Hoarders ❤️ Fall Winter Clothes Wardrobe Closet | Healing Anxiety | No Spend
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- Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024
- In this Video: as I switch out my summer into winter wardrobe, I talk about being in a space of gratitude helps combat my anxiety. I also talk about the November No Spend Challenge and how that helps with my anxiety of High Inflation. Always give yourself grace during every aspect of your life, especially when starting a new healthy habit or challenge! Know that you are not alone in your emotions and strength to heal already lie within you ❤️
If you would like a free copy of the November No Spend Challenge, please email me at hoardersheart@gmail.com
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And let's take a moment to appreciate how clean and organized you've been keeping your bedroom!
I was able to get rid of more clothing by... Forcing myself to wear it lol. I looked in my drawer and saw lots of bras and jeans I don't wear. I decided that whatever is at the top, I have to wear tomorrow. The next day I put those items on and after barely thirty minutes I was tearing them off my body because they were uncomfortable, didn't fit anymore, didn't look good, didn't make me feel good. In one day I changed my pants four times and got rid of four pairs of jeans.
I am so proud that you set all these goals after years of hoarding problem! Such a giant work!
I personally once did "no buy" for 100 days several years ago. I was actually inspired by decluttering and realizing how much stuff I accumulated (despite never being an overspender by any means and not an impulsive buyer).
My "rules" were not insanely strict. Like if my face cream jar was empty, I "allowed" myself to buy a replacement. But I wasn't going to buy a new item if I already had a perfectly fine one. By the end of the 100 days I actually forgot about it😆not buying stuff became that easy, I didn't count days till the end, and just kept saving money and space in my house.
I just watched 2020s declutter and your husband had to bring up 5 totes. Still significant growth.
Thank you for explaining Hoarding with each video. It will help so many people!!
When I see pretty decor I like I take a photo of it rather than buy it. Then I can enjoy looking at the picture for a few days and often it means I don't feel compelled to buy it.
I found it quite helpful to actually count up what clothes I had. I realised that if I made an effort to wear everything an equal amount, I would only be wearing each item 4 times in a year. Most of my clothes are fairly good quality as they are second hand and so it made me realise I probably don’t need to buy new clothes for years and years.
I can’t believe that you free-hand those no-spend challenge charts! They’re so pretty! I would have to try 20 times and they still wouldn’t be half as pretty! Good job organizing your clothes!
Your bedroom is looking so fabulous! I hope it positively impacts your every single day to have such a pretty restful home
I kept trying, I made a few calendar months but had spending issues (my coping mechanism) figured it was pointless, but after you said even a few days matter I'm going to try again, thank you for the support!
Also super excited to see all the Christmas stuff come out for a kon mari declutter again, your growth is super encouraging :-)
Great video! Just a tip...when you store your clothes put 1 or 2 fabric softener sheets in there . Keeps the musty smell out
you can scent wooden rods or balls with organic scent (many people get asthma from chemical perfumes).
This video hit the spot, I have finally decided to stop over spending, I need to really rein in on buying things I don't need, I buy things on line, don't like them but NEVER return them to get a refund. Thanks for making me realize.
I think most of us can buy a little less food, so the food we have at home won't get old. Or meal plan/prep. Awesome mindset to think more of gratitude than fear of the unknown (easier said than done, I know). You are very motivating, lots of love!
“I’m going to be proud of you no matter what” - Cheers to that! 💕💕💕
Should put your hangers all the opposite way and when you wear something put it the right. That way you know what you wore for the season and consider getting rid of the ones you never wore at the end of the season. Just a thought, helpful in decluttering.
I keep off season clothes in a small carry-on suitcase. I have a small closet. If you have empty hangers, get rid of them. Only buy what you need. Tina, Al's wife
You make me want to appreciate the clothes I have without going to buy more things I don’t necessarily need. As well as implement a clothing budget, since fashion is a hobby of mine. Thank you
I took today’s advice and just hauled the rest of my summer stuff to my basement bins. Following your example every week. Plus, didn’t spend anything on Monday or Tuesday. That’s a big deal for me!
Yes. We have started having no spend days. I don't include bills that are automatically paid, but no trips to the store, no online purchases, not even groceries. Making do with what I have and it makes you realize that you don't need as much as you thought.
Just watched you on The Minimal Mom vedio on hoarding. So I subscribed to your channel! Thank you for sharing the truth behind hoarding......
You are doing so well. It must be a relief that you gained control of your debt and spending habits with the heavy inflammation we’re experiencing these days. I’m always referring people to your channel because you share so much of your challenges and demonstrate how you deal with your anxiety/adhd/ recovering hoarder. I really appreciate your channel. I’m learning a lot.
Your graphics on the calendar are so cute!! You have such artistic abilities.
I'm in a season currently where I stand in front of my cupboard when I dress I'm so grateful for the clothes I have.
The November drawings are soooo cute ☺️
I am finding just removing just one or two items gives me more room in the house. It is amazing how little things add up that don't seem to be a problem. Clothes I can only do the first two on right and decide on them. Next day, I do the next two items. That way it isn't overwhelming. Also, I am trying to put all year's clothes in the closet. Getting them out per season is too much work. I can do with less.
Great job….you have the most beautiful handwriting 😊❤️and your drawing is beautiful too
Still watching you and admiring your amazing progress. My mom used to save money all your for her Christmas budget. I think that also forces one not to overspend. Maybe you could consider that idea for 2023.
I love your cute no spend challenge sheets! 🦇💰🍂🎃
I'm an emotional eater. When depressed, stressed or bored I eat. I've gone froma size 4 ( I'm 5 foot 7 in) to a 16/18 in 10 years. More in the past two years than others.
That was my struggle most of my life. I'm recovering at last. Intermittent fasting combined with keto was a godsend.
This is a good reminder to me to get this started. I like the idea of getting the clothes out to lay your eyes on before looking at catalogs and online and buying new winter clothes. Honestly I don’t even remember what’s in those tubs.
Great video as always
My family and I were just at Johnson’s farm last week and yes…they did have so many cute things. But I enjoyed looking at them and walking away! I’m doing a no spend challenge and your channel is inspiring me to keep going. Thank you!!
Oh, lovely lady… I don’t think you need your heart healers holding you up anymore 😉 - for you have come so, SO far and are truly showing us what it looks like to be healed. ✊🥰
Granted, I know full well some things will forever tug at us and cause us a bit of trouble every now and then, but I am super proud of the work you’ve done to not only get far away from that “Level 4” description, but to think your way through familiar old situations in a more mindful and calm manner.
You radiate ✨CHANGE.✨ 😘
(((((((((((((((((more hugs))))))))))))))))
Spending has definitely went up for me. Car insurance too(my husband on my policy now) I worry more for the pay check to pay check folks. All I can do is the best I can.
I was thinking about you and sending virtual blessings fom Italy these last few days, as my no-spend october is drawing to its end...
We all have so much more than we need, especially clothing. Due to do at my closet any day now. Hoping to cut down (donate) by 25%.
It would be fun to watch you shop your Christmas stash. Fun to see what you can Christmas for someone else.
Thank you for all the inspiration. My anxiety always spikes this time of the year. You gave some wonderful tips in this video. I am going to try to rember the affirmations as I switch over my wardrobe this weekend.
Wonderful inspiration as always ❤️ This really has been a stressful season and your videos always cheer me up. God Bless!!
Love your sketches-so cute.
Do a christmas declutter and sell what what you don't need to make some money.
Thank you for this. My nervous system is on alert and I just want to shop! But I recognize that I do not realky need to go to the store.
You are doing an awesome job. All of us are feeling this increase in expenses. Hang in there and stay positive and creative. I used your approach of being grateful for what I have and used my existing hallowe’en stuff this year! No new stuff (other than pumpkins) came in!❤
what a treat a midweek video from you, i just love your channel and look forward to your videos....gratitude about clothing....when i was in laos i would sit on my veranda of my hut and watch the locals come to the river mekong to wash and collect water every morning....they would also wash the shirt/t-shirt/ skirt they were wearing and put them back on....i know its a much warmer climate and the clothes would dry on their bodies faster but it was also in many cases the only clothes they had to wear....one outfit only.....
You're so good about details! Thanks for your honesty & encouragement. Your calendars are HEAVEN.
I'm still catching up on your older videos but wanted to say you are doing great and I loved Tyler in the SpongeBob costume!! Would be awesome to see SpongeBob and the Decluttering Unicorn in a video together
I love my winter clothes even though I hate the snow lol
Ms.Heart have you done Jordan Pages the Fun cheap or free pantry challenge? Using up all the odds and ends you have at home and not spending money expect on fresh food like milke eggs and veggies. She is amazing. Been following her for 10 years
Thank you for keeping it real and bringing such positivity. 🥰
August 2024. I spent $3 yesterday on craft items. I'd given some supplies to my grandson to take to college. Tina, Al's wife
I've been waiting for this, love your videos 😊
Thank you so so much!! You are the Unicorn of the Day 💜🦄🌟💕💜🦄🌟💕
@@ahoardersheart Thanks, I love ask your sparkly sweaters 🎇
Is there a link for the Christmas budget book? 🙂 My anxiety is pretty high these days, we have been feeding our family of 4, plus my mother-in-law every night, and also 2 extra people occasionally. That is 7 people, and we have had to buy a lot of extra food. Our groceries recently went to $80 more per week because of inflation, and adding the extra people is even more. I'm taking deep breaths, lol. And 3 of them are picky eaters, so certain budget meals don't work. It's fine, we're ok, all is well (repeat). 😅
@ Jennifer Wright, when my kids, now in their 40's, didn't want what I made, I handed them a jar of peanut butter and some bread. Later, one of them started
shopping and cooking for all of us. Now, the one who moved back after 20 years away has a bowl of oatmeal for supper if she doesn't like what I make. Tina, Al's
wife.
@@alanbirkner1958 yes, that is how it was when I was growing up! Our initial issue was that my husband never agreed with that - he would always offer to make them something else. We are reaping those consequences now, lol. Also - it turns out my mother-in-law is pretty picky too! I didn't see that coming, but now that she is a widow and we are feeding her every night - there is a lot that she doesn't like. (no dark meat chicken, only boneless skinless, etc.) Huh. Who knew?!
Love the No Spend Challenge! In hard times it is wiser to save money. Except for basic items we can survive inflation with what we already have. Anxiety is decreased when money is saved. This challenge is a great reminder and focus on saving money 👍
You have the cutest summer dresses! Please share where you shop!
Blessings 🌻🌻❤️🌻🌻
Thank you so much my friend 🦄🙏🏼💕 Blessings to you too!!
Hello from Germany and hi miss heart, thx for the real words!!!! Me too, the high prices tigger me too. No spend days, save me and you!!! This month we have 13 from 31 days (1day for food buy on 29th incl. ) and last month 15 from 30. Thx, be safe
Closet looked great so enjoy your video 🎊🥳🦄💜
We kinda missed fall and jumped into winter with our first wet rain/snow mix on Saturday. But that’s Alberta weather 😝
You are doing great and I look forward to all the Christmas crafting! Does the No spend challenge only deal with your income and purchases?
Hey gal, pro organizer here. I would make a small suggestion to make your life easier. When you switch in spring leave the winter clothing on the hangers and buy hangers for your clothing in the tubs. Just take winter hanging and fold them in half in your tubs so you aren’t spending an hour or longer switching out hangers. You want it to be an easy process. You can still look at each item to see if there is anything you can declutter.
I also have all my clients hang the hangers backwards on the closet rod so they can see at the end of the season if they wore items. When you wear it and wash it you put the hanger back the normal way. This give you hard data to know if you actually used it.
I’m an OG subscriber and am So proud of the progress you’ve made. The changes you’ve made have been incredible.
Your my favorite you tuber. I can relate to you so much
Loved the video
Love this!!!!!
Your no spending calendar you could use a clear laminate that you could wipe off. It would save you time of making a new one.
I absolutely love your artwork! What a good example you are for all of us💕
Not sure if it’s doable but could you take out the lower shelf, move the current bar up higher and then add a second bar beneath it. That way your husband could have the entire top bar and you could have the entire lower bar or vice versa? Another option could be move up the current bar and add a wooden piece down the middle. On one side add a second bar and leave the other side open for footwear etc.
Does anyone else sort their closet by sleeve length, like me? I go by formality, length, then color - or else I’d never find anything! 😅
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@@pinkroses135 Yay! We are Team Sleeves!
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I've been looking for a few pieces in my new size but the fabric quality, cuts and colors aren't quite what I'm looking for. I've noticed more stuff being inconsistent with their typical sizing too. You're probably not missing much.
Everyone can shop more purposefully at these hard times.
Question about your wigs on your top shelf: Could you do a video or short on how you use them? I only follow you on YT right now. I would love to have long hair, but it is fine, thin, and porous. Hence it breaks off easily, even if I get regular or semi regular haircuts. I bought two hair pieces off Amazon. They are OK, but I need some help and guidance. Our sisters of color are so good at using hair pieces. This white girl would love to add a little bit of length, thickness, and some fun styles every once in awhile.
Pepper can be Gary. Meow
I love this! 🐌
January 2024. I seldom buy anything except food, medicine, and other needs. I'm 74, I volunteer at 3 places and we live in a 2BR apartment. I only need 3 dressy
outfits. Jeans and shirts are most of my wardrobe. You're feeding growing boys. Don't buy junk food. Buy fruit and vegetables, the boys can have an extra sandwich. Tina, Al's wife
Just wondering, what is your next goal for your house? Bathroom redo?!
❤❤❤❤❤ hi pepper
I no longer feel the need to buy new holiday decor. I have reduced my Christmas/holiday items and sold or donated a lot of them. Less is more when it comes to decorating. When are you going to decluttering the Christmas items? Your cave is way too much for you to manage and store. Donate or half of it to friends and family-there is no way you could possibly use all that decor in one home. You’ve been doing a great job-keep it going!
she is going to declutter the christmas cave in november when she starts doing the holiday decorating.
I was going to suggest that if she finds things in the Christmas decor that she's ready to let go of, she could use those as the basis for some presents for the people in her life. A little up cycle here, a bit of crafty embellishment there, and you've got a gift that has a little wow factor. Just the right type of project for a thrifty person who also happens to be artistic, and wants to shop her hoard.
Unfortunately a missed opportunity to declutter some clothes from your closet you didn't wear this summer. But I understand the mindset of gratitude during an inflation
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Yes, food has increased, your boys are also getting older and eat more
As we are thankful to God, HE will guide with wise discipline and peace with His abundance ☝️❤️
Let's take a moment to look at how 90% of the world lives.
This video came at the right time for me, my spending has got out of control because my dad was diagnosed with cancer 😔 I was spending money at the charity shop on clothes, which I managed to stop, but then the news came that due to doctors delaying treatment it's terminal 😭 now I can't stop spending on household stuff at tkmaxx (tjmaxx) 😫 I need to get on the no spend challenge, but it's so hard right now. Any advice?
I'm so sorry 🙏 ❤️