It can be hard to block out the pain of the judgement of others, but at the end of the day you are really only competing against yourself. If you're trying to impress anyone else, notice how the bar keeps shifting? That what you are perceived to be failing at, keeps changing? Internal validation is what is important. What sort of person do you need to become to make you proud of yourself? Work towards that, and learn to love yourself, and be caring towards yourself, just as you are right now. Thanks Dai :)
It can be hard to block out the pain of the judgement of others, but at the end of the day you are really only competing against yourself. If you're trying to impress anyone else, notice how the bar keeps shifting? That what you are perceived to be failing at, keeps changing?
Internal validation is what is important. What sort of person do you need to become to make you proud of yourself? Work towards that, and learn to love yourself, and be caring towards yourself, just as you are right now.
Thanks Dai :)
Thank you for reminding us. It's a simple thing but I think too many people have forgotten the 'power of self'!!!
"I am an awesome failure". I feel better already. Now if I could just get paid for that life would be wonderful. \o/
Bro your awesome
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