She needed someone to say it was okay to leave and let It Go and she heard judge star and now she's ready to move forward with her life. How you going to come to a show in another state and stay out all night with somebody that you knew how do you know somebody in Atlanta and you from New York. Dude was scouting females before he even landed in the plane
She walked out lighter and the weight of this toxic relationship was lifted from her shoulders. 👏 I hope she loves herself more and move on. Focus on you and your kids!
I always feel sorry for the children!! Why have baby #2 with him? These poor children growing up in broken homes, given hardly any chance to thrive and do better than the parents they have.
I agree that the men should do better and my groups and information i disseminate goes along those premises; HOWEVER, ladies are going to have to start taking accountability and responsibility for the decisions they make DESPITE the negative and questionable behaviors they see. Grand gestures need to be watched just like watching if their words match up with their behaviors.
@@arayakloveagreed… if the pickings are slim, be single.. cuss all this cheating .. idk. My ego is too big to continue to go back to a fool that’s cheating… if I’m doing bad because of you.. I can definitely do bad all by myself.
Absolutely!!!!!! I feel bad that this shit keeps happening, but these women stop LETTING it happen. Self-love is a powerful thing, and a lot of these women in this show are lacking it in spades.
I love Judge Star's introduction at the beginning of the show, and I love Judge Star and Robert's conservations at the end of the show. I get a chuckle every time. They really work well together. Love, love, love Judge Star❤❤❤
99% of DC episodes are the same story - a woman with low self esteem who knows she should leave, but probably won’t. We need something else next season, please 😒
This lady is beautiful! As soon as she works on being a better version of her (mentally, physically, financially) she won't think twice about leaving him.
He don't want you!! Most of US been there .... He didn't even stay in the same hotel room with her and you going on the show to make things work. He's showing you who he is and she should believe him
What's behind your statement "Most of US been there". First, who is US? I'm a senior citizen, and I've never been there. Actually, where is THERE? These are serious questions. I really want to know.
@@sereneamani1713 there are stats out there if you're really curious, but I don't think you are... nevertheless here you go. Apparently, 1 in 3 young adults will experience an unhealthy relationship; this stat is only in the U.S and doesn't even account for older adults. 1 in 3 is pretty large meaning unhealthy relationships are more common than you think. Perhaps you're just the exception and should consider yourself lucky. In 2023 survey, it was found that 70% of relationships don't even last past the first year. As bad as that sounds, that's probably healthier than being with someone toxic.
@@sereneamani1713Miss Serena, thank God you said that you were a Senior Citizen bcuz I was going to DRAGGGG you for your comment. What I'm not understanding is that both you and I read this post, and the word "US" never bothered me bcuz it didn't apply to my life. So for you to feel singled out (AS A DANG SENIOR CITIZEN TOO) so much so that it led you to make this comment asking "who's US and where's THERE?😂" Only hit dogs holla 🐶 #roof #roof 😅
@@sereneamani1713I had to read this again 😂 FIRST OF ALL WHO IS US? 😂 LMFAO AND WHERE IS THERE? 😂 WHY did this comment bother you so much Serena? We really want to know. All Kandlex said was MOST OF US WOMEN BEEN THERE and that's actually a fact 💯. So why you are you so TRIGGERED, especially since you claim that ain't yo story? Gurlllllll 😂😂😂
She has two boys at least and 4 children. This is their example. Another woman holding the bag BY HERSELF….. ONCE AGAIN!!!! This should be getting old by now. SECURE A RING, a commitment and vet…vet…vet… Here let me help you with this one… talk to a man about “breaks” in a relationship and what does that look like… GET CLEARLY DEFINED PARAMETERS… if those parameters are broken, what are the consequences??? Lastly, use the above as an example for EVERY SCENARIO!!! And for Stevie Wonder’s sake, pay attention to what you are hearing and seeing… BEFORE YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH THIS MAN!!! If this man keeps leaving, won’t come home (which you shouldn’t be shacking up in the first place…and he better not be staying at your place), if he flakes out, or leaves you on red, ITS TIME TO GO OR ITS TIME FOR HIM TO GO!!!! BOUNDARIES, BOUNDARIES, BOUNDARIES!!! Teach and show a man how you’re supposed to be treated.
Babeeee Judge Star said the way your hair looks now it did not take all night to do that ! Listen Judge Stars READING SKILLS is a 10 outta 10 for me!!!! 📚📚📚 🗣️😂😂😭😂
Requirements and dealbreakers… learn these words and the definitions of these words ladies. Then, look up a therapist that can help you with boundaries and self worth. Learn to judge a man from the neck up and make sure this man still isn’t growing up and immature.
Judge Star gets me with "Get your pictures and your plants, put them in a box and when we get back to where we live you don't live there no more, cuz love don't live here no more" how appropriate!!!
The CHURCH often resembles the scenario set by the defendant. The LORD and GOD has a personal name. Just like our Savior Christ has a personal name. Do you know it? (You used our Savior's name, so I'm asking about his father's name).
The trust is not there. Anytime you have to be a full time private investigator, putting tracking devices, going thru phones, smell test, downloading apps to see whats on they phone, always arguing, and etc. Its bad vibes Why would anyone want to be intimate with that? Either forgive and move on or just move on
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
I never understood the leaving for days when you in a relationship unless it's violence like domestic violence I totally understand but I never left for days and I been with my wife for 8yrs if I'm mad I got to my homey house chill for a while have a drink talk some shit with him go back home and make this shit right at home
I be dog on if i got to ask my man to go out with friends. To many red flags DONT NEVER LET A MAN TELL YOU TWICE THAT HE DONT WANT YOU. What a 🤡 he is and liar.
Dear Lord please don't ever let me be this desperate for a relationship
😂
Amen
You won’t be❤
😂😂😂😂
Amen
“I need to know because somebody fired” has me weeaakkkk 😂😂😂
The staff backstage, "I know this guy isn't playing with my bag!"
Didn't see how she walked in but the way she was walking out, it seemed like a weight got lifted off of her shoulders. Go love yourself and be happy.
She needed someone to say it was okay to leave and let It Go and she heard judge star and now she's ready to move forward with her life. How you going to come to a show in another state and stay out all night with somebody that you knew how do you know somebody in Atlanta and you from New York. Dude was scouting females before he even landed in the plane
Well said!
Right On. Facts!!!!!!!!!!! Hanging with my Bro Red Flags.
I thought the same thing, she looked so beautiful walking away from that mess.🙏🏾
Uh-uh, smh. She ain't goin' anywhere. She's too sprung on the homey's pimp juice.
lmfaoo Judge said "The way your hair look right now, I know it didn't take all night"
Dwl n that's one off the easiest cornrows braiding😂
It don’t look like it was done at all it was the headline and his beard and stuff like nope
@@hermineellis1537only a true yardie know what DWL 😂 mean. Dead Wid Laffff 🤣🤣🤣
She walked out lighter and the weight of this toxic relationship was lifted from her shoulders. 👏 I hope she loves herself more and move on. Focus on you and your kids!
When 28 yr old people say they were young and dumb two yrs ago, they are still dumb. Just celebrated 2 birthdays.
Growth can happen in 2 years
@@Thetruevirgo27 IMO, 26 years old adults are young adults, but they are ADULTS and should not be adolescent dumb.
😅😅😅😅
Exactly! You were already grown!
He is just nasty. Came to divorce court to save his relationship and slept out.Absolute worst.
He disappeared for days. Girl this is embarrassing. You have to smell him?
Right, it's giving Baby Boy
Disgusting
Too desperate
😂😂😂😂😂 he's a little boy with a real woman
Sis going out sad
It’s very clear this man doesn’t want to be with her.
This "person"
He likes that he can treat her that way and get away with it. 😢
He want to have more than one lover
She's silly and soo immature😢.
@@kattiethomas4687 and getting it too...what made if so obvious?? I just can't find it within me to be mad at him 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Babyyyyyyy, the way she walked out! Keep your head up Queen!
The man behind the Defendant when Judge Starr made the comment about his hair being braided,PRICELESS!😂😂😂
I had to go back and watch and it was, in fact, priceless. 😂
Ain’t no way in the world those fuzzy braids are fresh.
@rozzjack, Yes, exactly! He looks dirty and unkempt! She deserves so much better. Women need to stop being so desperate. Focus on your children.
Y’all making me holler 😂🤣
Lmfao 😂 I was thinking the same thing.
His hairline is bothering me….all of his hair from the neck up is bothering me 🤦🏽♀️
He tries to over talk her to cover up his lies!!! It’s so obvious!!! 🤦🏽♀️
He doesnt trust her friends but his friend is using his phone to cheat smh
😂😂😂
Facts
This is the comment I was looking for!!! 😒🤦🏾♀️
I always feel sorry for the children!! Why have baby #2 with him? These poor children growing up in broken homes, given hardly any chance to thrive and do better than the parents they have.
"Let me smell it"? No ma'am
The fact that he tried to say that he got his HAIR DONE last night! STOP IT!
😂
Exactly! I was thinking he could have gotten his hair done before the show
Lyin King 👑
@@lakeofalltrades FR
@@lakeofalltrades He is not only a liar, but he is dumb to expect us all to believe that lie.
LET HIM GO,
LET HIM GO ..
😅
"You abandoned me, Love Don't Live Hear Anymore; Just a vacancy Love Don't Live Here Anymore " Rose Royce 1978.
His hair is professionally done?? They forgot the edges 😂😂😂😂
I hate when ppl ignore the red flags for so long. So many reasons to leave, but too insecure to do so.
Pretty soon, Robert is going to be solving crimes over there in the corner. He'll step in at the end and be like, "Eureka!"🤣🤣
She hollerin let me smell it. I couldnt believe she said that on national tv
Sighhh...clearly she has low self esteem & issues she has to work on...
Let dude go. He's an avid cheater and doesn't respect you.
OMG...this manchild. These men tell woman to choose better and what should be said is men do better.
Exactly. Cause they don’t seem “better”. They all seem trifling.
I agree that the men should do better and my groups and information i disseminate goes along those premises; HOWEVER, ladies are going to have to start taking accountability and responsibility for the decisions they make DESPITE the negative and questionable behaviors they see.
Grand gestures need to be watched just like watching if their words match up with their behaviors.
These women still need to choose better.
@@arayakloveagreed
@@arayakloveagreed… if the pickings are slim, be single.. cuss all this cheating .. idk. My ego is too big to continue to go back to a fool that’s cheating… if I’m doing bad because of you.. I can definitely do bad all by myself.
A controlling cheater is crazy
U go missing from my house for days to clear your head u bet not come back
You leave our home for days, you don't have a home
Okkkkkkkk. Cause he wld have been blocked from phone, text, email, mama phone cousins phone
Bett'not even!!! Jus g'on and stay where you were at, because that's your new address!
At all.
That all night cornrow appointment is crazy work 😯😯
This was not episode was not Divorce Court” this episode was “ Watch a Liar Show” This girl is in my prayers.
When Judge Star said his hair looking like that didn't take all night 😂😂😂😂😂😂
At some point women have to take responsibility for the choices that they make and the situations that they are in.
Exactly she keeps blaming him but she’s responsible for showing her children this terrible example of a relationship
Absolutely!!!!!! I feel bad that this shit keeps happening, but these women stop LETTING it happen. Self-love is a powerful thing, and a lot of these women in this show are lacking it in spades.
Thank you 👏👏👏
@fullofsoutherncharm, Yes, exactly! Women have to stop allowing disrespect, and procreating with these dusties! Your children deserve better.
Judge Star was clowning him, about his hair
Right! 😂 Those are at least a week old if not 2. He lying lying 🤥!
@@melpho3635 The dead and the living ( Ray Charles and Stevie) can see that. BUT we are all going to believe him.
Whenever Robert interjects or says Bomba you know it’s bad 🤦🏾♀️
“I’m not stupid, I didn’t wake up tomorrow” 🥴
😂IM DEAD☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️😂🤣😂😭😆😃😀😀
I cringed when she said that. Like baby girl, bless yo heart 🤦🏽♀️
She was going through it at the time! Y'all leave her alone 😂
Whoever did his hair didn't finish 😂 liar
OMG I love Judge Star and Robert's chats at the end of the episode 😂😂
The man in the background laughing about those braids 🤣
He seems like he got a smart mouth
Think he has all the smarts
I love Judge Star's introduction at the beginning of the show, and I love Judge Star and Robert's conservations at the end of the show. I get a chuckle every time. They really work well together. Love, love, love Judge Star❤❤❤
Robert's questions at the end🤣
17:55 Judge Star is a dam SAVAGE and I LOVEEEEEEE it😂❤😂❤
99% of DC episodes are the same story - a woman with low self esteem who knows she should leave, but probably won’t. We need something else next season, please 😒
That's life, sadly. There are a lot of people in these situations.
@@moussabby That's not life for me and I'm so glad I'm not in the situation
Sad but true.
I’m afraid I agree. I would really like to see serious normal issues that people go through… not this hot ghetto mess
@@veevee4461facts.
This lady is beautiful! As soon as she works on being a better version of her (mentally, physically, financially) she won't think twice about leaving him.
She will forget what he looked like and won’t know his name frfr
Star been killing this green lately 💚🔥🙌🏾 Love it
Luv the end-of-show chats.
I'm only here for STAR....everyone else can kick rocks. ❤
In open toe shoes😂
Star sucks man, she's a biased feminist.
Star sucks. She's an awful person man. Full of double standards and feminist thinking.
Right
With No socks 😂
Oh noooooo not checking his pants… sis u doing waaaaayyyyyyy tooooo muchhhhhh❤
He don't want you!! Most of US been there .... He didn't even stay in the same hotel room with her and you going on the show to make things work. He's showing you who he is and she should believe him
What's behind your statement "Most of US been there". First, who is US? I'm a senior citizen, and I've never been there. Actually, where is THERE? These are serious questions. I really want to know.
@@sereneamani1713 there are stats out there if you're really curious, but I don't think you are... nevertheless here you go. Apparently, 1 in 3 young adults will experience an unhealthy relationship; this stat is only in the U.S and doesn't even account for older adults. 1 in 3 is pretty large meaning unhealthy relationships are more common than you think. Perhaps you're just the exception and should consider yourself lucky. In 2023 survey, it was found that 70% of relationships don't even last past the first year. As bad as that sounds, that's probably healthier than being with someone toxic.
@@sereneamani1713Miss Serena, thank God you said that you were a Senior Citizen bcuz I was going to DRAGGGG you for your comment. What I'm not understanding is that both you and I read this post, and the word "US" never bothered me bcuz it didn't apply to my life. So for you to feel singled out (AS A DANG SENIOR CITIZEN TOO) so much so that it led you to make this comment asking "who's US and where's THERE?😂" Only hit dogs holla 🐶 #roof #roof 😅
@@sereneamani1713I had to read this again 😂 FIRST OF ALL WHO IS US? 😂 LMFAO AND WHERE IS THERE? 😂 WHY did this comment bother you so much Serena? We really want to know. All Kandlex said was MOST OF US WOMEN BEEN THERE and that's actually a fact 💯. So why you are you so TRIGGERED, especially since you claim that ain't yo story? Gurlllllll 😂😂😂
I'm so ready
She has two boys at least and 4 children. This is their example. Another woman holding the bag BY HERSELF….. ONCE AGAIN!!!! This should be getting old by now. SECURE A RING, a commitment and vet…vet…vet…
Here let me help you with this one… talk to a man about “breaks” in a relationship and what does that look like… GET CLEARLY DEFINED PARAMETERS… if those parameters are broken, what are the consequences???
Lastly, use the above as an example for EVERY SCENARIO!!! And for Stevie Wonder’s sake, pay attention to what you are hearing and seeing… BEFORE YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH THIS MAN!!! If this man keeps leaving, won’t come home (which you shouldn’t be shacking up in the first place…and he better not be staying at your place), if he flakes out, or leaves you on red, ITS TIME TO GO OR ITS TIME FOR HIM TO GO!!!! BOUNDARIES, BOUNDARIES, BOUNDARIES!!! Teach and show a man how you’re supposed to be treated.
What you allow continues...
Babeeee Judge Star said the way your hair looks now it did not take all night to do that ! Listen Judge Stars READING SKILLS is a 10 outta 10 for me!!!! 📚📚📚 🗣️😂😂😭😂
Robert’s adlibs be killing me 😂😂😂😂
I loved that she walked out wiping her tears off, slightly smiling and head up high.
Some women’s self esteem smh so sad.
Yep, very sad 😢
I really like the one-liners that Robert The Bailiff has.
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I love how confident they are when listing red flags. Like are you listening to yourself.
Damn low esteem is high! Girl u allowed ! He showed u over and over what he is ! Girl get it together!
The man at 17:58 (right corner black shirt) had me dying of laughter🤣 😂
Ain't no way his hair is freshly braided 🤔😳🤡
Requirements and dealbreakers… learn these words and the definitions of these words ladies. Then, look up a therapist that can help you with boundaries and self worth.
Learn to judge a man from the neck up and make sure this man still isn’t growing up and immature.
If i have to smell you coming home, you're not for me no way.
MY FATHER NEVER . STAYED OUT MISSING FOR THREE DAYS .. SMH
Judge Star gets me with "Get your pictures and your plants, put them in a box and when we get back to where we live you don't live there no more, cuz love don't live here no more" how appropriate!!!
The sad thing is she ain’t going no where she will continue to be a doormat 😑
I so HOPE that's not true.
Get your pictures get your plants and put them in a box cause love don’t live here no more
I have a question for her.... why are you still with him when you don't trust him make it make sense?
He doesn’t even look well groomed! I hope she stays far away from him!
When a man licks his lips this much…Ladies run!…”everything out of it will be a lie”
17:18 straight up liar. He has checked out.
Let me smell it? Sis. Leave and not look back. He is not the one for you and blocking you from the one!
Depends on your relationship and trust level, checking in before you do things make sense.. permission is required when recovering from trust issues.
It is so sad that he keeps lying. Don’t let someone show you more than one time that they don’t want to be with you.
Oh no sweetheart move on childsupport
GO TO CHURCH RAISE YOUR CHILDREN WITH THE LORD...GOD WILL HEAL YOU..GOD BLESS PRAYING 🙏 IN JESUS NAME
The CHURCH often resembles the scenario set by the defendant. The LORD and GOD has a personal name. Just like our Savior Christ has a personal name. Do you know it? (You used our Savior's name, so I'm asking about his father's name).
If he doesn't want it, he doesn't want it.
The trust is not there. Anytime you have to be a full time private investigator, putting tracking devices, going thru phones, smell test, downloading apps to see whats on they phone, always arguing, and etc. Its bad vibes
Why would anyone want to be intimate with that? Either forgive and move on or just move on
Maaan the dude is smiling about staying the whole mte ,😂 doing hair😂😂
First of all...why is she wit HIM? Girl, don't change your body, change your boyfriend!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@@andrewvasilyev3540she has a instagram?
You dont want to admit it,BUT she left you for a reason.What did you do!!!
Those braids do not look freshly done quit playing with us😒
His hair didn't even look fresh and having to smell him...? She gotta scrape some dignity together and leave.
Ma’am he don’t want you. 5 years 2 kids no marriage and you have to sniff him!!
🙄 Girllll stop it.
If that hairdo was done by a professional they NEED a new profession!
His hairdresser has a profession. The oldest one.
I can’t even comment! What some women put up with!!!!
Judge Star said it and not me about dude's hair not taking all night long to do. It was the most hilarious statement I've heard all week!
It was me….BOOMBA😂😂
I never understood the leaving for days when you in a relationship unless it's violence like domestic violence I totally understand but I never left for days and I been with my wife for 8yrs if I'm mad I got to my homey house chill for a while have a drink talk some shit with him go back home and make this shit right at home
I don't let nobody use my phone only my daughter period.
He is lying. His default is shutting her down with lies. Let him go.
Bomba indeed!
I be dog on if i got to ask my man to go out with friends. To many red flags DONT NEVER LET A MAN TELL YOU TWICE THAT HE DONT WANT YOU. What a 🤡 he is and liar.
The officer is catching feelings lol
Does she not have any respect for herself? Let me “smell it”- Really- Where they do that at? If she don’t get her kids get herself together
Yeah the relationship has run it’s course 🙁
You're not paying attention. They're not married. She brought him to court to try and get a ring out of him.
@@libratude9595 I could’ve sworn she said they were married 🤨
@@Djdreamstudios NOPE and No. LOL
@@Djdreamstudios she called herself his wife when she confronted the other woman
@@lavidaloca2344 awww thank you!
Miss' RRRUUUUUNNNNNNN! ❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏼
Did sounds JUST like Papoose 🤣🤣🤣… I had to do a double take