Coach Greg Adams on the Silent Contract of Entitled Women
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The Silent Contract of Relationships and Commitment. Most men don’t read the fine print. You really don’t understand what you’re agreeing to…until it’s too late. Speaker @CoachGregAdams from The 21 Convention live event.
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Focus on yourselves Kings 👑
There's pride in being a gentleman. BUT Don't forget she must act like a lady as well. Men forget they hold the cards in security, dependability and chivalry. If a woman wants that she needs to do her part as well. No says you have to be a gentleman and she doesn't have to be a lady. She starts making demands, cut your losses and find one that appreciates a gentleman.
@ Rick Evans
Bang on, brother. When I was a young man I would be frustrated and left feeling like an emasculated loser when I tried to treat a low virtue woman like a lady. They have this belief system in which they tell themselves they are not deserving of the attention of a nice man.
Once I stopped that foolishness I found a good woman worthy of being treated like a lady. It was not a wasted effort and we've been married 38 years.
@@randolphstead2988 congratulations. Much respect
We’ve been married 38 years. My respect and love for my husband grows with every year: When I stopped working to raise our children. When my sick mother moved in with us. How he was there when she passed. When I stopped working again, after the kids are grown, cuz I could physically no longer do it (car crash). Too many small moments to list.
My husband works hard for us. I take care of our home and anything else I can take off his shoulders. I make sure he enjoys his weekends. I encourage his golf. We enjoy going out together for shows, dinner, whatever. We’re going to a friend’s house for poker tonight. Wish us luck!
Being in a marriage is the best way to live your life. I’m remembering times we’ve been there for each other. Thank you for bringing me back to these sometimes difficult moments and appreciating what we have.
nice story. Warner Bros studios ®
@@tomastoth3839
Oh, how lovely! My life actually is a fairy tale. Thank you so much.
Same here its the best when done right by 2 ppl with judeo-christian "like" principles
Wish I could find someone like that wow
Different times, different places, different women/men. Story irrelevant.
“You should only give me your energy”. I had a woman tell me that women love to be courted. I looked up the textbook definition of courting. It typically lasts 2-3 years, little to no physical contact, and keep in mind, she is free to see other guys in that time and be “courted” by other men. It’s a raw deal for men. You have to show you’re a total gentleman and make everything about her but she can go out with other men. I advise men to become the best man they can become and I assure you once you have everything in place, women will chase after men. Men have different rules for different men.
Brother carlos 😭😭
@@allaudinalam7091 sister Allaudin 🤣🤣
You can go out with others if she can. You're not in a monogamous relationship until you both say that!!
@Jocelyn Elder Most women aren’t that talented. Doing, “anything for us”, is a short list.
She probably didn’t know the actual definition of courting.
If they want an old school dude, then she better be old school herself lmfao
You going to work so she can stay at home and look after the house? You going to bare all of that responsibility alone? There's plenty of women out there that could be considered "old school". Men just aren't really looking for that because that requires some responsibility on their part.
Well said! 100٪correct. Thank you. When I get back from work after a 13 hours work day. I want a wife that could trust that she looked after the children, took care of the house and that I would have a bite for a late dinner before going back to work again. Women’s ‘ entitlements’ ‘ He does not spend enough time with me or giving me attention’ and this is the most common cause of cheating wives and divorced. What about the guy ? Doesn t he need attention and time to spend with his wife too ? He sacrifices for the family but for her she is self centered her first and the family second. Men put families first.
Here I am :)
@@Michel-ov1sv and in her 24 hours she takes care of the kids, the house, cooks and is also not expected to work outside the home as well right?
@@kokolatte825 what is more important?
These do not justify killing. There are better solutions.
Tell her you also identify as a woman, so pull my chair out.
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Marriage is nothing but a retirement plan for women when they are done having their fun and screws over the guy don't get married in 2022 these women are not worth it
Yep.. once they're ready to get off the HOE- llercoaster THEN it's time for a " good man"..
Spot the incel lmao
Sorry you have had a bad experience 😞 try again and don't give up 🤣🤣
Facts only marry the homies
You're absolutely right. Even common law is bs.
After learning from KS, I learned to ask myself "what can I do for my man that he cannot buy?" And I focus on strengthening those things.
I'm glad I married a good one who views this all as a partnership we both work we both hustle and have the same goals in the end . The best thing you can do in a marriage is keep all the "friends" out your business .
Women are very good at Keeping secrets. If your not with her 24 hours a day. Don't give me that perfect wife shit. Women live that double lives too. And they know how to enjoy it better than most men. Down to a science. Good luck out there. Thanks for the heads up Grandma. I love you
“Now you lost the girl” she did him a favor
yep, thats the best case scenario. never sweat losing a girl that convinces herself to leave.
She really lost the man
Facts!! Thank goodness I came across men like this at 25 years old.
"Get away from me!" 😂😂😂
I grew up in a family where the men and women took care of each other. Seems like people are so paranoid because there is so much abuse due to a lack of mutual respect. Therein lies the problem.
Seen a few shorts here. This man is spot on. Correct.
Every single day women just keep verifying that my decision to stay single was the correct decision. With that ladies I thank you. I have freedom,happiness and a anxiety and stress free life. Oh and I have all the money I made to spend as I want to spend it.
Good stay single. 👍
Not one lady cares, what you do with your life , I wish more men would say this upfront more.
Don’t commit, make her work! If she doesn’t, she belongs to the streets! Your time and energy is yours to use as you see fit! 😎✌️
It amazes me, the content Thats put out into society
Just innnssaaanneee
I don't mind the demands just as long as she is doing her part and meeting my list of demands. I'm at that point in my life.
There are two kinds of women: those you pay for and those that are free. And the free ones cost WAY more than the ones you pay for.
People if you can have fun together, agree to disagree, and evolve each other. That's all that matters. Don't overthink it to much. Enjoy the ride and Let go of the expectations. Not everybody's the same.
I got the best advise
mfs make life so damn complicated... l
Never run after a woman or a bus...
Expectations is our kryptonite
i had a woman with two deadbeat baby daddies tell me she demands my undivided attention. i literally laughed hysterically in her face. i said "youre lucky if i even let you be my side chick". then she sicked my duck.
did you laugh like heath ledger as the joker. that scares people, I sometimes do that to scare them away.
This ain't women, it's black women 🤣🤘🍻
Bro, this is all women. You just focus on the black women because they make it obvious. But all women are the same, they just go about it in different ways.
@@younglove3362 disagree
This is great. Women find men exhausting and men are not exactly happy committing. Its time to rethink concepts and trash what doesn't work.
Have a few kids, I promise money,energy, attention and time become a thing of the past.🤣
What’s funny is my wife loves football and I don’t.
Then in collage I would make female friends mad because I would let my wife watch football with out interruption on the grounds of I think football is stupid, but it is important to my wife so it is important to me.
She's not watching the ball.
@@barrylast8655 she's watching the ball throwers' balls. and energy.
I m not going to be a traditional man to an untraditional woman
Find yourself a traditional woman then. There are plenty out there. It’s just most have been brainwashed into thinking there aren’t any traditional men so you might have to look a while to find them.
Honestly at this point marriage just feels like a giant scam
Because at this point most times it is
@@thesugardaddy7037 yup
I'm a 60 year old woman who has always been independent...insisted on paying my own way, AND taking care of my man. All I ever got in return was takers. I'm done. I'm better off alone. Entitlement...🙄
Men should not be taken care of financially. So that's where you messed up. Just be kind to him, make his world peaceful, and let him do the work he was built for. You dated kids. Not men.
B-S to what they WANT…I don’t want their cheap intimacy and silent obligation to their nonsense!
Peace, quiet and FREEDOM for ONLY men who choose rationally what is for their own best interest!
Their body, their choice?!? My M.E.A.T, my freedom!!!
Good man brother, agreed and respect from Ireland from one Alpha male plus bloke to another 🇮🇪🤝🇬🇧🤝🇺🇸🤝🇨🇦🤝🌎
@@greengrugach1984 Kudos…to your good boyo!!! I aspire to Alpha-hood but right now I content enough to be a mere Zeta! Please have blessed day back in Ireland…over here, in the U.S!!! We are so fooked with these lame…wanna be Alphas (but really underneath- just plain C/u-ck$, Kooks or lukewarm thirsty S!mps!
Stay on course! Cheers! 🇺🇸
Clean Facts!
That goes both ways doesnt it?
I guess my husband and I missed that memo. I just want to fix the house up so when he gets home he’s comfortable.
I guess our date was going to Harbor Freight so I could get a sander because I want to refurbish our bedroom furniture because I don’t want to buy a new set. 😂😂😂 He’s an introvert and I’m an Ambivert. We’re not doing all of that whatsoever. I already told everyone to not expect to see us for 2 years. We need a mental break.
Congratulations you're married so this discussion doesn't regard you and your hubby, this is for single people. No offense but you're not out here living the single life, so your opinion comes from theory not current lived experience.
If it works for you that's all that matters imo
Look forward to seeing you eventually divorce him. Too bad I won't be there when it happens. I just know it will.
Anyways..
Everything is good with you being responsible and frugal, non materialistic, but the error of your ways seems to be a female masculine. This is the confusion of Babylon. But being a Biblical helpmeet is how you were designed.
Today's women don't deserve any of that
There’s a balance, both parties need to know this and not over step. But a real man wants to do these exact things for the right woman. We are so advanced and also so confused…
Commitment will get you killed. Trust me my biggest fear is the pressure in a relationship. Men must always perform and can't have any mistakes while you must be understanding and patience with her. Women don't give us the same grace!
If you let it, yeah. And if you're with the *wrong* woman, yeah...
Find the right one and this will never, ever be an issue.
Simps are made by a thousand cuts. Traditional values are almost extinctions.
Who cares? Let the simps be married. They're idiots. And I have no problem with women pimping idiots and feel no sympathy for the guy after he's been dug because he chose to ignore the warning signs.
Don't sign the silent contract #mgtow
There's gotta be mutual accountability on both sides. Wedding vows where a woman vows in public (and ideally before God) that she will submit, while the man vows to lead and protect. If you put God first in your life, then the vows really mean something.
My wife likes all kinds of things I don't and vica versa. Been together almost 25 years. If you can't take an interest in what gives them joy, then you don't need to be with them. It doesn't mean you need to participate in everything they do. You just need to be happy to let them tell you all about it later on.
This is so damn accurate 😳
Very true. CGA always tells the hidden facts and reality
Most men have always been polite to women. That has been passed down from their fathers and so on. To always be polite to any woman
What a bunch of lies lol, maybe in the 1950’s. Men in 2022 don’t act like that.
This so called " silent contract "sounds like CONTROL MORE THAN SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU! 💯
Which is exactly what marriage is. If you marry based off love then you're stupid.
Compare yourself to men of previous generations
The silent contract only applies if she is a) a virgin, b) going to be a superb housewife c) going to raise the kids properly (e.g. helping with homework, driving them their sports or music lessons, making sure they eat healthy, homemade food etc.). If she's not up for ALL these things, her entitlement has no valid grounds🤔🤷🏼♀️
You had better be a virgin, too. No hypocrisy allowed.
Once you read the fine print and take it all away, two things may happen. One, they run 🏃♀️ away from you (which is often because they're aware that you know their tricks). Two, they will follow you and try to conquer you because they're still learning the tricks and are mesmerized by a different guy marching to his own beat and they want to fix you. But what will totally happen is they will respect you, regardless.
Women have every advantages.
Guys have to do everything and be perfect in everyway.
Women just have to look perfect and if they don't, they aren't worthy of a decent man.
And I have no issue with negotiating the terms of a relationship. Problem is these silent contracts and entitlements are held as non-negotiable.
Its interesting how things got so messed up, when the hole existence of a woman is to be of help for men
What? Good luck finding a good woman if you devalue them like that.
A contract usually implies both sides hold up to their side of the deal. She many demand all that and you do it "but that doesnt entitle you bedroom fun, bc Im not an object" What kind of contract is this
a silent contract with invisible ink written on it. hence not worth the paper and ink.
Of course you aren’t entitled to bedroom stuff. Unless you give her your name it’s totally reasonable to not get that.
Beyond all the advice you hear from these folks making videos, there's simple advice that is paramount, above anything else. Marry your best friend (this goes for heterosexual and same gender couples) and don't settle for less than a partner who is your best friend.
And often even your best friend isn't good enough. I was best friends with my ex but it still went to garbage. Now my best friend is some fat guy in Missouri and we are both straight males so that's a no-go.
Nooo, she is your partner and lover, not your friend. She needs to have a kind of respect for you that a friend does not have. Being buddies is not a prerequisite. Your buddies are your buddies.
@@supercal333 I'm not talking about merely being "buddies", but rather having the same kind of intimacy that you would have with your best friend. In other words, your partner should be someone you can talk to about anything, without hesitation, and know they will be able to empathize. Also, like a best friend, you should find joy in your constant companionship. I'm not sure how you interpreted my comment to mean your life partner should be limited to friendship alone.
@@personne7542 I don't have female friends
Yes! My grandparents always taught me that the friendship comes first in a good relationship. Everything else will follow. Also, it’s not 50/50 to make a marriage work each person needs to offer their 100% for a good marriage. It also helps to have the same values and desires for how life should look, so you have a common goal to work towards together. Now married 15 years and I couldn’t agree more with their advice.
My husband hates going out. Me too, shit is to expensive. So. Instead of going out and spending over $100 min., (for movie n dinner as example). I order Waygu ribeye and made that with garlic butter fried potatoes. I loved seeing him happy,he been wanting to try some.
Instead of marriage we should call it a contract.
It's called standards and values y'all have the right to tell your woman what u need as well..." If I take u to the fair I give u all my time and attention... When WE GET HOME go sit in the corner and shut up for the rest of the day" sign that contract and get your peace King 👑
Men we have to take our rightful power back.
Reclaim Fate. Reclaim Destiny.
The person you strayed from. Is still available to you.
If she expects to be treated as a queen then she better be prepared to treat her man like a king. Cause just like women don't owe men chit, men don't owe women chit. If she can cut the bedroom fun, he can cut the funding. If she is being disrespectful, he can walk out. Point blank period.
It seems to me like a lot of guys are out there dating the characature of a woman rather than a human being. Worrying about paying for dates, having conversations about attention and having silent contracts instead of conversations. The hell is that all about. Waste of everybodies time.
Exactly. They pursue these wannabe instagram "baddies" then complain about their mentality. 😆
I totally agree!!!
It's way too easy for any average woman to cheat on a really good guy. I guess that's part of the problem. People never stay satisfied with what they have.
Spitting truth
Well I got a verbal contract which says nothing is guaranteed and anything you say or do will be grounds for termination for conduct detrimental to the organization. Respect is earned, not given.
Women are human beings, men are human doings
I don't think the women who want that for themselves are wrong, nor do I think the men who don't want to provide those things for those women are wrong. People have the right to want what they want while experiencing the ebbs and flow of life. ✌it's only when you waste energy trying to convince people to want the same things does it become frustrating.
He speaks the truth
Didn't know that women can make men do what they don't wanna do 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Coach Plz. Stop the cap
We want the man that does want to do these things, sometimes in relationships we don’t always want to do something but for your significant other you will do anything for as she will do for you
Fof simppp
Well I certainly hope you'll be telling women what their side of the contract is so that we know what it is.
Probably doesn't matter because in Western Society they pretty much get backed by the laws and court system.
Women break their side of the contract and you can't do anything about it because it is a rigged game. That's why you have to be someone that she can't afford to lose. And if you marry, or show her affection like she's your only option, she'll run 🏃♀️ you. That's why you don't Give her your commitment. Notice how woman compete for guys that have options trying to be his main, if not replace his main. Notice how the main knows that he has options so she doesn't act out of line because she could be replaced. The reason for that is because he's not married.
Time is the most valuable commodity we have. But it has an expiration date and we don't know when that is. Why waste it on some one who doesn't appreciate your time?
At first glance he looked like Shaq but the voice gave him away 💀
Their 'should' is not my, should.
Protect the meat fellas it's all we have
Never ever believe that men should pay for everything. There should be give and take...
Would you get on a plane that had a 50% chance of crashing?
Marriage is work. A give and take. A putting up with each other's faults. I'm a complete old school gentleman, until she pulls some crap. She knows she screwed up the second I don't bring her coffee in the morning! I know when I screwed up, because I never hear the end of it! 🤣🤣🤣
Facts...don't ever be on a woman's plan...
I’ve been married twice, 16 years in total and I’ll say……’HE IS F*CKING CORRECT!!”
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If you have a women who thinks it all about her. You have a child run away
This is a perfect way to weaken any man. A real commitment is both ways. Communication and active involvement. Daily dinner plans home activities family plans couples plans. Men should manage their home with concern. A real woman will communicate and let her man know what's going on with the home and with her if he listens. He should be willing to be active but not begging nor pulling teeth to get her on board.
Everytime this guy pops up I really feel bad for everyone he's dated
Thank you so much the only sensible person
Also if I can stop and listen to her talk for an hour or longer - comforting her emotions and being supportive - that shows I care because that is how she bonds. Men bond as well with the physicality of a relationship. A man can look at a woman he loves who is decades out of her prime with desire. She should be able to spend the 5 minutes it takes to make them feel appreciated and respected.
Yeah. No. I don't do contracts anymore
Stay single....The End!!
What type of women do these guys date? Marriage is an entitlement plan for both sexes. When your spouse comes home you listen, either sex. You treat each other with courtesy. You share problems, joys & sorrows. It is not all on one set of shoulders it is shared.
Preach
That's why you go your own way.
We need to ask what type of men are attending these educational sessions?….if you need these coaching sessions you probably shouldn’t be dating
And If they view women only through the lens of what I’ve seen from this page they will be bitter and miserable and will look at all women with suspicion. They should go listen to some Jordan Peterson. It’d do them good.
Listen men, women want it both ways in almost every way.
I'm done with their contracts. It's a 50/50 split down the middle on everything or nothing at All. We can both have the life we want if we can get on the same page and we both are willing to put the exact same effort into it. That's the only contract that's on this table.
Ew that’s silly and won’t work. You need to get your masculinity back and they need to respect you. If you are lazy, you have lost your masculinity. Leave that for your days if you get dementia. Build and grow or fall apart.
When I go on dates, when we sit down, she starts pouring water into glasses. It’s subtle, yet very caring & affectionate
Pass on that
Great point
I love all of these *Absolute* statements/comments on a clip. *WTF IS HAPPENING IN THIS WORLD* !!!!
not all women are like that 37 weeks pregnant and still working and making money just like my husband. when he comes from home food is made and lots of cuddles when he has a bad day cuddling and a fat belly can be hard sometimes haha
All of that “entitlement” sounds like some basic expectations of a relationship. And it goes both ways…both men and women should expect that their partner give them time, attention, and effort.
If you’re not ready for that, just be single
No it doesn’t go both ways. Man is the head of the woman and woman is designed to be a helpmeet. The union should bear fruits. Everyone fill their role.
What you believe will not have the outcome you expect.
I never met a not bitter woman that uses the line "as a man you should"
Women complain about toxic masculinity but anything less puts a man at risk of women taking advantage, either long or short term. A man must set his own tern and hold their ground. If the woman moves on, then she wasnt the one.
women are magnets
“I want traditional things yet nothing traditional myself” -Party of 1
Where are y’all meeting these women? I usually expected to go Dutch on a first date, but then back then I was dating broke college students. And opening doors etc are nice gestures, but I do the same for them. I watch football too, but I can multitask and hold a conversation when tge game is on.
Exactly I just had my girlfriend of 3 years put a contract on me because I didn't marry her In 3 years because I noticed mental instability in her. Over excessive smoking ADHD anxiety
Because of the things I went through my son will be ready for the dating world, sometimes we’re just pioneers so others don’t have to.
Why would anyone in their right mind enter into a legal contract with someone who is REWARDED for breaking said contract?
He right and I love my wife but I'm getting tired of some of the bullshit.
Then perhaps you should talk to her about it instead of complaining on the internet and becoming bitter cuz that is t going to help you.