I feel like this is an unhealthy reactionary response. As soon as someone says they like something you immediately jump to fetishization. And you're the exact kind of people that would say that having preferences is perfectly okay. So if I prefer to date women who are under 250 pounds does that mean I'm fetishizing average or thin women?? If I think redheads and brunettes are more attractive than blondes am I fetishizing redheads and brunettes? At what point does a fetish become a preference? Where is the line? Y'all don't fucking say shit when a black man says he prefers to date white women, or black woman says she prefers to date Hispanics. But the second a white person says they want to date outside their race it's fetishizing.
"Y'all don't fucking say shit when a black man says he prefers to date white women". Uh yes we have, go back and watch more videos. Just because you didnt hear it it doesnt mean we didnt say it the same way just because we think you didnt put any effort into your comment, doesnt mean you actually didnt. Also having a preferences isnt the issue, its why you have that preference that matters. If you say you prefer asians because you like their physical features, thats fine. If you say you want an asian partner because theyre submissive and will bend to your will, thats different just because its born from a history of racist stereotypes. The same way, i've heard blk men say that white women are inherently superior to black women and thats why they date them. They dont JUST HAVE A PREFERENCE. They also have racist beliefs mingled in. Now you could say that this girl wasnt doing that but were just relating to you that just based off her behavior, things she said, she just reminded us of a lot of white women who like black men because they think of us similarly to their favorite rappers. It becomes off putting due to not being seen as a individual. Kinda sucks to be hired for a job just because youre blk the same way it kinda sucks to be wanted by a woman just because youre blk. I suggest you read up on how during our history, stereotypes and sometimes even racism, classism, has influenced our media depiction of things and changed our preferences to a degree.
I think if it stopped there and she just mentioned she was “attracted” to black men , that it would be no big deal and “one” of her preferences. And she COULD have went on to say I like someone who is funny, likes certain hobbies we could do together, etc..... But she is making it her ONLY preference and the only thing that matters, and just finding someone who fits that physical description not based on THEM - and I think that when it gets to fetishizing.
I met a girl like this in university. She said she wanted brown kids. We all sat there and debated and eventually got in and said “Well what happens if the kid turns out White like you?” She responded with “That’s impossible because it’d be half Black.” Then I showed her my parents and how I look White. Took her awhile to accept mixed kids can turn out all different shades, but when she eventually did, the prick just basically said she wouldn’t love her own child if it turned out White by saying “Well I’d just have another kid.” Vile. Treating Black men and children like fashion accessories. I hope she never raises a mixed child, irregardless of their complexion.
The girl is messed up. I've seen some white 'mixed kids' if the black parent has a white parent/grandparent. Sometimes the genes work like that. The same way a mixed woman and a black man can have more 'black/dark' babies. In short, you cannot design your babies.
I meet a lot of mixed race people who you can tell have problems in the home or just weren’t nurtured at all and I believe it’s because their parents are like the girl you described above- either bringing them into the world as an accessory or neglected for not looking like what they expected. I’ll just pray she never conceives lol.
it was obvious looking at her WOW reaction the moment the dude entered that she is ready to get smashed tonight by just seeing him for a second. So adding 2 + 2 means she is doing it on every first date with any semi-good looking black dude without the jimmy attached. So unless a dude wants a wide collection of other men's flora and fauna - he better be running after this date like mad.
"Its because I really want to be mixed race." Well at least she admits it. The weird part is that she'll probably live vicariously through her mixed children, and throw a fit if they don't have the "right" features.
In all fairness I don't think there's anything wrong with having a preference for a certain race. Attraction is attraction. But her reasoning behind it is just... really fuckin weird.
Yeah that's the worst part, they're expecting something from the kids that they probably won't get and then will make sure the kids know they're disappointed about it.
For me when a person start listing a bunch of allergies I think to myself " What a weak bloodline not gonna wanna procreate with that" I know it sounds edgy but that's my feelings
Forreal. When she started listing them i was like 😟 personally that would be a challenge for me because I love trying new foods and cooking with all sorts of ingredients. I would definitely make accommodations if it were my partner... but I wouldn’t be listing them excitedly like her.
Tbf it can be an impediment to your own life like I don’t think I could be with someone allergic to dogs because I always want them around maybe it’s unfair for me to do that but if your allergy has a an affect on something that matters to me enough then we probably won’t work out
So many redflags.... brainwashed by the far left. I bet Diversity is her religion... shows a lot how empty her brain is. Men generally date down the hierarchy, but they still don't want to marry an imbecile.
@@Microphunktv-jb3kj I dislike your analogy. Not saying that there aren't so called leftist that are as you described. But social issues shouldn't necessarily be what puts you on the right or the left even though that does seem to be the case for some countries. I think people's minds have been hijacked and divided using that way of thinking. Left vs right should be about how the wealth is shared, the people to the left and the rich to the right because thats where it originates from. The French revolution.
An attractive 21yr old white girl is having a difficult time finding a good black man? Yeah it’s her fault. 100% her fault. I’m not being sarcastic it’s not the guys. It’s her. Not even a debate.
I say this all the time and I get told I’m a miserable hater or racist, I’ve lived a few lifetimes in 29 years and have heard it all, "only a BBC can fit this pussy", " I want D1 athletic kids", "I grew up in the streets so I’m more black than my own color."
JollyGood it’s so obvious that they like Kpop because they look good, not knowing that most of them have plastic surgery coz of the toxic Kpop industry, and then they end up fetishising asian people so that their kids look like that
See folks. If she said “I like black men because ____.” That would’ve been totally fine. But she said “Idk why I like black men, I just want mixed kids.” THAT IS A FETISH. NOT A PREFERENCE.
@Vale Sauce Tough words, but it is indeed perceivable motion in our socio-political culture and media. All over in fact, to a milder or stronger degree(like that uk show)
Is it a fetish or a preference when a dude seeks out asian chicks because they have this image in their head that they want a quiet obedient petite young asian chick? To me that sounds like a grooming fetish for a future abusive relationship. It's very common amongst incel dudes to want asian wifes and if you know what incels are known for it makes alot of sense why they think asian women are the perfect woman... But not in a good way. I feel like it's a preference if a dude says "I want traditional conservative genderroles" but when the words QUIET and OBEDIENT are involved the red flags starts wawing for me.
@@zebnemma I like Asian girls but I think that has to do with how I went to school with Asian girls and white girls while I was one of the only Hispanic. And if I’m gonna be honest the Asian girl that I was attracted to wasn’t submissive at all but was the complete opposite. She would call people out and wouldn’t give a fuck. Maybe she just so happened to be Asian and I just liked who she was but that’s where I started liking Asian girls. But if someone where to say they are “submissive and obedient” which is why I want an Asian girl then it’s just weird. Also the Asian girls in American aren’t what they believe they want lmao if it’s because they want a “submissive and obedient” girl lmao.
@Greg Peterson It’s literally fetishization. Why is society trying to normalize fetishization. Literally look at Jeffery Dahmer (or however u spell his last name). He started off with a fetish by watching naked woc in magazines & gay porn. Then go on a killing spree & start eating black men to inherit their “good traits” (for ex. The big d***)
She definitely wants the good looking mixed race kids with green eyes. Perfect brownish skin, amazing hair and a great jawline. The moment she gets average looking kids like herself she will be mad and ill laugh
Respectful people treat everyone with respect, but if they’re normal they will recognize traits that make others undesirable- and respectfully decline.
My ex told me the same thing "I just like black men", months into the relationship its still the same thing, I felt like I'm filling in a vacancy and she's not with me for ME, but rather because I'm black. I called it quit. Let her go find a black man and I'll find someone who actually wants ME for being ME.
My spouse of 6 years is African American and it still blows my mind how some of my family members think. I didn't choose my partner because of their skin but because of the way they made me feel and still do to this day. It baffles my mind to see people like her.
“Giving in to your urges is bad for you in the long run” this applies to everything. If I gave in to my urges, I’d be a homeless alcoholic. I’m just a recovered alcoholic. Love these tidbits of wisdom you guys give.
Gotta love how she spent the date making sexual innuendos and purposefully mentioning her "allergy to latex" only to hook him because of that. And then at the end of the date, says "I'm gunna make you wait." 🤣 This is why men keep telling us to make up our fucking minds. Lol she pretends she wants a relationship, lures a guy with talk of sex, then pretends she has morals to make herself feel better for being shallow, and then she'll be upset when the guy leaves because she falsely represented herself and her intentions. 😑🤦♀️😂 I just can't with this shit. These people are obtuse.
I can’t speak for others but I’m a white woman who tends to attract black men (although personally I don’t tend find them attractive) and I’ve had black women try and start fights over that shit. My sister is actually into black men and has dated a few black/mixed race men- the hate she got from black women was insane.
@@Bringon-dw8dx oh please. You are not special All women can be jealous/insecure. It just becomes more obvious when you are in a mixed race scenario. I am an attractive black woman and work in a predominantly white setting, you should see the looks and stares I get from white women whenever I talk to a white man at work , particularly if he is remotely attractive. Mind you, some of these men are married or just simply people I talk to because my work requires it, but you should see the insecurity that seeps out of the white women. One lady even accused me of wanting her husband 🤣😭. All women are insecure around other attractive women
*I cannot stress this enough: NOT ALL MIXED CHILDREN LOOK ALIKE.* If you are going into an interracial relationship in the hopes of producing “drop dead gorgeous, long, loose curly blonde hair, and blue or green eyed offspring guaranteed”, *then please, I’m begging you - DON’T DO IT.* It is incredibly detrimental to the mental health of the resulting children - specifically the daughters. 😣 I’m scared that this situation shown is the (hopefully not) potential beginning of an unhealthy, dysfunctional, relationship and resulting children that will have heaps of issues later on down the line. I speak from personal experience (and the 1st hand experiences of my mixed friends); my mother married my father in the hopes of getting “gorgeous mixed babies” when I instead came out looking “just boring regular black/biracial”. My aunt told me recently that my mother was “disappointed I didn’t come out with pretty eyes like her”. She also never took the time to learn to do black hair, and my father (who is a man and men have different hairstyles than women) is bald, so he did not offer any assistance. Thus whenever my hair needed to be done, she (didn’t take responsibility for the motherly duty of caring for her own child’s hair personally) but instead pushed me onto a black hair stylist or one of my dad’s sisters. I went to a majority white school all through high school and felt like the ugliest turd the entire time 🥺😢. I was mercilessly teased for “having weird hair” and “two different colored parents” and “stick figure legs” (I’m really skinny). *MIXED KIDS ARE NOT BUILD-A-BEARS PPL!* Just because you put one average looking black person and one average looking white person together, it does not mean *in the slightest* that they are going to produce “gorgeous mixed kids.” Genes are funny and ppl can come looking any and every type of way. So I beg of you, if you want to pursue an interracial relationship, please, do it for the right reasons; and *for the love of gawd, do research ahead of time on how to do your future child’s hair if it is different than yours!*
people's concept of race and genetics is truly at a tragic, embarrassing state. yet you hear these same people preach about being color bind and buy into vauge globalist nonsense. its pure fantasy and delusion. im sorry you had to go through that btw. ive been thinking lately about how a lot of people that go into interracial relationships don't think long term about how they're children will be treated in a still heavily racial society.
Perfect response. There are a lot of naive people of all races who have extremely stupid ideas regarding what is is to be mixed race. The common one is the kids 'will be beautiful'. According to whom? I always say to that 'let me tell you something, you don't know what you're going to get due to the gene pool' - so that belief makes no sense. It's possible it won't be light skinned, it's possible a mixed raced child will not have silky hair texture and it's entirely possible that the child won't be attractive and then what? You cannot take a baby back to the store. It's not build a bear. As a person related to mixed raced children, it's a families job is give that child a sense of identity and self love for all facets of the of their racial identity. Not to focus on if 'they are attractive or not.' Beauty is subjective and honestly who gives a shit.
@@sammierose1150 thank you and I'm sorry you experienced that. That was not cool or okay. I'm an aunt to amazing mixed race niece and nephew. My niece and nephew always had a good relationship with both her grand parents, black and white, my niece's mother learned how to do her hair . My family taught her and her brother about racism and to stick up for yourself. We taught them 'brains will get you further in life than what you look like'. Never let people tell you 'who you are/ what you should like'. They have now pass what my family has taught them both to their kids. They both have daughters who are mixed race children (2 girls mixed with Turkish Cypriot and 1 girl White British). My Nieces girls have a strong sense of all cultures, they understands their hair texture. The oldest girl wanted to go to a BLM demo, she knows what slavery is and black history, she knows about the ottoman empire, celebrates Eid with her cousins, will learn turkish so she can talk (or more likely argue) to her cousins and grand parents. All the girls will learn to focus on their minds and not their looks as they are not important. We' (the women in my family) have decided to teach these girls that people will try to see them as a 'fetish or a status symbol '. We will teach to recognise this and to walk away . As they know they are well rounded individuals.
@@Braylon1997 that entitlement is socially propagated by the powers that be because it is the primary driver for hyper capitalism and the redistribution of wealth from the public into either a) the judicial/court system or b) more hyper capitalism
These guys are so reasonable. That "I like black men" shit (or whatever equal variation) has always really disturbed me.. My sister is always saying shit like that... She'll even randomly post on FB saying "I like my coffee like I like my men, light brown and sweet" & Shes 40 yrs old ffs! Or we see a black man out in public, she starts talking all loud with this fake accent she only gets around black men... Every time she says she likes black men I tell her "How do you know if you like someone without even talking with them?! You are viewing people as objects" She does not care . & No, this shit is different than having some natural preference like some dudes like giant asses...some women like tall men. No it's a weird dehumanizing thing that just has a whole different feel to it
@@rohilthomson so every blonde woman is beautiful? I just have to dye my hair blonde and that is all it takes? So all blondes are prettier than Lori harvey?
Common. That’s why she’s talking about babies on a first meeting. Back in my day only crazy childless women in their mid 30s used to do stuff like that, and back then the relationship advice media they consumed actually told them not to do that
Did this woman just say she like black men because she always wanted to be a mixed race women. The self-hate is real out here in these streets and that whole statement is problematic and creepy. Instead of fixating on a man's skin color, you really should be doing some internalized work in order to find out what you want out of the relationship, what characteristics you want your man to have such as being nice, financially responsible, having emotional intelligence, having values, and goals. It sounds like she chooses men based off of their physical attraction or what she thinks is viable to having a kid with.
I think she's gorgeous. But she clearly has issues. She doesn't seem like a mean spirited person, but she needs to quit with all the fetishization bullshit. The sad thing is that she will most likely find someone to play into it🙄
She really does. Didn't notice her age at first and was suprised about her dating a guy so much younger than her. But I agree with Paula, she seems to be a nice person. It's just like she had teenager kids already.
Damn if she is she looks really hot for a 36 year old. As someone who’s 20 years old there would be a big age difference but I’ll definitely smash older woman if they look like her
if you’re going to be with someone of another race and have children with them, it’s your obligation and responsibility to teach those kids about both sides. whether it be language, culture, traditional backgrounds and whatever else. it’s a lot of work and something a lot of these types of women and men don’t put into consideration. all they’re wanting is to have a mixed child 💀
Lol as a mixed raced person I don’t understand her want to be mixed raced or having mixed raced kids.... we all just people too lol? We ain’t better or worse.. we just happen to be mixed. Life shouldn’t be so skin deep
@Prashant vyas either way if you only love your kids due to the fact they are of certain color or race then you shouldn’t have kids because that’s not what a parent should do and that’s absolutely disgusting
Being mixed race is the worst. Especially when you don’t look like either parents. It’s akward and confusing. I’m always choosing. Easier if parents look the same
Because she wants to be mixed, that’s why she wants mixed kids.. she is under the impression that life is better if you’re mixed... which unfortunately is not inherently true?
What about "shit faced." or "mortal?" pissed can also be short for angry. It's a context thing. Eg. I got pissed last night! (drunk) I'm so pissed now!! (angry) context.
@@benreilly5951 Well I made this comment because it's safe to assume that most people who watch this are Canadian or from the United States where "pissed" means really angry. So I wanted to clear things up.
This is why I feel that dating has a lot more to do with luck than most people realize. Most of the time when us guys ask a girl out its because of her looks (we think she's attractive), and then the first date allows us to get a glimpse behind those looks. Ive definitely been on dates that were absolutely dead, had no feelings, convo was boring as hell. Ive even felt this way when she was exclusively talking about sex (no I'm not asexual, I just expect someone to bring more than sex to the table for a long-term relationship). This happened so much I began to think I was the problem. Maybe I was emotionally unavailable? It was really depressing until I met my current girlfriend (nearly a month going strong). We connected instantly on our first date, laughed, made jokes, references, and actually had a talk with some substance. She was very clear of what she wanted, her expectations, and in general had her shit together. and what drew me in closer was the fact she wants to wait until were 100% certain we will work before getting physically intimate. not saying it's impossible, but if you don't have the basic fundamentals of a relationship at the beginning, you're almost guaranteed to break up. and most of the fundamentals need to be brought individually on the first date in my opinion. there are plenty of things you can work on as a couple but you need to have your shit together, and so does your partner (this is where the luck comes into play)
@@vegitobingui1 i've always womdered, doesn't being a fuckboy get tiring? I mean sex, almost feels meaningless at that point if thats all their is to it no?
Any girl that tells me "I like black guys" get's written off in my head and when I'm done I just pass her to the rest of my bros. By the end of the year she's been through every black guy in the borough. Do not wife these girls.
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Facts. I feel the same in reverse with black dudes who say "I only like light skin girls or non black girls". Just trash. They can have each other
@ Somewhat true, but black women have the lowest marriage rates so I think it is somewhat normal too. Most black guys say they are more confrontational and uncooperative
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Typical. "I want a traditional gentleman and relationship but don't want to be a traditional lady" girl.
When you date someone for a surface level reason like skin color, you are going to continually have bad relationships because you are not starting from a solid foundation. Sure, it's possible to find a person with the trait you have that fits personality wise as well, but hoping to find that in someone you only find attractive initially because of x trait is most likely going to cause more failures than successes.
nah i refuse to believe that, people aint that shallow, she prolly likes all the little things. there is nothing sexy about skin but the features diffrent people have
8:26 RIP Black Philip. Thank you Aba & Preach for keeping his memory and spirit alive, and for sharing that type of insight, wisdom and truth with the rest of the world through your guys' comedy.
9:57 "The date is reaching its climax"-sounds like national geographic to me😂😂😂 it's mating season, the female makes suggestions shes looking for a mate😂
Her: "im allergic to latex" Me: Excuse me waiter by any chance is latex used in any of the meals cooked here. My lady friend has made it clear she's allergic and would like to be sure she wont be eating any.
hilarious to tack that on with food allergies. Like oh yea...,I'm allergic to latex hint hint... so you better be packing anti-allergenic condoms or this aint happening later.
She sounds like a northerner. Most areas in northern England don't have high black populations so she probably moved to London and became infatuated as there are ample black men here. A fetish like that is born out of deprivation.
7:12 Preach describes it perfectly. This is why I get immediately get turned off when dates come on too strong, simply because they like the idea of me before truly getting to know me. It's not genuine or organic. My partner should like me for me.
@Blanked Generally there is nothing wrong with it, it's the context behind some of the choices why they date them that I can't get behind and it's clear as aba and preach said that it is a fetish for her. Even if she can't see it herself the fact that all she wants is black and mixed raced kids, the fact she wants to make her skin tone darker. she clearly doesn't see the person for themselves before she sees the colour and that's why for her not all white women cause they aren't all like that, I couldnt fuck with her.
@Blanked Man have you not read the other comments about being treated as a commodity or a fad rather than actually being loved for you? I mean if you just want to fuck then by all means but if you want a good future and someone that cares about *you* then perhaps look for someone less shallow.
Verry often "good men" on friendzone are just a guy submitted to a girl and never speak her with honesty, to much hypocrisy and fear. A true good man, take social bullet ( even by his crush ) to do what is fair and what is think is good for other people, not for him
It's highly likely you are right. A part of me feels bad for women like that, only so long as they are earnestly looking, no mind games, or crapping on the guys who sincerely feel compelled to be supportive and make them happy.
@Bric A Brac True, though there are some special cases. I was that guy once, told her what it was & what I wanted. She led me on & thus became my red pill awakening stage.
"I want to be mixed race" As a biracial man, I Always get a little uncomfortable when I hear monoracial people say this. It's awkward to be honest . I never get the interest of women like this in biracials
I feel like in many cases if the individual who wants to date a mixed person comes from a conservative background/family, then a dating a mixed person might feel 'safer' to them. Their family might give them shit or treat them differently for dating a different race. So in accordance with that, they might look for partners who are only partly different from themselves.. Its a shitty situation all around. People should feel free to date whoever and not be dictated by prejudiced ideas that their family or society placed upon them
@@MultiSmartass1 what do you mean by awkward? I don't mean to endorse this way of thinking, it's a destructive belief pattern. I'm just trying to lay out a potential reason for people thinking that way and be objective about it. I grew up around a lot of white conservative families whose children have different values than their parents. My point is that some people (doesn't have to be white) don't want their children to date outside of their race, religion, etc. For the children, a mixed person might seem like a more 'acceptable' choice of dating someone who is different from themselves
I have 7 cousins-3 marriages on my mom’s side. My 3 uncles married outside their race-2 German women and one Spanish woman. They meet them all in the service and guess what only 2 out of the 7 look “mixed” while the other 5 look more like their dark skin daddy. Some of y’all act like mixed means light skin with curls and green eyes. You wouldn’t know the 5 are mixed until you see a family picture or hear them speak their mothers native language
@@TheWarboss7 I'm like that. It causes a lot of identity issues. My mom is quite a dark skin woman but my dad's background is from the Netherlands, tall blond, etc. It was hard bc as a child everyone thought I was adopted when they saw my mom
That's proof to how messed up the generations have become, bruv i only turned 22 and its so hard, like wth 😂 this is similar to the other shit, we deal with, its Like why's it so hard to find calm ones around my age.
I wish they stip fetishizing race in general when it comes to a relationship. So longs you love, trust, and respect one another including culture and willing to learn and is open, I see no problem
Part of it is media programming so they don't see their own race as attractive so of course that's where the fetish aspect comes from. If your people is "trash" by default everybody else is "treasure".
@Misslimitless23 Mixing races leads to more diversity and less chances of genetic problems. We're not a 100% of 1 race and if you are, there's some inbreeding going on in your family buddy. But if you're gonna fuck someone just because of their skin colour, you're very shallow.
The Commies from Brussels, and the Juice have been programming this garbage into white women for the past 20 years. She is just a product of her environment.
And on top of that, this actual British lady sounds like an American doing a bad British accent the whole time. My ears Bleed fountains when her mouth moves.
*Her:* I can't find any good men *Also Her:* I'm allergic to latex It's not that she can't find a good man, it's that good men as soon as they get to know her, run as fast as humanly possible from all those red flags
that's because you never listen to what a woman says - but to what she thinks. And she thinks "hot damn I hope the brother will be a total Tyrone so I let him smash right here right now"
@@thelastdracolich1237 the same as I call a good women, honest, able to focus on the thing in front of them, trustworthy both ways, able to make decisions based on factors other than just what is good for them personally, what about you? 😇
I feel like this is an unhealthy reactionary response. As soon as someone says they like something you immediately jump to fetishization. And you're the exact kind of people that would say that having preferences is perfectly okay. So if I prefer to date women who are under 250 pounds does that mean I'm fetishizing average or thin women?? If I think redheads and brunettes are more attractive than blondes am I fetishizing redheads and brunettes? At what point does a fetish become a preference? Where is the line?
Y'all don't fucking say shit when a black man says he prefers to date white women, or black woman says she prefers to date Hispanics. But the second a white person says they want to date outside their race it's fetishizing.
"Y'all don't fucking say shit when a black man says he prefers to date white women". Uh yes we have, go back and watch more videos. Just because you didnt hear it it doesnt mean we didnt say it the same way just because we think you didnt put any effort into your comment, doesnt mean you actually didnt.
Also having a preferences isnt the issue, its why you have that preference that matters. If you say you prefer asians because you like their physical features, thats fine. If you say you want an asian partner because theyre submissive and will bend to your will, thats different just because its born from a history of racist stereotypes. The same way, i've heard blk men say that white women are inherently superior to black women and thats why they date them. They dont JUST HAVE A PREFERENCE. They also have racist beliefs mingled in.
Now you could say that this girl wasnt doing that but were just relating to you that just based off her behavior, things she said, she just reminded us of a lot of white women who like black men because they think of us similarly to their favorite rappers. It becomes off putting due to not being seen as a individual. Kinda sucks to be hired for a job just because youre blk the same way it kinda sucks to be wanted by a woman just because youre blk.
I suggest you read up on how during our history, stereotypes and sometimes even racism, classism, has influenced our media depiction of things and changed our preferences to a degree.
I think you're full of shit and simping. racism is racism. period.
@Aba & Preach Oooga Booga!
I think if it stopped there and she just mentioned she was “attracted” to black men , that it would be no big deal and “one” of her preferences. And she COULD have went on to say I like someone who is funny, likes certain hobbies we could do together, etc..... But she is making it her ONLY preference and the only thing that matters, and just finding someone who fits that physical description not based on THEM - and I think that when it gets to fetishizing.
You got the pin of shame but I agree with you on this one, nothing wrong with having a preference regardless of reasons
This woman has more red flags than a communist parade.
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The burn 😁👏
I have seen this joke so many times now it’s no longer funny
@Õ_Õ Shy Guy *appluase*
I met a girl like this in university. She said she wanted brown kids. We all sat there and debated and eventually got in and said “Well what happens if the kid turns out White like you?” She responded with “That’s impossible because it’d be half Black.” Then I showed her my parents and how I look White. Took her awhile to accept mixed kids can turn out all different shades, but when she eventually did, the prick just basically said she wouldn’t love her own child if it turned out White by saying “Well I’d just have another kid.” Vile. Treating Black men and children like fashion accessories. I hope she never raises a mixed child, irregardless of their complexion.
The girl is messed up. I've seen some white 'mixed kids' if the black parent has a white parent/grandparent. Sometimes the genes work like that. The same way a mixed woman and a black man can have more 'black/dark' babies. In short, you cannot design your babies.
I meet a lot of mixed race people who you can tell have problems in the home or just weren’t nurtured at all and I believe it’s because their parents are like the girl you described above- either bringing them into the world as an accessory or neglected for not looking like what they expected. I’ll just pray she never conceives lol.
Also! Doesnt she understand that she can still have fugly offspring.
Goji Berry I honestly blame the Kardashians for this. They made appropriation fashionable.
wtf Why is these crazy people even fixating on skin pigment in the first place? Love a person for the person, not their skin color.
"I'm allergic to latex"
"That's a pity, I'm allergic to gonorrhea and paying child support for 18 years"
Best response! 🤣
Boss move 🤣🤣🤣
thats why yall they have non-latex condoms ;) (can’t trap us now)
savage
If she actually were, there are plenty of non-latex condom options
As a black man and as a british person I must say, I really find your english impersonation to be both impressive and also, hilarious
@Peace Be Still some black people are like that. But i really want to understand why
@Peace Be Still I’m an African girl with a Korean man as mine, it doesn’t really mean anything at all
I’m English and agree, his accent might just pass!
As a black and british man i disagree
I thought it was spot on! Hahaha
The way she snuck in “I’m allergic to latex” she wants bro to hit it raw 😂😂
it was obvious looking at her WOW reaction the moment the dude entered that she is ready to get smashed tonight by just seeing him for a second. So adding 2 + 2 means she is doing it on every first date with any semi-good looking black dude without the jimmy attached. So unless a dude wants a wide collection of other men's flora and fauna - he better be running after this date like mad.
Bruv I would've bounced the second those words left her mouth..lol
@@wrmusic8736 women do decide if they want to smash a guy within the first 5 seconds of seeing him.
Mario Bros I don’t know where you got that “fact” from, but it’s false.
You probably made that up.
She's probably been practicing jiu jitsu so when he tries to pull out she can lock it in
"Its because I really want to be mixed race."
Well at least she admits it. The weird part is that she'll probably live vicariously through her mixed children, and throw a fit if they don't have the "right" features.
You can't know.
A lot don't admit it..
In all fairness I don't think there's anything wrong with having a preference for a certain race. Attraction is attraction. But her reasoning behind it is just... really fuckin weird.
Yeah that's the worst part, they're expecting something from the kids that they probably won't get and then will make sure the kids know they're disappointed about it.
Yup if they come out looking too white she's gonna just leave their ass or tattoo their forehead saying not 100% white . She's a real piece of shit
“I’m allergic to latex as well” Lmao the thirst is strong
Throw gloves at her, asap.
@@stephenlanuto5993 Pour the whole drum.
Throw Skyn condoms at her. Those are latex free
Hearing that is a huge red flag
This is a chick who would poke holes in your package for a happy accident.
For me when a person start listing a bunch of allergies I think to myself " What a weak bloodline not gonna wanna procreate with that" I know it sounds edgy but that's my feelings
Bet hope u turn out like Superman and so do ur kids 🙏🙏
@@shinichi6235 it sounds insidious and kinda eugenic ??? It makes me feel bad 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Forreal. When she started listing them i was like 😟 personally that would be a challenge for me because I love trying new foods and cooking with all sorts of ingredients. I would definitely make accommodations if it were my partner... but I wouldn’t be listing them excitedly like her.
Tbf it can be an impediment to your own life like I don’t think I could be with someone allergic to dogs because I always want them around maybe it’s unfair for me to do that but if your allergy has a an affect on something that matters to me enough then we probably won’t work out
Me too. Lol 😆
This woman has more Red Flags than a Chinese Communist Party parade.
Edit: If each liked equaled a subscriber I might have a viable channel lol.
ok John Candy
Shout out to the Coach Gang!
Lmao
Tank go vroom
El oh el
“I wanna be mixed race”
*Aight, imma head out*
So many redflags.... brainwashed by the far left.
I bet Diversity is her religion... shows a lot how empty her brain is. Men generally date down the hierarchy, but they still don't want to marry an imbecile.
🤣🤣🤣
@@Microphunktv-jb3kj emphasis on the "far" part. But yh the far-left is just as racist as a far-right just in a different way
@@Microphunktv-jb3kj I dislike your analogy. Not saying that there aren't so called leftist that are as you described. But social issues shouldn't necessarily be what puts you on the right or the left even though that does seem to be the case for some countries. I think people's minds have been hijacked and divided using that way of thinking. Left vs right should be about how the wealth is shared, the people to the left and the rich to the right because thats where it originates from. The French revolution.
😂🤣
An attractive 21yr old white girl is having a difficult time finding a good black man?
Yeah it’s her fault.
100% her fault.
I’m not being sarcastic it’s not the guys.
It’s her.
Not even a debate.
She has to be crazy or something
lol
Absolutely. No average 21 yo fem be single round here. Only the ones with problems.
Yep she either has some issues people can't put up with or she consistently chooses the same type of dude expecting a different outcome.
Probably real selective too.
Shes objectifying him rather than liking him for him. Thats what disgusting about her.
I say this all the time and I get told I’m a miserable hater or racist, I’ve lived a few lifetimes in 29 years and have heard it all, "only a BBC can fit this pussy", " I want D1 athletic kids", "I grew up in the streets so I’m more black than my own color."
@@josequintero7250 yea that shit is crazy
Before looking for a good man, make sure you’re a good woman. The rest will follow.
Facts boo
Factz ✌🏾❤️
Yasssss... There is good women out there... I consider myself one. I've been maried for 10 years and I'm only 28!
The world needs more women like you
jessica salgado That’s awesome! Congrats girl 💗 May your marriage continue to be blessed.
Right in my first day of highschool a white girl comes to me and asks if I'm Korean.
The only girls who want to talk to me are kpop stans 😭😭😭
bro you Korean. DO you know (@)IOEWOFWKOOLKLDKLW he's my favorite kpop star?
That sucks dude, I'm sorry to hear that.
You better learn how to sing and dance my guy,
JollyGood it’s so obvious that they like Kpop because they look good, not knowing that most of them have plastic surgery coz of the toxic Kpop industry, and then they end up fetishising asian people so that their kids look like that
@@justadummy8076 why did you reply to me for this.
See folks. If she said “I like black men because ____.” That would’ve been totally fine. But she said “Idk why I like black men, I just want mixed kids.” THAT IS A FETISH. NOT A PREFERENCE.
@Vale Sauce Tough words, but it is indeed perceivable motion in our socio-political culture and media. All over in fact, to a milder or stronger degree(like that uk show)
Is it a fetish or a preference when a dude seeks out asian chicks because they have this image in their head that they want a quiet obedient petite young asian chick? To me that sounds like a grooming fetish for a future abusive relationship. It's very common amongst incel dudes to want asian wifes and if you know what incels are known for it makes alot of sense why they think asian women are the perfect woman... But not in a good way. I feel like it's a preference if a dude says "I want traditional conservative genderroles" but when the words QUIET and OBEDIENT are involved the red flags starts wawing for me.
No that's still a preference. To say "Idk" is valid
@@zebnemma I like Asian girls but I think that has to do with how I went to school with Asian girls and white girls while I was one of the only Hispanic. And if I’m gonna be honest the Asian girl that I was attracted to wasn’t submissive at all but was the complete opposite. She would call people out and wouldn’t give a fuck. Maybe she just so happened to be Asian and I just liked who she was but that’s where I started liking Asian girls. But if someone where to say they are “submissive and obedient” which is why I want an Asian girl then it’s just weird. Also the Asian girls in American aren’t what they believe they want lmao if it’s because they want a “submissive and obedient” girl lmao.
@Greg Peterson It’s literally fetishization. Why is society trying to normalize fetishization. Literally look at Jeffery Dahmer (or however u spell his last name). He started off with a fetish by watching naked woc in magazines & gay porn. Then go on a killing spree & start eating black men to inherit their “good traits” (for ex. The big d***)
She definitely wants the good looking mixed race kids with green eyes. Perfect brownish skin, amazing hair and a great jawline. The moment she gets average looking kids like herself she will be mad and ill laugh
She is not bad looking its the personality that kills it
Imagine her child comes out with dark skin and 4c hair 💀 some people don't understand genetics can come back to bite you.
@@bunnyboo6295 was bout to say. She looks pretty good. She's a nut though. Would 100% ghost her like all the other guys 😈
Logic (the rapper) looks totally Caucasian, did is mixed
There's no guarantees
@@bunnyboo6295 who cares if she’s into black guys and wants mixed kids?
She honestly thinks she's going to be treated like a lady while acting like a garden tool? Wow!
She is the dullest tool in the shed.
well said
Tenma it’s probably the overuse without any maintenance
Respectful people treat everyone with respect. At what point does a woman become less than a lady? How many partners?
Respectful people treat everyone with respect, but if they’re normal they will recognize traits that make others undesirable- and respectfully decline.
My ex told me the same thing "I just like black men", months into the relationship its still the same thing, I felt like I'm filling in a vacancy and she's not with me for ME, but rather because I'm black. I called it quit. Let her go find a black man and I'll find someone who actually wants ME for being ME.
mandla khumalo KING!! 👑
Damn bruh, it’s like we’re a trend now it’s sad 😂
@@pilot4910 🤣🤣 tell me about it
Yall just now realizing that🤦🏾♀️
Good man 👍👌 there is a lot of white girls like this
The kid isn't even born, and she's already treating it like some toy she's always wanted.
It's a result of unrelenting propaganda.
@@theothertoolbox im intrigued, what do u mean
Open your eyes to the popular culture and the media and you won’t need it explaining to you
@@whynot6950 you dont have to be a dick about it, im aware that everyone's mad at white people, i just wanted to hear his analysis on it
Uk is full of these...
My spouse of 6 years is African American and it still blows my mind how some of my family members think. I didn't choose my partner because of their skin but because of the way they made me feel and still do to this day. It baffles my mind to see people like her.
“Giving in to your urges is bad for you in the long run” this applies to everything. If I gave in to my urges, I’d be a homeless alcoholic. I’m just a recovered alcoholic. Love these tidbits of wisdom you guys give.
Im sure y’all know this but black men, stay tf away from women like this
Good, you're not a fetish.You're a person.
Anyone should stay away from a person like this. Just gift her cats kekw!
The Narrator lol
@@thenarrator1984 for any one who sees his comment do not reply he is definitely a troll.
@@bdbd1390oh no, I woukd feel bad for the cats.
"I'm allergic to latex", "can't move in these trousers", "oof, my back is sore" - things to say on a first date to find a proper relationship - 100%
I think rather go out for a date,she should go to see the doctor instead.
Elaberate
@@latecheckout11 Elaberate good sir
@@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodl6206 I'd be real careful about demanding other elaborate on their points when you can't even spell "elaborate"
Well well well this is an illusion
Gotta love how she spent the date making sexual innuendos and purposefully mentioning her "allergy to latex" only to hook him because of that. And then at the end of the date, says "I'm gunna make you wait." 🤣
This is why men keep telling us to make up our fucking minds. Lol she pretends she wants a relationship, lures a guy with talk of sex, then pretends she has morals to make herself feel better for being shallow, and then she'll be upset when the guy leaves because she falsely represented herself and her intentions. 😑🤦♀️😂 I just can't with this shit. These people are obtuse.
She is also just 21. Hopefully she grows up
She mentioned a bunch of allergies not just latex
And it feels like this is 50% of all women I come across
@@1232-e7b she should save that for after she not eating rubber at dinner
@ by 25 she's gonna be a single mother with mixed kid saying "there's no good men"
"I can't find any good men."
Translation: "You can't trap any good men"
Exactly
😂
Prenup..
Translation: I wouldn't know a good man from an avocado.
Hit it and Quit it my boys~ make sure your pull out game is strong.
"I'm allergic to latex as well."
Didn't know they served condoms.
Oooga Booga!
😂
Way to speak the drift.
Latex is a naturally occurring element in a variety of fruits, veggies, and nuts.. which is what she said
Your name pisses me off because McAfee never leaves my PC the fuck alone.
'Giving into your urges may not be aligned with your long term goals' my g that a hell of a line. keep up the good work lads
"I cant eat chocolate so I like chocolate men." UGH WTF
I would hit a like but 69 is such a good number :D
Someone took it to 70 ha!
I took it to 91
I can't eat seafood so I'd like to eat your... uhm nevermind
Don't be ah hater
With the way she's behaving on that date, I'm surprised she isn't already a babymom at her age lol
Fetus deletus. Nexplanon.
This girl's vibe is screaming Daddy issues.
Ever since becoming redpilled, I now see this in varying degree from all women.
There are condoms made specifically for people who are allergic to latex
"...I'm allergic to those too."
I actually googled to check. Lol. Now someone views my history their gonna be like hmmm. Lol.
They have lamb skin condoms. Only problem, they smell pretty bad.
Skyn is the best. Not tight and restrictive like Trojans
It's funny to me that it seems like 9 times out of 10 those that like black men, can't stand black women.
Facts. That's because they see us as competition
I can’t speak for others but I’m a white woman who tends to attract black men (although personally I don’t tend find them attractive) and I’ve had black women try and start fights over that shit.
My sister is actually into black men and has dated a few black/mixed race men- the hate she got from black women was insane.
That's not true !!
@@Bringon-dw8dx I tend to attract black guys too, usually other black women tend to dislike that. But I’m not even interested in those guys
@@Bringon-dw8dx oh please. You are not special
All women can be jealous/insecure. It just becomes more obvious when you are in a mixed race scenario. I am an attractive black woman and work in a predominantly white setting, you should see the looks and stares I get from white women whenever I talk to a white man at work , particularly if he is remotely attractive. Mind you, some of these men are married or just simply people I talk to because my work requires it, but you should see the insecurity that seeps out of the white women. One lady even accused me of wanting her husband 🤣😭. All women are insecure around other attractive women
As a Brit I couldn’t help but laugh at Preaches English accent 😂😂😂 keep it up you lot ✌️
Hhaha being british myself it wasnt too bad 7.5/10. I took off some marks for some parts moving into the Australian accent 😂
He sounded like my grandad having a stroke.
who did it better: Preach's English Accent or Aba's Brazilian Accent?
That's out of order, bruv... BTW I'm from Savannah, GA...
Omarr McInnis bro I live in effingham country right by Savannah
being allergic to latex is really no excuse, my fiancé and I buy non latex condoms. They work just fine.
She just wants her accessories I mean kids
@@oz_jones yeah fuckin nuts that is
That lamb skin
Lifestyles Skyn (nonlatex) always worked great for me
He's your fiancé and you still use condoms?
*I cannot stress this enough: NOT ALL MIXED CHILDREN LOOK ALIKE.* If you are going into an interracial relationship in the hopes of producing “drop dead gorgeous, long, loose curly blonde hair, and blue or green eyed offspring guaranteed”, *then please, I’m begging you - DON’T DO IT.* It is incredibly detrimental to the mental health of the resulting children - specifically the daughters. 😣 I’m scared that this situation shown is the (hopefully not) potential beginning of an unhealthy, dysfunctional, relationship and resulting children that will have heaps of issues later on down the line. I speak from personal experience (and the 1st hand experiences of my mixed friends); my mother married my father in the hopes of getting “gorgeous mixed babies” when I instead came out looking “just boring regular black/biracial”. My aunt told me recently that my mother was “disappointed I didn’t come out with pretty eyes like her”. She also never took the time to learn to do black hair, and my father (who is a man and men have different hairstyles than women) is bald, so he did not offer any assistance. Thus whenever my hair needed to be done, she (didn’t take responsibility for the motherly duty of caring for her own child’s hair personally) but instead pushed me onto a black hair stylist or one of my dad’s sisters. I went to a majority white school all through high school and felt like the ugliest turd the entire time 🥺😢. I was mercilessly teased for “having weird hair” and “two different colored parents” and “stick figure legs” (I’m really skinny). *MIXED KIDS ARE NOT BUILD-A-BEARS PPL!* Just because you put one average looking black person and one average looking white person together, it does not mean *in the slightest* that they are going to produce “gorgeous mixed kids.” Genes are funny and ppl can come looking any and every type of way. So I beg of you, if you want to pursue an interracial relationship, please, do it for the right reasons; and *for the love of gawd, do research ahead of time on how to do your future child’s hair if it is different than yours!*
people's concept of race and genetics is truly at a tragic, embarrassing state. yet you hear these same people preach about being color bind and buy into vauge globalist nonsense. its pure fantasy and delusion. im sorry you had to go through that btw. ive been thinking lately about how a lot of people that go into interracial relationships don't think long term about how they're children will be treated in a still heavily racial society.
Perfect response. There are a lot of naive people of all races who have extremely stupid ideas regarding what is is to be mixed race. The common one is the kids 'will be beautiful'. According to whom? I always say to that 'let me tell you something, you don't know what you're going to get due to the gene pool' - so that belief makes no sense. It's possible it won't be light skinned, it's possible a mixed raced child will not have silky hair texture and it's entirely possible that the child won't be attractive and then what? You cannot take a baby back to the store. It's not build a bear. As a person related to mixed raced children, it's a families job is give that child a sense of identity and self love for all facets of the of their racial identity. Not to focus on if 'they are attractive or not.' Beauty is subjective and honestly who gives a shit.
fiji waterbrand yes, exactly! Thank you 🙏
FYPNLP I wish I could ‘Like’ this more than once! Yes, exactly 😤
@@sammierose1150 thank you and I'm sorry you experienced that. That was not cool or okay.
I'm an aunt to amazing mixed race niece and nephew. My niece and nephew always had a good relationship with both her grand parents, black and white, my niece's mother learned how to do her hair . My family taught her and her brother about racism and to stick up for yourself. We taught them 'brains will get you further in life than what you look like'. Never let people tell you 'who you are/ what you should like'. They have now pass what my family has taught them both to their kids.
They both have daughters who are mixed race children (2 girls mixed with Turkish Cypriot and 1 girl White British). My Nieces girls have a strong sense of all cultures, they understands their hair texture.
The oldest girl wanted to go to a BLM demo, she knows what slavery is and black history, she knows about the ottoman empire, celebrates Eid with her cousins, will learn turkish so she can talk (or more likely argue) to her cousins and grand parents.
All the girls will learn to focus on their minds and not their looks as they are not important.
We' (the women in my family) have decided to teach these girls that people will try to see them as a 'fetish or a status symbol '. We will teach to recognise this and to walk away . As they know they are well rounded individuals.
She'll make him wait.....for like 60 seconds
Hi
Women always ask "why can't I find a good man?", but never ask "do I deserve a good man?" or "why would a good man want me?"
they got a huge sense of entitlement
Correct
Yesssssssss
@@Braylon1997 that entitlement is socially propagated by the powers that be because it is the primary driver for hyper capitalism and the redistribution of wealth from the public into either a) the judicial/court system or b) more hyper capitalism
@@nweeezy I wasn't aware of the judicial system part. What's that about? Would that corrupt "Cash for Kids" judge be an example?
These guys are so reasonable.
That "I like black men" shit (or whatever equal variation) has always really disturbed me..
My sister is always saying shit like that... She'll even randomly post on FB saying "I like my coffee like I like my men, light brown and sweet" & Shes 40 yrs old ffs!
Or we see a black man out in public, she starts talking all loud with this fake accent she only gets around black men... Every time she says she likes black men I tell her "How do you know if you like someone without even talking with them?! You are viewing people as objects" She does not care .
& No, this shit is different than having some natural preference like some dudes like giant asses...some women like tall men. No it's a weird dehumanizing thing that just has a whole different feel to it
Thank you 🤞🏽
I think it is very odd when men say : I like blondes. I mean it is just a hair color
Who is your sister?
@@claudiaschmidt3708 bruh some men are just attracted to females with blonde hair?? How is it odd lol?
@@rohilthomson so every blonde woman is beautiful? I just have to dye my hair blonde and that is all it takes? So all blondes are prettier than Lori harvey?
Her: “I’m like a mouse inside”
Me: more like a snow bunny
Lmao
I salute you LMAO!!!!
I've heard that snow bunnies will do anything for a black guy lol.
To be fair if we're talking insides she's just as pink as everyone else.
SAY THAT
She’s doesn’t want a real relationship, she just likes the “idea” of a relationship. Don’t believe what women say, just watch their actions.🌱
10000000000000% true
That's great advice.
She just wants some bbc lol
@@TigerTT she gon get none
It go's for men to always just people base on there actions not what they say
we all gonna pass on the fact that she is 21 but looks like shes in her 30s?
She's 21 years old, turing 40.
Common. That’s why she’s talking about babies on a first meeting. Back in my day only crazy childless women in their mid 30s used to do stuff like that, and back then the relationship advice media they consumed actually told them not to do that
She's 21... The fuck
Cause she be to the streets, that's why
Wait what she's 21 !? 🤯 nah she lying women often lie about their age
If a man says that in today's world he will be called a sexist.
Or racist
racsexist
@@andeno10 ah yes perfect
@@andeno10 Perfection
Colorist
Women who say "All the good ones are taken" should take a good look at the kind of wives those men have.
Great answer
Can someone explain please 😅
woman: ''I have not gotten on dates before, am a little mouse insde'
Also woman minutes prior: ''I basically have friends i just have sex with''
It's probably men friends that are already in her life. Or something that started out as a one night stand but continued to many night lol
her: "I'm allergic to latex"
me: "Cool girl, i'll get some latex free ones, no worries"
Polyurethane
😭😂😂😭
That is a bad sign, avoid women like this because they want to get pregnant.
I mean it's not her fault if she really is allergic, but yeah, it sometimes gets used as an excuse.
She thought she was slick with that baby trap.
Did this woman just say she like black men because she always wanted to be a mixed race women. The self-hate is real out here in these streets and that whole statement is problematic and creepy. Instead of fixating on a man's skin color, you really should be doing some internalized work in order to find out what you want out of the relationship, what characteristics you want your man to have such as being nice, financially responsible, having emotional intelligence, having values, and goals. It sounds like she chooses men based off of their physical attraction or what she thinks is viable to having a kid with.
She's just think and act like a real racist
Yep every white girl ever thinking if she dates a black or hangs out with a black person she can act all gangster and shit its so annoying.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 She wants a N-word pass :))
A lot of people do what you stated in your last sentence
She seems immature AF
I thought she was 36. She could star in the next "Get Out" movie
lot of milage makes you age quicker
😂😂
I think she's gorgeous. But she clearly has issues. She doesn't seem like a mean spirited person, but she needs to quit with all the fetishization bullshit. The sad thing is that she will most likely find someone to play into it🙄
She really does. Didn't notice her age at first and was suprised about her dating a guy so much younger than her.
But I agree with Paula, she seems to be a nice person. It's just like she had teenager kids already.
Damn if she is she looks really hot for a 36 year old. As someone who’s 20 years old there would be a big age difference but I’ll definitely smash older woman if they look like her
if you’re going to be with someone of another race and have children with them, it’s your obligation and responsibility to teach those kids about both sides. whether it be language, culture, traditional backgrounds and whatever else. it’s a lot of work and something a lot of these types of women and men don’t put into consideration. all they’re wanting is to have a mixed child 💀
Leegit. Underrated comment 🙌🏽
Lol as a mixed raced person I don’t understand her want to be mixed raced or having mixed raced kids.... we all just people too lol? We ain’t better or worse.. we just happen to be mixed. Life shouldn’t be so skin deep
@Prashant vyas either way if you only love your kids due to the fact they are of certain color or race then you shouldn’t have kids because that’s not what a parent should do and that’s absolutely disgusting
@Prashant vyas I doubt she is thinking about anything too deeply, mate
Being mixed race is the worst. Especially when you don’t look like either parents. It’s akward and confusing. I’m always choosing. Easier if parents look the same
Because she wants to be mixed, that’s why she wants mixed kids.. she is under the impression that life is better if you’re mixed... which unfortunately is not inherently true?
Because she's a dumbass and she thinks it's trendy. Literally, that's it.
For anyone who doesn't know, "pissed" for the UK and Australia means "wasted."
Yeah
What about "shit faced." or "mortal?" pissed can also be short for angry. It's a context thing.
Eg. I got pissed last night! (drunk)
I'm so pissed now!! (angry) context.
@@benreilly5951 Well I made this comment because it's safe to assume that most people who watch this are Canadian or from the United States where "pissed" means really angry. So I wanted to clear things up.
@@jongmagee that's cool Bruv I'm just adding to the thread really for those that don't get UK slang or terms.
@@benreilly5951 no pissed on its own never means angry. We can be "pissed off" which means angry.
This is why I feel that dating has a lot more to do with luck than most people realize. Most of the time when us guys ask a girl out its because of her looks (we think she's attractive), and then the first date allows us to get a glimpse behind those looks.
Ive definitely been on dates that were absolutely dead, had no feelings, convo was boring as hell. Ive even felt this way when she was exclusively talking about sex (no I'm not asexual, I just expect someone to bring more than sex to the table for a long-term relationship). This happened so much I began to think I was the problem. Maybe I was emotionally unavailable? It was really depressing until I met my current girlfriend (nearly a month going strong).
We connected instantly on our first date, laughed, made jokes, references, and actually had a talk with some substance. She was very clear of what she wanted, her expectations, and in general had her shit together. and what drew me in closer was the fact she wants to wait until were 100% certain we will work before getting physically intimate.
not saying it's impossible, but if you don't have the basic fundamentals of a relationship at the beginning, you're almost guaranteed to break up. and most of the fundamentals need to be brought individually on the first date in my opinion. there are plenty of things you can work on as a couple but you need to have your shit together, and so does your partner (this is where the luck comes into play)
I like ur honesty
only beta males need to wait for sex alpha chadd/ tyrone do it on the first date hold up not even date straight to the crib Lmao
@@vegitobingui1 i've always womdered, doesn't being a fuckboy get tiring? I mean sex, almost feels meaningless at that point if thats all their is to it no?
Thing is for a lot of people it's endless searching for that person years on years for some so they settle it's kind of soul crushing tbh
@@stevetheiii477 Yes. Its a developmental phase that men with options will go through.
Any girl that tells me "I like black guys" get's written off in my head and when I'm done I just pass her to the rest of my bros. By the end of the year she's been through every black guy in the borough. Do not wife these girls.
Facts. I feel the same in reverse with black dudes who say "I only like light skin girls or non black girls". Just trash. They can have each other
@ Somewhat true, but black women have the lowest marriage rates so I think it is somewhat normal too. Most black guys say they are more confrontational and uncooperative
Typical. "I want a traditional gentleman and relationship but don't want to be a traditional lady" girl.
Those are the absolute worst!!!
Or “I expect the man to do and pay everything for me yet I bring nothing to the table”😂😂
@Superscalar Processor correct
When you date someone for a surface level reason like skin color, you are going to continually have bad relationships because you are not starting from a solid foundation. Sure, it's possible to find a person with the trait you have that fits personality wise as well, but hoping to find that in someone you only find attractive initially because of x trait is most likely going to cause more failures than successes.
Say that louder to the far eastern Asian women in the back who only seek out White men for their skin colour.
nah i refuse to believe that, people aint that shallow, she prolly likes all the little things. there is nothing sexy about skin but the features diffrent people have
@@redlou3908that’s YOU a lot of people ik really do be looking for the tallest or the darkest dude and ignore all the red flags cause of that
As a British person, your attempts at the accent are hilarious but* EDITED actually, not toooo bad
Sounded Australian and English at the same time 😂
it was like a weird mix of Essex and Brummie
I'm British and I loved the accent!!
y'all niggas be like "wo'uh bo'uhl" and I die
Lets be real, it was shit :D But I appreciate the effort to get it somewhat right.
8:26 RIP Black Philip. Thank you Aba & Preach for keeping his memory and spirit alive, and for sharing that type of insight, wisdom and truth with the rest of the world through your guys' comedy.
Her: “I’m allergic to latex too”
Me: “Damn this chick really want that mixed baby!” 🤦♂️
Lmao thirstyyyy
Lmaoo
🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Giving into your urges may not be in touch with your long term goals".
That was...refreshingly honest.
Preach is actually good with that accent 😂
OkayBud - real talk
??? That accent was horrible 😂, funny but horrible
i see your not from UK, he drifted in and out of various accents from around the UK. It was bizzare to watch.
I personally wouldn't know
He sounded Cornish. Not corny, Cornish.
"Giving in to your urges may not be aligned with your long term goals." - Aba
You said something doll. I like that. Will use that as a motto. Thanks
9:57 "The date is reaching its climax"-sounds like national geographic to me😂😂😂 it's mating season, the female makes suggestions shes looking for a mate😂
😂 I had exactly the same thought.
😂😂😂
😅😅😅🤣
The VEINS in Aba's for head as he creepily smiles at the cam, zooming in. 💀💀💀
Jordan Peterson: Avoid wild women.
Defeat the dragon get bitches
Scooty-Puff. Sr. Yeah them reptilians trying their best to survive
Lol damn how did I get married? 🤣😫😬🤷🏼♀️
Vanessa Vargas Lol i was only joking, but I’m sure you didn’t get married with only the intent of having mixed babies right?
Dudley Red no I married Latino!
There's one more single mother
That will be on her fault she sound crazy
This is how they do it these days. Running around shouting, hey "I wanna be impregnated by a black man." LOL
Black men do tend to abandon their kids
@@1232-e7b, No! Women who like black men tend to go after the least responsible ones.
@@1232-e7b you talk about black men all the time, are u g8y or something?
I like this saying .
Every woman wants a good man until she finds one that requires her to be a better woman.
What if I'm a lesbian?
@@creamvaniilla1395 Most rules have an exception 🤷♂️
@@creamvaniilla1395 same with lesbians wanting a good woman. Its really not that difficult to figure out. Hes talking about the general latter
So why did he say all women?
@UCosb_dqlYbvPsiiHazyNRFA bro chill, it just a question 🤣🤣
Ten years down the road she’ll be buying a bunch of cats
The Wall is undefeated.
Who says she doesn't now 😅
And she'll be too big and lazy to wash herself, so her cats will clean her poom poom with their tongues
Don’t dis cats like that. They deserve better
Black cats
"I'm allergic to latex"
What were her plans for the rest of the date? Investigating a crime scene, volunteering at a hospital, mixing fiberglass?
😂😂😂😂
HAHAHAHA! Well clearly we all know why she said that. LOL!
The answer is "yes".
3D printing
lmao
"Get Out!"
Her: "im allergic to latex"
Me: Excuse me waiter by any chance is latex used in any of the meals cooked here. My lady friend has made it clear she's allergic and would like to be sure she wont be eating any.
😂
My dumb butt would be confused if latex was a cooking material. I would also ask the same 😂😂
🤣
hilarious to tack that on with food allergies. Like oh yea...,I'm allergic to latex hint hint... so you better be packing anti-allergenic condoms or this aint happening later.
Broooo that accent Preach was doing went from cockney UK to australian to new zealand and god knows what else. Keep doing you guys!!
I picked up on the Australian. Lol!
She sounds like a northerner. Most areas in northern England don't have high black populations so she probably moved to London and became infatuated as there are ample black men here. A fetish like that is born out of deprivation.
naracia ghirga way less. England is like 2% black male, maybe not even that
7:12 Preach describes it perfectly. This is why I get immediately get turned off when dates come on too strong, simply because they like the idea of me before truly getting to know me. It's not genuine or organic. My partner should like me for me.
@naracia ghirga I always thought there more black people in the north (specifically the norteast)
@@eldio2124 3% actually. Asians make up the largest ethnic minority in Britain at 7.3%
Glorrie Beau Women do not like men for men, women like what men can do for them. Forever and always
Update: they were on the show in 2015. They had a couple "more dates" and called it quits. She's live in Canada now and he lives in dubai
Did she get the mixed babies she was looking for? Lol
I bet she will find a white hubby, and her dream about having mixed kids is gone
So he literally ran away to a desert half a world away to escape from her.
@@augustodossantos4606 Yeah. You hit home for me. My caucasian ex wanted mixed kids, albeit she had her reasons for loving me
source
She's accessorizing. Some mixed race kids would be so hip and cool!
And I have just the purse to go with that .... ;)
"I like black and mixed race men" *me eating my cereal like popcorn* "This gon be gud....."
Lol
HAHAHA!!!
@Blanked watch the video
@Blanked Generally there is nothing wrong with it, it's the context behind some of the choices why they date them that I can't get behind and it's clear as aba and preach said that it is a fetish for her. Even if she can't see it herself the fact that all she wants is black and mixed raced kids, the fact she wants to make her skin tone darker. she clearly doesn't see the person for themselves before she sees the colour and that's why for her not all white women cause they aren't all like that, I couldnt fuck with her.
@Blanked Man have you not read the other comments about being treated as a commodity or a fad rather than actually being loved for you? I mean if you just want to fuck then by all means but if you want a good future and someone that cares about *you* then perhaps look for someone less shallow.
“I can’t find any good men.”
Look in your friendzone.
Verry often "good men" on friendzone are just a guy
submitted to a girl and never speak her with honesty, to much hypocrisy and fear. A true good man, take social bullet ( even by his crush ) to do what is fair and what is think is good for other people, not for him
It's highly likely you are right. A part of me feels bad for women like that, only so long as they are earnestly looking, no mind games, or crapping on the guys who sincerely feel compelled to be supportive and make them happy.
@Cancel Culture Doesn't exist I thought that but didn't want to be harsh. I didn't know this was the term for it. You have my thanks.
@@iamenobius2339 it's not a common term😂. He got it from football so you might have to explain yourself if you use it.
@Bric A Brac True, though there are some special cases. I was that guy once, told her what it was & what I wanted. She led me on & thus became my red pill awakening stage.
Quality attempt at an English accent, Bravo, laughed so hard. Bollix mate!
They can't find good men?? Maybe good men don't want them 🤷🏿♂
You just read my mind💯
Yeah!😂😂😂
Crazy thing is she’s only 21. She acts like she’s in her mid to late 30s and her biological clock is about to run out or something 🤦🏽♂️
Yoooo I thought she was like 30 💀
i'm in my 30's and you won't catch me acting thirsty like that lol
That’s British girls for you.
@@emanuelosuna9394 I'm British lol
I'm 32... I thought she was in her thirties like me.
“I like Black Men” I lost it😂
Oooga Booga!
"I want to be mixed race"
As a biracial man, I Always get a little uncomfortable when I hear monoracial people say this.
It's awkward to be honest .
I never get the interest of women like this in biracials
Fetishism mate
@@lolazal1 Thats one reason
I feel like in many cases if the individual who wants to date a mixed person comes from a conservative background/family, then a dating a mixed person might feel 'safer' to them. Their family might give them shit or treat them differently for dating a different race. So in accordance with that, they might look for partners who are only partly different from themselves.. Its a shitty situation all around. People should feel free to date whoever and not be dictated by prejudiced ideas that their family or society placed upon them
@@ext93 It certainly sounds awkward the way you put it.
@@MultiSmartass1 what do you mean by awkward? I don't mean to endorse this way of thinking, it's a destructive belief pattern. I'm just trying to lay out a potential reason for people thinking that way and be objective about it. I grew up around a lot of white conservative families whose children have different values than their parents. My point is that some people (doesn't have to be white) don't want their children to date outside of their race, religion, etc. For the children, a mixed person might seem like a more 'acceptable' choice of dating someone who is different from themselves
I have 7 cousins-3 marriages on my mom’s side. My 3 uncles married outside their race-2 German women and one Spanish woman. They meet them all in the service and guess what only 2 out of the 7 look “mixed” while the other 5 look more like their dark skin daddy. Some of y’all act like mixed means light skin with curls and green eyes. You wouldn’t know the 5 are mixed until you see a family picture or hear them speak their mothers native language
Kanika they all breeded themselves out...
Then again couldn't you say the same thing about Logic the rapper? He's mixed race but he looks 100% white
People are ignornant of mendel's law. Human DNA is incredibly complicated.
Night Goblin Shaman logic is a quarter black, of course he looks white lmaoo
@@TheWarboss7 I'm like that. It causes a lot of identity issues. My mom is quite a dark skin woman but my dad's background is from the Netherlands, tall blond, etc. It was hard bc as a child everyone thought I was adopted when they saw my mom
21? She looks at least in her late 20's... She isn't going to age well...
Was just about to say this, bruh shes speeding toward that wall
I thought she was 32.
well good luck.
There is no way she is 21
That's proof to how messed up the generations have become, bruv i only turned 22 and its so hard, like wth 😂 this is similar to the other shit, we deal with, its Like why's it so hard to find calm ones around my age.
I ve noticed that wamen hit the wall faster when they smash alot
I can’t find any good women they all got onlyfans now🤷🏽♂️
Only just found out what that is! 😭😭 This generation are SCREWED!!
Jaffacake K it certainly is😂😂
Who needs a man when you got thousands of simps with tons of cash lined up to see you strip? 🤷🏿♂️
U just as bad as this chick in the video bruh 🤦🏿♂️
@@kassaken6521 then bang the muscle bros on Tinder
Its very questionable when anyone "prefers" to date exclusively outside their own race.
It's fashionable these days. They think men and children are accessories
My coworkers black/ hispanic all agree they don't want to date black women. I think it's a social thing that make people think "X" race is undatable
When she said I like chocolate men 😳
When will these type of people stop fetishizing mixed race?
I wish they stip fetishizing race in general when it comes to a relationship. So longs you love, trust, and respect one another including culture and willing to learn and is open, I see no problem
Part of it is media programming so they don't see their own race as attractive so of course that's where the fetish aspect comes from. If your people is "trash" by default everybody else is "treasure".
Misslimitless23 we’re technically all mixed we aren’t the same as the original human beings
@Misslimitless23 Mixing races leads to more diversity and less chances of genetic problems. We're not a 100% of 1 race and if you are, there's some inbreeding going on in your family buddy. But if you're gonna fuck someone just because of their skin colour, you're very shallow.
The Commies from Brussels, and the Juice have been programming this garbage into white women for the past 20 years. She is just a product of her environment.
"Date is approaching its climax."
**cringe factor is OVER 9000!**
Too much cringe, don't know how Aba & Preach power through it.
😂😂😂😂
And on top of that, this actual British lady sounds like an American doing a bad British accent the whole time. My ears Bleed fountains when her mouth moves.
I can only imagine what a good man is to her.
Whoever he is...she wouldn't want him.
A good man to her sits at the other end of 12” of shame 😂
A criminal that’s what it is lol
"Simp", "Dead Ting", "Boring", "Square"... you name it
I don't think she can imagine that, you should probably help her out
Guys That Milli Vanilli Joke !!! I was on the floor just cramping the laughter was roaring out my belly !
Lol...They are always good men around. What she is looking for is a unicorn.
Preach
Facts
Indeed!!!!
A black unicorn
@@windnblows9943 beat me to it haha
Ppl never tries to look at themselves and try to work on them first... they bring all their bs on the relationship when they aren't ready yet😅
*Her:* I can't find any good men
*Also Her:* I'm allergic to latex
It's not that she can't find a good man, it's that good men as soon as they get to know her, run as fast as humanly possible from all those red flags
Basically she is giving free samples before she actually gets to know someone by that meaning actually get to know them.
As a Londoner, I've gotta say that was a decent accent Preach
“I really want to be mixed race” welp at least Frankie honest
"I'm allergic to latex as well." ...well, damn. Check please. She can't eat half the food here ANYWAY!
🤣🤣🤣
"I want a gentlemen"
"The date wasn't romantic, perfect"
😥😴
that's because you never listen to what a woman says - but to what she thinks. And she thinks "hot damn I hope the brother will be a total Tyrone so I let him smash right here right now"
What do you call a good man.
@@thelastdracolich1237 the same as I call a good women, honest, able to focus on the thing in front of them, trustworthy both ways, able to make decisions based on factors other than just what is good for them personally, what about you? 😇
Preach - "a ghosttuationship"
Me - nearly spits out coffee ;D
Preach swapping accents while he's ranting is killing me
Describing yourself as a ‘chocolate’ man is the lowest of the low
to each their own
^
Chocolate that dark tends to be bitter.
It's definitely cringeworthy. It sound so lame when I hear a black person refer to themselves as chocolate.
"I'm a vanilla extract man" doesnt feel right either.
*If a women can’t find a GOOD man it’s probably her FAULT.*
Yep if she’s a bad person it’s not her fault. She is probably completely oblivious to her bad qualities.
Yes
Or she got bad taste
As a wise man once told me
“ from the streets they arose to the streets they shall go”
serendipity yeah. That’s what he said