How we met DETAILED and TMI?

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024
  • A more detailed version of how we met, requested by TT viewers and hopefully not too TMI
    #fyp #foryoupage #explore #explorepage #mentalhealth #depression #anxiety #videogames #couple #love #storytime #homeless #ptsd #tiktok

Комментарии • 112

  • @kaycale9333
    @kaycale9333 6 месяцев назад +7

    Yay! Such an interesting and lovely story! ❤

  • @Patty_Jacques
    @Patty_Jacques 6 месяцев назад +15

    Love your honesty and down to earth channel!!! Wishing you both the best!!!

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you Patty!

  • @DWPersianExcursion
    @DWPersianExcursion 5 месяцев назад +10

    You and Jay will be moving mountains,i see it. His gentle nature,and your determination....its going to be so successful ❤

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      That would be great!

  • @JaniceBrodowsky
    @JaniceBrodowsky 4 месяца назад +1

    I don't know how RUclips works when it comes to putting stuff in my feed. I've watched most of your story and especially after watching how both of you met and and how your souls have connected, I think the two of you are beautiful. It's amazing how the universe works. Sometimes "coincidences aren't really coincidences." Jesika, I really understand how you feel and what life feels like when we have these big mountains in front of us, like deep depression, anxiety, panic etc. I have all of the same "challenges" that you have, and I'm on SSDI. One day about 12 years ago I had an incident that broke the camels back and I couldn't get out of bed anymore... Couldn't go to work etc... But I don't want to write about me. I guess I'm writing a novel here and what I really want to say is that I think both of you are gentle and kind and I'm so glad you have each other. I wish I had a magic wand and could give both of you a beautiful house and an awesome car (to drive, not to sleep in) and all of the things that many people take for granted. Unfortunately, I am just a step away from not having a home either. Anyway, that was my long winded way of telling both of you that I think you're both beautiful and I'm so glad that you've shared your story and that you have each other. I will pray very hard that things turn around for both of you.
    ❤❤❤

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  4 месяца назад +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words. I hope things look up for you too 💜

  • @linda22_
    @linda22_ 5 месяцев назад +5

    I hope things truly do turn up for you two. It’s hard, but it’ll get better. Stay strong and positive, no matter what.

  • @PandaHead602
    @PandaHead602 4 месяца назад +1

    He’s truly sweet n calming ❤ I can’t see him being mad and you guys compliment each other well. She’s more outspoken and he seems more observant. I’m so glad y’all meet!! Wow 3 days! U should have flew . That’s awesome 👏 I’m glad he made it. ❤❤❤

  • @karenknight9565
    @karenknight9565 5 месяцев назад +7

    You are a naturally pretty girl and a beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing your story!❤

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Aw thank you!

  • @rachelhaslip4099
    @rachelhaslip4099 5 месяцев назад +3

    Appreciate your transparency! You two are beautiful souls. It gives me hope that I may find that special someone some day!! Sending you all the love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much! 😊

  • @CocoNicole84
    @CocoNicole84 5 месяцев назад +2

    Girl you are beautiful!!❤ I’m glad you found each other. Looking forward to watching all your videos.

  • @Saved-c6r
    @Saved-c6r 3 месяца назад

    He has so much love in his eyes when he looks at u ❤❤❤

  • @dianebellitti4590
    @dianebellitti4590 5 месяцев назад +3

    You guys are great together.

  • @Sincerely.Alexandra
    @Sincerely.Alexandra 6 месяцев назад +25

    Im really happy you showed up on my suggested. Hoping your youtube blows up and gets monetized.
    You two are actually very relatable BTW. Please believe in yourselves because you’re SO brave to share your personal stories.

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much Alex, we appreciate it and WELCOME!

  • @ms.cruzcruz2298
    @ms.cruzcruz2298 5 месяцев назад +3

    So happy your channel came up in my feed, you are both lovely 😊

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад

      Aw thank you so much

  • @brittneylyntalks
    @brittneylyntalks 6 месяцев назад +11

    You guys are a lovely couple. Sounds like you were fated to meet. ❤

  • @SherriBelleisle
    @SherriBelleisle 5 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful love story +connection ❤️
    I am not a fan of internet meeting. I don't do much online except RUclips. Don't know how i missed your beginning, but it lent a little faith in exceptional circumstances. MuchLove&InfiniteJoy
    Sincerely...

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching

  • @cierasaul406
    @cierasaul406 6 месяцев назад +3

    Love it!!❤

  • @crazyinclarence5531
    @crazyinclarence5531 5 месяцев назад +1

    Your channel just showed up as a suggestion so I subscribed. I'm so glad I did! Love and blessings to you both from the Blue Mountains in Australia ❤

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад

      Australia , wow! Thanks for joining us

  • @loridwd
    @loridwd 6 месяцев назад +4

    Don’t know how I run across you guys but I really like you I wish you two nothing but the best in life .I like the honesty and realness of you sending you good vibes ❤and subscribing to your channel .

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад

      😊 thank you!

  • @Slena55
    @Slena55 5 месяцев назад +1

    Love your story,.. this is only a test God will make you test your testimony.

  • @rachelr.n.3563
    @rachelr.n.3563 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wishing you both the absolute best!

  • @cristystevens23
    @cristystevens23 5 месяцев назад +2

    God Bless you both 🌻

  • @youhdumbasf5862
    @youhdumbasf5862 5 месяцев назад +2

    Its hard to imagine him being the talkative one lol when you all 1st met and him trying to convince you to talk lol p.s I hate pineapple pizza too and anchovies! Love pineapple but not on pizza, actually I just had pineapple a few min ago for breakfast

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад

      He can definitely was the one talking the most when we chatted on voice chat😄

  • @danielmarotta4465
    @danielmarotta4465 4 месяца назад

    Hey guys..thanks for sharing your story..wishing you both the very best..new subscriber from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺

  • @beckymarie4936
    @beckymarie4936 5 месяцев назад +6

    you guys are a beautiful couple Inside and out. God loves you guys! Glad I found your guys's channel. I love pineapple and ham pizza LOL I agree anchovies on pizza are gross lol

  • @rhonda1505
    @rhonda1505 5 месяцев назад +3

    You two are a lovely couple. I wish you both lots of luck in finding jobs and an apt. I love pineapple on my pizza😁 New subscriber.

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Ok you’re forgiven for your pizza preferences 😄 welcome to our page!

  • @rachelolivas4775
    @rachelolivas4775 5 месяцев назад +1

    You both are such beautiful people❤ May God bless you both and stay positive God will get you where you need to be just have faith ❤

  • @lauriesaconi3850
    @lauriesaconi3850 5 месяцев назад +3

    You’re a wonderful couple. ❤❤

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      😊 thank you

  • @kevinmorrow4038
    @kevinmorrow4038 5 месяцев назад +2

    I'm a new subscriber!!! But one thing I notice is Jay never smiles tell him his friend kevin said things get better when you smile!!! 😊

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +4

      Welcome!
      He does often smile but he unfortunately suffers with what he calls “ resting depression face” 😄

    • @kevinmorrow4038
      @kevinmorrow4038 5 месяцев назад

      @@jesandjay thanks glad to be here and it's funny I just heard you mention that resting face comment in your other video I just watched lol

  • @DWPersianExcursion
    @DWPersianExcursion 5 месяцев назад +5

    New sub, i know things are getting better, i promise ❤

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      They have been getting better already since this all started!😊

    • @DWPersianExcursion
      @DWPersianExcursion 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@jesandjay much love, and much positive vibes

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      @@DWPersianExcursion thank you

  • @countrygirl366
    @countrygirl366 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing ❤❤

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching!

  • @debrahunt3361
    @debrahunt3361 6 месяцев назад +5

    U guys are adorable

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад +1

      hiii! thanks! :-)

    • @debrahunt3361
      @debrahunt3361 6 месяцев назад

      @@jesandjay ur welcome

  • @FanTon919
    @FanTon919 5 месяцев назад

    Waiting to watch you on live..

  • @pricklypear1111
    @pricklypear1111 6 месяцев назад +12

    He seems depressed...is he ok?

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад +4

      Extremely depressed

    • @pricklypear1111
      @pricklypear1111 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@jesandjay😢 hoping he gets to a better place

    • @cherylwilliams2107
      @cherylwilliams2107 5 месяцев назад

      I’m sensing the same thing.

  • @dzawodny1328
    @dzawodny1328 5 месяцев назад

    Where did you both get money for ubers and bus and plane tickets?

  • @knatural7754
    @knatural7754 5 месяцев назад +2

    lovely story soo happy for you guys and I don’t like pineapple on pizza either 🤣💗 19:34

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +2

      🍍 🍕🤢

  • @BubbieDesai
    @BubbieDesai 5 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @rosiemac2538
    @rosiemac2538 5 месяцев назад +1

    Has Jay ever considered Modelling??
    He'd be great

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      We’re hoping someone will “ discover” him 😅

  • @Richhpotato
    @Richhpotato 5 месяцев назад

    lol one time… 7 years ago…this guy randomly called me on fb messenger and now we’re very happily married 😂😂

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      🥹💜💜

  • @callmefrenchienath6478
    @callmefrenchienath6478 6 месяцев назад +9

    Jay could be a model! He could easily be doing some kind of advertising etc. And you, Jess, are gorgeous! Inside and out! Your wisdom and knowledge are outstanding! Jay and you are a great complement! He is your peaceful man, and you're his little fire that can if you allow yourself to be Like a 🎆! I love it! This era is so uncomfortable and delusional that when you fibd people like you, the 9nly thing we want to do is listen and listen! You know it's the snall things that make people who they are, and if you wanna know more, look behind the blinders ....
    You will come outta of these experiences stronger and more AUTHENTIC as well! I have a long, long history of panic attacks, anxiety, etc. I know how it feels i know it! Just know that with time you will be able to distinguish why they are coming! And how to deal with them! Because its really a utopian belief to envisage life without them . But they will become manageable, trust me they will and you will not develop them as much!
    Love and respect are the best medicines!
    Resilience and humbleness are imo qualities that a very few number of human kinds are able to feel or to handle!
    But most importantly; self esteem, self-respect, and self-awareness are "priceless "
    I sub to youz and my little finger tells me that by this time next year, you will already blow up!
    Merci beaucoup pour votre message et bonne soirée xx
    Fyi, I am french Canadian! It's Bisous from Frenchie xxx

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад +1

      Aww thaank you so much for your kind words!! It means alot!!

  • @PandaHead602
    @PandaHead602 4 месяца назад

    Awwww he stayed for long time and I glad never take the bus again unless you need to!! What do yall do for work?? Oo you r homeless?? How

  • @geno5169
    @geno5169 6 месяцев назад +1

    It really bothers me hearing so people saying they have depression! I suffer from depression .! Anxiety! Since I lost my vision! I have prefer! Every time I go out with my wife ! Our Walmart! Restaurant!

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад +1

      I'm not sure what you're trying to say.

    • @aliciaoisen2552
      @aliciaoisen2552 5 месяцев назад +1

      everyones anxiety and depressions looks different. ITs not kind for you to assume people dont suffer with these ailments themselves simply because it doesnt look like yours. Judging is ugly and God dont like ugly!!

    • @jAITtROtULL
      @jAITtROtULL 5 месяцев назад +3

      @aliciaoisen2552- I don’t think he is judging, it seems like he was using “Voice Typing” and it didn’t communicate his full message. Because he is blind, he didn’t realize it.

    • @jAITtROtULL
      @jAITtROtULL 5 месяцев назад +2

      It seems like he started off saying he upset or sorry so many people suffer from depression and was going into why he does, what happened to him, something about his wife, etc but his equipment isn’t working properly.

  • @mojavewolf1
    @mojavewolf1 5 месяцев назад +1

    Your voice is nice Jess ♥️kind lady

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      Aw thank you

  • @fredrose9285
    @fredrose9285 5 месяцев назад

    I have a question if this is ok to ask....can Jay speak Creole or French, being from Louisiana? He has a very beautiful way of speaking.thanks, Paige

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад

      He does not speak either 🥲

  • @joannaazar7396
    @joannaazar7396 5 месяцев назад +3

    You guys are such a sweet couple. Wishing all the best! ❤ NewJersey

  • @angelasepi657
    @angelasepi657 5 месяцев назад +5

    She acts like she's the mom and hes the child. They look it too.

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +2

      Does “she”? We’re here reading your comments , you can address us directly 😉

    • @Velvetsky831
      @Velvetsky831 5 месяцев назад +1

      Don't judge a book by the cover! Ignore and delete. These people are not worth your time. You go mamma!

  • @Louise-i2i
    @Louise-i2i 6 месяцев назад +2

    wow I've just come across you tonight, im Following ❤

    • @lynngardner4636
      @lynngardner4636 6 месяцев назад

      they just started the Channel, I found them last night and binged watched. Love them

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you and welcome!

  • @Ukboss1
    @Ukboss1 5 месяцев назад

    Hostage video lol 😂

  • @mojavewolf1
    @mojavewolf1 5 месяцев назад +1

    I have the same thing you do Jess , exactly!! I had to get on meds to get on with life . House bound for a year. ! Agoraphobia as well .

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      I’m glad you’re better!

  • @zoraidita2022
    @zoraidita2022 5 месяцев назад +1

    Can you get emergency housing? Wishing you both the best. Stay safe out there.

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +1

      We are on the emergency housing list

    • @zoraidita2022
      @zoraidita2022 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@jesandjay please don't come to LA, unless you have a place to go to. NOT safe for a woman. Even if you have a partner.

  • @lauramonds4099
    @lauramonds4099 5 месяцев назад +1

    How come he doesn't talk

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +4

      I didn't activate the talk feature on him yet

    • @lauramonds4099
      @lauramonds4099 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@jesandjay okay I wasn't trying be rude sorry

  • @aniamessara2574
    @aniamessara2574 5 месяцев назад +2

    Why do you mention this female being younger I'm connection to the guy leaving you.
    It sounds like you have a lot of judgement towards him / her. Its their business how their ages may affect them.
    I wish we as women could quit behaving like this.
    You had your chance to make the most out of your youth....not this lady's fault.
    She doesn't owe you anything due to your misfortune.

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  5 месяцев назад +7

      Show me the part where I said she owes me anything? I mention her age because we were old enough to be her parents, so it was shocking to me.
      How can you say you wish “ we as women would quit behaving like this” as you sit here and openly criticize and judge me yourself after one RUclips video?

  • @ItsJC-gu3jz
    @ItsJC-gu3jz 6 месяцев назад

    Don’t care

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад +7

      Then why'd you watch it AND comment. :-)

    • @CowMoobaby
      @CowMoobaby 6 месяцев назад +5

      Ha ha ha ha but YOU watched! Ha ha ha ha ha 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jesandjay
      @jesandjay  6 месяцев назад +2

      @@CowMoobaby 😀