14 Common Negotiation Mistakes

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @VALUETAINMENT
    @VALUETAINMENT  5 лет назад +14

    Share your thoughts with Patrick Bet-David by texting 310.340.1132 or click here my.community.com/patrickbetdavid

    • @theunvoicedvoice
      @theunvoicedvoice 4 года назад

      Wow, I didn't realize some of these mistakes were so common. I will pay closer attention to the recordings of my closing calls and review them more in-depth.
      Thank you for the awesome video Pat. It has helped me elevate my thinking and awareness.

  • @Morphick
    @Morphick 7 лет назад +74

    Best entrepreneur channel on YT 👌

  • @dahabka5900
    @dahabka5900 6 лет назад +14

    I learn English by listening to you brother everyday. At lest I watch 5 video every. Big respect my brother.
    God bless you

  • @shaunonsite
    @shaunonsite 7 лет назад +7

    I can relate to this because I made a lot of these mistakes around this time last year. I tried to negotiate with an agent of a model in Japan. I met the model herself and she was amazing. Thing is, I had to deal with her agency and her manager. This is when the lesson began.
    I went in too hard instead of getting to know the manager.
    I didn't know as much about the client like I thought I did.
    Was in the business for myself instead of all parties.
    Tried to do long term through crappy methods.
    Took it too personal after it fell through.
    Took zero interest in the manager's life story (which was interesting after the fact)
    Was SUPER impatient.
    As bad as it felt, it was an important lesson for me to learn to get better. Thanks for this, Patrick!

  • @johnnydaytrader1942
    @johnnydaytrader1942 7 лет назад +8

    Can you make a video of going in depth about the three options idea? Like 3 options in a vacation home what you're looking for. 3 options deciding on what car to buy. 3 options of what a certain deal can provide you. Etc.

  • @joelow63
    @joelow63 7 лет назад +87

    14 negotiating mistakes
    1letting emotion get in the way
    2 miscommunication
    3not enough research
    do4not getting their direct■■(talk to the source,ceo)■■■■■■
    5leverage know leverage
    6not listening
    7knowing when to leave time wise
    8too extreme soft/hard■■
    9not understanding personality■■■■■■■very important
    10letting people what you want in the deal time wise
    11caring too mych
    12focusing only on the money
    13trying to beat the other person
    14not seeking other options■■■always do
    know your BATNA
    best
    alternative
    to
    negotiated
    agreement
    so u have leverage

    • @ahmedkhayr8927
      @ahmedkhayr8927 6 лет назад +1

      Valuetainment, Can you please do a video on, 5 Best Books On the art of Negotiating.This would be greatly appreciated by me and many others.I truly appreciate all this free information. Keep the videos coming.

    • @samsonsson328
      @samsonsson328 6 лет назад

      Ahmed khayr this comment is a year old...

    • @56585656587
      @56585656587 6 лет назад +3

      You just saved me 12:54 of my life. Thank you.

  • @quarantinelife.
    @quarantinelife. 6 лет назад +22

    Your channel is so much value. I'm learning everyday.

  • @derekvillarreal5207
    @derekvillarreal5207 Год назад +4

    He has improved so much with his communication. Even though 5 yrs ago he was a top notch communicator

  • @sitifaizah9908
    @sitifaizah9908 4 года назад +70

    I like him, he doesn't have to swear and using the "F" word to teach.

    • @SWISSMUSICFC
      @SWISSMUSICFC 3 года назад +6

      Well that's happens when you stop listening to douchebags like Gary v! Control of vocabulary is a sign of intelligence!

    • @testicularhypertrophy
      @testicularhypertrophy 3 года назад +4

      It is just words lol

    • @malibudolphin3109
      @malibudolphin3109 2 года назад

      @@testicularhypertrophy no its a filler word of a dumbass who tries to sound tougher than the yellow belly is

    • @karabomothupi9759
      @karabomothupi9759 Год назад +2

      Like Gary Vee?

    • @TooLiveHam
      @TooLiveHam Год назад +2

      It's pretty fuckin necessary

  • @RajBeats
    @RajBeats 5 лет назад +14

    This is another fantastic (and easily digestible) video. I'm getting tremendous value from you Pat. Thanks so much!!

  • @rafiqlnk
    @rafiqlnk 7 лет назад +1

    This is easily the most valuable channel in RUclips when it comes to bussiness

  • @RonHarveySC
    @RonHarveySC 7 лет назад +7

    before i head over to the next valutainment video, i have to say; what Pat just delivered here is pure gold. if you are planning on running a big $ biz (like I am), then learn this stuff.

  • @EstudioLatinoMX
    @EstudioLatinoMX 7 лет назад +2

    I have a special notebook named valuetainment. I take notes from these videos. This is a great classroom. And Patt is a great teacher.

    • @joshmiller4152
      @joshmiller4152 3 года назад

      Very smart. Good luck in your business endeavors. You will do well.

  • @olgalevchenko3023
    @olgalevchenko3023 5 лет назад +3

    Great tips, as always. I just can add my trick. Mirror people. If they speak slowly- you slow down. If they fast- you try to speak faster. Thats what I call being on the same wave:-) Always works!

  • @viratchhikara992
    @viratchhikara992 7 лет назад +50

    Pat, what stocks do you own?
    Can we see some stock market related videos in the near future?

    • @viratchhikara992
      @viratchhikara992 7 лет назад +9

      joscmc No thanks. I am only interested in stocks.

    • @Adam-td7xy
      @Adam-td7xy 7 лет назад

      i dont think you understand cryptocurrencies. They go up and down like stocks. You REALLY should at least learn about them

    • @lassi3401
      @lassi3401 7 лет назад +2

      Virat Chhikara Never take stock tips from ANYONE else!

    • @whatevergoesforme5129
      @whatevergoesforme5129 6 лет назад +1

      Dan Lok said to invest in something you understand. Plus you need to study the market trends and how a company performs. If one asks about what stock to invest in, then that means, that person is uninformed and did not do his/her research and will probably lose money or gain money through luck.

    • @mulutlewatmulut718
      @mulutlewatmulut718 6 лет назад

      @@joscmc thank him still? Pat doesn't do crypto and look at the value of crypto now. LoL. Hope you re okay man. 19k down to 3K wow... It will even go worse to $50 ... I will buy that when it goes so low. Thank me later

  • @Dim4ik2012
    @Dim4ik2012 4 года назад +2

    Pat, I am so happy to found this channel. Your hard work inspiring me a lot

  • @varuntilwani6163
    @varuntilwani6163 7 лет назад

    and I'm glad tht people like you are existing in this world

  • @patrickp8446
    @patrickp8446 6 лет назад

    #9 on personalities was great, I like the candidness of interrupting the interrupter.

  • @gu17aman
    @gu17aman Год назад

    After watching this video. I know what mistakes I have made in my previous deals. Well explained. Thanks

  • @Iamjoemedley
    @Iamjoemedley 6 месяцев назад

    Very insightful and straightforward ❤

  • @springfieldselected
    @springfieldselected 4 года назад

    #1 is so important and overlooked

  • @davistado7268
    @davistado7268 6 лет назад +3

    this guy videos carries with em great value for business people, good work!

  • @harshkabra7645
    @harshkabra7645 7 лет назад +2

    I was just finishing this book called GAIN THE EDGE! By Martin E Latz.
    And this video popped up.
    Helped a lot, THANKS

  • @hotchills9925
    @hotchills9925 2 года назад

    2022 here we are....found this information so helpful.

  • @georgeg2369
    @georgeg2369 4 года назад

    Pat da man
    Gift to entrepreneurs

  • @soniagupta781
    @soniagupta781 Год назад

    Thankyou Pat, it was indeed a valuable video

  • @justmeandmy
    @justmeandmy Год назад

    Dude I miss these kinds of videos. They had a sort of simplicity, charm, and good deep lessons

  • @avellinemochoge5561
    @avellinemochoge5561 7 лет назад

    good every day energizer. good message to keep entrepreneurs going.

  • @octavianpiano694
    @octavianpiano694 7 лет назад

    This is by far the best video about marketing i;ve seen in my entire life.

  • @ahmedkhayr8927
    @ahmedkhayr8927 6 лет назад +1

    Valuetainment, Can you please do a video on, 5 Best Books On the art of Negotiating.This would be greatly appreciated by me and many others.I truly appreciate all this free information. Keep the videos coming.

  • @JasonPaulRogers
    @JasonPaulRogers 5 лет назад

    Excellent video

  • @kachaso
    @kachaso 5 лет назад

    Always a great video with Pat

  • @coachiwuaba514
    @coachiwuaba514 7 лет назад +32

    I'm going to take over the fitness Industry with this information 😁

  • @cobblestonenegotiations6872
    @cobblestonenegotiations6872 2 года назад

    Great video with the most usual negotiation mistakes people make. I personally think that most people talk too much, trying to out-negotiate the other side. Pat mentioned the mistake of not listening, and I would add another one related to this: People too often break the silence, which means when they say their offer, instead of being silent, they continue talking to justify it, and by doing it they achieve exactly the opposite result - the offer loses credibility.

  • @NestorMaravi
    @NestorMaravi 3 года назад

    Thank you for Sharing. Emotional intelligence is so important!

  • @NestorMaravi
    @NestorMaravi 3 года назад

    I have pretty much made all of these mistakeS. Thank you for sharing. Valuable information!

  • @mountaincenang6537
    @mountaincenang6537 5 лет назад

    My man I salute you , you are the big boss , you have put sense into our head. My Eyes has opened . bless you brooo! For sharing!

  • @danielm6263
    @danielm6263 7 лет назад +4

    I try to watch your videos before I go to the gym trying to work towards a goal at the gym and your videos really motivate me to do more, and helping me with more things for my future.

  • @Ayushkumar-cv3er
    @Ayushkumar-cv3er 7 лет назад +1

    this video will really help me in my rookie career

  • @dkrejorgonzal4805
    @dkrejorgonzal4805 7 лет назад

    Best source in youtube!!

  • @Faisalkhan-hy8fu
    @Faisalkhan-hy8fu 7 лет назад

    Pat,you are the best my man.. it's so wise and so awesome of you to share all these things with us..And most importantly for free!.
    Thanks a lot man..
    I wish I can repay you back or the society in some way or the other..

  • @romariorofina7659
    @romariorofina7659 7 лет назад

    growing! the channel is growing!

  • @gautami6322
    @gautami6322 2 года назад

    Thank you!!!

  • @alejandrohpcb
    @alejandrohpcb 3 года назад

    great video. I also recommend 'Never Split the Difference'. best negotiation book Ive read, and implemented

  • @timvakulich2223
    @timvakulich2223 7 лет назад +1

    man all these regulations ,,, that I'm only 15 years old and wanna be part of a business. its stopping me from learning sometimes...I dont wanna wait for a certain age ...📚🙏🔥🔥🔥love your stuff Patrick

  • @anthonywandowicz8084
    @anthonywandowicz8084 6 лет назад

    Number 13 I will admit is extremely important. Burning a bridge might feel good st the moment but what feels better is potentially benefiting down the road.

  • @mikeashchian
    @mikeashchian 5 лет назад

    Learning something every day on your channel. Thanks!

  • @kaysong4015
    @kaysong4015 6 лет назад +7

    Great tactics! Thank you. Getting back in the ring with my kid with these negotiating skills now. ;) Greetings from Germany!

  • @alpha-yw1mw
    @alpha-yw1mw 7 лет назад

    love your videos

  • @sentanunw
    @sentanunw Год назад

    Thankyou Pat!

  • @APerez89
    @APerez89 3 года назад

    PAT SHOW US HOW TO FOLLOW UP WITH CLIENTS AFTER A SALES BID WHEN THEY ARE GOING THRU A CRISIS !

  • @akshay6361
    @akshay6361 5 лет назад

    Your content is so to the point. And your context is impressive. Idn why there are so less views.

  • @2488samantha
    @2488samantha 2 года назад

    Love your videos I'm trying to start my own business but have never run a business, Should I work for someone else first to get experience? I don't want to work for anyone else I'm tired of someone else controlling my paycheck, I want to start a different kind of business that no one around me is doing, that's my leverage no competition. What would you suggest? I have little cash to start

  • @ei8htbernal
    @ei8htbernal 6 лет назад

    You didn't even have to ask me to hit the like and subscribe buttons and 3 minutes in I smashed tf outta them. Perfect delivery of information. Thank you Pat!

  • @DJSUELTO1
    @DJSUELTO1 2 года назад

    This is so helpful

  • @hezo4534
    @hezo4534 5 лет назад

    Thank you. Patrick.

  • @ohhRobs
    @ohhRobs 7 лет назад

    Gonna use these tactics for cold calling thanks Pat!

  • @Zkullz69
    @Zkullz69 2 года назад +1

    What a difference the hair makes. Here Pat looks like he wants to sell me work out formula. Today he looks so much more professional.

  • @roark09
    @roark09 7 лет назад

    This is just gold..

  • @tomm.5191
    @tomm.5191 7 лет назад +162

    Who the hell dislikes these videos?

    • @basedexo119
      @basedexo119 7 лет назад +27

      Haters and jealous people I guess. Can't find a single reason to hate on these free videos myself tbh, some people could ask for money for these jewels PBD is dropping on a weekly basis.

    • @carloslara3346
      @carloslara3346 7 лет назад +7

      there are bots that go around youtube disliking videos. thats why no matter how great a video is, if it is well know it will have dislikes

    • @richardfry5991
      @richardfry5991 7 лет назад +1

      Not everyone learns the same way.

    • @calisthenicschicken8812
      @calisthenicschicken8812 7 лет назад +37

      The people who are trying to sell $5000 courses.

    • @dafakeshai5111
      @dafakeshai5111 7 лет назад +4

      loooool I was just thinking that too

  • @georgefruean8276
    @georgefruean8276 4 года назад

    Thanks Pat. Really helped uso

  • @mustafadayan2049
    @mustafadayan2049 7 лет назад

    Pat - Always great videos!

  • @rorycavanagh5475
    @rorycavanagh5475 Месяц назад

    I really like #13 trying to beat the other person. It’s interesting because you can screw the other person down as much as possible, but how do you get the best long term arrangement?

  • @praveenModlier
    @praveenModlier 5 лет назад

    Good compilation.. Useful tips.

  • @jikandlela181
    @jikandlela181 7 лет назад

    thank u Pat, this is best information for a budding entrepreneurs and companies
    one love from Zimbabwe, Africa

  • @Jojo-hr7il
    @Jojo-hr7il 7 лет назад +2

    one more great content, thank you, pat.

  • @brandonseenath2088
    @brandonseenath2088 6 лет назад

    I love your videos. They are so helpful

  • @yashdiwan5426
    @yashdiwan5426 5 лет назад

    Please make a detailed video on negotiation

  • @atsporty
    @atsporty 5 лет назад

    Good content and very well presented

  • @Camcentral4532
    @Camcentral4532 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks.

  • @jasonbean7296
    @jasonbean7296 7 лет назад

    great tips, thanks.

  • @CabdiraxmanQoys
    @CabdiraxmanQoys 7 лет назад

    thanks I liked the family examples you talked about

  • @alexmotors8289
    @alexmotors8289 6 лет назад

    Awesome video!!!!! Always learning something new!!!! Thank you..

  • @kgpublicationsinc
    @kgpublicationsinc 3 года назад

    It came up on my feed AT JUST THE RIGHT TIME!!! lol!!!😄 #forwardmotion #upwardandonward #slayinit

  • @fpolarrrr
    @fpolarrrr 5 лет назад

    Helps alot

  • @BECIELOFFICIAL
    @BECIELOFFICIAL 6 лет назад

    TREE OPTIONS 🌲 🌲!!!

  • @Seth-xi7ox
    @Seth-xi7ox 7 лет назад

    Knowing your BATNA is priceless. Thank you so much for the info!!

  • @thirdworldfilmaking8334
    @thirdworldfilmaking8334 7 лет назад +2

    Your videos Pat are very useful not only on business but it is applicable also on daily life of a person. Cheers Man!!!

  • @AnthonyMartinez-hs6rv
    @AnthonyMartinez-hs6rv 7 лет назад

    It's the former Marine again. Love your vids and I share them as well. I go to school full time and started my mobile detailing business that also donates to the troops. I'm learning to close sales I just started a RUclips channel to get attention but my question is to scale a profitable business is it just promoting and building relations and selling daily? For the survival stages for 2plus years?

  • @andreastevens3146
    @andreastevens3146 7 лет назад

    Very good .

  • @Williamggs
    @Williamggs 7 лет назад

    Great video pat, thank you

  • @stefanpr4
    @stefanpr4 5 лет назад

    Hey Pat, I’m interested would you be willing to do an update on this video or go into more length about this topic from some examples/case studies. Love your work mate!

  • @chetanasin9150
    @chetanasin9150 3 года назад

    Thanks

  • @syednadeemmuhammed5675
    @syednadeemmuhammed5675 6 лет назад

    I love the valuable advice you have given in this video. Thanks.

  • @paramvala
    @paramvala 7 лет назад +3

    Hello Patrick, fascinating content really helped me learn.
    Thank you for your effort

  • @madanmohan4817
    @madanmohan4817 7 лет назад

    Great video. Thank you

  • @Illumibuddy
    @Illumibuddy 5 лет назад

    Great advice thank you!!

  • @yvonneruvinski8065
    @yvonneruvinski8065 7 лет назад

    Negotiation means the process of discussing something with someone in order to reach an agreement with them, or the discussions themselves.

  • @RCh.1
    @RCh.1 4 года назад

    All in good time, Pat! Thanks for your excellent effort 🙏🏻

  • @VaqueroSolar
    @VaqueroSolar 7 лет назад

    Pat- you're a genius man. Your changing lives sir. Thank you.

  • @shivamandani5287
    @shivamandani5287 6 лет назад

    Thankyou for this video.

  • @jimsystem
    @jimsystem 5 лет назад

    Pat that was a fantastic video, thanks so much for all your good stuff that you share with us

  • @PGA911
    @PGA911 7 лет назад

    Amazingly smooth plug!

  • @RahulPahuja1991
    @RahulPahuja1991 7 лет назад

    Superb!

  • @MetalMan6772
    @MetalMan6772 6 лет назад

    dude this video is f*****g GOLD I SWEAR

  • @Izzysai
    @Izzysai 7 лет назад

    This is solid information. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom.

  • @mohammedhashim7668
    @mohammedhashim7668 7 лет назад

    Pure gold

  • @johnhoude1340
    @johnhoude1340 4 года назад

    My three life options. Wife in the Morning. Work during the day. Patrick in the evening. The Dog is not an option, she always gets her walk!

  • @princeedwardmukukuwanda6295
    @princeedwardmukukuwanda6295 7 лет назад

    Thank you man, we learned a lot from you

  • @lastcall9998
    @lastcall9998 5 лет назад

    Mate, I loved this video, very good insight and lessons. Cheers.