Stop Looking for Perfect Hair: Why It’s Hindering Your Progress in the Natural Hair Journey
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- In this video, I share with you how I came thus far in my hair journey, Why perfectionism is one of the biggest hindrances to your success on your hair journey and my 10 year Length check.
Every hair has it's own story...let your hair tell it's story....give your hair a chance to prove itself to you.
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Show Your Hair Some Love
Please Fromother don’t mind whoever said that. You have inspired me to love my hair. I treat it so well now because of you and your beautiful daughters. As women of color hair is such a sensitive topic for us. Even if I don’t grow it as long as yours I love it and is all that matters thank you sister 💐🌹🌺🌷🌸🌻🌷🌼
@@Goku-on-gtag Amazing! I love that for your hair. Thanks for the flowers...I truly appreciate you 😊
Gurlll! Flowers? You deserve the whole darn garden....okay!!
@@mocha07666 Okay Gurl!! Thank you so much🥰
@@lindsaychrisharmony I'm just tellin the truth. I ain't NEVER seen a head of hair like yours and I've been a lot of places and seen a lot of things. Keep up the extraordinary work sis. Peace
@@mocha07666 Thank you so much! Love and Light 🙏🏾
Today while I was somewhere pricing yam, A man walked up to me with all smiling face saying, madam 'I just like your hair, I said pardon? He repeated himself and added, ,,"your hair is so natural and beautiful. Honestly, I blushed.
Thank you so much for encouraging us to wear our natural hair out with pride. God bless you.
@@chibuzonnabuihe8815 How nice of him😊. Thank you for sharing
You are welcome sis.
Really, that happened to you?? Wow I am amaaazed😮 good for you!!!!❤❤❤
It makes me happy to see how much your hair gives you joy ❤
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@@CelineShiko 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I'm 5'7, too. My hair is 25 inches long. Your hair is magnificent!!
@@TP-fq8wd Amazing 🙌🏾. Thank you so much 🙏🏾
my 12 yr old daughter hair was 22-23 inches long and i had to cut 8 inches off because of Mielle hair product thin it out but now it’s thick and growing
@@loveforall1 Oh dear...am sorry about that...but it's good to know it's growing her. It will...her hair is in Mama's good hands 😊
Well done our dear FairyFroMother. Please receive your very well deserved flowers and accolades. Yours is an incredible achievement of commitment, discpline and love. Thank you for showing is that it is possible and for all that you do for us. Love and Light ❤😊🎉
@@cirur.3934 Thank you so much..I appreciate you 🥰
With much hair comes much responsibility. Wow ma'am!
You are right😅
I am a new subscriber, but from the videos I have watched, I have only gotten the impression that you love your God given hair and learned to care for it well and are encouraging others to do the same. 💛 Beautiful hair 🤩 🌹🌼🌷🌻🌸🪷🌸💐
@@TC-gx3qn Sure! Thanks for watching 😊. Thanks for the flowers
Wonderful message. Stop looking for perfect hair. Love the hair you have and treat it gently. 🙂
Your hair is at mid-thigh length! OMG!!! Beautiful! 👏🏾💐🌹
@@cheryls.booker3336 Thank you so much 🥰
Yes….You certainly do deserve many flowers!!!!!💐 🌸 🌺 Your approach to hair care has been a big influence for me! I am patient with finger detangling….I am compassionate toward my hair. I use only teas and aloe Vera juice to hydrate my hair between wash days. I use clay masks and I carefully cover all of my hair from root to tip. You have really helped me to develop a very positive embracing attitude toward my hair regimen instead of simply using herbs without an attitude of praise, gratitude and joy when I see my hair tumble out of the twists or braids. My texture is a bit different than yours but that is to be expected….I still use your approach and my strands love my positive attitude. You have encouraged me to get to know my hair instead of just putting stuff on it and expecting various results. I am now choosing clay mask or herbal mask depending on what my hair is telling me it needs and that has been a wonderful change!! I could go on and on about how much you have helped me. My hair is waist length now….Thank You so much!!!!! 🌺
@@alisameireis3628 Thank you!!! This brings smiles to my face...knowing that people are learning and people are making progress and building relationships with their hair. Thank you for sharing...I appreciate you 🙏🏾
Well done mama
I have been following you for 6 years and more.
Your hair keeps me motivated.
@@ugochitimipere5946 Am glad!
Just started following last year and i thank God i did. I feel so positive about my hair. Tho i feel its stanted to one level.
I am on the 1year no braid chalenge too. Its not an easy Journey tho.
You absolutely have beautiful hair!! You have inspired me to be more gentle with my tresses.
@@klarken7710 Love that! Thank you😊
You are right about finger detangling i have never looked back since i started doing it 100%
@@doreenakello-dora 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yes Sis!!! I’m loving the length! Well done! 👏💕🥰
@@A_Wilson Thank you so much 😊
💐💐💐 Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge through your videos! I truly enjoy them and understand why seeking perfection can cause set backs and hinder progress. I too agree...we have to love our hair at every stage and treat it as such. You are very inspirational! Congratulations on reaching mid thigh length! 💐💐💐💐💐💐
@@mjgarner123 True! Thank you so much 🙏🏾
Mid thigh length is crazyyyyy
@@kt4044 It's insane😄
I was not up to 4inches when I started in Dec. But now I am about 8inches length.
That's great! Keep up the good work. 🤗
Amazing🙌🏾🙌🏾
That means you’re retaining all your length and your hair isn’t breaking!! 👏 I love to hear it! 🥰💕
@@TC-gx3qnthanks ma'am
@@A_Wilsonyeah! Sure I do. I am so committed to it. Prior to this time, when ever I stood before the mirror to style my hair, I would always leave the spot wondering at so much broken hairs that'll flood the floor. Now it's only shade hairs that I experience.
🌹 god is proud of you 🌹
@@Ooniekat Ase 🙏🏾
I love, love, love your hair and your aura.❤ You are a great inspiration! We absolutely can grow our hair to any length. My hair is 5 years old and is currently touching the top of my thighs. Mid-thigh length soon...
Nice! Congratulations 😁
@@TC-gx3qn Thank you!
Wow!
Your hair is amazing and inspirational. ❤
@@delseatube1700 Am glad! Thank you😊
You and your hair are beautiful. I have seen other naturals with long hair, but none of them have hair as amazing (to me) as yours. 😊
@@TheMotherlove411 Sincerely appreciate you...Thank you so much 🙏🏾
I don’t care how long it takes my goal is your hair length. However I am loving the journey. I love and appreciate my shoulder length hair. Our hair is so unique and beautiful from the big chop to whatever length we are at. Ty❤❤❤
You got this!
Thank you for wearing a white t-shirt so we can see total technique.
@@beautyupabove4708 My pleasure
🌟⭐🌕🌌🎇🎯🎼You are Living Proof with Live and Living Lengths to Substantiate Your Testimonial: "Blak' Women can Grow Long Healthy Hair" !!!!!!!! Thank You for Your Commitment to the Process FairyFro Mother. You Inspire Me since the very First Time I saw and listened to You! Congratulayshunz and Jubilayshunz for the Reward of Your Labor-of-Love to Your Lovely Tresses 🎶✴✴™ FairyFro Mother ™
Beautiful ❤I’m learning so much thank you 🙏🏽
@@Liz-pp7bo Am glad!
🎉 congratulations on your hair 🎉🌺🥀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌸🌷🪷🌼💐 More flowers for you . ..u really motivated me.. I have been following you for years and your tips really helped me a lot.. I have been natural for 4 years now my hair is 18 inches long, I have been following your tips and I never regret it even once 💖🥰 more ❤️
Amazing! Am here for this...keep it up. And thanks for the flowers 😊
Beautiful! 💐🌸💮🏵🌹🥀🌺🌻🌼🌷🪴
Thank you for your wisdom that you share with us in taking care of our hair. I pray God help me to apply it.
Congratulations Ma ❤❤🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌸🌸🌸🌸
@@GabomaToon Thank you so much 😊
Wow! This is incredible.Take your flowers 🌷🌷🌷and thank you for inspiring us
My pleasure 😊
Amazing.. that's where I want to be🌺🌺🌺🌺
@@KamishaSmith842 Thank you so much 😊
You are most welcome.
You are so right, who needs combs when you have hands. We must be gentle and loving to ourselves. I love your videos, blessings.
Facts! Thanks for being here 😊
You don't deserve flowers queen, you deserve your crown 👑. OMG, so inspiring! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and journey with us ❤
So nice of you...Thank you!
🎉🎉🎉bravo!!! You deserve it.come on!
Thank you so much 😊
Yes, Encouraging woman their hair can be long at tailbone length knee length and ankle length. We all now know how our hair can grow. 14 years natural and finally my hair is growing. It will be knee length by 2027.😂😂😂😂it is now shoulder length 🤭🤭I now know it's ok for my hair to look and seem like it's not growing then I measure and I see it it growing. Because I finally know how to retain length. For me when I wash my hair with clips at the end then it doesn't break off and I retain my length. Thank you afro queen.
I also see a progression of your skin lightening over the years!,
Yes Queen 👑
@@AnandaSmith-o5p Yessss🙌🏾🙌🏾
🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 proud of you Mam!
Thank you so much 😊
Insert lots of flowers. You are very deserving of each and everyone of those petals.
@@pamelathompson7850 Thank you so much 😊
Sis, you deserve your 🌸🌸🌸🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹 you, inspire young and old like myself lol to remain motivated and that growing our hair is achievable blessings well done! 👏
Am glad! Thank you😊
Queenest of all queenss
@@kt4044 🙏🏾
Love your hair, Lindsay!! You inspire me. I want to grow my hair as long as yours. 😊❤
@@edwinafrancis9204 Thank you! I believe that we can achieve whatever we set our minds to achieve 😊. All the best🙌🏾
Thank you beloved 💐💐
We all appreciate you eternally ✨
My absolute pleasure 🙏🏾
Started finger detangling 9 months ago and it’s been a game changer. I have been on natural hair journey for many years combing and brushing my hair at wash time and the longest i ever reached was BSL. If i had been finger detangling instead, i would have reached waist and butts length long time ago. Smh.
They say; better late than never! Glad you tuned into finger detangling
Beautifully done👏🏽 I celebrate your hard work and dedication with you 💐 💐💐
So nice of you! Thank you😊
No brag, You are just stating Facts! ❤ wonderful Results! Great commentary!🎉🎉🎉🎉 🌺 flowers 💐 Congratulations
Thank you so much!
Congratulations on making it to mid thigh length!!! So beautiful 💜. Thank you for sharing what you know!
Thank you...and it's my pleasure!
Hello beautiful lady love seeing you ❤❤❤
@@thisismyfaceiamacadet7634 Love having you here! Thank you😊
SOOOOOO Gorgeous💕 I LOoooove your hair! Love your content very informative!💕❣
Thank you so much!!
My hair is so greedy and fat she eats water, tea, oil, cream, butter in one go😂😂😂
@@kt4044 😂😂Keep feeding her
No 😂😂😂
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Here mama! 🌹🌸💐🌺🌷🌻🌼 you get all the lively flowers from the emoji board ahah, bravo!!
Yes! Thank you!
Congratulations Lindsey on such a wonderful achievement 🎉 yes you truly deserve your flowers 🎉 ignore all the negative comments. I've been watching you for a while now, you've helped me to embrace my hair with all your encouragement and advice. Thank you. I always look forward to your video's.
@@ladyv3562 Amazing! Am here for this. Thank you so much 🙏🏾
BEAUTIFUL HAIR!! You, AND your hair ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ME!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!🙏🏾❤💥❤
Thank you! You too!
My queen my hair is enjoying now
And she is thanking me
I learned how to nurture and care for my hair through you
Wow I can't believe it
I have started doing tea rinses oh my goodness I love it
Am in that no extension challenge💪💪
Mummy I so much love You
Keep inspiring me oh sorry I mean us🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
And congratulations wow mid thigh length no be here oooo💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
God richly bless you🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
That's so good to know...well done! And thank you so much...I appreciate you😊
@@lindsaychrisharmony God bless you ma
@@rosemaryamaka2489 Ase🙏🏾
Wonderful. You are so inspiring.
@@hatbarn3532 Am glad! Thank you
Yes our hair are perfect, all this "imperfections" is perfectly perfect😊 I love that. The only imperfections for is the breakage and hair fall and full years with fake hair
@@nt1215 Imperfectly pert! I like that.
You are awesome of how you share what you do to grow your hair and last but surely not least of the length you have gained. Congratulations 🎉
Thank you so much 🙏🏾
I mean just wow 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you are definitely my hair role model
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🎉🎉🎉🎉. U indeed deserve the flower..🎉🎉🎉
Thank you!
Wow, so much hair on a beautiful scalp 🎉🎉🎉
It really is! Thank you
I'm giving you your flowers that you deserve. Thanks for sharing🏆🏅🥇
Thanks for being here 😊
🌺 🌸 🌼 🌹 💐 🌹 Bravo my sister & thank you!❤
Thank you too!
🌹🌹🌹🌹😋😋 here is your flowers 💐💐💐. Your hair looks so healthy and strong.
@@Ebonygazelle Thank you so much 🙏🏾
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉length check got the receipts…. I am on this journey ….
You got this!
💐♥️ I am trying to get my hair your length.
@@Michelle_83_41 All the best🙌🏾
@@lindsaychrisharmony thank you
Me too
Incredible head of hair 😍😍
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Sis this is amazing! I'm so happy for you. Thank you for being an inspiration.🌷🌷🌷
@@imaQueenelite Thank you so much! I appreciate you 😊🙏🏾
🎉 u go girl!!!!!😊
Ayer🙌🏾🙌🏾
Hello 👋 your hair is really healthy and looks beautiful////keep it up////👑👸 queen
@@glendahipps Thank you
Mission accomplished ❤
Ayeee🙌🏾🙌🏾
Congratulations 😊
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Many many thanks
Flowers 💐 🌹 🌸 🏵 🌼 💐 🌹
@@KanikaNewsome-pj6jb Thank you so much 🙏🏾
💐💐🌷🌻🌻 Great job!! Bravo 👏🏾 👏🏾
Thank you! Cheers!
Beautiful 🌸🌹🌸🌷🌺🌻🌼
@@preyn49 Thank you!
Here you go 😊 🌺🌺🌺🌷🌷🌷🌹🌹🌹🌼🌼🌸🌸💐💐💐💐
Thank you so much 😊
Congratulations 🎉 🌷💐🌺🥀🌹
Thank you! Cheers!
8:56 your hair looks like a rollof Brazilian yarn. I Afrocannhair is comparable to wool. :)
@@Jai-ling It's truly a Blessing 😊
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@@michelleej Thank you
Flowers 💐 flowers 🌺
@@TrinaMorales-James Thank you😊
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@@salomeysuglotetteh7822 Thank you
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Thank you😊
Flower 🌷🌷🌷❤
Thank you😊
I love how you give everyone the grace of, do what works with your hair!
My hair only accepts oil, no cream, no butter, no conditioner, no gel. It always made me feel ‘wrong’ somehow, and even with oil, it was only jasmine and candlenut oil (Kemiri oil) that it really worked with.
I lost a lot of hair thickness throughout the years, (I’m only 25 I make myself sound so old haha)
I at first had two buns the size of a head of hair but now only one the size of a small fist, and it’s halfway my bum now, stretched out.
Regardless I just wish to be done obsessing over it yes and just be at peace with where my hair is at.
It got matted and tangled severely after i didn’t oil a part enough, my mom has detangled it for two months, and with all the hair I lost in the process I just want to be okay with that. Even if I never reach the goals where I would love my hair to be, thank you so much for sharing your energy, and being so incredibly gorgeous!
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Now is 2 month I use your brand.
I'm trying to get through 3 weeks of complete care. I stated 1 week now I'm in 2 weeks
@@nt1215 Awesome!! Your hair will love them 😊
I have learned that my scalp does not like anything on it but shampoo. The length of my hair loves butter. I have not found protective styles yet
Glad you've learnt the things you've learnt about your hair. For what you are yet to know....am sure you will..in time😊
Your hair is so beautiful. How many twists do you have on? Trying to follow your foot steps
Thank you so much! I have no idea cos I don't count my twists.
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Maybe that's why my scalp is so sore, i just comb with a wide comb instead of finger detangling
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Revair stretches hair somehow 😊
Never used heat yet! Maybe I'll consider it in future
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🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 WOW
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@@yvonnedogbatsey9160 Thank you so much 🙏🏾
You're very beautiful ❤❤❤
Thank you so much 😊
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@@salomeysuglotetteh7822 I appreciate you..Thanks
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