Iyanla: Fix My Broken Mom | Full Episode | Iyanla: Fix My Life | OWN
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- Опубликовано: 28 апр 2020
- Iyanla travels to Birmingham, Alabama, to help two sisters desperate to repair the broken relationship with their mother. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
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That daughters cry was like a gut punch 😔😨
It was
Yeeeesss omg
Yes, it was....It brought tears to my eyes.
It broke me out in tears... I had tears I didnt think were possible to have. I've been abused by my mom..but I didnt realise it was abuse untill I was 21...I'm 24. Iyanla is the first person to break me down...despite being on TV. We all need somone like Iyanla to hold us. If nothing else. We just want to be held
@@toniiblack7014 It's good to let out the tears and frustration. Hope you are on your way to a full recovery❤
I'm sorry her mother was abused but her being abused is no justification to allow it to happen to her own daughters. I was molested by my brother and abused by my mother but NO ONE HAS EVER ABUSED my 27 yr old son...Because being his mother and a victim, no survivor, of abuse, I refused to let anyone near him long enough to even think of forming a thought about doing something inappropriate to him. I vowed to love my son beyond measure and to this day I do and he is doing Wonderful. Our relationship is sooo Awesome. It is a choice how you treat people and because of the abuse I endured, I vowed to never let my son feel unloved Period!!!!
Isantiful, I am so proud of what you achieved despite what you suffered as a child. You are an extraordinary woman.
lsantiful1 Reading your comment sent chills down my spine. Your story resonates with me, to my soul. My kids are very young & I’m afraid I will parent them from fear and unresolved anger. You have inspired me today.
Your strength has propelled you in this direction through grace and mercy. You are covered and your son was able to have a positive life
Because you are not selfish.. As a parent the only job u have is to protect your children and provide. If you can't do that u have failed. I know plenty of women that was abused as a child. And they didn't allow a man to come in and hurt their child.
Yesssss Amen!!! So happy that you and your son have an amazing relationship. Breaking curses.
" I don't want my mother in my house or around my children" ... Lord please send a covering over her. I felt that in my spirit.
I said the same thing and feel the same way it’s a horrible thing.
I don't have children yet, but I feel the same way!
I don’t have children of my own yet, and I feel this way with my father. I’m protecting my PEACE. 💯
Do u mean a covering over the mom or daughter? Hope covering for mom & daughters.
Same! All that love couldn’t take away her spanking me!
When the youngest said that she was afraid to have children because she thought she would do the same to her babies 😭😭😭 Jesus
GIRL! Broke me down.
@@TheNinnyfee wow I have never thought of that.
Kick her out on the streets. Let her go and find the men she allowed to abuse you take care of her. Let her go to a shelter or live on the street. It is not your responsibility. She needs to find her way like her daughters did ALONE.
I never had children because of that. I would never want a child to feel like that.
For years I prayed not to have any children. When I got pregnant, I cried uncontrollably because I was terrified to be my mother. Today, I'm raising a smart, beautiful little girl, and while I'm not perfect, I'm sure I'm nothing like my mother.
When Kim cried in Iyanla’s arms I felt that cry.. it’s gut wrenching 😭😭😭
Tore me all the way up! 😭😭
Yes. I felt it also. 😭
Yeah my eyes welled up even though I hate crying... couldn’t help it
Girllllllll yesssss. I cried every time the Daughters cried. I felt ALL their pain. (My mom was the same when it came to men).😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you Jesus, that's one
I heal from watching Iyanla, she’s a blessing to us😘
NkatikanoTv I healed from another show she had I think it was in 2005-2006. It was called Starting Over, it was her n two or three other therapist💯💯💯🥂
FORGIVENESS ISFREEDOM that’s good to hear love💕
She really is amazing! If you found this inspiring, you can find more of Fix My Life here: bit.ly/rtu85rd
OWN ~ Caitlin
NkatikanoTv She truly is. ❤️
NkatikanoTv #metoo 🙏🏾
The nerve of that mother to go live in her daughters house like she's done nothing wrong
What if she had no1 to turn to?
I’m saying tho, her daughter better than me. I hate to say it, but she would’ve been in a shelter 🤷🏾♀️
Jacquelynn Legree yes god
GOD will take you back to the pain you have caused and you will have to face those you have hurt.
Nomsa Ntuli her kids had no one to turn to and she neglected them!! I don’t feel bad for her.
Generational Curses are real, y'all. As a race, we got to get therapy. Pray none stop of the many pains that hunt us. Lord, bless this family. Amen!
Yes it is. We have to pray and get them broken off us! And therapy is where the healing starts.
@Queen Mercy, in all respect, call it what you want - rather it is generational curses, intergenerational abuse, selfishness, pride, et cetera... Whatever the case may be, it is time for "all" people to heal, forgive, accept responsibility, incorporate therapy, & keep God as the Head of our lives. The healing starts now! It is up to each one of us! Much love & peace! ✌💛✌
@Queen Mercy I'm sorry but this IS true...It's not as though there were counselors and therapists lined up to help these people to mentally and emotionally transition away from slavery. Can you imagine being born into an environment that completely reinforces the idea that you and everyone that looks like you are less than human and deserve nothing but to be used like an animal? How does one's mind psychologically process the idea that you are inherently less than another? How does one psychologically reconcile this to themselves? For their entire lifetime and for generations after? Can you imagine ANY group of people going through that sick nightmare and emerging unscathed?
Yes 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
My thoughts exactly 😔
This woman is an instrument of God to heal people.
Absolutely
Indeed she is. May God is keep her in perfect harmony with her gift.
I have heard that she was not sent from God .....not sure yet in my eyes seems she is tho !
@@rubyredruby1305 as a believer , we should all be vessels to carry out his word. She has what God gave her, gifts. I have a gift of speaking to women. I was so scared to walk in it but couldn't deny it because of the women that sought me out by word of mouth. I can't say she's called or not..she knows though. You can not escape it. We have to embrace it. I honestly do understand what you said.
@@rubyredruby1305 you've heard that from who?
We must protect Queen Mother Iyanla at all
costs
YESSSSSS!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Millie C yes
nonsense
Yes we must she is here to help us heal.
I always ask who will her mantle be passed to ...
So many adults have UNCHECKED TRAUMA and PISS PO childhoods. Hurt people, hurt people. A lot of people need therapy.
mslashay35 hurt people either hurt people or allow others to hurt them
mslashay35 it’s not an excuse to be a bad parent. You can deal with trauma and issue without having kids.
I agree..alot of adults are torn and never dealt with it
No! That doesn't excuse their bad behavior! They all know what they did is wrong!
Desiree Desiree no. I've been hurt but I never allowed it and defend myself.
I don't respect any woman who allows abusers, especially male abusers, to violate their children.
Why especially male abusers? what a strange thing to say.
I agree but this woman was being abused also.
I'm not giving her a free pass. She didn't have the tools to protect them.
Some male predators seek out single mothers because they are vulnerable and alone.
Mary McDaniel baby hurt people hurt people!!
@@cressapellom4205 Because some of those men target single mothers...it happens more than some people want to admit.
@@sleo7781 Ummm nawww please stop.
Iyanla breaks you down to pieces then shows you how to put yourself back together.
You are beatiful lady l love youre last wambani
This, unfortunately, was my reality... being raised by a mother who was emotionally unavailable. There is so much healing in forgiveness and compassion... Those that know, do better... My heart goes out to all those who have experienced this form of intergenerational abuse, we owe it to ourselves and our future offspring to do the work and break the cycle
lyndeeeeee I agree💯💯🥂
@lyndeeeeee sending you lots of love, health and strength Sis xxx
@@nixxb449 Thank you wonderful and right back at you too :) xx
Broken mom's never know how to take care of kids
Was mine too. #wereinthistogether
"When a woman puts her belly on mother Earth she's been nurtured by the greatest mother of all"
Sista Iyanla is the truth! 😭😭
Breaking a generational curse🙌🏾
Black women won't stop sleeping with losers that abuse their children
@@TW-mg3ld, I believe you meant all women, not just black women! I understand your point...
It's not generational curse, choices one can break the cycle you live you learn from it
Gigi Gonzalez if that’s your definition of breaking cycles than let that be yours. I said what I said 🤷🏽♀️
Yes beloved.
This was one of the most intense episodes 😢
Honestly, not even closeeee to some of the other episodes I’ve seen
@@sheeshneeshyeah like the woman whose husband moved the entire family in and their newborn baby died. That was a hard episode to get through
Sure, I guess I'll cry today
Okay! All this stuff I've been holding in because of this shutdown is coming out!
Right, I just cried like a baby😭
honestly i always cry at these😭😭
📠
12:31 when Iyanla gave her permission to cry .... my heart is so broken. I can hear her pain.
Cee Bee how do you give permission to cry 😢 sometimes Iyanlas methods irritate me
Cee Bee, my earliest memories of being hurt by family (because family are the first teachers) and me trying to communicate it to my mother got the response of "You cry too easily and too much. You need to stop crying so much.".
Not having permission to express hurt and pain can be torturous. (And when the other daughter began to cry at about 18:30 was hard to hear for me too.)
@@ObviouslyTatiana its about letting someone know this is a safe place for them to feel comfortable to be emotional. Dont be so literal.
She let a man beat her baby over a honey bun.. I rather be single then sacrifice my children for a man. I could never even leave my children around a man to many what if’s..
I thank God for my mother. She is a single mother and never ever did my sister and i feel abandoned or side lined. Shes a wonderful mother. Praise God. Thank God for my grand parents who were our backbones back then.
The saddest part is to hear a mother say I don't remember .
My mother says that all the time
@@austinrichards1740 they remember they just ashamed about it
J C thank you for your support you should text me
@@austinrichards1740 I came to peace with it years ago💜
She claimed she didn’t “remember” but can remember her trauma at 8 years old. Interesting.
I think I died emotionally at least 3 times while watching this 🥺 I hope they found healing at the end 🙏🏽❤️
This made me cry. I felt for everyone individually and collectively. 😪
😍
Girl I'm crying too. Ain't talked to my mama since 2017 or seen her. Wish she would listen to me like this. That mess really hurts so many of us women
Same here 😭😭😭
Those girls, my heart breaks for them. I wish them nothing but blessings moving forward.
This is therapeutic to me. I can't afford a therapist right now so I watch the show and I try to learn how to break my own generational curses. Even though I have a mother who would never admit to any wrongdoing at this point I have to heal myself..
Me too
You all are already heroes for even recognizing this and wanting to heal yourselves. 😘😘😘
Same lol
The mother's numbness with the honey bun situation bothers me.
No emotion at all...
@@ThePecanTan makes me cry
I wish Mrs. Iyanla would Mentor and counsel me. I need her 💔
Toya J Bae same sis same
She has a podcast called the R Spot!! It’s great!
The daughters are SOOO beautiful especially stripe tee with her big brown 🌟 stary eyes 👀
Yes they are
Both of them are Beautiful very,Beautiful
There is a thin line between excuses and reasons. Listening to the mother it’s hard to decipher.
Mercede Guillory yes!
A mother is just a woman. A woman. A human. We all are full of our crap. It doesn’t excuse what she did - it simply explains it. We attach too much to “mother” - she can only be who she knows herself to be & if she doesn’t who she is - she can be told who she is by those men etc.
@@mayakelly3457 what you said is on point. What a beautiful mind
Tamla Parris-Ba so kind. thank you 💕💕
MAYA KELLY we don’t attach enough to
Mother. Fix your crap before having kids. The kids don’t ask to be here. Children don’t just “happen”.
She knows who that child's daddy is!
Probably lives near by.
oh, were you there?
@@1Mystn i wonder
This is too real and too painful for me, if anyone needs me I will be under my blanket in the corner watching sponge Bob😭😭😭
Take care of yourself. You’re not alone. This is a tough one.
Yes we all are going through this, your not alone. Please stay strong.
The situation is sad but your response is funny.
@@nihoward6219 Right! I actually giggled through my tears.
I.knowthats right
When you have children, THEY ALWAYS COME FIRST🙏🏻💜.....which is exactly why I don’t have children😆 But I am woman enough to say that children are not for me, but if I did have children, I know they would have to come first!!
Vanessa Vargas Yes they always come first.
use wisdom don't judge
Jeanine Ruggs I am going to judge her a bit... extremely broken people should not have children, until they have healed within themselves 🤷🏼♀️. There are too many parents trying fulfill selfish desires after they have children, and that boat has somewhat sailed 🚣♀️
ok almighty.....watch again, than your heart will see....
Jeanine Ruggs nothing I’ve said is offensive..and I’ve seen this episode multiple times...I said what I said😏
My mom chased me out of the house at 19,at 12 midnight,threw my clothes out in the road and mind you we lived in a notorious neighbourhood...REASON: I came from Varsity hungry at 22h30,after cabing home(although we had 3 cars in the house but she told my stepfather not to drop or pick me up),so,I was hungry and I wanted to eat. After taking food,she yelled at me coz nobody should eat till my stepfather comes home(who is always coming as late as 12midnight or 1 am)....my price was being thrown food at,kicked out ...32 years later, am still healing from the emotional neglect,abuse and trauma,yet she behaves like nothing happened....am a trauma breaker,I never want to be like her to my future kids,hence,am willing to heal in Jesus name.
Wauw I'm sorry that this happened to you😔
My heart breaks for you! I pray for your healing
So sorry for you my dear
You need a box of tissues before you watch this episode! I have cried and felt their pain
The "sins of the parents down to 7 generations"... and yet deep healing is possible with the right time space intention and teacher.
I Thank God for the loving parents I have ❤️
Be very thankful💜
Please do
U better
Me too and I pray for others to gain the same.
I wonder what was going through the daughters mind when the mom confessed she has NO idea who her dad is. My heart really broke for her in that moment 😞
That's my life everyday.
My cousin went thru this her whole life until she died at 47. She kept asking her biological mother who was her father. The mother would never tell her. She probably didn't know. I saw how it affected her.
This makes me cry so much because I went through sexual abuse at the hands of my mothers ex husband who also happens to be my little brothers father every time I look at my brother I see his father and it’s makes me not want to be around him and my mother dances around it but never outwardly addressed the elephant in the room , I’m still dealing with my own trauma in therapy !
Riareality Tv Sorry to hear that...Praying for you 🙏🏽✨🌸
🙏💔🙏🙏🙏🙏
April Dawn thank you so much
Riareality Tv You’re very welcome ☺️
Bless you ❤️ truly and sincerely. No child should ever.
This is so heartbroken and it brings tears to my eyes = To grow up without the love and support from your Mother = I give those two daughters credit for reaching out to get help and to heal years of pain = I pray that all of them finds peace for a new beginning = When you forgive it's one of the most peaceful feelings
Oh my god ! 😳 when they laid their bellies on the ground ! I’ve done that so many times and it made me feel so much better. I’ve ran out the house and literally laid on the ground crying 🥺 who would’ve known .. Iyanla is amazing !!
I wanted to try that , maybe I’ll feel so much better
Pretty Cherry Do it, it helps. I remember getting some really bad news, and just breaking down. I was in shock just hysterical. Ran out, no shoes, cried and just laid there on the ground.
6:30 NO! You don't lie on your children and let someone else abuse your children 😡
I’m pissed too ugh
I’m sorry i just don’t feel sorry for the mother. Even after hearing her story. She seems to not take responsibility for her actions.
I don’t either. She also has a lot of nerve moving in with her daughter and her family
Same I see str8 through her.
The Black man MUST learn the importance of leading their families. After they learn this, they need to learn how to lead their families, and after they learn how, they MUST learn to impregnate the right kind of woman. Doing these things will insure that children are rightfully protected. In short, Black men need to do their job, take responsibility, and lead. Us men have collectively lost our connection to The Most High. A man can only lead when he is first a follower ... of God.
❤
Amen
Because of how my mother verbally and emotionally abused me as a child and into adulthood, I refuse to allow my boys around ANYONE without me, their dad, or my sister present. I trust very few people with my boys because as a mommy, it's my duty and honor to love and protect my boys.
I know for me she would not be living with me.
Shannon Laws sis would’ve been on the streets begging for bread 😭
four babie same
Whew that cry in the heartbreak exercise, pierced my soul.
Oh Iyanla, Iyanla, every time I watch your program I learn something about myself.
It's sad for theses two ladies
The Iyanlas and the Lynn Tolers of the world are golden blessing us with what God blessed them with.
Finally full episodes..... 😍😍😍. Thank you own
The daughters crying was so haunting full of raw pain
That cry from Kim. Rocked me.
Omg this was so heartbreaking I couldn't stop crying for the daughters & the mom....I truly hope they work through everything & be that happy family they all deserve to have
Bless Iyanla - my mother did the same. Divorced my dad when I was 9 years old and 3 husbands after that. She always bent to their will, including abusing us. I chose not to have children because I feared ever falling into that pattern. Just watching this episode feels healing.
Wow this was a hard one 😔
Yes it is. Watching it just now
The power and pattern of men’s use of us is appalling
Daniela Galdino-Jolly, trust you have Single Dad's who let women move in a mistreat their kids too esp the daughters.
@@sherrisolomon8673 you are right. I've seen a guy let his girlfriend beat up his 13 yo daughter in a parking lot in front of the grocery store.
This is one of my favorite episodes because I grew up with a mother n a auntie just like her🤔 plus it shows me how much I have healed💯💯💯🥂
Kim and Annette's cries, my God they hurt! But I know that gut wrenching cries free your spirit, they'll heal. ❤️
With my desire to become a therapist, I am bless to have met Iyanla and Spirit through this medium. I feel more fulfil when I help people emotionally. I love to use my words to uplift people. Pull people out of a place of pain's captivity. I want people to heal and be free. Pain is detrimental to us all. Stay bless everyone🙏🏽💛.
Iyanla does what she does with so much love in her heart. She uses her whole self to make someone feel her love. You can hear it in her voice, and see it in the way she uses healing touch. She is a treasure.
As a person who was abandoned by both parents who abandoned all their other kids, this hits home. To know that life will always be different because I was abandoned and hurt by my parents before any man ever did, breaks me. I’ve kept it all together and I’m doing great for myself by I’m just an absent person, and I detach myself from situations and family and I feel like one day I’ll snap.
I felt this😢 I’m praying on/for you sister!!
The silence is the killer.
This was hard to watch.. I hope the mother gets a job and find her a place to live. she shouldn't moved in with her daughter. she appeard to be in decent physical shape she should have been working and taking care of herself.
She is the reason why I mentor young until this day. I truly admire this woman ❤️
😔 my story as a child too still not resolved as mother doesn’t want to take accountability over 50 years 😕
Damn u have to speak to her.. let her know how u feel
Sometimes you have to accept an apology that is not given in order to heal...my heart goes out to you and I pray you find peace. Bless you.
Ditto.
danielle corley thank you 🙏🏽
Jessica Auguste I have tried and I’m still trying and Auntie Iyanla gives me the strength to persevere along with kind people like yourself who understand - bless you 🙏🏽😘
This Episode tore me tf up!!!😭😭😭😭😞
I had to pause mutiple times....I had never seen the whole Episode...so watch that years later is a blessing!!!! I hope the Family is doing well!!🙏🏾 I wish them nothing but the Best!!💖💖💖
I wouldn't move someone that abused me into my home with my children.
Me too
I feel the daughters pain it’s so hard when the pain is inflicted by your mother the first women you look up to as a little girl and after going through that pain you have to try to find forgiveness💔💔
I LOVE how when a guest gets in touch with a deep pain and speaks it out loud , iyanla says with such compassion: yeah , yeah. She’s so affirming
Every time that daughter cries out my heart shatters.
For anyone coming from a dysfunctional family of origin.....
Look into ACOA and read or listen to the book called
'After The Tears'......
We truly don't grasp how our childhood shapes the way we think and perceive and react to people and problems.
That book and the ACOA organization can help explain it.
You are not alone.
You can Break the generational legacy.
Oh those poor girls-I’m only 10 mins in and my heart breaks for them 😭😭
This episode was therapeutic for me. I cried with the two girls and released the pain I hold in my heart over the mother I don't have. My mother and I do not have a relationship. The "Mother Wound" is devastating. Thank you for uploading this (full) episode. I consider it a blessing to be able to watch this. Thank you to Iyanla for the work she does. And thank you to the three women here who had the courage to do this show. I admire and respect you for helping so many of us out here. We share your pain and story.
😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😔😔😔😔 my God in Heaven!! I'm crying so hard Jesus Christ, I so understand these young ladies. I'm 34 and going through the same thing.. healing from past childhood trauma.. Lord this touched my soul.. Heal them Father
@Forgive And Live thank you sweetheart. May our Father in Heaven bless you abundantly for your prayers. I truly appreciate it. I'm writing a book about the trauma and the Refinement process that God has taken me through to get to a place of healing. Bless you beloved
I don’t feel sorry for the mother
Parrish Whitted me neither
Me neither
At ALL. I was waiting for something to hit when she was talking to Iyanla.... but it didnt....
I don't think the mom needs sympathy, but she was born into generational curses and cycles. It's tough to break those curses. I appreciate this episode.
the best episode I've ever seen!!!! this why u don't judge!!!
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3 minutes in and I’m crying this hit home for me only difference is my mother knew of and allowed step dad and her friends to sexually abuse me, mom beat me! I have 1 real sister my mom stays with her. I took care of home at 14 till I left at 16 my sister dose it now because I don’t want her around my kids
So soorry for what u went through, I pray God will heal you 🙏
I pray for your own healing and wholeness to manifest speedily.
Trust God to guide you through your healing.
🙏🙏🙏
im praying for you love wow thats hard im sure 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I can’t do it when Kim started crying I was like I can’t do this 🤦🏽♀️😭❤️ I love you Kim I wish I can hug you and your sister ..
you were my God before I knew who God was, Whew! I felt that!
Yes own uploader i could re watch all of Miss Iyanla's shows.
When the older daughter cried it break my heart. You could hear her pain.
Iyanla is a woman that saves lives. I would love to be her understudy. Just like her I had to break myself down to build myself up and I did it with my mother. I didn't go through this exact situation but I was emotionally neglected at times. It's heart warming to know all three woman do want to fix the issue and become one again.
I'm crying with you.. EDIT: This has developed as a deep healing processs for me whilst watching it, sobbing my heart out and even puking out the disgust I've been carrying. Thank you.
I hope you're so much better now. Sending love. ❤
@@serpilkaddy1609 I am doing well, thank you! I was in healing mode back then. I guess it worked :P
@@user-gd5tq7df8h I am so happy to hear that!
May Allah guide and protect you and bestow his blessings upon you and those you love ❤️
@@serpilkaddy1609 Thank you very much. I am a spiritual atheist but receive your blessings and extend my blessings to you 🙏
I am crying on my knees, I went a lot in my life is my Father, I can't count how many times he made me to sleep outside at night. And he could come and beat me to death. My wounds are not there anymore, but the scars are still on my heart. One day someone will hug me .
🧡
If he’s alive beat him once good.
Danielle Mccarter 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm so sorry that this happend to you.. send you a virtuel hug❤️❤️❤️
I am sorry you deserve many hugs
She’s better than me because I wouldn’t let that lady live in my house! Ever !
I wonder what she secretly had against her girls.
No identity, no self-esteem, no self-love cue the multiple men, no lasting healthy relationships. Not just failing, abusive not just to the mother, to the children by their own mother.
Same everyone needs to get right with god
I bet the mother had an equally dysfunctional upbringing not to excuse her though.
Powerful..... this need to b addressed in the body of Christ!!!!
I agree! All of the jumping, running, and shouting but inside they're broken. The truth needs to be revealed and dealt with for sure😢
@@Charrisnemtblueprintright....bc I went through that....not knowing if I could open up regarding deep hurts and pains which in some household aren't addressed but swep under the rug...I found out some things can't always b prayed away, but released in which yokes and healing will begin😇
Amen! I desire to become a therapist for people who are broken in the body of Christ. To hold their hands through the process of healing. To lead them to the light (Jesus)🙏🏽💛
@@jeanineruggs7301 The an be prayed away if you're saved and allow yourself to be led by the Holy Spirit.
@@JudionSmith Amen..... and as a Intercessor I'll be praying for you!!!
These beautiful women, hurt, broken, weak. I sure hope they can clean it out and heal.
I’m so happy the mom could apologize and ask for forgiveness. She didn’t blame her girls or not take responsibility for what happened I appreciate her so much for that. Her girls needed that so much from her. That apology was needed!
When you've whispered to your subconscious that you never want to be like your mother or repeat her mistakes.... those whispers jump out of you and shout loud in other ways...
Hope the healing continues. "I'm breaking the curse" was deep
This has been the most emotional episode for me. It's so incredible how damaging generational trauma can be. Thank God for Iyanla.
Awww, healing, forgiveness, generational curses broken..praise Jesus
If you were abuse, that should give the reason not to allow that to happen to your daughters, it cannot justify what you did to them , that alone should make you protect your daughters with every power you have.
I felt the heart break exercise in the pit of my stomach! The pain is so raw
I sleep in that foetal position all the time sometimes with a pillow at my belly to feel bit better but, it’s true once you wake up it’s back to ground zero when you’re going through this - blessings to ALL going through this and thank you Auntie for always trying to help May the Most High always guide you to help us 💓💓💓🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Love this healing can we get more Iyanla fix my life full episodes on RUclips please!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🙏🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
"Mother" is name of God on the lips and hearts of all children. I heard this line in the movie The Crow and I have never forgotten it. I am far, far from perfect but nobody will ever come between me and my babies. They come first until the day they are able to fully take care of themselves.
I never related to a phrase so much. Who wants to say they hate their mother. It took me a long time to get past the hate unfortunately I no longer see my mother as my mother.
🙏🏾🙏🏾 for you love, just curious do you desire any relationship with your mom, these girls were me only to the parts that my mother suffered this from her mother and it crippled her to honestly not know how to be a mother to my brothers & I, my son being born 17 yrs ago gave her a reality check & allowed us to grow some form of a relationship i didn’t think would ever exist...sorry so long
Juscam until my mom can address her own trauma I don’t think we’ll ever be close. I’ve attempted multiple times, then I tried twice with a therapist and she just deflects and starts crying about her past. I love her but there’s only so much I can do.
I hate my mom too , she’s the type of woman putting men first of everything...she disgusts me so bad !!
I am genuinely curious: what prevents that "mother" from getting a job? The nerve...
Truly! She looks able-bodied and still young enough to work. I would help her for a year while she works to save her money and then she would be on her own.. with love.
She feels stuck and broken. Devoid of a goals and dreams. She's had what is called arrested development. No identity. She doesn't know who she is.
@@rc6449 Perhaps she doesn't want to be alone hence the multiple men in the first place and she doesn't know how to get involved in a relationship. she needs more therapy .
@@divinelychosen5554 i was unable to watch the whole thing because it continues to freeze. Do you know if this woman's ability to be self sufficient was addressed?
@@olgafigueroa2909 no ma'am
This was a good one. This healed my pain since my mother lacked the tools to stand on her own and be the great mom she was deep down. The best thing about this episode is that they were all open to healing, the mother allowed herself to be vulnerable. That is the first step.
I thank God for my mother. She was tough on us because she loved us more than anything. No man ever came before us❤
This hits hard around Mother's Day 2024. My mother also put her needs before mine. She died on Sunday, 1/21/2007 without dealing with her issues. I am 67 with no children and I never married.
Did she ever regretted doing that?