5 WAYS TO MAKE HIM ADDICTED TO YOU 🤤😍(WARNING: REALLY WORKS!)

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  • Опубликовано: 23 янв 2025

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  • @MJHarrisSpeaks
    @MJHarrisSpeaks  5 лет назад +465

    LISTEN TO THIS ON PODCAST living-limitless-with-mj-harris.simplecast.com/episodes/5-ways-to-make-him-addicted-to-you-warning-really-works

    • @gossipcelebrity2007
      @gossipcelebrity2007 5 лет назад +9

      MJ Harris how can I make crave someone I met online

    • @catchingoders5090
      @catchingoders5090 5 лет назад +7

      How much for a cash app I need your help on some advice and it's really been messing me up mentally please hit me back I'll send my number I don't care

    • @eyedolleyezllc4722
      @eyedolleyezllc4722 5 лет назад +5

      MJ Harris... We were so into each other at first but as soon as I became pregnant he flipped... I left and started focusing on me but I want my child to grow up with his/her father... I'm so confused... Is there hope or should I just let go?

    • @So_Cato
      @So_Cato 4 года назад

      Thanks MJ. Thank you

    • @kalicat8748
      @kalicat8748 4 года назад +1

      I love you for this ❤️😉😭

  • @micaelaphipps9853
    @micaelaphipps9853 5 лет назад +5718

    Addicted to this man...randomly appeared on my feed and i can’t get enough.

    • @sheromablackman6052
      @sheromablackman6052 5 лет назад +42

      Micaela Phipps YES SAME HERE 💯🙌🏽 he’s so Wise knowledgeable💚

    • @sweetjokess
      @sweetjokess 5 лет назад +24

      Micaela Phipps sammeeee I love this energy !

    • @kayliekakes5054
      @kayliekakes5054 5 лет назад +6

      Swear

    • @vee2890
      @vee2890 5 лет назад +14

      Micaela Phipps girl me either. The whole video I’m yelling yasssss MJ!! Lol

    • @firstladiyeetwylasmith4723
      @firstladiyeetwylasmith4723 5 лет назад +7

      Micaela Phipps me too!!! Totally addicted!!!!

  • @jamiejackson1780
    @jamiejackson1780 5 лет назад +4646

    HE LOOKS LIKE HE SMELLS GOOD!! 😁🥰😘

    • @arb6452
      @arb6452 5 лет назад +4

      😂

    • @pns140
      @pns140 5 лет назад +2

      😂😂

    • @Sunrey2356
      @Sunrey2356 5 лет назад +17

      Jamie Jackson and feel good too! 😩🙈😂😭

    • @jamiejackson1780
      @jamiejackson1780 5 лет назад +1

      Renesha U. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Sunrey2356
      @Sunrey2356 5 лет назад +2

      Jamie Jackson forgive me!! Or not!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣

  • @m.l.7367
    @m.l.7367 3 года назад +913

    1. Entice a man: what you wear (accentuate your blessings), perfumes/colognes, hygiene
    2. Make him feel like a King: play to his ego, build him up in the areas that he’s insecure
    3. Be his peace and paradise: in all of your actions and words be peaceful and joyful, no need to vent ALL your issues/stressors, center your dates around his strengths as well and allow him to teach you new things
    4. Be his support system: allow him to be vulnerable, open and broken in a safe space, listen more than you speak without becoming his crutch (don’t have ALL the answers ALL of the time), allow him to be the man and problem solve to solution, get permission before giving “helpful suggestions” in the form of a question (leave the power with him)
    5. Have and maintain your own life!

    • @debradorsey153
      @debradorsey153 2 года назад +13

      Great suggestions ⭐

    • @erichramone7812
      @erichramone7812 2 года назад +16

      As a man I love this feedback if your and suggestions to others. Your significant other must be a happy man. I agree with the “allow him to be a man and problem solve” and “allow him to be vulnerable in a safe space”. That’s beautiful

    • @JustineEllushon
      @JustineEllushon Год назад +6

      These are good to remember. I'm going to work harder to be sure I'm doing these things consistently💚

    • @Maggiebenjee
      @Maggiebenjee Год назад

      ​@earthangel3240exactly. #5 is all that matters

    • @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427
      @nonhlanhlamahlangu8427 Год назад +3

      That 5th point, very very important it should be number 1

  • @humayhumay5060
    @humayhumay5060 3 года назад +352

    Summarize
    1. Smell good
    2. Make him feel like a King 👑
    3. Be his paradise and heaven
    4. Be his support system
    5. Make sure you have your OWN life. :)
    Popped up in my fyp but absolutely loved and subscribed! 💙

    • @lalademomoru6123
      @lalademomoru6123 3 года назад

      Hello Don't worry anymore sweetheart, I will introduce you to Dr Gabriel, the greatest relationship restorer from America 🇺🇸 that helped me get my ex back in less than 2 days, He will also help you too.

    • @lalademomoru6123
      @lalademomoru6123 3 года назад

      +1 2 4 9 2 0 0 6 7 0 1💕....

    • @GodIsWithUs4LIFE
      @GodIsWithUs4LIFE 2 года назад +4

      Thank you!

  • @jsmnyoung19
    @jsmnyoung19 5 лет назад +5756

    1. Dress Sexy (or wear whatever catches his eyes)
    2. Smell Good ( wear a fragrance he likes and don't ask him wait till he compliments you)
    3. Be his peace, not his headache (Be fun not negative Nancy)
    4. Be his support system ( NOT HIS CRUTCH )
    5. Have your own life ( Don't be Clingy)

    • @glamjm13
      @glamjm13 5 лет назад +45

      Thank you!

    • @jacquelinecoleman9268
      @jacquelinecoleman9268 5 лет назад +10

      Thank u

    • @ayannamoore5437
      @ayannamoore5437 5 лет назад +28

      Yes, thanks a lot!! I can’t take it ... lol

    • @emmierene3898
      @emmierene3898 5 лет назад +168

      I loved her comment and wanted to skip the video but something made me watch , and believe me the video is worth watching through !!

    • @DeeStarHairstylist
      @DeeStarHairstylist 5 лет назад +7

      👌🏽👍🏽🙏🏽👏👏🏽👏🙌😊

  • @MaxamillionEd
    @MaxamillionEd 4 года назад +1888

    As a straight man, I can tell you that if you follow these steps, no man will leave you while also making sure you don't let yourself go.

    • @wandahwhetstone5720
      @wandahwhetstone5720 3 года назад +7

      Exactly ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐👍👌💜🧡💛💛💚💙😊🤗

    • @ashelybrye5426
      @ashelybrye5426 3 года назад +7

      Respect

    • @LegitWonder
      @LegitWonder 3 года назад +89

      Why are you here? This is for those who are trying to attract you lol don't be coming here and ruining our plans 😅😂 Jk

    • @MaxamillionEd
      @MaxamillionEd 3 года назад +69

      @@LegitWonder to beat your adversary you have to understand how she thinks and moves.

    • @LegitWonder
      @LegitWonder 3 года назад +32

      @@MaxamillionEd lol It's a partnership sir 😌 with some magical dust

  • @ashac.4476
    @ashac.4476 4 года назад +2291

    I’m not even here for content anymore, I’m just here for the energy and the smile. I watch these to keep me hype while I do my homework😂

    • @selinangozo4436
      @selinangozo4436 4 года назад +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @user-tn8li8os1w
      @user-tn8li8os1w 4 года назад +32

      Same I'm not looking for a man right now, I just love his energy 😂

    • @ashac.4476
      @ashac.4476 4 года назад +16

      @@user-tn8li8os1w I’m in a whole relationship. I was watching these videos last night. My boyfriend asked what I was watching them for. I was like “excitement” LOL

    • @deannalove9073
      @deannalove9073 4 года назад +15

      Everytime he says "Get in here" my heart smiles lol

    • @sallymay3643
      @sallymay3643 4 года назад +2

      B honest yr here 4 his insight on men theres 1000s of other positive inspiring u could b watching.

  • @katiataggarta1914
    @katiataggarta1914 Год назад +59

    “Choose people that choose you.” 💯💯💯💯

  • @blessingkachikwu
    @blessingkachikwu 3 года назад +188

    The way he talks makes me so happy. I start smiling the moment I hear his voice lol.

    • @nisrinehida256
      @nisrinehida256 2 года назад

      ME TOO

    • @queenlii4334
      @queenlii4334 Год назад +1

      Fr, he gives energy and a chocolate 🍫 energy 🤪 I just wanna eat him kmfao

    • @prettybabyface7313
      @prettybabyface7313 Год назад +1

      @chiquitamijnalsyou said exactly what i was thinking…he knows his/her game too well 👌

    • @Hotsauseoneverythang
      @Hotsauseoneverythang 4 месяца назад

      Me too🤦🏽‍♀️😂

  • @MMS374
    @MMS374 5 лет назад +227

    why did I just scream with excitement after finding this channel?

    • @IMarie-xs5dg
      @IMarie-xs5dg 5 лет назад +1

      MMS Me too hun!!!! Best advice ever!!!! MJ is my big sister now 🤣🙌🏾✌🏽😃💜🌈🌈💜

    • @mastinanagel380
      @mastinanagel380 5 лет назад +1

      Me too!!!

    • @jotiqueharlee194
      @jotiqueharlee194 5 лет назад

      Right me too he looks like a friend of mines and I love his personality

  • @missyfrog1
    @missyfrog1 4 года назад +627

    Your skin is glowing, can we get a skin care routine?!

  • @faizayyy
    @faizayyy 4 года назад +77

    This man came out of nowhere in my feed and now I'm obsessed with his videos. 😂 💯❤️

  • @Leah-jp9im
    @Leah-jp9im 5 лет назад +428

    MJ.. I have been married for 23 years and I’m still here for it. Yasss you’re on point boo❤️

    • @IMarie-xs5dg
      @IMarie-xs5dg 5 лет назад +2

      Leah 1247 MJ is soo cute! I love his personality, he’s my sister 🥰😃🌈🌈💋

    • @tashabrown8301
      @tashabrown8301 5 лет назад +7

      Congrats on 23 years❤❤❤❤

    • @SweetJordan87
      @SweetJordan87 5 лет назад +5

      Leah 1247 23 years? Wow! Congrats on that, so awesome 💗

    • @MizBkraftzanBudgetzz
      @MizBkraftzanBudgetzz 3 года назад

      Same!!! Sometimes you get comfortable!

  • @SoReal369
    @SoReal369 5 лет назад +1367

    I’m not sure how you popped up on my feed but I must say I am in love. You just got a new subscriber!!!!

    • @chardaejohnson8020
      @chardaejohnson8020 5 лет назад +12

      Beth D same here🥰🤓

    • @selunelbeloved83
      @selunelbeloved83 5 лет назад +7

      Me today and did as well, his energy is awesome 👏

    • @cocojean-louis4049
      @cocojean-louis4049 5 лет назад +8

      Me too!! He just showed up in my feed and I absolutely love him 💘 ❤ ❤😍😍!! I love it most that he shares truth.

    • @kimberlynyaguse1988
      @kimberlynyaguse1988 5 лет назад +6

      oh my ghad..he is heaven sent, i couldn't have stumbled upon such information at a more appropriate time. new subscriber right here!!!!!

    • @Bware1994
      @Bware1994 5 лет назад

      Swear to god me too. I love his personality ‼️🙌🏾💕🤞🏾

  • @aminatasemega-janneh2184
    @aminatasemega-janneh2184 5 лет назад +614

    I love your honesty, dear . Choose people that choose you . That’s the best advise ! Sensible 🤷‍♀️

    • @ladyteka2430
      @ladyteka2430 4 года назад +1

      Indeed!

    • @FloreFleur
      @FloreFleur 4 года назад +1

      AMINATA SEMEGA-JANNEH 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @kettyhonore9893
      @kettyhonore9893 4 года назад +1

      I really like this guy😎

  • @maceyr.6583
    @maceyr.6583 2 года назад +6

    “Choose people who choose you” PERIOOD!

  • @funkay1
    @funkay1 4 года назад +487

    I want this man to be my friend, I love his energy 😊

  • @elenasheard
    @elenasheard 5 лет назад +248

    “Let him be the man that he is “ 💕
    Great advice
    “ ask for permission to give your advice “ 👍🏾👍🏾🗣
    Yaaassss, teach

  • @lisettec6316
    @lisettec6316 5 лет назад +1676

    Remember, dont cook and clean for them and dont loan them money

    • @masonix_angel_morningstar7891
      @masonix_angel_morningstar7891 4 года назад +99

      What man is going to want a woman completely if she doesn't cook and clean😯

    • @lisettec6316
      @lisettec6316 4 года назад +474

      @@masonix_angel_morningstar7891 if u ain't a wife u dont act like one

    • @masonix_angel_morningstar7891
      @masonix_angel_morningstar7891 4 года назад +122

      @@lisettec6316 As a country girl I can tell you that men appreciates a woman who cooks and knows how to clean.
      Any man that does not seek those qualities in a woman are men that does not know how to do sh!t for a woman.
      I'm not saying a man won't marry a woman who cannot cook but during his marriage if he meets a woman that cooks well you will end up with a cheating husband. .
      Also, how often do you think you'll find a man who would want to marry a woman if she does not show she can feed him.
      The old saying never fails.. the way to a man's heart is through his stomach

    • @masonix_angel_morningstar7891
      @masonix_angel_morningstar7891 4 года назад +63

      @@lisettec6316 why not show off your skills if you think he may be the one for you and the relationship is going well.
      You show him you can cook and that you know how to clean you'd be surprised to see you will get a ring a whole lot faster

    • @masonix_angel_morningstar7891
      @masonix_angel_morningstar7891 4 года назад +58

      @@lisettec6316 And NO... I definitely don't cook for just anyone ONLY the one's I really care for and who show that they appreciate me

  • @nesssmina8550
    @nesssmina8550 3 года назад +339

    Another way to have men chase you is don’t be too available, and always look good! Post on your story looking sexy and have him wondering if you still think about him, this will have him thinking about you and if he posts a selfie hype him up make him feel good about himself then go ghost for a little while lmao this will drive him crazy

  • @miamibahama3105
    @miamibahama3105 5 лет назад +100

    Whew, I clicked on this video as a girl and now I’ve become a woman. Great points, I definitely struggle wit having my own life when I realllyyyyy like someone.

  • @carolynwilliams6153
    @carolynwilliams6153 5 лет назад +229

    Thank you so much; I’m divorced and nearly 60 and I didn’t know a lot things you are saying. I feel empowered after I listen to you. Thanks again!

    • @IMarie-xs5dg
      @IMarie-xs5dg 5 лет назад +2

      Carolyn Williams 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️🌈🌈❤️

  • @ajrenee3450
    @ajrenee3450 4 года назад +259

    This video came across my feed, and while I didn’t get my advice from this young man, he is absolutely correct. I make sure I shower before my friend comes over and put on something nice, I listen to him, I affirm and encourage him, I cook and bake for him and sometimes make desserts for his employees, I let him put his head in my chest and talk, he has already cried with me twice, we read out loud together, we have creative play dates, etc, etc. This man is already talking about going to Jared’s and it’s only been a month. He’s dropping cash and paying bills and we don’t even live together. He comes to my house literally everyday now. This advice is really good. And I agree, it must be someone who is already interested. Even further than that, a real man who can appreciate and reciprocate the energy.

    • @tokozilengwenya8760
      @tokozilengwenya8760 4 года назад +16

      I tap into those results. Thank you for sharing that feedback. I am highly encouraged

    • @ajrenee3450
      @ajrenee3450 4 года назад +32

      @@tokozilengwenya8760 So glad you are encouraged. Remember, it must be for the right man. The wrong one will take advantage of you and it will lead to heartbreak. It dangerous to give all of ourselves to someone with bad intentions. Pray on it and use your discernment so that you can know when the right one has come into your life who will deserve and appreciate all you have to offer. All the best to you!

    • @kitten113004
      @kitten113004 4 года назад +14

      Sis pray on this as NARCISSISTIC individuals do this too

    • @ajrenee3450
      @ajrenee3450 4 года назад +2

      @@kitten113004 Thanks for the comment. Yes, everything must be done in prayer. A lot definitely comes down to motive, on both ends. If your goal is to trap a man and manipulate him, I’d agree that you need to fall back and work on you. Though, when it’s genuine, it truly works. I’d like to be believe there are less narcissistic people in this world than genuine, though I could be wrong. My boyfriend and I are still going strong!! Some things just work. Like he said, this definitely has to be w/ the right people!! All the best to you!!

    • @ajrenee3450
      @ajrenee3450 4 года назад +5

      In light of the recent reply, the following is the criteria for narcissistic personality disorder. The DSM says a person w/ npd will likely have 5 or more of the 9 symptoms. If you recognize these in yourself or others, fall back and either go talk to someone so you can be able to approach relationships the healthy way, or to give the other a time to work on their mental health needs. The symptoms are as follows:
      -A grandiose sense of self-importance (eg, the individual exaggerates achievements and talents and expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
      -A preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
      A belief that he or she is special and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people or institutions
      -A need for excessive admiration
      -A sense of entitlement (ie, unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations)
      -Interpersonally exploitive behavior (ie, the individual takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends)
      -A lack of empathy (unwillingness to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others)
      -Envy of others or a belief that others are envious of him or her
      -A demonstration of arrogant and haughty behaviors or attitudes
      Relationships with a person with this disorder can cause some longterm issues if undetected. Please pray and use wisdom. Happy dating!!!

  • @kimberlyclark4559
    @kimberlyclark4559 Год назад +2

    Baby all natural over here no lashes, no wigs/weave, no nails nothing!! But baby my body is smooth, smell good inside & out and I always dress to represent SELF!!❤❤

  • @Daniellelenae
    @Daniellelenae 5 лет назад +827

    The power of smell omg 😩😂 I’m sooo big on smell if someone stinks I’m automatically turned off

  • @prettyboricuaec
    @prettyboricuaec 4 года назад +183

    These really do work. I have men I've dated years ago calling for a second chance because they knew I treated them like a king and was always there as a support system. Very important to let them be their own man and make own decisions but when allowed give them good options, not advice or opinions. Very good indeed.

  • @adiyep
    @adiyep 4 года назад +436

    such a beautiful man, beautiful vibes, i can understand why people fall in love with him 🥰😍

  • @ThatswhatCesaid
    @ThatswhatCesaid 4 года назад +291

    I've been married for almost 29 years. I recently found out my husband was having an affair for the last 5 years. Many of the things you talked about here were things I stopped doing but, the other woman was happy to do. I wish I recognized where I was slacking 5 years ago. We are working on rebuilding our trust and marriage. Thank you for great insight. Be blessed.

    • @nijayjnijay5927
      @nijayjnijay5927 4 года назад +7

      Ce' Myla I can recommend you to someone powerful who was able to bring back my ex wife and it works very fast and I believe he can solve your relationship problems
      🙏🙏

    • @nijayjnijay5927
      @nijayjnijay5927 4 года назад +2

      Contact him at what'Sapp
      🙏🙏

    • @pugninja7037
      @pugninja7037 3 года назад +1

      I can relate, so pleased your both rebuilding.

    • @xxxtrddy
      @xxxtrddy 3 года назад +5

      How are y’all now?

    • @LeeknowsminsAtdegreesinairfrye
      @LeeknowsminsAtdegreesinairfrye 2 года назад +5

      I hope the best for you and that it all turns out good 🤗

  • @Sara-cq6si
    @Sara-cq6si 5 лет назад +564

    -entice the man (wear clothes that entice a man-> dress for ur bodytype,emphasize good parts&deemphasize bad parts)
    -smell good
    -make him feel like a king (play to his ego->call out the parts that u know he is most confident about, boost areas where he is insecure about)
    -be his peace (bring him positivity,dont poor him everything that is going on bad)
    -> ppl remember how u make them feel
    -be his paradise (fun-> do things that he likes ,he is good at (oppurtunity :hes teaching u ->allowing him to emphasize his knowledge areas)
    -be his supportsystem, let hin be open with u (dont cut him off when hes talking,sit close to him,touch him gently (knees and arms)= make him feel good when he is open with you) & allow him to be vulnerable & encourage him -> dont give him all the answers/sollutions (ask him for permission 16:15)
    -make sure that u have ur own life (recoginze who ur were b4 u met him ->hobbies,things that made u special) ,not be too busy

  • @ndelva96
    @ndelva96 5 лет назад +372

    These are nice tips but please make sure the person is worthy and that just takes time men can show interest because someone is exuding all these good qualities but will these reciprocate it in your times of need

    • @robinbanks3806
      @robinbanks3806 5 лет назад +1

      Amen!!!

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 5 лет назад +16

      N.hevy - HOW TRUE! You must ALWAYS BRING YOUR A-GAME! It's such a BIG DISAPPOINTMENT when the person turns out to be UNWORTHY. Hopefully, you're able to quickly discern this fact without wasting too much time.

    • @LindsayAmelia
      @LindsayAmelia 5 лет назад +11

      N.hevy yes..he can be interested with bad intentions or wanting nothing real. We don’t want to draw that one closer. Loll Amen girl!

    • @geminitwix
      @geminitwix 5 лет назад

      FACTS

    • @FloreFleur
      @FloreFleur 4 года назад +1

      N.hevy YES!!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Shiwayeee
    @Shiwayeee 4 года назад +703

    i done failed at being his peace lmfaoooo

  • @erineley3308
    @erineley3308 3 года назад +50

    I am naturally this woman 🤗. My issue in the past has been being afraid of my own vulnerability.

  • @kam.kam.
    @kam.kam. 5 лет назад +89

    Ok Cocoa Butter, fitness and hydration!!! I see you!!

  • @joybanks8773
    @joybanks8773 5 лет назад +126

    So 2020 has gifted me with this channel....wow I'm grounded. Girl you are so equipped ❤

  • @AimeeMarlyse
    @AimeeMarlyse 4 года назад +177

    He really out here PREACHING!!!. All people in favor shall say AMEN Amen !!. It’s his ENERGY and SKIN GLOW for me 😍🤩.

  • @vickeysimmo4550
    @vickeysimmo4550 4 года назад +129

    I'm so in love with this guy. Yes I'm a female and happily married but he's so addictive!

    • @emmamunyao9360
      @emmamunyao9360 3 года назад +1

      MJ reminded me of fascinating woman book.

  • @latrazhawkins7783
    @latrazhawkins7783 4 года назад +28

    He’s about to fall in love and don’t even know it!!! Thanks MJ!!

  • @TheSandrafabian
    @TheSandrafabian 5 лет назад +281

    My boyfriend and I live in different states but every time he's around, I make sure every single detail of my outfit, my hair, nails, feet, smell, accessories, sleepwear, are all very inviting to him. I even make it a point to have a variety of clothing items of his three favorite colors. It's been over three years and he says "Baby, I'm hooked on you."

    • @n.b.2729
      @n.b.2729 4 года назад +5

      Same verbatim 👌🏾💕

    • @reesecaprice3466
      @reesecaprice3466 4 года назад +3

      Thought I was the only one in ltr. I make every moment count

    • @habibaali5443
      @habibaali5443 4 года назад +1

      Guuuurrrlllll teach me. After raising a 5 yrs old delicious Boy...
      Chile i am lacking the fabulosity. Heeelllppp

  • @EButta71
    @EButta71 5 лет назад +60

    Woo chileee! That, "baby you are refreshing" I felt that in my spirit honey!!!! Yesss be positive and uplifting!

  • @muchlove9781
    @muchlove9781 4 года назад +909

    This man is dangerous! I’m afraid that he will steal my man and show him a whole new level of goodness ☝️😃

    • @foxyboop4164
      @foxyboop4164 4 года назад +47

      🤣 Nobody can steal what's meant for you!

    • @SuperProverb31
      @SuperProverb31 4 года назад +37

      If he take your man your man wanted a man in the first place!

    • @muchlove9781
      @muchlove9781 4 года назад +45

      @@SuperProverb31 Of course he wants a man... I am a man 🤣

    • @kalyatime5219
      @kalyatime5219 3 года назад +23

      @@muchlove9781 I just hollered at this 🤣

    • @nibblesrule8866
      @nibblesrule8866 3 года назад +3

      @@muchlove9781 this one had me like like a clutched fist

  • @reginafalconer7585
    @reginafalconer7585 5 лет назад +22

    The best advice I have heard from a man in a long time… I am learning even at my age of 64 how to recreate the desire in someone for being around me and overcoming any obstacles

  • @gean5826
    @gean5826 4 года назад +351

    Who’s watching during quarantine 🙋🏻‍♀️💕

    • @CersiB
      @CersiB 4 года назад +2

      🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @melanieestrada7829
      @melanieestrada7829 4 года назад

      This comment was posted 8 months ago and we are still in quarantine 😩

  • @youtubenutzer1263
    @youtubenutzer1263 3 года назад +45

    This man KNOWS what he’s talking about!!! My ex was my support system, makes me feel valuable, and I still miss him :(

  • @ladyalison2011
    @ladyalison2011 4 года назад +366

    I'm tucked in and it's like we're having a sleepover 🤣

    • @musicallinda21
      @musicallinda21 3 года назад +6

      Loved this!! Lol same!😂😂💯

    • @sal4538
      @sal4538 3 года назад +2

      Same!

    • @Monique-nl8dv
      @Monique-nl8dv 3 года назад +3

      Too cute 🥰 That’s me now LOL 😂

    • @yve4889
      @yve4889 3 года назад +1

      I literally forgot I was in my bed until I saw this comment 😭😭😂

    • @corinnemorrill2904
      @corinnemorrill2904 3 года назад

      Lol best ever

  • @Only_1Gail_11
    @Only_1Gail_11 4 года назад +28

    U have a VERY captivating personality, so refreshing.

  • @marydavis184
    @marydavis184 5 лет назад +22

    Young man my mother gave me similar advise 50 years ago but your delivery is better...I hope your viewers listen..👵

  • @diamondunicorn2421
    @diamondunicorn2421 4 года назад +91

    I totally agree MJ. Just a note.. make sure your his peace if he’s not your nightmare. 😗

    • @canwejustloveeachother2550
      @canwejustloveeachother2550 3 года назад +5

      This part. Because several women are this and then some but they will get this from several women and still hurt all of them

  • @sabrinacarriveau3420
    @sabrinacarriveau3420 3 года назад +4

    Yeah I realized that I was not doing my workout and skincare routine and I just started doing it again and I realized how much better I felt. He now compliments me more and says that I’m more happy

    • @rchpahmedaahmed3703
      @rchpahmedaahmed3703 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back

    • @rchpahmedaahmed3703
      @rchpahmedaahmed3703 3 года назад

      Wh'stapp me

    • @rchpahmedaahmed3703
      @rchpahmedaahmed3703 3 года назад

      +19725348399💞⏯

  • @janellewhiskey1895
    @janellewhiskey1895 5 лет назад +14

    Beautiful personality, beautiful skin, beautiful face, beautiful man.

  • @yrbyana3945
    @yrbyana3945 4 года назад +1507

    I love gay men 😭🥰 They ARE THE BEST‼️

    • @miaaaaaaaaaa219
      @miaaaaaaaaaa219 4 года назад +12

      Me too i Love this Guy 😍😍😍

    • @faithmabiletsa694
      @faithmabiletsa694 4 года назад +37

      Gay men have that lit vibe😘❤️

    • @AvonnaVentura
      @AvonnaVentura 4 года назад +31

      @Bridgette Machuca Right. I was about to say the samething. Not all definitely not all. Some have bad attitudes and negative energy and bad vibes smh.

    • @TheAnashea
      @TheAnashea 4 года назад

      Onb ❗️😭

    • @lbrigh6
      @lbrigh6 4 года назад +26

      Me too. I'm a flight attendant. 70% of the guys I work with are gay. Mostly cheer me up and 2 of them became my dearest friends, like family. I love their energy and being friends with a man who is not trying to get in my pants.

  • @sidneyshacora8987
    @sidneyshacora8987 5 лет назад +30

    Such great advice! I’m married and it is so easy to get comfortable.

  • @akstylez_ak5037
    @akstylez_ak5037 Год назад +1

    This is by far the best knowledge. That last one is exactly where men will fall for you because you’ve been their support. And at times, the 4 things mentioned before would not even matter. Number 4 is key.

  • @Stephystacey
    @Stephystacey 4 года назад +297

    nobody:
    MJ: “GET IN HERE GET IN HERE”
    ugh I love him!!!

  • @samairakaul4984
    @samairakaul4984 4 года назад +55

    "and then you will be left where you started, without a man'' hit me hard

  • @PrettiRissa
    @PrettiRissa 5 лет назад +47

    Okayyy! “I come with testimonials my dear” ❤️

  • @jasminellemaiden2233
    @jasminellemaiden2233 3 года назад +13

    Never mind the strategies he gave us. MJ Harris makes us addicted to himself. His gestures and facial expressions are so unique that I only watch the way he speaks :)

  • @fairydust950
    @fairydust950 4 года назад +86

    Masculine men want to teach you things!! I freaking love this! Sometimes I think us women think this is mansplaining or like he thinks we're dumb.. Took me a looong time to get this about men. Now I think it's a wonderful quality :) xox

    • @savageaf.donttrip.8070
      @savageaf.donttrip.8070 3 года назад +13

      Mansplaining comes from a toxic place of mysogyny and sexism. Teaching someone something is tottaly different.

    • @agboolamercy4696
      @agboolamercy4696 3 года назад +1

      @@savageaf.donttrip.8070 👏🏽

  • @gessieckah3513
    @gessieckah3513 4 года назад +25

    im clapping and slapping. i feel you're literally in my room slamming this speech and i love it.

    • @Tof235
      @Tof235 4 года назад

      Hahaha such a wholesome comment 😂😍

  • @LeLeZ1982
    @LeLeZ1982 5 лет назад +120

    “Im not trying to recommend that you become some kind of Deceptacon” 🤣🤣🤣 Love this guy!

  • @user-jz5ok7mf5g
    @user-jz5ok7mf5g 3 года назад +56

    This video is EVERYTHING! Thank you, you are powerful and I completely agree with everything you are saying. ESPECIALLY talking about not being a crutch but a supportive partner giving them the ability to heal on their own!

    • @antoniojane1548
      @antoniojane1548 3 года назад

      hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back

    • @antoniojane1548
      @antoniojane1548 3 года назад

      whatzapp

    • @antoniojane1548
      @antoniojane1548 3 года назад

      +2 3 4 9 0 5 9 7 8 2 7 9 3

  • @cocovalentine9201
    @cocovalentine9201 5 лет назад +27

    Yasssss hunty! You just got a new Sista friend... I loveeeee your enthusiasm and your energy.

  • @gwill3097
    @gwill3097 5 лет назад +132

    This is the BEST! advice I've EVER heard (and I'm a SINGLE woman of a certain age 🙄) it all make sense now...

    • @pamelarobinson2130
      @pamelarobinson2130 5 лет назад +2

      Yes girl it do..

    • @jorgecraver6202
      @jorgecraver6202 5 лет назад +8

      Certain age 🙄..........🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you made my day

    • @shamekajones709
      @shamekajones709 5 лет назад

      So much sense!!

    • @navyjohnes
      @navyjohnes 5 лет назад +8

      Oh that single woman/man of a certain age is something deep. You / we took the time to educate ourselves, love ourselves so we can love others. And focusing on being the best person that we can be overall. One day we wake up- - and we are that woman or man of a certain age. Intimidating to most - and for no real reason at all because each 1 can teach one. But that of a certain age Syndrome is something deep. ..

  • @mob6409
    @mob6409 5 лет назад +135

    MJ.... that melanin is POPPIN!!😍 you are so wonderful to look at and listen to. Love me some you!🥰

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Год назад +4

    *Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction* 🥰

  • @JessicaJNV
    @JessicaJNV 5 лет назад +95

    I’m in a happy long term relationship but I came across this video and you definitely made me smile! You are such a bright ball of good vibes and I agree with everything you said! Love that it’s not a “how to manipulate a man” video (seen a lot of those on RUclips). You are great! ❤️

  • @JoJo1g8xi
    @JoJo1g8xi 4 года назад +7

    Love this! Been with my husband for 20 years and still want to be the only one he looks at! Great tips

  • @muminamahdi
    @muminamahdi 4 года назад +8

    6yr married I wish I found this a long time ago but I'm here now

  • @gothicbirdie
    @gothicbirdie 4 года назад +10

    Yo, this guy popped up on my feed and oh my lawd I can't get enough of his engery. I love his vibe

  • @anitriamg
    @anitriamg 5 лет назад +258

    Soooo I did everything you listed and he lied 🤥 and used me. So I know he wasn’t the one .... it was my practice run. 🙌🏾😇😜🥰

    • @charosafford2408
      @charosafford2408 4 года назад +16

      Same. Don't worry though just be ready for your Husband. He will treat you 1,000 times better than any man has ever treated you. 🙌🏾😇😜🥰

    • @missyhandson9649
      @missyhandson9649 4 года назад +6

      Darling that energy tops it all 🙌🏾🤗 can I be your friend

    • @bridykes9986
      @bridykes9986 4 года назад +6

      He wasn't it babe he will come when u least expect it trust me it happened to me

    • @anitriamg
      @anitriamg 4 года назад +3

      @@missyhandson9649 Yesss 😇💯🙌😘always and forever!!!

    • @itsarimelissa
      @itsarimelissa 4 года назад +10

      Girl, he did you a favour, he was just there to teach you what you won't settle for 🤭

  • @fdxfield
    @fdxfield 4 года назад +201

    I loved this! My fiance is extremely masculine Puerto Rican, Machismo. His mood changes this year have had me frustrated and confused. Causing conflict and struggle. As I was hearing you, I knew that these are the things that he likes. I actually started crying because I've been resistant in giving these things to him because of the "feminine movement" and looking for equality. This video helped me realize that his mood swings are because he loves me but I have pulled back from being the woman that makes him feel like the man he wants to be. Thank you for reinstating and explaining why all these things are so important to men. I feel selfish for putting unnecessary stress on our relationship and I hope, now that I have clarity, I can repair some of the damage. Key items I noticed in the video - I've caught him doing the smell test, lol. So true. He has expressed excitement over a smell I've used after I shower. Check! He loves to be heard and to be rubbed. On point!! He will flex and look to me for comments. Yep! And he always always says he desires peace above all else. I thought that I was being weak by doing all these things for him but I now see that without them, it's causing him to push away. I really really needed to hear you today! Great video.

  • @marialopresto7943
    @marialopresto7943 4 года назад +33

    I did all this naturally. I didn't know this is why I've been asked to married them. I just haven't been with the right guy.

  • @moniquehunt4475
    @moniquehunt4475 3 года назад +21

    Okay, the Deceptacon statement, I’m weak on the floor! 😂😂😂😂👏🏽

  • @sylvanialyons1904
    @sylvanialyons1904 5 лет назад +36

    Ok I’m 51 yrs young and your definitely my favorite niece💕

    • @robinbanks3806
      @robinbanks3806 5 лет назад +2

      Hey Peer...51 right there with you and I'm digging this advice!!!👍

  • @alvinsmith8746
    @alvinsmith8746 5 лет назад +7

    That peace part is important but Man do I struggle the most. I have a stressful job and The first person I see gets it. Smh Working on that balance.

  • @thelifeofjear5927
    @thelifeofjear5927 5 лет назад +89

    I love him 😂❤️ he’s too much!

    • @hesthatbitch314
      @hesthatbitch314 5 лет назад

      Just Jear you’re too little !!

    • @thelifeofjear5927
      @thelifeofjear5927 5 лет назад +1

      NATHANIEL REID lmao you’re right! With my little ass 😇

  • @deannanicole219
    @deannanicole219 4 года назад +14

    Definitely have hit the “Are we moving to fast” part in the relationship. I totally agree on keep doing the things that make you special.

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      @nijayjnijay5927 4 года назад

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      @nijayjnijay5927 4 года назад

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  • @ukachinikki
    @ukachinikki 5 лет назад +43

    whole time watching this video i was like PERIODD

  • @user-pe2lw1ze8i
    @user-pe2lw1ze8i 4 года назад +39

    Perfect timing. I appreciate your tips. This guy I like told me that he loved jasmine because it grew at his childhood home. I bought some jasmine oil yesterday. Sneaky sneaky. Haha

  • @sarahbaker6990
    @sarahbaker6990 4 года назад +19

    I am loving his vibe. Smile and everything about him❤

  • @Denisebemmett
    @Denisebemmett 2 года назад +1

    Great tips. Smelling fresh is so true. When I know the scent he likes, it's in every Crack. It's so true to be attentive to what a man is saying. He will cherish you. Blessings. So true. You have beautiful skin.

  • @zarisafari4744
    @zarisafari4744 5 лет назад +52

    I love his energy! Yes mammmmm! 🌈❤️

  • @FeliciaElsa
    @FeliciaElsa 4 года назад +23

    I would be surprise if this man is not a Libra. Like... this is Libra energy! I can recognize us from a mile away. Everything he said, from start to finish were on point. The mind is a powerful tool. There is this figure of style in French poetry that is called a "Litote". It's when you say less (or little) to suggest more. This has been defining me for as long as I can remember. You have to be subtle and act with purpose. Awake his senses. Give him not too much, but just enough to make his imagination runs wild.

    • @SuperMelrose1
      @SuperMelrose1 3 года назад +1

      I say this all the time, girl! We libras have something connecting us, you can feel it. I would also be surprised if he’s not

    • @laurencealvarado9958
      @laurencealvarado9958 3 года назад

      Definitely an Espersgus.

    • @MermaidV666
      @MermaidV666 3 года назад

      Libra vibes definitely 🥰😂

  • @sharondotson7027
    @sharondotson7027 4 года назад +11

    I love how you said, " you got some miles on you" that is so me too. I have been married a lot of times and never got to wear the white dress. I love your advice. I am learning.

  • @ThinkPink1309
    @ThinkPink1309 2 года назад +1

    Wow.. and he said it's so kindly and and respectfully I love the way he said. " don't stop doing the things that you love because that's what attracted him to you

  • @heathercj8862
    @heathercj8862 5 лет назад +11

    Wish I subscribed months ago before my marriage breakup. All the things he say I never did are on pointe in this channel.

  • @bellalee6927
    @bellalee6927 2 года назад +3

    MJ,you're dropping some gems. Women wake up,and listen to this. My Mom,never talked about any of this. She was always argumentative and want to fuss and fight. I grew up,that way and I'm learning so much in my later years of life. Thank you,for this content MJ. Ladies better learn. Blessings to you.

  • @morganrosalyn
    @morganrosalyn 4 года назад +61

    "I COME WITH TESTIMONIALS" I felt that lol

  • @ennisja
    @ennisja 2 года назад

    My brother brought me here...I came for the smile and the glowing skin.. After listening you dropping them diamonds. you have a new subscriber

  • @genevajackson7403
    @genevajackson7403 5 лет назад +28

    You got me listening and sharing the content to my daughters, trust your instincts. I say that all the time, God will give you what you want to know and see!!

  • @missyfw3
    @missyfw3 3 года назад +3

    His personality is addictive!! Luv luv this guy!!

    • @lalademomoru6123
      @lalademomoru6123 3 года назад

      Hello Don't worry anymore sweetheart, I will introduce you to Dr Gabriel, the greatest relationship restorer from America 🇺🇸 that helped me get my ex back in less than 2 days, He will also help you too.

    • @lalademomoru6123
      @lalademomoru6123 3 года назад

      +1 2 4 9 2 0 0 6 7 0 1💕....

  • @brendaannelovesjesus
    @brendaannelovesjesus 5 лет назад +23

    Wow! I love you MJ!!! I am so happy that I fell upon you!!! You’re amazing!!! Al I want to do is only watch your videos now! I smile and you make me feel so happy when I watch you! 😘😘😘

  • @elsab5782
    @elsab5782 Год назад

    I love that. Don’t give him all the answers, just give him support and a shoulder to rest on ❤

  • @reneem7094
    @reneem7094 4 года назад +37

    I really like a lot of the things you said.. especially about asking to give advice rather than blurting it out. I didn't realise why a simple conversation always seem to turn into a battle. What you said made so much sense.

  • @ishtar8725
    @ishtar8725 4 года назад +73

    This man is ASMR in person 😂😍

    • @lukarandy7676
      @lukarandy7676 4 года назад

      I'm a living testimony .... I want to introduce you to a great man and a personality who is a relationship expert and genius he help fix broken 💔 relationship.. Very very fast... ...

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      @lukarandy7676 4 года назад

      Text and inbox on whatapp and appreciate later..

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  • @ElaraHart
    @ElaraHart 4 года назад +58

    All the things you said in this video are things I have done naturally and I remember my last boyfriend had an addiction to hugging me because I always smell good.. He used to call our dates or time together "happy time"! I didn't know I was doing this 5 tricks until now 😂 it's just the way I am with my man

    • @g0rdies
      @g0rdies 4 года назад +5

      What's the perfume, girl?

    • @ElaraHart
      @ElaraHart 4 года назад +7

      @@g0rdies Olimpea by Paco Rabanne or Interdit by Givenchy

    • @esmeraldabandz8652
      @esmeraldabandz8652 3 года назад

      so sweeeet!!!

  • @lovemarian63
    @lovemarian63 3 года назад +10

    CHIIILD I NEED TO LISTEN TO A VIDEO A DAY AT THIS POINT! Constant reminders are so necessary at this point honey! I appreciate you MJ ♥️♥️

  • @victoriamadrid5276
    @victoriamadrid5276 5 лет назад +17

    Every time I watch ur videos, I feel like leave with a pocket full of sunshine! 🌞

  • @michellepecson9627
    @michellepecson9627 5 лет назад +10

    Im so addicted watching you video and I love it. I'm in new relationship right now and I want him to see me not a clingy gf. Thanks for all the advice❤️

  • @DurantSearcy
    @DurantSearcy 5 лет назад +737

    Your skin tho’....is that from drinking lots of water, a good oil, or just an ‘I’m rich’ glow? Lol. #Beautiful

    • @IMarie-xs5dg
      @IMarie-xs5dg 5 лет назад +22

      Durant Searcy Yassssss! Skin is on point! ❤️✌🏽🥰🌈🌈❤️

    • @Newyearhey
      @Newyearhey 5 лет назад +72

      I'm tryna get a I'm rich glow lol

    • @queenie_the_virgo
      @queenie_the_virgo 5 лет назад +19

      Durant Searcy all of em’😆

    • @rileysmiley2910
      @rileysmiley2910 5 лет назад +20

      I concur...so radiant and classy

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 5 лет назад +2

      Lighting