why i left the sims community

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @whosme8221
    @whosme8221 3 месяца назад +47

    I am disabled and was cheated on by my husband of over 10 years. We got a divorce and for me now cheating makes me feel horrible as I was left with nothing after my divorce as my state has no alimony not even when I put him thru school and he was making so much. I am now left in what is considered poverty level and my eldest son is having to support not only me being disabled by my youngest son whom is disabled as well. So much has been put upon my eldest adult sons shoulders as he not only takes care of me but my youngest son is also adult but disabled. So for me I downloaded wonderful whims so that as soon as my sims get married I make them eternally faithful as cheating still triggers me to this day.

  • @user-esme807
    @user-esme807 3 месяца назад +58

    I feel so bad for Savy . I hope you find another person who won’t do that to you 😢x

  • @Aphelia.
    @Aphelia. 3 месяца назад +30

    When you said 8 years my jaw dropped- I'm so glad you're out of that situation and even started dating again!! Welcome back!

  • @Buggaboonetteyt
    @Buggaboonetteyt 3 месяца назад +47

    I am so sorry Savy you had to go through this and I hope you find some time to heal and I just want you to know we are for you

  • @mamapsims
    @mamapsims 3 месяца назад +2

    I'm so sorry to hear this Hun. Sending you love. Playing Sims is therapy for me so I don't typically do toxic love scenarios in my gameplay. I just need good feelings in my game. Anyway, we love you and we love you content so whatever you do, I'm here for it.

  • @tothewonder6248
    @tothewonder6248 3 месяца назад +24

    I'm so sorry you went through that. Please take care of yourself and heal and find peace. If you wanna play but take a break from scandal play maybe try The joy of life challenge, I think that on it's own is cheater free, but it's challenge and provides gameplay.

  • @its_kiara_sims
    @its_kiara_sims 3 месяца назад +9

    Savy I’ve missed you!!! I’m sorry that you have been going through a hard time. But you’ll get through it. Love you 💕

  • @hollyw26
    @hollyw26 3 месяца назад +10

    I can tell you are a strong woman, and you will get through this, but it will be very hard for awhile. If the bad days come, let them come and then refocus on the good. Thanks for the video and I'll look forward to what's coming. Thanks for all you do, and a big hug for you!

  • @tiffanywhaley8640
    @tiffanywhaley8640 3 месяца назад +9

    🫂 I'm so sorry you are going through this savy take as much time as you need to heal 😢😢we are here for you Hun 🙏🏽🙏🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @Lizziguin
    @Lizziguin 3 месяца назад +7

    Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry you were treated like that. I hate when guys waste years just to break our hearts. I'm glad you're trying to stay on the positive side and that you can be with your loved ones. Take care of yourself and one step at a time girl

  • @annthedreamer
    @annthedreamer 3 месяца назад +8

    I'm so proud of you girl! Keep focusing on yourself and people/things you love, enjoy every moment of being free until you find some who deserves the you ❤

  • @malaysarodriguez9243
    @malaysarodriguez9243 3 месяца назад +4

    We love and support you Savy I am so sorry you had to go through this! I hope you heal and as my mom always said when I was younger sometimes you have to have a couple messed up relationships to find the love of your life. You are amazing and so beautiful it's her loss.

  • @dorothyshinani6862
    @dorothyshinani6862 3 месяца назад +6

    Yea girly i feel you iv been in a similar situation as you but have also been stripped of all my finances on top of it i feel you and im happy you are back again sending you love

  • @dreamyyesenia
    @dreamyyesenia 3 месяца назад +3

    So glad to hear from you ❤️ I’m sending you all the positive vibes girl take ALL the time you need to heal. I’m so sorry you have to go through this but you will come back stronger trust in that. I’m going through a tough time health wise myself and it’s hard not to think “Why me?” etc but I do believe things happen for a reason, you are now out of that toxic environment and everything will only get better now 🤗🤗

  • @EmberCozyCorner
    @EmberCozyCorner 3 месяца назад +6

    i'm so sorry savy but i hope you are doing well and healing

  • @EveningGames02
    @EveningGames02 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you find someone deserving of you and just know that we’ll be there for you💖💖💖

  • @taylorthedog169
    @taylorthedog169 3 месяца назад +8

    I am so sorry Savy what you go through

  • @fallenaster
    @fallenaster 3 месяца назад +6

    so glad to hear you’re taking time to heal and take care of yourself💕 looking forward to the new content

  • @LunarsimmerYT
    @LunarsimmerYT 3 месяца назад +2

    I am so so sorry you had to go through all of that. I am sending you the biggest hug and all the love in the world. My Dad cheated on my Mum and honestly seeing her go through that has really put me off cheating stories or cheating in general. I am so glad you can put some time into your healing 💞💞💞

  • @Sunflowersims24
    @Sunflowersims24 3 месяца назад +1

    I am so so sorry this happened to you. You don’t deserve such a horrible thing to happen, and me and the rest of the community are here for whatever you need ❤️❤️❤️

  • @clairebradley6771
    @clairebradley6771 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m so happy to see you back. You’ve been in my thoughts. Just take your time and do what feels right in each moment xx

  • @Lexaverse
    @Lexaverse 3 месяца назад +2

    i’m so sorry! growing up in a home where my dad did the same thing, i feel your pain. i’m so proud of you for getting out of that and staying true to yourself. that is extremely hard. you’re strong girl!! ❤❤❤

  • @mgiordano7684
    @mgiordano7684 3 месяца назад +3

    oh no i’m so so sorry that happened to you! i love your content, channel, and your whole personality. that’s such a horrible thing to happen, i can’t even imagine 😢

  • @yuqislover
    @yuqislover 3 месяца назад

    So sorry to hear your going through this, sending loads of virtual hugs and love! You are so so strong for going through this

  • @artwithsaya
    @artwithsaya 3 месяца назад +1

    So very sorry to hear that Savvy. No one deserves to go through that. Adultery is a very very horrible thing and anybody who does it should know that karma never goes on a vacation. When you give bad it comes back the exact same but feels like a thousand times worse. Sending you lots of hugs, you didn't loose anything except time and time will be a lot kind to you in future to compensate. Have faith❤.

  • @sherripena1317
    @sherripena1317 3 месяца назад +9

    Just found your channel actually but was enjoying your videos and then this pops up. I do have experience with a not so savory partner of 6 years. My experience needs a TW though. Needless to say I have been diagnosed with PTSD since that.

  • @kaycewomack
    @kaycewomack 3 месяца назад +5

    So glad you are back girl!! Missed you

  • @maysiemoon
    @maysiemoon 3 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry Sav, you are such a beautiful person and we all appreciate how amazing you are. You didn't deserve that at all. Im so glad to hear your voice and im sending you all the love and support 💜🩵💜

  • @river-melody007lover
    @river-melody007lover 3 месяца назад +1

    I feel your pain. My son’s Dad cheated on me with 2 other women when we were engaged and he got the 3 of us pregnant.
    When I dumped him after finding out he moved in with 1 of the girls and her parents and they’re not married with 2 kids and still living with her parents.
    The other girl being from a religious is a single parent and a friend of mine now.
    I know you will find the strength to be the you that we all have grown to love
    You have my support ❤ hugs and love to you 🤗
    Verna… From London, England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

  • @MatineeSims
    @MatineeSims 3 месяца назад

    Hi Savy! I’m so sorry you had to go through this. I’m very proud of you for coming back here and sharing what you are going through with us. It takes so much courage and guts to do this.
    Please know that we are all here for you, supporting you! ♥️

  • @melanie_luv2_sew
    @melanie_luv2_sew 3 месяца назад

    I just popped over to your channel to see what was up with you. I am so so sorry for what you are going thru. glad to hear you are with your fam for support. by the way it is never anyone's turn to experience heartbreak. sending hugs and luv.❤‍🩹

  • @doxiecracra4127
    @doxiecracra4127 3 месяца назад

    I found your channel randomly…I’m so sorry for what your going thru. As someone who split with my husband of 15yrs; I too had that gut instinct. The feelings you have are normal (the ups & downs)…my therapist said it’s like losing a loved one, you have to give yourself time to grieve lost relationship. I will say my therapist was spot on when she told me to give myself 2-2.5yrs (1 yr for every 7 yrs of marriage). It gave me time to heal, figure out who I was without having someone controlling my every thought; and gave me the time I needed to let go of the pain of betrayal; learning to trust again was the hardest part. So I didn’t date for 2.5 yrs without even trying …so her timeframe was very accurate lol. Praying you find your way…I am happier now than I had been in a very long time! ❤

  • @gwendoline3240
    @gwendoline3240 3 месяца назад

    Aww Savy! I’m so sorry that you’re going through that and I definetly wish you happiness in your future endeavors forever more. Bc you deserve it welcome back! We missed you and I’ve been binge watching ur save files videos a lot lately bc I can’t wait to get back into Sims as a first time pc gaming player very soon, after discovering that I can now play on my MacBook Air, but it just doesn’t feel the same in way so I’m super excited about, so soon now I can play my Sims game while watching ur videos 😅 We all have own painful life moments and the truth is those things do take time, but we grow and heal from those wounds eventually and thats what makes us better people, and even stronger 💗

  • @MakzPlayground
    @MakzPlayground 3 месяца назад

    Sending you so much love and support.
    I've been through it, my ex and I were together for almost 10years and it's been almost a year since we've been fully separated/very limited contact. I went through a very toxic relationship, cheating, gaslighting, emotional and physical abuse.. It's still one of the proudest moments of my life when I finally put my foot down and said enough was enough and broke the cycle.
    It was not easy but I've found new love, peace and I'm so much happier. I've gained back the weight I lost because of the massive stress I was under, I've found my hobbies again(didn't touch sims for a long time either), I've found new hobbies, and learned to to accept different forms of love in my life.
    There's still days where I'm sad about what had happened and what I feel I lost but I know it was worth it.
    Things will get better from here, you've gone through the hardest part already.
    You go girl ❤❤❤❤

  • @lakaylntanay9370
    @lakaylntanay9370 3 месяца назад +1

    Awe I’m sorry to hear that girl 💗 I missed ur videos take ur time we get it !!

  • @Roxie1255
    @Roxie1255 3 месяца назад

    I watched this video when it dropped but haven’t had a chance to comment until now.
    First, I am glad to see that you’re slowly making your return.
    Breakups/divorces are rough and will take time to heal from. It’s like the stages of grief.
    You have to ride it out.
    I’m looking forward to all the new content you have coming up.

  • @LilBit777
    @LilBit777 3 месяца назад

    im so so so soooo sorry hun, i know that feeling, im glad ur back and thriving!

  • @meggosims4992
    @meggosims4992 3 месяца назад

    Sweet friendship, I am so sorry you are going through this.
    We love you and we are glad you are back!!
    However please continue to take care of yourself and heal the way that's best for you, you first always!! 💚💚

  • @KiwiSimsKate
    @KiwiSimsKate 3 месяца назад

    Savy you’re so strong 💪🏼 I love your outlook and attitude despite the trash way he treated you. There’s never an excuse for cheating, it really is a terrible human thing to do to someone ❤ You’ll be better than ever without that in your life though!

  • @Toastbobbb
    @Toastbobbb 3 месяца назад +4

    So happy you’re back 🥹

  • @MollyMaeSim-ql4up
    @MollyMaeSim-ql4up 3 месяца назад +10

    Best day EVER!!! Savy is back baby!!! I’m so sorry what you went through and hopefully coming back to this community can also be healing!! It’s so great to see you pop up on my feed today 💙💙. Today is the first day of the rest of your life and you are killing it!! Love you always!! 💙💙💙💙

  • @marilynjeansims
    @marilynjeansims 3 месяца назад

    love u sav! i'm so sorry you are having to go through this. sending you all my love & always here for you 💓

  • @ladybugcatnoirfangirl65
    @ladybugcatnoirfangirl65 3 месяца назад

    I wish you all the best best sis I feel really sad for you but stay strong you will be okay ❤️❤️

  • @ecofinisher
    @ecofinisher 3 месяца назад

    Welcome back, Savy. I'm sorry to hear what you've been through. You're a great warrior. Don't let yourself down for something like that. Don't believe it's your fault, Cheating is never a reason to do, when things change over the years.

  • @ThumperE23
    @ThumperE23 3 месяца назад

    Sorry to hear what you are going through. My parenter left me because I refused to open our marriage, and then dragged their feet on getting a divorce. I have been divorced 4 years now, and I am still going through it. But not as much as when it first happened. The best advice I can give you is just put in the work and it will slowly get better.

  • @SecretKeeperForever9
    @SecretKeeperForever9 3 месяца назад +4

    I generally don't do cheating plots myself. Having both been cheated on and accidentally the other woman, I broke it off when I found out. Both really sucked. But that's just my choice. The sims can be used a bit like therapy in that way sometimes. I am sorry to hear you went though that.

    • @mamapsims
      @mamapsims 3 месяца назад

      I'm this same way. The toxic love bit stresses me out. Sims is my fantasy land.

  • @SimmerClaw
    @SimmerClaw 3 месяца назад

    So proud of you having the confidence to come back. I am so happy you cane back and you sound amazing and definitely changed in a good way. So happy you are back and never let anyone take your joy from you. Don’t be a stranger girly. 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @ChrissiesPurpleLibrary
    @ChrissiesPurpleLibrary 3 месяца назад

    Savy I’m so sorry to hear about your divorce even more so the betrayal and mental abuse you went through and what you are dealing with now. I am glad you are surrounded by your family and friends. I have been watching your content for awhile. I can tell you are gentle, compassionate and genuinely love people.
    I want to encourage you to and let you know the Lord loves you and he loves how he made you. I am praying that he give you his love and that you see yourself through his eyes. You are beautiful inside and it shows on the outside. I went through a divorce many years ago and it was extremely painful, humiliating and I didn’t think the pain ever would end. I didn’t think I could love again.
    But it did and the Lord helped me and healed along with my family and friends I’ve been happily married to the love of my life for 12 years now.
    I know this is probably too much to put in a comment and maybe too spiritual but I just wanted to pass on the love of Jesus to you and always the love I have for you. I hope you keep making sims content if not for the community for yourself! I’m praying for you! May the Lord bless and keep you Savy💜🙏🏾

  • @sweettaterfries
    @sweettaterfries 3 месяца назад

    I am so sorry Savy. Much much love ❤

    • @sweettaterfries
      @sweettaterfries 3 месяца назад

      Also you really nailed the feelings that you experience during a divorce. It truly is a very confusing time.

  • @KingBasieSims4
    @KingBasieSims4 3 месяца назад

    Being cheated on is honestly the pits. I'm just glad you're doing better now and wish you al the best. You definitely deserve the best and more.

  • @kennathesimmerr
    @kennathesimmerr 3 месяца назад

    i was wondering what happened to you posting.. i’m so sorry that this happened, i hope you heal girl. take as much time you need ❤️

  • @NightShayde921
    @NightShayde921 3 месяца назад

    2:30 I’m pretty sure that’s a cherimoya or custard apple in her dress. They are native to Mexico and South America (which is where the new world is inspired from) and are incredible. They are juicy and taste like a mango, banana, and pineapple had baby with vanilla ice cream. They have green scaly skin, white creamy fruit, and large black seeds that are poisonous so don’t eat those. They look kind of like dragon eggs and are about the size of a grapefruit. Usually only available in late February or early March for about 3-4 weeks

  • @dixiepeachie
    @dixiepeachie 3 месяца назад

    Oh my! I'm sorry to hear! Obviously wasn't meant to be. I hope all is well!

  • @WitchBye
    @WitchBye 2 месяца назад

    I was cheated on along time ago and it is very survivable, not always easy but just hang in there and give it time. I do have some Sims cheat, I figure it is just a game overall and I can include such an experience and have a laugh. But, for me, it is far in the past and my life is so different now, I feel removed from it. Wishing you the best. ☺

  • @oshinsims
    @oshinsims 3 месяца назад +1

    I love you babyyyyy 💞💞💞

  • @mrsleesanders
    @mrsleesanders 3 месяца назад

    I hope you get better
    Everything is going to be okay

  • @veronicanotvictoria
    @veronicanotvictoria 3 месяца назад

    Healing isn’t linear so please don’t be hard on yourself about the journey. I know what you mean, you want the old you back. But you can’t go back to that old you or the old him or old relationship, there is only the new you. You have experienced a big betrayal, through grace with faith with your healing mama 💞

  • @geovanaferlin550
    @geovanaferlin550 3 месяца назад

    I feel bad for you. I wish the best for you

  • @veronicanotvictoria
    @veronicanotvictoria 3 месяца назад

    It’s been 4 years since being with my manipulative cheating ex and I still get triggered about it😭haven’t fully healed myself from him lying AND getting a girl pregnant … but I would never be where I am today if it wasn’t for that experience. It made me realize I let him break a lot of my boundaries, I allowed the whole “but I love him and he can change.” Cheating is a disease and they do not change without putting the work in.
    A man never says “but I love her so I’ll stay” they just go and find better. I know that it’s one of the hardest things to go thru, don’t apologize for anything. Do whatever you need to heal from this.
    (Now I have a REAL man, and I just wanna say ladies DONT COOK FOR A MAN WHO DONT PROVIDE THE GROCERIES, DONT GET SEXY FOR A MAN WHO CANT CALL YOU BEAUTIFUL, DONT CALL A MAN WHO ISNT THINKING OF YOU. Anyways now I’m anti all men except mine LMAO)

  • @tiffanywhaley8640
    @tiffanywhaley8640 3 месяца назад +6

    I have been cheated on I was In college at the time long story all imma say

  • @CyclonicMrx08
    @CyclonicMrx08 3 месяца назад

    I know how you feel. I had a girlfriend once when I was in school it was a long time ago. I went on holiday and I came back to my school she was dating somebody else without telling me she broke up with me that was vile

  • @Anonymous-mp5mt
    @Anonymous-mp5mt 3 месяца назад

    Here for the tea stayed for the girl ❤

  • @dreamscarx
    @dreamscarx 3 месяца назад +5

    ❤❤❤

  • @DyvoraALatsonMcKenzie
    @DyvoraALatsonMcKenzie 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m happy that you are back miss you and you stay safe and healthy and take care of yourself and I know just how you feeling just be happy and put some time into your self pray 🙏🏾 and ask for strength so you can make it through all you’re going through and you go forward and live your life to the fullest because everything will work out for the better and to let you know I love ❤️ you and that’s a respectfully and support you and you’re going to make it through and again stay safe,healthy and you be filled with love ❤️ hope and love ❤️ and in peace and joy because God is full of love ❤️ and so I feel what you are feeling I’ve been through all you’re going through and joy will come,peace and joy and most importantly ❤ love so you have a wonderful amazing day byeeeeee😊

  • @MandySimLandy
    @MandySimLandy 3 месяца назад

    U got this sav!!!! ❤

  • @CammyHell
    @CammyHell 3 месяца назад

    Where did he say he was when he’d be gone? Like sneaking out in the middle of the night or what?! I’m just shocked because you’re so sweet ❤

  • @CammyHell
    @CammyHell 3 месяца назад

    Savannah I’ve been wondering why I haven’t seen you so I looked to see why and found this. Baby girl I’m so sorry. How dare he 😡

  • @CammyHell
    @CammyHell 3 месяца назад

    How did you know to message the girl? Was he mad she told on him? Thats so crazy - why was he straying? I’m so sorry he hurt you. I’m glad you’re with your family. Do you still have the same job?

  • @CyclonicMrx08
    @CyclonicMrx08 3 месяца назад

    It’s good to see you back to the community. It’s a shame you’re evil ex-husband cheated on you. He should be ashamed to cheat on a pretty person like you. Who’s got a good voice and has really good talent making RUclips videos You don’t deserve people who hurt your feelings. You need people who care for you. We all care for you. That’s why you get one billion Illion million hugs for me

  • @gabriellemeche992
    @gabriellemeche992 3 месяца назад

    I'm so sorry. Here's a virtual bat 🏓

    • @savythatsimmer
      @savythatsimmer  3 месяца назад

      @@gabriellemeche992 this made me laugh 😅😅🫶🏼

  • @Jacqueline-l8p
    @Jacqueline-l8p 3 месяца назад

    i want to buy this pack

  • @XxCOOKEExxMONSTARxX
    @XxCOOKEExxMONSTARxX 3 месяца назад

    Doing it in the sims is fine. Not doing it because it’s pouring alcohol on a fresh wound is also fine

  • @XxCOOKEExxMONSTARxX
    @XxCOOKEExxMONSTARxX 3 месяца назад

    How double was this life???? And how long? Did he have another child wtf

  • @crystal_2020
    @crystal_2020 3 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤