Breaks my heart honestly, she was so beautiful. Like the kind of person who'd turn heads. The fact that she couldn't see that before is tragic. She definitely was being manipulated and abused by her ex.
Hey Y'all!!! For those of you who have praised me for speaking about this so publicly, and understand how difficult it was to show my "imperfect" features and insecurities on a national and international television platform....THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. I did this show, and all the others to reach as many people as possible to show/explain how easy it is to lose your grip on the way you view your reflection, and the devastating effects this has on a person both physically and emotionally. For those of you who struggle to understand what/how/why I acted/reacted in such extreme ways, but leave encouraging and complimentary comments/replies....THANK YOU for being open to TRY to understand by showing Grace and empathy towards me. I learned years ago that reading a bunch of negative comments was counterproductive for me, so I don't read them that much. I have 2 gorgeous daughters who do read the comments from time to time, and it's hurtful to read comments that can be very cruel about their mother. There is a personal and emotional toll that is paid to stand up and shine a light in a very very dark place. It's now late May 2021. My focus in life is my husband, my daughters, close family/friends, and regaining my health, which I have struggled with for the last 11 years. I lost every single pound I gained after a fibromyalgia diagnosis as I continue searching and investigating alternative answers. Thanks to those kind enough to reserve unnecessary/counterproductive comments and judgements in favor of compassion and empathy 🙌🙏. ~Jenny Lee
Parents please acknowledge your daughters how beautiful and smart they are. Build their self esteem like steel armor from the early start so no one can shatter it.
No matter parents guide their daughters and give them true advice, the amount of exposure and judgemental society we have is enormous. Pls don't blame parents , evry parent love their child the way they are born it's a gift from god. Pls stop this social media and following celebrities
My mother and father did that. :) They never criticized anything about my appearance, either. Marilyn Monroe said, "every little girl should be told she is beautiful". That's an actual real* MM quote too.
This lady has the life lesson of Loving herself. I grew up in a dysfunctional family where there was very little love. Money and things were always more important than people. One of my life lesson is to love myself unconditionally .
Such an excellent ability to see into people and understand their life lessons. I'd like to tell you my story and see what you come up with as life lessons. I love people who can see into others beautifully.
She was a knockout before doing this to herself. So sad this poor woman needs so much therapy. There's so many people who have it so much worse than her- can't fathom she is so superficial to ruin herself this way
@K Dubbs Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name......
@@jmjlem95 it's not facts it's abuse, plain and simple. It's exactly what got her into such a bad mental state to begin with. Support is not cruel. She can't turn back time.
NO one is one own TOXIC... If we start believing everything you hear.. you see what I mean is even if poison is thrown at you.. it becomes POISON only when you lick it. So stop licking it (internalising it). You guys need spiritual help!!!! When you know I mean really KNOW Jesus Christ you will only laugh at people's ignorance and stupidity and arrogance and their darkness instead of obeying their "comments"
It’s crazy she was literally like PERFECT before. Like literally a model mental health is so powerful because idk how she didn’t see how beautiful she was.
Woah, i remember watching this as a child and thinking she looked so cartoonish and over the top... And now, by todays standards she kind of just looks like every influencer
Isn't that so wild, you're absolutely right. The changes are quite conservative when you consider the difference between before and afters nowadays. Kylie Jenner is a different human being from several years ago to now and she's the same age as me. I've seen photo comparisons of her early in her surgeries to now and she looks like she could be her own mother. It's frightening.
Thats so interesting to have seen this when you were younger and see it again now and reflect on how much society has changed. Such an unrealistic expectation society pushes on us all, men I believe experience this too.
I had a boyfriend, he told me, "physically you're not my type". I didn't realize it was a sign that I should left him, untill 3 years later I found someone whom loves me just the way I'am.
I'm happy for you girl! Funny joke, boyfriend says: "I think your tummy's a little bit too big". Girlfriend replies: "I think your dick is a little bit too small".
When she said 'my spirit was broken', I realized this woman is the victim of narcissistic abuse...some survive this, some don't....her spirit did NOT survive her ex-husband's abuse...and THIS is the result.
I'm sure they husband gave some hints of how he would treat his wife in the way he treated her when she was his girlfriend. I wish she would have shared this information with the audience to help some young unsuspecting girl out there right now.
I have never had surgery but I can feel how empty they feel inside. My heart hurts just listening to them talk about how much they do not love themselves. How sad!
This was the best year she had as far as looks wise. During this whole year she was a semi knockout. She had finally lost all the weight and toned up. Had amazing makeup and hair.
@@heartstrings110 that was 1997 when she was looking muscular. Working with him. I think she worked out with him for years. Her hair and makeup game was strong here
Alot of people throw around the word "ugly" too much and too easily. The word ugly is ugly itself. Everyone - both men & women are all beautiful and unique in their own way!! 💕
When I was growing up, I hated when my Mom would make me turn off cartoons so she could watch Oprah. Now I’m in my 20s and binging Oprah on RUclips. This show is lit!
I grew up in the 90's and that's how I got hooked on it too by sitting next to my mom waiting to watch something else on TV. And As the world turns and the Bold and the beautiful 🙈
being able to recoganize abusive behaviors is as important as having high self-esteem. Comments like "your bs are too small" or "your nose is too big" should never be made by any "loved one".
People laugh when they are horrified..Look at the movie carrie. The nice teacher even laughed. Not at carrie, but because of the situation. It's how people function. It seems cruel on the outside, but if you understand human behavior just a little bit you can see it for what it is.
@Sparkle Rose exactly its so sad, I wish people would not give such people the platform that they have, I get it most of us use social media for entertainment more than we use it for educational purposes but come on making someone that famous and that rich just for having an hourglass or abs seems a bit absurd to me. I don't follow anyone that doesn't have anything more than looks to present and that helped me realize how beautiful we are and how different we look from one another. each one has something special about them and I would never want to be a copy I rather stay original just the way I was born to be
How do they look in the mirror and think it looks better?? I see so many young girls like this and it’s horrendous. They look like freaks. I find it interesting that so many young gorgeous girls do this, but look so much worse for it. Makes no sense. 🤷🏻♀️
She was *gorgeous!!* It's literally the sole reason I clicked, to FF to see if that left-side pic in the thumbnail was truly her "before" pic. _Unbelievable._ She looks _terrible_ now, completely artificial and bizarre. Worse, she has no semblance of her original self. The pics even look like two different ancestries! The initial pic looks beautifully exotic. I cannot fathom her wishing to alter that. What's ironic is-- her natural face is what's "in" (preferred) now.
Ethical surgeons like Dr Youn refuse to even perform certain plastic surgeries and absolutely would refuse to work on someone with a psychological addiction to surgery. He has a fantastic youtube channel. There definitely are ethical plastic surgeons out there. You just need to do your homework. I think unfortunately a lot of women opt for cheaper plastic surgeons and that's where all the problems begin.
I think accepting God’s goodness and love is the foundation. He loves us and shows us how to be selfless and love others as well as giving us a healthy view of the way He created us.
My mom died two days after having plastic surgery on New Year's Day five years ago. The surgeons did so much on her that she didn't walk around soon after, therefore, causing blood clots to finally have three heart attacks from it. They did so much on her in such little time. My mom's friend that worked at the plastic surgeon's told about my mom's story and a girl got up and walked out of the waiting room. Think about if that's what you want because you might live but might not survive afterward and my family and I now have to see her at the cemetery. We miss her every day.
No relationship does this. It's the toxicity of her family of origin. Sane people do not end up in toxic relationships. And if they do, they dont stay in them long enough to get damaged. This is purely upbringing. Toxic relationships with parents, not men.
@@dailybls Sane people do end up in Toxic relationships that Destroy their Self-esteem and have to build themselves back up after they drop the Toxic person. Not everyone show their True selves at first.
My ex-husband told me so much about how I could be better. I’m so grateful that not only is he my EX-husband but that I realized he was revealing HIS insecurities AND that. I accepted myself and am now married to a man who thinks my body and face are the most beautiful things in this world. More importantly, I finally feel beautiful.
I didn’t do the Dr. Phil show, or a lot of other shows I was asked to go on. This topic is hard to talk about, especially when you are on TV. You don’t know what they are going to ask you, and if you don’t have a great answer then it sucks that you can’t take it back. I had already gone through significant counseling and I didn’t want Dr. Phil to analyze me on TV. I love Dr. Phil, but I was scared. He didn’t need me to be there in person to tell me what was wrong. I regret not doing his show. My goal was to shine a light on what could happen and hopefully help other people get out of toxic relationships, and practice more self love. Dr. Phil knows when to be kind to the guests if it’s a sensitive topic. I didn’t give him the benefit of the doubt, and I should have.
@@chandlerjohnson9694 Im next but I know what I wanna look like & the body I want so Ian gonna go overboard and then I can finally be Slim Thick or Thick with an face that's gon be pretty
When the lightbulb went off and Oprah raised her arms and said, “yes.” I clapped out loud and tears were brought to my eyes. I am a drug addict, and I want that light bulb. I want it so badly.
In this period of time we didn’t understand mental health as a culture. Shows like this would routinely have people with serious issues come on and tell us about their problems. People in a normal state of mind would marvel at them. They would be asked all kinds of questions, sometimes insensitively. This one was better than others I’ve seen especially in the end.
In wasn’t insensitive at the time. It was getting that info out to people so it would get into the public consciousness so people would even know it exists to ask questions. The learning had to start somewhere and it can’t be judged by todays standards.
This is why i tell my daughters everyday how beautiful they are....you have to instill that self confidence at home before they face the harsh real world!
Don't focus on your children's looks; emphasize what good people they are, how smart, responsible, and kind they are. That is what builds self worth. Looks are only temporary and have nothing to do with loving yourself.
I don't wear tight clothes to work out. I wear what feels comfortable for me. It's not a fashion show in the gym. It is not worth losing a great love and family. She is lucky to have family.
I work-out from home. I lost 25lbs in a few weeks when I webt whole food plant based. 1 year later, still size 6. So.....you don't even NEED to work out to lose weight. Take a 30 minute walk couple times a week. You're fine!
I liked the plastic surgeon in the audience who raised the question about psychiatric counselling. Any reputable plastic surgeon will stop when enough is enough, or when the proposed surgery will go bad or dangerous. Nowadays these people just surgeon-shop in other countries though where the medical ethics are different. There was even a lady recently who had ribs removed and cartoon eyes implanted into her real eyes because she wanted to look like "Barbie". You can't make this stuff up!
The reactions from the audience are quite disrespectful. The poor woman clearly needed compassion and to be told how worth she is without surgery, not people laughing at her. Oh, and therapy, she definitely needed therapy.
This was exactly what happened to Lil' Kim. Her exes told her she was ugly but that was a lie, she was beautiful. Now she looks like the Bride of Wildenstein.
Actually lil Kim’s initial surgeries came from her getting her face smashed in by an abusive ex on more than on occasion and from that point she kind of went down the rabbit hole. Kim’s reasons for surgery initially at least , wasn’t just because a guy down talked her looks.
@@itsjemmabond according to Lil Kim guys that she dated always cheated on her with girls she thought was prettier than her along with the physical abuse caused her to have low self esteem and I guess she thought she could fix all that with plastic surgery
Damn people’s opinions really do influence us more than we think. She looked way more beautiful than before. She was a natural beauty.Why do people do this to themselves
It’s so sad when people you love tell you aren’t good enough. I dated a guy a few years ago and things he told me still impact me today. Not to this level, but we need to realize the weight of our comments. We are all guilty of it , but it’s something that needs to change!
@@Janellabelle I think what they mean to say is: despite people being around us, even people we love and adore, there are some things we do go through all on our own (sadly).
I left an abusive relationship a few months into the pandemic. it understandably messed me up but I'm so glad he never talked bad about my appearance because I would 100% be on that path if he did. abusive relationships like rewire your mind when you're in them
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name......
@@prophetisraelloladelegenes9173 shame on you for trying to scam people and using God's name to do it. You have written this exact same comment on at least one other video to a different person. While you're quoting scriptures, you might want to read what the Bible says about false prophets...
I am feeling so proud of myself that not a single thought of changing any of my body part ever crossed my brain. People's opinion about you show their own insecurities.. REMEMBER THAT ❤️
Oh my gosh. Good for you. I watch these things so I get over myself. I had the opportunity to make good money working at a plastic sugeon’s office and man it was tempting but I turned it down beause I knew I would wind up just like these ladies. I KNOW it is addictive.
Hi aishwarya. Me too. I think it's our Indian family structure that creates the confidence and ability to be not that fragile. One member will make you cry other one would call u princess. U r never brainwashed with on uniform emotion. 😊
Just because her ex-husband has a certain opinion of her doesn't mean it's reality. She chose to believe him instead of all the people who never mentioned anything negative about her nose. So many people who critique someone's appearance are coming from general hostility towards another person, not that they REALLY think there is something wrong with them. It's a control thing. They want to exploit your insecurities and then use that to control you.
@@meenakshiprakash5177 Yeah.. but may be we become so thick skinned growing up as we hear stuff about our looks since childhood, any elder person ( specially aunties) can pass their opinion about kids in a family.. That's toxic but quite funny at the same time coz you don't pay attention to their chikchik after a certain age.. and then later these critical opinions from outsiders (like husband) slay over our heads like water.. 😂😂😂 Like dude come up with something better, I'm Tungsten my melting point is super high . 😂 So it's all about how you condition yourself and how much trash you allow from the outside world.
She was so gorgeous before and she's so gorgeous now! I even looked her up from 2022 and she looks stunning!!! I hope she feels as beautiful as she is.
I feel this woman on a whole different level. I’m only 20 and when I was a little girl people would say I was “soooo beautiful “ and I would get compliments left and right. When I was 17 I got with a bad guy who was way older than me and he pointed out all the things about me that I hated. I got on drugs and now I’m left with little imperfections here and there and when I look at my old pictures I don’t even recognize myself. I still get called beautiful and pretty but it just doesn’t feel the same. When people put certain thoughts into your head, you can easily take them as a fact instead of an opinion. She’s still so beautiful, but if she doesn’t stop, she will look like Jocelyn Wildenstein..
Sad when a man destroys you so much you can’t see your beautiful 😢WOMEN DO NOT LET A MAN TELL YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD OR SHOULDNT BE . BE TRUE TO YOURSELF . BE YOURSELF ❤️
This is purely psychological. She needs to do the inner work. Analyzing what she finds beautiful or wants to fix doesn’t matter. She needs to dig deeper. Heal. Otherwise there will always be something wrong. Bless her heart.
She looked beautiful before and after. The kindness inside shines outward. Hope she’s found peace and gives herself grace. She seems like such a genuine soul.
I got my best job and met my wonderful husband at my heaviest weight, I was only 20 lbs over weight and you would have thought I was 200 lbs over weight. Self acceptance changed everything. Find a good therapist before you destroy yourselves.
Jenny you seem like the sweetest, most down to earth person, it’s a shame that other people have to ruin it, with or without plastic surgery you are a beautiful person, it’s great that you love animals and you love your children and your family ❤
I have black hair , I have short nose , I have big eyes with short lashes , i don’t have pouty lips , I don’t have beautiful hair , I dont have sexy body . But I am grateful , I feel beautiful everyday , I feel sexy everyday and I surround myself with people that look at me as beautiful person.
As far as the crowd goes, most people just lack empathy and so many people are not aware of their own weaknesses and don’t see themselves in this lady’s shoes but we all can learn and grow from each other when we learn to withhold judgment and offer help. I’m glad Oprah called out the sighs and said we are all here as a nation, they still didn’t get it like, nah not me, when really their kids or someone in their family can end up like the first lady.
They also don’t mention that they prescribe you heavy pain killers and anti-anxiety meds so that you are comfortable during recovery. People don’t realize how addicting those can be.
I've never had one thing done to my body. But this was an absolute tear jerker, as I do understand esteem issues. I'm grateful you have brought awareness to the root problem. Hoping all ladies benefitted from this show
My god the First Lady, she was so unbelievably beautiful before. I can’t believe she did this to herself!!! I hope she stops before she ends up botched.
I remember being in my 20s and watching this. Now I'm 36 and I think 28 is so young!! I cant imagine getting all that surgery at that age. She looks like shes in her 40s. Shes pretty in the before picture and after though.
My boyfriend always says my nose is beautiful and I shouldn’t do anything to it when I whine about how much I hate it and will change it one day. Watching this makes me appreciate him so much more than I already do, and I appreciate him soo much already :’).
@@ninabf5567 omg, I went and checked it out. She clearly didn't get any mental health help. She actually looks kinda scary now. So sad, since she was so pretty when she started out. She never needed any work done in the first place ☹️☹️☹️☹️
I cried when she got a standing ovation for stating " I'll stick up with the legs"... if only society would applaud this in real-world not only when they are inside Oprah's studio, but that's far from reality in the world during decades we have been and continue to be bombarded with beauty stereotypes, I think is worse now than when this show was recorded
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name.....
She looked beautiful as a natural.
She didn’t need plastic surgery. She just needed to get rid of her abusive husband.
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the damage men do, and the women who allow it...smh. She really should have thrown him out the door the moment he stated those comments.
Breaks my heart honestly, she was so beautiful. Like the kind of person who'd turn heads. The fact that she couldn't see that before is tragic. She definitely was being manipulated and abused by her ex.
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For sure. She looked better than Julia Roberts if I may say so
Hey Y'all!!! For those of you who have praised me for speaking about this so publicly, and understand how difficult it was to show my "imperfect" features and insecurities on a national and international television platform....THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart. I did this show, and all the others to reach as many people as possible to show/explain how easy it is to lose your grip on the way you view your reflection, and the devastating effects this has on a person both physically and emotionally.
For those of you who struggle to understand what/how/why I acted/reacted in such extreme ways, but leave encouraging and complimentary comments/replies....THANK YOU for being open to TRY to understand by showing Grace and empathy towards me. I learned years ago that reading a bunch of negative comments was counterproductive for me, so I don't read them that much. I have 2 gorgeous daughters who do read the comments from time to time, and it's hurtful to read comments that can be very cruel about their mother. There is a personal and emotional toll that is paid to stand up and shine a light in a very very dark place.
It's now late May 2021. My focus in life is my husband, my daughters, close family/friends, and regaining my health, which I have struggled with for the last 11 years. I lost every single pound I gained after a fibromyalgia diagnosis as I continue searching and investigating alternative answers. Thanks to those kind enough to reserve unnecessary/counterproductive comments and judgements in favor of compassion and empathy 🙌🙏. ~Jenny Lee
GOD LOVES YOU WHO YOU ARE.....
You did such an impressive job in how you shared a challenging story in a very judgy setting and such a judgy time.
Thanks for the update! Hope you stay healthy physically and emotionally.
All the very best to you Jenny x
Y’all are so sweet!! 💋 I truly appreciate your support. 😉🥰
Parents please acknowledge your daughters how beautiful and smart they are. Build their self esteem like steel armor from the early start so no one can shatter it.
No matter parents guide their daughters and give them true advice, the amount of exposure and judgemental society we have is enormous. Pls don't blame parents , evry parent love their child the way they are born it's a gift from god. Pls stop this social media and following celebrities
The problem is not parents I think the men or boyfriend most Weit women.
My mother and father did that. :) They never criticized anything about my appearance, either. Marilyn Monroe said, "every little girl should be told she is beautiful". That's an actual real* MM quote too.
And parents, teach your son's to respect women & not to conform to the toxic pressures of Society!!
@@Janellabelle well...look what Hollywood did to her!! She was another natural beauty, before they transformed her. Beautiful Norma Jean 💜
This lady has the life lesson of Loving herself. I grew up in a dysfunctional family where there was very little love. Money and things were always more important than people. One of my life lesson is to love myself unconditionally .
Such an excellent ability to see into people and understand their life lessons. I'd like to tell you my story and see what you come up with as life lessons. I love people who can see into others beautifully.
The people laughing and gasping have zero empathy. This woman is brave to come on this show and talk about her insecurities, and everyone laughs.
I know. I really hate women sometimes.
omg yes i know !!!
isn't this the essence of Oprah?
The world was just totally different back then and way more ruthless.
We used to laugh at this. Now it's commonplace.
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I can’t believe how naturally pretty she was🥺😞
It's a shame she didn't see it herself😕
@@uhuraenterprise6372 because she wasnt being grateful
@@iffaarmison9924 just because someone doesn’t think they’re pretty doesn't mean they're ungrateful.
She was a knockout before doing this to herself. So sad this poor woman needs so much therapy. There's so many people who have it so much worse than her- can't fathom she is so superficial to ruin herself this way
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“No one is born ugly, we're just born in a judgemental society.”
― Kim Namjoon
You are so right😒
Yes!
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@K Dubbs Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name......
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I feel sad for this lady. She's so brave to be on stage and talk about her surgeries. What a beautiful lady, both inside and out.
Man people were ruthless to this girl.. telling her she looks worse now is just as harmful as her ex's comments before.
@@Spirit-Survival365 she does not look bad now, she looks like a bimbo but still cute
thank you!!
@@jmjlem95 it's not facts it's abuse, plain and simple. It's exactly what got her into such a bad mental state to begin with. Support is not cruel. She can't turn back time.
Exactly she’s still beautiful before and after
Your EX WAS TOXIC. He Lied to make you feel low. He tried to mentally ruin you and he succeeded.
Guys thanks for 1k likes.
NO one is one own TOXIC... If we start believing everything you hear.. you see what I mean is even if poison is thrown at you.. it becomes POISON only when you lick it. So stop licking it (internalising it). You guys need spiritual help!!!! When you know I mean really KNOW Jesus Christ you will only laugh at people's ignorance and stupidity and arrogance and their darkness instead of obeying their "comments"
@@amug3536 Agreed!
thank you...i'm all better because of you, not just oprah
@Bipasha Palit 🙌🏾💯🎯🎯🎯
And he still have a hold on her if she keep speaking on him she might be married again but deep down inside she didn’t let herself heal properly
She's extraordinarily self-aware. That's huge, honestly. I hope she's doing well.
Thank You!!
@@Jennyleetx All the best to you Jenny. And Jenny, God loves you and he made n mistakes!
Self awareness is the best trait anyone could possibly have
@@Jennyleetx I’m glad you left your ex-husband. Have you gone to therapy since divorcing him?
It’s crazy she was literally like PERFECT before. Like literally a model mental health is so powerful because idk how she didn’t see how beautiful she was.
Woah, i remember watching this as a child and thinking she looked so cartoonish and over the top... And now, by todays standards she kind of just looks like every influencer
Your first impression was correct. All of them look cartoonsih and over the top. People are just so obssessed with them, that they dont notice it.
Isn't that so wild, you're absolutely right. The changes are quite conservative when you consider the difference between before and afters nowadays. Kylie Jenner is a different human being from several years ago to now and she's the same age as me. I've seen photo comparisons of her early in her surgeries to now and she looks like she could be her own mother. It's frightening.
Right. She looks...normal...🤔🧐
Thats so interesting to have seen this when you were younger and see it again now and reflect on how much society has changed. Such an unrealistic expectation society pushes on us all, men I believe experience this too.
yes, its really fun time to be alive...this is like normal today even fashionable
"You can fix it, but you can't fix what you can't see. It's the soul that needs the surgery."
Shout out to the Beyoncé lyrics
Absolutely right 👍
Yesssssssss!
YES! 🙌🏻YES! 🌷YES! 🙌🏻
Basic
She does not need a surgeon, she needs a therapist.
And I think the crowd laughing is so bizarre. I feel sad for this woman.
She need iyanla
Couldn’t agree more, this made me cry for her. She is hurting so bad, she is just so insecure. I hope that she got help, she was just hurting so bad.
I so agree
@@poohpaola You know this was atlest 10years ago right 😂 but I hope she has stopped by now
The surgeons are also human..why don't they refer them to therapists?
What kind of doctor gives someone who's still in their 20's a facelift
Greedy Doctor
Dr. Dollar
all money, shame on them
Money is the root of all evil.
A doctor who’s amazing! It’s preventative. Getting a facelift when you’re sixty wastes money and defeats the purpose
I had a boyfriend, he told me, "physically you're not my type". I didn't realize it was a sign that I should left him, untill 3 years later I found someone whom loves me just the way I'am.
Sad that this type of person allows someone else controls their lives - especially her husband.
He sounds like someone that doesn't deserve a good woman.
I'm happy for you girl!
Funny joke, boyfriend says:
"I think your tummy's a little bit too big".
Girlfriend replies:
"I think your dick is a little bit too small".
Good riddance
You should have looked at his crotch and said "yea, I'm used to a little 'more' too... but you seem nice."
Her husband knew she was beautiful and he couldn't handle it smh
Wow you hit the nail , she were with a narcissist
@@Glo_up576 i was about to say it
Realy like why did he marry here if he didnt like how she looked🤦🏻♀️
@@elisa5812 look up videos on narcissism, she probably was narcissistic supply
Y’all are 💯 % correct about this!!
When she said 'my spirit was broken', I realized this woman is the victim of narcissistic abuse...some survive this, some don't....her spirit did NOT survive her ex-husband's abuse...and THIS is the result.
Typical self pity
I'm sure they husband gave some hints of how he would treat his wife in the way he treated her when she was his girlfriend. I wish she would have shared this information with the audience to help some young unsuspecting girl out there right now.
She is surviving and thats a good sign....hope she gets over all her painful past.
I hope she'll heal eventually. She seems like a very nice person. The job she needed done most of all was a husband removal, and she did!
@@hep8008
Nothing “typical” about being addicted to plastic surgery.
I have never had surgery but I can feel how empty they feel inside. My heart hurts just listening to them talk about how much they do not love themselves. How sad!
Not gonna lie Oprah looks a million bucks here
This was the best year she had as far as looks wise. During this whole year she was a semi knockout. She had finally lost all the weight and toned up. Had amazing makeup and hair.
@@beautifulwoman3058 a 1000%
Was this the year she was working out with Bob Greene? She looked amazing when he was training her. She hated it though. Lol
@@heartstrings110 that was 1997 when she was looking muscular. Working with him. I think she worked out with him for years. Her hair and makeup game was strong here
They way the audience cheered and clapped for her as she walked in and basically borderline crying is what does it for me. She's a super star
When that man broke down and cried at the thought of having to leave his wife... 😭😭😭
The first lady really did look like Julia Roberts. She was so beautiful. The very first surgeon should have sent her home.
That is why I love Oprah. She is a beautiful person who want people live a happy life by not fooling themselves.
If she regrows her eyebrows and disolve the lip fillers a bit, she'll look a bit more natural. She's still beautiful..
Agree!!
Yeah. Her lips looks too big and if she grew out her brows
Right, she isn’t far gone yet. There’s still hope 😓, unless she got more work done.
100%
she has actual lip implants, apparently...not fillers
People, tell your loved ones they are pretty more often. And never call someone ugly, A few words can ruin someones life :(
So true.
Alot of people throw around the word "ugly" too much and too easily. The word ugly is ugly itself. Everyone - both men & women are all beautiful and unique in their own way!! 💕
Ain’t that the truth.. tell others too🥲
My ex told me I was ugly. But then he also told me I was faking it when I was in critical care after a brain bleed.
But when you put too much value on looks alone, people start to rely on that and become obsessed. Compliment people on their skills and attributes 🙌
When I was growing up, I hated when my Mom would make me turn off cartoons so she could watch Oprah. Now I’m in my 20s and binging Oprah on RUclips. This show is lit!
That's a good boy😉
Hahah u r cute
thank your mother now go on ;)
Harpo is toxic 🎭
I grew up in the 90's and that's how I got hooked on it too by sitting next to my mom waiting to watch something else on TV.
And As the world turns and the Bold and the beautiful 🙈
being able to recoganize abusive behaviors is as important as having high self-esteem. Comments like "your bs are too small" or "your nose is too big" should never be made by any "loved one".
It broke my heart when they laughed when she said she wanted a body lift. She even stopped talking smh 😢
👍👍👍
People laugh when they are horrified..Look at the movie carrie. The nice teacher even laughed. Not at carrie, but because of the situation.
It's how people function. It seems cruel on the outside, but if you understand human behavior just a little bit you can see it for what it is.
It’s scary that this became the new normal literally everyone looks like her now
Yes I wasn't even shocked about her surgeries because literally everyone is doing the same operations as her its just normal now
@Sparkle Rose I won't either but it became the new norm as the beauty standards got unrealistic
@Sparkle Rose exactly its so sad, I wish people would not give such people the platform that they have, I get it most of us use social media for entertainment more than we use it for educational purposes but come on making someone that famous and that rich just for having an hourglass or abs seems a bit absurd to me. I don't follow anyone that doesn't have anything more than looks to present and that helped me realize how beautiful we are and how different we look from one another. each one has something special about them and I would never want to be a copy I rather stay original just the way I was born to be
How do they look in the mirror and think it looks better?? I see so many young girls like this and it’s horrendous. They look like freaks. I find it interesting that so many young gorgeous girls do this, but look so much worse for it. Makes no sense. 🤷🏻♀️
You mean every white woman?
She was soo unbelievably pretty before
She’s still pretty 😢
shes doesn’t look too bad now either
Exactly ! I'm like we have to stop allowing others to dictate our lives.
She was *gorgeous!!* It's literally the sole reason I clicked, to FF to see if that left-side pic in the thumbnail was truly her "before" pic.
_Unbelievable._ She looks _terrible_ now, completely artificial and bizarre. Worse, she has no semblance of her original self. The pics even look like two different ancestries! The initial pic looks beautifully exotic. I cannot fathom her wishing to alter that.
What's ironic is-- her natural face is what's "in" (preferred) now.
Who Oprah?
This segment is all about self love. We all need to love ourselves unconditionally.
When do the surgeons say enough is enough and give them a referral to therapy.
When the money runs out.
So long as money keep$ flowing they can care le$$ about a human... Mo$t of them anyway!
Ethical surgeons like Dr Youn refuse to even perform certain plastic surgeries and absolutely would refuse to work on someone with a psychological addiction to surgery. He has a fantastic youtube channel. There definitely are ethical plastic surgeons out there. You just need to do your homework. I think unfortunately a lot of women opt for cheaper plastic surgeons and that's where all the problems begin.
How often do you turn down large amounts of money?
NEVER.
Self Love and acceptance of ones own self MEANS EVERYTHING.
Yep that's everything
Absolutely right 👏👏
@@girlyessencee5273 have you message the MD?
I think accepting God’s goodness and love is the foundation. He loves us and shows us how to be selfless and love others as well as giving us a healthy view of the way He created us.
She looked like a young Jennifer Garner when she had her first face. She was really pretty.
She was gorgeous!
Aww if only someone had told her she looked like Jennifer Garner...
Was pretty...was!
Agreed!!
Shame she cant love herself enough to see it!! Sad
My mom died two days after having plastic surgery on New Year's Day five years ago. The surgeons did so much on her that she didn't walk around soon after, therefore, causing blood clots to finally have three heart attacks from it. They did so much on her in such little time. My mom's friend that worked at the plastic surgeon's told about my mom's story and a girl got up and walked out of the waiting room. Think about if that's what you want because you might live but might not survive afterward and my family and I now have to see her at the cemetery. We miss her every day.
I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom my deepest condolences ❤️
Poor girl isn't addicted, she's broken and driven to behave in this way as a result of toxic relationships in the past
She is addicted and broken. The two are not mutually exclusive
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No relationship does this. It's the toxicity of her family of origin. Sane people do not end up in toxic relationships. And if they do, they dont stay in them long enough to get damaged. This is purely upbringing. Toxic relationships with parents, not men.
@@dailybls Sane people do end up in Toxic relationships that Destroy their Self-esteem and have to build themselves back up after they drop the Toxic person.
Not everyone show their True selves at first.
Exactly
I may not be most beautiful girl but I do love myself the way God made me
Amen. You ARE beautiful hunny
AMEN!!💜💜
✊🏾✊🏾💕✊🏾✊🏾
That’s right! You are just the way god planned! I love a face with character over someone who may be a conventional beauty any day!
And that’s how it should be! Besides beauty is in the eye of the beholder, to someone else you might be the most beautiful girl in the world :)
Lesson learned: NEVER, EVER EVER EVER allow a man nor no one to let us down.
She smiled so hard when Oprah said she looked like Barbie then looked crush when she went on to say " that's good if you work for Matel" 😭
She clearly has a very low self esteem! She needs to fix the insides of her head!
Its crazy
I noticed that. 😑
Not a punchline you tell someone with her very low self-esteem
@@xxfox you pop
When Oprah said to the husband "You don't really wanna leave" and he shook his head and broke down... man.. that really broke me.. :(
I did too... Such a sad situation!
That was THE most pitiful thing I’ve ever SEEN! 😢
This is why people need to really think about what they tell others , be kind it isn’t hard .
Having these three women come in and hear each other’s stories is really amazing
My ex-husband told me so much about how I could be better. I’m so grateful that not only is he my EX-husband but that I realized he was revealing HIS insecurities AND that. I accepted myself and am now married to a man who thinks my body and face are the most beautiful things in this world. More importantly, I finally feel beautiful.
good
So happy for you ❤️
She was very pretty. What she needed was a psychologist and to leave that husband sooner
This is why there’s Dr. Phil
!
AGREED
I didn’t do the Dr. Phil show, or a lot of other shows I was asked to go on. This topic is hard to talk about, especially when you are on TV. You don’t know what they are going to ask you, and if you don’t have a great answer then it sucks that you can’t take it back. I had already gone through significant counseling and I didn’t want Dr. Phil to analyze me on TV. I love Dr. Phil, but I was scared. He didn’t need me to be there in person to tell me what was wrong. I regret not doing his show. My goal was to shine a light on what could happen and hopefully help other people get out of toxic relationships, and practice more self love. Dr. Phil knows when to be kind to the guests if it’s a sensitive topic. I didn’t give him the benefit of the doubt, and I should have.
Agreed ❤️
Wow this is old but so relevant in today’s society. She’s so addicted. God bless her!🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜💜
Honestly she looks like a lot of girls now
@@samanthasapato123 right! Really scary
Yes, true.
OMG you are absolutely gorgeous 🥺❤️👑🥰
@@chandlerjohnson9694 Im next but I know what I wanna look like & the body I want so Ian gonna go overboard and then I can finally be Slim Thick or Thick with an face that's gon be pretty
When the lightbulb went off and Oprah raised her arms and said, “yes.” I clapped out loud and tears were brought to my eyes. I am a drug addict, and I want that light bulb. I want it so badly.
I said a prayer for you right now. Keep me posted. Cheering for your success.
🙏 for u
Keep holding on. It will come
😢
How are you doing buddy? We are strangers but I am routing for you.
The second woman has what many people long for, to be loved for who she is, have a truly supportive partner, a home and a family.
Because of her surgery she looks like she is in her 40’s. She was perfect the way she was.
She looks 30 actually but she’s a gorgeous Barbie
White women age so badly the surgery probably helped her.
She is 45 now and looks nothing like she did in 2004
@@princess-nia she looks nothing like either picture today. She is 45 and has gained a lot of weight. She was gorgeous without the surgery
That's what I said. She looks 40 trying to look 20. Bless her. 🙏 Such a pretty girl she was..
I cried when the husband started crying.....He loves her so much! She needs to love herself.
In this period of time we didn’t understand mental health as a culture. Shows like this would routinely have people with serious issues come on and tell us about their problems. People in a normal state of mind would marvel at them. They would be asked all kinds of questions, sometimes insensitively.
This one was better than others I’ve seen especially in the end.
In wasn’t insensitive at the time. It was getting that info out to people so it would get into the public consciousness so people would even know it exists to ask questions. The learning had to start somewhere and it can’t be judged by todays standards.
This is an example of how vulnerable we are to other people's comments. She was so gorgeous before!
I bought the book 'Beautiful Stranger.' Excited to read it.
This is why i tell my daughters everyday how beautiful they are....you have to instill that self confidence at home before they face the harsh real world!
Pro tip: DONT DO THAT! Don’t put that much emphasis on looks or else they might start getting insecure
Don't focus on your children's looks; emphasize what good people they are, how smart, responsible, and kind they are. That is what builds self worth. Looks are only temporary and have nothing to do with loving yourself.
I don't wear tight clothes to work out. I wear what feels comfortable for me. It's not a fashion show in the gym. It is not worth losing a great love and family. She is lucky to have family.
I work-out from home.
I lost 25lbs in a few weeks when I webt whole food plant based. 1 year later, still size 6. So.....you don't even NEED to work out to lose weight. Take a 30 minute walk couple times a week. You're fine!
The physicians doing these procedures are irresponsible enablers.
Money is more important to an unethical doctor.
They should lose their licenses!
On the awful paper chase
I liked the plastic surgeon in the audience who raised the question about psychiatric counselling. Any reputable plastic surgeon will stop when enough is enough, or when the proposed surgery will go bad or dangerous. Nowadays these people just surgeon-shop in other countries though where the medical ethics are different. There was even a lady recently who had ribs removed and cartoon eyes implanted into her real eyes because she wanted to look like "Barbie". You can't make this stuff up!
The reactions from the audience are quite disrespectful. The poor woman clearly needed compassion and to be told how worth she is without surgery, not people laughing at her. Oh, and therapy, she definitely needed therapy.
That were exactly my thoughts !
This was exactly what happened to Lil' Kim. Her exes told her she was ugly but that was a lie, she was beautiful. Now she looks like the Bride of Wildenstein.
Actually lil Kim’s initial surgeries came from her getting her face smashed in by an abusive ex on more than on occasion and from that point she kind of went down the rabbit hole. Kim’s reasons for surgery initially at least , wasn’t just because a guy down talked her looks.
@@IseenDejaVu What was her first procedure?
@@itsjemmabond a very very minor nose job in 1998 and liposuction
@@pinek8564 The nose job I can understand, but how does liposuction fix abuse?
@@itsjemmabond according to Lil Kim guys that she dated always cheated on her with girls she thought was prettier than her along with the physical abuse caused her to have low self esteem and I guess she thought she could fix all that with plastic surgery
Damn people’s opinions really do influence us more than we think. She looked way more beautiful than before. She was a natural beauty.Why do people do this to themselves
Hi
It’s so sad when people you love tell you aren’t good enough. I dated a guy a few years ago and things he told me still impact me today. Not to this level, but we need to realize the weight of our comments. We are all guilty of it , but it’s something that needs to change!
Can we just appreciate how gorgeous Oprah looks here
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❤️😍🤩Oprah looks Gorgeous!
Right! She look amazing
that's right. the plastic surgeon was good...
Yes.
We care too much about what people think of us. We need to remember that when we die, we die alone. It’s only the individual the one that passes away.
I'm going to die surrounded by my family.
@@Janellabelle I think what they mean to say is: despite people being around us, even people we love and adore, there are some things we do go through all on our own (sadly).
why would the doctors keep cutting up this lady shame on them
Moneeeey
$.
Those ol' butchers---so called doctors---dont give damn, they will cut her as long as she is fool enough to let them...
They r just dumb, stupid, and thirsty for the money $
I left an abusive relationship a few months into the pandemic. it understandably messed me up but I'm so glad he never talked bad about my appearance because I would 100% be on that path if he did. abusive relationships like rewire your mind when you're in them
She was so beautiful before the surgery, the guy clearly said what he said to destroy her self esteem. He got what he wanted.
Doctors should have stopped when she told them she could do everyday. Cut off an addict. U don't keep giving them liquor
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name......
Money is the only thing that matters to most cosmetic surgeons. Not all but most.
Agreed 100%!!!!
@@prophetisraelloladelegenes9173 👁👄👁
@@prophetisraelloladelegenes9173 shame on you for trying to scam people and using God's name to do it. You have written this exact same comment on at least one other video to a different person. While you're quoting scriptures, you might want to read what the Bible says about false prophets...
I am feeling so proud of myself that not a single thought of changing any of my body part ever crossed my brain. People's opinion about you show their own insecurities.. REMEMBER THAT ❤️
Oh my gosh. Good for you. I watch these things so I get over myself. I had the opportunity to make good money working at a plastic sugeon’s office and man it was tempting but I turned it down beause I knew I would wind up just like these ladies. I KNOW it is addictive.
Hi aishwarya. Me too. I think it's our Indian family structure that creates the confidence and ability to be not that fragile. One member will make you cry other one would call u princess. U r never brainwashed with on uniform emotion. 😊
Just because her ex-husband has a certain opinion of her doesn't mean it's reality. She chose to believe him instead of all the people who never mentioned anything negative about her nose. So many people who critique someone's appearance are coming from general hostility towards another person, not that they REALLY think there is something wrong with them. It's a control thing. They want to exploit your insecurities and then use that to control you.
@@meenakshiprakash5177 Yeah.. but may be we become so thick skinned growing up as we hear stuff about our looks since childhood, any elder person ( specially aunties) can pass their opinion about kids in a family.. That's toxic but quite funny at the same time coz you don't pay attention to their chikchik after a certain age..
and then later these critical opinions from outsiders (like husband) slay over our heads like water.. 😂😂😂 Like dude come up with something better, I'm Tungsten my melting point is super high . 😂
So it's all about how you condition yourself and how much trash you allow from the outside world.
@@aubergineYT 😄😄👍
She was so gorgeous before and she's so gorgeous now! I even looked her up from 2022 and she looks stunning!!! I hope she feels as beautiful as she is.
I feel this woman on a whole different level. I’m only 20 and when I was a little girl people would say I was “soooo beautiful “ and I would get compliments left and right. When I was 17 I got with a bad guy who was way older than me and he pointed out all the things about me that I hated. I got on drugs and now I’m left with little imperfections here and there and when I look at my old pictures I don’t even recognize myself. I still get called beautiful and pretty but it just doesn’t feel the same. When people put certain thoughts into your head, you can easily take them as a fact instead of an opinion. She’s still so beautiful, but if she doesn’t stop, she will look like Jocelyn Wildenstein..
🦋🦋🦋💐🌸🌷🌼🌻
Sad when a man destroys you so much you can’t see your beautiful 😢WOMEN DO NOT LET A MAN TELL YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD OR SHOULDNT BE . BE TRUE TO YOURSELF . BE YOURSELF ❤️
This is purely psychological. She needs to do the inner work. Analyzing what she finds beautiful or wants to fix doesn’t matter. She needs to dig deeper. Heal. Otherwise there will always be something wrong. Bless her heart.
She looked beautiful before and after. The kindness inside shines outward. Hope she’s found peace and gives herself grace. She seems like such a genuine soul.
She didn't realize her natural beauty. God bless her!😞
I got my best job and met my wonderful husband at my heaviest weight, I was only 20 lbs over weight and you would have thought I was 200 lbs over weight. Self acceptance changed everything. Find a good therapist before you destroy yourselves.
I am so shocked to see how relatable it is even at this age n time...like it's 2021🤧
You’re beautiful *hugs
@@drama2u thank you...you too😁
Jenny you seem like the sweetest, most down to earth person, it’s a shame that other people have to ruin it, with or without plastic surgery you are a beautiful person, it’s great that you love animals and you love your children and your family ❤
she was really pretty naturally. bow she looks strange. her surgeons are wrong for still operating. she needs therapy
I have black hair , I have short nose , I have big eyes with short lashes , i don’t have pouty lips , I don’t have beautiful hair , I dont have sexy body .
But I am grateful , I feel beautiful everyday , I feel sexy everyday and I surround myself with people that look at me as beautiful person.
"I left a bad relationship with my husband to a bad relationship with plastic surgery"
Hello
LOL exactly. Everyone blaming the ex...
As far as the crowd goes, most people just lack empathy and so many people are not aware of their own weaknesses and don’t see themselves in this lady’s shoes but we all can learn and grow from each other when we learn to withhold judgment and offer help. I’m glad Oprah called out the sighs and said we are all here as a nation, they still didn’t get it like, nah not me, when really their kids or someone in their family can end up like the first lady.
Poor thing, she looks 40 and is only in her late 20’s.
Yeah, plastic surgery really ages you if you get it done too early
True i thought she was my age, im 38 with a 20 yr old daugther and ive been told i look like the older sister.
That lady needs profesional help.
I thought she was at least 40? Was shocked when I heard her real age! My heart aches for her.
Yeah,but she's a beautiful looking 40. Fake,yes,but prettier than us.
Plastic suppose to make you look younger. She should have gone to California for surgery. No way it would only cost 80k there.
They also don’t mention that they prescribe you heavy pain killers and anti-anxiety meds so that you are comfortable during recovery. People don’t realize how addicting those can be.
Your beauty comes from your self confidence.
This is a self esteem problem and hope she’s in a better place mentally and is accepting herself
I've never had one thing done to my body. But this was an absolute tear jerker, as I do understand esteem issues. I'm grateful you have brought awareness to the root problem. Hoping all ladies benefitted from this show
My god the First Lady, she was so unbelievably beautiful before. I can’t believe she did this to herself!!! I hope she stops before she ends up botched.
I remember being in my 20s and watching this. Now I'm 36 and I think 28 is so young!! I cant imagine getting all that surgery at that age. She looks like shes in her 40s. Shes pretty in the before picture and after though.
My boyfriend always says my nose is beautiful and I shouldn’t do anything to it when I whine about how much I hate it and will change it one day. Watching this makes me appreciate him so much more than I already do, and I appreciate him soo much already :’).
I love how Oprah introduced the Harvard doctor and then proceeded to speak over her throughout this entire video
Oprah talks over and interrupts everybody. She always has, and nobody ever had the nerve to call her on it.
She has the warmest gaze and beautiful eyes, I hope she’s doing well now 😔😔🙏🏽
Her surgeries have made her look older than her years, I wonder what she looks like now?
Me too
Question is .. IS she still alive 😳
@@cleftheart1969 I'm pretty sure she got some illness and gained a tonne of weight and ended up accepting herself
Jenny Lee Plastic on Facebook
@@ninabf5567 omg, I went and checked it out. She clearly didn't get any mental health help. She actually looks kinda scary now. So sad, since she was so pretty when she started out. She never needed any work done in the first place ☹️☹️☹️☹️
I cried when she got a standing ovation for stating " I'll stick up with the legs"... if only society would applaud this in real-world not only when they are inside Oprah's studio, but that's far from reality in the world during decades we have been and continue to be bombarded with beauty stereotypes, I think is worse now than when this show was recorded
2nd 2nd century ² the
Me too. The A-Ha moment was incredible to witness.
Some people bring others down because they dont feel that they are good enough for them.
Exactly it happens all the time
This the best Oprah's looked to me.
I noticed that too
i agree i said the same thing
I just wanted to shake her and say enough 😔. She's her daughters role model.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God know you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state Nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2348116751461) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit faith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you in Jesus name.....
She is so well spoken. I hope you get the confidence you’re seeking beautiful xoxo
I miss Oprah... I wish she never stopped doing her show!
oprah wenfew is dead .
@@5lender92 wtf no she is 67 years. She stopped 10 years ago with the show, maybe because she is a billionaire LOL
These people crazy,you have to love you for you.
Mortgage a house for plastic surgery's
Oprah’s hair looks fantastic btw!!!!
Ikr I want her hair so bad!😂
@@-itzmocha-3215 she looks beautiful here
It’s freakin perfect
bouncy too i wanna know who does it
Oprah’s hair NEVER looks fantastic! Never !!!!
I appreciate Jennifer's honesty.
Oprah’s comment on her Botox was rude. It kind of undermines everything she has accomplished in her recovery.
She needs spirituality
Period. I'm praying for you, lady. Im sorry you feel broken...