That is so crazy! INFJ here, I can relate 100%. Working as a carpenter, I would constantly get airlines caught up in the most bizzare and weirdest ways. They would be immense frustrations to me, as it just didn't make sense how they could almost magically wrap themselves up in the most obscure ways. It's refreshing to see how others struggle with the same sort of thing. It's frustrations like that, to many, where I seem so out of skew :( Anyways, interesting you mentioned that, as cords might be one of my greatest enemies, enough so to see an extremely, chill, calm guy lost his absolute mind. Most times I would have the thought like God was cursing me!
INTJ here. Same. I have observer freakouts about loudass motorcycles and trucks. Like WHY the FRICK!!! do they have to be so damn loud so EVERYBODY else has to stop what they are doing and listen to their damn vehicle as it drives throughout the entire neighborhood! Pisses me off every time.
Not Ni, but great over the top example of fear of chaos: One time when I sat in an ISFJs car, him driving, me reading the map, I was being a bit slow in telling him which way to take. We were in a roundabout and missed the exit. I was like: "Oops, that was the one". I was about to jokingly apologize for the ten seconds wasted, but he was completely stressed out, cut me off and yelled at me: "GREAT! Now what?!?"
Oh my. Been there as a lead Ni driver, with my teenager trying to navigate.... whew. Roundabouts all by themselves are stressful enough (not quite sure why).
My family certainly reads it as a hard time since I like to know 'where to go' ahead. They don't get why I need to know where to turn five blocks ahead. I have learned to be very blunt that I need the information because my family-member would actually just not give me the answer, that he'd be watching out and give it to me at the right time. I can intellectually see what's up here- he will probably give me the information in time, but I could not respond quickly enough, etc. I just worry. And he does not get it. :)
Aaaaah this this this. I’ve gotten into an argument with my brother over something similar! I don’t like driving to a new place without MY google maps telling me where to go...cause I can’t rely on people to give me accurate directions!! Like what if you forget? What if there’s traffic on this steeet? What if you actually DONT know where to go....I can’t trust that
Yea, usually IS×Js I know do this example, and not my Ni friends!!! Maybe my Ni friends play it off well something. But my ISFJ bf and ISTJ dad freak out and ALWAYS think people are out to get them, for the most smallest things, where NOBODY is even thinking about them.
Oh, trust me, shopping for pants as a man sucks as well. Way too many times do I find pants that I could fit into twice, but somehow it's still squeezing my crotch like a gay Donald Trump.
Shan is malfunctioning from all the funny videos Dave shows her at the beginning. Lol. I really liked this video because it helped me understand another perspective of why someone would freak out over chaos. The clip at the end about women's broken measurement system for pants had me dying of laughter. Great video!
This is hilarious and so true :D I'm INFJ and normally quite calm, but I will lose my shit completely and immediately when some inanimate object decides not to cooperate with what is expected of it. That vacuum cord story is 100% me too .
"I'm already wasting my life, okay, when I'm done with this, how am I going to make up for it," and then the sensory attacks. If you don't take it personally, own it, and wear it loudly, it can snap you out of your head. Also, that dude has the exact same eyes as Dave.
First of all the choreography and beat boxing in the 1st 3 seconds 😂 I think this video and example of the vacuum works perfect for lead intuitives. Like the physical world is out to get us by forcing us to be present.
I don't have the Ni chaos thing at all, but I think I understand the tantrum feeling. One of my recurring issues that I've *sort of* gotten a handle on over time has been when in some relatively innocuous discussion someone else will say something that comes off as a personal attack against me or "my people", and I have this immediate angry impulse to punch back and attack in order to "defend myself". It took me a long time to realize that my response probably seemed just as unprecedented to the other person as their thing did to me, and I still have a lot of trouble realizing that's happening in the moment, though I think I've been forced to calm down overall given how draining these arguments usually end up being.
Well tbh your description fits all introverted functions. I’m Ne-Ti and I have the exact same reaction when I think someone misunderstood me and is trying to attack or belittle my own logical arguments. The first reaction my Ti has in those situations is “that person is dumb, and it makes sense they’re dumb because of this and that. Don’t waste your time” but as I got more mature and gathered more knowledge around personalities and functions, I realized that the Ne-Ti communication style is not only hard to understand for most people but it can be quite chaotic too due to the amount of information. I got surprised the day I realized how much chaos I unnecessarily put into conversations, I always thought no one could explain things better than me 😂🤦♂️.
OMG! I’m trying so freaking hard to not type myself wrong. First I thought I was ENFJ. That felt amazing to me. Then I watched your videos on ppl typing themselves wrong and that made sense b/c I don’t like feelings or dealing with other ppl’s feelings. The descriptions of ENFJ were somewhat relatable, but really it was upside down being I wish I liked people, but sort of don’t. I went through so many of your videos about Binary coins and pieced myself together as an ENTJ. That really feels like home- though I did experience all stages of grief. I realized I actually am an asshole inwardly at least. I come off as intimidating to ppl even though I like I come off as friendly and open. Ppl tell me the opposite all the time. After watching this and learning more about Ni, I can relate 100% to freaking out about stuff. Right down to divorce and your house burning down as being more expectable than the vacuum cord. The pants rant at the end is something I have done in my head full force and to others too. Whyyyyy??? Sizing systems for women really do suck. Lol
You probably have identity Demon either way, that's why you're stuck and women size are hard because it's not like men where you have one or two mesurements, all women sizing is like different species sizing because there too are many mesurement to do and no way to Universalise a women body
I had an IxxJ freak-out this morning! And, I'm still trying to calm down from it. :-/ After driving over halfway to work, I realized I left my wallet at home. Heart pounding... panicking... what do I do? Call in sick? Unacceptable! I frantically start rifling through my purse and find some old Xmas gift cards that somehow still have money on them. I wasn't able to take the train in because my card is in my wallet, but was able to drive into work and still make it on time! Phew. The good lawd is on my side today!!! Those Jason Wilson edits were funny. Lol! Thanks for everything you both are putting out there. I'm learning a lot (slowly, but surely!).
I guess this event didn’t make me tantrum-y, though. I get tantrum-y when people do not plan things out correctly and I’m forced to create order out of chaos. Then, people wonder why I become short and irritated with them??? I hate that feeling of feeling like I’m surrounded by airheads!
@@sammyj1183 Being forced to create order out of chaos (for others) really hits the spot. Sometimes I'm trying to stay out of planning entirely and let others just do their thing. However since I'm the one doing the work it comes back to me most of the time. When it's not perfect I'm the one to blame and to make it perfect needs a lot more dedication than it would have needed when doing it right away on my own.
Tracking that tantrum-y feeling seems like a reliable way to watch your own functions. The challenge is putting yourself in situations that bring out that part of yourself, which is easier said than done!
Oh my god the vacuum cord thing! For me it’s when I get shit caught on doorknobs (usually pockets because I’m tall and doorknobs are hip height). God I feel like a TODDLER with how rage-y I get. It’s insane! I also get mad when I trip and fall (especially when people crowd me all ARE YOU OKAY?! Yes! Fuck off!). Man I had no idea this was a “thing” for Ni but it makes so much sense XD.
I understand that lady's pain at the end because I'm 70% leg and I'm too skinny for big and tall stores and other stores started pulling my sizes off the shelf because apparently I'm a fucking mythical creature.
This explains why my ex felt the need to control (everything) but especially our conversations. She couldn’t handle me expressing my emotions as they came and felt victimized by any display of passionate emotion. So I was forced into arguing with her with a flat affect. No, not even arguing, that was completely off limits. I had to have everything thought out and felt out before entering the conversation. Needless to say, as an ESTJ/ENTJ, that didn’t work out.
In my experience, ALL of the IS×Js I know do this example, OFTEN, and not my Ni friends!!! Maybe my Ni friends play it off well something. But my ISFJ bf and ISTJ dad freak out and ALWAYS think people are out to get them, for the most smallest things, where NOBODY is even thinking about them.
INTJ here. I can totally relate. I have observer freakouts about loudass motorcycles and trucks. Like WHY the FRICK do they have to be so damn loud so EVERYBODY else has to stop what they are doing and listen to their damn vehicle as it drives throughout the entire neighborhood! Pisses me off every time.
I got my vacuum fixed, 2 weeks later the cord broke and I can’t solder it. I am so personally attacked by that cord, and it has nothing to do with my type.
I did the ambitious thing and typed myself after watching all these videos. I always get a little nervous watching these specific function features fearing I might find that I went to all that effort to type myself based on my habits and others' interactions with me, only to discover that I got my entire understanding of the theory wrong. I mean, I go in and watch in any case, because this typology nonsense fascinates me and I badly want to know the truth, but there is always that little doubt in the back of my head giving me trouble. Then, there's this internal battle (once I've learned something) between a really clever but uncalled for confirmation bias, and a ruthless contrarianism that fights the bias every step of the way. It's a fun little fight, but it doesn't get me any closer to that which I seek.
Does the ruthless contrarianism make a strong case suggesting that you are some other type than you determined yourself to be? I have something similar to these inner dialogues, are there some certain events or behaviors you try to explain to yourself using different functions? When you doubt yourself, do only some types (which come up frequently) seem to be more probable?
@@yashmalviya4563 My mind is similar to Hegelian Dialectic. It always corrects itself to come closer to complete self-consistency. First, an assertion (the thesis), much like a hypothesis but more personal in spirit - I am an INTJ because I live in my head on nonobjective terms, help others in practical ways, and reserve my opinions to myself. Second, the contrarianism (antithesis) which says, "no, this is just confirmation bias; besides, _everyone_ claims to be an INTJ at some point in typology, and I may be peacocking too." Third, the synthesis, which I am currently working on. If you have done a bit of studying on Hegel, you'll have noticed he makes an emphasis on "identity by the other". If I'm going to make good on my antithesis, I'm going to have to get opinions from others about me. Then, with the input of others, I will be able to narrow down my type for certain. As for the use of different functions, I like to measure them as isolated and as part of an "animal". That seems to give me a good kind of triangulation. Of all the types, I am most likely a single-observer. I don't "like" giving help to others who ask for it (I would rather help on my own terms), but I always do it. For an EJ this would be a compromise to the self, and the IP types certainly wouldn't help first. For me, I can roll with helping put for now, since I can always find a way to serve myself another time. I do have a bit of an EJ "People need to stop coming to me for help" peacock complex, so I'm tribe above self for sure. Now... EP or IJ? Well... I don't do much in the way of looking for "new" unless I'm done unraveling an obsession of mine that I've grown bored of, and it's pretty terrifying when an X-factor jumps in to throw me off my plans. So, my lead function is either Ni or Si. Well, I am not a "by the book" variety by any measure, preferring to use my own method (even if that means reinventing the wheel, hey, it's still _my_ wheel!) deduced from accumulation of facts - convergent logic path. As for my decider axis, like I said, the things I like are things I like because I like them, and have minimal basis in whether it's popular with others (usually I keep the things I like to myself, fearing that others would not give them the merit I think they deserve). On the outside, I help others in practical ways in hopes it'll make their lives easier - preferably in the form of principles they can use in any situation. I guess this makes me an INTJ, but I feel awkward putting that up whether I am or not. Even though it's just a function stack, I see _way_ too many people saying they're that type.
@RUclips Veterinarian i felt called out at that very moment cause it took me a very ling time to understand that other people aren't toying with me all the time.
Another intj locked door story: I was 10 and I walked home from school, the door to the house was locked so I knocked, I knocked for 5 minutes straight expecting someone to be there the whole time and then crying for another 5 minutes as well as screaming at the door for someone to let me in also vacuuming is the worst, especially when you have to move furniture around while changing to different power points and your si using parents end up making you do it all again because you missed a few spots
I just threw a full on tantrum and became filled with absolute rage over the fact that my oatmeal I had in the microwave boiled over and spilled on the sides. At least I know this happens to other people too lol
I mean, I feel the same way about pants. I'd rather not waste my life looking at a million different stores and a billion pairs of pants to get one pair that fits. Thankfully stretchy pants are in. And 90% of the time I can order them online and they'll fit reasonably well. And it takes less than 10 minutes.
yeahhhh that is overload, when chaos strikes, I just get a vomity feeling but then I go deal with it. On the other hand, my man be popping off like this all the time
i can totally relate, but with time you become wiser... ^_^ i got a cordless dyson vacuum cleaner. when going clothes shopping i pick up jeans sizes 34,36,38 right away so that i don't need to go twice... don't use public transportation which is always early or late, have all things that you need and use frequently super accessible => have a NOT stressful life 🌸
I've done quizzes and came out INTJ and ENTJ. After watching this video, I so relate more to Ni being dominant and I believe I'm probably INTJ. I'm laughing because I can relate so much to this video. However, I do want to take the Objective Personality course and find out what my correct personality. I believe it's INTJ, but I could be wrong.
"Walking through the door, with the cord and just walking through the house"...with Five Ferrets following their Ferrent. Ni I say more? I think you two make me like laughing but you also create good content. Thanks.
As an ENTJ I definitely understand that tantrum with the vaccum. I've had a mini tantrum today at work because I could find the information I needed to splice a line. It took way to long and found nothing,so I was pissed because the information use to be available and now it wasnt. The captain took over and told me to paint. I got everything ready and the rollers we had weren't working at all so I was so frustrated because it wasnt going as planned. I had to use a paint brush to finish the whole area. Everything going wrong and having my Fi start coming out because I the captain took over the project I was on already making me feel worthless. It was awful!
Where I get lost is don't you have to gather first to have a bag to go back to? Because I go back to the stuff I know but I had to gather to know about it.
Oh, yeah--the bottle cap falls off, hits the floor, rolls under the fridge; I eat directly over the plate and the food that falls off my form hits the plate, does a triple somersault, and lands on my shirt; the drink spills and, while you are trying to stop it, make it spill even more, splattering everywhere; you go to fix a leaky faucet and 3 hours later you're calling the plumber. And it's NOT that these events only happen to us--but we dwell on them, ruminate, and turn them into the Monsters or Demons that are out to ruin us. Everyone else is like "Hmm. Time to move on."
But how did we learn what we know in the first place? I don't think Ni is as close-minded. I assume we take lots of stuff in our whole life and find something that makes sense and works for us. Only then we may close the gates to (probably) not as good ideas/options.
Chick at the end is preaching facts. Seriously, why do they do that with sizes!? 🤣 This drives my wife absolutely nuts. As for me: my damn headphone cords. How it turns into the damn Gordian Knot through no effort on my part is a mystery of the universe. Some voodoo right there.
Thank you. I still can't say what this means function-wise, but now I know my life-defining problem: I fear the hate of the unknown tribe I'll have to interact with if I say yes.
Yeah. I can exercise superhuman patience during the most disastrous situations and absolutely lose my shit at silly inanimate objects. INFP Be blessed y'all 🙏
Lmao 😂 the vacuum cord gets me all the time!!! It’s like when I’m carrying in too many grocery bags... struggling to get in the door, I want to take everything and chuck it! My friend makes fun of me repeating something I once said, “Ahhhh, not having internet connection is not so bad... it’s kind of relaxing to be off the grid [struggling to get online] what kind of f***ing sh*t is this!!!!???? I hate this place!” In a matter of seconds.
I’m a INTJ, I walk around the house and give my wife to do lists for her day on what I see needs to be done…. But I don’t think of myself as controlling cause I say it nicely when I do it…Lol :p true story. She loves the heck out of me she’s a ISFP
Ni doesn't fear chaos but recognizes patterns in it so it can discover the underlying meaning of said chaos. Jason Wilson choice of words, "playing me" and "ignoring me", is what a Si would use describing other's behaviors towards them. He's ESxJ, not INxJ. That girl at the end of the video is most likely an ESTP. Both of these people examples are of sensors and not intuitives.
Actually men dont have pant sizes all figured out either anymore. Checking out jeans I noticed the sizes on the jeans are lower than what the size actually is. On a mens jeans website it said: "Fair warning, you may not be the size you think you are due to “glamor sizing,” a common practice among retailers over the last few years that puts smaller sizing labels on clothing that is not accurate if checked with a measuring tape." I think the sensors responsible for setting standards in society dropped the ball on this one.
Working as a porter and having to vacuum is a nightmare for me. I'm usually so wrapped up in other things that I won't realize the cord is at it's length and I'll pull it out. It's the most infuriating thing ever.
Yeah, I have never taken being locked out of the house or someone leaving their dirty dishes in the sink personally, that just seems so obvious, so does that mean Fe or Te is high on my function stack? I get that people aren't out to get me in that way. But I can totally relate to being frustrated with putting the vacuum cleaner away and having like 6 things fall out of the cupboard as you do it and somehow it won't fit back in even though that's exactly the spot you got it from. Ugh. Or being really careful not to spill the milk as you pour it into your mug, but then as you tilt it back when you're done it ends up splashing anyway.
Also... Fist fights with objects? Hell yes! I scold inanimate objects all the damn time. Remote dies on me? "Yeah? Screw you too!" I don't like most machinery because of how touchy it is - FUCK power tools and anything with a cord! ...and there's nothing quite as agitating as trying to get a ring clamp on a pushrod boot with a pair of pliers. That shit makes me drown a person in a toilet.
I always make sure the vacuum cord is long enough so it doesn't get stuck or trapped somewhere to obstruct me from vacuuming properly hahahaha is that considered controlling chaos
This comment may not be completely related to this video, but more to personality typing in general.. the more I look at these videos the more I think that everyone can be anyone, if you know what I mean..What I think can be useful is learning cognitive functions and how they work, and actually try to develop all of them. However, typing yourself can be quite exhausting and counter productive. I literally managed to type myself with 10 different personalities in a week time.. became almost obsessed trying to type myself correctly and perhaps also caused some brain damage :D. But what exactly is the point of typing yourself and putting yourself in the box if the point is to develop all the damn functions. I personally think that typing someone can be made only in the very young age or if you know the person very very well.. people change a loooot through the years. And also, it all depends on the occasion, in one situation, surrounded with one type of people you can seem as an ENTJ, but in a different surrounding (perhaps when doing some humanitarian work) one can be mistaken for an ISFJ. It is natural that through the years you slowly realize your weak spots, develop them, learn what makes you happy the most and improve your strong sides... in another words, everyone is developing all of the functions through the years.. if not, probably something is very wrong. For example, when I was a kid, I was very very sensitive to bullies and criticism, a lot of times in fear.. went through some weird shit in life, and now I actually want to understand why people do that.. what is happening in their minds. I am also much more extroverted than before. I personally don't agree how you and other people on youtube do typing of other people.. how can you take just few clips and determine how someone thinks? It is just a video not their life. I think it is ok to notice functions and use them as examples but I dont believe you can actually determine the personality type, even with tens of clips. Maybe I am wrong, please correct me. Is typing really necessary in general or it would be better just to be aware of cognitive functions, can you elaborate? There are too many stereotypes in this (personality type) community..
@@Dani-jo9yr Must be the Ni, wants to know when things are going to happen. You might be more engaged into your tertiary Se. And you can't rule out life experiences, her parents were not good, pretty sure Dad had BPD. Probably created a need to feel safe.
Oh god! The fight Dave has with the vacuum cord is the fight I have with the freakin’ water hose!!! And then it gets twisted and caught and the water doesn’t come out and I just pull it so hard so the stupid sorter falls over and then I spray my dog to relieve some tension 😆 throw the hose to the ground and walk off. 😆
The answer is because women have a different size for their waist, for their butt, for their thighs, the length of their torso, etc, etc, and all of this hasn't yet been put all together and codified. Men only have 2 things- waist and length. And clothing stores dont want to be made to carry "all types/sizes" for women, so instead they get away with slapping on a size and calling it a day.
It's weird because I am an INTP and my response to some thing perfectly executing a 1 in a million chance event to trip me up makes me laugh at it and the oddities of the universe that caused that to happen. I have the same phrase "Damn I couldnt make it do that if I tried" but followed by a total curiosity of how it did it. Now if something goes wrong because some dumb engineer designbed it badly....epic tantrum time about the idiot designer from me.
Seeing this video and saying to myself: shit * ♾, why this’s me all my entire life? everybody hate this from me and they’re denying that’s my demon, the simplest things I can’t get them like a senile, how an INTJ can be like that?!
Ok the observer freakout at the end is relatable
Honestly that's just a good point
The freak out is priceless. Had me laughing out loud for so long! Relatable, yes!
INFJ here.
So true. The feeling is like, "why I have to waste my time with this stupid problem? The world should have solved this bullshit already"
As an INTJ I'm literally crying from laughing because of how much I realize I do these things. The vacuum chord especially pisses me off.
Hahahaha, I am thinking of my INTJ friend.
So many inanimate Objects have been smashed into tiny pieces while this intj shouts"this is the last fucking time!!!.... "
That is so crazy! INFJ here, I can relate 100%. Working as a carpenter, I would constantly get airlines caught up in the most bizzare and weirdest ways. They would be immense frustrations to me, as it just didn't make sense how they could almost magically wrap themselves up in the most obscure ways. It's refreshing to see how others struggle with the same sort of thing. It's frustrations like that, to many, where I seem so out of skew :( Anyways, interesting you mentioned that, as cords might be one of my greatest enemies, enough so to see an extremely, chill, calm guy lost his absolute mind. Most times I would have the thought like God was cursing me!
INTJ here. Same. I have observer freakouts about loudass motorcycles and trucks. Like WHY the FRICK!!! do they have to be so damn loud so EVERYBODY else has to stop what they are doing and listen to their damn vehicle as it drives throughout the entire neighborhood! Pisses me off every time.
You look like an INTJ
Not Ni, but great over the top example of fear of chaos:
One time when I sat in an ISFJs car, him driving, me reading the map, I was being a bit slow in telling him which way to take. We were in a roundabout and missed the exit. I was like: "Oops, that was the one". I was about to jokingly apologize for the ten seconds wasted, but he was completely stressed out, cut me off and yelled at me: "GREAT! Now what?!?"
Oh my. Been there as a lead Ni driver, with my teenager trying to navigate.... whew. Roundabouts all by themselves are stressful enough (not quite sure why).
My family certainly reads it as a hard time since I like to know 'where to go' ahead. They don't get why I need to know where to turn five blocks ahead. I have learned to be very blunt that I need the information because my family-member would actually just not give me the answer, that he'd be watching out and give it to me at the right time. I can intellectually see what's up here- he will probably give me the information in time, but I could not respond quickly enough, etc. I just worry. And he does not get it. :)
Aaaaah this this this. I’ve gotten into an argument with my brother over something similar! I don’t like driving to a new place without MY google maps telling me where to go...cause I can’t rely on people to give me accurate directions!! Like what if you forget? What if there’s traffic on this steeet? What if you actually DONT know where to go....I can’t trust that
Yea, usually IS×Js I know do this example, and not my Ni friends!!! Maybe my Ni friends play it off well something. But my ISFJ bf and ISTJ dad freak out and ALWAYS think people are out to get them, for the most smallest things, where NOBODY is even thinking about them.
Yes, shopping for ladies pants sucks. Amen sister!
Oh, trust me, shopping for pants as a man sucks as well. Way too many times do I find pants that I could fit into twice, but somehow it's still squeezing my crotch like a gay Donald Trump.
Shan is malfunctioning from all the funny videos Dave shows her at the beginning. Lol. I really liked this video because it helped me understand another perspective of why someone would freak out over chaos. The clip at the end about women's broken measurement system for pants had me dying of laughter. Great video!
Shelby Ramirez I can’t imagine not freaking out over chaos.
This is hilarious and so true :D I'm INFJ and normally quite calm, but I will lose my shit completely and immediately when some inanimate object decides not to cooperate with what is expected of it. That vacuum cord story is 100% me too .
As an INTJ this resonates haha. This was the funniest thing in a while. Thank you.
"I'm already wasting my life, okay, when I'm done with this, how am I going to make up for it," and then the sensory attacks. If you don't take it personally, own it, and wear it loudly, it can snap you out of your head. Also, that dude has the exact same eyes as Dave.
After years acquired Fi an INTJ decided to make a tutorial how to cry properly
A lot of this is relevant to Si dominants too.
First of all the choreography and beat boxing in the 1st 3 seconds 😂
I think this video and example of the vacuum works perfect for lead intuitives. Like the physical world is out to get us by forcing us to be present.
I wish my dad would make a breakthrough like that guy and stop assuming my intentions are always attacking.
Definitely true, nothing quite as irritating as being in an environment where there's too much sensory stuff that you can't do anything about.
That vacuum story hit me where I live. The rage I have felt in these circumstances is boundless.
God dammit, now I’m pissed about pants and cords!
@@adamagustus1316 lmao whyyyy
@@adamagustus1316 haha found the NT
Couldn't stop laughing at the end. Love you guys, been marathon watching all your videos. I give the video's a like even before watching.
I don't have the Ni chaos thing at all, but I think I understand the tantrum feeling. One of my recurring issues that I've *sort of* gotten a handle on over time has been when in some relatively innocuous discussion someone else will say something that comes off as a personal attack against me or "my people", and I have this immediate angry impulse to punch back and attack in order to "defend myself". It took me a long time to realize that my response probably seemed just as unprecedented to the other person as their thing did to me, and I still have a lot of trouble realizing that's happening in the moment, though I think I've been forced to calm down overall given how draining these arguments usually end up being.
That sounds like it could be an Fi thing. As an Fi-dom myself, I have that reaction sometimes.
Well tbh your description fits all introverted functions. I’m Ne-Ti and I have the exact same reaction when I think someone misunderstood me and is trying to attack or belittle my own logical arguments. The first reaction my Ti has in those situations is “that person is dumb, and it makes sense they’re dumb because of this and that. Don’t waste your time” but as I got more mature and gathered more knowledge around personalities and functions, I realized that the Ne-Ti communication style is not only hard to understand for most people but it can be quite chaotic too due to the amount of information. I got surprised the day I realized how much chaos I unnecessarily put into conversations, I always thought no one could explain things better than me 😂🤦♂️.
OMG! I’m trying so freaking hard to not type myself wrong. First I thought I was ENFJ. That felt amazing to me. Then I watched your videos on ppl typing themselves wrong and that made sense b/c I don’t like feelings or dealing with other ppl’s feelings. The descriptions of ENFJ were somewhat relatable, but really it was upside down being I wish I liked people, but sort of don’t. I went through so many of your videos about Binary coins and pieced myself together as an ENTJ. That really feels like home- though I did experience all stages of grief. I realized I actually am an asshole inwardly at least. I come off as intimidating to ppl even though I like I come off as friendly and open. Ppl tell me the opposite all the time. After watching this and learning more about Ni, I can relate 100% to freaking out about stuff. Right down to divorce and your house burning down as being more expectable than the vacuum cord. The pants rant at the end is something I have done in my head full force and to others too. Whyyyyy??? Sizing systems for women really do suck. Lol
You probably have identity Demon either way, that's why you're stuck and women size are hard because it's not like men where you have one or two mesurements, all women sizing is like different species sizing because there too are many mesurement to do and no way to Universalise a women body
I had an IxxJ freak-out this morning! And, I'm still trying to calm down from it. :-/ After driving over halfway to work, I realized I left my wallet at home. Heart pounding... panicking... what do I do? Call in sick? Unacceptable! I frantically start rifling through my purse and find some old Xmas gift cards that somehow still have money on them. I wasn't able to take the train in because my card is in my wallet, but was able to drive into work and still make it on time! Phew. The good lawd is on my side today!!! Those Jason Wilson edits were funny. Lol! Thanks for everything you both are putting out there. I'm learning a lot (slowly, but surely!).
I guess this event didn’t make me tantrum-y, though. I get tantrum-y when people do not plan things out correctly and I’m forced to create order out of chaos. Then, people wonder why I become short and irritated with them??? I hate that feeling of feeling like I’m surrounded by airheads!
“Airheads” .... coming from the person who left their wallet home today 🤣☺️👁 I guess I had that coming! 🤦🏼♀️
@@sammyj1183 Being forced to create order out of chaos (for others) really hits the spot. Sometimes I'm trying to stay out of planning entirely and let others just do their thing. However since I'm the one doing the work it comes back to me most of the time. When it's not perfect I'm the one to blame and to make it perfect needs a lot more dedication than it would have needed when doing it right away on my own.
The video at the end made my day. I love it.
Dude.. i bought a retractable corded vacuum. Life changing. 🤣
THAT'S HOW TO DO LIVE!
OMG the vacuum cord! Wireless forever
Tracking that tantrum-y feeling seems like a reliable way to watch your own functions.
The challenge is putting yourself in situations that bring out that part of yourself, which is easier said than done!
Oh my god the vacuum cord thing! For me it’s when I get shit caught on doorknobs (usually pockets because I’m tall and doorknobs are hip height). God I feel like a TODDLER with how rage-y I get. It’s insane! I also get mad when I trip and fall (especially when people crowd me all ARE YOU OKAY?! Yes! Fuck off!). Man I had no idea this was a “thing” for Ni but it makes so much sense XD.
Ah, that lady at the end is the embodiment of the "You Know What's Bullshit?" series by James Rolfe.
Shout out to the first 4 seconds of this video lmfao that’s 100% what it feels like when that happens.
What personality feels compelled to never mess up because they don't want others to think they're stupid or not useful? I need that personality video.
It's the single deciders (IP or EJ)
Are you going to do:
ENFP Fears?
ENFJ Fears ?
ENTJ Fears?
INFJ Fears?
INTP Fears?
INFP Fears?
ISTJ Fears?
ISFP Fears?
I understand that lady's pain at the end because I'm 70% leg and I'm too skinny for big and tall stores and other stores started pulling my sizes off the shelf because apparently I'm a fucking mythical creature.
That girl at the end explained perfectly why I hate shopping for clothes....
The vacuum analogy is so real. I understand the rage from unexpected sensory interruptions.
This explains why my ex felt the need to control (everything) but especially our conversations. She couldn’t handle me expressing my emotions as they came and felt victimized by any display of passionate emotion. So I was forced into arguing with her with a flat affect. No, not even arguing, that was completely off limits. I had to have everything thought out and felt out before entering the conversation. Needless to say, as an ESTJ/ENTJ, that didn’t work out.
In my experience, ALL of the IS×Js I know do this example, OFTEN, and not my Ni friends!!! Maybe my Ni friends play it off well something. But my ISFJ bf and ISTJ dad freak out and ALWAYS think people are out to get them, for the most smallest things, where NOBODY is even thinking about them.
INTJ here. I can totally relate. I have observer freakouts about loudass motorcycles and trucks. Like WHY the FRICK do they have to be so damn loud so EVERYBODY else has to stop what they are doing and listen to their damn vehicle as it drives throughout the entire neighborhood! Pisses me off every time.
I got my vacuum fixed, 2 weeks later the cord broke and I can’t solder it. I am so personally attacked by that cord, and it has nothing to do with my type.
Rocket Tantrum: when the seatbelt won't extend...and IT always wins.
Τhe girl's freakout at the end is a typical Si dom rant (she hates the randomness and variety)
It's about chaos you dumb f*cks
No she hates inefficiency. She's trying to boil down the separate pants sizes to one universal scale to make it easier to shop for pants
I just get in love with the first 2 seconds of the video
I did the ambitious thing and typed myself after watching all these videos. I always get a little nervous watching these specific function features fearing I might find that I went to all that effort to type myself based on my habits and others' interactions with me, only to discover that I got my entire understanding of the theory wrong.
I mean, I go in and watch in any case, because this typology nonsense fascinates me and I badly want to know the truth, but there is always that little doubt in the back of my head giving me trouble. Then, there's this internal battle (once I've learned something) between a really clever but uncalled for confirmation bias, and a ruthless contrarianism that fights the bias every step of the way. It's a fun little fight, but it doesn't get me any closer to that which I seek.
Does the ruthless contrarianism make a strong case suggesting that you are some other type than you determined yourself to be?
I have something similar to these inner dialogues, are there some certain events or behaviors you try to explain to yourself using different functions?
When you doubt yourself, do only some types (which come up frequently) seem to be more probable?
@@yashmalviya4563 My mind is similar to Hegelian Dialectic. It always corrects itself to come closer to complete self-consistency. First, an assertion (the thesis), much like a hypothesis but more personal in spirit - I am an INTJ because I live in my head on nonobjective terms, help others in practical ways, and reserve my opinions to myself.
Second, the contrarianism (antithesis) which says, "no, this is just confirmation bias; besides, _everyone_ claims to be an INTJ at some point in typology, and I may be peacocking too."
Third, the synthesis, which I am currently working on. If you have done a bit of studying on Hegel, you'll have noticed he makes an emphasis on "identity by the other". If I'm going to make good on my antithesis, I'm going to have to get opinions from others about me. Then, with the input of others, I will be able to narrow down my type for certain.
As for the use of different functions, I like to measure them as isolated and as part of an "animal". That seems to give me a good kind of triangulation.
Of all the types, I am most likely a single-observer. I don't "like" giving help to others who ask for it (I would rather help on my own terms), but I always do it. For an EJ this would be a compromise to the self, and the IP types certainly wouldn't help first. For me, I can roll with helping put for now, since I can always find a way to serve myself another time. I do have a bit of an EJ "People need to stop coming to me for help" peacock complex, so I'm tribe above self for sure.
Now... EP or IJ? Well... I don't do much in the way of looking for "new" unless I'm done unraveling an obsession of mine that I've grown bored of, and it's pretty terrifying when an X-factor jumps in to throw me off my plans.
So, my lead function is either Ni or Si. Well, I am not a "by the book" variety by any measure, preferring to use my own method (even if that means reinventing the wheel, hey, it's still _my_ wheel!) deduced from accumulation of facts - convergent logic path. As for my decider axis, like I said, the things I like are things I like because I like them, and have minimal basis in whether it's popular with others (usually I keep the things I like to myself, fearing that others would not give them the merit I think they deserve). On the outside, I help others in practical ways in hopes it'll make their lives easier - preferably in the form of principles they can use in any situation.
I guess this makes me an INTJ, but I feel awkward putting that up whether I am or not. Even though it's just a function stack, I see _way_ too many people saying they're that type.
6:24 Asking the hard questions. *politely and calmly*
@RUclips Veterinarian i felt called out at that very moment cause it took me a very ling time to understand that other people aren't toying with me all the time.
@@paquett11 Have you ever felt like people were purposingly trying to attack you in personal. (like they tried to make you feel bad).
Another intj locked door story:
I was 10 and I walked home from school, the door to the house was locked so I knocked, I knocked for 5 minutes straight expecting someone to be there the whole time and then crying for another 5 minutes as well as screaming at the door for someone to let me in
also vacuuming is the worst, especially when you have to move furniture around while changing to different power points and your si using parents end up making you do it all again because you missed a few spots
I just threw a full on tantrum and became filled with absolute rage over the fact that my oatmeal I had in the microwave boiled over and spilled on the sides. At least I know this happens to other people too lol
I mean, I feel the same way about pants. I'd rather not waste my life looking at a million different stores and a billion pairs of pants to get one pair that fits. Thankfully stretchy pants are in. And 90% of the time I can order them online and they'll fit reasonably well. And it takes less than 10 minutes.
I just bought a cordless vacuum (for my mom, to control her chaos)
yeahhhh that is overload, when chaos strikes, I just get a vomity feeling but then I go deal with it. On the other hand, my man be popping off like this all the time
I was questioning my INTJness today until this video 😆 It's true, all of it. The chaos, the vacuum cord, the jeans, it's all true.
i can totally relate, but with time you become wiser... ^_^
i got a cordless dyson vacuum cleaner.
when going clothes shopping i pick up jeans sizes 34,36,38 right away so that i don't need to go twice...
don't use public transportation which is always early or late, have all things that you need and use frequently super accessible => have a NOT stressful life 🌸
I've done quizzes and came out INTJ and ENTJ. After watching this video, I so relate more to Ni being dominant and I believe I'm probably INTJ. I'm laughing because I can relate so much to this video. However, I do want to take the Objective Personality course and find out what my correct personality. I believe it's INTJ, but I could be wrong.
"Walking through the door, with the cord and just walking through the house"...with Five Ferrets following their Ferrent.
Ni I say more?
I think you two make me like laughing but you also create good content. Thanks.
www.scienceabc.com/humans/doorway-effect-why-we-forget-what-we-were-supposed-do-after-we-enter-room.html
Anyone put the Seinfeld theme under Shan's vacuum cleaner impression? 😂
I have wept angry tears over spilt milk too many times- it’s just a massive piss take.
hahahahaha
As an ENTJ I definitely understand that tantrum with the vaccum. I've had a mini tantrum today at work because I could find the information I needed to splice a line. It took way to long and found nothing,so I was pissed because the information use to be available and now it wasnt. The captain took over and told me to paint. I got everything ready and the rollers we had weren't working at all so I was so frustrated because it wasnt going as planned. I had to use a paint brush to finish the whole area. Everything going wrong and having my Fi start coming out because I the captain took over the project I was on already making me feel worthless. It was awful!
a tantrum at a vacuum cord is the best way to describe MM demon consume and being a single observer 😂
Where I get lost is don't you have to gather first to have a bag to go back to? Because I go back to the stuff I know but I had to gather to know about it.
My dad acts like that dad!! I always thought he was an ESFJ but he matches a lot with the dad here.
Oh, yeah--the bottle cap falls off, hits the floor, rolls under the fridge; I eat directly over the plate and the food that falls off my form hits the plate, does a triple somersault, and lands on my shirt; the drink spills and, while you are trying to stop it, make it spill even more, splattering everywhere; you go to fix a leaky faucet and 3 hours later you're calling the plumber. And it's NOT that these events only happen to us--but we dwell on them, ruminate, and turn them into the Monsters or Demons that are out to ruin us. Everyone else is like "Hmm. Time to move on."
Why do we hate chaos? (INFJ) I am always trying to organise my life and my inner world but am not super tidy around the house.
But how did we learn what we know in the first place? I don't think Ni is as close-minded. I assume we take lots of stuff in our whole life and find something that makes sense and works for us. Only then we may close the gates to (probably) not as good ideas/options.
Infj here. Go cordless! I actually vacuum sometimes now but totally hated it before. You're welcome haha
Chick at the end is preaching facts. Seriously, why do they do that with sizes!? 🤣 This drives my wife absolutely nuts.
As for me: my damn headphone cords. How it turns into the damn Gordian Knot through no effort on my part is a mystery of the universe. Some voodoo right there.
Ni Superman babysitting Se little brother pain in the butt.
Thank you. I still can't say what this means function-wise, but now I know my life-defining problem: I fear the hate of the unknown tribe I'll have to interact with if I say yes.
The damnedable sport of inanimate objects. - Madeline L'Engle
Yeah. I can exercise superhuman patience during the most disastrous situations and absolutely lose my shit at silly inanimate objects. INFP
Be blessed y'all 🙏
Lmao 😂 the vacuum cord gets me all the time!!! It’s like when I’m carrying in too many grocery bags... struggling to get in the door, I want to take everything and chuck it! My friend makes fun of me repeating something I once said, “Ahhhh, not having internet connection is not so bad... it’s kind of relaxing to be off the grid [struggling to get online] what kind of f***ing sh*t is this!!!!???? I hate this place!” In a matter of seconds.
I’m a INTJ, I walk around the house and give my wife to do lists for her day on what I see needs to be done…. But I don’t think of myself as controlling cause I say it nicely when I do it…Lol :p true story. She loves the heck out of me she’s a ISFP
Ni doesn't fear chaos but recognizes patterns in it so it can discover the underlying meaning of said chaos. Jason Wilson choice of words, "playing me" and "ignoring me", is what a Si would use describing other's behaviors towards them. He's ESxJ, not INxJ.
That girl at the end of the video is most likely an ESTP. Both of these people examples are of sensors and not intuitives.
I wanna be the most high.
I don't understand how this is different from my IP freak-outs. Is he not blaming the tribe for the fact that he's locked out?
Actually men dont have pant sizes all figured out either anymore. Checking out jeans I noticed the sizes on the jeans are lower than what the size actually is. On a mens jeans website it said: "Fair warning, you may not be the size you think you are due to “glamor sizing,” a common practice among retailers over the last few years that puts smaller sizing labels on clothing that is not accurate if checked with a measuring tape."
I think the sensors responsible for setting standards in society dropped the ball on this one.
Working as a porter and having to vacuum is a nightmare for me. I'm usually so wrapped up in other things that I won't realize the cord is at it's length and I'll pull it out. It's the most infuriating thing ever.
I'm glad I'm not the only adult with an inner desire to violently decapitate a defenseless chord.
Yeah, I have never taken being locked out of the house or someone leaving their dirty dishes in the sink personally, that just seems so obvious, so does that mean Fe or Te is high on my function stack? I get that people aren't out to get me in that way.
But I can totally relate to being frustrated with putting the vacuum cleaner away and having like 6 things fall out of the cupboard as you do it and somehow it won't fit back in even though that's exactly the spot you got it from. Ugh.
Or being really careful not to spill the milk as you pour it into your mug, but then as you tilt it back when you're done it ends up splashing anyway.
Holy f I got locked out of my house and was like why did you do that!!?!? So mad lol was the door knob
Also... Fist fights with objects? Hell yes! I scold inanimate objects all the damn time. Remote dies on me? "Yeah? Screw you too!" I don't like most machinery because of how touchy it is - FUCK power tools and anything with a cord! ...and there's nothing quite as agitating as trying to get a ring clamp on a pushrod boot with a pair of pliers. That shit makes me drown a person in a toilet.
Why is it that I relate to that vacuum cord thing so strongly? (INTJ, rhetorical question, no answer needed)
what is the video at the end :DD
plz give me
I always make sure the vacuum cord is long enough so it doesn't get stuck or trapped somewhere to obstruct me from vacuuming properly hahahaha is that considered controlling chaos
did she just do the ScatMan intro in 00:00 ?
This comment may not be completely related to this video, but more to personality typing in general.. the more I look at these videos the more I think that everyone can be anyone, if you know what I mean..What I think can be useful is learning cognitive functions and how they work, and actually try to develop all of them. However, typing yourself can be quite exhausting and counter productive. I literally managed to type myself with 10 different personalities in a week time.. became almost obsessed trying to type myself correctly and perhaps also caused some brain damage :D. But what exactly is the point of typing yourself and putting yourself in the box if the point is to develop all the damn functions. I personally think that typing someone can be made only in the very young age or if you know the person very very well.. people change a loooot through the years. And also, it all depends on the occasion, in one situation, surrounded with one type of people you can seem as an ENTJ, but in a different surrounding (perhaps when doing some humanitarian work) one can be mistaken for an ISFJ. It is natural that through the years you slowly realize your weak spots, develop them, learn what makes you happy the most and improve your strong sides... in another words, everyone is developing all of the functions through the years.. if not, probably something is very wrong. For example, when I was a kid, I was very very sensitive to bullies and criticism, a lot of times in fear.. went through some weird shit in life, and now I actually want to understand why people do that.. what is happening in their minds. I am also much more extroverted than before. I personally don't agree how you and other people on youtube do typing of other people.. how can you take just few clips and determine how someone thinks? It is just a video not their life. I think it is ok to notice functions and use them as examples but I dont believe you can actually determine the personality type, even with tens of clips. Maybe I am wrong, please correct me. Is typing really necessary in general or it would be better just to be aware of cognitive functions, can you elaborate? There are too many stereotypes in this (personality type) community..
Tantrummy feeling, gosh you nailed it here! (INFJ)
My ENFJ wife hates uncertainty. Really shows when traveling, everything has to be nailed down.
Matt Bonneville really? I am ENFJ not like that though!!!!!🧐🧐
@@Dani-jo9yr Must be the Ni, wants to know when things are going to happen. You might be more engaged into your tertiary Se. And you can't rule out life experiences, her parents were not good, pretty sure Dad had BPD. Probably created a need to feel safe.
Matt Bonneville yes, need for safety- make sense. 👍💐
5:26 omg my infj dad!!!! He taught me the F word when I was in 1st grade all because a pencil rolled off of the desk.
Ok but the jeans rant is valid 🤔😂
What was that intro that hurt wow ok
Omg, I am so the girl freaking out about pants sizes lol.
Oh god! The fight Dave has with the vacuum cord is the fight I have with the freakin’ water hose!!! And then it gets twisted and caught and the water doesn’t come out and I just pull it so hard so the stupid sorter falls over and then I spray my dog to relieve some tension 😆 throw the hose to the ground and walk off. 😆
I'd walk off with a broken ankle
You wouldn't heal it at the exact spot you broke it ofc
The answer is because women have a different size for their waist, for their butt, for their thighs, the length of their torso, etc, etc, and all of this hasn't yet been put all together and codified. Men only have 2 things- waist and length. And clothing stores dont want to be made to carry "all types/sizes" for women, so instead they get away with slapping on a size and calling it a day.
Guilty as charged
It's weird because I am an INTP and my response to some thing perfectly executing a 1 in a million chance event to trip me up makes me laugh at it and the oddities of the universe that caused that to happen. I have the same phrase "Damn I couldnt make it do that if I tried" but followed by a total curiosity of how it did it.
Now if something goes wrong because some dumb engineer designbed it badly....epic tantrum time about the idiot designer from me.
I had to put my game on pause>? When was the last time you played a video game??? Everything is online now...
feel the same as an ISTP sometimes
Is there a link to that last video omgggg
Lyrics:
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That girl at the end 😅😅😂🤣
I want the fist 4 seconds to be my ringtone holy shit Lmao
Seeing this video and saying to myself: shit * ♾, why this’s me all my entire life? everybody hate this from me and they’re denying that’s my demon, the simplest things I can’t get them like a senile, how an INTJ can be like that?!
Oh no. I'm not like this. Right? RIGHT?!