Our Birth Story - Your Couple Tea EP 39
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- Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024
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i am shocked to learn you had a 4th degree tear, basically surgery, and are up, moving around, had a photoshoot, look this good, walking around. like how. you are truly amazing katie. I feel like a lot of people who went through what you went through would say they had a traumatic experience but of course the bad b you are you always say that people have it worse then you. Im so proud of you katie and love you so much
This so true ❤
You really made labor look easy and I'm surprised at how active you are after having a 4th degree tear. Doing a photoshoot,going on walks..You're super strong and Skye is so adorable🥰
Do you know when they’re gonna post to jatie Vlogs RUclips video?
@@graciediemer8862 I don't know but hopefully,tomorrow🤞
i love the honesty in this episode. i’m only 19, but plan on having kids mid 20s and katie talked about most of my fears and how she recovered. so happy for you guys.
she’s SO CUTE
I feel like with the social media thing it’s not sharing her it’s more of like family channels where they are posting very personal things about their children for views without their consent. Once you put it out there it’s always there as the child gets older.
4th degree tear with how in shape you are in insane to me!! You’re right, pitocin makes the contractions way worse. I was on one dose of pitocin and still chose to go through labor without epidural. I told everyone I wouldn’t wish those pains on my worst enemy! Congrats to y’all 🎉
If you're in shape and pushing the baby out quickly, you're more prone to tearing, so unfortunately being fit won't help you not tear. I wasn't fit but pushed my baby out too quickly at the end and got a 3c tear, so almost 4th degree 😅
It does relate to pushing quickly and many arent told to do perineal massages to prevent tearing. I had my baby quickly but for 6 weeks almost everyday i had my husband do perineal massages because i already have poor skin elasticity (lots of stretch marks) and no tear. Dr even said i was stretchy shockingly and also asked permission to do perineal massage while pushing.
I had this with my son 2 months before due date sadly he was born sleeping. So glad all went ok and you have a beautiful healthy baby girl! ❤r.i.p Baby Mason Poindexter 2-28-12
Everything is going to be okay. Amen!!!!🙏🏻🦋😊🕊❤
Congration🎉🎉🎉
Guys you don’t need to be so positive what you went through was SO HARD ! Your strong!
I had a 4th degree tear with my son. He is 8 in a few months. He was 8 lbs 6 oz too. It took 2 hours to stitch me up. My epidural stopped working at the end though so I felt all of that! I ended up with a post op infection 8 days post delivery was admitted for 24 hours with iv antibiotics. Then needed 10 days of iv infusions! Take care! Hopefully you heal well! 💜
My baby was 6lbd 5 oz I had a 3rd degree inside and out I could barley walk ,sit nothibg fir almost 2 months
@@joslynnrichard8612 same it was a very hard time! They almost thought they were going to have to refix the tear 8 weeks after birth if they couldn't get the infection under control. I feel you!
My first I had an epidural, episiotomy and forceps delivery. Was still perfect and seeing my beautiful little girl made it worth it
My second I almost had on the highway heading too the hospital I got there 9cm and had her with no pain relief
My third I was induced I had him with just gas as pain relief
No matter the birth story it is amazing and the goal is a happy healthy baby at the end
A woman’s body is amazing ❤
Congratulations Katie B and Josh welcome to the roller coaster of parenthood! Enjoy the ride it’s well worth every second ❤
Congratulations ❤. With my first child I was in labor for 26 hours and I was pushing for 4 hours on top of that. I ended up getting an affection because I was in labor for so long and they almost had to give me a c-section. I'm glad you guys had a pretty good delivery besides her heart dropping.
Katie gave birth like a champ! I had the thing happen to me Katie. And my second child was born 6 weeks early and my third was 10. So glad everything is ok. Congrats mom and dad
Congratulations again on your new baby girl. Skye is a cute name. I'm glad you both are happy and healthy. I just can not get over all of her hair. If you want your little girl in your podcast or RUclips vlog that is your choice and no one else's. Enjoy your baby. 💗🎀💗
Hearing the beginning of this story is like listening to my husband and I talking about the birth of our first baby. Unfortunately my abruption was severe and I had to rush right into emergency c section. I woke up at 3 and was out of surgery by 4. With everything that happened I couldn’t even see him until 5 hours after he was born. I am so glad that you were able to have baby girl naturally. You are so strong!
Why dir you have to wait Five hours after he was born
White blood cell count was very high so they needed to be monitoring him non stop and I couldn’t go into the nursery to see him because I was still getting lots of tests too being pretty sick from the major loss in blood. We live in a small area so when there are big problems they usually end up sending the baby to a bigger hospital with a NICU an hour and a half away. They were talking about sending him there and I’m so glad they didn’t because they only send baby there
So happy for you guys!!! Skye is so beautiful! so happy to be able to see the next chapter in you guys life. praying that these in the weeks ahead, that they go smoothly and peacefully with Baby Skye💗
She's Perfect And Y'all Named Her After Me 😆 Y'all Are Awesome!!
They didn't name her after you
@@hayleyrobinson7137i’m pretty sure they know that lmao they’re just being sweet n funny
Twinss
@@hayleyrobinson7137 i’m pretty sure it’s a joke lol
@@hayleyrobinson7137 you are definitely fun to be around
I had my water break at 34 weeks, and had a placental abruption. Mine was a bit more severe and there was no time to try for a natural delivery, or even get an epideral. We were both in distress at that point, so I had to have an emergency c section under general anesthesia. My daughter needed to spend 2 weeks in the NICU, but luckily, she is doing well now. She just turned three months. I also had a really healthy pregnancy right up until the end. It was so hard to miss her first moments and not get to meet her right away.
How do you even go #2 after a 4th degree tear omgg😭😭😭 you're a warrior fr like that's my biggest fear😭❤️ I can't even begging to comprehend how mentally strong you are to be so okay after all that, you're amazing!!!
I was always afraid of the epidural. I've had 5 children and never had an epidural, just pain meds through the iv.
With my last, i had pitocin and went pain med free. Labor was only 4 hrs, so that may have a little bit to do with not needing anything.
For those of you who dont know. You are pushing like you are taking the biggest poop of your life!
Spontaneous delivery means you weren't incuced..
PLEASE.CONTINUE BEING THE BEST PARENTS YOU GUYS ARE STILL MAKING FIRE VIDS .LIKE WOW.AND DAD YOU ARE THE BEST PARTNER WHEN IT GETS TO THIS.
Amazing podcast and an amazing birth story! Thank you for sharing your birth story. Only admiration for you both on how you handled this situation with prayer and faith. Skye is a doll 💕. I am overjoyed for your sweet family of 4! Much love 🤍🤍💕🐶
Awww I can't wait to see who Skye looks more like! Thanks for sharing your life with us, I know it is going to be an awesome journey!! Love you guys
Theirs pics of her on instagram
@hollymay8272 I have no clue what I am doing on Instagram...lol
4th degree tears are no joke, i had a 4th degree tear plus and still suffer to this day with
Problems from this. I pray you heal well. Congratulations on new baby. She’s beautiful.
Congratulations on the baby girl skye love her name sm!!!! So proud of you Katie!!!!! ❤❤❤❤ love y’all sm❤❤❤❤
Huge congratulations 🎉🥳 she is beautiful and y’all are gonna be great parents! Praying for y’all to have a smooth transition into parenthood 💕
You got this Katie! I understand the concern I hemorrhage after giving birth for my first baby and at the moment I didn’t understand what was happening. But not every delivery is the same like with my second everything went super smooth.
So happy for you guys! Thank you for answering all the questions and concerns I have!! I’m only 20 ! 5 more years!! So excited and less stress now thanks to y’all
I love the name especially her middle name. I named mine Aurora Mae. Mae for my late grandma who died before she was born.
Congrats Mom and Dad ! I love y’all Josh and Katie my fiancé and I watched y’all all the time until he tragically passed away in a car wreck. Skye is beautiful! ! And my Geandmas middle is Mae spelled the same way and so is mine and my moms ! That’s so cool! Alex would have been just as happy for y’all as I am ! He’s congratulating y’all from heaven ! God bless you’re little family don’t forget our first baby Top G ! Hehe love topper !
I just finished the whole video and I can’t even explain how proud I am of you Katie 🥹or any mom in general, I love you guys and I am excited to see baby girl grow up🫶🏼💕
I 100% relate I had my son at 9:30 pm and then was moved to post-partum at 12am and did not sleep. It felt like a full day. I also didn't even remember how long we were really in L&D bc of that epidural. It really makes you feel off after.
I had placenta abruption and bleeding to back in March I was only 30 weeks and end up having Pre-eclampsia and hellp syndrome and our baby girl come out 2lbs 15oz. It is so scary but the doctor and nurse are soo good at stay calm when there are things wrong
Tbh yall journey for the birth, changing my perception on life a lil but especially with a having your own kid
I had my first baby in April 2022. Labored for less than 5 hours total, no epidural with a 3rd degree tear. Baby was way too big for me. The nurses were shocked at how quick labor was. It was intense and painful. But the worst part was getting stitched up, I felt every bit of it and if it wasn’t for the fact that I had my baby laying on my chest I don’t know if I could have handled it. Women are freaking amazing
Im so glad your doctor caught your 4th degree tear while you were getting stitches up i had one and my doctor didnt stitch me correctly so i went home and had my first bm and went out my how you say whoha and than had to undergo surgery to be reconstructed back together! And im so happy that you can sit down properly i couldnt sit down regularly for 6 months and this was with my 4th baby. But im so happy for you guys❤
Katie talking over Josh every five seconds. Like if that was my husband he would be so aggravated. I feel like Josh does get mad sometimes and then puts the camera on her like "let her get it out. I can't talk ever" it's so much idk how ppl doesn't notice that first thing
I had a planned c section my second time because my first birth was horrible! I pushed for 2 hrs and 48 mins! She wasnt even progressing but the doctor was no where to be found and i broke blood vessels pushing so hard. I was swollen and it was awful. Then finally her head started coming out as the doctor walked in and he told me to stop or she coulda died. He got her out with forceps and she turned half way through ripping me imside as she came out. They stitched me for at least 45 minutes inside and out. It was bad. So my second child with a c section was a blessing. They started at 8 am and was here at 8:34 am.
I like the name you gave her and I'am so happy for you both.
I am so happy she is here I fell like just yesterday she said she was pregnant
They don’t let you eat because the medicine they give you and IV could make you sick after birth. No one eats until after the baby comes. Heart monitor for the baby is always used no matter what condition the baby is in. Glad the whole family is here and going good. She is adorable you two!
I had an unplanned c section in April cause I had preeclampsia i was induced but wasn’t dilating so they had to give me a c section! I swear you never know what’s going to happen, she was born at 37 weeks 7lbs 9 ounces! She’s now 5 months old it’s crazy!! Congratulations on your baby & I’m so happy she’s healthy & safe! 🥰🥰
Congratulations! You guys are amazing and she is lucky to have you as her parents! Spontaneous delivery just means you had the baby without them having to use any tools (suction, forceps, etc) to help get the baby out. You are crushing it though to be moving like you are after a 4th degree tear.
Loved the podcast, of course you want show off your child, for me taking photos or filming is memories you can look back on in years to come ❤️❤️
I hope y’all show her and be proud of your little pumpkin. Congratulations again 💗❤️💗.
*"Be Strong and Courageous. Do not be Afraid or Terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you."*
*Deuteronomy 31:6* 🙌🙏
*For anyone reading this: The Lord Jesus will never leave you; He loves you and will do anything and everything to keep you safe. You ARE Worth It and I'm proud of you for pushing through whatever you're going through. Keep fighting! 🙏💪*
I can’t get over how bruised Katie’s arm is from the ivs, but I’m so excited for y’all and I hope the journey from here on out goes fantastic
Everyone said I didn’t need the epidural and I’ve went to a 6 or 6 and a half dilation…thanks for sharing the journey with us I’ve enjoyed this podcast love y’all and God bless
I also passed out on the toilet!! Right after birth with my 2nd baby! It’s scary! Glad everything went well❤️❤️
I love the name sky so much it's so cute ❤❤❤
Skye
Congrats guys!!!!! I had a natural birth and it gets more painful the closer it is for baby that’s how it was for me anyway! You did great Katie baby girl is beautiful!!!
Babies go silent just before their journey out! Love a birth story. Congratulations ❤🎉
I laughed when josh said unihole I had that kinda tear as well
I carry my baby really low which was really risky. She was coming out of me when I went to the hospital. But she was 3 weeks early, but they said she was fine. Thank God thank God is good love god so much you're baby is wonderfully you're going be a wonderful mom, love you guys.
You look amazing Katie for after having a baby! C section sucks I had to have have as my girl was going into distress from pushing for almost 4 hours!
I had my daughter with no pain meds or epidural. The one benefit to it is the baby is much more awake and active! I’ve also had the epidural though.
after i had my first baby, i was so out of it once i got her out, that they took her right away to weigh and clean her off etc i looked over and my reply was 'oh thank god shes not ugly' the entire room erupted in laughter
If/when you have another baby ask for the mirror! I did this with my second! It was so amazing to watch!
She used the mirror
So happy for you guys, you both did so great throughout the delivery process, and you're both great parents, Skye is such a beautiful name, and she's perfect. Congrats guys. ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story, congratulations
I had a good pregnancy, I’m so glad to hear about ur pregnancy. I didn’t know I was in labor, I started to bleed and she was showing through my vagina before heading to the hospital. I got to the hospital and my ex had to sign everything, and we got to the room at 4:15 and my water abruptly broke, then got on the bed and I asked for the epidural, then they told me I was 10cm which then they said I couldn’t get it. I started pushing at 4:20 then have her at 4:30
I had a fourth degree tear, My doctor always said I was going to have a small baby even though i gained almost 100lbs. I had no drugs or epidural. By the time the baby was coming I was screaming like a banshee. The pain was almost unbearable. Turns out she was just shy of 10lbs and the pain and the horrendous burning was me ripping. The doctor didn't give me an episiodomy(where they cut you to give room for the head to come out) because again, she was going to be a small baby! Yeah right, 10lb baby later. My daughter is 29 now and is an only child because i have NEVER forgotten that pain! Lol!
Pitocin contractions are the worst!!
I am so proud of you Katie you did amazing and your both amazing parents 💯!!! I can't imagine the fear you went through waking up to the blood and going through that and josh almost passing out very stressful day for you guys. I am happy that you had amazing nurses and doctors. I had a very traumatic experience with my last daughter and most of it was I was high risk of me or baby dying due to my chronic pancreatitis but I took that chance Bec I wasn't willing to give up on my child and I did it I did code while I was in labor because the nurse that I had wouldn't look listen to me but they got me back and I had her and then the next day after I had my hysterectomy due risk of dying if I was to get pregnant again and I ended up coding in my daughters arms due to the same nurse causing an overdose from the meds she gave me and then combined with the anesthesia I went into a seizure and went unconscious in my oldest daughters arms. So I can't stress enough how amazing it is that you had amazing nurses and doctors that makes my heart happy for you guys!!! I think your right about the patossin causing stronger contractions I had to have it with my 3 girls and once they gave that the contractions were so intense. Luckily I was able to tough through and have them all natural but at the end with the younger 2 I wish I had gotten the epidural but it was to late for me to get it.. your birth story is amazing and I am so happy to watch your new journey!!!! So happy for you guys.. Katie I want to tell you that you crushed it.. your doing amazing walking and moving with the tear you had and you did amazing not getting to worked up once you hound out Abt the abruption and thought Abt being calm for babygirl!! And now you know how the hosp staff and doctors are and you know for the future babies what hosp and doctors to go to. Way to go and congratulations to your new bundle of joy and your family!! Love watching you guys and I have been for years!! Making memories!! ❤❤❤ I'm glad that you guys are absolutely perfect together and your so right Abt chosing the right life partner your both perfect together!!!!❤❤
I always watch you both from afar ! You are both amazing and are going to be wonderful parents. God bless you and your precious baby girl💕💖💕
I know most places you're not allowed to eat during labor in general just incase something goes wrong.. .when i had my first child I did not know that so once my water broke and I went to the hospital I was like are you serious! Cause I didn't eat before I came. It was 17 hrs of hunger lol .
Also I can't believe you had a 4th degree tear.. usually happens when baby comes out fast.. im surprised they didn't choose to cut you instead of letting you tear though. Alot easier to stitch up. but i guess itcould have just happened to fast they didn't have time to make the cut. I can't believe you're up and moving around they way you are! Such a trooper! So happy for you guys .
the EXACT same thing happened to me when i had my daughter last year except i wasnt on the toilet yet. when they got me up to use the bathroom it went black a few steps and started in seeing stars. the nurse got me to the toilet and everything went black. i could hear them but sounded like miles away and i couldnt see. my husband said i was very pale. when i could see again there was 5 nurses surrounding me on the toilet putting smelling salts under my nose. i'm a nurse myself and i think it was my blood pressure dropping, a mix of sitting in bed for HOURS and my body reacted weird. I never passed out before in my life!! such a weird thing
Thank you both for sharing your story with us!! Can’t wait to meet her ❤❤❤
Congratulations So happy for you guys . You both look so happy . God bless your little darling ❤
I weighed 90 pounds when I got pregnant and weighed 227 the day I had my son, I had him 3 weeks early and he weighed 10 pounds,I didn't have a epidural or any pain meds, I had no pain at all, i was induced, the doctor says it was unusual but I think because I was so big and I was miserable being pregnant that it felt good to get him out
Getting an epidural at 2cm dilated is def early! Glad baby’s here safe. Congrats!
She was born on my birthday! Welcome to the world Skye ❤
Beautiful story ❤ so happy for you both. Would have loved it if you brought Skye on the podcast ❤
Best video ever. I love how honest you guys are. Happy for you.
That pitocin absolutely does make contractions soooo much worse. I had pitocin with my first and got an epidural, but I had my other three all natural, and it is so much easier without pitocin. It still hurts like hell, but it's def easier to get through. The worst part without an epidural is when that head starts to crown, but at that point, you can ask for an epidural all you want, you ain't gettin' it 😅
Congratulations! 🎉
Lets get josh the contraction stimulator machine on his abs
I had both my children naturally and honestly it wasn't that bad. With my first they kept asking me if I wanted pain medicine and I kept telling them no. After a while it was annoying me so I said ok but as soon as they gave it to me I felt the need to push and back then they took you to another room and I barely got there in time. Now women plan on getting an epidural but I never thought about getting one.
Being induced is way harder than natural labour so you definitely need the epidural. I was the same! 💪🏻💙
Can you make a postpartum essentials video ?
I really thought babies didn't look like anyone when they're barely born but Skye looks exactly like Joshy B
Congratulations on your healthy baby girl and that Katie is healthy as well. ❤️ From a woman’s perspective, thank you for showing what a healthy and supportive relationship with a husband should look like! Birth is beautiful and should be treated as such. Sounds like you did and amazing job, Katie, and I as so happy for you that you have a husband like Josh and a beautiful healthy baby girl. ❤️
That's what you called true parents true mom and dad. Stay close knitted and stay as your childrens best friends coz like that you can show them the right path to walk and never keep your children walking behind you always keep them beside you so that they see what you see together not like a minute later coz that's what happens now in this world children are so far apart from there parents that the parents don't know what the children are doing and vice versa that's what my mom and dad have taught me and still keeps telling me and my siblings. So Katie and Josh and you should and you will be the best parents ever ❤❤❤❤❤. God bless you and your family Josh no offense but some do think different so don't be bothered about them just be you..... love from Kenya....❤❤❤❤❤
Next podcast Skye needs to join ❤️
Congratulations ❤ I’ll never forget the rippling effect when they pulled her body out!❤
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My mom passed out after she had my little brother I was there and the nurses made me leave just because I was little but I had a nurse with me watching me
Definitely take time to relax and heal
It's very common with the IV's it's more like diarrhea typically not much comes out and they're really quick to just wipe it off like it never happened lol
Josh and Katie, something that stuck to me that you said on your podcast today was about how everyone has such different opinions on social media regarding baby Skye and I just want to say I love how you guys kept her birth low-key for a while because i feel like most family vloggers try to get content when they have a kid and y’all didn’t! That makes me so happy that your not trying to be on social media like WE JUST HAD A KID (trying to get views) I’m so excited to see baby skye in future videos but I just feel so happy in my heart knowing you already know what’s too far and what’s not. Anyways idk if that makes any since but I’m your biggest fan and it would mean the world to me if you hearted this post but if not I hope you read it! I’ll forever be there for all y’all and I’m so glad that Katie and skye are healthy after everything! Ps… from what I’ve seen so far baby skye looks like josh! Skye is going to be the most beautiful baby ever bc you guys are the cutest! (Not in a weird way)
I think 3 energy drinks it wayyyy too much caffeine for anyone one if fine but that many may have been why Josh passed out
I had an epidural. And i could eat before. But not after. The epidural was painful. I didn't feel the contractions but i felt every push.
I had my first baby 5 months ago. Had to be induced as I was 11 days past my due date. Had natural vaginal birth, only used gas &air as pain relief. Its painful but its different painful. I get very bad period cramps that cripple me for 24hrs and I can honestly say now that birth was easier than my period pains. Also needed stitches and they were 10 times more painful than birth. Only thing I found very painful was the burning sensation when babies head was coming out and I told my husband I was about to rip and I did, I could feel I was about to rip. I got my pitocin drip at 10am and was expected to be 5cm by 4pm but I demanded I get checked at 3 as I was having very regular contractions and I'm so happy I trusted my instinct as I was 7cm at 3pm and the nurse rushed to fill me a pool and I had my baby at 18.11
You 2 will be such good parents and I would love for a video of reveling her but it's up to u 2 what u do with Skye and I love her name lots of luv xx❤❤🎉🎉 and congrats 🎉🎉
Skye is a beautiful Name like wow I really love this love you Josh n Katie y’all are the best keep it up with the fire content Baby girl Skye is so cute love y’all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I wish Josh would have held her in the video! We want to see her!!🩷🩷
power couple🤌🏼 congratulations from chicago!! welcome to the world skye, you got the best parents💗
congrats yall deserve this!
Ephesians 4:29-32
“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”
Exodus 20:7
“Thou shalt not take the name of the LORD thy God in vain; for the LORD will not hold him guiltless that taketh his name in vain.”
Me personally I'd feel so awkward if a fan of mine was one of my nurses while I was pregnant like damn never thought a fan would be lookin at my vagina n gettin this up close and personally 😂
Pushing doesn’t hurt at least for me because it’s getting to like relieve the a little if that makes since
The amount of times they said ‘like’ was driving me crazy 🫠
I watched my step mom give birth and only the very beginning when the gooey stuff and blood came out I was grossed out but once the head started to come I couldn't look away
I’m so happy for you guys!! Love you!!