Very petty and entertaining to imagine, but I hope it doesn’t escalate to anything violent if you do plan on doing this. I give my condolences on this petty war with this miserable Grinch!
Go to the top of the comment section and reintroduce yourself. I hear one of charlotte’s subscribers pitched an idea to hook you up head to toe in Charlottes “Petty” merch . There’s a whole bunch of us that want to chip in, and make it happen
I used to burn my neighbors stuff. She tried so hard to get me to pay for it. Took me to court filed police reports recorded me.... but all of her things were on my property and as I left them there for a few days, it was considered to be abandoned junk, especially since my land had been previously surveyed. There was nothing she could do just short of keeping her things off my property. She tried to remedy this by paving over my property and expanding her driveway. She ruined my yard, my flower bed and my fence. I sued her so hard, and because she now owed over 7,000 in damages, she sold her house and moved. Now it's a teacher living there, and my brother is now her neighbor. She's a delight.
Exactly my thoughts, I would throw away anything and everything she put there so fast! And when she complains I’d just tell her “your trash was on my property, I got rid of it for you. You’re welcome 😊”
I used to have a neighbor like this. My other neighbors warned me about her when I moved in. the first week I actually did bake cookies and brought them over as an introductory gift and offered some tea. We talked, turned out she was pretty lonely so we sort of became friends and from then on she became fiercly protective of me and came to me to gossip about others. It could get annoying but I never had any problems with her.
my grandma before she passed gossip a lot cuz she was most of the time alone and it seem it was the only way to her to talk to people, I think it is sadly a normal thing for elderly when they are lonely.
Always make nice with the "mean neighbor" right off the bat. They usually are just lashing out at anyone who comes too close. Besides making nice with any neighbor is smart- they are the ones who might watch your pets, they may look away when you have that one very loud party of the year, they might be the ones who help you reno. You never know.
2:10 - honestly if this woman continued to put her fence against my house, I’d just take it down and throw it in the garbage. If it’s on my property, I get to decide what to do with it. 🤣💁🏻♀️
Period!!! I was thinking the same thing and literally came to the comments to see if anyone else said it too bc GIRL, the back and forth is for the birds
We had a neighbour like this. She would throw water on us as kids, throw her crap in our garden until my mum caught her in the act, she carried it on so my cousin pissed through her letterbox and she left us alone after that. That was for playing next to our own fence lol. Old bag, Rose I don't miss you 🤣🤣
Better yet, set something up on the store that would allow us to contribute so we can deck them out in Petty gear from head to toe; Petty beanie, Petty hoodie, Petty sweatsuit, Petty socks (if that’s a thing), and Petty mittens (again, if that’s a thing). That way they know they have the full support of Tater Nation and the endorsement of our Potato Queen!
I learned the hard way to call the police after the third incident of harassment and after 2 attempts to discuss the issue with my former petty neighbor. The final incident was discovering my petty neighbor forced her dog to drop feces in my yard, something she was doing for over three months until I caught her. Took photos to the police. Police asked if I wanted to press felony charges! That type of harassment leads neighbors to kill neighbors. So, they end it quickly by punishing harassers before they go too far. I asked them to give a warning because her three teenage children (16, 16, and 17 years old) would have been charged because of their involvement. Never had any issues after the police explained it to them!😂
I had a neighbor that ran a bakery out of her house, she would kick people out of the public parking in front of mine and leave notes on my familys cars. I worked 12 hour night shifts as a nurses aide and she wouldn’t have loud parties right next to my bed room. One night I asked her to keep it down the music was so loud it sounded like it was in my house and I was trying to take an anatomy final. She was super condescending because “ it wasn’t that late” but I’ve been listening to this for hours at this point. So as petty revenge I picked up all the dog poop her dog leaves in my yard (no one in my house had a dog) and proceeded to throw it over the fence at her party and when she came to yell at me I told her if I have to deal with her shit she could have some of it back
I'm with your editing team on this. She's escalated things to this point that no quarter should be given. More Googly eyes! When the snow comes, Build Snowmen so that they are all staring at her property, maybe one holding a sign saying 'he knows if you've been naughty ...'
After about the second time she put the junk on my property, I’d start just removing it to my basement. “Oh, you want your stuff back? I thought you were giving it to us. That’s why you put it back in our yard after we gave it back to you.”
The problem in the US with letting this go is that, after a certain period of time, the neighbor could claim that as her property, if they’ve done nothing to stop her. It’s called adverse possession. She has called the cops, it’s time to hire a lawyer to send her a cease and desist order. If she doesn’t comply, it’s pretty easy to file a request in court for an injunction, and she will then face fines and/or jail time for contempt of a court order.
When this happened they should of asked her nicely one time to cease and desist, and record it per the law. If it happened again,(which it did), call the police themselves. Because you're right. You have to be vigilant about your property and legal rights. The thing that sticks out is they just bought the place. Part of the process is showing where the property lines are. So, when she continued I would of put a stake of my own at the line and told her that's as far as her fence could go. She must of had an agreement with the previous owners and assumed it would continue with the new owners.
Charlotte, you better make sure to watch for the final chapter and let us all know the outcome. Not all of us have TikTok. Can’t wait for part two. (Oh my! I’m I contemplating petty activities for these people? )
I was thinking this too. However given the fact she called the cops she probably would have pulled the "they stole my property" . So I would have bagged it and lovingly place it back on her porch may be with a bow too.
When I house hunting, I checked the tax assessor's website for each property. This will show you every owner and date of sale. This is public information. I checked for patterns of frequent sales within the last 10 years. No way my hard work and peace of mind would be jeopardized by a neighbor. Hope it works out for the OP's.
My cousin had a situation with harassment from teenagers. It got so bad, they had to move. Before they bought their new house, they sat at night in the neighborhood several nights to see the teenager situation.
This saga has me totally invested!! I was there for the gargoyle holiday pettiness, too! 🤣 bc it continued into Easter and the following Halloween! 🤣 Love it all! Go new neighbors!! No hot chocolate, tear down that fence/wall!! 😡 No mercy, no prisoners...well except maybe grumpy old lady...mmmwaahhhhh!! 👹☠️
Sad thing is, after the gargoyle video, I tried looking up the Facebook page that lady made and couldn't find it. I think that Karen might've got it taken down.
This is hilarious! It did stress me TF out just watching. I loved the inflatable moving man idea. 😂 Luckily, we hit the jackpot with our neighbors. We live in Michigan, and one of our neighbors is Canadian. She gives zero fucks. She doesn’t care if we touch her property, and she usually lets us borrow anything we don’t have for our yard. We take turns shoveling each other’s driveways, and bringing in the garbage cans. Our other neighbor is a nice older gentleman, and he has the best grass on the whole block. We shovel his side walk all of the time, and he returns the favor too. When we moved in, we were so worried we’d have asshole neighbors. They were worried about us too. 😂 I love my whole block. We are truly blessed over here.
The best thing this couple can do is call a surveyor and mark the property line clearly with those little flags because it's going to be necessary if she builds a fence which sounds like Gretchen Grumpypants is going to do. We have a camp that shares our driveway with us and they tried to say we kept parking and using their property. My dad simply called a surveyor and discovered our property extended farther than we thought and THEY were actually the ones that kept technically trespassing and damaging our property 😂 Either way, it is good to know where the actual property line is and how much is actually yours.
We bought our house and were very happy that it was surrounded by woods. Not having neighbors was a bonus to the great house we found. Then just before we moved in the woods were clear-cut and we discovered that 1000 new units were going in around us. A buffer of trees was left around us so that's something. But sheesh. It's this kind of drama we were really hoping to never have to deal with. Fingers crossed...
@@chelscara Before you buy a house go to city clerks office to find out if there are any construction or development plans for the area. People don’t know to do this. We know someone who bought a house to have a chicken coop, guess what, coops not allowed in their community.
Yeah, between researching financing, inspections, dealing with everything involved in purchasing a house as well as dealing with regular life and the troubles and maintenance involved in just living, how dare you forget something like checking with the area planning commission. It's just a million and one lines of legalese and realtor jargon and local authority confusion on top everything else. How foolish can you be? Love how arrogant and piss ignorant some people can be about the trials and tribulations of others. Just cause you know something doesn't mean it's common knowledge or won't get lost in the hub bub of just living.
You also have to remember that the property line is not against your home. The property line is most likely half way between the homes. The petty neighbor is trespassing when moving the fence.
Many places have 'zero lot line' issues. I dont know where the line is but it could be only 6 inches from the side of the house/garage to right up against the side of the house/garage. If you look at the 'fence' in the front part of the property(in the third instance), it comes almost right up to that side of the house/garage.
@@KThom429 The new owner just needs to look at the land diagrams in his mortgage paperwork or checking it in the county record of deeds. It is all public records.
The property line does not always fall in the middle between two homes. Lets say if Gretchen was the only house and owned the property and sold off a section of her property and this home was built on said property the lot size may be pretty close to the house. Have seen this happen many times.
Problem with giving her an olive branch, and letting her do this, is that as soon as she percieves that she has won on this, she's going to find something more to harass them with...
Exactly. People that are this miserable aren’t going to stop just because you’re nice to them. They’ll see it as weakness and double down. I have no doubt it’s why the previous owners sold the house to begin with. It’s not personal. She’ll attack anyone who’s in range.
I was so sad when the page for Frank the Christmas Gargoyle got taken down it was epic and caused so much good. So many charities gained donations because of that petty page.
This reminds me of a neighbor my parents used to have, she loved to conveniently walk her dog by their mailbox and have her dog 💩there, and leave it there. My siblings and I decided to be petty and take turns watching out for when she would be walking her dog and when she would stand right by the mailbox. We would then start a symphony of car alarms (2), she stopped walking her dog by my parents' mailbox after a week.
That's awesome! They should also have put her dog's poop inside her mailbox, but in a nice package so it wouldn't affect the mail carrier, but she couldn't resist opening it. heehee
@@ugaladh Yes, that's true. I suppose it could be mailed anonymously, but if they're caught they'd risk being charged with harassment. There is a company that will ship various kinds of animal dung as a joke. So far, it's perfectly legal because the dung has been treated and is free of pathogens. Maybe put the🐕💩in a box and leave it on their porch with a polite note saying that they noticed the dog owner accidentally left this at the neighbor's mailbox, so they are returning it since they KNOW they didn't mean to drop it there. I don't think any cop would ticket or arrest for that since that person should have picked it up in the first place.
Personally having lived next door to a Karen much like this, extending an olive branch is completely pointless because it'll be fine for a while (if she accepts the olive branch) and then she'll start again about something else. The only way this is resolved is if she moves away which is what happened in our case. She literally fell out with every neighbour on the block.
Mine moved right on out of the realm. Am I the ahole for dancing while singing "no more stalking, no more false police reports, no moooorrrreee snaaaarky nooootes!" that day? Oh, we also went out to dinner that night.
I have been in a similar situation before, so I empathize. This would have been the way I handled this craziness-1. Talk to her (which I know would not have worked, but it's putting her on notice). 2 .Put up a stake myself to attach the fence to. 3. Thrown anything she put on my property in the trash immediately the first time AND continue to throw away ANYTHING of hers that touched my property. Just saying...
Same! Then I’d have someone out to survey and check property lines. She threw her stuff on my property? Well, it’s mine now and it’s going in the trash after I take pictures of the trash she threw on my property (to try and get her for vandalism, littering, or destruction of property), put up security cameras to catch her in the act, then I’d be having a solid, very tall fence put between our properties.
@@prettyponybaby2007 I mean, as others have pointed out you’re probably just giving her what she wants if you pay for a fence. Lol. But I suppose your piece of mind is worth more. Ofc I’d be worried she’d damage the fence you just paid to install bc she’s clearly batshit crazy.
1 and 2 are what I would have done. 3 can get you in trouble. It has to be on your property for a certain amount of time before it is considered abandoned and okay for you to dispose of. You could get the cops to talk to her about littering though. And have a hot sealed coffee for the cop ready (Like the Starbucks cans)
@@UnicornsPoopRainbows Not true! You just take a picture and when the cops come, you say you didn't know who did it but you didn't want it on your property. People can't just use your property for free storage.
This situation reminds me so much of the problems my family and I had with our neighbor. For context, this neighbor has kinda always been annoying, for example, throwing his trash onto our property, parking his shit on our property, and blasting loud music into the early hours of the morning when he has people over. Those are all just mild annoyances compared to the situation that happened years ago. So our property has an underground electric fence for our dogs and our neighbor also has electric fence collars for his dogs that he never puts on them. This led to his dogs coming onto our property all the time and doing their business here (mind you we live on 2 acres of rural plains), which isn't much of a problem just another mild annoyance, but it didn't end there. Things then escalated, and our neighbor's dogs started attacking our dogs while on our property (mind you, our dogs aren't aggressive in any way). Of course, this pissed my dad off, so he started off small and would go over and tell our neighbor to get control of his dogs and keep them off our property. Well, that clearly didn't work as his dogs kept attacking ours. So my dad escalated and called the cops, that didn't work either since our neighbor made the excuse his property line was actually almost all the way next to our driveway when in reality it ended next to his driveway, some 150 ft away from where he thought it was. My dad called the cops again a few times after that and that still didn't fix the issue. So, my dad found the original paperwork that outlined our property lines, showed it to our neighbor, and then proceeded to build a fence on that side of the property. After the fence was built I remember clearly my dad saying, "if his damn dogs want to come on our property now, they have to go on the street and possibly get hit by a car." (Mind you, this man said to us multiple times he was going to shoot his dogs if they ever came on our property again.) Well, the fence fixed the issue and his dogs haven't come onto our property again.
If her stuff is on their property, I believe they could just throw it out. I'd have a surveyor from the city in immediately to mark the property lines and then be throwing her shit ouuttttttt 😂
Been down this road with a neighbor. Being nice just encourages them to be even worse because then they will think they can manipulate you. You have no choice but to play hard ball with people like this. At this point they should have already had her charged. She keeps doing this because they keep letting her get away with it.
Thank you Charlotte. I was fired this past week from my job and have been in just a bad place. No warnings, they just terminated me so close to Christmas, which I feel I might as not be a part of because I am not in any sort of Christmas spirit.
In which country are you in? Did you have a trial period they fired you in? Check your local employment laws, if that was unfair termination you could sue them.
I know that feeling a couple of months ago I got fired over text with no notice or explanation as to why but because it was technically during the probation period I can't do anything
Oh no!!! Is there anything you can do about it? You should qualify for unemployment! I pray you end up at a much better place that loves you and you love much more.
I know the feels! Where I worked people were on their phones and I pull mine out and got told to put it away. No one else. And the. Customers came in while I was in the back and the customers saw them ignoring them but -I- had to take care of them. I was informed they're in the proper placement. Fine then. If there had been a next time I'm not helping them when they "need help" since that's not my placement.
My mom had a weird reaction to gabapentin, it altered her brain over a couple of days. She thought her neighbors were trying to steal her house, that they were breaking in and holding her hostage, she thought their yard belonged to her and they were trying to steal it. I always wonder when I see these things about mental illness.
It still doesn't mean that boundaries shouldn't be enforced. Having mental illness is not an excuse for harassing people or making their lives difficult. Of course people need help and compassion but they don't get to threaten another person's sanity or safety without consequences. From what it appears this woman has a pattern, given the across the street neighbor, of behaving badly.
Fek! My Dr gave me that for chronic pain relief. Interfered with my vision so badly l stopped it after a couple of days. So glad the vision thing was all that happened to me.
I lasted four days and nights on gabapentin. Four nights filled with weird VERY unsettling dreams. Gold lamay underwear? In public?? On a sixty + year old sagging body??? NO MORE!! Took myself off it.
This happened to us growing up! Neighbour and her stupid orange snow fence, literal crap on our porch, air let out of car tires, criminal police showing up all the time. Made our life hell for a while. I was a kid and lived in fear. I feel for this couple
The things about assholes and crazies like that is that normal people don't have chance to solve that problem quick. Because in the land of insane, you must be the most insane of them all, and average people don't want to go that way.
May have happened to you but this story is fake as hell ! Too many lies I can’t believe anything from this idiot ! State police will not come out for things like this that’s local police issue! And then the things she had on the window are not motion sensor they are the receiver portion of the alarm ! And it’s all just too fake !
I lived in a place that was horrible once. I had to pay a man to sit in my car all night so it did not get vandalised. I did move, but on my way out there was an altercation. This horrible man brought four of his 'buddies' to enter my home by force. I called a security company and they came (very fast) to the rescue. As I was fighting these bad guys to stay out of my home you could hear a rumble...then a BIG hummer stopped in front of my home and four GIANT head shaven guys in kevlar got out of the hummer and just stood there...not a word spoken. I said, this is your queue to leave. The next to drive up was Pickfords to move me out. This was so stressful. I was a small woman in my forties and I literal blocked the door while waiting for help; I bit one of them after elbowing another in an attempt to keep them out. I felt very vulnerable but was not going down without a fight.
@@caitlynguthrie5641 i ones caugh my landlord lean against my window trying to see inside, i knock on the window i though he was gonna have a heart attack😄😸.im from the north of portugal, its pratically in our culture to be snoop.
Charlotte, my husband of 32 years told me he wants a divorce after 32 years a week before Thanksgiving. He maxed out 4 credit cards he opened in my name. I am nearly blind and on disability. My life is a shitshow but I sincerely look forward to your videos every single day. You are so funny and make me smile for a few minutes. Also, I plan to be 100% petty throughout this divorce!
Mine did that 4 years ago, after19 years. Completely surprised me. He didn't empty the bank, but the holiday- our family's most important one, and was my birthday that year - was ruined. My granddaughter cried and I haven't yet forgiven him for that. I'm also disabled, and picking up my life again as a 50-someting has been hell.
He needs to be reported for the cards. And I wish you strength and clarity through it all. Don’t loose yourself in the battle have a plan for what to do after it’s all done so can have that to look forward to. My dad left my mother after 47 years out of the blue. But her children have stood by her like Mount Everest and she did not see that coming 😊.
@@OrontesRM thanks....my lawyer is petty as well lol. He is making payments and hasn't missed any but only making minimum payments on 10k is going to take him years.
I now wanna say if she keeps leaving junk on your yard, warn her that any un wanted items on property will be trashed. Then again I feel like her response will be to start leaving trash on their property 🤦🏿♀️ Man this is a rough one
Could wait until the night before trash day and put it out on the curb in front of her house so when she takes the trash out she sees it and has to haul it all back or risk having it picked up
If they just bought the house, they should have a plot map. Measure the distance to the property line. Move her stakes to that line and share a copy with the neighbor. Any shenanigans after that should be documented for legal action.
Exactly!! I would spray paint orange or red paint along my property line, then post a NO TRESPASSING sign facing her house. Then record her traspassing from my window.
I love how the queen of petty is calling for peace at the end. It honestly makes me happy to watch some of these spicy RUclipsrs start to mature and realize that well vengeance feels good, it doesn't really help anything, and just leaves everybody miserable in the end.
This reminded me of my previous neighbors. They were so annoying ( they always throw party on the weekend, which doesn't bother me) but the problem is that they always turn up their music volume to the highest from 10pm until 2 or 3am 😌 I reported it to the security guard multiple time ( we live in semi detached house with 24 hours/day security guard patrolling ). Even the guard tried to talk to them, but they keep shrugging it off. One day, their relative found out about this ( turned out they were living on their relative's property for free) the relative(the owner) finally kicked them out because many stuffs were damaged while they were throwing the party.
I had a horrible older neighbour lady too for ~10 years and now she’s finally in an assisted living home instead. Damn she was nuts and we tried so hard to be polite first but you just can’t win with some people. Like, no ma’am, offering to shovel your walkway is not “elder abuse” 🙄. Anyways, good on these folks! You tried to b civil but sometimes you just gotta show them you can’t be messed with
Jenna is the true MVP. A fan of Charlotte, she knew the exposure the rainbow hoodie would get so she ✨flaunted✨ it. The best advertising campaign happens during a drama saga. She didn't even have to pause the video to make her point. Chefs kiss.
I'm glad you went there at the end. I was literally just thinking, "This bish needs a hug or something." The petty drama is fun to watch, and I would be just as frustrated as these people... but there would eventually come a point where I would be able to step back from the situation, chill my emotions, and try to approach her with a spirit of reconciliation. Because as much as I can get caught up in right and wrong or the principle of the thing, and as nice as it feels to "win," it does feel even better to help everybody win. She's that way for a reason, (not an excuse) and being willing and able to help someone soften or to be touched by kindness is incredibly emotionally rewarding.
Yall are so much better than me. I would have to square up with old Gretchen 😂 like, imagine buying a house and how hard you worked for that, to have someone come and disrespect that property. I normally avoid confrontation like the plague but in this case i would be camped out in my yard. She really thought she was slick! Lmaoooo
@Maya Dior Oh, I would almost definitely start out petty. 😅 But after eventually getting bored with it, or maybe even winning the weird disagreement somehow, I would at least try to extend an olive branch.
This petty neighbor thing reminds me of a feud I had with a neighbor. We had an outdoor hookup for a hose, and my neighbor wanted to fill up a kiddie pool from it. We said no, because it wasn't a little wading pool, it was a HUGE 3-4 foot deep swimming pool. So she sent her kids (2 beautiful and adorable little girls) and when we told them no, they went away looking sad. Well, the next day a friend came over when I was cleaning and said something about the river in the road. I was like "yeah, I can hear it. I was waiting for the weather to get better before I go out". She looks at me funny and tells me to look outside. The "river" was coming from.....guess where? My neighbor had climbed our fence and ran a hose and filled up her pool anyway. Left it running for so long that both of our backyards had flooded and it was now running down the street. So we called the police and they recommended we pull the hose into our yard and ask them to pay for it when they come after it. Stupid me believed them when they said we could handle it ourselves. They sent those little girls after the hose, and I very nicely told them that their mommy needed to come and get it "because it's big and heavy and dirty. I don't want you to get all icky". So, I'm sitting inside and I see the hose moving of it's own accord. Mommy had crawled onto our porch and was pulling it inch-by-inch off the porch. When I confronted her, she went bat$h!t and even SPAT IN MY FACE. I called the cops and reported an assault. They refused to even file a report. Told the woman to pay our water bill when it came to avoid prosecution. The bill came and it was overr $40 usd higher than usual. We taped it to their door. She ripped it up and stuck it in our mailbox. We called the cops, and they said it wasn't their problem, and to take them to civil court. We ended up just giving in because I was only 21 and it was the mid 90s. No one cared about a law abiding 20-something couple who was being harassed by Britney in her Daisy Dukes.
May Karma hit that neighbor hard when her two daughters get pregnant and no man around and those babies suffer with severe disabilities that won't let her sleep and she dies from two strokes and 7 cancers. What a horrid neighbor!!!!
I have a shut off valve on the inside of the house for the outside taps so no one can do this to my place. If I ever get another place I will have an indoor shut off valve installed.
Why on earth didn’t they use their own water? Don’t they own a hose? My neighbor who was building some stuff without permits decided he would use my water hose more than once, without asking. Removed items from the hose and left in the alleyway. I kept finding the hose whenever we went out in different places. It’s nervy. When they were renovating kept finding pieces of marble thrown in my hard from their construction job. Took down his dead fig tree and threw the lumber in my yard thinking I wouldn’t notice. These are alleged religious people, imagine. I could go on and on with his intrusive nonsense. They do this kind of stuff so you become frustrated and move. We’ve never done this kind of stuff to any of the neighbors.
I also noticed that it was a State Trooper... They don't go out on these calls unless the local Law Enforcement has no one available... or the local Law Enforcement is VERY familiar with Cracker Carol (ie: what we call a frequent flyer) and she KNOWS they won't respond, probably because they have told her there is nothing they can do about making her neighbors allow her to do whatever she wants with their property...
They really need to know exactly where their property line is and set a divide. Seems unlikely it's right up against their house and she gets that entire open area
We had a neighbor string a hose across everything and attach it to our outdoor spigot, running water to their house on our dime. My husband went out there and cut the hose in half. 😂 Edit: I also didn’t hesitate to throw up a 6 ft privacy fence after I heard a neighbor yell at my dog. Not happening!
A few years ago I was having major neighbor problems as well. Keep in mind this neighbor is the guy my mom drove for heart surgery, invited for holidays, etc. then one day out of the blue called the cops because of our dogs barking. The cops told us we were fine and we weren’t being cited. Cue my mom going off on our neighbor for calling the cops. Two years later he still calls the cops on us and has tried to get us cited multiple times. The entire PD is aware and have repeatedly told us that our dogs are actually well behaved and they don’t know why he calls the police about it. The best part is one time the police showed up the neighbors dog was barking and so the cop said if he kept pushing the issue they would issue him a citation since his dog was barking (ours weren’t). It sucks having neighbors who are just terrible people.
Jenna and Chris seem like the epitome of "kick his ass, baby, I got yo' flower" and I'm here for it edit: As of 13 hours ago, Gretchen Grumpypants has been out with a flashlight in the dark doing something to the fence out back (which got mangled by the 60mph winds they'd had) and they don't know what yet
My old neighbors had halogen lights that woke up the neighbor hood. Motion active lights sound like a good idea. Just make sure you have black out curtains first. Question: Can’t you bill her for the hours it’s taken you to clean up her mess on your property? Seems to me you could take her to court for this then put a lien on her house when she doesn’t pay you.
oh gosh, this reminds me of the petty things our backyard neighbor would do, including calling the cops on us for stupid reasons. shes have been much more bearable since we got a privacy fence, and our other neighbors actually congratulated us on it, so I think they were happier afterward too. she literally hated that our street even existed cause it didn't when she moved into her house.
Our neighbor when I was a kid kept telling my mom our garage was two feet on her property. My mom ignored her, and the neighbors husband was really embarrassed about the whole thing. Our house was one of the oldest houses in the neighborhood and my parents lived there long before her house was even built. She would just periodically go into the garage rant through the years, with her husband being embarrassed and telling her to shut up. Cut to my mom taking out a loan on our home for some renovations. Blueprints and surveyor not only disproved my neighbors claim, but her fence was two feet on our property. Her husband howled with laughter and let her know if my mom wanted, she could make her move her fence. I honestly dearly loved my neighbors, she could just be a pain on occasion. My mom was like a duck though. It just rolled off her back and never made her get petty about things.
You cannot offer an olive branch to a neighbor like this. I tried with our crazy one. She took it as she won and continued to escalate her bad behavior until we did have to call a lawyer. We won 😉
I was barely into the video and I was getting angry it's like "NO!! STOP TOUCHING THE HOUSE! NO TOUCHIE! It is not yours, don't go over there, don't touch anything!" Folks suggestions of how to set up the motion detectors are so good! You people are awesome and I would love to see all these ideas in action on this neighbour, then recorded to see what happens
You had me in the first 10:35 until you said... to offer an olive branch? Char has clearly never encountered an entitled wild Karen in their home element and it shows lol
Totally. Crazy people gonna crazy. Unfortunately people like this only see kindness as weakness. Too bad is has to be that way but she’s a bully. They need to protect themselves by standing firm.
Lmao the gargoyle is actually perfect for the holidays as they are protectors of buildings,they ward off evil spirits.I don’t know how or why people started to see them as evil 😂 And quite honestly I find them fascinating
I think after the third time of her putting stuff in my yard, she would get a written warning that I will consider anything placed on my property as my stuff. I would then take the stuff, and instead of putting it back in her yard I would do one of a couple things: 1. Trash 2. Donations 3. Make a nice fire with the wood items. The rest I would have to find a way to make yard art with it.
I had a neighbor just like this. She called the police and so many more offices over the weekend. The surveyor came out and found out her fence was 5ft on our property. suddenly she was so nice.... ya... we moved.
That reminds me of when we first moved here,the neighbors had been in their house for years,before we moved here. Anyway,my younger brother and I were joking about having a gun. We don't have any guns. The cops showed up and left quickly. The neighbor has always been hella petty.
Gretchen de Grumpypants needs to colour her roots! Had a similar situation when I lived in PA. The woman next door carried on like this, and she finally hired a surveyor. He told her that I was right about the property line, and her new 6 ft fence was on MY property! She didn't speak to me for years, and that was GREAT !!!
The gargoyle porch was The Best!! Going to go dig that up and watch again now 😂 But this was great too! I agree, from first-hand experience (have tried being petty and have tried just eating it and letting them "win,") whenever possible, extending an olive branch is just less energy than the alternative. Takes fewer days off your life! 👍
Omg lmao 😂 he is actually having a ball. He just wants to see what neighbour does next 🤣🤣🤣 but I do agree you need to write down a roster and have your friends fill the shifts 😁😁
I had a couple moving next door to me. I am a single mom with two kids, just for reference. The very first day they moved in, the "husband" asked me if I wanted to sleep with them, or just him? Umm, eww,no! I politely as I could declined. This happened on many more occasions as the year went on. I started to just ignore him and finally told his wife. She said i had to be lying. Then things got worse, my male neighbor kept causing trouble, I like locking the front door to the apartments, which nobody had the key to.... Landlord always said he was going to put a new key/lock system and give us a key but never did, so we just left the door unlocked. He called the police and DSS on me twice! Saying there were drugs in my house....which there wasn't....and there were all sorts of men coming in and out of my apartment. Again, not true, he just wanted to get back at me for rejecting him. The last straw and what got him kicked out, finally! Was I had bought a used couch that was in good condition but come to find out it wouldn't fit through my door. I left it out in the hall, not in anyone's way at all ! The trouble making neighbor called the landlord and told him the couch was "all in his way" . My landlord came and looked at it and said no it's not. So my neighbor decided to wait until I left the house and then slashed that couch to pieces!! I called the police and my landlord again and even though I couldn't prove it my landlord knew it was my neighbor and asked him to leave the property in 15 days! A year worth of drama, just because I would not sleep with a male neighbor, who was married!!
You can not extend an olive branch with this woman. She will take it as a sign that whenever she wants something, she just has to keep at it and bully her neighbors untill they give in. She will keep doing this shit if they try to meet her half way
To be fair, I would have solved it day one by just removing all of the posts and the entirety of the fence. Also, the neighbor has no grounds to sue for any reason since she's the one that is constantly trespassing and being the aggressor.
Yeah I immediately thought of the Christmas Gargoyle lady ❤ No No to the cookies she doesn't deserve cookies especially after she called the cops twice
I would be down at the city getting a property line assessment that same day 😂 the sad part is that you would probably find out that the entire fence is mostly on your side 😂😂😂😂
These stories always make me so thankful for my neighbors. I came home the other day to a motion detecting light installed on my front porch because I always come home late from work and usually use my phone light to unlock the door. I’m sooo lucky 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Extending the "olive branch" sounds nice but IMO this is why we have so many Karens/Kevins thinking they can annoy us, and break us down into getting their way. If you never give in then maybe this kind of behavior will end. People really need to respect boundaries, personal and otherwise.
My aunt and uncle live on a section of private beach in Maine about a mile long with tons of houses. If we put our towels down and neighbor thinks we’re touching her sand she calls the cops. It’s insane. She also tried to sue my in-laws saying the birds from their tree were pooping on her house and lowering her property value 😂😂😂. It’s sort of sad really. She’s old, alone, and miserable.
When you said bury the hatchet at the end of video the property owners are thinking bury her with the hatchet together. Old people get so miserable and grumpy are we all going to be like that.. 😂
You're videos are so uplifting, I lost my dad last month and it's been so difficult especially for my mum they'd been together almost 40 years. You're an amazing awesome human and your videos always make me laugh when I need to and put a smile on my face even when I'm really down and nothing else helps you rock 💖❤️
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. I hope you have many fond memories of him and you and your mum share them often. Sending y’all prayers and hugs from San Antonio TX USA.
I'm so sad for your loss. I'll be praying for you and your family dear. I hope you see all the things that are beautiful in your day and you think of him. May you see each other again someday.
This reminds me of the whole saga of the "goose woman" - a mannequin with a goose head attached to it, displayed in the front yard and the neighbors hellbent to take it down each time, but the owner kept puttng her up & stuff escalated. It was hella petty on both parts!
My parents have a neighbor like this. He literally calls the cops on everyone for every little thing. He even started threatening the young children and the neighborhood to the point that one of the fathers decked him in the front yard. The dad of the threatened child said it was worth the fine. The rude neighbor has even been jumped by one of the local motorcycle gangs because of his antics. The cops have been called so many times by him he has been fined multiple times and been threatened to have his license revoked if he doesn’t quit harassing the neighborhood. He is also a local pharmacist, so he would losing his license and job there as well. The worst part is, I think he is abusing his wife and kids. His wife is an avid runner and was very friendly with everyone in the neighborhood. Now, she barely leaves the house except to work or run and she won’t make eye contact or talk to anyone anymore. I’m worried for her safety and many of the other neighbors are as well. This has been an ongoing saga in my parents neighborhood for about 10 years now. I love when my mom calls with updates
Yall need to let the wife know you guys dont hate her just him. She has to know how he is and know you all hate him and might think you dislike her also. That could be why she avoids you thinking it will be a bad interaction. So just let her know the neighborhood has her back just incase he is abusive she will know shes not alone.
Is he elderly? You say he just recently started to yell at the children, when he didn't use to do that? The reason I ask, is because I wonder if he has dementia, and it is getting into the later stages where sometimes they can become more agitated and violent (which is out of their control, btw), or if he perhaps had a stroke which affected his behavior in some way. I have been an RN since 1998, dementia care specialist, and I have seen both many times.
Just wanted to add on to my original post, and too lazy to edit. People don't always realize that pharmacists have as much training as doctors. They are intelligent, and their jobs are ingrained in their mind. People with dementia can often mask their symptoms until quite late into the disease progression, because they don't want to admit something is wrong. If he is progressing, and he is dealing with people's medication, they will notice, and he should be retired soon. His wife would most likely already be aware, so a conversation with her would be helpful. If it's dementia or a stroke related behavior issue, spouses can feel alone. She would be in the position of getting the brunt of the behavior, but not wanting to put him in a nursing home. There are medications to help with behaviors, and resources for caregivers. If he is just an ahole, she would need support to get out. My guess is the former, because if she used to jog, then something has progressed to make his behavior worse.
This actually triggers my trauma from a full year of nightmare being harassed by a neighbour, with serious mental diseases and a drug addiction problem. I genuinely thought I was gonna get murdered at some point so I gave up and got the fuck out of there. Best decision of my life!
Yeah, you can't change people. The world is too big to have to live next door to that. I spent 4 years next to some crappy neighbors. When I moved it was such a relief. Why didn't I move sooner ?!?!
I’m so invested! If I were them I’d hurry and get a survey and fence put up before she just decides to get a fence and put it wherever she wants. I couldn’t handle that old lady on a daily basis like that. I’d end up putting up a nice big privacy fence and some cameras in case she decides to try to ruin an expensive fence she didn’t pay for. That way there’s proof so she couldn’t deny anything.
You should defo make the inflatable arm man for your next Halloween cossie, you could go matching with your fiance. You hit the nail on the head Charlotte, just become her best friend, being super nice is so powerful when dealing with this type of sadness. I can tell you from personal experience it works, Being so super glad to see them whenever you see them at work or oot'n aboot is the best thing you can do AVAH!
I would take that snow fence and cut it back to her property…how do people think they have rights to other peoples property?!?! And I’m sorry, Charlotte, but would you want to eat anything provided by a neighbor that you were feuding with? I don’t think I like those odds 😂
I had a summer equivalent of this happen to me. I was brand new to the neighborhood. I was also working on call hours/12h shifts. Did not leave a lot of time for lawn maintenance but I was sure to cut it once a week on Saturdays. One of my neighbors was not satisfied with this. He was convinced the grass could only be a certain length and told me as much one morning as I was standing in my driveway about to get in my car and go to work. He assured me that if the grass was too long, "SOMEONE" would call the bylaw officers to place a complaint and that homeowner would receive a fine. He was a cranky old man who lived alone. So I made him no bake, cherry cheese pie and introduced myself to him. After that, I kept cutting my grass once a week, and I never had any more complaints. Kill em' with kindness, folks.
That doesn’t work with some of those people. I had a next door neighbor who literally threatened us, a week after we moved in, with having our dogs debarked or thrown out of the neighborhood because her dogs would bark at ours and it would trigger ours to bark back. Instead of having a dog meetup so they would get to know each other this itchb made the 4 years we lived there miserable by calling the HOA on us if anything was off in our yard. Her husband wouldn’t even look at us, he knew what his wife was doing. It’s the only time we ever lived in an HOA and I’m happy now that we have 20 acres and our closest neighbors are a 1/4 mile away but super nice. Country living at its finest where everyone has everyone’s back and doesn’t get in anyone’s business.
@@Fiona2254 Really sorry to hear sharing kindness didn't work out for you and your circumstances. I definitely recognize that there are times when boundaries are crossed and consequences are necessary. I am glad to hear you are living in a happier community now.
@@kaitlynyoung8783 some people are just miserable like that, I loved that house but was glad to move along. Neighbors make all the difference. Have a blessed week!
I love watching this drama! You could do a whole series on neighbor wars, would not get old. For this situation, I'd take all her stuff and put in my shed/garage or even my house. On my property, now it's mine lol
Hey that’s us!! 😂 Your reaction to our neighbor drama is hilarious! We love it! Maybe we should try to bring her some Christmas cookies?!? 😂🤷🏻♂️
Very petty and entertaining to imagine, but I hope it doesn’t escalate to anything violent if you do plan on doing this.
I give my condolences on this petty war with this miserable Grinch!
Please keep us all updated! 🙏🏻 We hope you have a very Merry Christmas and a peaceful New Year! 🎄☃️❄️
Go to the top of the comment section and reintroduce yourself. I hear one of charlotte’s subscribers pitched an idea to hook you up head to toe in Charlottes “Petty” merch . There’s a whole bunch of us that want to chip in, and make it happen
Kim Goudet. Find her comment read it. Then check out what others said in response.
If you do the cookies, you might want to add some fun ingredients to calm her down. JS
Everything this woman put up against the house would be out in the trash.
I used to burn my neighbors stuff. She tried so hard to get me to pay for it. Took me to court filed police reports recorded me.... but all of her things were on my property and as I left them there for a few days, it was considered to be abandoned junk, especially since my land had been previously surveyed. There was nothing she could do just short of keeping her things off my property. She tried to remedy this by paving over my property and expanding her driveway. She ruined my yard, my flower bed and my fence. I sued her so hard, and because she now owed over 7,000 in damages, she sold her house and moved. Now it's a teacher living there, and my brother is now her neighbor. She's a delight.
That's what I'd do. Throw it in the trash or just keep it all
Exactly my thoughts, I would throw away anything and everything she put there so fast! And when she complains I’d just tell her “your trash was on my property, I got rid of it for you. You’re welcome 😊”
@@erikarussell1142 yup abandoned property is forfeit 😂
It would be in my house. It's mine now.
I used to have a neighbor like this. My other neighbors warned me about her when I moved in.
the first week I actually did bake cookies and brought them over as an introductory gift and offered some tea. We talked, turned out she was pretty lonely so we sort of became friends and from then on she became fiercly protective of me and came to me to gossip about others. It could get annoying but I never had any problems with her.
Pre-emptive baked goods is always smart. Even smarter to make friends with the angry neighbor!
@@UnicornsPoopRainbows I definitely agree!
You acted like a grownup! And it worked!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
my grandma before she passed gossip a lot cuz she was most of the time alone and it seem it was the only way to her to talk to people, I think it is sadly a normal thing for elderly when they are lonely.
Always make nice with the "mean neighbor" right off the bat. They usually are just lashing out at anyone who comes too close. Besides making nice with any neighbor is smart- they are the ones who might watch your pets, they may look away when you have that one very loud party of the year, they might be the ones who help you reno. You never know.
2:10 - honestly if this woman continued to put her fence against my house, I’d just take it down and throw it in the garbage. If it’s on my property, I get to decide what to do with it. 🤣💁🏻♀️
Period!!! I was thinking the same thing and literally came to the comments to see if anyone else said it too bc GIRL, the back and forth is for the birds
We had a neighbour like this. She would throw water on us as kids, throw her crap in our garden until my mum caught her in the act, she carried it on so my cousin pissed through her letterbox and she left us alone after that. That was for playing next to our own fence lol. Old bag, Rose I don't miss you 🤣🤣
Is she the reason you are a cranky pants now??
Pissing through the letter box is excellent!!!
This is such a British response 👏
There's no other way 😁
Amazing 👏
Charlotte, thank you for being invested in drama we all secretly enjoy watching
@jwright6059
There's nothing secret about it. Not from me at least. 😁
came here to say not so secretly lol
Send her a Petty hoodie for free so she can face the neighbor in it!
Better yet, set something up on the store that would allow us to contribute so we can deck them out in Petty gear from head to toe; Petty beanie, Petty hoodie, Petty sweatsuit, Petty socks (if that’s a thing), and Petty mittens (again, if that’s a thing). That way they know they have the full support of Tater Nation and the endorsement of our Potato Queen!
@@davidguidry657 here here!!! I'll pitch in!!! Brilliant!!!
@@davidguidry657 I’d pay into it to!!
i’d hella contribute to that 🤣 i’m about as petty as they come, that sounds amazing 😁
I would donate! 😂
I learned the hard way to call the police after the third incident of harassment and after 2 attempts to discuss the issue with my former petty neighbor. The final incident was discovering my petty neighbor forced her dog to drop feces in my yard, something she was doing for over three months until I caught her. Took photos to the police. Police asked if I wanted to press felony charges! That type of harassment leads neighbors to kill neighbors. So, they end it quickly by punishing harassers before they go too far. I asked them to give a warning because her three teenage children (16, 16, and 17 years old) would have been charged because of their involvement. Never had any issues after the police explained it to them!😂
You, wasn't it possible to grab the poop with a glove and just throw it to their windows while screaming: I THINK THIS IS YOURS. YOU'RE WELCOME
She could be done for involving minors...
I had a neighbor that ran a bakery out of her house, she would kick people out of the public parking in front of mine and leave notes on my familys cars. I worked 12 hour night shifts as a nurses aide and she wouldn’t have loud parties right next to my bed room. One night I asked her to keep it down the music was so loud it sounded like it was in my house and I was trying to take an anatomy final. She was super condescending because “ it wasn’t that late” but I’ve been listening to this for hours at this point. So as petty revenge I picked up all the dog poop her dog leaves in my yard (no one in my house had a dog) and proceeded to throw it over the fence at her party and when she came to yell at me I told her if I have to deal with her shit she could have some of it back
😂
Respect🙇♀️
👏Bravo....I bow to you
Bloody epic
What happened next? Did her behaviour improve?
Can we all just take a moment and appreciate the gloriously beautiful shade of red that is Charlotte's hair? It deserves all the compliments. ❤️
I have always though charlotte's hair looked an amazing colour. Like fire (to match her attitude Lol)
I couldn't stop staring at it. So luscious and vibrant.
This woman is Autumn in human form
Yes!!! Absolutely gorgeous hair! Love it,, love it 🥰
Sometimes her hair looks so good I get really distracted by it.
I wish I had her hair....My grays are coming out and I'm not liking it. Not one bit. I want my red hair back!! 😅
I'm with your editing team on this. She's escalated things to this point that no quarter should be given. More Googly eyes! When the snow comes, Build Snowmen so that they are all staring at her property, maybe one holding a sign saying 'he knows if you've been naughty ...'
But there is still no snow..☃️🤣
A little paper, a lot of glue, make a snowman out of goo!
After about the second time she put the junk on my property, I’d start just removing it to my basement. “Oh, you want your stuff back? I thought you were giving it to us. That’s why you put it back in our yard after we gave it back to you.”
The problem in the US with letting this go is that, after a certain period of time, the neighbor could claim that as her property, if they’ve done nothing to stop her. It’s called adverse possession. She has called the cops, it’s time to hire a lawyer to send her a cease and desist order. If she doesn’t comply, it’s pretty easy to file a request in court for an injunction, and she will then face fines and/or jail time for contempt of a court order.
Yes. This. Same outcome in Aotearoa/ New Zealand.
no need you have proof she is/was on the property. Have her trespassed and if she comes on the property again, then it's old lady jail.
When this happened they should of asked her nicely one time to cease and desist, and record it per the law. If it happened again,(which it did), call the police themselves. Because you're right. You have to be vigilant about your property and legal rights. The thing that sticks out is they just bought the place. Part of the process is showing where the property lines are. So, when she continued I would of put a stake of my own at the line and told her that's as far as her fence could go. She must of had an agreement with the previous owners and assumed it would continue with the new owners.
Put her junk out by the street when the trash man come problem solved
5 years is the time frame
Charlotte, you better make sure to watch for the final chapter and let us all know the outcome. Not all of us have TikTok. Can’t wait for part two. (Oh my! I’m I contemplating petty activities for these people? )
I’m thinking she gave up. The Cops told her what to do. That’s probably what she’s measuring for
He's here in the comments, so we will definitely find out!
@@TheMelbourneHeart
I don't know if it would be worth a brain drain to get Tik Tok. Even for this drama.
@@hopegold883 I don't get the reason why the neighbor was measuring. Measuring for what.?
I'd keep the junk, after the 3rd time clearly it's a gift and she wants us to have it! It's a welcome gift 🤣 love you Charlotte!
Exactly! I’m taking that fence and all the other stuff and it’s going into the trash at my House!
I was thinking this too. However given the fact she called the cops she probably would have pulled the "they stole my property" . So I would have bagged it and lovingly place it back on her porch may be with a bow too.
I thought of that too, then I’d throw it out!
@@DancingOnGlass89 Well it is close to Christmas!
Better yet, keep it then set it out with the trash on pick up day. Lol.
When I house hunting, I checked the tax assessor's website for each property. This will show you every owner and date of sale. This is public information. I checked for patterns of frequent sales within the last 10 years. No way my hard work and peace of mind would be jeopardized by a neighbor. Hope it works out for the OP's.
My cousin had a situation with harassment from teenagers. It got so bad, they had to move. Before they bought their new house, they sat at night in the neighborhood several nights to see the teenager situation.
This saga has me totally invested!!
I was there for the gargoyle holiday pettiness, too! 🤣 bc it continued into Easter and the following Halloween! 🤣
Love it all!
Go new neighbors!! No hot chocolate, tear down that fence/wall!! 😡 No mercy, no prisoners...well except maybe grumpy old lady...mmmwaahhhhh!! 👹☠️
Sad thing is, after the gargoyle video, I tried looking up the Facebook page that lady made and couldn't find it. I think that Karen might've got it taken down.
This is hilarious! It did stress me TF out just watching. I loved the inflatable moving man idea. 😂 Luckily, we hit the jackpot with our neighbors. We live in Michigan, and one of our neighbors is Canadian. She gives zero fucks. She doesn’t care if we touch her property, and she usually lets us borrow anything we don’t have for our yard. We take turns shoveling each other’s driveways, and bringing in the garbage cans. Our other neighbor is a nice older gentleman, and he has the best grass on the whole block. We shovel his side walk all of the time, and he returns the favor too. When we moved in, we were so worried we’d have asshole neighbors. They were worried about us too. 😂 I love my whole block. We are truly blessed over here.
The best thing this couple can do is call a surveyor and mark the property line clearly with those little flags because it's going to be necessary if she builds a fence which sounds like Gretchen Grumpypants is going to do.
We have a camp that shares our driveway with us and they tried to say we kept parking and using their property. My dad simply called a surveyor and discovered our property extended farther than we thought and THEY were actually the ones that kept technically trespassing and damaging our property 😂
Either way, it is good to know where the actual property line is and how much is actually yours.
People too stupid to figure this simple thing to do. If you own a house you better get hip to the community bi-laws and rules.
"the law says I gata give you 3 warnings, don't try me Betty" 😂😂
We bought our house and were very happy that it was surrounded by woods. Not having neighbors was a bonus to the great house we found. Then just before we moved in the woods were clear-cut and we discovered that 1000 new units were going in around us. A buffer of trees was left around us so that's something. But sheesh. It's this kind of drama we were really hoping to never have to deal with. Fingers crossed...
Things that should allow y’all to demand some sort of compensation. That’s not what you bought, it feels like false advertisement or something.
Your fault for not investigating beforehand.
@@chelscara Before you buy a house go to city clerks office to find out if there are any construction or development plans for the area. People don’t know to do this. We know someone who bought a house to have a chicken coop, guess what, coops not allowed in their community.
Your municipality’s Planning/Permitting office would have told you for free what plans were under consideration in your area. Ignorance is no excuse.
Yeah, between researching financing, inspections, dealing with everything involved in purchasing a house as well as dealing with regular life and the troubles and maintenance involved in just living, how dare you forget something like checking with the area planning commission. It's just a million and one lines of legalese and realtor jargon and local authority confusion on top everything else. How foolish can you be?
Love how arrogant and piss ignorant some people can be about the trials and tribulations of others. Just cause you know something doesn't mean it's common knowledge or won't get lost in the hub bub of just living.
You also have to remember that the property line is not against your home. The property line is most likely half way between the homes. The petty neighbor is trespassing when moving the fence.
Where I live, our houses are 8 feet from the lot line.
I was thinking it was the wooden fence.
Many places have 'zero lot line' issues. I dont know where the line is but it could be only 6 inches from the side of the house/garage to right up against the side of the house/garage. If you look at the 'fence' in the front part of the property(in the third instance), it comes almost right up to that side of the house/garage.
@@KThom429 The new owner just needs to look at the land diagrams in his mortgage paperwork or checking it in the county record of deeds. It is all public records.
The property line does not always fall in the middle between two homes. Lets say if Gretchen was the only house and owned the property and sold off a section of her property and this home was built on said property the lot size may be pretty close to the house. Have seen this happen many times.
Problem with giving her an olive branch, and letting her do this, is that as soon as she percieves that she has won on this, she's going to find something more to harass them with...
Exactly. People that are this miserable aren’t going to stop just because you’re nice to them. They’ll see it as weakness and double down. I have no doubt it’s why the previous owners sold the house to begin with. It’s not personal. She’ll attack anyone who’s in range.
Yep that's how people like this are unfortunately.
The only "olive branch" she deserves is one upside her head.
Some people change when you offer a kindness, some don't. I say its worth a try.
I was so sad when the page for Frank the Christmas Gargoyle got taken down it was epic and caused so much good. So many charities gained donations because of that petty page.
Me too….I live in Ohio and loved following. Now there is a 12 ft werewolf that a neighbor wants taken down Ohio also. 😂
@@Foberswife ugh why can't people just let others enjoy their sparks of joy.
This reminds me of a neighbor my parents used to have, she loved to conveniently walk her dog by their mailbox and have her dog 💩there, and leave it there. My siblings and I decided to be petty and take turns watching out for when she would be walking her dog and when she would stand right by the mailbox. We would then start a symphony of car alarms (2), she stopped walking her dog by my parents' mailbox after a week.
Hahahahahaha. Yeeeessssssssss 🙌
That's absofuckinglutely brilliant!!!!
That's awesome! They should also have put her dog's poop inside her mailbox, but in a nice package so it wouldn't affect the mail carrier, but she couldn't resist opening it. heehee
@@LazyIRanch No, its a Felony to mess with mail and mailboxes or to put anything in mailboxes that isn't mail ( in US)
@@ugaladh Yes, that's true. I suppose it could be mailed anonymously, but if they're caught they'd risk being charged with harassment.
There is a company that will ship various kinds of animal dung as a joke. So far, it's perfectly legal because the dung has been treated and is free of pathogens.
Maybe put the🐕💩in a box and leave it on their porch with a polite note saying that they noticed the dog owner accidentally left this at the neighbor's mailbox, so they are returning it since they KNOW they didn't mean to drop it there. I don't think any cop would ticket or arrest for that since that person should have picked it up in the first place.
Personally having lived next door to a Karen much like this, extending an olive branch is completely pointless because it'll be fine for a while (if she accepts the olive branch) and then she'll start again about something else. The only way this is resolved is if she moves away which is what happened in our case. She literally fell out with every neighbour on the block.
Mine moved right on out of the realm. Am I the ahole for dancing while singing "no more stalking, no more false police reports, no moooorrrreee snaaaarky nooootes!" that day?
Oh, we also went out to dinner that night.
I have been in a similar situation before, so I empathize. This would have been the way I handled this craziness-1. Talk to her (which I know would not have worked, but it's putting her on notice). 2 .Put up a stake myself to attach the fence to. 3. Thrown anything she put on my property in the trash immediately the first time AND continue to throw away ANYTHING of hers that touched my property. Just saying...
I totally agree w you! I'd b throwing her crap away so fast.
Same! Then I’d have someone out to survey and check property lines. She threw her stuff on my property? Well, it’s mine now and it’s going in the trash after I take pictures of the trash she threw on my property (to try and get her for vandalism, littering, or destruction of property), put up security cameras to catch her in the act, then I’d be having a solid, very tall fence put between our properties.
@@prettyponybaby2007 I mean, as others have pointed out you’re probably just giving her what she wants if you pay for a fence. Lol. But I suppose your piece of mind is worth more. Ofc I’d be worried she’d damage the fence you just paid to install bc she’s clearly batshit crazy.
1 and 2 are what I would have done. 3 can get you in trouble. It has to be on your property for a certain amount of time before it is considered abandoned and okay for you to dispose of. You could get the cops to talk to her about littering though. And have a hot sealed coffee for the cop ready (Like the Starbucks cans)
@@UnicornsPoopRainbows Not true! You just take a picture and when the cops come, you say you didn't know who did it but you didn't want it on your property. People can't just use your property for free storage.
This situation reminds me so much of the problems my family and I had with our neighbor. For context, this neighbor has kinda always been annoying, for example, throwing his trash onto our property, parking his shit on our property, and blasting loud music into the early hours of the morning when he has people over. Those are all just mild annoyances compared to the situation that happened years ago.
So our property has an underground electric fence for our dogs and our neighbor also has electric fence collars for his dogs that he never puts on them. This led to his dogs coming onto our property all the time and doing their business here (mind you we live on 2 acres of rural plains), which isn't much of a problem just another mild annoyance, but it didn't end there. Things then escalated, and our neighbor's dogs started attacking our dogs while on our property (mind you, our dogs aren't aggressive in any way). Of course, this pissed my dad off, so he started off small and would go over and tell our neighbor to get control of his dogs and keep them off our property. Well, that clearly didn't work as his dogs kept attacking ours. So my dad escalated and called the cops, that didn't work either since our neighbor made the excuse his property line was actually almost all the way next to our driveway when in reality it ended next to his driveway, some 150 ft away from where he thought it was. My dad called the cops again a few times after that and that still didn't fix the issue. So, my dad found the original paperwork that outlined our property lines, showed it to our neighbor, and then proceeded to build a fence on that side of the property. After the fence was built I remember clearly my dad saying, "if his damn dogs want to come on our property now, they have to go on the street and possibly get hit by a car." (Mind you, this man said to us multiple times he was going to shoot his dogs if they ever came on our property again.) Well, the fence fixed the issue and his dogs haven't come onto our property again.
good fences make good neighbors
If her stuff is on their property, I believe they could just throw it out. I'd have a surveyor from the city in immediately to mark the property lines and then be throwing her shit ouuttttttt 😂
Been down this road with a neighbor. Being nice just encourages them to be even worse because then they will think they can manipulate you. You have no choice but to play hard ball with people like this. At this point they should have already had her charged. She keeps doing this because they keep letting her get away with it.
Thank you Charlotte. I was fired this past week from my job and have been in just a bad place. No warnings, they just terminated me so close to Christmas, which I feel I might as not be a part of because I am not in any sort of Christmas spirit.
I’m so sorry to hear! You’ll find something else darlin. Take this time to brush up your resume. You’ll find a job that values you!
In which country are you in? Did you have a trial period they fired you in? Check your local employment laws, if that was unfair termination you could sue them.
I know that feeling a couple of months ago I got fired over text with no notice or explanation as to why but because it was technically during the probation period I can't do anything
Oh no!!! Is there anything you can do about it? You should qualify for unemployment! I pray you end up at a much better place that loves you and you love much more.
I know the feels! Where I worked people were on their phones and I pull mine out and got told to put it away. No one else. And the. Customers came in while I was in the back and the customers saw them ignoring them but -I- had to take care of them. I was informed they're in the proper placement. Fine then. If there had been a next time I'm not helping them when they "need help" since that's not my placement.
My mom had a weird reaction to gabapentin, it altered her brain over a couple of days. She thought her neighbors were trying to steal her house, that they were breaking in and holding her hostage, she thought their yard belonged to her and they were trying to steal it. I always wonder when I see these things about mental illness.
It still doesn't mean that boundaries shouldn't be enforced. Having mental illness is not an excuse for harassing people or making their lives difficult. Of course people need help and compassion but they don't get to threaten another person's sanity or safety without consequences. From what it appears this woman has a pattern, given the across the street neighbor, of behaving badly.
Fek! My Dr gave me that for chronic pain relief. Interfered with my vision so badly l stopped it after a couple of days. So glad the vision thing was all that happened to me.
That’s called an adverse drug reaction, not a mental illness. Big difference!
Damn, I was on gabapentin for 8 years and it just made me as dull as a pictureless dictionary
I lasted four days and nights on gabapentin. Four nights filled with weird VERY unsettling dreams. Gold lamay underwear? In public?? On a sixty + year old sagging body??? NO MORE!! Took myself off it.
The Christmas gargoyle is still one of my favorite petty moments. That was hilarious 😂😂😂
This happened to us growing up! Neighbour and her stupid orange snow fence, literal crap on our porch, air let out of car tires, criminal police showing up all the time. Made our life hell for a while. I was a kid and lived in fear. I feel for this couple
The things about assholes and crazies like that is that normal people don't have chance to solve that problem quick. Because in the land of insane, you must be the most insane of them all, and average people don't want to go that way.
May have happened to you but this story is fake as hell !
Too many lies I can’t believe anything from this idiot !
State police will not come out for things like this that’s local police issue!
And then the things she had on the window are not motion sensor they are the receiver portion of the alarm !
And it’s all just too fake !
I lived in a place that was horrible once. I had to pay a man to sit in my car all night so it did not get vandalised. I did move, but on my way out there was an altercation. This horrible man brought four of his 'buddies' to enter my home by force. I called a security company and they came (very fast) to the rescue. As I was fighting these bad guys to stay out of my home you could hear a rumble...then a BIG hummer stopped in front of my home and four GIANT head shaven guys in kevlar got out of the hummer and just stood there...not a word spoken. I said, this is your queue to leave. The next to drive up was Pickfords to move me out.
This was so stressful. I was a small woman in my forties and I literal blocked the door while waiting for help; I bit one of them after elbowing another in an attempt to keep them out. I felt very vulnerable but was not going down without a fight.
@@mrspleasants8529 that sounds horrendous! Glad you're safely away
Maybe it's the same lady lol
I absolutely love that the neighbor across the street is keeping tabs for them 🤣
@@BreakofDawn I've never quite had a neighbor like that. Now. Landlords... Are a different story 🤣😭
@@caitlynguthrie5641 i ones caugh my landlord lean against my window trying to see inside, i knock on the window i though he was gonna have a heart attack😄😸.im from the north of portugal, its pratically in our culture to be snoop.
Frank!! The Christmas gargoyle!! Loved Frank!
Charlotte, my husband of 32 years told me he wants a divorce after 32 years a week before Thanksgiving. He maxed out 4 credit cards he opened in my name. I am nearly blind and on disability. My life is a shitshow but I sincerely look forward to your videos every single day. You are so funny and make me smile for a few minutes. Also, I plan to be 100% petty throughout this divorce!
Mine did that 4 years ago, after19 years. Completely surprised me. He didn't empty the bank, but the holiday- our family's most important one, and was my birthday that year - was ruined. My granddaughter cried and I haven't yet forgiven him for that. I'm also disabled, and picking up my life again as a 50-someting has been hell.
He needs to be reported for the cards. And I wish you strength and clarity through it all. Don’t loose yourself in the battle have a plan for what to do after it’s all done so can have that to look forward to. My dad left my mother after 47 years out of the blue. But her children have stood by her like Mount Everest and she did not see that coming 😊.
I wish you well, Cathy... i also wish you the patience to get back the money you're owed
@@OrontesRM thanks....my lawyer is petty as well lol. He is making payments and hasn't missed any but only making minimum payments on 10k is going to take him years.
@@Naayaah.s1471 ty for the kind words of support. I've got plans! I'm going to be okay!
I now wanna say if she keeps leaving junk on your yard, warn her that any un wanted items on property will be trashed. Then again I feel like her response will be to start leaving trash on their property 🤦🏿♀️ Man this is a rough one
Could wait until the night before trash day and put it out on the curb in front of her house so when she takes the trash out she sees it and has to haul it all back or risk having it picked up
Well yes but when even that doesn’t work put in a complaint to the Dept. of buildings. Some people just don’t get it.
Don't warn her.
Just trash it all.
She keeps leaving it on their property.
So, it's theirs to do with what they want.
I would leave it in front of the door she uses. Makes it a little hard to get out.
😈Yes, take all the stuff she put on their property and sell it to Goodwill to where she has to buy it back.
If they just bought the house, they should have a plot map. Measure the distance to the property line. Move her stakes to that line and share a copy with the neighbor. Any shenanigans after that should be documented for legal action.
Exactly!! I would spray paint orange or red paint along my property line, then post a NO TRESPASSING sign facing her house. Then record her traspassing from my window.
I like it...legal, reasonable, and certainly not harder than going back and forth on it with a clearly unreasonable person.
You're too kind Charlotte 🤣 I feel like this type of person wouldn't accept an olive branch anyway. She's too far gone
I love how the queen of petty is calling for peace at the end. It honestly makes me happy to watch some of these spicy RUclipsrs start to mature and realize that well vengeance feels good, it doesn't really help anything, and just leaves everybody miserable in the end.
Petty saga here on this Channel is so funny. Better than any tv show😂
The best reality streaming there is...actual reality.
This reminded me of my previous neighbors. They were so annoying ( they always throw party on the weekend, which doesn't bother me) but the problem is that they always turn up their music volume to the highest from 10pm until 2 or 3am 😌 I reported it to the security guard multiple time ( we live in semi detached house with 24 hours/day security guard patrolling ). Even the guard tried to talk to them, but they keep shrugging it off. One day, their relative found out about this ( turned out they were living on their relative's property for free) the relative(the owner) finally kicked them out because many stuffs were damaged while they were throwing the party.
I had a horrible older neighbour lady too for ~10 years and now she’s finally in an assisted living home instead. Damn she was nuts and we tried so hard to be polite first but you just can’t win with some people. Like, no ma’am, offering to shovel your walkway is not “elder abuse” 🙄. Anyways, good on these folks! You tried to b civil but sometimes you just gotta show them you can’t be messed with
Jenna is the true MVP. A fan of Charlotte, she knew the exposure the rainbow hoodie would get so she ✨flaunted✨ it. The best advertising campaign happens during a drama saga. She didn't even have to pause the video to make her point. Chefs kiss.
I'm glad you went there at the end. I was literally just thinking, "This bish needs a hug or something."
The petty drama is fun to watch, and I would be just as frustrated as these people... but there would eventually come a point where I would be able to step back from the situation, chill my emotions, and try to approach her with a spirit of reconciliation. Because as much as I can get caught up in right and wrong or the principle of the thing, and as nice as it feels to "win," it does feel even better to help everybody win. She's that way for a reason, (not an excuse) and being willing and able to help someone soften or to be touched by kindness is incredibly emotionally rewarding.
Also, when this is your neighbor you'll have to live with her next to you for a while yet, so might as well try to not hate each other...
Yall are so much better than me. I would have to square up with old Gretchen 😂 like, imagine buying a house and how hard you worked for that, to have someone come and disrespect that property. I normally avoid confrontation like the plague but in this case i would be camped out in my yard. She really thought she was slick! Lmaoooo
@Maya Dior Oh, I would almost definitely start out petty. 😅 But after eventually getting bored with it, or maybe even winning the weird disagreement somehow, I would at least try to extend an olive branch.
This petty neighbor thing reminds me of a feud I had with a neighbor. We had an outdoor hookup for a hose, and my neighbor wanted to fill up a kiddie pool from it. We said no, because it wasn't a little wading pool, it was a HUGE 3-4 foot deep swimming pool. So she sent her kids (2 beautiful and adorable little girls) and when we told them no, they went away looking sad. Well, the next day a friend came over when I was cleaning and said something about the river in the road. I was like "yeah, I can hear it. I was waiting for the weather to get better before I go out". She looks at me funny and tells me to look outside. The "river" was coming from.....guess where? My neighbor had climbed our fence and ran a hose and filled up her pool anyway. Left it running for so long that both of our backyards had flooded and it was now running down the street. So we called the police and they recommended we pull the hose into our yard and ask them to pay for it when they come after it. Stupid me believed them when they said we could handle it ourselves. They sent those little girls after the hose, and I very nicely told them that their mommy needed to come and get it "because it's big and heavy and dirty. I don't want you to get all icky". So, I'm sitting inside and I see the hose moving of it's own accord. Mommy had crawled onto our porch and was pulling it inch-by-inch off the porch. When I confronted her, she went bat$h!t and even SPAT IN MY FACE. I called the cops and reported an assault. They refused to even file a report. Told the woman to pay our water bill when it came to avoid prosecution. The bill came and it was overr $40 usd higher than usual. We taped it to their door. She ripped it up and stuck it in our mailbox. We called the cops, and they said it wasn't their problem, and to take them to civil court. We ended up just giving in because I was only 21 and it was the mid 90s. No one cared about a law abiding 20-something couple who was being harassed by Britney in her Daisy Dukes.
May Karma hit that neighbor hard when her two daughters get pregnant and no man around and those babies suffer with severe disabilities that won't let her sleep and she dies from two strokes and 7 cancers. What a horrid neighbor!!!!
I have a shut off valve on the inside of the house for the outside taps so no one can do this to my place. If I ever get another place I will have an indoor shut off valve installed.
Why on earth didn’t they use their own water? Don’t they own a hose? My neighbor who was building some stuff without permits decided he would use my water hose more than once, without asking. Removed items from the hose and left in the alleyway. I kept finding the hose whenever we went out in different places. It’s nervy. When they were renovating kept finding pieces of marble thrown in my hard from their construction job. Took down his dead fig tree and threw the lumber in my yard thinking I wouldn’t notice. These are alleged religious people, imagine. I could go on and on with his intrusive nonsense. They do this kind of stuff so you become frustrated and move. We’ve never done this kind of stuff to any of the neighbors.
But she was trespassing and she assaulted you. How the hell did the cops go “Oh this is out of our hands!” Lord have mercy.
@@deniseberman8633 religious people with a dead fig tree - priceless! 😂
Seriously, hope you can get it resolved.
This makes me so thankful for our neighbours! We take turns clearing snow and we help each other with projects.
I also noticed that it was a State Trooper... They don't go out on these calls unless the local Law Enforcement has no one available... or the local Law Enforcement is VERY familiar with Cracker Carol (ie: what we call a frequent flyer) and she KNOWS they won't respond, probably because they have told her there is nothing they can do about making her neighbors allow her to do whatever she wants with their property...
They really need to know exactly where their property line is and set a divide. Seems unlikely it's right up against their house and she gets that entire open area
Stay on this Charlotte please!! I gotta hear how this continues, and your coverage just makes it all the more funnier.
We had a neighbor string a hose across everything and attach it to our outdoor spigot, running water to their house on our dime. My husband went out there and cut the hose in half. 😂
Edit: I also didn’t hesitate to throw up a 6 ft privacy fence after I heard a neighbor yell at my dog. Not happening!
A few years ago I was having major neighbor problems as well. Keep in mind this neighbor is the guy my mom drove for heart surgery, invited for holidays, etc. then one day out of the blue called the cops because of our dogs barking. The cops told us we were fine and we weren’t being cited. Cue my mom going off on our neighbor for calling the cops. Two years later he still calls the cops on us and has tried to get us cited multiple times. The entire PD is aware and have repeatedly told us that our dogs are actually well behaved and they don’t know why he calls the police about it. The best part is one time the police showed up the neighbors dog was barking and so the cop said if he kept pushing the issue they would issue him a citation since his dog was barking (ours weren’t). It sucks having neighbors who are just terrible people.
It's good when the police know the situation and don't pay attention to the neighbor or, better, cite him.
Can’t wait for this one!!! Sounds like a banger….I’m so invested too Charlotte! ❤️ ya girlie you’re the best😁
I’ve been following the fence saga 🤣🤣 I’m glad you covered it 🤣
Whats the @ ?
@@heidimariejensen8735 @chrismadison15
State trooper: do the only reasonable thing you can do.
Neighbor: I won’t. I WON’T!!!!
Jenna and Chris seem like the epitome of "kick his ass, baby, I got yo' flower" and I'm here for it
edit: As of 13 hours ago, Gretchen Grumpypants has been out with a flashlight in the dark doing something to the fence out back (which got mangled by the 60mph winds they'd had) and they don't know what yet
Time to buy motion activated lights
Time for a camera.
@@itssteph263 the really bright ones.
Now I am invested!
My old neighbors had halogen lights that woke up the neighbor hood. Motion active lights sound like a good idea. Just make sure you have black out curtains first.
Question: Can’t you bill her for the hours it’s taken you to clean up her mess on your property? Seems to me you could take her to court for this then put a lien on her house when she doesn’t pay you.
I just want Charlotte pretending to be an inflatable as a Screensaver. Absolute perfection
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Agreed! And would also 😍 to see, my oh me!
Oooh ! Yes ...I would love that too😂
oh gosh, this reminds me of the petty things our backyard neighbor would do, including calling the cops on us for stupid reasons. shes have been much more bearable since we got a privacy fence, and our other neighbors actually congratulated us on it, so I think they were happier afterward too. she literally hated that our street even existed cause it didn't when she moved into her house.
Our neighbor when I was a kid kept telling my mom our garage was two feet on her property. My mom ignored her, and the neighbors husband was really embarrassed about the whole thing. Our house was one of the oldest houses in the neighborhood and my parents lived there long before her house was even built. She would just periodically go into the garage rant through the years, with her husband being embarrassed and telling her to shut up. Cut to my mom taking out a loan on our home for some renovations. Blueprints and surveyor not only disproved my neighbors claim, but her fence was two feet on our property. Her husband howled with laughter and let her know if my mom wanted, she could make her move her fence. I honestly dearly loved my neighbors, she could just be a pain on occasion. My mom was like a duck though. It just rolled off her back and never made her get petty about things.
I loved the Christmas Gargoyle! I totally want a giant skeleton to decorate for each holiday 😁
You cannot offer an olive branch to a neighbor like this. I tried with our crazy one. She took it as she won and continued to escalate her bad behavior until we did have to call a lawyer. We won 😉
May I ask how long it took to win with misbehaving neighbour? Did it cost thousands?
I was barely into the video and I was getting angry it's like "NO!! STOP TOUCHING THE HOUSE! NO TOUCHIE! It is not yours, don't go over there, don't touch anything!" Folks suggestions of how to set up the motion detectors are so good! You people are awesome and I would love to see all these ideas in action on this neighbour, then recorded to see what happens
You had me in the first 10:35 until you said... to offer an olive branch? Char has clearly never encountered an entitled wild Karen in their home element and it shows lol
Exactly, you can not give this people an inch.
Totally. Crazy people gonna crazy. Unfortunately people like this only see kindness as weakness. Too bad is has to be that way but she’s a bully. They need to protect themselves by standing firm.
Lmao the gargoyle is actually perfect for the holidays as they are protectors of buildings,they ward off evil spirits.I don’t know how or why people started to see them as evil 😂 And quite honestly I find them fascinating
I think after the third time of her putting stuff in my yard, she would get a written warning that I will consider anything placed on my property as my stuff. I would then take the stuff, and instead of putting it back in her yard I would do one of a couple things:
1. Trash
2. Donations
3. Make a nice fire with the wood items. The rest I would have to find a way to make yard art with it.
“ my neighbors must love me, especially when I bark“ is my favorite thing that you’ve ever said.
I had a neighbor just like this. She called the police and so many more offices over the weekend. The surveyor came out and found out her fence was 5ft on our property. suddenly she was so nice.... ya... we moved.
That reminds me of when we first moved here,the neighbors had been in their house for years,before we moved here. Anyway,my younger brother and I were joking about having a gun. We don't have any guns. The cops showed up and left quickly. The neighbor has always been hella petty.
Gretchen de Grumpypants needs to colour her roots! Had a similar situation when I lived in PA. The woman next door carried on like this, and she finally hired a surveyor. He told her that I was right about the property line, and her new 6 ft fence was on MY property! She didn't speak to me for years, and that was GREAT !!!
The gargoyle porch was The Best!! Going to go dig that up and watch again now 😂 But this was great too! I agree, from first-hand experience (have tried being petty and have tried just eating it and letting them "win,") whenever possible, extending an olive branch is just less energy than the alternative. Takes fewer days off your life! 👍
Alright I'm in my pajamas and ready for my petty bedtime story for tonight from Charlotte and this is just perfect.
Omg lmao 😂 he is actually having a ball. He just wants to see what neighbour does next 🤣🤣🤣 but I do agree you need to write down a roster and have your friends fill the shifts 😁😁
i don't have tiktok so i depend on you for tiktok tea. This one did not disappoint 😂
I had a couple moving next door to me. I am a single mom with two kids, just for reference. The very first day they moved in, the "husband" asked me if I wanted to sleep with them, or just him? Umm, eww,no! I politely as I could declined. This happened on many more occasions as the year went on. I started to just ignore him and finally told his wife. She said i had to be lying. Then things got worse, my male neighbor kept causing trouble, I like locking the front door to the apartments, which nobody had the key to.... Landlord always said he was going to put a new key/lock system and give us a key but never did, so we just left the door unlocked. He called the police and DSS on me twice! Saying there were drugs in my house....which there wasn't....and there were all sorts of men coming in and out of my apartment. Again, not true, he just wanted to get back at me for rejecting him. The last straw and what got him kicked out, finally! Was I had bought a used couch that was in good condition but come to find out it wouldn't fit through my door. I left it out in the hall, not in anyone's way at all ! The trouble making neighbor called the landlord and told him the couch was "all in his way" . My landlord came and looked at it and said no it's not. So my neighbor decided to wait until I left the house and then slashed that couch to pieces!! I called the police and my landlord again and even though I couldn't prove it my landlord knew it was my neighbor and asked him to leave the property in 15 days! A year worth of drama, just because I would not sleep with a male neighbor, who was married!!
You can not extend an olive branch with this woman. She will take it as a sign that whenever she wants something, she just has to keep at it and bully her neighbors untill they give in. She will keep doing this shit if they try to meet her half way
To be fair, I would have solved it day one by just removing all of the posts and the entirety of the fence. Also, the neighbor has no grounds to sue for any reason since she's the one that is constantly trespassing and being the aggressor.
Yeah I immediately thought of the Christmas Gargoyle lady ❤ No No to the cookies she doesn't deserve cookies especially after she called the cops twice
I would be down at the city getting a property line assessment that same day 😂 the sad part is that you would probably find out that the entire fence is mostly on your side 😂😂😂😂
Happy Sunday Besties!! Love you Charlotte!! AND NO HOT COCOA OR COOKIES FOR HER!!!
I'd extend a holiday branch... A holiday branch with a SLAP at the end. 😂
These stories always make me so thankful for my neighbors. I came home the other day to a motion detecting light installed on my front porch because I always come home late from work and usually use my phone light to unlock the door. I’m sooo lucky 🙌🏼🙌🏼
People like that are so wonderful.
🎉🎉🎉 dream neighbours.
Extending the "olive branch" sounds nice but IMO this is why we have so many Karens/Kevins thinking they can annoy us, and break us down into getting their way. If you never give in then maybe this kind of behavior will end. People really need to respect boundaries, personal and otherwise.
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My aunt and uncle live on a section of private beach in Maine about a mile long with tons of houses. If we put our towels down and neighbor thinks we’re touching her sand she calls the cops. It’s insane. She also tried to sue my in-laws saying the birds from their tree were pooping on her house and lowering her property value 😂😂😂. It’s sort of sad really. She’s old, alone, and miserable.
When you said bury the hatchet at the end of video the property owners are thinking bury her with the hatchet together. Old people get so miserable and grumpy are we all going to be like that.. 😂
I hope Jenna and Chris see this video and read all of the helpful comments and/or give up updates. We love a good update!
I kinda zoned out (I just woke up), so I thought Charlotte said "speaking of angry neighbors, my neighbors must love me, especially when I fart."
Lmao I mean, sometimes it can get violent...
@@erikarussell1142 🤣🤣🤣
wait, what did she actually say then, because that's 100% what i heard too 🤣
@@jourdyngroman "bark" 🤣🤣🤣
You're videos are so uplifting, I lost my dad last month and it's been so difficult especially for my mum they'd been together almost 40 years.
You're an amazing awesome human and your videos always make me laugh when I need to and put a smile on my face even when I'm really down and nothing else helps you rock 💖❤️
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad my love! Thinking of you ❤️
I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. I hope you have many fond memories of him and you and your mum share them often. Sending y’all prayers and hugs from San Antonio TX USA.
@@davidguidry657 Thanx so much, from Australia 💖❤️
I'm so sad for your loss. I'll be praying for you and your family dear. I hope you see all the things that are beautiful in your day and you think of him. May you see each other again someday.
Don't bury the hatchet... sharpen it lmao😂
This reminds me of the whole saga of the "goose woman" - a mannequin with a goose head attached to it, displayed in the front yard and the neighbors hellbent to take it down each time, but the owner kept puttng her up & stuff escalated. It was hella petty on both parts!
Lol! I love that girl! I donated to her fund to build the goose spaceship! Lololol
@@randomsandra4039 Oh wow nice!
My parents have a neighbor like this. He literally calls the cops on everyone for every little thing. He even started threatening the young children and the neighborhood to the point that one of the fathers decked him in the front yard. The dad of the threatened child said it was worth the fine. The rude neighbor has even been jumped by one of the local motorcycle gangs because of his antics. The cops have been called so many times by him he has been fined multiple times and been threatened to have his license revoked if he doesn’t quit harassing the neighborhood. He is also a local pharmacist, so he would losing his license and job there as well.
The worst part is, I think he is abusing his wife and kids. His wife is an avid runner and was very friendly with everyone in the neighborhood. Now, she barely leaves the house except to work or run and she won’t make eye contact or talk to anyone anymore. I’m worried for her safety and many of the other neighbors are as well. This has been an ongoing saga in my parents neighborhood for about 10 years now. I love when my mom calls with updates
Yall need to let the wife know you guys dont hate her just him. She has to know how he is and know you all hate him and might think you dislike her also. That could be why she avoids you thinking it will be a bad interaction. So just let her know the neighborhood has her back just incase he is abusive she will know shes not alone.
Is he elderly? You say he just recently started to yell at the children, when he didn't use to do that? The reason I ask, is because I wonder if he has dementia, and it is getting into the later stages where sometimes they can become more agitated and violent (which is out of their control, btw), or if he perhaps had a stroke which affected his behavior in some way. I have been an RN since 1998, dementia care specialist, and I have seen both many times.
Just wanted to add on to my original post, and too lazy to edit. People don't always realize that pharmacists have as much training as doctors. They are intelligent, and their jobs are ingrained in their mind. People with dementia can often mask their symptoms until quite late into the disease progression, because they don't want to admit something is wrong. If he is progressing, and he is dealing with people's medication, they will notice, and he should be retired soon. His wife would most likely already be aware, so a conversation with her would be helpful. If it's dementia or a stroke related behavior issue, spouses can feel alone. She would be in the position of getting the brunt of the behavior, but not wanting to put him in a nursing home. There are medications to help with behaviors, and resources for caregivers. If he is just an ahole, she would need support to get out. My guess is the former, because if she used to jog, then something has progressed to make his behavior worse.
This actually triggers my trauma from a full year of nightmare being harassed by a neighbour, with serious mental diseases and a drug addiction problem. I genuinely thought I was gonna get murdered at some point so I gave up and got the fuck out of there. Best decision of my life!
Yeah, you can't change people. The world is too big to have to live next door to that. I spent 4 years next to some crappy neighbors. When I moved it was such a relief. Why didn't I move sooner ?!?!
The way you start saying we, like its happening to us all collectively. Idk why i was laughin so hard at that. Another great vid Red
Some folks use snow fences to keep neighbor's leaves out of their yard.
I’m so invested! If I were them I’d hurry and get a survey and fence put up before she just decides to get a fence and put it wherever she wants. I couldn’t handle that old lady on a daily basis like that. I’d end up putting up a nice big privacy fence and some cameras in case she decides to try to ruin an expensive fence she didn’t pay for. That way there’s proof so she couldn’t deny anything.
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Snow fences are found mostly in the country to keep the snow from drifting onto your driveway and/or farm fields.
You should defo make the inflatable arm man for your next Halloween cossie, you could go matching with your fiance. You hit the nail on the head Charlotte, just become her best friend, being super nice is so powerful when dealing with this type of sadness. I can tell you from personal experience it works, Being so super glad to see them whenever you see them at work or oot'n aboot is the best thing you can do AVAH!
I would take that snow fence and cut it back to her property…how do people think they have rights to other peoples property?!?! And I’m sorry, Charlotte, but would you want to eat anything provided by a neighbor that you were feuding with? I don’t think I like those odds 😂
I had a summer equivalent of this happen to me. I was brand new to the neighborhood. I was also working on call hours/12h shifts. Did not leave a lot of time for lawn maintenance but I was sure to cut it once a week on Saturdays. One of my neighbors was not satisfied with this. He was convinced the grass could only be a certain length and told me as much one morning as I was standing in my driveway about to get in my car and go to work. He assured me that if the grass was too long, "SOMEONE" would call the bylaw officers to place a complaint and that homeowner would receive a fine. He was a cranky old man who lived alone. So I made him no bake, cherry cheese pie and introduced myself to him. After that, I kept cutting my grass once a week, and I never had any more complaints. Kill em' with kindness, folks.
That doesn’t work with some of those people. I had a next door neighbor who literally threatened us, a week after we moved in, with having our dogs debarked or thrown out of the neighborhood because her dogs would bark at ours and it would trigger ours to bark back. Instead of having a dog meetup so they would get to know each other this itchb made the 4 years we lived there miserable by calling the HOA on us if anything was off in our yard. Her husband wouldn’t even look at us, he knew what his wife was doing. It’s the only time we ever lived in an HOA and I’m happy now that we have 20 acres and our closest neighbors are a 1/4 mile away but super nice. Country living at its finest where everyone has everyone’s back and doesn’t get in anyone’s business.
@@Fiona2254 Really sorry to hear sharing kindness didn't work out for you and your circumstances. I definitely recognize that there are times when boundaries are crossed and consequences are necessary.
I am glad to hear you are living in a happier community now.
@@kaitlynyoung8783 some people are just miserable like that, I loved that house but was glad to move along. Neighbors make all the difference. Have a blessed week!
being nice on a first interaction etc is one thing..... but a bully is a bully at the end of the day.
I love watching this drama! You could do a whole series on neighbor wars, would not get old. For this situation, I'd take all her stuff and put in my shed/garage or even my house. On my property, now it's mine lol