Men who check out other women while they’re in a relationship lack self control
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- Опубликовано: 4 янв 2023
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This and porn has ruined 100% of my relationships. Men dont want to hear it.
IKR. And then they wonder why society doesn't favor them lmao! The lack of self awareness is APPALLING
And they also want to pretend it's natural male behavior! 😂
Can I just add one more thing ; A woman can't respect a man like that. Once that respect is lost, it's not coming back again. No amount of "but honey I love you" will make it right.
Absolutely
I completely agree!! It's a betrayal that deeply affects the foundation of the relationship. How can they expect respect when they're being disrespectful? continuously breaking the boundaries of the relationship is not a sign of commitment. Without respect and trust, IMO they should be single.
ikr,it would make me vomit at that point. Like "ew stay away from me"
Facts. Healed, mature, masculine men have no problem being faithful, honest, protecting, self disciplined, patient, strong, calm, in control of their emotions, not looking or flirting with others, providing, taking accountability 💪🏻💪🏽💪🏿💪🏻💪🏽
That's how the masculine alphas role. For those that didn't learn b4, learn now and receive the Blessings God has. God bless.
You just let me realized how much not ready am I. It hurts. It shows how much work in the front of me.
But now I know and I rather know I am in trouble than not knowing at all or wondering if I am. I do want healthy and good relationship so I do have a lot of work in the front of me and I will put the work.
Thank you.
Well said
Amen 100% truth! 🙏 I’ve been around men both with and without self control and I have SO much more respect for the men that have it and are truly masculine and protective of their relationship, you can FEEL the difference ❤
But why do you have so much makeup on and why do you bleach your hair? Looks like you want attention. But why? To me it's the same kind of behavior what men do when looking at other women. Please don't tell me that you do it for yourself..
We need more men in the world with these views!! ✨🙏🏻✨
I told my husband this for years because every time we went out togather Or anywhere for that matter he disrespected me for other women, I was called insecure I was told I had low self-esteem. I was told it was normal for guys to do that for my husband and his family but I knew it wasn’t right and then acceptable, I said what is normal is to naturally to see people that’s around you not to stare like you want to freak them or keep turning, breaking your neck to look at a female or following females that is total disrespect
This is so true. I married a weak man. He is a good man, he is a good person for the most part. But the way he leers sometimes is cringe…I told him that he looks like a creepy old fool and that helped a lot. Weak men don’t like to be called out bc they count on people buying up their lies. They don’t like to think about themselves appearing foolish. Men that are considerate and confident don’t have to work at it, they just do the right thing. But I call him out…he doesn’t think of my feelings, why should I show him that courtesy j!
Good point
Yep, just left that loser
This level of discipline and respect should continue when your women or man is not around. That level of respect must be given as much as it's reciprocated.
I don’t know about a lack of self control rather than a man without morals direction or any value. A man who is loyal doesn’t have an issue with self control he has an issue with his heart. A man doesn’t look at other women if he knows what he wants. How can someone be tempted by something they don’t want? If I don’t like peanut butter I won’t be fighting to not eat it. If I have a toy and the kid next to me has the same toy why would I desire theirs? I already have it. So it’s not self control it’s temptation because of sin and greed. Not the same thing.
Chose a man who is not sinful.
I have said this for decades, since i was quite young. Nothing hottet in a man than self control.
Absolutely 💯 this is a red flag for me why would you do they why are you wanting to look at that stuff curiosity?? Exactly they do lack self control and self discipline control those urges of curiosity that for me is a weak man. Because if you can’t control it and stop. Then why am I here entertaining this relationship what am I here for? It’s about protecting your women’s heart if a man that I’m with can’t control those urges then I feel they are not ready to be in a relationship, your not ready to take care of a women’s heart. For me that’s another form of cheating because it’s not just physical cheating this one of them and it’s better to discuss in the early days of a relationship then years down the track. Still feel this way
FINALLY!! A man who knows this isn't normal or ok!!
This is so beautifully said. I said that to my lover and best friend when started doing that. I want to be happy and I want him to be happy. No space on my life to play silly games ❤
Nailed it!💯🔥🎯
Very well said & examples were dead on. I appreciate you. Thank you so much.
Right on the spot! Thanks for this video.
So true! Excellent, thorough and straight to the point!🔥🙌🏽👏🏽
Well said ❤
Whats so bad in this day and age. My bf at work said he has gf when his friends asked. And then they said oh is she white, those white girls are always so jealous.
If i dont want a guy looking at other woman, dont want him flirting etc. I get labeled as jealous.
Its discusting, i think it really needs to be talked about more that its not jealousy its called wanting respect and a masucline self controlled man.
Alot of the time those woman that get so angry at men for looking arent jealous either, now hear me out...
The reason a girl is becoming so angry is because shes told him how it hurts her many times yet he continues the behavior. This isnt her being jealous this is actually her lacking the maturity to LEAVE a guy that lacks self control. Has nothing tto do with jealousy. And i am so sick and i am so sick and tired of men gaslighting woman by saying your so jealous! Shes not jealous! Its gaslighting from the guy!.
Jealousy is wanting somthing we dont have. Like a house or a bug boat.
We have the same thing as other woman, we dont want somthing that they have, therfore its not jealousy. Its about wanting respect and wanting a mascualine man that has self control.
Shit needs to change i swear. Cause its getting worse and men are gaslighting woman more and lacking more and more self control each day whilst self controlled men are becoming more rare.
FACTS
Thank you. You articulated this so well. I think when men make it obvious that they are looking at other women or flirting with another women,if you bring it up they will say you are jealous. But the thing is this behavior makes you feel unsafe in a relationship,worried that they may leave you and the family that you have both worked so hard to build. Sometimes even flirting can lead to infidelity.Also when looking at other women when with your partner it makes your wife very uncomfortable
😢thanks for these videos
Thank you so much for posting this.
Damn thank you man ~ I really appreciate hearing this ~ u give me hope
I have confessed that I look at the women and I find some of them attractive. She wanted me to tell the details and I did tell her everything honestly. I know its not good to look at other women while you are with your women. But I believe that you can find anyone attractive and yet the next thing you do seperates you from a man who will cheat and a man who is just observing and not going to fall for some other women.
For me my gf is everything and she is definitely far more beautiful and no one can replace her. We have been together for 5 years now and I know and I will bring self control into play and I have so much to work on!
I need this relationship to go farther and reach the beautiful heights of love and kindness between us.
I never felt any strong attraction to other women as I feel for my women and even if it is totally different feeling. This still wont defy the fact that I found some women attractive.
Its definitely a problem in me and I will grow up and have some self discipline. I dont watch porn at all since ive been with her and I was an porn addict before her so it is not the most impossible thing for me to put self discipline in life! ❤
You look to touch and cheat that is the next step be honest with yourself. I know that society taught us it’s normal so you probably a great guy but been taught wrong or just something missing in your partner. Good luck and remember that the thought of you finding other women attractive hurts her really bad. Best of luck
@@EasyDreamBody I totally understand this is absurd! I am really disappointed about this and I will be at my best to get rid of this bs! It's not at all tolerable and does not fit in my values. I will change for the better and thanks for being honest
It’s unfortunately what society teaches men from the very young age that all me are doing it that you’re not a real man if you don’t lust after others but it’s good that you understand that at least and sexuality is a muscle so who you choose to lust after going to become stronger it’s all about how you train yourself :)
Well said!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I want to say thank you for making this video. This video really helped me. I’ve been married to my husband for 31 years. We have three daughters three granddaughters you would think he has prostate cancer that he will stop his mess. He still haven’t stopped while having prostate cancer while having to get new teeth at the top he’s 52 years old and I am 50 but I look like I’m 29 never smoke never drink never used drugs. People are ever attracted to me every time we out and we both are African-American. Like I said, we have three daughters three granddaughters married since 1991. Every time we out my husband are looking at Caucasian women and he says he is not. He do it right in front of me, but in time to go to bed, he cannot be formed in the bedroom, he takes a ED pill and still can’t get it up. It’s like karma got him for lying to me and constantly treating me like that. I would like to respond back to you on what you think about that. Thank you.❤
OPS. Especially when you have a beautiful woman who keeps herself up every single day I get compliments every single day people give him compliments and say wow you have a beautiful wife she has no wrinkles I never seen her with rollers, skulls or slippers she look like a young girl. She looks beautiful and smell good every day. Every time I take into the doctors people are giving me compliments, women and men they wanna know how did he get a beautiful woman like that Everybody wants to know everybody wants what he have. He don’t know how God sent me to him and how bless he is he is getting real sick. He has a lot of problems. Every time it’s time to perform in the bed it felt because God see right through him and see what he is doing.❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ and another thing he was caught on his job. One time I went to pick him up. He was sitting across the parking lot from his job watching porn. This was about a couple of years ago. He always saying he don’t like white women as a black man but on the porn, all it was was white women. Every time we out he fantasize and look at white women in the supermarket in target in the malls everywhere Hawaii is looking at white women. Everyone is looking at me, trying to figure out good Lord where did he get that beautiful woman at he very slow where dumb every job he got. I got it for everything he have. I got it. He is not very smart. He’s very behind the schedule and I’m waiting for the day. God bless me with a real man.
Yep. God sees everything. Stay faithful and gracious. ❤️
You are not alone. My SO has everything he wants with me, I’m a very attractive woman, his friends, coworkers and bosses keep telling himml that they are jealous of him for having me… yet, he looks for other women online and has the audacity to flirt and desire other women in front of me when we are in public.
It’s disturbing and it definitely damage our self esteem and the relationship.
thank you sir.
Amen 🙌
AMEN!!!! 🙏❤️
Please leave religion out of this
I've been doing this a lot not even giving it any importance. I got caught. Now I lost all the respect of my queen. Things will never be the same again, just because I'm a fucking animal.
My narcissist boyfriend does this while I'm in bed laying next to him at his house
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Thank u
Do men like this actually exist?
Thank you! I feel better now! I just got oogled by what looked like a married guy driving his work car, okay if he is single, actually it's not why would he do that to a woman if he isn't in a position to stop and talk????
It’s in a man’s natural biology or the flesh to do so. Even Christ recognized it, why he said “you lust after another women you committed adultery in your heart.”
It's not natural its sin. Big difference
@@billybladezz9370 but the Bible states the natural man is carnal. So it is natural for us to
@@mr.j3371 sin entered into the world. It was not supposed to be so. We are to fight the carnal sin spiritual vs flesh
@@mr.j3371 love to hear from a fellow person who has read the word of God! Sadly many do not take the time
@@billybladezz9370 I agree
My bf is usually very respectful in this sense, I never catch h him staring at other women when we are in public only glances quickly at their face just like he does with everybody else. However, yesterday we went to a museum and I after I finished looking at the painting I looked over to him at my side looking at a girls butt. I only saw him looking for 2 seconds and he looked away from her butt and looked at her face. I understand sometimes your eyes can land on a butt but I did not like the fact that he moved his eyes away from her butt to her face. Should I consider this “looking” or “checking out” it was very quick him looking at her butt but the fact that he looked away from her but and chose to look at her face was weird to me.
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What about if he's checking random womens profiles out on FB and I am not around? What does one make of this?
Any feedback is appreciated
And a truly masculine powerful king man will look at women's butt all the time when he is single because, he is single and he knows what he likes. But until he is committed, he is not committed to anyone, not even an imaginary gf
Masculine men don't stare at other women while being in a relationship
This can ruin more relationships and cause divorce
Right and women go see Aquaman with their friends because they love comic books sooooo much.
Are they leering at Aquaman when dining with you at a bar or restaurant?
I see them leering at me when they are out with Aquaman.
I hope my boyfriend watches this video. Im really getting tired of this sht.
“Women have more self control than men.” You’re funny bro.😂 the average body count of a 22 year old today is equal to that of the average 55 year old baby boomer.