One of the best points in this video was when you talked about taking responsibility instead of making excuses. It hit hard when you said, “When you don't take responsibility, you give up your power to change things.” That's so true! It’s so easy to blame external stuff, but owning up to mistakes is what actually helps us grow and earn respect. Definitely something I need to work on myself. Thanks for the reminder!
These words resonate deeply with me, and I hope that anyone who comes across them has a joyful day, filled with luck and happiness. Wishing you vibrant health, boundless energy, and a life full of peace.
Show me the last year me and my father who are you amazed to say is my world my hero over a year slowly deteriorated into the same bitter and stranger be grateful for any help and advice
No. 1 Gossiping No. 2 Being Passive-Aggressive No. 3 Not Taking Responsibility No. 4 Poor Hygiene No. 5 Constant Complaining No. 6 Being Chronically Late No. 7 Playing the Victim
I dont do any of these and never have....I think I am a mystery to almost everyone: 1. They see I am female , they make asumptions. 2. They see I am mature they make assumptions. 3. They see I LOOK like an aging but not wrecked 60ish Breck girl/cheerleader of the 60s...WASPY blonde. They probably make the MOST erroneous assumptions about this. 4. They eventually hear I am a retired clini cal psychology professor and university administrator...more assumptions. 5. I participate in none of the behaviors listed. Assumtioms include: 1. I must have soemthing wrong with ME I was trying to fix since I became a psychologist. 2. Maybe I can read other people's thoughts. 3. Maybe I can "fix" them! And maybe they can get free therapy if they befriend me...that backfires on them because if they are a close friend I cannot treat them anyway...besides I dont practice anymore.... 4. All professors have no common sense or practical skills. 5. I want to hear their dreams the asleep kind not the goal/fantasies kind. 6. Or I want to hear about their sex life. 7. Or I want to hear why men are so bad or that women are impossible to please. So mostly I just stand or sit and listen BRIEFLY, then excuse myself. I do have some close friends...we talk about sailing, or our dogs, or our travels, or ideas....
People don’t like honesty. It hits them hard when they have to take a good look at themselves. They don’t like that. Your brutal honesty and good heart repels people quicker than the plague 😊
Honesty is always the best thing,calling people out for being a lying sack of crap is OK and good for setting boundaries sets boundaries. Also own up to you're own mistakes is good.
It's true that "it's hard but it's true", the channel has helped me look straight at my weaknesses. I'm looking forward to the next content! I hope everyone watching the video will find inspiration to make positive changes!
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
This video really encourages us to take a hard look at our habits! The way the presenter shared personal experiences made the points relatable and impactful. It's a reminder that we all have room for growth.
To be successful, you need to make plans and work towards them. Investing is still the smartest way to prepare the unexpected. I have been investing constantly for 6 years now and I'm extremely pleased with the returns. For anyone who want to start; The good news is it's never late to start...
This was brilliantly put together. I've been watching clips on youtube for months now and with professional help, I'm making outstanding progress in the market.
I've tried investing in bitcoin myself, bought courses, and tried everything possible to beat the market, without making any headway. How are you doing it?
Gossip is bonding ONLY in the Beauty Salon business! Good gossip l mean, lt is the backbone of the Industry!!! The only catch is to choice the select few to gossip to.....because l guarantee it will come back to you....l once worked in a salon with an inexpienced lazy boss we all talked it over,she left on her own! It just wasn't her thing! She was collecting a salary for doing nothing and mean to boot! After she left my coworkers and myself were much closer!!! Gossip really worked that time! We each had stories about how badly she ran the salon and how she treated us all! I am glad we shared! Now we have a nice hard working manager who fits in with the rest of us! All of us have been in the industry more than 35 years!!!! Lol!!!😂 We know a lazy manager when we see one!!!!🎉
hi. listening to this, i realise that people are not worth your time or pleasure...yes people have their issues and goals only. it's all about them anyhow, they come in your life to keep you down and always to belittle you. let s face it, no one actually cares because it is them the best. everyone else is Nothing. okay. Amen Amen...
I can not thank enough about this video, we all know about them. But always needed reminders, the way he performed was excellent. Any time l tried to teach these to my little kid never he wants to listen! Maybe it should not come from parents!? I know we should not tell what to do just show them in our actions! True but what if they only want to be themselves far from our values:( I am going to send this to one of his friends and... Hopefully it make more effect😊 Again thank you 💐
Love the content and your wisdom . I would love a different background such as beautiful sceneries. Thank you for sharing and yes I found things I need to work on 😌
bad habits? the only feature that's considered uber positive and will make you popular whatever you do is physical beauty. AND passive-aggressive games are intrinsic part of the Englander's way of being since they want to be clever and direct confrontation even to sorting out a problem is seeing as too explicit and naive
From a teenager I've been at the receiving end of very damaging gossip which led to a very strong distaste of it I hate it You csn marry your mother and it wont affect me In total honesty
To the one about being fashionably late yes, I myself suffer from ADHD and autism and I am learning there are skills we can learn to help us with things like timeline syndrome. I am learning to set reminders of upcoming events that expect me to be punctual. So I have a week to 24 hours to prepare. I’m learning to prepare for tomorrow by laying out my clothes the night before and packing whatever bag is appropriate for the event whether it’s dinner or my daily job! Luck happens when preparation meets opportunity! I don’t know how much luck you have in your life but this quote definitely reminds me what to do to improve my luck in my life
hi. another thing is the hygiene, well some people, are strange? for example i know a person who said to me did you shower? i always do, she was the smelly one, who smokes, drinks and is into people, in a big way. I said to another person, i am always well dressed clean and young fresh and beautiful. what the f. is her problem and who does she hang around with...I do notice, people think they re great and in reality, others smell and think them as totally different...
I love how honest and straightforward this video is. You managed to keep it fun while delivering some tough truths. Definitely a must-watch for anyone looking to improve themselves!
I'm not with you on gossip. I'm a believer in Jesus Christ. Devil means - gossiper, slanderer or accuser. You can't celebrate slander unless you're a devil incarnate.
What he's saying is absolutely true. The great thing is he's admitting it was him. People are so puffed up they don't admit they are the problems. He is very encouraging & not pointing fingers you you you. I would listen to him all day. The other great thing is he listened to when someone talked to him about his problems & that would make it easier for anyone to talk to him & two that's why he's such a motivational encourager today at least for me. I will save & listen again & take notes in what areas I have to change because we all have areas to change in & as he said rather than complaining & pointing fingers
The gossiping stood out to me I HATE gossipers they are SICKENING. I always say people that gossip has a lot to deal with, so by minding other people's business & bad talking them take their mind off their own dirty business
When all women methods like me slr proof alot to him but no man like him alr proof alot to him then he sh face him not me cos all like mine no one like him Also how can he lppkk down on I say what bad things he done then why other women say all men don't look down on them Obviously he needs change his aptitude
Sometimes bad things happen because people make stupid decisions, not. Because of cercomstancees.pettiness is a real bad thing.Talking about those you don't even know make you look like a fool.
One of the best points in this video was when you talked about taking responsibility instead of making excuses. It hit hard when you said, “When you don't take responsibility, you give up your power to change things.” That's so true! It’s so easy to blame external stuff, but owning up to mistakes is what actually helps us grow and earn respect. Definitely something I need to work on myself. Thanks for the reminder!
These words resonate deeply with me, and I hope that anyone who comes across them has a joyful day, filled with luck and happiness. Wishing you vibrant health, boundless energy, and a life full of peace.
Show me the last year me and my father who are you amazed to say is my world my hero over a year slowly deteriorated into the same bitter and stranger be grateful for any help and advice
The ability to remain indifferent to what we can't control is such a powerful mindset. 💪
No. 1 Gossiping
No. 2 Being Passive-Aggressive
No. 3 Not Taking Responsibility
No. 4 Poor Hygiene
No. 5 Constant Complaining
No. 6 Being Chronically Late
No. 7 Playing the Victim
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8. Doing roundabout
Thank you❤
I dont do any of these and never have....I think I am a mystery to almost everyone:
1. They see I am female , they make asumptions.
2. They see I am mature they make assumptions.
3. They see I LOOK like an aging but not wrecked 60ish Breck girl/cheerleader of the 60s...WASPY blonde. They probably make the MOST erroneous assumptions about this.
4. They eventually hear I am a retired clini cal psychology professor and university administrator...more assumptions.
5. I participate in none of the behaviors listed.
Assumtioms include:
1. I must have soemthing wrong with ME I was trying to fix since I became a psychologist.
2. Maybe I can read other people's thoughts.
3. Maybe I can "fix" them! And maybe they can get free therapy if they befriend me...that backfires on them because if they are a close friend I cannot treat them anyway...besides I dont practice anymore....
4. All professors have no common sense or practical skills.
5. I want to hear their dreams the asleep kind not the goal/fantasies kind.
6. Or I want to hear about their sex life.
7. Or I want to hear why men are so bad or that women are impossible to please.
So mostly I just stand or sit and listen BRIEFLY, then excuse myself. I do have some close friends...we talk about sailing, or our dogs, or our travels, or ideas....
People don’t like honesty. It hits them hard when they have to take a good look at themselves. They don’t like that. Your brutal honesty and good heart repels people quicker than the plague 😊
Honesty is always the best thing,calling people out for being a lying sack of crap is OK and good for setting boundaries sets boundaries.
Also own up to you're own mistakes is good.
"The best revenge is not to be like your enemy"- Marcus Aurelius.
This video really made me pause and reflect on my own perspective. Sometimes, the most profound wisdom comes from the simplest ideas.
True. Absolutely true. My experience proved all those reasons.
Till next time, thank you, Sir!
You welcome
It's true that "it's hard but it's true", the channel has helped me look straight at my weaknesses. I'm looking forward to the next content! I hope everyone watching the video will find inspiration to make positive changes!
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.
This video really encourages us to take a hard look at our habits! The way the presenter shared personal experiences made the points relatable and impactful. It's a reminder that we all have room for growth.
To be successful, you need to make plans and work towards them. Investing is still the smartest way to prepare the unexpected. I have been investing constantly for 6 years now and I'm extremely pleased with the returns. For anyone who want to start; The good news is it's never late to start...
This was brilliantly put together. I've been watching clips on youtube for months now and with professional help, I'm making outstanding progress in the market.
I've tried investing in bitcoin myself, bought courses, and tried everything possible to beat the market, without making any headway. How are you doing it?
He mostly interacts on Facebook using the user-name👇👇
*HARVEY BARRETT FX*
Harvey Barrett FX 👈
Ty for sharing stoic teachings, as a person new to stoicism your videos are detailed and very helpful
It’s really difficult 😮 admitting that you’re hurting. 😢😢😢😢 To me it’s one of the hardest emotions to show or even share.
Some people are so moral corrupt you can't help but to hate them.that is an honest truth! Let's not be fluffy and so touchy feely.
😂😂😂 TRUTH PRICELESS
Good advice
This is the first time I have heard you speak, and I think it's very good advice; it makes me want to be better, too.
Thank you.
Agree with the first part
Gossip is bonding ONLY in the Beauty Salon business! Good gossip l mean, lt is the backbone of the Industry!!! The only catch is to choice the select few to gossip to.....because l guarantee it will come back to you....l once worked in a salon with an inexpienced lazy boss we all talked it over,she left on her own! It just wasn't her thing! She was collecting a salary for doing nothing and mean to boot! After she left my coworkers and myself were much closer!!! Gossip really worked that time! We each had stories about how badly she ran the salon and how she treated us all! I am glad we shared! Now we have a nice hard working manager who fits in with the rest of us! All of us have been in the industry more than 35 years!!!! Lol!!!😂 We know a lazy manager when we see one!!!!🎉
Salon owner here. Gossip is nothing to be proud of. You sound really evil.
WOW I never looked at going to beauty salons n having my hair cut like that.
Hair stylist or nail tech always remembers all your personal details, but really could care less.
hi. listening to this, i realise that people are not worth your time or pleasure...yes people have their issues and goals only. it's all about them anyhow, they come in your life to keep you down and always to belittle you. let s face it, no one actually cares because it is them the best. everyone else is Nothing. okay. Amen Amen...
Made me introspective.. Lessons on habits that I needed to correct and transform myself.
I can not thank enough about this video, we all know about them. But always needed reminders, the way he performed was excellent. Any time l tried to teach these to my little kid never he wants to listen! Maybe it should not come from parents!? I know we should not tell what to do just show them in our actions! True but what if they only want to be themselves far from our values:(
I am going to send this to one of his friends and... Hopefully it make more effect😊 Again thank you 💐
Laughing of serious conversation doesn't mean the person is lying, but a way to alleviate the pain the situation is causing on them.
Change to become better every day!
I have a problem with people who think making fun of you or other people makes them like able!
Thank you so much for sharing this great video. You even made me laugh. It’s always good to listen to your teaching. Excellent I loved it 😃
Recognizing these bad habits is the firt step towards personal growth.
Thanks for these great tips! Rolled out of bed look is the absolute worst!
People can’t stop being around you when you are controversial and prudent and you don’t focus on vaugness😊
I've been guilty of some of these, but not all.
Awesome encouragement & advice!!! Thank you so much!!!
This ids great. I want to forward it to some friends,
😮😮😮
Show me how to forward this
Thank you
You're a true master stoic thank you for your wonderful messages ❤
I feel so called out :')
People can’t stand being around those who constantly gossip!!!
Thanks lots
thanks for your video, all good things
Love the content and your wisdom . I would love a different background such as beautiful sceneries. Thank you for sharing and yes I found things I need to work on 😌
bad habits? the only feature that's considered uber positive and will make you popular whatever you do is physical beauty. AND passive-aggressive games are intrinsic part of the Englander's way of being since they want to be clever and direct confrontation even to sorting out a problem is seeing as too explicit and naive
7 Aweful Habits:
1.Gossipping
2.Passive Aggressiveness
3.Never taking responsibility
4.Lack of basic hygiene
5.Chronic complainer
6.Being Chronically late
7.Playing the victim
Very good. Thank you so much.
You have a really good friend❤
Wow! Stoicism and body spray? Who knew?
Thank you so much
From a teenager I've been at the receiving end of very damaging gossip which led to a very strong distaste of it
I hate it
You csn marry your mother and it wont affect me
In total honesty
Thank you, very helpful ❤
Want to bond, talk about hobbies. Food, sports the weather..anything but gossip.
OMG 😳 WOW 😮 🤞✌️
Those of us that have attention deficit disorder or attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, our brains don't track time properly.
To the one about being fashionably late yes, I myself suffer from ADHD and autism and I am learning there are skills we can learn to help us with things like timeline syndrome. I am learning to set reminders of upcoming events that expect me to be punctual. So I have a week to 24 hours to prepare. I’m learning to prepare for tomorrow by laying out my clothes the night before and packing whatever bag is appropriate for the event whether it’s dinner or my daily job! Luck happens when preparation meets opportunity! I don’t know how much luck you have in your life but this quote definitely reminds me what to do to improve my luck in my life
Excellent 🎉❤🎉
hi. another thing is the hygiene, well some people, are strange? for example i know a person who said to me did you shower? i always do, she was the smelly one, who smokes, drinks and is into people, in a big way. I said to another person, i am always well dressed clean and young fresh and beautiful. what the f. is her problem and who does she hang around with...I do notice, people think they re great and in reality, others smell and think them as totally different...
I love how honest and straightforward this video is. You managed to keep it fun while delivering some tough truths. Definitely a must-watch for anyone looking to improve themselves!
Im gulity of some of these
About when you have ADD or AD.H.D?
Stay out! Unfriendly!
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Which platform used for ai voice
Amen ❤❤❤
Fearful people make rotten neighbors.
Sometimes, poor hygiene is done for self-preservation. Pay attention to the full situation.
I wash but I won't spray chemical shit on myself .
My favorite excuse in school I heard was the dog ate my homework. lol
The narrators voice
So play go fishing. Game of playtime for the children. Sound good or real.❤
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I'm not with you on gossip. I'm a believer in Jesus Christ.
Devil means - gossiper, slanderer or accuser.
You can't celebrate slander unless you're a devil incarnate.
The best revenge is not to say anything pray for them in Jesus name amen Amen I believe
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Please get straight to the point. Over explaining examples is not stoic
What he's saying is absolutely true. The great thing is he's admitting it was him. People are so puffed up they don't admit they are the problems. He is very encouraging & not pointing fingers you you you. I would listen to him all day. The other great thing is he listened to when someone talked to him about his problems & that would make it easier for anyone to talk to him & two that's why he's such a motivational encourager today at least for me. I will save & listen again & take notes in what areas I have to change because we all have areas to change in & as he said rather than complaining & pointing fingers
The gossiping stood out to me I HATE gossipers they are SICKENING. I always say people that gossip has a lot to deal with, so by minding other people's business & bad talking them take their mind off their own dirty business
It's AI and Im not sure it can do stoicism. It's certainly not lived a life that can experience the things that are talked about in this video.
@@Me-jf6hkyup, the exact response that I subscribe to
Not agereed
So let us really Cereal! All of the negativity of that person is only like snake oil. Leon or maybe the turtles, do you remember Leonardo.
Especially bad spelling. Terrible habit.
🙏🤲 Thankyou & God Bless YOU All Brethren’s..Treat Those the Way YOU Want to be Treated 💯🥰 Be Mindful Amene Amene Amene
Lack of hygiene as a sign of self-respect?
I don't have men like that treat me
They wrong only face even one so again only u then u face la
When all women methods like me slr proof alot to him but no man like him alr proof alot to him then he sh face him not me cos all like mine no one like him
Also how can he lppkk down on I say what bad things he done then why other women say all men don't look down on them
Obviously he needs change his aptitude
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The teenage American syntax and expressions all couched in the AI ´´kindà serious voice is very amusing. But hey, be real and move on.
Poor Poeple
You take too long getting to the point! Yuck! You "over explain" !!!!
Sooooooo many unnecessary words
"If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid." - Epictetus
Sometimes bad things happen because people make stupid decisions, not. Because of cercomstancees.pettiness is a real bad thing.Talking about those you don't even know make you look like a fool.