Great! Just a couple weeks ago I was talking to my wife, saying it’s too bad there’s not that many videos prof Vaknin makes on psychopaths, and how I wish he made more. Thank you professor
My Maternal Aunt is a psychopath (secondary, ASPD with religious OCD)(diagnosed), she loves to abuse everybody around her verbally and sometimes physically. Because of her abuse, my grandmother died of severe depression(diagnosed). My aunt's husband died of overdrinking/cirrhosis without any child She acquired all the property from her husband and parents(after my grandfather's natural death). My mother did not claim any property to save her little sister. But her abuse did not end. She now abuses her neighbors and damages their properties just out of jealousy. Now, she has her eyes on us, and she tries to visit us to gain monetary benefits from us and tries to abuse us as everyone left her. I can feel, in her mind, she tries to achieve my mother's position by eliminating my mother( her elder sister). Very very dangerous person. Can do anything to gain power and property. Do not care about her family members or her loved ones. It's like closed ones are her biggest enemies. From her childhood, she was always jealous of her elder sister. If parents praised her elder daughter, the younger daughter started crying and would get violent on her parents. In my childhood, I watched my grandmother saying to my aunt " Why are you doing this? Am I the only mother to u? Is she not my child too? Why are you so jealous". Because of my aunt, I was not able to visit my grandparents house as a child. She is that much jealous. My aunt did not allow to spend my grandparent's own money when they were terminally ill. She loves money.
Outstanding, awesome, entlightening! The more one delves into this topic the more obvious it becomes that there is basically very little to no real reseach beeing done about the everyday psychopath next door. From an energetic point of view I would like to point out, that these people have a very unique aura and a very unique energy field. It kind of sucks you in (at least they try to do so), once you are in it you see that everything is grey, empty. Nothing is real, nothing is alife. Psychopaths remind me of still-lifes od people or a painting of food: nothing is real. They do not know what real life is like. Everything is fake and the only language their brain was able to develop is that of pretending to be something rather than someone. Whenever I encounter a psychopath, I feel a certain emptyness, a deadness even, that surrounds these people. They "smell" like dead matter. I do not judge, I simple stay away. Still, one has to clearly say that these people cannot be "cured". That is important for empaths or other people with a tendency to safe others (which in iself is never a good idea...) because that is something the psychopath will feed into once he or she has decided that you are their next wishful target. They try to find your weak spots in order to use them against you. One can also say we can be very thankful for these kind of people because they make you very much aware you your triggers, your spots that need healing, they can help you learn setting boundaries and so on. It actually is very sad to see, but these people cannot be safed/healed and I assume they wish nothing like that anyway.
For the past month, I've been binge-watching Sam Vaknin's videos and have become convinced that my father, brother, and sister are narcissists. It's quite obvious. However, my brother has exhibited certain behaviors towards me throughout his entire 33 years that have deeply and intensely hurt me. I've been repeatedly traumatized, always wanting to look up to my big brother, seeking his validation, hoping he would recognize me as the amazing little brother I always wanted to be. Instead, I received punishment, pain, suffering, and a complete lack of interest in any of the horrible feelings I experienced. There's been a complete lack of empathy from him, unlike my sister and father, who could still somehow show some degree of empathy, however shallow. My brother has never truly felt sorry for the horrible hurt and pain he caused me throughout my life. But I was always confused. I thought he was a narcissist because I was certain he did not enjoy hurting me. I could never sense that he actually derived pleasure from my pain. I knew that sadism is a telltale sign of a psychopath, which is why I assumed he was a narcissist. But now, after considering Sam Vaknin's explanations, it makes sense. Vaknin explains that the sadism in psychopaths isn't necessarily about enjoying the act of hurting others, but rather seeking to understand themselves better, to gain power, confidence, understanding, and control through the harm they inflict. Viewed in this light, everything my brother has done makes complete sense. I could never understand how he could do these things and not feel bad or sorry, especially as I am extremely sensitive and highly empathetic. But here I am, at the age of 31, finally understanding why the people around me have been so mean. Thanks to Mr. Vaknin's teachings, I now understand the nature of the sickness around me. I am extremely grateful that he makes this highly complex material so easily digestible for someone like me, who merely seeks to understand the toxicity around himself. Thank you very much.
Your lectures on this topic are so insightful that it terrifies me every time I tune in. The intricacies of how you break this down has made me realize how deeply disturbing people can really be.
Great explanation of the inner workings. Makes alot of sense if I think of the real world examples I know aswell. Pity this is one of the less viewed videos on this channel. I think it's one of the more important ones.
Prof vaknin, are you open to correspondents about physics as well as tutoring on how to create, apply and record study’s academically. Your work is groundbreaking and I honestly can’t get enough haha x
Hello prof. Vaknin. My ex husnand is a psychopath. We have three children. How can I deal with this? He is always manipulating the children and tries to get me back. I don't know what to do. Thanks is advance.
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No one explains a psychopath as beautiful as sam vaknin
Yeah, bc he knows how to describe himself 😅😂
lmao 🤣
Great! Just a couple weeks ago I was talking to my wife, saying it’s too bad there’s not that many videos prof Vaknin makes on psychopaths, and how I wish he made more. Thank you professor
My Maternal Aunt is a psychopath (secondary, ASPD with religious OCD)(diagnosed), she loves to abuse everybody around her verbally and sometimes physically. Because of her abuse, my grandmother died of severe depression(diagnosed). My aunt's husband died of overdrinking/cirrhosis without any child She acquired all the property from her husband and parents(after my grandfather's natural death). My mother did not claim any property to save her little sister. But her abuse did not end. She now abuses her neighbors and damages their properties just out of jealousy. Now, she has her eyes on us, and she tries to visit us to gain monetary benefits from us and tries to abuse us as everyone left her. I can feel, in her mind, she tries to achieve my mother's position by eliminating my mother( her elder sister). Very very dangerous person. Can do anything to gain power and property. Do not care about her family members or her loved ones. It's like closed ones are her biggest enemies. From her childhood, she was always jealous of her elder sister. If parents praised her elder daughter, the younger daughter started crying and would get violent on her parents. In my childhood, I watched my grandmother saying to my aunt " Why are you doing this? Am I the only mother to u? Is she not my child too? Why are you so jealous". Because of my aunt, I was not able to visit my grandparents house as a child. She is that much jealous. My aunt did not allow to spend my grandparent's own money when they were terminally ill. She loves money.
How did you manage to get her diagnosed?
@@bubrzubr5940 Her late husband took her to a psychiatrist for mental abuse while he was receiving treatment for his alcohol addiction.
@@SherriFlemming yes.
This breakdown is the clearest, and simplest explanation I've heard, thank you Dr.
Outstanding, awesome, entlightening! The more one delves into this topic the more obvious it becomes that there is basically very little to no real reseach beeing done about the everyday psychopath next door. From an energetic point of view I would like to point out, that these people have a very unique aura and a very unique energy field. It kind of sucks you in (at least they try to do so), once you are in it you see that everything is grey, empty. Nothing is real, nothing is alife.
Psychopaths remind me of still-lifes od people or a painting of food: nothing is real. They do not know what real life is like. Everything is fake and the only language their brain was able to develop is that of pretending to be something rather than someone. Whenever I encounter a psychopath, I feel a certain emptyness, a deadness even, that surrounds these people. They "smell" like dead matter. I do not judge, I simple stay away. Still, one has to clearly say that these people cannot be "cured". That is important for empaths or other people with a tendency to safe others (which in iself is never a good idea...) because that is something the psychopath will feed into once he or she has decided that you are their next wishful target. They try to find your weak spots in order to use them against you.
One can also say we can be very thankful for these kind of people because they make you very much aware you your triggers, your spots that need healing, they can help you learn setting boundaries and so on. It actually is very sad to see, but these people cannot be safed/healed and I assume they wish nothing like that anyway.
For the past month, I've been binge-watching Sam Vaknin's videos and have become convinced that my father, brother, and sister are narcissists. It's quite obvious. However, my brother has exhibited certain behaviors towards me throughout his entire 33 years that have deeply and intensely hurt me. I've been repeatedly traumatized, always wanting to look up to my big brother, seeking his validation, hoping he would recognize me as the amazing little brother I always wanted to be. Instead, I received punishment, pain, suffering, and a complete lack of interest in any of the horrible feelings I experienced. There's been a complete lack of empathy from him, unlike my sister and father, who could still somehow show some degree of empathy, however shallow.
My brother has never truly felt sorry for the horrible hurt and pain he caused me throughout my life. But I was always confused. I thought he was a narcissist because I was certain he did not enjoy hurting me. I could never sense that he actually derived pleasure from my pain. I knew that sadism is a telltale sign of a psychopath, which is why I assumed he was a narcissist. But now, after considering Sam Vaknin's explanations, it makes sense. Vaknin explains that the sadism in psychopaths isn't necessarily about enjoying the act of hurting others, but rather seeking to understand themselves better, to gain power, confidence, understanding, and control through the harm they inflict.
Viewed in this light, everything my brother has done makes complete sense. I could never understand how he could do these things and not feel bad or sorry, especially as I am extremely sensitive and highly empathetic. But here I am, at the age of 31, finally understanding why the people around me have been so mean. Thanks to Mr. Vaknin's teachings, I now understand the nature of the sickness around me. I am extremely grateful that he makes this highly complex material so easily digestible for someone like me, who merely seeks to understand the toxicity around himself. Thank you very much.
Stay strong friend. Look out for yourself and heal. You cant save hostile mentally ill people even if they are family.
@@secondchannel1523 Thank you. I'm doing well. I'm grateful for my fortitude. And also for your comment, dear stranger :)
@@SebastiaanVaz You're very welcome. I'm happy to know you're doing better.
Sorry but when you see something in everyone maybe look in the mirror xD
@@yuno555gasai5 Trust me. I've been trying to look in the mirror for all my life. I always thought something must be wrong with me.
I swear to God this is the best video about psychopaths I've seen so far
Brilliance.
Your lectures on this topic are so insightful that it terrifies me every time I tune in. The intricacies of how you break this down has made me realize how deeply disturbing people can really be.
Thank you so much Dear Sam Vaknin❤
Professor Vaknin I watch all your videos they are very informative. Thank you.
Thanks for the great vid!🙏
Great explanation of the inner workings. Makes alot of sense if I think of the real world examples I know aswell.
Pity this is one of the less viewed videos on this channel. I think it's one of the more important ones.
Practice makes perfect.
Prof vaknin, are you open to correspondents about physics as well as tutoring on how to create, apply and record study’s academically. Your work is groundbreaking and I honestly can’t get enough haha x
Wow. Thank you very much. Very informative indeed!
Thank you .
Brilliant
Thanks heaps, Sir Vaknin. I was dying to know about psychopathy.
very logical, very detailed, very accurate
Perfect 👍🏻
Wow!
Can psychopathy be 'cured' to any extent? Or is managing the condition the best one can hope for?
Neither.
@@samvaknin That's what I feared, thanks.
Me too belong to the " Milky Way ".
Were Stalin and hitler psychopaths?
Stalin was a paranoid psychopath and Hitler was a malignant narcissist.
Hello prof. Vaknin. My ex husnand is a psychopath. We have three children. How can I deal with this? He is always manipulating the children and tries to get me back. I don't know what to do. Thanks is advance.
Play the game but just be better in it
Good luck
You should not have to delete the video about Trump
I didn't. Trump cult members' complaints to RUclips did. I reuploaded the 2 parts here: http:ruclips.net/user/vakninmusings
Yessssssss we want psychopath narcissists are boring now