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  • 4 Questions That Transformed My Life After 40 | Black Women Embracing Ease
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  • @taneyagoods3835
    @taneyagoods3835 9 месяцев назад +8

    I woke up at 1:47am this morning and could not go back to sleep. I was consumed with thoughts of how unhappy and unfulfilled my life is. I kept thinking "I have to figure out what to do because this cannot be it for my life". I had some down time at work and searched "starting over at 48" and I came across a few of Stephanie's videos. I just want to say, after listening to a few and browsing the comments, I don't feel alone anymore. I am hopeful.

    • @StephaniePerry
      @StephaniePerry  3 месяца назад

      I'm just seeing your comment Taneya. I hope you're taking action toward getting clear on what you want for yourself and taking a step to get there. And I hope you're in community with people who make you feel supported. If you're a Black woman, join the ExodUS Summit community. exodussummit.com/community 💗

    • @tmreaves1
      @tmreaves1 Месяц назад

      I am in that place now. I will be 48 next month. I am so ready for change.

  • @Dothework4u
    @Dothework4u Год назад +78

    My 40's have been my super sad period. At 47, now I am taking the steps to ensure the rest of my life brings me healing, peace, joy, abundance, happiness and success!

  • @shaunicymuhammad
    @shaunicymuhammad Год назад +42

    "We all know about living with regrets. The key is to have fewer and fewer as you go, not to add to the pile." - Stephanie Perry.
    As someone who hasn't even hit 30 yet, I love when you do these life chats.

  • @kathleenmcculloch4898
    @kathleenmcculloch4898 Год назад +34

    This was fab! (BTW I went to school with Eddie Murphy. He’s a good guy and we were all so happy & proud when he got his big break with Saturday Night Live. He’s shown up to high school reunions & definitely remembers where he’s come from.

  • @sharonfields4346
    @sharonfields4346 Год назад +22

    “The 40’s are living my dreams “💫

  • @alicemcfarlane3444
    @alicemcfarlane3444 Год назад +16

    Hi Stephanie. This presentation was so uplifting. It had me stuck to my sofa. Thank uou so much for teaching me about ease. You do not know the impact you are making on black women. I am so glad that you are unapologetic about this space being fo black women ❤. Thank you.

  • @akaiya08
    @akaiya08 Год назад +19

    I love that you are so transparent and relatable!!! In my 40s, I’m always looking to improve myself. Thank you for sharing your story! 🙏🏾

  • @actionvj
    @actionvj Год назад +30

    The 50’s: Did the work, living the life!” 😆😆

    • @StephaniePerry
      @StephaniePerry  Год назад +1

      💗

    • @Nabisoul28
      @Nabisoul28 Год назад +3

      Hi, my name is Iris and I am 66 years old in April. I’ll be living in Thailand and you’re right in the 50s. I did the work retired from 23 years in the military then went and got a masters. A bachelors got license and I did the work now it is time to enjoy joy, joy, and play.

  • @kassd6063
    @kassd6063 Год назад +11

    I love the question “how did you do that”. I too make up stories about how people live the life I want. I let fear stop me from asking those important questions. Great questions,Stephanie.

  • @MarilynB-MariLuv
    @MarilynB-MariLuv Год назад +10

    Hi. I'll be sharing this topic to my 19yr old granddaughter. She needs this in her growth I've always been curious & not assuming. THANKS Stephanie, you're absolutely needed. Keep it up..Blessings ❤

  • @tashajourneys
    @tashajourneys Год назад +7

    Stephanie, I love the movement you have created! It is so inspiring, I remember finding you when it was just 8 or 10 of us in the Saturday morning chat! You inspired me to finally take the leap of faith and go on my sabbatical. I just finished my 13-month, 18 country world tour. I love watching your growth and sharing your fears and what you want your life to look like with us!

  • @ROSBeautyHealthMarriage
    @ROSBeautyHealthMarriage Год назад +7

    Stephanie, I have watched every video of yours that I can find and 5”though I don’t consider myself to be a very vocal person, I have to say that this video resonates to me on so many levels. I am applying these things to my life and it’s changing so much of who I thought I was for the better. Thank you Stephanie.

  • @karenjones5416
    @karenjones5416 Год назад +11

    Have you read "The #1 Ladies Detective Agency" series? You'd love it. It was made into a t.v. miniseries starring Jill Scott, which was very enjoyable, but I'm a reader, so...BTW love the hair❤.

    • @tacrewgirl
      @tacrewgirl Год назад +2

      Yes, that was a great book and TV series. Jill Scott and Anika Noni Scott did great in their roles.
      The random part is that the books were written by a Scottish doctor who grew up in Zimbabwe.

    • @karenjones5416
      @karenjones5416 Год назад +1

      @tacrewgirl Yes, I know. He respected the culture, though. I thoroughly enjoyed reading that whole series of books and could hardly wait for each one to be available😄!

  • @60plusblackwomenexpats
    @60plusblackwomenexpats Год назад +2

    You created a space for me ❤. I will forever be grateful and hope I do the same for others

  • @nexodus66
    @nexodus66 Год назад +2

    Happy Belated Birthday Stephanie!! 🎉🎈♌️💚🎁🥂🎶

  • @SisMaria1
    @SisMaria1 Год назад +4

    That’s me! Horrible with execution and I regret it . I have an business idea that ,haunts me

  • @sabrinamadison8769
    @sabrinamadison8769 Год назад +5

    Oh this is amazing. Everything you touch on is real. Thank you for sharing.

  • @forestcreature88
    @forestcreature88 Год назад +2

    This was another great and insightful video, Stephanie. I am so excited about attending my first Exodus Summit! I have been SO stuck & burnt out lately and think this will be just what I need to get things going again. I'm also looking forward to learning more about the expat life. Thanks again, Stephanie!

  • @tacrewgirl
    @tacrewgirl Год назад +4

    I love your story in Brazil and how it got you to where you are today.
    Great Ted Lasso quote:
    "Be curious not judgemental"
    Yes, I used to follow Nora Dunn back in the day. She had a lot of great info.
    Your hair is gorgeous. I went natural because I moved to New Mexico from NC and couldn't find a black hairdresser online. I want gonna risk it so I cut it off and have been natural ever since.
    Kenna connects everyone. Happy she helped.

  • @Sakura-zu4rz
    @Sakura-zu4rz Год назад +2

    I haven't had any fun lately, 😭 so it was fun. You bring me joy!❤🙂I love the kind and generous heartwarming atmosphere that you create, your kind, easygoing, warm vibe. ❤I like the essence how you live on. I need to be true to myself and find a job I am passionate about. I want to find a way to live as who I really am.

  • @lynnkobert630
    @lynnkobert630 Год назад +3

    Look good for your age & living your dream - Good for you. :-), I like your vocality.

  • @lavieestbelle6068
    @lavieestbelle6068 6 месяцев назад

    Hi Stéphanie, you story touched me deeply. I was sad and despondent in my thirties and now that I am in my early forties, I decided to be happy.
    Thank you for your content.

  • @SisMaria1
    @SisMaria1 Год назад +4

    I need a life line and community like this

    • @LC_ATL
      @LC_ATL Год назад +1

      The exact reason that I am here. Sending love and hugs your way.

  • @kimd8873
    @kimd8873 Год назад +4

    Stephanie, u r special! More money came out of your account cuz u did not want to c the money leave your account. 🤣🤣😂😂 My fav E.M. movie is Mr. Church!

  • @ElledotOh
    @ElledotOh Год назад +3

    I enjoyed this live so much! So many gems and giggles! TY :)

  • @Itsdanammm
    @Itsdanammm Год назад +3

    I've never thought of Eddie Murphy in that way. Thanks for sharing your perspective. Oh and I loved Dolomite too!

  • @SamriBliss
    @SamriBliss Год назад +2

    Beautiful hair! ❤

  • @egarvanne
    @egarvanne 6 месяцев назад

    Also, I am so happy the algorithm sent you to me. I'm a big fan of film and very few people really get Eddie Murphy as deep as you...and your hair is Beautiful...looking like Black Cotton Candy, keep going and yes Nutty Professor and Golden Child and Norbet, your laugh, love it, thanks for sharing. I'll keep checking in, thanks so much❤❤

  • @easy8325
    @easy8325 Год назад +3

    That thumbnail picture makes me want to holla😘

  • @nelliehyder8303
    @nelliehyder8303 11 месяцев назад

    I love your videos. Listening to you I feel as though I have already traveled around the world. 😂😂😂😂 Thanks for sharing.😊😊😊

  • @spiritjourney7150
    @spiritjourney7150 2 месяца назад

    OMG Stephany! I was just thinking of your channel and looked you up on my sub list. I used to watch your channel when I lived in NYC. Well, I moved to central east Africa in December 2023 with my pets. What a ride!!! I don’t regret and do not mis the States. I wanted to find out the name of that house sitters organization. Please tell me. I thank you for your work. Peace.

  • @cheryldurham6021
    @cheryldurham6021 Год назад

    I so enjoyed this conversation. So many points were so relatable. I began some self analysis and reflection while listening. I laughed and sobbed and felt a cleansing occurring. I remember walking around and being so saddled with grieving. On the outside I was killing things (promotions, being a mover and a shaker and helping others). But, I was a wreck. Therapy was a must. I am so glad I said yes to betterment. I laughed about the car because I have a family member that did the same thing. Thank you for your transparency.

  • @nachemiagape9564
    @nachemiagape9564 11 месяцев назад

    I need this!

  • @aimeepaterson4423
    @aimeepaterson4423 11 месяцев назад

    Hello Stephanie. So Glad You’re Doing Great Today!!!🎉 Really Saddened & Sorry About Your Challenges In Your 30s; I’ve Been Exactly There! We’re Both Doing Fabulously Well Today! Praise Be!🙏🏼 I’ve Just Introduced You & Exodus Summit To Someone On Twitter Who Posted a Message About Needing Rest But Unable To Stop Thinking About Work!😌 Hoping She Contacts You! Thank You For This Wonderful & Empowering Video! Have a Beautiful Day!❤️

  • @Kozette007
    @Kozette007 Год назад +1

    One of my best Eddie Murphy movie is Mr. Church.

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks QUEEN
    JUST Wanna take a moment to say hello to all you lovely SISTAS❤ worldwide
    BE BLESSED STAY SAFE BE SMILING BE. GOD

  • @MissUnderstoodasAlways
    @MissUnderstoodasAlways 4 месяца назад

    Subscribed thanks!

  • @kailisanderson6686
    @kailisanderson6686 Год назад

    My bestie once told me “I don’t need your attitude to change for you to do this” then dropped the mic! She was like seriously, just start!

  • @everythingkaye
    @everythingkaye Год назад +3

    I was wondering why there were only 9 comments lol, this is fresh out! 😮😊

    • @akaiya08
      @akaiya08 Год назад +2

      Try catching her lives!!! They are great,…a lot more comments, and she is even responds to comments. Very interactive

  • @joanebaptiste-cummins3207
    @joanebaptiste-cummins3207 Год назад

    I love the distinguished Gentleman and Trading Places also! He always manages to shine a light on hypocrisy and show us how the world works!

  • @voyageswithshyeasha1398
    @voyageswithshyeasha1398 Год назад

    Thanks for this Stephanie!! I typed this in my notes. I'm using as journal and business prompt ❤😊

  • @egarvanne
    @egarvanne 6 месяцев назад

    Stephanie, this is really great information and perspective. I wish my ex wife had met you a few years ago.

  • @jackiemyers9179
    @jackiemyers9179 Год назад

    Im 57 and im so happy with my Locs ive been loced for 7years and i dont miss relaxers and i asked wno is they also lol😂😂😂😂

  • @lavieestbelle6068
    @lavieestbelle6068 6 месяцев назад

    I am going to stop being judgmental and become curious and bold enough to ask the questions.

  • @Amari_Divineawaking
    @Amari_Divineawaking 11 месяцев назад

    Great nuggets

  • @blacklondonerinsydney1449
    @blacklondonerinsydney1449 Год назад

    Amazing! Loved this and took notes.

  • @cheryldurham6021
    @cheryldurham6021 Год назад

    I got my ExodusSummit ticket. So excited.

  • @ronicmwest
    @ronicmwest Год назад

    I need to find another word for Philanthropy as well. I'm working on a life change now. Only thing I'm sure on is I need a sabbatical. Everything else I'll figure out along the way. You definitely are helping to change the narrative for black woman. It is somethings I want to change and im going to start working on today.

  • @NiNi4real802
    @NiNi4real802 Год назад +1

    Lunelle was the auntie in Dolomite she's a comedian.

  • @sixtyblackmystictraveler
    @sixtyblackmystictraveler Год назад

    So much truth in your words. I have suspected that about myself this belief that when I have more, I will give more. I believe my belief in poverty lack mentality will still kick in when I have millions.

  • @EE-zf1lw
    @EE-zf1lw Год назад

    I am the same way with money. I love seeing the money in my account grow and remain in it too. Every time the balance goes down, I fret. I am trying to be better about that. I earned it and need to spend it on myself. It is for me to use and I need to do better. I need to die with zero.

  • @SisMaria1
    @SisMaria1 Год назад +2

    💡 be curious , not judgmental! How do I get my dreams?

  • @DrAGW
    @DrAGW Год назад

    🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @adreannetherealtor
    @adreannetherealtor Год назад

    Sooo relatable...

  • @nachemiagape9564
    @nachemiagape9564 11 месяцев назад

    I wish I could afford the summit exodus. Will there be videos posted after the event?

  • @beak3958
    @beak3958 Год назад

    I will love this

  • @bigsteph2627
    @bigsteph2627 11 месяцев назад

    I Totally identify with you when you say you don’t ask questions…you kind of figure it out on your own. But…I Want to ask questions…

  • @IMAGAiGO
    @IMAGAiGO Год назад

    Stephanie you were grieving

  • @NiNi4real802
    @NiNi4real802 Год назад

    My question are: What are your intentions? What do you expect from me, or others? Statement: Let go of what or who's not serving me, person place or things!

  • @kaebrix5166
    @kaebrix5166 Год назад +5

    you house sit with pets... im sure that requires patience at times lol especially with dogs

  • @Inga912
    @Inga912 Год назад +2

    Hard to find community

  • @cindyc5809
    @cindyc5809 11 месяцев назад

    New to channel wondering about women in retirement or you called golden girls traveling together to your events. Are there many?

  • @kiaharper7172
    @kiaharper7172 Год назад +1

    🫣😭😭😭😭 ohhhh the man with the limp story!!!! I have been in a similar situation. It's embarrassing to be so stubborn 😣