@@sarahw5693, ha, me going to school 😂. There is too many beautiful girls at school who don’t even wear makeup and they look better than me who wears makeup because without it I am not at all worth looking at 😂, so imma have to handle this sort of look cause I am the “do not talk to me unless I talk to you vibe” 😂
@@darthmaul2005 I bet you're cute af- but I get you from my school day's forever ago lol.. Never used much makeup at my work- I wasn't around ppl so.. Now I just want to look- Decent.. But a gal will definitely need to know how to do a - Don't fu#@ with me look 😎
Every customer service worker that has to smile while people treat them like garbage is thanking you for this. It's gives off that, I'mbeingniceandsmilingbutIcouldroundhousekickyouifIchose vibe we all try to achieve.
Same here. I’m petite and people think I’m 17 even though I’m in my mid 20’s and married. People really annoy me with treating me like a child. 🙄 This was made for people like us lol 😂 👌
Growing up as a Mexican American in the 80’s and 90’s we used to do some straight up sharpie eyebrows, bright under eyes, dark eyeliner, tons of mascara, and a super dark brown or burgundy lip. I already have RBF so with that style of makeup, no one messed with me in high school! Lol 😆😎
Lol as someone who’s mexican. I will NEVER not have a bright under eye, winged liner, and my brown lip liner. That will always be a staple for my makeup 😂❤️
Your whole vibe in general screams “I’m a baddie, don’t mess with me” and this look is just chef’s kiss. I think it’s funny though because, at least on camera, you seem like a genuinely nice person
Aaaand this is why you're my favorite...I'm an attorney and need this so people take me seriously and I don't look like the brunette version of Elle Woods in court.
Also, I've noticed if you have a seemingly plumper bottom lip v. your top lip it gives "serious business woman" pout because it pulls/shifts it downward. Like a reverse smile.
I needed this! I'm 32, 5'1", petite, high pitched voice, basically fucked. I am so so so so tired of being called cute, adorable, etc 🙄. Not being taken seriously. Can't wait to try out this look. You might just change my life.
God bless the person who requested this, didn’t realize I needed it. As a person your age with round face and big eyes who also gets the “cute” compliment (ahem) a lot, and can’t pull off natural make-up without looking 18-20, THANK YOU! I usually go for softer smokey eyes or dark lip when I want to be taken seriously (also because I love it), but I had no idea what to do for something more… daily-like. I will definitely try that double contour inner eye/brow trick! Hope it works on me too! Also, I very much appreciate that you used that Viseart palette that I have (can’t wait to see more looks), that you confirmed my love for the 80s looking blush and that you also like to sometimes feather out the lip liner. Makes me feel I’m doing some things right…
I love this!!!!!! I do find it interesting that this has a lot of crossover with your “boy beat” video. A lot of “looking intimidating” is about accentuating masc features and happy tends to lean more feminine. I’m non-binary and constantly struggle between wanting to look androgynous and wanting to look approachable. Your videos have helped a lot, I find something new to try in every one. Thank you ❤️
Can I just say that I LOVE LOVE LOVE that you don't use photo filters. So many MUA will use filters and pass it off as their natural talent, which makes their fans confused as to why they can't look the same way. I'm a really bad perfectionist and I'm always so hard on myself when I don't look the same as in the video... so yeah, thank you! :)
I freakin loved your energy in this video, yes you look more intimidating until you smile..your smile Alex is contagious and I hate smiling but you my friend your smile is so kind
I would love this and the happy make up on either side of your face to really see the difference! I love your videoes, you’ve really been putting out some top class content!
I really need this, I'm 32 and people are always AWWW LOOK HOW CUTE SHE IS and then starts blabing about their problems. I don't wanna know, Susan. Get your shit togheter.
I love how you make yourself into literal art no matter what you do!! So beautiful and inspiring. I could definitely use a bit of that intimidating vibe to get people to just not fuck with me. You are so real, you’re not trying to be anyone else, you’re not trying to put on a ‘show’ just real, true self. I love you!
i love that this look basically accentuate your actual features, this could pass as a no-makeup makeup look tbh just a little bit more snatched and model-like
I basically have all of these features naturally. Comes in handy in the subways station but my coworkers automatically think I'm saying something mean every time I open my mouth 🤦
I love your make up tutorials. You do a beautiful job of blending and you look flawless, yet you don't you don't cake on the cake on the make up. This is what the real working class people need! THANK YOU!
I cannot tell you how incredibly helpful these kinds of videos are. I’ve probably mentioned that I’m a photographer, my images are usually very conceptual and story-telling and I often do self portraits because it’s more convenient. Being able to change my face up like this is not only helpful for regular life, but it’s SO helpful for my character photos! Thank you!!!!! 🖤🖤🖤
Also you’re intimidating in general because of your confidence, if I saw you on the street I’d think you were a bad bitch. This makeup contributes to that. If I had never seen your videos and how chill you are in them, i probs wouldn’t approach tbh… I’d still think you were pretty regardless,,,
🤷🏾♀️ I accentuate my dark circles too! I saw an Indian makeup tutorial where the girl had naturally deep pigmented lids, and they enhanced her simple warm eye makeup so well, I HAD to try it… and fell in love! I like in combination with a “puppy eye” 🥺
This was literally why I started wearing more makeup. I kept getting approached with no makeup on and my friends who are much better looking but with killer angry eye cat eyes would get left alone and I just really wanted to be left alone though. My resting face is apparently “please I need someone to talk to me I’m very meek” but inside I am a grumpy old man
Tip for all you soap brow peeps out there.... Save and clean one of your The Ordinary bottles with a pipette and put water in it and keep it with your soap. A drop or two is more precise and the soap doesn't get overly wet, and no running to the sink. Spray bottles are fine but I find that they wet too much of the soap for my liking. And Alex, you look badass all the time. This is just another level though!
my friend taught me how to do a really smokey close-to-lash-line smeared out kajal and I do it ever since i got to know about it. I loved how you did your makeup and it reminded me of how my friend and i always talk about techniques we wanted to try and its just out there now in a singular video omg
I loooooove this look. That smoky wing is really, really cool. (I also loved when your cat was on the window sill and her shadow was on the wall around 14:30.)
I bleeping love you! 🤣 You're hilarious, you always make me crack a smile even on days when it feels impossible while at the same time being extremely helpful and knowledgeable.
Your background has something that looks very much like the "Moisturize me" lady from Doctor Who. If you know you know. ...In an episode of Seinfeld, Jerry's uncle Leo lost his eyebrows in an accident and Elaine drew them on for him with a sharpie and then he went to the doctor and everyone thought he was super hostile and angry. It got into his medical record as being a "difficult patient" just because he had a ridic strong brow...
I already have RBF. Won't stop me from trying these tricks out because there's nothing wrong with looking EVEN MORE intimidating 😆. I feel so honored that your cat has graced us with her/his presence. I love her/his face.
I'm so glad you make this easy to follow and understand I'm a beginner and have never done make up and I'm trying to figure out how and what works for me. Thanks
I watched a tip where if you get some stray mascara, going in with a clean dry spooly and brushing will help get it off without ruining your shadows. Give it a shot if it happens again!
Can you do the “I’m not as crazy as I look” makeup look? I’m 6’1, people are mostly scared when I walk in with my resting bitch face... I’m really trying to be nice but I scare everyone before I even start talking
I literally smile at everyone and people talk to me nonstop. My makeup has been severe and almost non-existent.... It's new, I turned 40 and then everyone wanted to tell me about their day. 🤷🏻♀️ I would've hated it when I was 16 - the vibe came at a good time. 😉🥰
There is a new trend on tiktok saying white concealer under eyes with your foundation over the top really erases dark circles, im yet to try it but wondered if you would try it for us? X
I’m 25 and as I get ´’older’´ my eyes get more and more hooded to the point I cannot do ‘regular eyeshadow’ anymore. This has been challenging especially since I was really good at eye makeup in the past couple of years. This is the first video I saw (and girl I must have WATCHED 30) that was really helpful!!!!!
I love your cat!! Can we see more of him! You look naturally beautiful without make up as well. I enjoy your style without all the distractions other makeup guras use! 💄🙏
u literally did the exact makeup that i do everyday, the only thing i don’t do is the dark inner corner. i looooove this look and it looks bomb on everyone!!!
i just did bitchy makeup yesterday!! it really works lol if ppl aren't gonna socially distance on purpose at least i can cut them with my eyes to keep them far away from me
The bleeps have me on the floor as we speak!!! Anyway, now that you helped me with my RBF, now comes the help i need when i must venture into the world with my social battery at -50
I'M SO STUPIDDDDDDD. BLEEP. Kill me. 🥲
Did you forget to actually bleep it? 😅
ahahaha
Oh that’s so funny!! I was wondering about that hahaha
There’s still time to delete and re-upload, but it’s honestly really funny lmao
I was rather confused ....never bleeping mind!x
Next can you do a tutorial on how to look like you have your life together when you don’t?
Just for you 🥲
😂😂, personally, I need that as well
🙋♀️here's one more!
😂😂😂😂😂
Yes please🙏😭
Omg yes love the concept of "Do Not Talk To Me" makeup
Literally
"do not perceive me" but simultaneously "i must be the hottest bitch in this Starbucks"
IT FEELS SO POWERFUL
@@sarahw5693, ha, me going to school 😂. There is too many beautiful girls at school who don’t even wear makeup and they look better than me who wears makeup because without it I am not at all worth looking at 😂, so imma have to handle this sort of look cause I am the “do not talk to me unless I talk to you vibe” 😂
@@darthmaul2005 I bet you're cute af- but I get you from my school day's forever ago lol..
Never used much makeup at my work-
I wasn't around ppl so..
Now I just want to look-
Decent..
But a gal will definitely need to know how to do a - Don't fu#@ with me look 😎
YES. I appreciated the "how to look happier" tutorial y'know for when I do my makeup for job interviews. But this is what I really want.
🙌🏼😘
Once you’re hired, you’re free to use this makeup instead LOL love it
Yes! Totally agree!
@@SNMarlene was about to comment something almost exactly to this effect. Job interview: 😌 Demanding a raise: 😈
@@kagitsune YESS
Every customer service worker that has to smile while people treat them like garbage is thanking you for this. It's gives off that, I'mbeingniceandsmilingbutIcouldroundhousekickyouifIchose vibe we all try to achieve.
😂🙌🏼
That’s what I was just thinking!!!!
PREACH BABY!!!
yaasss for the round house kick! 💀
Yaaaaaaaas
Not enough makeup tutorials out there for people who do not wish to be perceived. Truly doing the best for us 🙌
As someone who is small, has a very "cute" face and appears younger than they are, so is constantly treated like a little girl, I love this concept!
I am a bit on the tall side but very much on the same team… *sigh*
Let’s show them, shall we? 😤
Same here. I’m petite and people think I’m 17 even though I’m in my mid 20’s and married. People really annoy me with treating me like a child. 🙄 This was made for people like us lol 😂 👌
Dude same! I'm almost 32 and still get asked if I'm in highschool 😭😭 gotta try this look!!
I have the same issue
Me too
Growing up as a Mexican American in the 80’s and 90’s we used to do some straight up sharpie eyebrows, bright under eyes, dark eyeliner, tons of mascara, and a super dark brown or burgundy lip. I already have RBF so with that style of makeup, no one messed with me in high school! Lol 😆😎
😍 love it
Lol as someone who’s mexican. I will NEVER not have a bright under eye, winged liner, and my brown lip liner. That will always be a staple for my makeup 😂❤️
That is so cool!
we asked, she listened 😭
can't wait to make this my everyday makeup 🤠🖤
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Your whole vibe in general screams “I’m a baddie, don’t mess with me” and this look is just chef’s kiss. I think it’s funny though because, at least on camera, you seem like a genuinely nice person
I feel like "intimidating" and "don't come near me" makeup comes off as very editorial! The look is effortlessly intense, I really like it!
Yasss 🙌🏻 I’m 5’2”. I’m not cute. I am the darkness
gotta say you look so much more excited making an angry makeup look over a happy makeup look lmao ♥️
😂😂😂😂🥲
Very unrelated, but I've finally found a fellow card heart user! ♥️
Aaaand this is why you're my favorite...I'm an attorney and need this so people take me seriously and I don't look like the brunette version of Elle Woods in court.
Also, I've noticed if you have a seemingly plumper bottom lip v. your top lip it gives "serious business woman" pout because it pulls/shifts it downward. Like a reverse smile.
I vote for more cat backgrounds. It’s a vibe
💯
Yeeaaa... me too
I needed this! I'm 32, 5'1", petite, high pitched voice, basically fucked. I am so so so so tired of being called cute, adorable, etc 🙄. Not being taken seriously. Can't wait to try out this look. You might just change my life.
Omg same girl 😭😭 it's so annoying I'm super excited to try this look!
Hey, so did you tried the Look? What did Change?
God bless the person who requested this, didn’t realize I needed it. As a person your age with round face and big eyes who also gets the “cute” compliment (ahem) a lot, and can’t pull off natural make-up without looking 18-20, THANK YOU! I usually go for softer smokey eyes or dark lip when I want to be taken seriously (also because I love it), but I had no idea what to do for something more… daily-like.
I will definitely try that double contour inner eye/brow trick! Hope it works on me too!
Also, I very much appreciate that you used that Viseart palette that I have (can’t wait to see more looks), that you confirmed my love for the 80s looking blush and that you also like to sometimes feather out the lip liner. Makes me feel I’m doing some things right…
Put my headphones in and this makeup on and I'm ready to go on public transportation
😂
I'm always told that I look "cute" but in a condescending way so thank you this is really useful
Need this. To people who say that I always look angry, I should probably put this makeup on and look more badass 😹
thats what I heard all my life... Are you angry? No, I just look like this.
Resting bitch face. Story of my life...
Same my coworkers always ask if I'm okay like I guess? 😂😐
@@Dmx2pacWutang 😂 I flip it back on people who ask me… “Yes, I’m okay, are you?”
Lol
Girl you just cured yeaaaaaarrrrrssssssss of insecurity about my dark circles THANK YOU
This is LITERALLY my everyday makeup look… I get it now
I love this!!!!!! I do find it interesting that this has a lot of crossover with your “boy beat” video. A lot of “looking intimidating” is about accentuating masc features and happy tends to lean more feminine. I’m non-binary and constantly struggle between wanting to look androgynous and wanting to look approachable. Your videos have helped a lot, I find something new to try in every one. Thank you ❤️
Can I just say that I LOVE LOVE LOVE that you don't use photo filters. So many MUA will use filters and pass it off as their natural talent, which makes their fans confused as to why they can't look the same way. I'm a really bad perfectionist and I'm always so hard on myself when I don't look the same as in the video... so yeah, thank you! :)
I freakin loved your energy in this video, yes you look more intimidating until you smile..your smile Alex is contagious and I hate smiling but you my friend your smile is so kind
I would love this and the happy make up on either side of your face to really see the difference!
I love your videoes, you’ve really been putting out some top class content!
I haven’t watch the whole video yet but I wanted to make sure you saw this. “YOU’RE AWESOME!” That’s all. Now I sit and enjoy lol
😭❤️
Yes! The tutorial everyone may not know they need. Thank you very much!! ❤
😂🙌🏼
I really need this, I'm 32 and people are always AWWW LOOK HOW CUTE SHE IS and then starts blabing about their problems. I don't wanna know, Susan. Get your shit togheter.
Our older, chubby, cuddly cat passed away two days ago. Just seeing your cat in the background gives me so much joy.
I love how you make yourself into literal art no matter what you do!! So beautiful and inspiring. I could definitely use a bit of that intimidating vibe to get people to just not fuck with me. You are so real, you’re not trying to be anyone else, you’re not trying to put on a ‘show’ just real, true self. I love you!
i love that this look basically accentuate your actual features, this could pass as a no-makeup makeup look tbh just a little bit more snatched and model-like
I basically have all of these features naturally. Comes in handy in the subways station but my coworkers automatically think I'm saying something mean every time I open my mouth 🤦
I watch your videos whenever I feel terribly anxious. Something about the way you talk or your overall aesthetic instantly calms me down.
I love your make up tutorials. You do a beautiful job of blending and you look flawless, yet you don't you don't cake on the cake on the make up. This is what the real working class people need! THANK YOU!
I think a dark lip would make you Disney villain intimidating though! Nailed the look
i needed this. people say i have a resting confused/sad face. it’s either just my face or the depression.
I cannot tell you how incredibly helpful these kinds of videos are. I’ve probably mentioned that I’m a photographer, my images are usually very conceptual and story-telling and I often do self portraits because it’s more convenient. Being able to change my face up like this is not only helpful for regular life, but it’s SO helpful for my character photos! Thank you!!!!! 🖤🖤🖤
I love this. I have a “happy looking” face so most people (icky dudes) see me as approachable and I love the more sharp intimidating look.
Perfect for what everyone is calling their ‘Villain Era’ love this so much
Also you’re intimidating in general because of your confidence, if I saw you on the street I’d think you were a bad bitch. This makeup contributes to that. If I had never seen your videos and how chill you are in them, i probs wouldn’t approach tbh… I’d still think you were pretty regardless,,,
🤷🏾♀️ I accentuate my dark circles too! I saw an Indian makeup tutorial where the girl had naturally deep pigmented lids, and they enhanced her simple warm eye makeup so well, I HAD to try it… and fell in love! I like in combination with a “puppy eye” 🥺
This was literally why I started wearing more makeup. I kept getting approached with no makeup on and my friends who are much better looking but with killer angry eye cat eyes would get left alone and I just really wanted to be left alone though. My resting face is apparently “please I need someone to talk to me I’m very meek” but inside I am a grumpy old man
“…but I felt like I was 5’10 and a BAD ASS!” F*cking loved this!!! Even now I feel this 😭
Tip for all you soap brow peeps out there.... Save and clean one of your The Ordinary bottles with a pipette and put water in it and keep it with your soap. A drop or two is more precise and the soap doesn't get overly wet, and no running to the sink. Spray bottles are fine but I find that they wet too much of the soap for my liking.
And Alex, you look badass all the time. This is just another level though!
*does completely intimidating bad ass stunning make up, yet moves cat and chair into the light. Here for this.
Whahaha that's so sweet 😂
Kitties are solar powered after all. 😂
Love these videos, Helpful but also relaxing. Great to watch when you're trying to fall asleep haha
my friend taught me how to do a really smokey close-to-lash-line smeared out kajal and I do it ever since i got to know about it. I loved how you did your makeup and it reminded me of how my friend and i always talk about techniques we wanted to try and its just out there now in a singular video omg
not me saying "bless you" out loud when she sneezed. for real bless you girl.
I naturally do my makeup like this and now I completely understand why people hesitate to approach me 😵💫😂
Same
okay i just recently discovered you and i’m obsessed w your whole aesthetic/attitude + you are the most gorgeous human i’ve ever fucking seen
Your skin is like marble, absolutely stunning. Love the look
I loooooove this look. That smoky wing is really, really cool. (I also loved when your cat was on the window sill and her shadow was on the wall around 14:30.)
I'm already angry 24/7/365, but I mean ok sure let's take it up a notch!
😂
Ur the only women that does makeup online that can make me want to try so many looks stg
You are the absolute BEST on the entire internet. This is everything I needed. THANK YOU. You are a gem.
I bleeping love you! 🤣 You're hilarious, you always make me crack a smile even on days when it feels impossible while at the same time being extremely helpful and knowledgeable.
girl when you put that eyeshadow in the inner corner of your eye that AMPED UP EVERYTHING
I want to be as chill as the cat. I also live by Roadhouse rules....be nice, be nice until it's time not to be nice. I freakin love this look. 🖤
that's actually exactly my go to everyday makeup since about 8 years, except the inner corners. No wonder everyone is saying that I look like a bitch.
Saaaaame haha oops 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
Hahah same!!
I think this is the most I’ve seen Alex smile/ laugh (despite the title of this vid LOL) & I love it:’)
Your background has something that looks very much like the "Moisturize me" lady from Doctor Who. If you know you know. ...In an episode of Seinfeld, Jerry's uncle Leo lost his eyebrows in an accident and Elaine drew them on for him with a sharpie and then he went to the doctor and everyone thought he was super hostile and angry. It got into his medical record as being a "difficult patient" just because he had a ridic strong brow...
Yessss I had the same thought about the doctor who lady! Terrifying….
Lol 😆 I hadn't noticed that, it does look like it 🤣
Uncle Leo?! 🤣
Cassandra lmaoo
lol yes, "moisturize me" kept swirling in my head and distracting me while i watched the video
15:57 “Where the fuck is my- oh its right here…” is a common sentence for me 🤦🏼♀️ I’d lose my head if it wasn’t attached to my neck
This lead me to your channel and now I'm never leaving ILYSM. Gonna try this look on my channel!
I already have RBF. Won't stop me from trying these tricks out because there's nothing wrong with looking EVEN MORE intimidating 😆. I feel so honored that your cat has graced us with her/his presence. I love her/his face.
I'm so glad you make this easy to follow and understand I'm a beginner and have never done make up and I'm trying to figure out how and what works for me. Thanks
F*ck, really my kind of look. Great "messy" video by the way. Love this real, not over eddited style. And love your cat 😻
You were SO into this video!!! Best brows, best makeup on the Tube!! 2022......I say, YES!!!!!!!!!! ✌️💚🙏
I am 5’10” and a badass and will be trying this out tomorrow 🌞
I’m living for the chaos of this video lol
😂😂😂😂🥲💀
I watched a tip where if you get some stray mascara, going in with a clean dry spooly and brushing will help get it off without ruining your shadows. Give it a shot if it happens again!
Perfect for my upcoming wedding, thank you
Can you do the “I’m not as crazy as I look” makeup look?
I’m 6’1, people are mostly scared when I walk in with my resting bitch face... I’m really trying to be nice but I scare everyone before I even start talking
check out the video before “how to look happier” or st similar!
I have been WAITING for a tutorial like this. Thank you SO SO much! I can't wait to follow this and update my makeup routine
Bless you. I can't wait to try this. I have resting nice face and I hate it
You can really see the difference when comparing with the "happier" video- love this!!
The cat in the background. The ultimate keeper of intimidation and "don't F with me" energy just chilling making sure you're getting it right 😂
I literally smile at everyone and people talk to me nonstop. My makeup has been severe and almost non-existent....
It's new, I turned 40 and then everyone wanted to tell me about their day. 🤷🏻♀️
I would've hated it when I was 16 - the vibe came at a good time. 😉🥰
There is a new trend on tiktok saying white concealer under eyes with your foundation over the top really erases dark circles, im yet to try it but wondered if you would try it for us? X
I’m 25 and as I get ´’older’´ my eyes get more and more hooded to the point I cannot do ‘regular eyeshadow’ anymore. This has been challenging especially since I was really good at eye makeup in the past couple of years. This is the first video I saw (and girl I must have WATCHED 30) that was really helpful!!!!!
You are literally make the most interesting makeup tutorials out therr
She looking gorgeous.
All this screams confidence to me. Like don’t mess with the person who rocks cool eyebrows and glitter inner corners.
I love your cat!! Can we see more of him!
You look naturally beautiful without make up as well. I enjoy your style without all the distractions other makeup guras use! 💄🙏
You are hilarious. You made my night. Thank you for cracking me up 14:33. The faces you make and trying to look intimidating.
u literally did the exact makeup that i do everyday, the only thing i don’t do is the dark inner corner. i looooove this look and it looks bomb on everyone!!!
At 7:28 when she went from talking to just moving her head like that scared tf out of me🤣🤣
I really hope u get to 1 mill subs soon cause u really deserve it !!
yayyy normal lipliner!!! i can see the heart on top of your lip!
i just did bitchy makeup yesterday!! it really works lol if ppl aren't gonna socially distance on purpose at least i can cut them with my eyes to keep them far away from me
I just got a mask that says 🎵DONT STAND SO CLOSE TO ME🎵 just for that reason - this eye makeup will pair so nicely 👌
@@ladyofcuriousvirtue OMGGG I love THATTT!
You did the eye make-up the way my dark circles look 🤧🤚
Aw yiss. I'm also a big fan of the "eye liner wings sharp enough to kill a man" look 😎
I appreciate the kitten in the background!!! 🐈💓
YESSSSS THOSE EYEBROWS ARE KILLING IT !!!!
The bleeps have me on the floor as we speak!!! Anyway, now that you helped me with my RBF, now comes the help i need when i must venture into the world with my social battery at -50
I just love your personal videos on your phone like this! You always take away my anxiety ❤️❤️❤️
omg I LOOOOOVE this look on you and need to try myself!
Yep this might be my favourite tut yet 🥺
You make me laugh, as well as teach me stuff 😄 love it 💓✌️😊
I'm a day late love this look though thank you. Your cat is chillin she's beautiful 😎
Yooooo I LOVE HOW THIS TURNED OUT!!! Was feeling bored w my makeup and followed this & i feel like such a baddieeeee