
@@itsjemmabond according to Lil Kim guys that she dated always cheated on her with girls she thought was prettier than her along with the physical abuse caused her to have low self esteem and I guess she thought she could fix all that with plastic surgery
This poor young lady. Prayers. For you to love your insides first. Then it doesn't matter what the outside looks like 🙏❤🙏❤🙏
Anyone putting you down based on physical appearance has no business in your life. That's their problem not yours.
My ex-husband told me so much about how I could be better. I’m so grateful that not only is he my EX-husband but that I realized he was revealing HIS insecurities AND that. I accepted myself and am now married to a man who thinks my body and face are the most beautiful things in this world. More importantly, I finally feel beautiful.
good
So happy for you ❤️
Self Love and acceptance of ones own self MEANS EVERYTHING.
Yep that's everything
Absolutely right 👏👏
@@girlyessencee5273 have you message the MD?
I think accepting God’s goodness and love is the foundation. He loves us and shows us how to be selfless and love others as well as giving us a healthy view of the way He created us.
I love how she grilled the last lady hahaha
This girl is so ill and she needs such help - clearly being here is her attempt to get help. Bless her, knowing she can achieve healing
When Oprah said to the husband "You don't really wanna leave" and he shook his head and broke down... man.. that really broke me.. :(
I did too... Such a sad situation!
That was THE most pitiful thing I’ve ever SEEN! 😢
She smiled so hard when Oprah said she looked like Barbie then looked crush when she went on to say " that's good if you work for Matel" 😭
She clearly has a very low self esteem! She needs to fix the insides of her head!
Its crazy
I noticed that. 😑
Not a punchline you tell someone with her very low self-esteem
@@xxfox you pop
Poor lady. I know how she feels. I hope she is in a better place today.
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The reactions from the audience are quite disrespectful. The poor woman clearly needed compassion and to be told how worth she is without surgery, not people laughing at her. Oh, and therapy, she definitely needed therapy.
That were exactly my thoughts !
why would the doctors keep cutting up this lady shame on them
Moneeeey
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Those ol' butchers---so called doctors---dont give damn, they will cut her as long as she is fool enough to let them...
They r just dumb, stupid, and thirsty for the money $
She is such a beautiful woman with beautiful soul
I remember when I was in primary school in the 90’s when I’d get to watch Oprah if I had the day off school because I was sick. It used to be on around midday in Australia and I learnt a lot! People bag Oprah now because they judge it by todays standards but really back when it started in 1986 and all through it was pretty ground breaking.
Poor thing, she looks 40 and is only in her late 20’s.
Yeah, plastic surgery really ages you if you get it done too early
True i thought she was my age, im 38 with a 20 yr old daugther and ive been told i look like the older sister.
That lady needs profesional help.
I thought she was at least 40? Was shocked when I heard her real age! My heart aches for her.
Yeah,but she's a beautiful looking 40. Fake,yes,but prettier than us.
Plastic suppose to make you look younger. She should have gone to California for surgery. No way it would only cost 80k there.
Wow this is old but so relevant in today’s society. She’s so addicted. God bless her!🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜💜
Honestly she looks like a lot of girls now
@@samanthasapato123 right! Really scary
Yes, true.
OMG you are absolutely gorgeous 🥺❤️👑🥰
@@chandlerjohnson9694 Im next but I know what I wanna look like & the body I want so Ian gonna go overboard and then I can finally be Slim Thick or Thick with an face that's gon be pretty
She is a smart lady, i hope she heals inside.
What a angel of a husband. 3 jobs, she's truly bless. I think all those women was beautiful before the surgery.
This is why people need to really think about what they tell others , be kind it isn’t hard .
"I left a bad relationship with my husband to a bad relationship with plastic surgery"
Hello
LOL exactly. Everyone blaming the ex...
She was gorgeous! I still find her beautiful because of how charming and sweet she is. What I understood is ..your personality is what makes you beautiful, if you want to look beautiful and be considered attractive you better have the best personality! I hope everyone realises that. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Why people are laughing and clapping? She’s so beautiful before and after all of these surgeries ❤️❤️❤️
Can we just appreciate how gorgeous Oprah looks here
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❤️😍🤩Oprah looks Gorgeous!
Right! She look amazing
that's right. the plastic surgeon was good...
Yes.
I don't wear tight clothes to work out. I wear what feels comfortable for me. It's not a fashion show in the gym. It is not worth losing a great love and family. She is lucky to have family.
I work-out from home.
I lost 25lbs in a few weeks when I webt whole food plant based. 1 year later, still size 6. So.....you don't even NEED to work out to lose weight. Take a 30 minute walk couple times a week. You're fine!
My boyfriend always says my nose is beautiful and I shouldn’t do anything to it when I whine about how much I hate it and will change it one day. Watching this makes me appreciate him so much more than I already do, and I appreciate him soo much already :’).
Lack of confidence, self esteem, envy, be whole in who you are and embrace what came naturally. Love yourself
This is an example of how vulnerable we are to other people's comments. She was so gorgeous before!
I bought the book 'Beautiful Stranger.' Excited to read it.
I cried when the husband started crying.....He loves her so much! She needs to love herself.
I cried this story of two couple...he still love her..
Learning to have enough in life is the key to success and happiness.
Damn people’s opinions really do influence us more than we think. She looked way more beautiful than before. She was a natural beauty.Why do people do this to themselves
Hi
The second woman has what many people long for, to be loved for who she is, have a truly supportive partner, a home and a family.
I'm insecure about my nose and when raising my children I said bad things about myself. Fast forward many years and I heard my daughter criticizing her own looks. I was super shocked because I thought
She was gorgeous. Sadly she reminded me how I used to talk about myself and she'd always known she had the same nose. If I had only known....
This was a good one.
We care too much about what people think of us. We need to remember that when we die, we die alone. It’s only the individual the one that passes away.
I'm going to die surrounded by my family.
@@Janellabelle I think what they mean to say is: despite people being around us, even people we love and adore, there are some things we do go through all on our own (sadly).
This is why i tell my daughters everyday how beautiful they are....you have to instill that self confidence at home before they face the harsh real world!
Pro tip: DONT DO THAT! Don’t put that much emphasis on looks or else they might start getting insecure
Don't focus on your children's looks; emphasize what good people they are, how smart, responsible, and kind they are. That is what builds self worth. Looks are only temporary and have nothing to do with loving yourself.
Perfection is what GOD created, His image is perfect and He created us in His own image.
She was so beautiful before the surgery, the guy clearly said what he said to destroy her self esteem. He got what he wanted.