You seem like you’re 25. Amazing attitude and insight. And yes, pregnancy is so hard (I hurled the whole pregnancy for both of my kids). You keep being you, girl!
I think the clinic is the same thing as the school nurse , the therapist is the same as a counselor as well so you probably have/ had the same resources
Some of your story is so similar to mine it's crazy but me and my husband were together 3 months I got pregnant as soon as I turned 15 and I just turned 30 yesterday and were still together and have 2 sons 7 years apart lol but wow it sound like my story..
Awww thank you so much.. that's how I know you 2 will last a life time they say we dont know what love is because were so young but some how we found a man who treats us like the only women on the planet and will do anything in his power for us and there kids if that's not love I dont know what is ..
I recently found out I'm two months pregnant. I'll be 16 in a little over a month, and I'm terrified lmao. It's hard to even fathom raising a child while still growing up myself, but you give me inspiration and hope. Thank you:)
@@otterwithadarkside4422 I did, neither of them were thrilled about it because of my age, but still supportive. My dad was more upset than my mom but he's definitely gotten a lot more supportive and they're both excited for him to be born. I'm very fortunate to have such loving parents. And thank you!! I really appreciate it:)
When you said “Sophia” I almost cried. That’s the name my boyfriend and I have loved forever. We had a conversation about baby names I liked the first day I went over to his house. I said “idk if you’re gonna like them” and when I said “Sophia” he got so happy it was the cutest.
I can’t imagine telling my mom! My parents are divorced and my dad’s side is known for teen pregnancies. My moms side is not. I live with my mom and she thinks I’m an angel. I can’t even imagine! You are so brave!
I’m so happy I found your channel. You are such a wonderful person and your love for your daughter is so amazing. I am so proud of both of you for sticking through the tough times.
They are both such incredible parents! They are better parent to Sofia than 50% of ADULT couples with kids! You guys are amazing! Please keep being yourself & spreading love & positivity everywhere you & your amazing little family goes!
Honestly, I’ve watched a lot of these kind of videos and this one is the most real one I’ve watched, it’s nice to hear you were protected and he was but you still got pregnant, it shows the reality of the situation. I hate it when ppl say they didn’t wear protection and their was no birth control but then they say they were shocked when they found out, like what do you expect. But your story is so real ❤️❤️
Can feel u on having a kid early. Found out was pregnant after a few months after turning 15. Same thing to. Didnt know bout chest being sore. And getting sick. Sore feet. Now im 30 bout be 31 and shes 14 bout turn 15. . . love ur channel brings back moments for all of us older people who did have kids early. Thank u. And as time goes by u see how fast ur kids grow up right in front of ur eyes. Take lots of pics. Make tons of memories cause when years go by. U see how fast they do grow. Seen few ur videos, great mother u are. Thank u for showing us ur story along the way.
Was anyone else getting distracted by the lights in the background??? This was so cool to hear and I enjoyed learning more about your life and how this whole thing went down. Love you guys!
You are so polite and you also radiate warmness.I can't believe how you and Xavier handled the pregnancy at such a young age.And Xavier is such a great guy btw
My mom was 16 when she got pregnant with me.... I watch a bunch of channels that have been pregnancies just bc I know how it feels and everything.... So this is.... This is just really heartwarming
You’re story is so inspirational! People underestimate teen moms but, you are so amazing at your job of being a mom! Sofie (sorry if I spelled it wrong) she is the most beautiful little girl ever!
I was 17 when I had my son. Your story and mine were so close to each other. I am so related with your story. More power to you and your family❤️ Sending love from the Philippines🥰
Your boyfriend is so sweet and supportive. Mad props goes out to him. I just had to throw that out there. Keep your head up and don't let anyone try and bring you down. It's not being a mom at any age whether you're ready for it or not. It's lonelier being a single parent but you have really supportive people in your life. I strive to be this way because I never felt that in my life. (Well until recently that is). Anyway, good luck to all 3 of you and your families. And know you're in my prayers. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
The medication they put through your IV for preterm labor was Magnesium Sulfate. I’m surprised they didn’t send you home on Terbutaline. For the kidney infection you were on a saline drip with IV antibiotics as well. They are so painful!!! (I’m a registered nurse) I had my youngest at 35 weeks. She weighed 7-11 but stayed in the NICU for 7 days for respiratory distress and heart problems. She’s 23 now and just started graduate school.
I hid mine for 5 months. 😅 I got pregnant at 17 I was a graduating senior high my son now is turning 3 and I'm 21. I love watching your videos ❤️ I'm excited for the new opening 😍 lots of love watching from the 🇵🇭
This is so emotional❤ god bless you and your family! And please say hello to my cutie pie Sophie 😚💕💕💕💕💕 bdw you are an inspiration this is not for you pick me for the comment of the week it just I felt so you got a really supportive boyfriend and you are so brave❤❤❤❤ good wishes to you.... Stay happy stay healthy and enjoy!!! 💖💖💖💖
24:53 same but I’m just deprived of sleep lol But seriously though, you’re the sweetest and you guys are awesome!! Keep up the great work as parents and don’t let any stupid remarks get to you! You’re doing amazing 🤍 (happy I just found you guys)
I'm glad your nurse didnt have a smart remark like my nurse. I was 26 when I went to the doctor and the nurse that was checking my vitals and all that when I got back into the room. She said if this comes out positive I hope its mister right, and wasnt mister right now! I looked at her and said yeah, weve been together for almost 9 years. She then asked, oh how many kids do you already have now? I told her none! Not that your condescending tone in your remarks, and comments matter, they arent appropriate even if I did have other kids, or him and I arent together. She didnt come back in the room to give me the test to go take, or the rest of my visit.
I don’t support teen pregnancy but I support teen mothers. They are two very different things that the government in many countries (mine included ( Russia)) don’t distinguish.
I have a friend who had a 3 year old son at 16. I haven’t personally asked her about her story as she doenst live at home anymore so ik it’s not a positive one. So glad the dad stayed in the picture.
I just wouldn’t tell them 😂 I would give birth, take care of my baby, send them off to college, have them be parents, and then maybe I’ll tell my parents that I had a child. (Jk obviously no one could do that 🤣 🤣 😝
I'm 16 i had been with my boyfriend (my now ex) for about 6 months .. when we started being active .. after that I started have symptoms, have not took a pregnancy test .. since 4 months have passed and I believe I may be pregnant .. any advice ..
Bdw I'm here after one year😗 actually I'm watching your all vedios bdw I love your current intro that's so cute and this old one is also so awesome because it have my favorite flowers and always my cutie pie Sophie 💖💖💖💖💖
Id love it if you could tell me your secret to long hair i miss mine being that length so bad! I had to chopnit all off after having my daughter cause ot was literally falling out
Your question isn't directed at me, and I don't have any kids, but I work in a school and I'm studying to be a teacher so I thought I'd give my best advice. If you're someone who is self-driven academically, online school is a great option for you. Online classes are helpful for someone with a tight or unpredictable schedule, because you can work on things when you have time instead of trying to work everything else around your classes. I can imagine pregnancy and having a baby would mean an interesting schedule. If you find it difficult to do things without someone you're accountable to (like a teacher) online school is probably not a great option. I have ADD and I struggle with procrastination and staying on task, so online school is extremely difficult for me, but right now it's my only option (thanks COVID). I wish you all the best, I hope you're able to find something that works for you! In my opinion, education is so important.
Uh....you have a male name and you joined RUclips in 2013 that would make you pretty young to be on the internet unattended with a RUclips channel....quit your lying, you're not 16 or pregnant
Hey WHAT IS THAT at 19:24 in the bottom right corner of the screen??????? If anyone knows her closely, Please make her aware of this!!!!!!! What is that? Is it Sophia???? Please answer I am really freaked out right now
I was 18 and still got judged for it and I still didn't tell anyone at first maybe the first month then I told everyone and since ig I wasn't showing enough no one believed me until I actually had him and then everyone wanted to start trying to be there for me when i had already done and had him
Kinda surprised that immediately after finding out they started giving you papers and stuff. I get that they were trying to help but you hadn't even had a moment to think about anything.
I still haven’t told my mom i’ve got my period (had it for almost 9 months) i can’t imagine telling her i was pregnant (luckily im waiting till marriage)
my cousin is the result of a teen pregnancy. my cousins mum was completely different to you. my cousin dad isent in the picture and my cousins mums dad and step mum ended up with the baby.
Your best friend that you regret not telling, (Aleeya, sorry if I spelt it wrong) she has the same name as me. I spell it Aliyah but that's not a common way to spell it so I spelt it aleeya
Your such a good mother
Awe thank you!🥺❤️
You really are
Yeah u r a really good mother
God bless u
♥️♥️
You seem like you’re 25. Amazing attitude and insight. And yes, pregnancy is so hard (I hurled the whole pregnancy for both of my kids). You keep being you, girl!
It’s amazing how your school provides that clinic and the therapist for you. I wish I had that❤️
I think the clinic is the same thing as the school nurse , the therapist is the same as a counselor as well so you probably have/ had the same resources
I wish you had some morals and self control
@@goingbonkerswithmyhonkers9374 set control? How? Who are you to assume I don’t have good morals for myself?
Ive never had a school nurse. Ive only seen that in movies.
Some of your story is so similar to mine it's crazy but me and my husband were together 3 months I got pregnant as soon as I turned 15 and I just turned 30 yesterday and were still together and have 2 sons 7 years apart lol but wow it sound like my story..
Awwe I love this!!🥺❤️
Also happy birthday!!❤️❤️❤️
Awww thank you so much.. that's how I know you 2 will last a life time they say we dont know what love is because were so young but some how we found a man who treats us like the only women on the planet and will do anything in his power for us and there kids if that's not love I dont know what is ..
Is anyone just watching the lights in the background?😂 Just me... ok🤣
ME😂😭
I am 😂
Me
I am 😂 lol 😆
Me
I had a heart attack telling my mom about my first boyfriend imagine having to tell them your pregnant 😖
Hehe same
Yes my first boyfreind his mom new then his mom told my mom she said ashy and haley are dating 💚❤ that is exactly what's she said with Hearts
Hehe same I did not I am 17 weeks pregnant.
echo omg! do you know the gender or names and have you told anyone girlie?
@@echoverigan8825 same!! I'm 100 weeks!!
your amazing your nice and you gave birth to the most amazing kid
Awee Thank you🥺❤️
Really true u so beautiful and wonderful and gorgeous god bless u
I recently found out I'm two months pregnant. I'll be 16 in a little over a month, and I'm terrified lmao. It's hard to even fathom raising a child while still growing up myself, but you give me inspiration and hope. Thank you:)
congradulations! i hope whatever decision you make is right for you🥰
@@janek4773 thank you!❤️❤️
@@kyungmiiiiiii Did you tell you parents? What was their reaction? Either way, I hope you're ok!
@@otterwithadarkside4422 I did, neither of them were thrilled about it because of my age, but still supportive. My dad was more upset than my mom but he's definitely gotten a lot more supportive and they're both excited for him to be born. I'm very fortunate to have such loving parents. And thank you!! I really appreciate it:)
@@kyungmiiiiiii Your welcome. I'm glad your parents support you. When is he due?
When you said “Sophia” I almost cried. That’s the name my boyfriend and I have loved forever. We had a conversation about baby names I liked the first day I went over to his house. I said “idk if you’re gonna like them” and when I said “Sophia” he got so happy it was the cutest.
I can’t imagine telling my mom! My parents are divorced and my dad’s side is known for teen pregnancies. My moms side is not. I live with my mom and she thinks I’m an angel. I can’t even imagine! You are so brave!
You are still angle sis.
Everybody make faults.
I’m so happy I found your channel. You are such a wonderful person and your love for your daughter is so amazing. I am so proud of both of you for sticking through the tough times.
Thank you so much that means so much to me🥺💞💞
Same shes so amazing
They are both such incredible parents! They are better parent to Sofia than 50% of ADULT couples with kids! You guys are amazing! Please keep being yourself & spreading love & positivity everywhere you & your amazing little family goes!
Honestly, I’ve watched a lot of these kind of videos and this one is the most real one I’ve watched, it’s nice to hear you were protected and he was but you still got pregnant, it shows the reality of the situation. I hate it when ppl say they didn’t wear protection and their was no birth control but then they say they were shocked when they found out, like what do you expect. But your story is so real ❤️❤️
May God bless Who ever is reading this
Can feel u on having a kid early. Found out was pregnant after a few months after turning 15. Same thing to. Didnt know bout chest being sore. And getting sick. Sore feet.
Now im 30 bout be 31 and shes 14 bout turn 15. .
. love ur channel brings back moments for all of us older people who did have kids early. Thank u.
And as time goes by u see how fast ur kids grow up right in front of ur eyes. Take lots of pics. Make tons of memories cause when years go by. U see how fast they do grow.
Seen few ur videos, great mother u are. Thank u for showing us ur story along the way.
i just told my mom im pregnant shes being very supportive im 17 rn (baby daddy is not in the picture) but shes just very supportive and i love it
Your a very strong woman keep your head up❤️❤️🪱
how did you tell her?
Was anyone else getting distracted by the lights in the background??? This was so cool to hear and I enjoyed learning more about your life and how this whole thing went down. Love you guys!
Op
You are so polite and you also radiate warmness.I can't believe how you and Xavier handled the pregnancy at such a young age.And Xavier is such a great guy btw
An amazing story I would love to hear about your labor story. Maybe even a Q and A one video? Stay amazing and love your videos💕☺
My mom was 16 when she got pregnant with me.... I watch a bunch of channels that have been pregnancies just bc I know how it feels and everything.... So this is.... This is just really heartwarming
My mom also got pregnant in the age of 16 and now I'm 23 :D
If that happened to me it would be really hard to tell my parents lol 😂
It was so hard I didn’t want to disappoint then:((
But girl don’t let it happen be extra careful!!❤️
Channa Blanchette ok lol 😂
Channa Blanchette :((
@@TheChanFam you don't need to werea
You’re story is so inspirational! People underestimate teen moms but, you are so amazing at your job of being a mom! Sofie (sorry if I spelled it wrong) she is the most beautiful little girl ever!
“I wanted to be able to Socialize” I have not done that in 8 months.
I was 17 when I had my son. Your story and mine were so close to each other. I am so related with your story. More power to you and your family❤️ Sending love from the Philippines🥰
You are so lucky for your parents....it is the most important thing in life! They support you and they love you 💓
You guys deserve Sophia! Such wonderful parents and an adorable family 💗🤍
Your boyfriend is so sweet and supportive. Mad props goes out to him. I just had to throw that out there. Keep your head up and don't let anyone try and bring you down. It's not being a mom at any age whether you're ready for it or not. It's lonelier being a single parent but you have really supportive people in your life. I strive to be this way because I never felt that in my life. (Well until recently that is). Anyway, good luck to all 3 of you and your families. And know you're in my prayers. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
This is so true omg! Sophia is lucky to have such amazing parents omg
The medication they put through your IV for preterm labor was Magnesium Sulfate. I’m surprised they didn’t send you home on Terbutaline.
For the kidney infection you were on a saline drip with IV antibiotics as well. They are so painful!!! (I’m a registered nurse)
I had my youngest at 35 weeks. She weighed 7-11 but stayed in the NICU for 7 days for respiratory distress and heart problems. She’s 23 now and just started graduate school.
Omg! She is one of the prettiest babies I have ever seen. Congrats
I hid mine for 5 months. 😅 I got pregnant at 17 I was a graduating senior high my son now is turning 3 and I'm 21. I love watching your videos ❤️ I'm excited for the new opening 😍 lots of love watching from the 🇵🇭
Such a good story, love your RUclips channel, you guys are so strong😊
you are so nice and beautiful and given you have a good life and beautiful kid
Me just staring at the lights the hole time. 👁👄👁
Same
Lol
You’ll get to spend decades longer with your family ❤️
Blessed family, god had a plan 😍(sorry if you have a different religious belief)
This is so emotional❤ god bless you and your family! And please say hello to my cutie pie Sophie 😚💕💕💕💕💕 bdw you are an inspiration this is not for you pick me for the comment of the week it just I felt so you got a really supportive boyfriend and you are so brave❤❤❤❤ good wishes to you.... Stay happy stay healthy and enjoy!!! 💖💖💖💖
You are such an amazing mother and Xavier is an amazing dad as well. Very proud of you guys 💞
Wow! You are so strong! Congrats for staying strong through all of that
Wait what-
@@lesandike what?
Hi! I just started watching your channel, and i think you are such a great mom! Im a young mom myself and luv the way you look after your daughter😊
it is good thing at the end because your child/children are a blessing ...
you and your family are some of the strongest people i have ever seen and i know you guys can get through anything!
You mentioned a lot of siblings on this video.... If its not a personal question how many siblings do you have total?
I have 6 siblings:)
@@TheChanFam I have 11 siblings that’s including 2 in law siblings though
@@TheChanFam I have 2 siblings
I have none 😂😂😭
@@evemitchell9094 u ar lucky
Sophie is really lucky to have you both as her parents
The Best Lovely Mother I ever Seen🥺🌸❤️
Your so pretty and such a amazing momma you have such a beautiful family ❤️
You have such an amazing husband 🙏🏽✨💕
It aint her husband it her boyfriend/baby daddy
It’s her boyfriend/Baby daddy
I admire u so much 💗 wow I can't even believe what you passed through 💕
You sis have lots of courage.
God bless you.
love this your story is so cute
I'd be terrified getting the test done at school, I feel like they'd force me to tell my parents or tell them themselves.
You are so beautiful and Sophia is so lucky to have a caring mom like you
24:53 same but I’m just deprived of sleep lol
But seriously though, you’re the sweetest and you guys are awesome!! Keep up the great work as parents and don’t let any stupid remarks get to you! You’re doing amazing 🤍
(happy I just found you guys)
God loves you no matter what choices you make or what you do.🙏
But imagine that you gonna be 25/26 yo when sophie is 10 btw I love your channel🥺💗
Can you do a video about how u finance things?
I'm glad your nurse didnt have a smart remark like my nurse. I was 26 when I went to the doctor and the nurse that was checking my vitals and all that when I got back into the room. She said if this comes out positive I hope its mister right, and wasnt mister right now! I looked at her and said yeah, weve been together for almost 9 years. She then asked, oh how many kids do you already have now? I told her none! Not that your condescending tone in your remarks, and comments matter, they arent appropriate even if I did have other kids, or him and I arent together. She didnt come back in the room to give me the test to go take, or the rest of my visit.
I don’t support teen pregnancy but I support teen mothers. They are two very different things that the government in many countries (mine included ( Russia)) don’t distinguish.
Love your channel and u can do anything
He was always with you😢👏👏👏👏
I have a friend who had a 3 year old son at 16. I haven’t personally asked her about her story as she doenst live at home anymore so ik it’s not a positive one. So glad the dad stayed in the picture.
Aww I love this soo much 🥺
“Like I waited” AHAHAHHAHA 😭
You guys are so adorable
I have a question, how old where your siblings (3-12) or like (13-18, sorry if it’s to personal
I love how your parents and friends supported you throughout the pregnancy.Sophie is indeed very lucky.
I love your videos 🖤
You are a good mother sis 😍😍
Take a shot everytime she says uhhmm 🤣
I love your videos
I'm sorry to watch this so late....... Forgive meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!! I forgot to watch it and remembered today....
Your amazing I love you guys x
How many siblings do you have?
Love your vids BTW ❤❤❤😍
She has 5 siblings
I just wouldn’t tell them 😂 I would give birth, take care of my baby, send them off to college, have them be parents, and then maybe I’ll tell my parents that I had a child. (Jk obviously no one could do that 🤣 🤣 😝
I'm 16 i had been with my boyfriend (my now ex) for about 6 months .. when we started being active .. after that I started have symptoms, have not took a pregnancy test .. since 4 months have passed and I believe I may be pregnant .. any advice ..
Take a test ASAP. If you are you need to know for definite so you can decide what to do if you are x
S MDS , do you have someone older to talk to. Finding some support people would be a good idea.
@@Cate7451 yes .. actually I have his mom and one of his older female cousin's.. I just need to find a way to go buy and take a test . Asap
W
You are doing amazing
Bdw I'm here after one year😗 actually I'm watching your all vedios bdw I love your current intro that's so cute and this old one is also so awesome because it have my favorite flowers and always my cutie pie Sophie 💖💖💖💖💖
Id love it if you could tell me your secret to long hair i miss mine being that length so bad! I had to chopnit all off after having my daughter cause ot was literally falling out
ur so prettyyy
Love your outfit
It’s really good that Xavier didn’t leave her
Ya he is such a good boyfriend
Your amazing! (Also kept it from me you little shit lol) I think I almost died when I found out! ❤️ we love you all ! Ps the kids miss you so much
She is like superwoman she is just WOW
Great job❤
Did you do online? school I’m pregnant at 16 and I don’t know what to do?
Your question isn't directed at me, and I don't have any kids, but I work in a school and I'm studying to be a teacher so I thought I'd give my best advice.
If you're someone who is self-driven academically, online school is a great option for you. Online classes are helpful for someone with a tight or unpredictable schedule, because you can work on things when you have time instead of trying to work everything else around your classes. I can imagine pregnancy and having a baby would mean an interesting schedule.
If you find it difficult to do things without someone you're accountable to (like a teacher) online school is probably not a great option. I have ADD and I struggle with procrastination and staying on task, so online school is extremely difficult for me, but right now it's my only option (thanks COVID).
I wish you all the best, I hope you're able to find something that works for you! In my opinion, education is so important.
Thx you
Dean Edwards that's good advice.
Uh....you have a male name and you joined RUclips in 2013 that would make you pretty young to be on the internet unattended with a RUclips channel....quit your lying, you're not 16 or pregnant
1 I’m on my dads RUclips account and he trusts me an why do u care it’s my life not yours so don’t say anything
You are looking damn beautiful
awww bebi i feel bad :( but you have a cute lil bebiii now!! yayyyyy
OH NO I HAD KIDNEY INFECTION TOO AT 9 YEARS OLD THE PAIN IN MY BACK WAS SOO BAD I COULDNT HANDLE IT I KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE IS JUST THE WORST.
Hey WHAT IS THAT at 19:24 in the bottom right corner of the screen???????
If anyone knows her closely,
Please make her aware of this!!!!!!!
What is that? Is it Sophia????
Please answer I am really freaked out right now
that’s someone getting in/out of their car lol
I was 18 and still got judged for it and I still didn't tell anyone at first maybe the first month then I told everyone and since ig I wasn't showing enough no one believed me until I actually had him and then everyone wanted to start trying to be there for me when i had already done and had him
I’m 20 and get judged for having a daughter!
Kinda surprised that immediately after finding out they started giving you papers and stuff. I get that they were trying to help but you hadn't even had a moment to think about anything.
Best family ever!!! 😆
I still haven’t told my mom i’ve got my period (had it for almost 9 months) i can’t imagine telling her i was pregnant (luckily im waiting till marriage)
This video was in my recommendations and I taped on it. I think I might just stick around and subscribe.
I literally binge her channel now lol, this family is soooo cute.
My mom told me how it worked when i was only 6 im 9 now
Damn I was 8
I'd like to watch another video!
my cousin is the result of a teen pregnancy. my cousins mum was completely different to you. my cousin dad isent in the picture and my cousins mums dad and step mum ended up with the baby.
I love you family I hope you have a good day
All y’all are amazing
Ahh, the gruesome task of telling your dad about girl stuff lol
Your best friend that you regret not telling, (Aleeya, sorry if I spelt it wrong) she has the same name as me. I spell it Aliyah but that's not a common way to spell it so I spelt it aleeya
I get it and all but I’m sorry your mom told your siblings like that.