30-Year-Old Virgins by Choice

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • Inside the lives of sex holdouts as the number of virgins in America grows.

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  • @jamesgrey13
    @jamesgrey13 9 лет назад +162

    That wasn't a kiss! That was two hungry people feeding on each others' faces!! O_O

    • @Amatersuful
      @Amatersuful 9 лет назад +1

      +Tony James Gilpin looks like they are having their first kiss

    • @jamesgrey13
      @jamesgrey13 9 лет назад

      NightCrow
      What? The Hershey's kind? Were they struggling over it, trying to fish it out of each others mouths? :D

    • @Amatersuful
      @Amatersuful 9 лет назад +1

      it's like 1 fish trying to suck the life out of the other fish but fails miserable.

    • @LuLu6214
      @LuLu6214 9 лет назад

      +Tony James Gilpin Looks like fish kisses like they are trying to suck the oxygen out of their partners mouth.

    • @jamesgrey13
      @jamesgrey13 9 лет назад

      LuLu6214
      Perhaps they were pretending to be piranhas!

  • @kaylavictoria5360
    @kaylavictoria5360 9 лет назад +164

    I hate when people make having sex such a big deal, and I hate when people make being a virgin such a big deal. If someone doesn't want to have sex, then that's fine, if you want to have sex, then that's fine also. As a virgin asexual I think I could live without sex.

    • @raspao4
      @raspao4 9 лет назад

      Selenator Kater Your reference is hate and big deal, as if you hate what you lack.. Ergo you envy.

    • @shockofhyperbole
      @shockofhyperbole 9 лет назад +3

      +Gustav G lolwut?

    • @benpayne3254
      @benpayne3254 9 лет назад +6

      +Gustav G actually i think she is referring to how people think everyone should have sex because the majority does it , that you should be a sheep and join the herd but in respects some people just don't feel sex is a big deal and are capable of overcoming their animal urges, others luck out on finding a partner and don't want to resort to paid sex or one night stands, me my self am a virgin and i am 24 and waiting to i have a partner to go there :), there is realy no statement to envy there anywhere

    • @shockofhyperbole
      @shockofhyperbole 9 лет назад

      Ben Payne But you gotta admit, having strippers claw up your back in the middle of a lap dance can be pretty fun.

    • @benpayne3254
      @benpayne3254 9 лет назад

      yep thats true im still human :)

  • @justianfox64
    @justianfox64 10 лет назад +130

    I'll just say this, being a 30 year old virgin is better than being a teenager who's pregnant or a guy who made a dumb choice and now is being brought on a talk show about being a baby daddy.

    • @xxwallzxx4509
      @xxwallzxx4509 9 лет назад +15

      I agree. I am a virgin as well. Also it is by choice til marriage.

    • @TheCyprusX
      @TheCyprusX 9 лет назад +4

      TheObservingOtaku
      Is it too hard to wear a condom ? Yeah . Stop sugarcoating your shit to make yourself feel better. Sex is nice . If you're unable to get it , atleast be quiet about it.

    • @valence7959
      @valence7959 9 лет назад +3

      Condoms fail mate

    • @gamenexus203
      @gamenexus203 9 лет назад

      Anya Braginsky Pull out game mate.

    • @JM-wl8ez
      @JM-wl8ez 7 лет назад

      Ig

  • @sarahclark8350
    @sarahclark8350 9 лет назад +49

    Newsflash!! I am a 37 year old Virgin by choice. I am not better than anyone else. I have yet to find an honorable man worthy of the gift. I believe sex is a sharing of Souls and Spirits. I consider virginity to be a sacred gift and sex to be a sacred experience fueled by trust, love and honor. Shout out to all of the Virgins out there...STAY TRUE to YOU!! To God be the Glory.....

    • @sarahclark8350
      @sarahclark8350 9 лет назад +6

      I believe my best years are ahead of me!!! ♡

    • @shockofhyperbole
      @shockofhyperbole 9 лет назад

      +Sarah Clark I'm 20 and I've had 14 sexual partners. Let me just say, it's awesome. It can be awkward and unfulfilling at times, but that's when you open another bottle of wine and go ham.

    • @sarahclark8350
      @sarahclark8350 9 лет назад +7

      +shockofhyperbole Thsnks. I hope it was protected sex every time. I quit drinking Belvedere Vodka 11 years ago so I will never ever sip or drink alcohol of any kind. I believe alcohol is nothing but a liar and it only hurts and tears at the fabric of our beings...only if we allow it...I will allow the Power of Love to supercede all other illusions of what's real or not....authenticity is key and passion fueling my fire.....Again to God be the Glory...♡☆♡☆♡○°

    • @Asto508
      @Asto508 9 лет назад +1

      +Sarah Clark
      With such high expectations you very likely to be disappointed...

    • @adad-ec6ht
      @adad-ec6ht 9 лет назад +10

      +Sarah Clark I have nothing but respect for you. You are a classy woman. I pray you be happy forever. Do not ever deviate from your belief no matter what people say.

  • @TheGeoScholar
    @TheGeoScholar 8 лет назад +95

    I'm 29 going on 30. I choose not to have sex because I'm not married. That is part of my faith. Considering I have no significant other, I will most likely be "a 30 year old virgin". That is my choice and I'm sticking to it.

    • @user-cs3hi8zp7p
      @user-cs3hi8zp7p 6 лет назад +11

      The Lord has His standards for very real, very detrimental reasons! Great stand you are taking...and you will be blessed for it! Now consult The Lord Jesus bout finding your spouse & multiply...

    • @eriley7809
      @eriley7809 5 лет назад +5

      b80 what the actual f...

    • @SGzCMH
      @SGzCMH 2 года назад

      If possible could you please give us an update since then posting this comment because I'm in a similar situation to you.

    • @M_3553
      @M_3553 Год назад

      Are you still alive?

    • @TheGeoScholar
      @TheGeoScholar Год назад

      @@M_3553 Yes, I am still alive. I'm 36 years old now.

  • @750pw
    @750pw 9 лет назад +17

    I love this, makes me happy to see people waiting keep it up!!! The Lord will bless u for that :)

  • @inumesenpai1700
    @inumesenpai1700 12 лет назад +25

    i don't see a problems being a virgin. im a virgin and im happy about it.

  • @ditrinipersian901
    @ditrinipersian901 10 лет назад +47

    reclaimed virgin...lol... that's funny.

  • @chasewilliams8275
    @chasewilliams8275 10 лет назад +69

    I'm a male 30 virgin and I'm proud.

    • @Sveto757
      @Sveto757 5 лет назад +4

      hey just checking on you after 5 years, hows it going ?

    • @freyawyttthegoddessandchip7764
      @freyawyttthegoddessandchip7764 4 года назад

      My BF is 27 and virgin by choice [rejects all females, but he would do it with me, if I decided to have sx] and by birth, and so am I but I'm 19. I'm terrified of having sx...

    • @augustorvz3543
      @augustorvz3543 4 года назад

      Stay virgin forever.

    • @rowansage5546
      @rowansage5546 4 года назад +1

      And Gay

    • @huayang2467
      @huayang2467 2 года назад

      @@Sveto757 hahahahaha

  • @MrOfeast
    @MrOfeast 9 лет назад +56

    RECLAIMED VIRGIN??? BRUH.

  • @Miracle5ify
    @Miracle5ify 9 лет назад +85

    I'm a virgin and i'm proud !!

    • @adamgenova2916
      @adamgenova2916 9 лет назад +8

      metha aveiro I am fat and I am proud, I have one inch penis and I am proud, I am lazy piece of shit and I am proud. Ok people can either accept themselves or change, it is up to them, but this whole announcing of how proud they are make them look like judgmental and self conscious retards.

    • @user-cs3hi8zp7p
      @user-cs3hi8zp7p 6 лет назад +3

      Adam&donkey...the epitome of IGNORANT hell hounds...disgusting

    • @raphaelejembi2185
      @raphaelejembi2185 6 лет назад

      Amy Gates hello dear, can we be friends?

    • @kspavankrishna
      @kspavankrishna 5 лет назад

      @@adamgenova2916 lit

    • @kspavankrishna
      @kspavankrishna 5 лет назад

      @@adamgenova2916 well said

  • @chromelimbug5123
    @chromelimbug5123 9 лет назад +31

    "the music is to cover up the funny noises and the lights off is to cover up the funny facial expressions"
    This statement I feel sums up a lot of people's negative views of sex. They've fantasised it to the point that they're uncomfortable with it's naturality. When you have sex with someone, they're going to make funny noises and faces, it's all part of the experience and it ultimately makes it better because you appreciate the little characters of people's individuality. Not that there's anything wrong with romanticising sex, but people need to realise that it's not like what you see in the movies: it's messy, loud, strange, awkward and sometimes even hilarious. Bits are flying everywhere, instructions are being given out, funny noises are being made, but honestly once you let go of caring about that stuff, THAT'S when you have the best sex of your life.

  • @Ankledotcom
    @Ankledotcom 9 лет назад +24

    "Three attractive women" me- "YEAH FUCKING RIGHT"

    • @camart8045
      @camart8045 9 лет назад +1

      Me too

    • @SwordAgainstChaos
      @SwordAgainstChaos 9 лет назад +3

      Actually, the reclaimed virgin looks good to me.

    • @xmikew411x4
      @xmikew411x4 8 лет назад +1

      Fester Smyth - American women are the most beautiful in the world. These fat, ugly women are probably British expats living in America, or they have British ancestry. Brits are regarded as the ugliest people on Earth.

  • @WarriorLL
    @WarriorLL 2 года назад +5

    I dream of becoming a wizard at age 30, got 9 years to go

  • @Animelover540
    @Animelover540 10 лет назад +22

    I am a virgin And Proud!!
    I've also never been kissed.

  • @thelittlelamb1
    @thelittlelamb1 10 лет назад +36

    I'm glad to hear that the amount of virgins in this nation is on the rise. Being a virgin is something to proud of, it means you are saving yourself for that one person that you are meant to be with. I myself am saving myself for my husband on our wedding night and I know that I will be his first also. Will it be a learning experience? Yes. But he and I will learn together.

    • @xxwallzxx4509
      @xxwallzxx4509 9 лет назад +5

      Now that is an awesome comment. I myself am a virgin looking to wait til marriage. There is more of us out there than you think.

    • @mohabatullahsalar2958
      @mohabatullahsalar2958 4 года назад +3

      Yeah sister. These are the teachings of Islam as well. It is necessary both for men and women.

    • @bobby6569
      @bobby6569 2 года назад

      @@mohabatullahsalar2958 no it's not. because in islam, men can have multiple wives. that means he will have many virgin girls. and those girls will not sleep with someone who is virgin. women are less than men in islam.

  • @daemonvector46
    @daemonvector46 Год назад +3

    Almost 30 and still khhv..it never began for me

  • @TheHannahRyan
    @TheHannahRyan 10 лет назад +17

    Have the people on the virgin diaries also never even SEEN a kiss before? Like what the hell!

  • @Adrian3gotrip
    @Adrian3gotrip 9 лет назад +63

    "3 attractive roommates" ..... uhhhh....

    • @camart8045
      @camart8045 9 лет назад +2

      Ikr

    • @bhearts77
      @bhearts77 9 лет назад +1

      +adrian ornelas somebody wants to tap it. dont judge.

    • @trippin916
      @trippin916 8 лет назад

      Exactly...wtf...

    • @djregina6897
      @djregina6897 6 лет назад

      Fester Smyth they are from Vancouver. That’s CANADA

  • @phatboi8duece
    @phatboi8duece 10 лет назад +24

    Im a virgin and I am proud of it

    • @ggesdsdsdsd
      @ggesdsdsdsd 10 лет назад

      Me to sadly :(

    • @ggesdsdsdsd
      @ggesdsdsdsd 10 лет назад +2

      I guess it isn't 'sadly' I will find the right girl.

    • @LadyCharity
      @LadyCharity 10 лет назад +2

      ***** Lol I'm a black virgin, will be 30 next year :) Waiting until marriage. Far from unattractive...

    • @RadicalAwesomeness
      @RadicalAwesomeness 10 лет назад

      phatboi8duece Oh, shut up!

    • @xxwallzxx4509
      @xxwallzxx4509 9 лет назад

      Same here. I am not black but about to turn 30 soon. I am far from unattractive and had dozens of women that pursued me. Even friends at one time which was the hardest to turn down..

  • @joethi4981
    @joethi4981 4 года назад +4

    the "downsides" are not downsides at all. You learn those things over time. These women are strong, and honorable.

  • @sukira21
    @sukira21 11 лет назад +29

    So since I'm a virgin, 16 years old, I don't know anything about myself?
    >.>

    • @titoareyes
      @titoareyes 11 лет назад +24

      You should be so proud of yourself. Don't let our culture brainwash you. Keep waiting, it will be worth the wait.

    • @edilbertomedinajr.4168
      @edilbertomedinajr.4168 6 лет назад

      You find out more about yourself when you're sexually active

    • @rrp3441
      @rrp3441 6 лет назад

      Dom r u 20 now

    • @bimazivanovic4784
      @bimazivanovic4784 5 лет назад

      @@edilbertomedinajr.4168 that is so not true.

    • @edilbertomedinajr.4168
      @edilbertomedinajr.4168 5 лет назад

      @@bimazivanovic4784 Definitely true

  • @itsnotallrainbowsandunicor1505
    @itsnotallrainbowsandunicor1505 8 лет назад +13

    Why did I click on this? I need to rinse my eyes with clorox.

  • @StanHowser
    @StanHowser 10 лет назад +7

    30 year old virgin here. I've been mastering the bation since I was 13 and have done it daily since then. I think masturbation is underrated and more people should do it and refrain from intercourse. There are no cures for STDs/HIV and you don't know where the other persons penis/vagina has been through before you met that person. You are just rolling the dice. Plus, if you can run the risk of being sued if you give someone a STD.

  • @zerophyte
    @zerophyte 10 лет назад +13

    I just think the problem is that it's becoming more and more difficult to start and keep healthy relationships in this day and age. Plus social culture has changed so much that there are set stereotypes on who you are and how you look in appearance. I've never found anyone in all this time that fancied me. But I also ain't a sexual paramour that will sleep around for just meaningless sex.
    Some people just have standards and I think that is a good thing. If you're a virgin well into your 30's and beyond... So what? The right love of your life just hasn't found you yet.

  • @Lott0Jay
    @Lott0Jay 11 лет назад +9

    Well at least I don't have gonorrhea

  • @ashlen8717
    @ashlen8717 6 лет назад +5

    Ironic how people with morals get judged more than people who are completely screwed up these days! Y’all must be jealous.

  • @Natalie-xh6ph
    @Natalie-xh6ph 9 лет назад +24

    28-year-old virgin here, soon to be 29.
    Actually, I've never had a boyfriend. I'm just kind of a shy loser.
    I really hope I can find someone by the time I'm 30. It has to be someone nice, but not "the one" or something. I'm not desperate. If I was, I wouldn't be a virgin.
    (Just want to add that this is no way from a religious standpoint.)

    • @toshibamary
      @toshibamary 9 лет назад +1

      I hope you find the one soon

    • @giu.altamirano
      @giu.altamirano 8 лет назад +5

      Same here! but I'm 20.. I'm not waiting for "the one" just for someone who loves me back with no second intentions like just use me for sex. I don't like that game of one night stand.. even if it's just a kiss

    • @ArabDude123
      @ArabDude123 8 лет назад +3

      +Natalie1729 You're missing out on your best years. When become older, you have to act your age, and so you might look back and regret that you've never experienced love at youth.

    • @asouthernwriter
      @asouthernwriter 8 лет назад +3

      I'm almost 30 and still one...

    • @samreplete1842
      @samreplete1842 8 лет назад

      +Arab Dude can u elaborate it on more please what do u mean by ur statement ???

  • @TimpBizkit
    @TimpBizkit 9 лет назад +10

    That first couple might kiss like 12 year olds but isn't the bond there something special?

  • @alieninthecaribbean
    @alieninthecaribbean 7 лет назад +9

    That kiss....ew. They never even practiced kissing before? Watched a romantic film and see how it is done? Surely at least one of them is aware it is a bad kiss.

  • @Hi-qw3gp
    @Hi-qw3gp 10 лет назад +7

    I'm 24 years old. and I am still a Virgin.

  • @Newt5029
    @Newt5029 9 лет назад +8

    i waited- Waiting was worth it!

  • @Chaplin1219
    @Chaplin1219 9 лет назад +10

    Well i am not christian but it's good they have values for themselves i think it should be inportent to have morals

  • @3azef93
    @3azef93 8 лет назад +3

    i am a 29 years virgin guy
    i never had alcohol and i never had a girlfriend
    and no im not broken or ugly its all from a religious standpoint
    last 2 months were hard on me because i feel like i really need a woman in my life to love and hold and kiss
    i even started watching romantic movies tho i used to hate them before
    idk where this feeling coming from maybe its a hormone thing because im close to 30s ? i really don't know
    its so hard but i really respect my religion and i wont break the rules
    the only reason im still single is because i cant afford a marriage because its so expensive in my country
    hopefully in the next few years i get a better job and i'd be able to afford a marriage
    wish me luck

  • @TheAdam159
    @TheAdam159 11 лет назад +3

    i'm a 30 year old virgin. It can get extremely lonely sometimes, it's certainly not easy, and no it isn't always by choice. There have been people I really liked. But I'd rather have someone really special than just some random girl.

  • @jetta.silence6356
    @jetta.silence6356 9 лет назад +12

    Omg that kiss!!! When I watched it on t.v I think I covered my eyes and dug a hole in the couch to hide. This time I pulled my bed sheets over my head. It's ok to wait for sex. I waited until I was 20 and engaged. We never went through with the marriage. But we were together for 3 years. But in saying that I don't think there is anything wrong with kissing. You could wait until your engaged for that. But good god don't put yourself in that awkward kiss.lmao

    • @aguyonthenet9061
      @aguyonthenet9061 5 лет назад +1

      I'm a proud Muslim and virgin coz Allah has commanded us to do so I can't even shake hands with a girl
      Please tell me ur religion

  • @GPKatai
    @GPKatai 11 лет назад +2

    Just because they're not skinny mini, busty, make up plastered all over their face girls, doesn't mean they are not attractive. They are beautiful, REAL women!

  • @Aliciatagpink
    @Aliciatagpink 7 лет назад +3

    The lady who said virgins don't know how to handle other people in a relationship is so wrong. What does the way I treat my significant other have to do with my genitals? My personality and my ability to communicate with other people is separate, I believe, from whether or not I have had sex.

  • @culturabuzios3000
    @culturabuzios3000 3 года назад +2

    I'm male 76 years old and still virgin , if im i proud? Well proud of my right hand .

  • @Cake1848
    @Cake1848 9 лет назад +6

    That kiss though. Lol!

  • @lozl3
    @lozl3 12 лет назад +2

    I'm virgin..and i am 22years old...i'm so happy

  • @trueglitterdust
    @trueglitterdust 10 лет назад +14

    God wants abstinence . I agree with that.

    • @Thistlecloud1224
      @Thistlecloud1224 10 лет назад +5

      Preach it 🙌🙌🙏

    • @LoicRathscheck
      @LoicRathscheck 10 лет назад +5

      You spoke with him. wow... what other interesting things has god told you? Oh, and does he have a beard like we all think he does? Besides, how did I ever land here watching this? That is even more odd...

  • @nierod2186
    @nierod2186 9 лет назад +28

    me to I'm virgine waiting to the right One,...hehehe!

    • @smallbbc
      @smallbbc 9 лет назад

      Lyn Rodriguez im 26 still a virgin your asian from what country your from??

    • @Maa2412
      @Maa2412 9 лет назад

      .

    • @nierod2186
      @nierod2186 9 лет назад

      Pradas I'm from philippines how about you?? u still young hehehe I'm 24 yrsold

    • @nierod2186
      @nierod2186 9 лет назад

      aqeel ahmeed wherw did u see everywhere my comment?? are you sure?? 😆😆😆

    • @xxMIK1989xx
      @xxMIK1989xx 9 лет назад

      Lyn Rodriguez Let me in the v club, lol, I'm 26

  • @LordRojo
    @LordRojo 12 лет назад +3

    Okay this kind gives me the feeling that they are saying if you loose your virginity early, the better.. Yay more teen pregnancies.~

  • @lingerfan15
    @lingerfan15 8 лет назад +5

    If they don't want to have sex then they don't want to. And you shouldn't have to know how to handle someone in bed. Its a personal choice and when they decide to have sex I doubt that other person isn't gonna say no because she "doesn't know how to handle someone in bed." get a grip America

  • @53memyselfandi
    @53memyselfandi 12 лет назад +2

    Personally, I think it's great that the number of virgins in America is growing...that's awesome. Kudos to those people who can wait - it takes an incredible amount of willpower to say no to sex.

  • @ThroughTheHaze
    @ThroughTheHaze Год назад +1

    I'm almost 36 and still a virgin. I am afraid to date because of it. There is a stigma around it.

  • @Buck10489
    @Buck10489 12 лет назад +1

    Three attractive roommates? Lady what are you thinking?!?!?!

  • @AtrumMixer
    @AtrumMixer 12 лет назад +2

    I think they should show us more about this. The world needs more virgins. These days it's all about sex. And its not right.

  • @Amp1771
    @Amp1771 11 лет назад +1

    That kiss was not only gross, but really really creepy.

  • @jgh548
    @jgh548 4 месяца назад

    I’m 30 and I’m a virgin. I’m very proud. All the time. Help me, please.

  • @aGwEENapple
    @aGwEENapple 11 лет назад +1

    That kiss may have seemed weird and stupid looking to other people but it was between them. They got to experience all those firsts together. Congrats to them!

  • @lnm00996
    @lnm00996 11 лет назад +2

    I know a couple of people who are 30 years old and over who are virgins. ALL of them have issues! Some of which I think force them to remain virgins and keep them from having successful intimate relationships. Whether it is religious brainwashing, inept social skills or personalities that suck.

    • @BeneGesseritSaya
      @BeneGesseritSaya 2 года назад

      I’m sorry but…there is NO positive justification for being a 30+ year virgin! Under 25? Understandable. THIRTY?? Automatically indicates abandonment issues, sexual confusion, sexual trauma, history of abuse, hormonal imbalance (no libido), extreme body issues, or RADICALLY religious views. There is nothing healthy about NO sex for 1/3 of a humans life! Also means no masturbation! Growth/development and human psychology has already clarified SEX is a normal part of development! Wowsers!

  • @mysteryinthealley
    @mysteryinthealley 11 лет назад +1

    "Cover up the funny noises...funny faces..." Ladies and gents, we have the answer.

  • @brucewayne8264
    @brucewayne8264 4 года назад +2

    Reclaimed virgin is not a thing

    • @gailwebb9619
      @gailwebb9619 3 года назад

      Yes....not sure what a “reclaimed virgin” is supposed to be.....I guess it means she stopped having sex and she is now celibate. Big difference.

  • @Proudnerd2013
    @Proudnerd2013 5 лет назад +2

    I’m almost 24 and a virgin. But I’m getting married in about 6 weeks

  • @analozada9475
    @analozada9475 9 лет назад +3

    That kiss was so junior high or elementary maybe? Ew! Lmao

  • @wolfpresident
    @wolfpresident 11 лет назад +3

    You can actually kiss and still be a virgin. Why wait till you're married to have a first kiss.

  • @Crashandburn999
    @Crashandburn999 9 лет назад +7

    Omg that kiss hahahahaha.

  • @cuerdoxxx
    @cuerdoxxx 9 лет назад +12

    For serious relationships I prefer virgins.

  • @8Oblivion_Lost8
    @8Oblivion_Lost8 8 лет назад +1

    Honestly, I refuse to have sex because I have no need for it. I'd also rather loll myself than marriage. I don't need sex or any type of relationship. I have no need for it, as it isn't necessary for life. That's all I have to say. If you can resist having sex, and not even need it, you are in a way superior. For the record, I'm agnostic

  • @richardschiffman5120
    @richardschiffman5120 10 лет назад +12

    Who cares! Sex in general is overrated and in many ways very awkward. They're not missing much.

  • @peridotangel83
    @peridotangel83 11 лет назад +3

    Its sad its not told its okay to BE a virgin. This culture id WAY too much on sexuality. Whatever happened to loving you and not caring what you have and haven;t done?

  • @revvanmev2885
    @revvanmev2885 8 лет назад +1

    I believe that sex is either casual, passionate, or miserable and that marriage itself is nothing but misery. I've never seen a marriage where two people love each other for the rest of their days and those that stay married are only forcibly together out of some contractual commitment of the marriage itself. I'm all for getting together but marriage? That's a travesty.

  • @kgoundan
    @kgoundan 9 лет назад +4

    Sex is not worth the risk of getting pregnant, causing a pregnancy, or catching diseases especially AIDS. I don't want kids or AIDS so I don't have sex, and I'm 42. Even condoms often fail. If you are tempted to have sex, just think of something else. That's what I do, and I've never given in. Now that I'm 42 and am on multiple medications to treat diabetes, high blood pressure, and depression, I've lost the sex drive I had when I was young. I was able to suppress it then, and I am suppressing it now. Besides I never had the opportunity to have sex because I've never hooked up with a girl. Never had a girlfriend and never married. Why not just play a video game to satisfy your urges? You can't get pregnant or get AIDS that way, and you get a thrill.

    • @Theforeveraloneguy
      @Theforeveraloneguy 9 лет назад +1

      Kumar Goundan Dude that is the sadest thing I've ever read. Human beings are designed to date. I'm 25 and I've never had sex or kissed. I can't wait to find someone. At this point I wouldn't care if I got all the std's in the world. I'm that horny.

    • @Darshanaz
      @Darshanaz 9 лет назад

      +belthazormn1 I lost my virginity to a hooker when i was 19, You can always spend some money and have a quality time without getting STD.

    • @Theforeveraloneguy
      @Theforeveraloneguy 9 лет назад

      R TE
      Was it worth it? I'm so starved for affection i might risk it

    • @ACorlett48
      @ACorlett48 9 лет назад

      +belthazormn1 You know that whole "The Secret" thing? Yea I think it's bullshit. But it has a point, the best way to find something is to look for it. Being specific helps narrow down the search. If it's sex then a prostitute and a condom will do just fine (honestly, who could judge you for that route to that end?!). But after that you'll be in the rest of the group with the same issues we all have, finding a good partner. Wind back and decide exactly what you want to help narrow the search. Then you'll know where start looking. Get close to the source and from there it's up to practice / confidence and a bit of luck. Get what you want my friend. Statistically speaking its out there. There's 7 billion people along side you, we just avoid awkward situations to no end :P

    • @BeneGesseritSaya
      @BeneGesseritSaya 2 года назад

      What a sad existence….

  • @IamKushiro2
    @IamKushiro2 11 лет назад +1

    don't feel bad about it.. stay a virgin as long as u want to.. believe me u are much happier keeping your good to urself.. my niece is 20yrs old and still a virgin.. i tell her all the time ur much happier!!!!

  • @Zrex99
    @Zrex99 12 лет назад +1

    As weird as it seems, I am a 42 year-old virgin, who only looks for an understanding women, to take me on that special ride.

    • @BeneGesseritSaya
      @BeneGesseritSaya 2 года назад

      It’s wayyyyy too late! Darling…you are homosexual 😑

  • @ductuslupus87
    @ductuslupus87 11 лет назад +1

    Western cultures have put so much value on sex that it's being treated as some right of passage. It's almost as important as worshipping a god.

  • @frankirwin5684
    @frankirwin5684 8 лет назад +2

    They seem like they have their lives together, so I would say they are the lucky ones

  • @justinsignedup8210
    @justinsignedup8210 10 лет назад +1

    Nice video..but wtf is that "reclaimed virgin" girl doing on the show ?

  • @tickedoffnow
    @tickedoffnow 3 года назад +2

    Something natural seen as weird 😔
    We live in a backwards world

    • @tickedoffnow
      @tickedoffnow 3 года назад +1

      @@Battle-Emil just because you haven't heard doesn't mean it doesn't happen
      I hear it all the time

  • @dmreeoogdaq
    @dmreeoogdaq 11 лет назад +1

    Um...the 35-year-old male...lives alone in a well-kept, well-decorated home with a cat, and he makes fudge and cooks and drinks wine with his mother.
    Must I come right out and say what everyone thought when they saw his portion of this clip?

  • @Edude117
    @Edude117 8 лет назад +2

    Wow... welp, I guess I know what I'm gonna be like in twenty years... yay

  • @dystorl2907
    @dystorl2907 10 лет назад +9

    By choice? It is because they cannot get with anyone. NOT something to be proud of..

    • @tylerisnot510
      @tylerisnot510 10 лет назад

      yeah, it seems these kinds of vids always miss that point lol.

    • @Slyfoxx
      @Slyfoxx 6 лет назад +1

      Dan Henderson Religion plays a factor as well. Although everyone has sexual urges, religion (such as Christianity) controls how people live their life. Sex is meant to be with a married couple after marriage, and that is what I believe. Although that may not always be the case, faith controls that's as well. And some people just want to keep their legs closed lol

  • @USFighter
    @USFighter 11 лет назад +1

    You actually wouldn't believe how many woman find that to be a turn-on... I know a girl who is 28 who looks for men that are "inexperienced." It seems a bit taboo for a woman to be that way. We already know men like girls that are not experienced.

  • @ahomeforallanimals
    @ahomeforallanimals Год назад

    Im 46 and never found a husband so never had sex and reclaimed is bs it takes away from people who have waited

  • @carsonstewart2761
    @carsonstewart2761 7 лет назад +1

    "Danielle Michaud - Virgin"
    lmao

  • @TheGreatMoonFrog
    @TheGreatMoonFrog 8 лет назад +2

    I have a friend who's 28 years old now and he has never had sex. He's funny and I feel like he could if he could get over his fear. I know he has some weird fetishes but I've told him that shouldn't stop him because a lot of women will like that and will want to explore that with him. Hell I would know, I'm a magnet for weird sexual partners and it's great.

    • @logicreason3231
      @logicreason3231 8 лет назад

      Wow I think I may be your friend.

    • @fastfist1
      @fastfist1 8 лет назад

      TheGreatMoonFrog 1 of my friends lost his virginity at 31. He's engaged now to that girl and has a great relationship. Meanwhile, the rest of us are still searching for the one. I bet you your friend loses it to the woman he loves.

  • @naturalmusclebrit2758
    @naturalmusclebrit2758 11 лет назад +3

    I blame playstation

  • @hidingbrutality5695
    @hidingbrutality5695 6 лет назад

    31 years old virgin and proud of it . I will stay like this till i get maried and made my first love with my wife . ^^

  • @jackieakinyi4509
    @jackieakinyi4509 11 лет назад

    Being a reclaimed virgin does not mean that your hymen is gonna grow back it simply means to stop having it untill you are married. i don't understand what the ha aha s is all about

  • @GhilliedUp
    @GhilliedUp 12 лет назад

    I just read the title and instantly thought 'keep telling yourselves that'.

  • @ariannawoodman3251
    @ariannawoodman3251 9 лет назад +1

    I can't believe no one is talking about how those people were kissing like they look like they are trying to eat each others faces...

  • @NailsandNovacane
    @NailsandNovacane 12 лет назад +1

    "music to cover up the funny noises....???" damn.

  • @Sunfadedlovejaded
    @Sunfadedlovejaded 11 лет назад +1

    5:59
    OH LORDY WHY DID WE HAVE TO SEE THAT?

  • @veganfurretfanatic
    @veganfurretfanatic 3 года назад +1

    Jesus Christ I always kinda thought that kissing wedding video was fake

  • @Sentinal234
    @Sentinal234 12 лет назад +1

    Once you hit 30 and your still a virgin. you become a wizard. Iv got 8 more years until wizard status is mine.

  • @KiraraGrl
    @KiraraGrl 11 лет назад

    Don't care what they say, that bride NEEDED that kiss. We all need that kiss. I'm just feelin' for her that she had to wait so. long. in order to feel like she deserved that kiss. So sad. I understand it takes a lot of holding back, but I don't feel respect for her to hold out like that, I just feel sad for her. Not sorry, but sad.

  • @orlando9353
    @orlando9353 7 лет назад +1

    That wasn't a kiss was transmission of bacteria ...

  • @Zrex99
    @Zrex99 11 лет назад

    I am an adult virgin over 30, for some of us, the extreme anxiety and social phobia can be a crippling condition. On top of that for us guys is the social stigma of being an older adult virgin. I wouldn’t even begin to think of how to come up with a way to play it off.

  • @sypherarriola2150
    @sypherarriola2150 3 года назад +1

    I'm blaming all the new toy's .lol

  • @timelessmusicfamilymusic9175
    @timelessmusicfamilymusic9175 6 лет назад +1

    I always thought that was something you kept a secret😙

  • @karkrashful
    @karkrashful 12 лет назад

    it should be a crime for a woman to withhold sex from her husband.

  • @hanani9360
    @hanani9360 8 лет назад +1

    How on earth can you reclaim virginity ... Oh well whatever floats their boats

  • @tylerdurdonxx
    @tylerdurdonxx 11 лет назад

    How would the number of 30 year old virgins be growing?

  • @Oolliwan14
    @Oolliwan14 12 лет назад

    "for your birthday she got you a new sweater,put it on kiss her and tell her do betta"-Kanye, exactly what that one dude need to do.

  • @squamish4244
    @squamish4244 11 лет назад

    Rates of abortion and teen pregnancy are actually falling in the United States.

  • @StarcraftOakley
    @StarcraftOakley 12 лет назад +1

    reclaimed virgin? lmao, yeah whatever you say lady...

  • @brappoww
    @brappoww 10 лет назад +4

    i wouldn't exactly call those 3 attractive.

  • @yash7601
    @yash7601 3 года назад +1

    Mann that kiss though he's eating her