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  • @malthazar166
    @malthazar166 Месяц назад +76

    When the husband showed disgust on open marriage, it was obvious that when he sugested to try it, it was a trap to bait the wife. He just wanted her to say "no" to It. If she refused to continue with this open marriage, the husband would just forgive and forget, but she took the bait. Hook, line and sinker.

    • @darksoulxxx6099
      @darksoulxxx6099 Месяц назад +6

      Right I was thinking that. Shit was most obvious bait.💀

    • @Bluecheese437
      @Bluecheese437 29 дней назад +1

      @@darksoulxxx6099 why is your pfp an anime’s girl working for McDonalds💀

    • @darksoulxxx6099
      @darksoulxxx6099 21 день назад

      @@Bluecheese437 it was a joke from 2021. 😭 I’m trying to change my name but literally MY GOOGLE WONT LET ME😭

    • @talora5991
      @talora5991 14 дней назад

      Exactly. And the fact that husband even knew her well enough to know she was asking about an open marriage because she had someone in mind; like he knows his wife and can read her emotions. And the wife doesn’t know her husband at all, smh sad

  • @claytonthomas1980
    @claytonthomas1980 Месяц назад +60

    The OP made her choice and she's paying for it big time and there's no coming back from that reality ever.

    • @JustRandomDeveloper
      @JustRandomDeveloper Месяц назад +3

      Exactly! She even said “it wasn’t as good as with James” WHY DO IT THEN?

  • @sandrasausville9103
    @sandrasausville9103 Месяц назад +96

    She wanted to play stupid games and now she doesn't want her stupid prizes 😂

    • @Swiftie_and_Potterhead
      @Swiftie_and_Potterhead Месяц назад +6

      "You play stupid ganes, you win stupod prizes"- Taylor Swift

    • @arsembaka6971
      @arsembaka6971 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@Swiftie_and_Potterheadwas taylor swift having a stroke or what?

    • @Neo_Viper
      @Neo_Viper Месяц назад

      ​@@arsembaka6971 from that wonderful sentence i would also think Taylor swift was having a stroke when saying that line🧐

  • @ninjasheep7492
    @ninjasheep7492 Месяц назад +37

    This is so toxic. This whole situation is a total dumpster fire lmao

    • @sunblobian
      @sunblobian Месяц назад

      Ong bruh, and the end it’s obvious James just wants a hole to stick it in

  • @Mundanesoup4
    @Mundanesoup4 Месяц назад +23

    Co worker had an open marriage. He is divorced now. Just stay single if you want something like that.

  • @yopoxikeweapescai9066
    @yopoxikeweapescai9066 Месяц назад +23

    Ppl really can just find someone atractive and just leave it at that, idk.
    +wtf, she had everything and just threw it to the trash for no real reason

  • @potatoheadpokemario1931
    @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +14

    The reason James couldn't agree that the extra mariragal afares won't destroy thier marriage was because he knew they would destroy the marriage

  • @potatoes8414
    @potatoes8414 Месяц назад +11

    From wife to ocasional hookup.
    Nice upgrade

  • @potatoheadpokemario1931
    @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +17

    I've read this post before, James doesn't see you as a person anymore, just a piece of meat,

  • @Lucky_Soleil
    @Lucky_Soleil Месяц назад +41

    Well if you didn't want anyone else but james, than you should have cut out those feelings and remained faithful to your ex-husband. You sigle handedly fucked up your own marriage because something went right with someone else.
    Juse because it worked for someone else does not mean it will work for you.

    • @potatoheadpokemario1931
      @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +2

      But it didn't really go right

    • @Lucky_Soleil
      @Lucky_Soleil Месяц назад

      @@potatoheadpokemario1931 if your not sure it will work for such an idea, than trust your gut and keep going.

  • @oliversherman2414
    @oliversherman2414 Месяц назад +15

    I both feel bad for her and I don't at the same time

  • @eastonfahrenbach8986
    @eastonfahrenbach8986 Месяц назад +34

    Womp Womp to her

  • @jessikarrer2274
    @jessikarrer2274 Месяц назад +5

    If the husband was so fulfilling why consider going anywhere else? Win back? Win not earn? trust back?

  • @sears_mechaniker_tyler
    @sears_mechaniker_tyler Месяц назад +5

    I'm sorry but legit open marriage seems like a horrible plan, to be devoted and love someone enough to marry them and then want an open marriage to date another guy is just wrong, you still love the guy but also another guy so your marriage just seems like a joke, then if the other end does the same, it feels like you're just friends living in the same apartment bringing people over, its not something i'd ever consider and he was right to be disgusted at first

  • @potatoheadpokemario1931
    @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +15

    She should have stuck with her gut feeling that open marriage is gross and James wouldn't want it

  • @Thatmarten
    @Thatmarten Месяц назад +10

    Her fault but I almost had to laugh when he played the woman knower after a google search

  • @Cristian-tf6jt
    @Cristian-tf6jt Месяц назад +21

    She its just his side chick now , well good for him , now he has a side pice who he can play with

    • @knightking3096
      @knightking3096 Месяц назад +7

      damn bro that's cruel

    • @yopoxikeweapescai9066
      @yopoxikeweapescai9066 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@knightking3096yeah, sucks tbh. But i think he just didnt want to pay or to use the hand

  • @0BI-WAN.KENOBI
    @0BI-WAN.KENOBI Месяц назад +24

    Her fault

    • @gg-nf8dr
      @gg-nf8dr Месяц назад

      Nah

    • @0BI-WAN.KENOBI
      @0BI-WAN.KENOBI Месяц назад +4

      @@gg-nf8dr why not?

    • @gg-nf8dr
      @gg-nf8dr Месяц назад

      @@0BI-WAN.KENOBI in my opinion they had an agreement, after it happened he didn't like it

    • @yopoxikeweapescai9066
      @yopoxikeweapescai9066 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@gg-nf8drbro already knew his marriage ended and just wanted a real reason

    • @potatoheadpokemario1931
      @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@gg-nf8drDude, he trapped her, and she fell for the bait. He wanted her to say no to the open marriage

  • @arbitraryinsomnia828
    @arbitraryinsomnia828 Месяц назад +16

    What she did ruined her marriage but after she took full responsibility and some as she tried her best to fix it and at least she’s going on the bring it back together

    • @potatoheadpokemario1931
      @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +8

      Not really, James doesn't love her and will dump her for good once he gets a better deal

  • @SWH247
    @SWH247 Месяц назад +33

    Bro the mailman is crazy

  • @arsembaka6971
    @arsembaka6971 Месяц назад +4

    Honestly this seems to stupid to be real lol😂

  • @Chaotic-Outcast
    @Chaotic-Outcast 7 дней назад

    I knew being poly was a bad idea.
    Had two small crushes on my friends and in love with my best friend. I was manipulated by one friend into a lesbian relationship, dumped, then kinda taken advantage of by the other, my best friend supported me through it all and i absolutely adore him for it, I don't know how I liked anyone else.

  • @casperd6248
    @casperd6248 Месяц назад +3

    tbh ya fucked it up, the moment you entertained the feelings with Jayden you lost him

  • @talora5991
    @talora5991 14 дней назад

    Work husband and work wife and open marriage are such funny concepts like way to sabotage your own happiness

  • @Rootbeer02
    @Rootbeer02 28 дней назад

    Her saying it didn't mean anything because they used protection is so fucking stupid the entire idea of open marriage sounds stupid as hell thats gross and just if you know someone wants to be in a relationship with another person is asking for to much

  • @Lebooboosunshine
    @Lebooboosunshine Месяц назад +9

    That’s crazy

  • @Lily-wo1py
    @Lily-wo1py Месяц назад +2

    1:01 for shorts ppl

  • @captainschmichael7568
    @captainschmichael7568 29 дней назад +4

    Husband played a nasty game. If he didn’t want polygamy, he could’ve maintained his opposition and seen if he could trust his wife.
    When he said yes to it, she wasn’t cheating anymore, it became consensual. In his mind it was cheating, but that’s like offering someone some of your food and then claiming they stole it.

    • @you_know_cat801
      @you_know_cat801 6 дней назад

      I agree, I don't understand why everyone is blaming the wife when polygamy and open relationships are actually nice when it's handled with consent and communication. Here it was like a manipulation from the husband's side, almost like a silent treatment

  • @mantislevin8445
    @mantislevin8445 Месяц назад +20

    open relationship ppl r so crazy 😭😭 theres a whole identity called “polyamorous” js find someone who equally cant commit/get relationship therapy/break up and save the person the heartache 💀

    • @Croissant87
      @Croissant87 Месяц назад

      Tbh they’re an equivalent to hookers

  • @talora5991
    @talora5991 14 дней назад

    Oh no 😱 not the consequences of her own actions 😔

  • @user-cg4jf9it9x
    @user-cg4jf9it9x Месяц назад +1

    You’re that one crazy ex-girlfriend aren’t you

  • @zacharyblevins1209
    @zacharyblevins1209 21 день назад

    I don’t think I’ve ever known a couple that actually had an open marriage. I have known couples that wife swapped. I don’t know why that seems to be different, but it seems to be for those who fancy that kind of thing.
    As for her husband or ex-husband interacting with her again, she should take it really slow. Let him know that she’s always there for him. It very well could work again it worked for seven years she should understand the relationship would never be the same again, but they could put it back together. People put it back together all the time about the only thing I’ve seen that absolutely wrecks relationships Beyond recovery is the death of a child, but people can get over infidelity, especially something. I hate to say the word is light as what was described here, but I hope they can patch the relationship up.

  • @dadDDD235
    @dadDDD235 28 дней назад

    I feel bad for op what they did was wrong but they do really regret it she was stupid

  • @cypher4783
    @cypher4783 Месяц назад +3

    Yep, this is why I'm staying monogamous

  • @iamdragonkrys
    @iamdragonkrys Месяц назад

    I already know this story from channels about cheating

  • @SimplePlays-dp3ug
    @SimplePlays-dp3ug Месяц назад

    The guy James will realize his mistake and maybe never win her back

    • @andreiaa5420
      @andreiaa5420 29 дней назад +2

      His mistake? Get some cold water son, you’re drunk my boy.

  • @Madriel_
    @Madriel_ Месяц назад +5

    Disgusting

  • @Is_Gold_Slay2
    @Is_Gold_Slay2 Месяц назад +3

    Bro this is…

  • @Ykits_Chris0_0
    @Ykits_Chris0_0 19 дней назад

    She is cooked

  • @adrianmn931
    @adrianmn931 Месяц назад +3

    i think the husband is the right one here

  • @Orangie_YT
    @Orangie_YT Месяц назад +3

    The mallman is crazy

  • @lordanubis1475
    @lordanubis1475 Месяц назад +1

    This is 100% of cautionary story for all thinking of cheating

  • @ayaansgameplay6946
    @ayaansgameplay6946 Месяц назад

    you are more stable woman than ever seen shame on you.

  • @jekkma.
    @jekkma. Месяц назад +6

    Oh chat

  • @Waylon39
    @Waylon39 Месяц назад +2

    Is all of this fake because I just got the channel name is joke toast

  • @OsageScoutMom
    @OsageScoutMom Месяц назад +1

    lol...James deserves so much better than you.

  • @Joeylikesgames-ku9mx
    @Joeylikesgames-ku9mx Месяц назад +2

    Something tells me this relationship would have been fucked eventually either way
    The husband wife was clearly unfaithful and the husband felt very manipulative and insecure

  • @bunnyloves6975
    @bunnyloves6975 Месяц назад +9

    He literally gave her permission, she checked multiple times to see if it was okay, openly communicated with him about her feelings, felt guilt over it, etc. I can't really understand why he was so horrible to her, he could've just said no or left her. Out of all the open relationship stories, she had a lot of green flags in communication, trust and even would've ended it after one time most likely, like 0 malicious intent and husband was priority
    I've seen worse open relationships get less punishment

    • @lucasbelmonte2832
      @lucasbelmonte2832 Месяц назад +14

      Because he wanted her to say no herself, he wanted her to chose him over her lust, and she failed. He said it himself the moment she brought up open marriage it was over for him as it would be for any self respecting man. Also the fact she even wanted the open marriage in the first place makes her a pos. Also I find it funny the moment the husband wants something reasonable like an std test and when she knows hes also looking for a partner she wants to close the marriage.

    • @bunnyloves6975
      @bunnyloves6975 Месяц назад

      @@lucasbelmonte2832
      As she talks about the guilt after her first time, that and him seeking others were likely contributing factors to her wanting to close the marriage
      Thank you for the point about him testing her to see if it was really over, it helps me understand a bit more but I'm struggling to understand still why he was really mean to her after her first date. He really made her suffer a lot despite being honest and open with him the whole time after that moment when he could've just left
      Also was kinda funny when she freaked out over the std test, I've heard herpes is terrible

    • @potatoheadpokemario1931
      @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +1

      I get he was a piece of shit taking her back as a fuck buddy, but everything else was bait where if she had any brains at all she would have said no to the open marriage and ask forgiveness

  • @gg-nf8dr
    @gg-nf8dr Месяц назад +2

    Nah they had an agreement an after they set it James didn't like it. She isn't guilty of destroying they marriage.

    • @lucasbelmonte2832
      @lucasbelmonte2832 Месяц назад +7

      It was a test to see if she would value the marriage over a hook up. She chose the hook up.

    • @potatoheadpokemario1931
      @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +4

      James didn't like it from the get go, he wanted her to reject the open marriage, when she didn't that's when he knew the marriage was unsavable. It was all a test

  • @buffbarny4359
    @buffbarny4359 Месяц назад +1

    Am I the only person who thinks James is the AH he just allowed her to do this, why did he not even try talking about the fact that he did not want an open marige. He just heard her talk about it and was set on just divorcing her.PS I am not defending open realeshionships but i think that going straight for divorce is overkill try talking about it first maybe terapy or couple counceling.

    • @potatoheadpokemario1931
      @potatoheadpokemario1931 Месяц назад +4

      He wanted her reject the open marriage herself, and the bait was so obvious she wouldn't have taken it if she actually wanted to stay married. Divorce is a reasonable first step after cheating

  • @wolfgirlpup3778
    @wolfgirlpup3778 Месяц назад +12

    Ok, it’s bad that you liked someone else and that you requested it knowing your families wouldn’t approve, but your husband did give you the green light to go and do the dirty with Jaden and then got mad about it. You could’ve gone to couples therapy and or just decided not to do it. But he agreed to it. I would say both sides are bad but her side is worse.

    • @Lucky_Soleil
      @Lucky_Soleil Месяц назад +3

      Yes

    • @Reainter
      @Reainter Месяц назад +15

      It was a test from him when he gave the green light. He never wanted it and didnt want to control her. Also, when you know that your SO desire someone else. What would you do? Had he denied her request the possibility that she still would have sleept with Jayden was still there. The dude took chose the alternativ where he wouldnt be the fool

    • @Lucky_Soleil
      @Lucky_Soleil Месяц назад +6

      @@Reainter whatever the reason was, if the girl was so happy with her relationship she would have stuck with it

    • @riougenkaku6069
      @riougenkaku6069 Месяц назад +6

      ​@@Lucky_Soleil lol, you underestimate lust

    • @Lucky_Soleil
      @Lucky_Soleil Месяц назад +4

      @@riougenkaku6069 her love could very well have over weight her "love" for the mailman.
      If she fell so easily for someone else he was not the person she should have married.

  • @user-rk6fe6wk8c
    @user-rk6fe6wk8c Месяц назад +5

    Oh chat