I had the same situation too 😂one time at lunch I was sitting alone as usual and a group of girls felt bad for me and told me why I always sit all by myself and I told them that I'm fine and that I love beingalone
don't touch my faceu ikr? It makes me glad that I am taking extracurricular classes at night. There are only about seven people and we all got to know each other because our teacher makes every one gather in a circle and asks us certain questions that pertain to the class but also give us a look into the other person's views and personality. I am taking a college success class bc it's mandatory for students taking extracurricular classes.
You know what introvert means: You can't start speaking with someone that you're not close to.. You can't stop talking with someone that you are close with.. Am I right ?
There was a relative I really liked to talk to, even though I did not agree with everything she did or said, but when someone talks 24/7 then it is like heaven when that relative leaves, even though you really like that relative
Mee too.. Love to be alone and people also tell me lazy always.. I Don't go to parties and marriages.. And when people ask about that i always make excuses.. 😒
marissa watson I literally sit down to read a book then like 3 of my friends start talking to me and expect me to listen. I sometimes just agree to whatever they said, and continue to read. They start talking to me again. I don't want to ignore them because then I'd feel bad. Emotions are confusing.
ikr, sometimes i ask myself why i overthink for such small things but i still overthink. Voice crack while saying "HERE" is one experience i don wanna have ;w;
I love to read, hate TV, and love being outside either hiking or, well, reading:) My dog is my life. Sometimes, I go with my best friend who is totally cool with just hiking quietly and enjoying nature. Here's to life long friends who let you be you.
I think a friend is someone you like to hang out, when you feel comfortabe beeing around them and have just some fun. Sorry for my bad english writting.
It sucks when you're an introvert, but your friends are extroverts, so they start to hang out with each other without you since you rarely want to go anywhere for long periods of time.
EnderHeart5911 Most of my friends are extroverts and that's fine. They go out all the time and I just join them the rare occasions I want to. It can be a bit annoying when they insist a lot but my closest friends are used to it, I don't see the problem.
AngieGandalf6 The problem is when they start spacing out from you, we like to be alone, not lonely, it's so good that you have friends that actually understand it
Yes, it does. My friend wants to hang up once or more often a month. For me one call is enough for one or two weeks of contact. I like to share some news (not about my life) every day though.
In my case I stopped doing anything with those friends that cant take no for an answer. I admit though I am not that good either cuz I would 99% of the times say no if they didnt annoy me so much. Anyways...got no friends now and it feels good. :)
+Nikkj Jok Idk if this is common,but I have this super power of ignoring bad things. Here and there when something specific occurred that went there made me very sad and thinking about it made me even more sad,but after a week I was back to my old self. Nowdays I can ignore almost anything. This might be a double edged sword because on one side I am not that stressed about bad things in my life,but on the other hand since I am ignoring a problem means there problem will remain.
@@teenshii yeah i am INTP my parents force me to talk to relatives and keeps asking me "why are you so quite?","why are you always depressed" and keeps telling me "if you didn't change your behaviour people will laugh at you" .They think that being quite is bad they only love small talks
I like walking alone I like eating alone I like watching tv alone I like bussing alone But when I see a girl with her best friend A guy with his girlfriend Or a mother with her child I realize I don't exactly like being lonely
same here. sometimes when my friend invites me meeting some of her friends and I'm just all like ''okay this time I can do it'' it's the total opposite and I just watch them being all silent and just listening xD welp
Yeahh...exactly I am too example when my father said to me that were going to meet my other relatives I said to my self that Im going to talk to them but when Im already with them I keep being silent and just listen to what they say and its like Im really different I only talked when they asked me and after that I am silent again😞 But now Im really trying my best to change even just a little bit not too shy like this
Kris A Jup my grandmotger was trying the same relative thingy with me but...failed? I don't know if she has given up though but it was reaaaally akward for me xD.
actual emo Matsuno Ichimatsu yeah they always put us in a situation like that and its really hard for us because its our weakness But I really hope that next time if that happens again I can talk to them with confidence By the way I just realize that is so great to talk to someone like me knowing that Im not the only like this🙂
Hehe i know right? As for me, I don't mind being introverted but before I thought I was just really weird for being like this and just knowing that it's just introversity and talking to people who are the same makes me feel so much more comfortable because I've always thought I've been weird
The things i mostly hate for being an introvert: - When my family tells me to go outside to hang out with my cousins - When there is a group project - When someone says "Why are you so quiet?" "Why dont you smile?" Or "Why are you staring at the wall?" - When the new teacher says: "Say something about yourselfs!" Or "Introduce yourself in the front of the class!" - When i see my classmates in public - When i told my mom im Introvert but still complains why i dont chat much
My teachers or other grown ups that I know don't really think that I am depressed because I am alone the whole time but that is more because they know me pretty well... But if I meet people who I don't know really well I'll get a lot of questions like "Why are you not siting by the rest of your class?" or they will give me the 'you can always talk to me if something is wrong' speech.. And that is pretty anoying and at those times I just kinda want to scream: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME I AM JUST REALLY REALLY INTROVERT!!! But since I do not want to be rude so most of the time I just nodd and reply...
I think introverts don't like to talk unless it is absolutely necessary, and this may be because they see no point in talking, no motivation as nothing important will come from that. "When you talk, you only express what you know. When you listen, you may learn something new". They listen a LOT and think a LOT but to themselves.
I"m totally an introvert according to this video, but I don't mind talking in front of groups at all. I think that's more about confidence gained from knowing how to speak and knowing what you're speaking about. You can do that and still be a complete introvert, at least as described in this video. :)
Same. I’ve never been comfortable telling my family though, so I end up in awkward situations where I have to interact with people, but I just want to do my own thing.
Well I wouldn't blame them, if they want to talk to you then that means that they're interested in you, rather than being lonely all the time. Before you blame them that they don't give you personal space, you should understand why they want to talk to you.
TortoiseBlaster So because we like talking to people means we should all die?So because we like friends and talking to people doesn't mean we're humans?Have anxiety,play online games answell.The way the media shows of extroverts are evil and always annoying and talkative?
@@unxhidek5538 That was my opinion dimwit. I never said you're not humans. But the majority of introverts don't really like Extroverts. Because they can be like "Why are you so quiet". While it's them that needs to shut up.
As an introvert, it’s hard to imagine myself getting married. The person would have to sweep me off me feet.........completely. To get married would be to completely throw away my alone time. I don’t know if it’s worth it XD
"Everyone MUST be in pairs for this to work. ...Looks like we'll have one group of three." OR, we can have one group of one. Ever think about that? -_-
I’m in heaven! I can easily turn down going out. I can totally focus on what I want to do, and I don’t have to explain it to anyone. I even like wearing the masks. I can not talk and act like the mask is holding me back. I don’t have to explain that I just don’t want to “small talk”. I bike and traffic is a lot less, and I often have the road to myself. Plus being home not working!!! It’s just wonderful staying home in my pjs all day!!!!
I hate that question. I mean every time school rolls around and then it starts everyone of my family members ask "sooo how's school's going? Make any new friends..?" My answer: It's fine. And no. (I mean it's the truth)
I just pretended like I totally had a good day and then when it hits night, I go in my bed and sob about how I'll probably end up being lonely for the rest of my life :l yup, that's my life
I much prefer text, too many people instantly bring too many emotional situations into a phone call. There are only so many things I can deal with at one time.
Rubby Sharma same but instead I text my best friend but she's the only extrovert that I can actually handle because she understands how I feel and she just understands me
When the shops are crowded I never enter there and my father says: " so for you the shopkeeper will empty his crowd and then only let you enter the shop huh " And I laugh and return to home lol😂😂😯
regina aguilar exactly! My mom always tells people that I might not talk now, but when I’m at home and you spend a few days with me I am I totally different person
Lol I generally say this conversation isn't my cup of tea and I'm looking for an escape route. People usually laugh and the attention is taking away from me.
Dear fellow introverts, if someone ever asks you *"why are you so quiet?"* Ignore their question, and just ask *"Why are you so loud?"* Works every time
So true because I hate talking to extroverts who won’t shut up and then I don’t want to be rude so I sit there and wait for a good time to say “I gotta go now”
Mina OGUT Extroverts often trust people as soon as they meet them if they feel comfortable around them. Introverts often only trust best friends and family but never anybody else. You’re an ambivert like I am. You keep to yourself but you are open to meeting and trusting new people. Ambiverts are in between.
You SHOULD NEVER ask an introvert why they're quiet, because nothing is more awkward than asking a question like that to an introvert. I deal with this all the time at school.
I totally agree. When I hang out with friends, everyone always asks me if I'm sad or why I'm so quiet. It gets annoying and it's really awkward when someone asks you this question.
Fortress fighter Everyone thinks I'm depressed because I've been really quiet since I've been at my secondary, but really I just don't want to be social...
same dis guy dat has a crush on me is like ther biggest EXTROVERT and im so quiet and he's always aks me why and i just want to tell him that i hate him
Introvert Struggles: When you don't want to talk to people but at the same time you want to talk to someone, but you don't want to talk to someone, so then you go sit by yourself. And then you see a group of friends come by, and you think how nice it would be to have friends, but at the same time you'd have to sacrifice your alone time, so you don't want any friends. But then you really do want friends, and OAEHFAIUHIUHEAFIUHSIGEFOHAIUWEGFADGHV
They always say "Why do you always have blank face?" "Why are you so quiet?" "Why don't you have facial expressions often?" "Why do you love being alone?" "Why are you not talking?" Me: Why don't you people just shut tf up?
Oooohhh, that is a good one. When I have a blank face it is most often because I am being faced with extremely bland and uninteresting folk, sorry. When I am being quiet it is simply for one reason: there is nothing that I hear from anyone around me that is interesting enough to answer to. When I do not have a facial expression that is because I want to deter friendship or conversation with someone I do not want to be close to.
I hate it when people tell me to smile more. It takes too much effort to do that. Plus I find it that you're coming off as fake when you are expected to put on a smile everywhere you go and let's not mention the work place.
@VWE S 😒 it so true my neighbor s LL be like y don't u talk y u so quite and am serious ly scared to meet new people and few LL be like they'll ask somany question s haaaaghh and am 7th grade ...... ( This is my sissy phonee )
It's not because we don't know how to socialize. Give us something useful or interesting to talk about!! We don't need to talk just to talk. What for??
Yeah, what about when they pick random people with sticks..... that's the worst..... or when they make you speak in front of the whole class.... just even saying here during attendance can be terrifying :l
for me everyone in my life says they never understand me while I do understand them even those I grew up with say they don't understand me I'm flicking out
AshlyStudios but u can just go to school without socialising with anyone,just sit in the classroom,when it's recess,keeping sitting and do your homework or just do whatever u want
Right, it's tiring. Because it doesn't come naturally talking with a loud voice. But it doesn't mean that Introverts can't talk loud. Of course they can talk loud, but just in some situations, especially when they're angry. And trust me, you won't like it when you see an Introvert is angry.
@@pebrianr.b.m.3968 Fr I'm not a sociable person like NEVER tho when it comes to the internet I do feel comfortable, but when it comes to talking in reality? I always mess things up specially when it comes to introducing myself that's when i get anxious and anxiety hits like all the time even when i'm at home It happens everytime i think about socializing with people :(
I never thought deeply before about the number 3 situation but is so true, I hate being invited to parties or meetings specially with people I don't know very well. I have to accept to not look boring but inside I feel horrible and I just dont wanna attend that reunion. After some days I pray to God that the party gets cancelled and when someone text me to tell me it was actually cancelled I feel like the king of the world lol
I'm lucky cuz I only have one friend who could invite me, but she doesn't anyways asides from her birthday. so maybe I don't quite understand you, but wht's the problem with having other ppl think you're boring?
@@PxL8d yes, it is possible. I've had a friend like that with both shy and introvert. myself is ambivert but very shy when I have to join a group of friends. but when it comes to presentation in front of the class, I'm much better than my friends because I'm good at communication (doesnt mean to show off), basically I'm a shy and confident person at the same time
Introverts are BEST!!!. They done more to the world than others. Most of the scientists and successers are introverts. It's the fact that, Introverts are thinking, listening and learning a lot. They do not waste time for unwanted talks.
These comments making me thinkt theres two kinds of introverts, alphas and betas. I dont fear leading or presention. Its just annoying but i also dont like being looked over. Idk i demand respect n i dont get that being a shy beta. Just saying
When the talk is done(the reason why that person is calling) i said bye and hang up immediately. I dont like talking rondom topics on the phone I prefer chats.
Well... Thats a Paradox.. If you want to know people you need to talk to them.. You gotta start Somewhere, did you know your friends the second you saw them?
Letho Kunene it’s less of planning, and more of letting your imagination flow. I more often plan sentence starters, and things I can bring up if it gets quiet or awkward. Once I run out, I usually bail
This happens to me in Every social situation. It occupies so much of my mind that by the time i talk to the person it just comes out as awkward sayings and me hoping the interaction to stop
I tried to live like an extrovert for the past 2 years but things got messed up . Now I've learnt I cannot become an extrovert 😅😭. Being an introvert in India is the worst thing because in our country most people are extroverts😭😭😭
So true.. I'm an Indian too.. people hates introverts here.. wth it's so hard to live as an introvert but thankfully I live abroad and I visit india every vacation and I hate it because everyone is so talkative and I hate talking.. everyone is asking me to start talking and be more active .. I started to hate being an introvert TBH.
Ok I am an introvert in a big family of extroverts and they don't understand that an amazing weekend activity for me is to just sit in my room blasting my music and drawing/painting/ being creative in some way and my parents are concerned because they're both extroverts
i never have music/sound/any noise in my room up loud enough where people can hear it. It bothers me so much and if ithink they can here it my mind is like *OH NO TURN IT DOWN FAST EVERYONE IN THIS HOUSE HATES ME NOW FOR BEING TO LOUD*
Imagine a network of us introverts. We know each other, but we sit in opposite rooms, barely talk, and when we get loud it's for a brief minute or two.
If you have a group of friends then you probably aren't that introverted. I had friends but gradually pushed them all away. I think over time some people can go from being quite extroverted to becoming gradually more introverted.
Movie Editing Geek no.... That's not true... I'm a introvert and I talked to people, I'm not good at starting conversations but if something pops into my mind I will say It. It is at least not exactly true...
Movie Editing Geek well your are partially true but sommetime i fell the urge to tell my felling to other people but i allways endup sayng stupid things or lies
Don't imply that all introverts do anything, because we're all different and it's offensive. I talk to my friends because I like talking to them, even when it isn't necessary. And I'm like the most introverted person ever.
I hate it when other people pity me when I'm alone or lonely.. It makes me feel really anxious and I can't help but battle with my thoughts over-excessively worrying about this.
when teachers say we have to do a group project and you have to choose the people you want to be in the group with but you don't have anyone to talk to and you end up being embarrassed because you're the only one that has no group and they ask one of the groups if they can let you be in their group and no one responds to that so you have to make the decision yourself because.... yeah.
That's why I never liked going to school.... It is like wasting of lot of your time.... Feel like if school time gets reduced to half, I could have done things which I really like to do.... Rather than just trying to adjust myself among the group of people (classmates) .
Im never afraid of presentation unless I am underprepared. What I am afraid of is small talk, as I dont know what to say and how to fake/act and things start to get uncomfortable and awkward.
@@tropicaldimitri7374 Thinking about preparing something for a speech makes me so anxious that I can't even start with the preparation thing haha. But I do agree that it's always an essential thing to prepare, prepare and prepare.
@@jonesb80jr I was always seen as incompetent and looked down upon, so I'd use moments like this to show my peers who is the boss. I'd rate my self zero for small talk, 7 or 8 for presentation.
what about a lazy introvert :3 actually, how do you not really be lazy if you are an introvert? i believe im an introvert, but still do some excercises at home (push ups, lunges, attempted L sit-ups) but when im not doing that im sitting allll the time eating
honestly, i didnt think i was an introvert until being told so, taking a couple quizzes, and some other things. I think im somewhere between introvert and ambivert, mainly because i dont get much of a choice in some things that would allow me to be more introverted. and the reason id LIKE to think im one is because, lets be honest, it just sounds cool you know? you dont have to talk much, you can laze around at home watching vids or playing games, and occasionally talking to your few good friends
FINALLY! A Talko video I can relate to! I'm an introvert 'cause I can't stand people. I'm alone ALL the time though and hate it when I'm forced to talk to people!
Lucy FluffyAJ This is me. I can only handle people so much before I shut down. It sucks too because at work, they put me on window a lot, and I work drive through. But then it always drains my energy and I lose motivation and joy. Ugh the struggles. Is there a job where I don't have to deal with people?
this video is so me, my mom always wants me to go out EVERY day, cuz she thinks im wasting my life with beeing alone and that you only have a good life if you go out, she believes Im not normal, cuz all teenagers in her opinion like to hang around with friends all the time (she tells me that nearly every day -.-) but what is so wrong if beeing alone makes me happy? :c i love beeing alone and i need my time to relax from social interaction...
i think society leans more towards "extroverts are good, introverts are bad" of course theres some grey and maybe some understanding on both ends, but that doesnt stop some action being taken or retracted (such as going on school trips, what kind of introvert like me wants that?!)
I kinda like to go outdoors. I am an active person. But I am shy in socializing and making new friends. Earlier in the bus, some high school girls rode with us in the van (though only middle schoolers ride but it was different today) and I just froze and felt awkward... I barely even know them.
This is sooo true! People often yell at me because I don' t answer the phone and mostly forget to take it when I go out, I feal perfectly comfortable eating alone, it takes a real long time to make new friends and I have no need to make new friends at all, don' t like much to talk to people I don't know and hate it when I have to call someone to order something or make an apointment, I' m absolutely never bored, always enjoyed reading... And I could never understand people who kiss and hug every time they see someone they know... And most people think I' m conceited and rude because of all these things...
Ivana Kalcina Dat kinda happened 2 me aswell... Literally, most of my friends r Extroverts & sometimes, they keep asking me if I can answer their call & it's annoying AF!!!!! Cuz I wanna b all alone
Ivana Kalcina Yup I could... But they're soooo complicated But do u want 2 kno y this is such a handful??? Cuz my friends &/or family won't watch any video I send 😡😡😡
Dee Cee Hmmm... probably Thx 4 the advise I like the way I am so dats the way I'll b right????? Just making sure cuz if they want me 2 bcome like them so...
Only some people would understand When you have a class that you have no friends in and you don't talk at all because you have no friends in it, and you look shy and like a loner, but in other classes with your best friends u are the most talkative and goofy person ever. Am I the only one who hates that when we pick seats, it looks like o don't have any friends because I don't have any friends in that class and I wish I could smack people in the face and say I'm way more louder and talkative but I don't know or like any of you, so stop staring at me like I'm a loner. And I wasn't blessed with friends in every single class. Admit it there's always that one class that u look like an introvert because you have literally no friends in it. And group projects in that one class are horrible because you have no friends AND YOU LOOK LIKE A LONER. ALSO THIS IS MY HOMEROOM SO if we have celebrations or something I always feel uncomfortable because I have no friends in that class. But people in the one class don't see that I'm a really outgoing person, but I only like to talk and laugh with people I know really well and like. I'm not one of those lucky people who can get along with everyone and always have partner. But it's only in these two classes, only TWO CLASSES.
Well as I said i on Yeah look like a loner in two classes, and obviously if I don't have any friends in that class how in the hek am I supposed to get a friend to come with me.
"Oh, you're not an introvert because you are super funny and happy with your friends" Why people think that introverts love being lonely and can't have friends? I act normal around my friends, I just can't act normal around other people.
THIS VID IS 1000000000% ME
nightmare fox me ✌
I had the same situation too 😂one time at lunch I was sitting alone as usual and a group of girls felt bad for me and told me why I always sit all by myself and I told them that I'm fine and that I love beingalone
nightmare fox. same 😂😂
battlewolf 15 that happened to me as well!! these girls thought I was sad sitting alone but I was actually ok👌
Same
The worst nightmare of an introvert is getting paired with some random people to do a group project
don't touch my faceu yes I hate that like why teachers whyyyy 😩
don't touch my faceu ikr? It makes me glad that I am taking extracurricular classes at night. There are only about seven people and we all got to know each other because our teacher makes every one gather in a circle and asks us certain questions that pertain to the class but also give us a look into the other person's views and personality. I am taking a college success class bc it's mandatory for students taking extracurricular classes.
honestly, I prefer it when the teacher does that. I'm too awkward to ask anyone to work with me.
don't touch my faceu UGH YES
don't touch my faceu That is the worst
I'm an introvert and I can never ever get bored when I'm alone.
Same
Same
omg yesssssssss ( no one is understanding how)
@@FloweijFR same
same
When someone asks you " Why are you so quiet?" Ughh....
Yeah
Could you be quiet for a few hours? No? So shut up!
i hate it when they say that
they call me weido
@@lydvicious6495 thank you am not alone
I usually just say "I have Aspergers" I don't know if I actually do but I want to make them feel awkward about asking an inappropriate question.
You know what introvert means:
You can't start speaking with someone that you're not close to..
You can't stop talking with someone that you are close with..
Am I right ?
@Power from Pi Absolutely right !!!
Wow haha you're right. ☺️☺️
I’m a social introvert.
Lmao true
YEA
*"Listen I still want to be invited.. but I'm not coming"*
Is the motto I live by
I understand this fully😂
HAHA YES
That is great
There was a relative I really liked to talk to, even though I did not agree with everything she did or said, but when someone talks 24/7 then it is like heaven when that relative leaves, even though you really like that relative
Lol so me most of the time
I hate when people call me lazy or inactive only because I love to be alone
I can relate, my parents do that all the time, i just want to mod PCs and consoles and code in peace.
Madhvi Gupta right??? I love being alone
Mee too.. Love to be alone and people also tell me lazy always..
I Don't go to parties and marriages..
And when people ask about that i always make excuses.. 😒
@@raghavagrawal5480 Being an introvert isn't that bad but slowly you'll lose yourself dude
@@deletedaccount3905 @what to do bro. . I am feeling like i am dying..😔
When you're about to say something but you don't wanna be rude so you wait till people stop talking, then it's totally irrelevant.
Willowiah that ALWAYS happens to me 😂👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
Willowiah Same. I open my mouth, then someone else starts and then I don't try again for the rest of the conversation or someone asks me a question
marissa watson I literally sit down to read a book then like 3 of my friends start talking to me and expect me to listen. I sometimes just agree to whatever they said, and continue to read. They start talking to me again. I don't want to ignore them because then I'd feel bad. Emotions are confusing.
Literally me
Willowiah can relate
You forgot when the teacher is doing roll call, and you overthink how you're gonna say "here"
This is so funny but true
I relate loooool.....
re la ta b l e o m g
ikr, sometimes i ask myself why i overthink for such small things but i still overthink. Voice crack while saying "HERE" is one experience i don wanna have ;w;
Oh my God that happened to me😱😱 I was so embarrassed 😂😂😂
Just one issue, we introverts do a lot more than just read books and watch TV. But you wouldn't know that because, well... you're not an introvert.
VidralliaArchives But I would, and I'm not an introvert.
I love to read, hate TV, and love being outside either hiking or, well, reading:) My dog is my life. Sometimes, I go with my best friend who is totally cool with just hiking quietly and enjoying nature. Here's to life long friends who let you be you.
I think a friend is someone you like to hang out, when you feel comfortabe beeing around them and have just some fun. Sorry for my bad english writting.
VidralliaArchives haha yes
I like to go on tumblr and listen to bands that scream a lot
You forgot planning conversations in your head before the conversation has even began.
Your so right...
You are there...
Correction : planning a conversation in your head 1000th times that will happen in months or in a year.
I thought I was weird coz that is soooo me
Lol wow I literally do this all the time and still end up messing up
It sucks when you're an introvert, but your friends are extroverts, so they start to hang out with each other without you since you rarely want to go anywhere for long periods of time.
EnderHeart5911 Most of my friends are extroverts and that's fine. They go out all the time and I just join them the rare occasions I want to. It can be a bit annoying when they insist a lot but my closest friends are used to it, I don't see the problem.
AngieGandalf6 The problem is when they start spacing out from you, we like to be alone, not lonely, it's so good that you have friends that actually understand it
Yes, it does. My friend wants to hang up once or more often a month. For me one call is enough for one or two weeks of contact. I like to share some news (not about my life) every day though.
In my case I stopped doing anything with those friends that cant take no for an answer.
I admit though I am not that good either cuz I would 99% of the times say no if they didnt annoy me so much.
Anyways...got no friends now and it feels good. :)
+Nikkj Jok Idk if this is common,but I have this super power of ignoring bad things.
Here and there when something specific occurred that went there made me very sad and thinking about it made me even more sad,but after a week I was back to my old self.
Nowdays I can ignore almost anything.
This might be a double edged sword because on one side I am not that stressed about bad things in my life,but on the other hand since I am ignoring a problem means there problem will remain.
The worst thing to say to an introvert is “why you’r so quiet”
I honestly just ignore them. They don’t deserve an explanation when they don’t even know that there many personalities.
@@teenshii yeah i am INTP my parents force me to talk to relatives and keeps asking me "why are you so quite?","why are you always depressed" and keeps telling me "if you didn't change your behaviour people will laugh at you" .They think that being quite is bad they only love small talks
Rajesh Raut My parents do that too. You can’t force your kid to become an extrovert. That’s not how it works!
Yeah I just got that asked😟
If that happens I stop breathing for a second and think how I can kill them
I like walking alone
I like eating alone
I like watching tv alone
I like bussing alone
But when I see a girl with her best friend
A guy with his girlfriend
Or a mother with her child
I realize I don't exactly like being lonely
Blurryphace Craft baby me so me
Blurryphace Craft baby exactly, you get it. You are a obvious intro
Blurryphace Craft baby same 😩
Blurryphace Craft baby same here
Bruh, same. The struggle is real
I hate being silent when I'm with strangers but I cant stop being silent because I really dont know what to say to them, I feel like Im weird😣😔😖
same here. sometimes when my friend invites me meeting some of her friends and I'm just all like ''okay this time I can do it'' it's the total opposite and I just watch them being all silent and just listening xD welp
Yeahh...exactly I am too example when my father said to me that were going to meet my other relatives I said to my self that Im going to talk to them but when Im already with them I keep being silent and just listen to what they say and its like Im really different I only talked when they asked me and after that I am silent again😞
But now Im really trying my best to change even just a little bit not too shy like this
Kris A Jup my grandmotger was trying the same relative thingy with me but...failed? I don't know if she has given up though but it was reaaaally akward for me xD.
actual emo Matsuno Ichimatsu yeah they always put us in a situation like that and its really hard for us because its our weakness But I really hope that next time if that happens again I can talk to them with confidence
By the way I just realize that is so great to talk to someone like me knowing that Im not the only like this🙂
Hehe i know right? As for me, I don't mind being introverted but before I thought I was just really weird for being like this and just knowing that it's just introversity and talking to people who are the same makes me feel so much more comfortable because I've always thought I've been weird
Daily life of an Introvert is easy:
1. Get up
2. Survive from Reality
3. Go back to bed
its so true for me i use the computer 99% of the time and my chair i actually my bed
Lucas Belmonte that's so sad
Lorenzo Serafini we celebrate at the end of the day XD
Some introverts don't like celebrations.. It's a chaos for their mind and spirit..
sai e sai we celebrate alone.
The things i mostly hate for being an introvert:
- When my family tells me to go outside to hang out with my cousins
- When there is a group project
- When someone says "Why are you so quiet?" "Why dont you smile?" Or "Why are you staring at the wall?"
- When the new teacher says: "Say something about yourselfs!" Or "Introduce yourself in the front of the class!"
- When i see my classmates in public
- When i told my mom im Introvert but still complains why i dont chat much
Oh man you basically described my life!!!
Exactly
I don’t mind my cousins because I’m close with them
@@maxrumsby me too, but the other thing are very reletable
@@evenolyvia8953 wth? Whats with ppl these days??? They should love ppl for who they are!!
I loved being alone during middle school. Unfortunately, all my teachers thought I was depressed.
Night of Musica the struggle is real.
BunnyLover Sakura-Hime true
lol
My teachers or other grown ups that I know don't really think that I am depressed because I am alone the whole time but that is more because they know me pretty well... But if I meet people who I don't know really well I'll get a lot of questions like "Why are you not siting by the rest of your class?" or they will give me the 'you can always talk to me if something is wrong' speech..
And that is pretty anoying and at those times I just kinda want to scream: THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME I AM JUST REALLY REALLY INTROVERT!!!
But since I do not want to be rude so most of the time I just nodd and reply...
Wampie _ You and me both
I think introverts don't like to talk unless it is absolutely necessary, and this may be because they see no point in talking, no motivation as nothing important will come from that. "When you talk, you only express what you know. When you listen, you may learn something new". They listen a LOT and think a LOT but to themselves.
I"m totally an introvert according to this video, but I don't mind talking in front of groups at all. I think that's more about confidence gained from knowing how to speak and knowing what you're speaking about. You can do that and still be a complete introvert, at least as described in this video. :)
Drame347 a
I am learning so much about myself from watching these introvert videos and comments like yours! Your comment is relates to me 100%
Drame347 FINALLY SOMEONE ELSE SAID IT LOL
OMG that's true
Extroverts : "always talking because they need to say something"
Introverts : " only talk when they have something to say"
Same here. I only talk when I have something to say too.
Same
And sometimes not even then lol
I rather not say what I need to say to prevent a convo lol. Online its the oposite.
Same
Introverts don't mind being alone we just don't want to feel alone.
Wow you hit the nail on the head
Accurate.
THANK YOU. SOMEONE FINALLY SAYS IT!👊👊👊👊
You can feel alone in a house full of people.
You always need someone you know and the person who is talkative to you rather than any other person,right?
Every introvert worst nightmare in school.
“You will be presenting your project to the cla-“.
Introverts: Ah shit, here we go again
Everytime, powerpoints 🤦♂️
I FUCKING HATED THAT
Oh yesss! And HEY ARMY!
AwkwardUnicorn jungkook my bias too ... I got s fan account .. koreanboy_crazy_ On Instagram
Yeaa
I'm watching this alone in my living room while my whole family is having a party outside. That's how introverted I am.
Usually my family go out for a party and if they ask out i deny it. And they think that am such a boring person.
I wish I can do that my parents force me to interact with everyone else. Struggle is real
Lol same
Same. I’ve never been comfortable telling my family though, so I end up in awkward situations where I have to interact with people, but I just want to do my own thing.
Same im in my cousin's house and they are having a Christmas party opening presents and im alone in a room watching this
Introverts in person: 🙂
Introverts online: 💪🙂
Sparriax yeahhhhhhhh
I'm even introverted online. Anytime someone private messages me, I take forever to think of the right thing to say.
@@drea6131 same thing happens to me
We're ruling the internet
Exactly!!! They forgot that!
People be like,
"Hey, why so quiet? Live up already. Be yourself"
Me:
" I AM MYSELF"
so truee!!!
Ikr????? 😂😄
Not all people understand introverts.
im tired of people telling me to socialize
@@Lynxieo Me too.
What sucks is when you have friends who don't understand what PERSONAL SPACE IS!
JanssenX YES!
SO TRUE! I'm fighting with one of those friends and she doesn't want to understand. It is extremely hard.
JanssenX what are 'friends' ?
JanssenX ikr. I'm frightened and uncomfortable when I don't get personal space.
Well I wouldn't blame them, if they want to talk to you then that means that they're interested in you, rather than being lonely all the time. Before you blame them that they don't give you personal space, you should understand why they want to talk to you.
Also when someone says 'I'm going to get you out of your shell'
LIKE ITS NOT A SHELL ITS MY PERSONALITY
I like my shell it's comfy and I'm to lazy to do anything
Same like why you tryna strip me naked for everyone to see
@@Alex-rn3jv Same ☺️💤🛌
Introverts worst nightmare: teacher putting you in a group project with loud annoying extroverts and having to actually talk to them
@@tiernanomahoney8826 I hate Extroverts. I wanna demolish them from the world.
TortoiseBlaster So because we like talking to people means we should all die?So because we like friends and talking to people doesn't mean we're humans?Have anxiety,play online games answell.The way the media shows of extroverts are evil and always annoying and talkative?
@@unxhidek5538 That was my opinion dimwit. I never said you're not humans. But the majority of introverts don't really like Extroverts. Because they can be like "Why are you so quiet". While it's them that needs to shut up.
@@TortoiseBlaster Well dude, you got a pretty extreme opinion about an innocent group of people, chill down a bit
@@killjoy6880 Does it matter if it's only my opinion? It doesn't, so don't try to be intimidating.
As an introvert, it’s hard to imagine myself getting married. The person would have to sweep me off me feet.........completely. To get married would be to completely throw away my alone time. I don’t know if it’s worth it XD
Thank you someone understands! I've only had one boyfriend and he couldn't sweep me off my feet. I wasnt sure if anyone felt the same way.
I can't see myself getting married ever. Totally understands the perspective
Ikr? That's why I'm still single. Freedom!! I prefer dating books and imaginary friends (or imaginary boyfriend) Call it crazy, but I like it.
It isn't.
And listening to a child screams on a daily basis, nononono
Proud introvert here.
King Of Ls samee
King Of Ls me too
Animating Wolf Glad to hear it.
King Of Ls same, being an introvert is the best
inessaf moudine Glad to hear it.
I like being alone but I get jealous when I see people hanging out with their friends ._.
ArcaneSquish same
Yeaup
ArcadeSquish ™ ikr!!
ArcadeSquish ™ saaammme
Same
Teacher: Ok now pick a partner
Me: -_-
Camilla Palomink Lol Same
im hatee that situation..
Rioto Gaming SAME I HATE THAT THE MOST
Camilla Palomink sameee
"Everyone MUST be in pairs for this to work. ...Looks like we'll have one group of three."
OR, we can have one group of one. Ever think about that? -_-
I'm pretty sure all introverts are enjoying quarantine cause I'm sure am😄
Yup
I’m in heaven! I can easily turn down going out. I can totally focus on what I want to do, and I don’t have to explain it to anyone. I even like wearing the masks. I can not talk and act like the mask is holding me back. I don’t have to explain that I just don’t want to “small talk”. I bike and traffic is a lot less, and I often have the road to myself. Plus being home not working!!! It’s just wonderful staying home in my pjs all day!!!!
I love this quarantine ❤️
Ik the world is like "the world is struggling right now" and im like you clearly just forgot about us *waves introvertedly*
Yup best year of my life so far.
The feeling when your moms friend askes you "hows school going" and you're like: ...fine...
Hippity hoppity oh yeah i hate that question
I hate that question. I mean every time school rolls around and then it starts everyone of my family members ask "sooo how's school's going? Make any new friends..?"
My answer: It's fine. And no. (I mean it's the truth)
I just pretended like I totally had a good day and then when it hits night, I go in my bed and sob about how I'll probably end up being lonely for the rest of my life :l yup, that's my life
+Brybry Wolf I feel you :
Joebeth Dalisay lol, wanna be lonely buddies?
1:00 Introverts don't really like talking on the phone
"I can relate to that "😁
I much prefer text, too many people instantly bring too many emotional situations into a phone call. There are only so many things I can deal with at one time.
@@dm5129 same with me.
I only talk to my best friend on phone 'cause she's the only extrovert I can handle😛
Rubby Sharma same but instead I text my best friend but she's the only extrovert that I can actually handle because she understands how I feel and she just understands me
When the shops are crowded I never enter there and my father says: " so for you the shopkeeper will empty his crowd and then only let you enter the shop huh "
And I laugh and return to home lol😂😂😯
I am very glad I'm not alone in this world..... Thank You fellow introverts!!!
Alexei Lesukov Volkovich No prob bro :D
yea no problem
#IntrovertsForever
I also thought I was alone. Thanks fellow introverts!!! Only us can feel each others pains.
I'm the opposite of an introvert online XD
i'm sick of hearing my teacher and classmates saying "why r you so quiet" ..
Like for real I wanna beat them up
Because they have tact🙄.
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Bruh, that happened to me every school year until now.
My teachers are good to me because they like quiet students so I basically have more friends teachers than students
When people mistake you for being quiet until you show your true colors
regina aguilar exactly
Sooo me people get so shocked when I'm angry they be like wow we didn't know she this scary they take me for a teddy bear
Bruh true
regina aguilar exactly! My mom always tells people that I might not talk now, but when I’m at home and you spend a few days with me I am I totally different person
@@caleighmushamba5579 I felt this on a spiritual level
also when you're eating alone and someone comes to you and says in a pitiful voice "are you okay? you seem kind of quiet today" i HATE that.
Ikrr
Lol
Yah right. The time they talk to me that's what I don't like..haha
Lol I generally say this conversation isn't my cup of tea and I'm looking for an escape route. People usually laugh and the attention is taking away from me.
Wow it's irritated me too
Dear fellow introverts, if someone ever asks you *"why are you so quiet?"*
Ignore their question, and just ask
*"Why are you so loud?"*
Works every time
Extrovert me with social problems: thanks
Lol so true
Seriously or even worse... your crush!
haha
*no*
i'd just overthink about the people who might think im arrogant after i had said that ;w;
Haha I'm gonna try that.
me: why there's no one call me?
me, when people call: * let the phone ringing until their name on screen disappeared *
your pfp tho
STAN DAHYUN, STAN TWICE
It's really true ....always
Haha yes
So true because I hate talking to extroverts who won’t shut up and then I don’t want to be rude so I sit there and wait for a good time to say “I gotta go now”
Introvert's worst nightmare: sitting next to a random group of boys, even girls.
True
Right... Im like "I don't even know you"
It feels so uncomfortable 😣
Agreed.
especially boys, they will say "eww" and it rlly sucks 🙄
I’m an introvert at School and Extrovert at Home.
So you’re an introvert
Well That is me
Same so were both ambervirts!!!
Mina OGUT Ambivert
Mina OGUT Extroverts often trust people as soon as they meet them if they feel comfortable around them. Introverts often only trust best friends and family but never anybody else. You’re an ambivert like I am. You keep to yourself but you are open to meeting and trusting new people. Ambiverts are in between.
You SHOULD NEVER ask an introvert why they're quiet, because nothing is more awkward than asking a question like that to an introvert. I deal with this all the time at school.
I totally agree. When I hang out with friends, everyone always asks me if I'm sad or why I'm so quiet. It gets annoying and it's really awkward when someone asks you this question.
Fortress fighter Everyone thinks I'm depressed because I've been really quiet since I've been at my secondary, but really I just don't want to be social...
same dis guy dat has a crush on me is like ther biggest EXTROVERT and im so quiet and he's always aks me why and i just want to tell him that i hate him
Fortress fighter Talking and asking questions is already awkward so why ask me why im quiet?
yes. And the next question will be "ARE YOU OKAY?". Ohpleaseohplease. Just shut up and I'll be totally fine.
Whenever there's a group project, I try to find someone that at least looks familiar
Same I was like
**I wish my niece is here..**
Because if she's around I feel confident
Actually, a lot of introverts are ALWAYS on their phones. They're just not always on social media and texting.
Yeah I'm a introvert and I love being on the phone but not texting that I don't do
Same, I’m on my phone, gaming or watching shows. And I’m a massive introvert and a nerd
When in on my phone im usually on youtube or im listening to music
Violet Dixon I'm an introvert and I'm on my iPad all day apart from school
yup
Introvert Struggles:
When you don't want to talk to people but at the same time you want to talk to someone, but you don't want to talk to someone, so then you go sit by yourself. And then you see a group of friends come by, and you think how nice it would be to have friends, but at the same time you'd have to sacrifice your alone time, so you don't want any friends. But then you really do want friends, and OAEHFAIUHIUHEAFIUHSIGEFOHAIUWEGFADGHV
Kitty Kat this is so accurate and I think only introverts would understand this😂😂
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times...
Kitty Kat I know exactly what you mean... believe me!! I go through that every single day at school!
Ugghhhh me everyday! It doesn't even get better at work, the bus, the mall...
HoneymoonAvenue Same :D
D:
*Cries in a corner*
They always say
"Why do you always have blank face?"
"Why are you so quiet?"
"Why don't you have facial expressions often?"
"Why do you love being alone?"
"Why are you not talking?"
Me: Why don't you people just shut tf up?
Oooohhh, that is a good one. When I have a blank face it is most often because I am being faced with extremely bland and uninteresting folk, sorry.
When I am being quiet it is simply for one reason: there is nothing that I hear from anyone around me that is interesting enough to answer to.
When I do not have a facial expression that is because I want to deter friendship or conversation with someone I do not want to be close to.
XD THAT ENDING
I hate it when people tell me to smile more. It takes too much effort to do that. Plus I find it that you're coming off as fake when you are expected to put on a smile everywhere you go and let's not mention the work place.
I get all kind of questions, I'm just too tired to reply -_-
My face is blank when i'm daydreaming but also listening to someone saying something
Me when I don't talk:
People: Why are you so quiet?
Me when I say a word:
Them: Oh my gosh she talks!
@VWE S 😒 it so true my neighbor s LL be like y don't u talk y u so quite and am serious ly scared to meet new people and few LL be like they'll ask somany question s haaaaghh and am 7th grade ...... ( This is my sissy phonee )
Ikr
Same 😑
Same with me
*Imma about to beat this b up*
Something else I as an introvert understands is when people pressure me to talk more when I really don't want to.
Yesss, it is so annoying, and also disrespectful I would say
My teacher complaint my mother that she don't talk much in class
Catherine Morgan hahahaha same here...
Yea when they ask you why you quiet
Same here
we introverts dont like big parties and being visited by a lot of people, I had to stay in my room pretending to sleep just to not be with them.
ukatoladz! 911 fr tho
Oh man... did they leave your room at any point?
ukatoladz! 911 so they are sad and lame they need to have fun
Brybry Wolf 😂😂 ya
Louis Bman We often feel sad but i think that we like more to be kinda alone, we also have fun with friends... But just smaller type of groups😂😂😂
It's not because we don't know how to socialize. Give us something useful or interesting to talk about!! We don't need to talk just to talk. What for??
Simon-_-88 I legit replay convos in my head.
Ahhw E-Any me too
That's me, there has to be a topic. Not just random chit chatting.
ilovemanunited Hate talking about the weather, It's so stupid
Simon-_-88 true
Quarantine is the best thing that happened to me soo farr!
Thanks for the likes!
I totally agree. It's so cool! I'm having the best few months of my life.
True
@@anastasiam4405 ikrr!
i would've been but my mom got suuuuper sick so i had to do chores and go to the MALL 😔
( she's better now btw🤣)
@@BooingYou That's sad :(
Take care!
Teacher: Okay class now find a partner, only groups of two! Me *looks around for friend* Me: *sees friend is taken and has no other friends* shit....
Call Me Kitten Teacher: Ok pick a group of 4 people
Me in my mind:NOOOOOOOOO
Bon- -Bon me
Yeah, what about when they pick random people with sticks..... that's the worst..... or when they make you speak in front of the whole class.... just even saying here during attendance can be terrifying :l
that happens to me quite alot!
me too man
my friends and even the teachers think I'm depressed because I'm an introvert. I even get teased about it sometimes
MeeloKats ! same
Same!
MeeloKats ! it's temporary.hang in there.
for me everyone in my life says they never understand me while I do understand them even those I grew up with say they don't understand me I'm flicking out
MeeloKats ! I get you fam
School is an introverts nightmare.. way to much people and socialising
Alicja Wojcik IKR that why i hate school
Oh god ikr!!
AshlyStudios but u can just go to school without socialising with anyone,just sit in the classroom,when it's recess,keeping sitting and do your homework or just do whatever u want
Alicja Wojcik true 😐
Alicja Wojcik ikr and I also hate school because the school events I always begged my mom to not go (she let me skip it )I usually do homework or draw
i hate it when they always say “WHY CAN’T YOU JUST TALK LOUD SO WE CAN HEAR YOU” LIKE UGH BRUH WHY!?
Yea ...i wonder WHY??????
Right, it's tiring. Because it doesn't come naturally talking with a loud voice. But it doesn't mean that Introverts can't talk loud. Of course they can talk loud, but just in some situations, especially when they're angry. And trust me, you won't like it when you see an Introvert is angry.
@@pebrianr.b.m.3968 Fr I'm not a sociable person like NEVER tho when it comes to the internet I do feel comfortable, but when it comes to talking in reality? I always mess things up specially when it comes to introducing myself that's when i get anxious and anxiety hits like all the time even when i'm at home It happens everytime i think about socializing with people :(
@@pebrianr.b.m.3968 Oh, don't Bill Bixby us!
I never thought deeply before about the number 3 situation but is so true, I hate being invited to parties or meetings specially with people I don't know very well. I have to accept to not look boring but inside I feel horrible and I just dont wanna attend that reunion. After some days I pray to God that the party gets cancelled and when someone text me to tell me it was actually cancelled I feel like the king of the world lol
I'm lucky cuz I only have one friend who could invite me, but she doesn't anyways asides from her birthday. so maybe I don't quite understand you, but wht's the problem with having other ppl think you're boring?
Cause in this society if you hate going to parties you're called a boring person.
Me
Arika13 Boring is a very subjective word
true, and actlly I was called "different, weird, monster, alien and illness", just to name a few of thm.
*When you’re an extreme introvert and have to do a presentation in front of people and are silently panicking*
KawaiiBirdie:3 include shivers, 17 litres of sweat and a near heart attack.
I think you guys are describing anxiety rather than introversion lol
There are the diffrences between shy and Introvert, some introverts are good at presentation
Zaenab Qadira is it possible to be both shy and introverted?
@@PxL8d yes, it is possible. I've had a friend like that with both shy and introvert. myself is ambivert but very shy when I have to join a group of friends. but when it comes to presentation in front of the class, I'm much better than my friends because I'm good at communication (doesnt mean to show off), basically I'm a shy and confident person at the same time
Introverts are BEST!!!. They done more to the world than others.
Most of the scientists and successers are introverts.
It's the fact that, Introverts are thinking, listening and learning a lot. They do not waste time for unwanted talks.
Muhammed Irfan N
Thanks man.
thanks bro I m feeling happy after reading your comment
Shut up, get your superiority out of the convo😑 its jarring asf.
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Your welcome
Ikr, That made me happy!
There is a joy that comes from being alone and theres also a joy that comes from socializing, they both have their good and bad.
Introvert worst nightmare
Presenting in class
Being the group leade
Public talks
Public talks worst one
Group project worst than I could expect
Presenting in class not anymore I love this one
Group discussions is thw worst lol.. No idea what to speak
Related.
Logan Legend lucky you. Wishing I was like you. Hate public speaking and presentation, organising meetings etc.
These comments making me thinkt theres two kinds of introverts, alphas and betas. I dont fear leading or presention. Its just annoying but i also dont like being looked over. Idk i demand respect n i dont get that being a shy beta. Just saying
Phone calls freaks me out 🙅🙅♀️
Me too. I have crazy anxiety whenever my phone rings. My people know not to call me unless it's the apocalypse.
i cant even say anything when im on my phone to my friend. im weird
I just never answer
Same here
When the talk is done(the reason why that person is calling) i said bye and hang up immediately. I dont like talking rondom topics on the phone I prefer chats.
Some introverts also feel depressed and are willing to overcome their shyness and introvertism
Yeah...😢🙋🙇😭
😓 exactly
Not all introverts are shy. Some enjoy their peace time alone more than with a group of people.
Thats a myth
@@hyper2852 it was true in my case. however it doesnt matter to me now as ive overcomed my shyness
Earlier i hate to being introvert.. i thought i was just a dumb person... but now i know who i am. And now i love myself...
+Sasuke Uchiha lucky
Shubhranshu Shekhar tell me who you are
i'm just a introvert guy
Shubhranshu Shekhar introvert's aren't dumb not by a long shot what makes you think you are dumb?
Shubhranshu Shekhar same
I hate when people i dont know try to talk to me
Ackchyually lol SAME its just awkward and weird cuz then I'll don't know what to say
That's the bane of my existence!
Well... Thats a Paradox.. If you want to know people you need to talk to them.. You gotta start Somewhere, did you know your friends the second you saw them?
RandomKing well i dont want to know them, thats what being introverted is about lel
Ackchyually So you just hate people in general? Not only people you "dont know" right?
School is *THE WORST* place to be introverted likeeee
omg yess! I hate it! I need the whole weekend to recover from all that sociolicing ( althrough i don't really talk to annyone)
bored weirdo lol same
Lia Pia totally!! I hate it. Most of my good friends don't go to my school so it is always really awkward and annoying.
Lia Pia glad I go to Hospital Homebound.
CrazyCool Caitiek same
"Empty seats" is sooo accurate. I even pay for seats just to make sure no one will seat next to me. 👏🏻👏🏻
how about planning out a whole conversation in your head before actually saying it
And actually miss the chance to say it
omg ME
Letho Kunene it’s less of planning, and more of letting your imagination flow. I more often plan sentence starters, and things I can bring up if it gets quiet or awkward. Once I run out, I usually bail
This happens to me in Every social situation. It occupies so much of my mind that by the time i talk to the person it just comes out as awkward sayings and me hoping the interaction to stop
Same
I'm shy around people who aren't my friends
Baby Seal same here
When I am with my best friend she makes me feel well comfortable.
Same
kaaylaa. xo Same 😕
Me too!
Stranger says hi
*meanwhile in mind*
ALERT ALERT ITS A CODE 608 WHAT DO WE DO :0
lol
Stranger says hi
Only talks not to sound rude
How I feel: Error now initiating walking away
saamee
Mlg person Cringe *tries to duck out of it*.
Mlg person Cringe omg so relatebel
I tried to live like an extrovert for the past 2 years but things got messed up . Now I've learnt I cannot become an extrovert 😅😭. Being an introvert in India is the worst thing because in our country most people are extroverts😭😭😭
Yess u are right 😭😭😭😭 I am also indian I can understand u!!!😭
Yes it is difficult to find introverts in india😭
yea, your race in my country as well, I've see it my self, I mean no harm or racism in my words here, just informing I understand what you mean,
Then you need to move to the Gulf , is an introverted world . But you need a good job to not have to share your home with other 10 people
So true.. I'm an Indian too.. people hates introverts here.. wth it's so hard to live as an introvert but thankfully I live abroad and I visit india every vacation and I hate it because everyone is so talkative and I hate talking.. everyone is asking me to start talking and be more active .. I started to hate being an introvert TBH.
I'm more talkative on the internet, maybe it's because nobody knows who I am in real life.
Wen Junhui Same
Wen Junhui You're Jun
Wen Junhui Same.
yea, same here
Same
RUclips is the only thing where I socialize with people in comments😹 I don't use facebook, I don't call anyone except my family members.
I don't even like talking to my family members on the phone. I just text them. :)
Cassandra Brooks me too
People are straying further from reality everyday
I dont even like talking to family. I just want to be alone and I hate that my family cant accept it.
Anurag Rawat SAME
Ok I am an introvert in a big family of extroverts and they don't understand that an amazing weekend activity for me is to just sit in my room blasting my music and drawing/painting/ being creative in some way and my parents are concerned because they're both extroverts
i never have music/sound/any noise in my room up loud enough where people can hear it. It bothers me so much and if ithink they can here it my mind is like
*OH NO TURN IT DOWN FAST EVERYONE IN THIS HOUSE HATES ME NOW FOR BEING TO LOUD*
Ah I meant to type blasting my music with headphones
WolfyGamer101 I know how you feel
Annabeth 1052 same🙃
Imagine a network of us introverts. We know each other, but we sit in opposite rooms, barely talk, and when we get loud it's for a brief minute or two.
Extroverts during quarantine: Nothing in life matters!😩😢😭👎
Introverts during quarantine: Nothing in life matters!
😀😁😎👍
@Justa Mande lmao same, people keep saying 2020 is the worst year, but not for me
@Justa Mande mine too
@Justa Mande yas
@Justa Mande Yup same 2020 has been the best year for me so far.
And I have my dream job being a RUclipsr
I'm an introvert but sometimes I'm very talkative in the group of my friends where I feel comfortable
If you have a group of friends then you probably aren't that introverted. I had friends but gradually pushed them all away. I think over time some people can go from being quite extroverted to becoming gradually more introverted.
Same
Only online xD
You are Ambivert
Perhaps your friends are also introverts
"Why are you so quiet? Be more social!"
Damnnnn I hate them so much..
Yes you are right 🙁
I be ready to let my inner demons out
''Don't be shy!'' ''Do you have any friends?"
I think the lockdown and no meeting with friends have made me more of an introvert and I hate it😐
@@PxL8d I think I have courage to say
*SHUT UP!! "Punches (sike)"*
introverts are the best, we don't need anyone to succeed, we walk alone , we are the most Strongest Believe That!💪💯♥
No bro...I am an introvert...But we can't fo everything alone .Huaman is a social animal..I am always sad about my charector
U need to interact with other people, humans survive by building communities not living in isolation
@@jathushankar2550 Introverts aren't hermits, other people just get annoying, to us, much sooner.
Who will bury u?
I just want to do nothing is that fine too?
As an introvert, I can say that this quarantine is heavenly! 🔥😍
Yeahhhh
And also, introverts only talk to people if necessary
Movie Editing Geek yup. So me!
Movie Editing Geek no.... That's not true... I'm a introvert and I talked to people, I'm not good at starting conversations but if something pops into my mind I will say It. It is at least not exactly true...
Movie Editing Geek well your are partially true but sommetime i fell the urge to tell my felling to other people but i allways endup sayng stupid things or lies
Yup
Don't imply that all introverts do anything, because we're all different and it's offensive. I talk to my friends because I like talking to them, even when it isn't necessary. And I'm like the most introverted person ever.
I have a mixture of social anxiety and introversion, the perfect storm.
Same :(
Same
Same😓
Shane Guiry unfortunately same 😢
Shane Guiry me too
I hate it when other people pity me when I'm alone or lonely.. It makes me feel really anxious and I can't help but battle with my thoughts over-excessively worrying about this.
same here man
Matthew Atuatika ikr like i was eating alone at recess my friend was like,’are u ok u look sad eating alone’ like i’m not sad i’m perfectly ok
That happened to me last week I started worrying so much. Because after someone pity me everyone in the class began to look at me.
Worst feeling. When I get invited because they feel bad.
SAMEEEE
when teachers say we have to do a group project and you have to choose the people you want to be in the group with but you don't have anyone to talk to and you end up being embarrassed because you're the only one that has no group and they ask one of the groups if they can let you be in their group and no one responds to that so you have to make the decision yourself because.... yeah.
Omg this always happens in high school
I was always so embarrassed
Yes ...never end
Yahh i literally quit a project because of the people I got stuck with thats how much I hated them.
That's why I never liked going to school.... It is like wasting of lot of your time.... Feel like if school time gets reduced to half, I could have done things which I really like to do.... Rather than just trying to adjust myself among the group of people (classmates) .
Nooo omg
The worst nightmare of an introvert is also reciting and presenting in class
Video Saver I literally had to skip school and get a D- in class for that
Everyone in class: HEREE!!!
ME:
Im never afraid of presentation unless I am underprepared. What I am afraid of is small talk, as I dont know what to say and how to fake/act and things start to get uncomfortable and awkward.
@@tropicaldimitri7374 Thinking about preparing something for a speech makes me so anxious that I can't even start with the preparation thing haha. But I do agree that it's always an essential thing to prepare, prepare and prepare.
@@jonesb80jr I was always seen as incompetent and looked down upon, so I'd use moments like this to show my peers who is the boss. I'd rate my self zero for small talk, 7 or 8 for presentation.
When there is activity in science and teacher says *”Find a partner”* 😱😨
no username And you have no friends in your class
DeJx GT its getting harder when the group of your friend is full and you have to find another group.
Rembrand feter oh i know that feeling
I'm an introvert but this is not a problem for me cause I have 3 bestfriends in my class so it's only great when the teacher says that.
no username I just find a friend or if they're any friends in my class then j freak out
Some people here in the comments don't see the difference between "being a lazy person" and being an introvert. lol
Clorox Bleach yea
Clorox Bleach Yes XD
what about a lazy introvert :3
actually, how do you not really be lazy if you are an introvert? i believe im an introvert, but still do some excercises at home (push ups, lunges, attempted L sit-ups) but when im not doing that im sitting allll the time eating
+Maria Solis, you understand me hahahaha
honestly, i didnt think i was an introvert until being told so, taking a couple quizzes, and some other things. I think im somewhere between introvert and ambivert, mainly because i dont get much of a choice in some things that would allow me to be more introverted. and the reason id LIKE to think im one is because, lets be honest, it just sounds cool you know? you dont have to talk much, you can laze around at home watching vids or playing games, and occasionally talking to your few good friends
My Mom think being introvert is a some kind of disease 🙄 , sometimes it's very hard to live with people like my mom .
Yeah...
Haha
My mom also tgink being introvert is a disease
I know it's very hard
FINALLY! A Talko video I can relate to! I'm an introvert 'cause I can't stand people. I'm alone ALL the time though and hate it when I'm forced to talk to people!
Lucy FluffyAJ This is me. I can only handle people so much before I shut down. It sucks too because at work, they put me on window a lot, and I work drive through. But then it always drains my energy and I lose motivation and joy. Ugh the struggles. Is there a job where I don't have to deal with people?
{LucyFluffyDenDecor} AJ u r the same as I am!!
{LucyFluffyDenDecor} AJ Exactly
Agreed. Unless Its my girlfriend or about music
{LucyFluffyDenDecor} AJ Same
when i was in high school, my teacher always felt bad that i used to eat my food alone, but i actually enjoyed eating alone lol
Same
benedict.v.dharma yeah, eating alone is great because you just sit by yourself and enjoy your food without anyone talking to you
benedict.v.dharma btw i make poetry & comedy videos on my channel so feel free to check it out if you want :)
@@shantcheetah exactly listen to music, such a great feeling.. I'm proud to be an introvert but hey we're all equal
im shy to eat around public, i prefer alone too.
There's only one thing I hate more than talking to people... and that's people.
Couldn't agree more😂
True😂
I hate going to public places
Yep
Same
People suck dude
_Introverts be like :" m not anty social , I m selectively social"_
this video is so me, my mom always wants me to go out EVERY day, cuz she thinks im wasting my life with beeing alone and that you only have a good life if you go out, she believes Im not normal, cuz all teenagers in her opinion like to hang around with friends all the time (she tells me that nearly every day -.-) but what is so wrong if beeing alone makes me happy? :c i love beeing alone and i need my time to relax from social interaction...
Miss Blueberry I have the same problem, don't worry🌵
Miss Blueberry yup. Same here!
i think society leans more towards "extroverts are good, introverts are bad"
of course theres some grey and maybe some understanding on both ends, but that doesnt stop some action being taken or retracted (such as going on school trips, what kind of introvert like me wants that?!)
Miss Blueberry same here~
Miss Blueberry that's so me like what's life for than for doing something you like even if it means being alone
Making a bunch of excuses not to hang out with your friend because you need alone time, but also worry that they might think you don’t like them...
And that's one of the reasons everyone hates me and I have no friends.
Sooo true
I feel you.
I feel you :(
So true. They can't understand us.
Am I the only socially awkward introvert who hates going outdoors, HATES socializing and LOVES ELECTRONICS
MidnightCl0ud you are not alone... I hate that too and LOVE electronics
I kinda like to go outdoors. I am an active person. But I am shy in socializing and making new friends. Earlier in the bus, some high school girls rode with us in the van (though only middle schoolers ride but it was different today) and I just froze and felt awkward... I barely even know them.
I’m the same, electronics were my best friends in hard times of my 15 year old life, I experienced way more than my classmates experienced
LOVES BIOLOGY
Same but I hate electronics lol
I’m more introverted and I can relate. Sometimes I like talking with people and hanging out. There are times it drains out.
As an introvert I would say ,if we find a partner who is also a introvert then the world would be perfectly fine 😅
👍✋
Hallelujah👋🤘
Yup totally
I agree
*Let me introduce you to my partner*
:📱
This is sooo true! People often yell at me because I don' t answer the phone and mostly forget to take it when I go out, I feal perfectly comfortable eating alone, it takes a real long time to make new friends and I have no need to make new friends at all, don' t like much to talk to people I don't know and hate it when I have to call someone to order something or make an apointment, I' m absolutely never bored, always enjoyed reading... And I could never understand people who kiss and hug every time they see someone they know... And most people think I' m conceited and rude because of all these things...
Ivana Kalcina
Dat kinda happened 2 me aswell...
Literally, most of my friends r Extroverts & sometimes, they keep asking me if I can answer their call & it's annoying AF!!!!! Cuz I wanna b all alone
Ballora Wan I think most people are extroverts which is why not many people understand why we act the way we do. They should see this video☺
Ivana Kalcina
Yup
I could...
But they're soooo complicated
But do u want 2 kno y this is such a handful???
Cuz my friends &/or family won't watch any video I send 😡😡😡
Ivana Kalcina
Allllllllso, tho I am mostly Introvert, my extrovert friends usually say dat I make friends easily...
Dee Cee
Hmmm... probably
Thx 4 the advise
I like the way I am so dats the way I'll b right?????
Just making sure cuz if they want me 2 bcome like them so...
Only some people would understand
When you have a class that you have no friends in and you don't talk at all because you have no friends in it, and you look shy and like a loner, but in other classes with your best friends u are the most talkative and goofy person ever.
Am I the only one who hates that when we pick seats, it looks like o don't have any friends because I don't have any friends in that class and I wish I could smack people in the face and say I'm way more louder and talkative but I don't know or like any of you, so stop staring at me like I'm a loner. And I wasn't blessed with friends in every single class. Admit it there's always that one class that u look like an introvert because you have literally no friends in it. And group projects in that one class are horrible because you have no friends AND YOU LOOK LIKE A LONER. ALSO THIS IS MY HOMEROOM SO if we have celebrations or something I always feel uncomfortable because I have no friends in that class. But people in the one class don't see that I'm a really outgoing person, but I only like to talk and laugh with people I know really well and like. I'm not one of those lucky people who can get along with everyone and always have partner. But it's only in these two classes, only TWO CLASSES.
bella hilaski i feel you
wtf i'm not the only one
Well as I said i on
Yeah look like a loner in two classes, and obviously if I don't have any friends in that class how in the hek am I supposed to get a friend to come with me.
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"Oh, you're not an introvert because you are super funny and happy with your friends" Why people think that introverts love being lonely and can't have friends? I act normal around my friends, I just can't act normal around other people.
Every Introverts weakness this days is online class
Oh gosh, soo relatable
@Scary Gamer Yup assalamu alaikum.
My school is so careless they let us study on our own and we only go to the final exam
@Khadijah Ahmed I agree
Underrated but so true