7 AWFUL Habits That Instantly Make People Look Down on You | STOIC PHILOSOPHY

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @StoicTraining
    @StoicTraining Месяц назад +3

    One of the best points in this video was when you talked about taking responsibility instead of making excuses. It hit hard when you said, “When you don't take responsibility, you give up your power to change things.” That's so true! It’s so easy to blame external stuff, but owning up to mistakes is what actually helps us grow and earn respect. Definitely something I need to work on myself. Thanks for the reminder!

  • @Contemplate-s8p
    @Contemplate-s8p 2 месяца назад +10

    These words resonate deeply with me, and I hope that anyone who comes across them has a joyful day, filled with luck and happiness. Wishing you vibrant health, boundless energy, and a life full of peace.

    • @whosingsweneverlose7900
      @whosingsweneverlose7900 2 месяца назад +1

      Show me the last year me and my father who are you amazed to say is my world my hero over a year slowly deteriorated into the same bitter and stranger be grateful for any help and advice

  • @EchoedSerenity1
    @EchoedSerenity1 2 месяца назад +1

    The ability to remain indifferent to what we can't control is such a powerful mindset. 💪

  • @stoicexcellencepath
    @stoicexcellencepath 2 месяца назад +73

    No. 1 Gossiping
    No. 2 Being Passive-Aggressive
    No. 3 Not Taking Responsibility
    No. 4 Poor Hygiene
    No. 5 Constant Complaining
    No. 6 Being Chronically Late
    No. 7 Playing the Victim

    • @riazahmed9196
      @riazahmed9196 2 месяца назад +2

      %😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @riazahmed9196
      @riazahmed9196 2 месяца назад +2

      %😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @padmakumar6081
      @padmakumar6081 2 месяца назад +2

      8. Doing roundabout

    • @sandrakrestan2776
      @sandrakrestan2776 2 месяца назад +2

      Thank you❤

    • @latinaalma1947
      @latinaalma1947 2 месяца назад +3

      I dont do any of these and never have....I think I am a mystery to almost everyone:
      1. They see I am female , they make asumptions.
      2. They see I am mature they make assumptions.
      3. They see I LOOK like an aging but not wrecked 60ish Breck girl/cheerleader of the 60s...WASPY blonde. They probably make the MOST erroneous assumptions about this.
      4. They eventually hear I am a retired clini cal psychology professor and university administrator...more assumptions.
      5. I participate in none of the behaviors listed.
      Assumtioms include:
      1. I must have soemthing wrong with ME I was trying to fix since I became a psychologist.
      2. Maybe I can read other people's thoughts.
      3. Maybe I can "fix" them! And maybe they can get free therapy if they befriend me...that backfires on them because if they are a close friend I cannot treat them anyway...besides I dont practice anymore....
      4. All professors have no common sense or practical skills.
      5. I want to hear their dreams the asleep kind not the goal/fantasies kind.
      6. Or I want to hear about their sex life.
      7. Or I want to hear why men are so bad or that women are impossible to please.
      So mostly I just stand or sit and listen BRIEFLY, then excuse myself. I do have some close friends...we talk about sailing, or our dogs, or our travels, or ideas....

  • @annamarieklups6499
    @annamarieklups6499 2 месяца назад +1

    People don’t like honesty. It hits them hard when they have to take a good look at themselves. They don’t like that. Your brutal honesty and good heart repels people quicker than the plague 😊

  • @alegnalowe3679
    @alegnalowe3679 2 месяца назад +8

    Honesty is always the best thing,calling people out for being a lying sack of crap is OK and good for setting boundaries sets boundaries.
    Also own up to you're own mistakes is good.

  • @Stoicism79
    @Stoicism79 2 месяца назад +19

    "The best revenge is not to be like your enemy"- Marcus Aurelius.

  • @Krathon-i2p
    @Krathon-i2p Месяц назад

    This video really made me pause and reflect on my own perspective. Sometimes, the most profound wisdom comes from the simplest ideas.

  • @NinaDafova
    @NinaDafova 2 месяца назад +5

    True. Absolutely true. My experience proved all those reasons.
    Till next time, thank you, Sir!

  • @StoicismandModernLife.
    @StoicismandModernLife. 2 месяца назад +4

    It's true that "it's hard but it's true", the channel has helped me look straight at my weaknesses. I'm looking forward to the next content! I hope everyone watching the video will find inspiration to make positive changes!

  • @EugenioJ.Ballenger
    @EugenioJ.Ballenger Месяц назад

    Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

    • @Henry-hp3kl
      @Henry-hp3kl Месяц назад

      Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.

    • @EugenioJ.Ballenger
      @EugenioJ.Ballenger Месяц назад

      Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?

    • @Henry-hp3kl
      @Henry-hp3kl Месяц назад

      Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment

    • @EugenioJ.Ballenger
      @EugenioJ.Ballenger Месяц назад

      Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.

  • @onestoicus
    @onestoicus Месяц назад

    This video really encourages us to take a hard look at our habits! The way the presenter shared personal experiences made the points relatable and impactful. It's a reminder that we all have room for growth.

  • @JackshielsCorbett
    @JackshielsCorbett 2 месяца назад +20

    To be successful, you need to make plans and work towards them. Investing is still the smartest way to prepare the unexpected. I have been investing constantly for 6 years now and I'm extremely pleased with the returns. For anyone who want to start; The good news is it's never late to start...

    • @genniesview2233
      @genniesview2233 2 месяца назад

      This was brilliantly put together. I've been watching clips on youtube for months now and with professional help, I'm making outstanding progress in the market.

    • @Somenchakravarty
      @Somenchakravarty 2 месяца назад

      I've tried investing in bitcoin myself, bought courses, and tried everything possible to beat the market, without making any headway. How are you doing it?

    • @BraveIntrovert
      @BraveIntrovert 2 месяца назад

      He mostly interacts on Facebook using the user-name👇👇

    • @BraveIntrovert
      @BraveIntrovert 2 месяца назад

      *HARVEY BARRETT FX*

    • @BraveIntrovert
      @BraveIntrovert 2 месяца назад

      Harvey Barrett FX 👈

  • @anotherrandomlife
    @anotherrandomlife 2 месяца назад +6

    Ty for sharing stoic teachings, as a person new to stoicism your videos are detailed and very helpful

  • @rubyred3860
    @rubyred3860 2 месяца назад +6

    It’s really difficult 😮 admitting that you’re hurting. 😢😢😢😢 To me it’s one of the hardest emotions to show or even share.

  • @alegnalowe3679
    @alegnalowe3679 2 месяца назад +20

    Some people are so moral corrupt you can't help but to hate them.that is an honest truth! Let's not be fluffy and so touchy feely.

  • @lucindamoran8686
    @lucindamoran8686 2 месяца назад +10

    Gossip is bonding ONLY in the Beauty Salon business! Good gossip l mean, lt is the backbone of the Industry!!! The only catch is to choice the select few to gossip to.....because l guarantee it will come back to you....l once worked in a salon with an inexpienced lazy boss we all talked it over,she left on her own! It just wasn't her thing! She was collecting a salary for doing nothing and mean to boot! After she left my coworkers and myself were much closer!!! Gossip really worked that time! We each had stories about how badly she ran the salon and how she treated us all! I am glad we shared! Now we have a nice hard working manager who fits in with the rest of us! All of us have been in the industry more than 35 years!!!! Lol!!!😂 We know a lazy manager when we see one!!!!🎉

    • @mingo2024
      @mingo2024 2 месяца назад

      Salon owner here. Gossip is nothing to be proud of. You sound really evil.

    • @catedi3679
      @catedi3679 2 месяца назад

      WOW I never looked at going to beauty salons n having my hair cut like that.

    • @catedi3679
      @catedi3679 2 месяца назад +1

      Hair stylist or nail tech always remembers all your personal details, but really could care less.

  • @mariec5716
    @mariec5716 2 месяца назад +2

    hi. listening to this, i realise that people are not worth your time or pleasure...yes people have their issues and goals only. it's all about them anyhow, they come in your life to keep you down and always to belittle you. let s face it, no one actually cares because it is them the best. everyone else is Nothing. okay. Amen Amen...

  • @DahlanLatiff
    @DahlanLatiff 2 месяца назад

    Made me introspective.. Lessons on habits that I needed to correct and transform myself.

  • @Antares1347
    @Antares1347 Месяц назад

    I can not thank enough about this video, we all know about them. But always needed reminders, the way he performed was excellent. Any time l tried to teach these to my little kid never he wants to listen! Maybe it should not come from parents!? I know we should not tell what to do just show them in our actions! True but what if they only want to be themselves far from our values:(
    I am going to send this to one of his friends and... Hopefully it make more effect😊 Again thank you 💐

  • @WisdomGOLD-k7d
    @WisdomGOLD-k7d 2 месяца назад +1

    Laughing of serious conversation doesn't mean the person is lying, but a way to alleviate the pain the situation is causing on them.

  • @KingStoic101
    @KingStoic101 2 месяца назад +7

    Change to become better every day!

  • @patricianeville1941
    @patricianeville1941 2 месяца назад

    I have a problem with people who think making fun of you or other people makes them like able!

  • @isabelleparadot9845
    @isabelleparadot9845 2 месяца назад +6

    Thank you so much for sharing this great video. You even made me laugh. It’s always good to listen to your teaching. Excellent I loved it 😃

  • @cslewislegacy1
    @cslewislegacy1 2 месяца назад +6

    Recognizing these bad habits is the firt step towards personal growth.

  • @lucindamoran8686
    @lucindamoran8686 2 месяца назад +3

    Thanks for these great tips! Rolled out of bed look is the absolute worst!

  • @alfadelomer8225
    @alfadelomer8225 2 месяца назад +8

    People can’t stop being around you when you are controversial and prudent and you don’t focus on vaugness😊

  • @RobertHowe-zv7gs
    @RobertHowe-zv7gs 2 месяца назад +1

    I've been guilty of some of these, but not all.

  • @rubyred3860
    @rubyred3860 2 месяца назад +5

    Awesome encouragement & advice!!! Thank you so much!!!

  • @JohirIslam-cw7nz
    @JohirIslam-cw7nz 2 месяца назад +4

    Thank you

  • @ivybaccas6629
    @ivybaccas6629 2 месяца назад

    You're a true master stoic thank you for your wonderful messages ❤

  • @lunaleia952
    @lunaleia952 2 месяца назад +4

    I feel so called out :')

  • @rubyred3860
    @rubyred3860 2 месяца назад +9

    People can’t stand being around those who constantly gossip!!!

  • @venerandahmlamba1172
    @venerandahmlamba1172 28 дней назад

    Thanks lots

  • @TheEssenceofStoicism0
    @TheEssenceofStoicism0 2 месяца назад

    thanks for your video, all good things

  • @lucybarnes9492
    @lucybarnes9492 2 месяца назад

    Love the content and your wisdom . I would love a different background such as beautiful sceneries. Thank you for sharing and yes I found things I need to work on 😌

  • @francescaviceconti3770
    @francescaviceconti3770 2 месяца назад +1

    bad habits? the only feature that's considered uber positive and will make you popular whatever you do is physical beauty. AND passive-aggressive games are intrinsic part of the Englander's way of being since they want to be clever and direct confrontation even to sorting out a problem is seeing as too explicit and naive

  • @NorinneWong
    @NorinneWong 2 месяца назад +5

    7 Aweful Habits:
    1.Gossipping
    2.Passive Aggressiveness
    3.Never taking responsibility
    4.Lack of basic hygiene
    5.Chronic complainer
    6.Being Chronically late
    7.Playing the victim

  • @lindahoang506
    @lindahoang506 2 месяца назад

    Very good. Thank you so much.

  • @victoriafalls8748
    @victoriafalls8748 2 месяца назад

    You have a really good friend❤

  • @davidbooher5559
    @davidbooher5559 2 месяца назад

    Wow! Stoicism and body spray? Who knew?

  • @smallstorybiglife
    @smallstorybiglife 2 месяца назад

    Thank you so much

  • @SybilDeligny-cz3br
    @SybilDeligny-cz3br 2 месяца назад

    From a teenager I've been at the receiving end of very damaging gossip which led to a very strong distaste of it
    I hate it
    You csn marry your mother and it wont affect me
    In total honesty

  • @lucyappah5548
    @lucyappah5548 2 месяца назад

    Thank you, very helpful ❤

  • @SusyHale
    @SusyHale 2 месяца назад

    Want to bond, talk about hobbies. Food, sports the weather..anything but gossip.

  • @lifewithlyza4488
    @lifewithlyza4488 2 месяца назад +1

    OMG 😳 WOW 😮 🤞✌️

  • @TheScotsman1977
    @TheScotsman1977 2 месяца назад +3

    Those of us that have attention deficit disorder or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, our brains don't track time properly.

    • @SunnyRayWMTS23
      @SunnyRayWMTS23 2 месяца назад

      To the one about being fashionably late yes, I myself suffer from ADHD and autism and I am learning there are skills we can learn to help us with things like timeline syndrome. I am learning to set reminders of upcoming events that expect me to be punctual. So I have a week to 24 hours to prepare. I’m learning to prepare for tomorrow by laying out my clothes the night before and packing whatever bag is appropriate for the event whether it’s dinner or my daily job! Luck happens when preparation meets opportunity! I don’t know how much luck you have in your life but this quote definitely reminds me what to do to improve my luck in my life

  • @sageoates1526
    @sageoates1526 2 месяца назад

    Excellent 🎉❤🎉

  • @mariec5716
    @mariec5716 2 месяца назад +2

    hi. another thing is the hygiene, well some people, are strange? for example i know a person who said to me did you shower? i always do, she was the smelly one, who smokes, drinks and is into people, in a big way. I said to another person, i am always well dressed clean and young fresh and beautiful. what the f. is her problem and who does she hang around with...I do notice, people think they re great and in reality, others smell and think them as totally different...

  • @StoicWisdom-3368
    @StoicWisdom-3368 2 месяца назад +1

    I love how honest and straightforward this video is. You managed to keep it fun while delivering some tough truths. Definitely a must-watch for anyone looking to improve themselves!

  • @Judy-wp8xf
    @Judy-wp8xf 2 месяца назад

    Im gulity of some of these

  • @TheScotsman1977
    @TheScotsman1977 2 месяца назад +1

    About when you have ADD or AD.H.D?

  • @floritashelby
    @floritashelby 2 месяца назад

    Stay out! Unfriendly!
    🇨🇦❤️🙏

  • @StoicUniverse1
    @StoicUniverse1 2 месяца назад +1

    Which platform used for ai voice

  • @CarlosJavierCuesta-zq8tv
    @CarlosJavierCuesta-zq8tv 2 месяца назад

    Amen ❤❤❤

  • @kayr6422
    @kayr6422 2 месяца назад

    Fearful people make rotten neighbors.

  • @Peggy_Lyons-tu1sj
    @Peggy_Lyons-tu1sj 2 месяца назад

    Sometimes, poor hygiene is done for self-preservation. Pay attention to the full situation.

  • @Rob-on-the-Road
    @Rob-on-the-Road 2 месяца назад +1

    I wash but I won't spray chemical shit on myself .

  • @PamelaKevin
    @PamelaKevin 2 месяца назад

    My favorite excuse in school I heard was the dog ate my homework. lol

  • @BiblewBoom
    @BiblewBoom 2 месяца назад +1

    The narrators voice

  • @PamelaKevin
    @PamelaKevin 2 месяца назад

    So play go fishing. Game of playtime for the children. Sound good or real.❤

  • @michelletewhata7768
    @michelletewhata7768 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @gadbuchianga5118
    @gadbuchianga5118 2 месяца назад +3

    I'm not with you on gossip. I'm a believer in Jesus Christ.
    Devil means - gossiper, slanderer or accuser.
    You can't celebrate slander unless you're a devil incarnate.

  • @darlaneely4463
    @darlaneely4463 2 месяца назад +4

    The best revenge is not to say anything pray for them in Jesus name amen Amen I believe

  • @fadumomohamed4242
    @fadumomohamed4242 2 месяца назад

    👍

  • @awartank
    @awartank 2 месяца назад +33

    Please get straight to the point. Over explaining examples is not stoic

    • @maxinecorbin1273
      @maxinecorbin1273 2 месяца назад +3

      What he's saying is absolutely true. The great thing is he's admitting it was him. People are so puffed up they don't admit they are the problems. He is very encouraging & not pointing fingers you you you. I would listen to him all day. The other great thing is he listened to when someone talked to him about his problems & that would make it easier for anyone to talk to him & two that's why he's such a motivational encourager today at least for me. I will save & listen again & take notes in what areas I have to change because we all have areas to change in & as he said rather than complaining & pointing fingers

    • @maxinecorbin1273
      @maxinecorbin1273 2 месяца назад +5

      The gossiping stood out to me I HATE gossipers they are SICKENING. I always say people that gossip has a lot to deal with, so by minding other people's business & bad talking them take their mind off their own dirty business

    • @Me-jf6hk
      @Me-jf6hk 2 месяца назад +3

      It's AI and Im not sure it can do stoicism. It's certainly not lived a life that can experience the things that are talked about in this video.

    • @awartank
      @awartank 2 месяца назад

      @@Me-jf6hkyup, the exact response that I subscribe to

    • @saeedkanuga8374
      @saeedkanuga8374 Месяц назад

      Not agereed

  • @PamelaKevin
    @PamelaKevin 2 месяца назад +1

    So let us really Cereal! All of the negativity of that person is only like snake oil. Leon or maybe the turtles, do you remember Leonardo.

  • @389293912
    @389293912 2 месяца назад

    Especially bad spelling. Terrible habit.

  • @aketulafono1605
    @aketulafono1605 2 месяца назад

    🙏🤲 Thankyou & God Bless YOU All Brethren’s..Treat Those the Way YOU Want to be Treated 💯🥰 Be Mindful Amene Amene Amene

  • @UltimateStoicism
    @UltimateStoicism 2 месяца назад +2

    Lack of hygiene as a sign of self-respect?

  • @珊晶添良
    @珊晶添良 Месяц назад

    I don't have men like that treat me
    They wrong only face even one so again only u then u face la

  • @珊晶添良
    @珊晶添良 Месяц назад

    When all women methods like me slr proof alot to him but no man like him alr proof alot to him then he sh face him not me cos all like mine no one like him
    Also how can he lppkk down on I say what bad things he done then why other women say all men don't look down on them
    Obviously he needs change his aptitude

  • @jakefulton4370
    @jakefulton4370 2 месяца назад +1

    333

  • @emmamarson2105
    @emmamarson2105 2 месяца назад +1

    The teenage American syntax and expressions all couched in the AI ´´kindà serious voice is very amusing. But hey, be real and move on.

  • @JackSparrow7x
    @JackSparrow7x 2 месяца назад

    Poor Poeple

  • @jjohnson1434
    @jjohnson1434 2 месяца назад +1

    You take too long getting to the point! Yuck! You "over explain" !!!!

  • @BarelySaneGenius
    @BarelySaneGenius 2 месяца назад

    Sooooooo many unnecessary words

  • @StoicMindBetterLife
    @StoicMindBetterLife 2 месяца назад

    "If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid." - Epictetus

  • @alegnalowe3679
    @alegnalowe3679 2 месяца назад +1

    Sometimes bad things happen because people make stupid decisions, not. Because of cercomstancees.pettiness is a real bad thing.Talking about those you don't even know make you look like a fool.