End Of My Having Babies Era | Ellie and Jared

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  • Hi guys. We've been sitting down for the last while reflecting on parenthood. It's important to recognize the changes in life, and today - we are doing just that. We're saying goodbye to an era of our lives and refocus on another.
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Комментарии • 401

  • @ReaganWittney
    @ReaganWittney 8 месяцев назад +18

    Just sending deep love and empathy. ❤ Love you guys.

  • @theonlybeastfootballhighli5663
    @theonlybeastfootballhighli5663 9 месяцев назад +28

    Praying for you guys. My kids used to watch you and so I have watched you a little bit too. You’ve always seemed so sweet and genuine. I just wanted to let you know that we see you and we believe that you did what you could to help the kids.

  • @GreenGreenGrassofHome
    @GreenGreenGrassofHome 9 месяцев назад +3

    I lost my precious daddy a few years ago. Nothing matters but the memories. The laughs, the times together…the memories. Just keep making memories!

  • @alysiaricker747
    @alysiaricker747 9 месяцев назад +6

    It's going to be Ellies thriving Era !!! 🎉❤❤❤ Everything has a season!

  • @alicialawhun91
    @alicialawhun91 8 месяцев назад +10

    Ellie and Jared I just want you to know when you guys are ready to come back I'm going to be here. I miss you and your babies but I understand. Family comes first. I love you all. 💜💜💜

  • @meganwolf91
    @meganwolf91 9 месяцев назад +15

    Miss seeing videos , but I understand you need time to come to terms ❤ prayers to you all 🙏

  • @sunshinerae6
    @sunshinerae6 9 месяцев назад +6

    No more videos from you Ellie and Jared.
    I can understand that your finished with You tube.
    Enjoy your family and your lovely home.
    Stay happy and positive.
    I wish you both
    all the best ..
    🌈🌻🌈

  • @grannynoraswihart8565
    @grannynoraswihart8565 10 месяцев назад +89

    My advice is a 61-year-old woman with three grown children, and eight grandchildren. I looked back and one of the things I think about are that I followed through. If I said I was gonna do something I did it that’s really important to show children. Great vlog guys.

  • @gracemerez9148
    @gracemerez9148 8 месяцев назад +21

    I miss you guys, I bet June bug must be walking by now. Take whatever time you need to heal. Love you.

    • @AnnaNehls
      @AnnaNehls 8 месяцев назад +3

      She's not old enough but she might be an early walker

  • @ThatHowTo
    @ThatHowTo 9 месяцев назад +37

    Ellie and Jared, I just wanted to say I miss your smiling faces, but please take all the time you need and hold your babies tight ❤

    • @foxyred1015
      @foxyred1015 9 месяцев назад

      What happened?

    • @NoodlesDoodles-zb3uv
      @NoodlesDoodles-zb3uv 8 месяцев назад

      @@foxyred1015 They not having anymore babies
      They having family problems

  • @jackiehoward7300
    @jackiehoward7300 9 месяцев назад +52

    Ellie and Jared, I’m sorry for what your family has endured. I work in mental healthcare and I know how trauma effects the entire family. It’s really easy for others to judge. Praying for you all

    • @Caroline2208-ro8uh
      @Caroline2208-ro8uh 8 месяцев назад +4

      Did I miss something??? What happened?? 😢

    • @NoodlesDoodles-zb3uv
      @NoodlesDoodles-zb3uv 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Caroline2208-ro8uh They not having anymore babies
      They having family problems

    • @lisacrews9860
      @lisacrews9860 7 месяцев назад

      @@NoodlesDoodles-zb3uvnot entirely true

  • @oliviagraham2121
    @oliviagraham2121 8 месяцев назад +2

    I miss you guys so much, sending you and your family so much love❤️ take your time and comeback when your ready, we’ll be here whenever you are!

  • @turpinrachael
    @turpinrachael 10 месяцев назад +106

    I remember saying to my husband that we’ve spent all these years teaching our children how to not need us. We raised them to work hard and think independently, but it’s so hard to see them grow and fly away. It’s pure love and joy seeing our kids grow, but it pulls the heart strings.

    • @nancyfarkas3592
      @nancyfarkas3592 10 месяцев назад +5

      Your kids will always need you. For people to think they can teach their kids to not need them is truly sad!

  • @vloging_with_amanda
    @vloging_with_amanda 9 месяцев назад +9

    I have been here since Jackson was born and I can’t believe 😢 he is 9 years old ❤❤❤❤❤ love from uk 🇬🇧 keep up with the great work guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kacondon4
    @kacondon4 8 месяцев назад +1

    Rewatching videos cause I miss your faces and smiles 💓 hope to see you when you’re ready. Social media family loves y’all so much!

  • @Angela-he8wx
    @Angela-he8wx 8 месяцев назад +8

    I miss the Mecham family! Come back to RUclips!!

  • @mercedeslopez6910
    @mercedeslopez6910 8 месяцев назад +9

    Ellie Jared and family I love and support you You are all in my prayers. 🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️💜💜💜

  • @rafaelasilva2630
    @rafaelasilva2630 10 месяцев назад +16

    I used to watch you guys back when Jackson was learning to ride his little balance bike and now coming back seeing him at almost 9 is crazy! So happy for you guys and glad to see Ellie finally got her little girl she dreamed about for all of those years. All the best to you

  • @kyahhellstern9743
    @kyahhellstern9743 8 месяцев назад

    I love you guys so much. I been watching sense Jackson has been a baby. I love watching your videos because it helped so much for my own life. Your videos helped me so much during my brother’s cancer journey.

  • @deannacondo1720
    @deannacondo1720 8 месяцев назад +3

    Praying for you! 🙏

  • @cschrist90
    @cschrist90 9 месяцев назад +12

    Sending love and prayers ❤

  • @TheFashionRiot
    @TheFashionRiot 9 месяцев назад +60

    Ellie and Jared, I’ve watched you since I was pregnant with my first born. Jaxon and my son are the same age. Two months apart. You all always seemed so genuine. I’m really sorry you all are going through the family drama so publicly. Stay strong and I am praying for you two and the kids. We love you!

    • @lisathiessen3565
      @lisathiessen3565 8 месяцев назад

      I agree. But we have to remember that if Russell has not had the courage to get help , we would probably not have known about this until it was too late

  • @monicamaria2080
    @monicamaria2080 8 месяцев назад +6

    Miss you guys!! I hope you decide to come back to RUclips soon!

  • @kimkrebs1448
    @kimkrebs1448 8 месяцев назад +2

    We sure do miss you. I am praying and hoping you get to see your nieces and nephews. Nothing but love.

  • @jdmahaynes
    @jdmahaynes 9 месяцев назад +4

    I hope
    You all come back I miss you guys and how big Jennifer is getting ❤

  • @stephanieheinrich1578
    @stephanieheinrich1578 8 месяцев назад +19

    Miss you all so much. Thinking of you during this difficult time. ❤

  • @kathrynstewart5863
    @kathrynstewart5863 8 месяцев назад +10

    Is the Mormon religion really that strange?

  • @sn-vr9yh
    @sn-vr9yh 8 месяцев назад +26

    I am missing you guys! I understand the need to take a step away for a while, but I hope that you know how much love and support is waiting for you when you get back!

  • @jillbradshaw7220
    @jillbradshaw7220 9 месяцев назад +3

    I love you all
    Prayers for your family, for your peace, prayers for your comfort, prayers for your conditions.
    Heavenly Father knows how this all will end and in prayer i ask he surround your family with his special angels and guide you thru this chapter. ❤

  • @mauricebiddle5606
    @mauricebiddle5606 9 месяцев назад

    Sending love and pariys fir a steady recovery

  • @julietchristensen3957
    @julietchristensen3957 10 месяцев назад +20

    Bless your beautiful family at this time. 🙏🏻 I cannot really explain it well, but I hate seeing happy pictures or videos of people right before their world imploded. I am like," They didn't even know what was about to happen.... Ugh." 😭

    • @LeahFairfield
      @LeahFairfield 10 месяцев назад

      @@B-ch6ukwhat’s your point? You actually think they didn’t try to Fo something about it, just because they didn’t vlog it? How stupid are you? You clearly don’t know how hard it is to get justice for children.

    • @bkang
      @bkang 9 месяцев назад +3

      I agree 💔💔

  • @hani19702
    @hani19702 9 месяцев назад +3

    I'm sending love and hugs❤❤❤

  • @ElizabethJones777
    @ElizabethJones777 8 месяцев назад +4

    I really miss you guys!!!! 😭😭

  • @kelleyworsham9187
    @kelleyworsham9187 10 месяцев назад +6

    Helpful hint from a grandmother. Positive affirmation. You see and hear behavior you want from them you point it out. When you see or hear them work through problem solving with anger or jealousy. Let them know you see them trying. Always make your No no but before you do give them options. I also do a anger meter or how upset meter. This that your upset with you should try to be angry or mad for a little bit or go cry for a few about this but then let’s work it out when your ready to talk. Look at vocabulary you can give your children to help them express there selves. Managing emotions.

  • @carolynwilliams3255
    @carolynwilliams3255 8 месяцев назад +2

    I miss so much seeing your videos. Hope and praying all is well.

  • @NickyPeterson
    @NickyPeterson 9 месяцев назад +2

    I miss you guys. You are all in my prayers!

  • @cilenarabotinsky6155
    @cilenarabotinsky6155 9 месяцев назад +2

    I miss you guys ❤😢 praying for your whole family

  • @rawritsalexisss
    @rawritsalexisss 10 месяцев назад +209

    Ellie looks so relieved! She is glowing with this decision. Although it is bittersweet, I know we are about to get Ellie's thriving era!!! 🥰🥰

  • @rhondaouwenga7429
    @rhondaouwenga7429 8 месяцев назад +4

    Missing y'all! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @turnerknight3943
    @turnerknight3943 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you. Momma to 4 here
    11,7,5,2 and I reallllly needed to hear this... "patients"

  • @iamsnehanair
    @iamsnehanair 8 месяцев назад +3

    @EllieandJared I miss you guys. Please dont let this video be the end. Take the time away but please come back. Please..we are praying for you. We want to hear from you. Please come back.

    • @kimberlyearly8918
      @kimberlyearly8918 8 месяцев назад

      You say take time away but are begging them to come back. What if they decide to never come back? Will you be ok?

  • @RollwithLauren
    @RollwithLauren 9 месяцев назад +3

    Beautiful bittersweet vlog ❤😢😊🎉

  • @angela_flute52689
    @angela_flute52689 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love the bowling bumper analogy.

  • @emilyhigley8522
    @emilyhigley8522 9 месяцев назад +30

    Miss you guys so much! I know Christ has been with you all. Sending all the positive vibes, thoughts and prayers your way ❤❤❤

  • @juliewoollard8057
    @juliewoollard8057 8 месяцев назад +2

    I support all of your family Ellie. I know this hard for you right now. But you will always have my support. I love your family please keep vlogging

  • @aidam4367
    @aidam4367 9 месяцев назад +1

    The moment I realized my baby was not a baby no more was when I was shopping for him in the little kid section, the section where I would walk first thing when I’d enter the store. I couldn’t find his size anymore and that’s when I realized I have to move to the bigger kid section. I just stood for a few minutes staring at the clothes that he no longer will fit in anymore and kinda broke me that he’s growing up into a young boy 😭

  • @melissacase7554
    @melissacase7554 10 месяцев назад +3

    Love you guys❤❤❤❤❤

  • @MarittB
    @MarittB 10 месяцев назад +1

    Ellie , you are glowing 😍

  • @jenniferpeake8415
    @jenniferpeake8415 7 месяцев назад +2

    We miss you guys,, plz make more videos 😊

  • @tipsytrucosconfernandah2434
    @tipsytrucosconfernandah2434 7 месяцев назад

    Wow! Can’t believe I’ve been here since you guys where in journey of your fist baby 🥹 God bless you and your family ❤

  • @KimbaLoveAdams
    @KimbaLoveAdams 8 месяцев назад +2

    I miss u guys. I understand why u had to take a break, at least I hope it’s a break. But I really really miss ur family. Those of us who have been here know you guys and we love you and we support you. And I hope you come back when you are ready. I miss watching June Bug grow. She was so little. And ur boys! Omg they will be big boys before you know it and I don’t want to miss it! I’m wish you all well! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Crazy4carebear
    @Crazy4carebear 8 месяцев назад +2

    Miss watching yall

  • @amandakizer240
    @amandakizer240 9 месяцев назад +9

    Praying for you all! I hope things turn around and all of you come together for those babies. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @lindsay2721
    @lindsay2721 9 месяцев назад +4

    thinking about you guys xo sending love and peace your way

    • @katinadiep9268
      @katinadiep9268 8 месяцев назад +1

      If they check the comments from a distance I'm sure they will feel the support of their followers! ❤

  • @Mrs.Winegarden
    @Mrs.Winegarden 9 месяцев назад +1

    It is such a bitter sweet decision to make. My husband and I are currently pregnant with our last baby. The decision was something I never thought I'd come to, but something felt right about this decision. Younger me had the goal of 6-8 kids, and here I am stopping at 4. The Lord is so gracious and kind to us throughout our lives. Blessings to you, Mecham family!

  • @jackievanwyk6250
    @jackievanwyk6250 9 месяцев назад +28

    Sending you love and prayers in this difficult time. Knowing you guys, you are probably really taking your time to process and to decide how to respond to all of this. We will be here when you're ready.

    • @katinadiep9268
      @katinadiep9268 8 месяцев назад +2

      Same here. They've managed to grow this channel and uploaded regularly for years. They exude happiness. ❤

  • @katherinerand1892
    @katherinerand1892 10 месяцев назад +5

    Ellie I totally get what you said to listen more and watch . You sound like me. I like that you cry Jared😊

  • @akflanigan
    @akflanigan 10 месяцев назад +9

    You two are wonderful role models, raising with LOVE and guidance etc. I gotta say Jared you are a special motivational person. You have a genuine and caring way of delivering the message. Bless your family 🙏🏼❤️

  • @MJK1965
    @MJK1965 8 месяцев назад +3

    Heavenly Father has truly blessed you. Your family is in my prayers. ❤

  • @melaniefreire6618
    @melaniefreire6618 10 месяцев назад +9

    And you made the cutest babies! 😍 I'm so excited to see what your next adventures are 🤗

  • @southerngirl8671
    @southerngirl8671 10 месяцев назад +1

    Always remember your doing great! ( quote from Disney Jr Bluey )

  • @megginbrda5497
    @megginbrda5497 9 месяцев назад +1

    Miss you guys❤

  • @MKFamilyVlog
    @MKFamilyVlog 10 месяцев назад +7

    Been here since you guys were pregnant with Jackson. It's crazy to see this chapter of your lives come to an end! We're due with #2 in October & undecided if we're done yet.

  • @jodijarvis3988
    @jodijarvis3988 8 месяцев назад +4

    Miss you so much!! 😥

  • @jessieeads6569
    @jessieeads6569 9 месяцев назад +4

    Missing you all very much. 💕
    Big hug’s, sending healing prayers and good vibes to you all. 💞

  • @rachelmoulder2923
    @rachelmoulder2923 9 месяцев назад +3

    Miss you guys and hope you keep posting!! Take all the time you need with your family.

  • @SavyMommyMoments
    @SavyMommyMoments 10 месяцев назад +27

    8:09 As a mother who has been out of the baby stage for 8 years, I assure you that each future stage is just as easy and difficult in different ways. Bringing the same level of joy in other ways. You’re going to love the ride ❤️

  • @abigailwilson425
    @abigailwilson425 10 месяцев назад +9

    As sad as it is, the thought of just rasing my kids and not getting pregnant ever again has been amazing 😅

  • @camillegignacleblanc5812
    @camillegignacleblanc5812 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hope to see new videos soon!!

  • @beverleyprice
    @beverleyprice 10 месяцев назад +4

    I love your honesty.

  • @jessicaj5089
    @jessicaj5089 8 месяцев назад +3

    I miss you guys come back plz

  • @amberadams4550
    @amberadams4550 10 месяцев назад +28

    It feels sad to say but when I was diagnosis with PCOS and Endometriosis, I really looked forward to this time of life. TTC is very exhausting. Now I’m pregnant with my first and I am trying to not wish the days away. Being pregnant is hard! Along with the hard, there is so much good too.

    • @Sunnybrook69
      @Sunnybrook69 10 месяцев назад +5

      Congratulations 🎉❤🤰and prayers for a healthy pregnancy, uncomplicated birth and most of all a healthy & content new baby!

  • @kaylapugh9622
    @kaylapugh9622 10 месяцев назад +1

    Loved the vlog

  • @hannahdoherty5721
    @hannahdoherty5721 9 месяцев назад +4

    Missing you guys 😢😢😢😢

  • @vjfreer
    @vjfreer 8 месяцев назад +2

    We miss you and hope you guys are ok

  • @missychelle33
    @missychelle33 10 месяцев назад +24

    Love this video. Very nice and great words of wisdom! Love how Jared used that bumper analogy! That’s actually quite amazing. :) also caboose is a great nickname for Junebug :) lol too darn cute- she’s your little caboose! ❤❤

  • @tracymoyer8178
    @tracymoyer8178 9 месяцев назад +96

    Just watched Bonnie’s video! So proud of her! Hope to see you back when you are ready! Prayers to all of you!

  • @patricadyson778
    @patricadyson778 10 месяцев назад +1

    You have all beautiful children .

  • @samanthaelizabeth2298
    @samanthaelizabeth2298 10 месяцев назад +9

    I feel this way too!! We have 5! 1 girl same age as Jackson and 4 boy! Our last baby is almost 9 months old! I always feel really peaceful for this decision as well! I think I will miss our time in the hospital, I just love that time! Bring a baby in the world and spending that time in the hospital, but I feel the same as you guys! I am just so excited about just raising them, and excited for the next stage!

  • @margymilne756
    @margymilne756 8 месяцев назад +1

    Miss you guys ❤

  • @lianeb.2040
    @lianeb.2040 10 месяцев назад +9

    I have been here since you were trying with Jackson. This is beautiful and I am so happy for your family as you enter this new chapter. Four beautiful children is such a blessing!

  • @maureenlarsen2399
    @maureenlarsen2399 10 месяцев назад +13

    I've been following you since you got the phone call that said you were pregnant with Jackson. I was a fertility patient over 35 years ago which drew me to your journey. I too have now been blessed with 4 amazing children. My oldest almost 36 and youngest 27. You are an amazing loving family . You have God in your life and I can tell you from experience the Next part of this journey is going to be WONDERFUL. Love your family God Bless

  • @MnC5683
    @MnC5683 10 месяцев назад +5

    Ahhhhhh you guys! My kids are 26 & 23.. watching your family brings me back to my most favorite days of my life! I miss those little kids of ours. They were so sweet and fun. It's been a new chapter for us for quite a while. It's all good, but I enjoy remembering those days through you.
    Soak it up & enjoy your journey forward! Xoxoxo

    • @kathleenclark815
      @kathleenclark815 10 месяцев назад +4

      Just wait until you have grandbabies...it's so great!

  • @LRoCarrieUfanatic247
    @LRoCarrieUfanatic247 10 месяцев назад +2

    You and Jared 😅❤ definitely never over …. It’s just 😩🥺😅 new beginnings 🎉🙏🏻😘

  • @kaulitzth_
    @kaulitzth_ 10 месяцев назад +3

    Grew up with u guys❤

  • @taylorsabella4873
    @taylorsabella4873 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks you for share and you have wonderful four of children 🩷🩷

  • @erinsoper2514
    @erinsoper2514 10 месяцев назад +13

    So happy to see you guys happy, life is amazing, learning is always hard and you just take each moment slowly.

  • @Lisa-ci4ol
    @Lisa-ci4ol 8 месяцев назад +1

    We all miss you all ❤you all.,

  • @amandaellefson320
    @amandaellefson320 10 месяцев назад +1

    You guys are so cute!

  • @jennifersiscoe3719
    @jennifersiscoe3719 7 месяцев назад +1

    Please come back, I miss you all !

  • @christinabonnell7953
    @christinabonnell7953 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hope all is well miss the vlogs

  • @VonPatzy
    @VonPatzy 9 месяцев назад +46

    Falling silent and deleting comments is not the way.
    Might as well grab a ukelele.

    • @georgiadavis670
      @georgiadavis670 9 месяцев назад +11

      I noticed that too.

    • @debbiewenckowski4670
      @debbiewenckowski4670 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@georgiadavis670 God judges all!! God even judges the keyboard warriers who spew assumptions around like candy, without knowing the FULL N TRUE STORY!

    • @georgiadavis670
      @georgiadavis670 9 месяцев назад +8

      @@debbiewenckowski4670 How do you know what I’m assuming? That was just my personal feelings. The families did know. There was a lot more that should have been done.

  • @dianecelento4974
    @dianecelento4974 10 месяцев назад +50

    Seems like a great time in your life. No pressure of wondering if you're pregnant, checking the time of the month, making dr. appts. etc.

    • @ragadalfaqeeh7922
      @ragadalfaqeeh7922 10 месяцев назад +4

      What does the time of the month mean!???

    • @quintbhonorsfantage
      @quintbhonorsfantage 10 месяцев назад

      @@ragadalfaqeeh7922Period

    • @ChelseyWithLove
      @ChelseyWithLove 10 месяцев назад

      @@ragadalfaqeeh7922to see if you’re ovulating. You need to ovulate to get pregnant. Women aren’t fertile every day of the year.

    • @cari8282
      @cari8282 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@ragadalfaqeeh7922may I ask your age?

  • @MelissaAndAlex
    @MelissaAndAlex 10 месяцев назад +3

    I started watching you since before Jackson was born. Your family is incredible and the journey has been so fun to watch

  • @user-jj9qq1mi1r
    @user-jj9qq1mi1r 9 месяцев назад

    It is bittersweet all my emotions right now I sad this happen.

  • @nofookingway2670
    @nofookingway2670 8 месяцев назад +1

    miss u guyss

  • @caregiverentrepreurreimagined
    @caregiverentrepreurreimagined 10 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely echoing all the same things that y’all have shared. We are in a new season with our little girl in pre-K for half days and having this time in the mornings now for us, or to get stuff done on our home or for me to work on my business? It's new and definitely looking back I never thought we’d get here but we are. It's been a little more challenging as I am also navigating loss of both of my patents within two years. So the chance to ask them so “parenting questions.” I miss that so much but am thankful for the concrete memories and want to do that with our little girl.
    Have so much respect for y’all as we went through six years of infertility and I have couple chronic health issues as well.
    Comforting knowing I am not the only parent “learning” along with my daughter through each new season and stage.

  • @xzAllisonxz
    @xzAllisonxz 8 месяцев назад +2

    Wish y'all would come back

  • @CaitlinMarieFraze
    @CaitlinMarieFraze 8 месяцев назад +2

    We miss you guys

  • @amberjellison5509
    @amberjellison5509 10 месяцев назад +1

    I have 3 kids 1 girl and 2 boys. I always tell my 9 yr old girl and my 8yr old boy we need to be patient with each other because Mommy has never been a mom to a 9 year old girl or a 8 year old boy I’m just trying to figure it out, and then I tell them you have never been an 9 year old or an 8 year old so let’s be patient with each other. We are going to mess up and that’s ok 🤍🤍🤍