story time | 17 & pregnant pt. 1

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  • @thabatanarvaez1168
    @thabatanarvaez1168 4 года назад +512

    The tremble in her voice when she would speak about certain things 🥺. You are such a strong woman. God put you through that because he KNEW that you could handle it and push through❤️

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +17

      Thank you so much!!! 🤍🤍🤍

    • @KeiyaHood
      @KeiyaHood 4 года назад +1

      Exactly my thoughts... she is strong and this gives me such respect for her.

    • @nwabisasibanda4622
      @nwabisasibanda4622 3 года назад

      @@ajanarie you are a strong woman

    • @lacoyianichelle
      @lacoyianichelle 2 года назад

      God doesn’t put us through nothing. we have free will. sometimes the devil will throw trials at you hoping you’ll fall into that temptation and mess up but the devil can’t make you do those things. we are weak humans so we fall. and also satan can’t tempt you with more than you can bear because God doesn’t allow it. and sometimes if it is more than you can bear it’s because of your free will you decided to put yourself in that situation that was more than you can bear *bare < sorry anyway so yea but don’t forget God’s love for you although we put ourselves in sticky situations that feels like they’re more than we can bare God’s grace and mercy is so powerful that He can bring you out of that situation because your problems are Not and never will be more than HE can bare! Amén! ☝🏽
      1 corinthians 10:13
      There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
      james 1:13
      Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man:

  • @Liyahbeat
    @Liyahbeat 4 года назад +437

    When your dog started growling on that part of the story, I started rolling! He def knew what was up! lol

  • @jt3409
    @jt3409 4 года назад +471

    When a man loves a particular women for whatever reason, he will do the absolute most. I’m glad that you could accept that fact and move on at such a young age. Then you have the older chicks who are just happy to have ANY man. Good for you girl, it’s sad women who experience the same things can cause so much pain to another, those chicks will bring you down and rarely prosper.

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +23

      yes. the key to life is to really root for other females!

    • @KeiyaHood
      @KeiyaHood 4 года назад +4

      I was thinking as I was listening that he probably needed a place to stay after release from his incarceration. However, in hindsight, Aja benefitted from his cowardice. It's funny how the spirit moves. Greatness is her destiny although he gave her the gift of Harper.

  • @wickededogirl
    @wickededogirl 4 года назад +447

    "I make jokes about everything to make things minor"

    • @xoxoroxlo
      @xoxoroxlo 4 года назад +2

      Same.

    • @LuhNuba
      @LuhNuba 3 года назад +1

      It’s the username for me😍😍 keep it up girl you’re doing great 🇸🇩🤝🇳🇬

  • @jailencotton
    @jailencotton 4 года назад +1535

    To anyone reading this Jesus loves you.

  • @indiagolddd
    @indiagolddd 4 года назад +179

    The dogg new what was up , he knew who yu was talkin bout. He meant them growls with his whole heart.

  • @creamysoft
    @creamysoft 4 года назад +211

    I’m so sorry you had to go thru all of that during your pregnancy, it definitely didn’t sound easy. God gives his toughest battles to His strongest soldiers 💕 I can tell Harper is the highlight of your life, she made it all worth it ✨

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +6

      thank you so much!

  • @brandymichele885
    @brandymichele885 4 года назад +46

    You are very transparent person & very relatable. Nothing like everyone else who tries to paint this perfect image❤️ can’t wait to see me content

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +2

      thank you sooo much!

  • @ceenoerror00
    @ceenoerror00 4 года назад +64

    I cried every time you did. I just made content on this topic being 15 & pregnant and was hesitant about posting but this video made me feel ok ❤️

    • @89bsimone
      @89bsimone 4 года назад +2

      15 & preg! Same sis SAME

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +8

      it was scary for me to, but sharing our story could really help others. Tuning into yours now.

  • @gabshrtz4541
    @gabshrtz4541 4 года назад +61

    :( omg girl you’re so strong. i wanted to give you a hug when you started to cry! he’s going to regret everything he said. his baby momma? screw her, they’re going to see you do so good & be mad asf but keep it pushing boo 🙌🏽 God got you and your babygirl.
    im currently 6 weeks pregnant and i cant imagine going through what you did bc im not that strong 😭 props to you. 🤍

  • @RealBreannaNicole
    @RealBreannaNicole 4 года назад +64

    This video showed up on my RUclips and I just clicked it, I just wanna say you’re so strong to have went through what you went through from your family to your daughters father not being there. I’m happy you made it through and doing well💕. I’ve been told if I get pregnant at my age (I’m 19) that I have to get my shit & get out so I’d really have no support system I can’t say I understand because I’ve never went through it but I know what it feels like to be alone I’m not really close with my family either I just have my few friends I have and the person I’m talking to they’re the not support system I have so I’m glad you made it through hopefully I make it through what I’m going through emotionally some day✨.

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +5

      thank you love. sending so much positive energy your way. it's super hard, but you can overcome anything thrown your way. If you ever want to talk please feel free to reach out to me, I'm here!

    • @RealBreannaNicole
      @RealBreannaNicole 4 года назад +1

      aja narie thank you so much it means a lot❤️

    • @yourcupoftea5066
      @yourcupoftea5066 4 года назад

      @@ajanarie can u support bk plz

    • @yourcupoftea5066
      @yourcupoftea5066 4 года назад

      @@RealBreannaNicole can u support bk plz

  • @tyradaniela
    @tyradaniela 4 года назад +21

    you’re so brave and strong to be able share your story, literally the whole time watching this video i wanted to hug you.

    • @ebony7866
      @ebony7866 4 года назад

      Lawd girl girls been getting pregnant young since the years of time not nothing new old ass news handle it keep moving

  • @kendeetore1430
    @kendeetore1430 4 года назад +47

    Your story officially inspired me to make my own youtube channel. Im literally due in 3 weeks and ive been alone throughout the entire pregnancy to find out my childs father is having another baby when i was 6 months.

  • @dede10127
    @dede10127 4 года назад +32

    makes me so emotional because as a teen mom i can relate 100%. I love my daughter more than words could ever explain ❤️ she just turned 1 on the 13th

  • @Luxurious.shayyy
    @Luxurious.shayyy 4 года назад +21

    When u said idc who helps don’t care about anybody opinions is my same response right now while being pregnant.. 💕❤️ thanks for sharing

    • @camiller958
      @camiller958 4 года назад +4

      nakira calcote I’m not pregnant but I feel the same way. You can live your life perfectly, get married, have degrees and perfect kids and people would still talk shit about you. Might as well live my life how I want lol

    • @camiller958
      @camiller958 4 года назад +1

      nakira calcote also congrats about your pregnancy!

  • @Retrokiddd95
    @Retrokiddd95 4 года назад +40

    This is so relatable for me! My daughter’s father said it wasn’t his baby either when I was 6 months also. I love being a mom but I also probably wouldn’t have gone through with it. Women are so resilient though!!!

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +1

      yes we are! we can do everything.

  • @brittanypichon
    @brittanypichon 4 года назад +165

    We literally have the same EXACT story! Literally the hardest time of my life delivered at 7 months almost at 6 because of the stress and stayed in the hospital for 2 months with my daughter in NICU and home schooled my senior year. My baby girl
    Is 9 now ❤️

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +15

      I’m so sorry you had to go through that and go through a scare having her early! So happy to hear you both overcame everything 🤍

  • @bellaskys485
    @bellaskys485 4 года назад +38

    I knew you was from a philly with that accent. So strong and your daughter name is so cute .

  • @Maddygurl12304996
    @Maddygurl12304996 4 года назад +32

    Your dog growling had me dying. He knew what was up lol

  • @deelaurent
    @deelaurent 4 года назад +3

    Aww😭🥺 this story is so sad but heartwarming to know your doing better now. You are so strong and amazing for pushing through💓 Wish you the best

  • @danamarriee
    @danamarriee 4 года назад +31

    I also didn’t enjoy my pregnancy. Wasn’t a teen mom, I was 22. But I was emotionally beat down, and physically sick the entire time. No one understood, no one but my mom was there. When you were explaining that part, I felt you 100%. Being a mom really teaches you you don’t need anyone but your child. ❤️

  • @ThoseNigerianTwins
    @ThoseNigerianTwins 4 года назад +3

    This video literally brought me to tears as you cried. I know you’re not in that situation anymore but somehow I wish I could have been the friend or support you needed...I just want to say you are truly an amazing woman. I am so glad to see you and your daughter doing amazing. Sending goodness and positivity you way. Much love ❤️

  • @jazzyfrench11
    @jazzyfrench11 4 года назад +4

    you talking about strong. honey, your daughter has a warrior as a mother and for you to have the courage to tell every detail is absolutely commendable!

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад

      Thank you so much 🥺

  • @AlexisTyonne
    @AlexisTyonne 4 года назад +10

    I’m not a mom but something drew me to this video. You’re so strong and inspirational mamas ❤️❤️

  • @vivianemdrs
    @vivianemdrs 4 года назад +7

    Watching this video made me really want to just hug you! You’re a strong a*s female. ♥️

  • @lexipeace4493
    @lexipeace4493 4 года назад +152

    So proud of , love this content . That one dislike is that hating Babymom !

  • @littlemisskcv
    @littlemisskcv 4 года назад +16

    Awww Aja, I've been following you since your Tumblr days and I am so proud to see how far you've come!

  • @sayohaisuxela3011
    @sayohaisuxela3011 3 года назад +57

    I love this so much! Before getting pregnant I was one of those people like “why complain about your BD you chose him” in reality, we don’t know these men until we’re actually CARRYING their child. That’s when true colors show. My view on women and pregnancy is so different. I know this is old and you’re in a much better space but, I love you & im so happy you made it through.

  • @amodevinee135
    @amodevinee135 4 года назад +9

    i cried with u , im literally 7months now we are in the same boat. wow i love u ur strong!!!

  • @Abbas_Daughters
    @Abbas_Daughters 4 года назад +2

    You are so beautiful & transparent! Babies areee truly blessings! I LOVEE being a mom! It is HARD tho especially being a single mom & not having any contribution from the father, but every bit of worth it! Realize he is missing out on a beautiful blessing!!!!!! Nothing good comes those who don’t take care of their kids! Straight up! & I was 24 and was a first time mom at 23 I couldn’t imagine having a child at 17! I admire you! I can’t imagine how you felt at that time 😪😪 I went through my pregnancy alone & it was beyond hurtful! You should have never went through that! & I hope and pray you continue to Keep pushing 😘😘😘

  • @lifeofbrianaxj8705
    @lifeofbrianaxj8705 4 года назад +18

    Awww you made me cry when u started crying ❤️

  • @geysha01
    @geysha01 4 года назад +9

    You did the right thing! Plus look at you, you made it! For sure it's hard but nothing is easy in life. The decision you made wasn't a mistake at all

  • @withlovekeionna
    @withlovekeionna 3 года назад +2

    You’re so beautiful..I loved hearing your story and I pray that you have healed from your experiences. Your story is truly a testament that it does gets better and I know this has helped so many women, including myself. Your daughter is a blessing and I enjoy watching your videos and her being there with you. You have turned a negative situation into a positive one and I’m so inspired by you because of that. I wish you so much success and love and happiness this year and all the years to come🤍 thank you for being so authentic and true to yourself.

  • @ForeverAngela
    @ForeverAngela 4 года назад +4

    I just stumbled upon this video and I got emotional watching it because I went through the exact same ish. You're strong and I respect you for that

  • @genesisfernandez3337
    @genesisfernandez3337 4 года назад +4

    I'm so proud of you. This story made me emotional as well. I'm happy you were strong for yourself and your baby.

  • @JJuheard
    @JJuheard 4 года назад +13

    Girl you’re gonna be a great mom. Just stay focused and don’t let anyone get in your way of succeeding ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Keanujennings
    @Keanujennings 4 года назад +3

    I went through this exact same thing. It’s sooo not fun :( when you cried, I CRIED bc I genuinely can feel and relate! Going through some things right now & this is just making me push through it. Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @Itssatta.2
    @Itssatta.2 3 года назад +3

    Yes! You change after your baby . You have this inner feeling to always give it your all, even if you don’t succeed the first time. I had my son when I was working on my undergraduate degree and let me tell you, he gave my a purpose to not fall behind and to get my degree no matter what obstacle I hit. Now I’m putting in an application for grad school.

  • @brittanyelaine3601
    @brittanyelaine3601 4 года назад +8

    It’s so crazy to hear you tell this story because it’s literally like I’m listening to myself tell it . I went through almost the exact same thing to the T . Babys dad in jail gets out disappears at the end of my pregnancy him having three baby moms including me and me being the youngest. jus everything . I went to everything alone . Shopping alone, appointments alone I didnt even have a baby shower . even how my pregnancy was the most depressing time because how I felt was I’m going through everything I told my self I would never go through a young single mom I never took pictures I never told anyone . I never told ANY family until the day I was going into labor and that was to ask my grandpa if he could drop me off at the hospital. I feel you 100% and like someone else said in the comments god never gives you anything you can’t handle and it’s so true . It’s also so true how you never knew you could love someone so much until you have a baby. But anywho I’m def subscribing lol . I love watching people I can relate too . And your beautiful btw . 💜💜💜

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much 🤍

  • @famatakostini4245
    @famatakostini4245 4 года назад +11

    I'm so proud of you honey..Hearing your story makes me to subscribe straight away...We almost have the same story..I'm 26 years old and I got pregnant at 17 and gave birth at 18.Now my son will be 9 years old in 2 months time..He was also born on the 24th of April
    The only difference with my story is that he was 3 years older than me and he never wanted my baby..And till today he doesn't want any relationship with his son.Cause from day one he asked me to choose between him and my child and when ofcourse I chose to keep the pregnancy he left and he never cared..My mum left me too and at that time I had only my twin sister who stood by me..It was really hard at that time and I was at my last year in school..I went throughout my pregnancy at school..He also denied my son and during my pregnancy I almost committed suicide cause while I was pregnant on the 5th month he was on holidays with his new girlfriend..I was abandoned from everyone except my beloved sister...You are strong and God will always protect you and your pretty daughter..I am so proud of you that you really push through..

  • @MsHonee
    @MsHonee 4 года назад +5

    Definitely an Aries ♈️ stubborn , silly and strong 💪🏽 beautiful that you can open up and be so raw !! Your special a natural ⭐️!

    • @yaritzav982
      @yaritzav982 4 года назад

      I knew that's why I vibed with her so well lol!!

  • @TheSS1320
    @TheSS1320 4 года назад +154

    The woman who tormented you is dealing with her karma now. The baby father he going to regret denying her and it’s going break his soul one day.

    • @tamika1
      @tamika1 4 года назад +2

      Nelly Nell True! I’m 22 and my dad was NEVER their for me. No text, call anything. Until my sister got pregnant (we’re twins) and I swear the tables turned. He was living his karma but I think that broke him and he just cried out for forgiveness.

  • @whoisbriana
    @whoisbriana 4 года назад +1

    I love that your school had to support group for y’all ❣️ Truly amazing the resources we have these days.

  • @evadiva238
    @evadiva238 4 года назад +27

    Girl you are so strong 🥰🥰 I’m currently pregnant with my first child I’m 24 and I’m so happy you shared your story. My boyfriend has always been by my side I can’t imagine having this baby alone without support. But I’m glad you overcame this tough obstacle and you now have a beautiful baby girl

    • @SharieMonique781
      @SharieMonique781 4 года назад +1

      evadiva238 I’m 24 and pregnant with my first child as well. I feel like my bf is the only person I have.

  • @Lindsay1930
    @Lindsay1930 4 года назад +10

    I'm sorry you had to go through all this. I went through similar issues with my family and children grandparents. I have 2 sets of twins. My children father was in the Navy and from Madrid. His family has money and they tried to take my children away and a lot more after my children father got killed. They wanted nothing to do with my children until he got killed. My children, grief, hate for my mother and children grandparents has taught and made me stronger and a better parent. I'm a travel photographer and I flip homes. I have 4 haters to, identical girls 22 and a boy and girl 5 with they 4 fur babies (dogs). Through prayer you can get through anything

  • @hannahrizzo486
    @hannahrizzo486 4 года назад +6

    So proud of you; stay strong 💪🏽

  • @danekadomino-lind2839
    @danekadomino-lind2839 4 года назад +35

    Omg my son was born 8 days before my birthday and I was 17 when I had him. I am 23 turning 24 in a week

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +4

      happy almost birthday!

    • @danekadomino-lind2839
      @danekadomino-lind2839 4 года назад +4

      aja narie thank you 😊 I experienced the same preconception that I was going to end up dropping out of school by my mom. I ended up graduating early..... statistics show that if your parents were teen parents the child is more likely to be a teen parent.

  • @kiaashelton5487
    @kiaashelton5487 4 года назад +3

    Love your transparency you’re so strong mama !

  • @sincerelaughter1561
    @sincerelaughter1561 4 года назад +1

    I paused at 31:00. You are strong!!!! Only thing I want to say, I am amazed you made it that far with all the negative people you had in your life. I know the end of this story will be amazing because of certain key words I picked up on you saying. Good things happen to everyone and our lives unfold as our thoughts do, and our hearts do. Your heart I picked up on is gold. This story is gold. You’re amazing.

  • @starsanchez7078
    @starsanchez7078 4 года назад +1

    I loved hearing your teen pregnancy story. I too am a teen mom and got pregnant at 16. I am sorry for everything you had to go through, you’re a strong momma ❤️

  • @aelpink77
    @aelpink77 4 года назад +16

    Listening to you talk about this was so powerful and I can’t imagine going through all that! Thanks for sharing 💞

  • @breeannasimmons8960
    @breeannasimmons8960 4 года назад +9

    You’re soo pretty! Soo glad you pushed thru!

  • @JanayCrowe
    @JanayCrowe 4 года назад

    THANK YOU!!! For being so vulnerable and sharing your story with the world!! It's so uncanny how similar our journey to and through motherhood is - except I'm a "few" years older than you 🤫! Lol I had my 1st when I just turned 18 too - I can so relate. Always remember, you were CHOSEN for this path for a reason and you're doin it sis! Raising Queens is bound to be a mission but, soooooooo worth it! Much love! ❤👸🏾

  • @deirdredanna5291
    @deirdredanna5291 2 года назад

    Amazing testimony!. Remember what you went through wasn’t just for you, this story had to be shared. There’s light and a rainbow in the end. I am so proud of you, you are beautiful, intelligent, strong and kind. God has so many great things in store for you. Many blessings to you and your family

  • @katelynmattus5128
    @katelynmattus5128 4 года назад +1

    I have never watched one of these videos fully before and you’re the first I have ever watched a full video of. I don’t know you but I am so proud of you. You’re a beautiful human!

  • @jessicashanel5043
    @jessicashanel5043 4 года назад +1

    I love your transparency! You’re blessed and so is your daughter! Keep pushing! 💜🙏🏽

  • @taleiah12
    @taleiah12 4 года назад +17

    Hey this is my first time watching you and I would like to say just know that everything will be OK. I had my son at 17 as well he is now 11 and I’m 28. I finish h.s. , got my bachelors in business and etc . Point being your not alone and we got this sis ! Btw ur gorg 💜

  • @SlimTVVV
    @SlimTVVV 4 года назад +29

    Pregnancy is rough and family makes it worse i had a rough pregnancy however we can’t do no wrong in our daughters eyes . New sub 🤍

  • @elenashaddyboo
    @elenashaddyboo 4 года назад +2

    You are really brave
    When u started crying 😢 I cry too
    That’s me I cry each time I see good people with emotional stories but am really happy you keep your baby

  • @Janettaampofo
    @Janettaampofo 4 года назад +5

    The fact that you’re crying is making me cry too 😭😭

  • @philly13900
    @philly13900 4 года назад +5

    That pain ull never forget but ull learn to brush over it so u can move forward. This same thing happen to me. The same way she got him (messy) is the same way she lose him. Ure beautiful so keep doing what uve bee doing ma❤️. Thanks for sharing ur story I wish all ladies pregnant r have baby daddy issues will know they r loved n they can do it. Having a baby is not the end of life but ur child will b there when everyone leave u

    • @mhzJOYA
      @mhzJOYA 4 года назад

      philly13900 m

    • @mhzJOYA
      @mhzJOYA 4 года назад

      philly13900 mm

    • @mhzJOYA
      @mhzJOYA 4 года назад

      Mmm

  • @kaym6652
    @kaym6652 3 года назад +2

    This is the video i needed to listen to💯 cuz this is how its about to go for me n i jus dont feel so scared n stuff now hearing your story 💙

  • @timinwabuisi6494
    @timinwabuisi6494 4 года назад +2

    😞😞😞 you went through a lot... you’re so strong

  • @torib.1800
    @torib.1800 4 года назад +11

    I’m so happy I’ve found your channel!❤️

  • @Jessica-pn6pf
    @Jessica-pn6pf 4 года назад +2

    Damn her story made me cry i wish you and ur daughter a life time of happiness

  • @thesuitelifeofsl5152
    @thesuitelifeofsl5152 4 года назад +7

    I loved this story , im happy you had her ❤️

  • @MiahB222
    @MiahB222 4 года назад +1

    I appreciate you sharing this . So pure and genuine !! You are strong love , and powerful. S

  • @paulineward8590
    @paulineward8590 3 года назад

    Girl, look what you did. You survived all the bs, had a beautiful baby girl and look at you now! Flourishing and on baby #2! God is so good, ugh such an inspiration 🥂

  • @carlissafennell3475
    @carlissafennell3475 4 года назад +4

    Love your vulnerability, I instantly subscribed!!!

  • @TerriTV
    @TerriTV 4 года назад +2

    Omg so glad you stayed strong and are able to open up about it!

  • @Dosesofwhite
    @Dosesofwhite 4 года назад

    you're journey may not have been the easiest but you made it past all those obstacles. God used everything he put you through to build you. Look at you now strong , resilient ,and relentless. Every time you feel sad or uncertain of life look back on everything you've overcome. God bless you and your daughter, your story is very inspiring, girl you made me cry & I'm not one to cry lol . Thank you for being courageous and transparent and being living proof that's there light at the end of tunnel.

  • @hakimakerroum1298
    @hakimakerroum1298 4 года назад

    I didn't find a word to describe how strong and patient you are 💪💪💪 don't give up and keep going, your daughter needs you ❤️❤️

  • @ayylien51
    @ayylien51 3 года назад

    I just want to tell you that you are so strong. Im so sorry for what you had to go through. I dont hate nothing more than a man that gets a woman pregnant and doesnt step up.

  • @tareenadrane9231
    @tareenadrane9231 2 года назад

    Aja, it's crazy how similar our stories are. My daughters birthday is 11 days after mine, & I also was 17 and pregnant and had my daughter at 18 years old. You are such an inspiration. When you filmed your video about your son I felt every emotion and cried with you. I just really admire you & I am thankful that you have this platform because there are not a lot of people who can relate to a story so deep & the depth of the life you live as a teen mom.

  • @NavadineAntoinette
    @NavadineAntoinette 4 года назад +3

    Loool when you started laughing “I thought this shit only happen on tv, this a real support group😅”

  • @themsyourhighness
    @themsyourhighness 10 месяцев назад

    Ok your story just inspired me to open up about my teen pregnancy. I’m 36 and still never fully opened up about it. I know this video is old but whew.

  • @jaccimurray3998
    @jaccimurray3998 4 года назад +4

    I went through this exact same situation. I hated myself and I cried all the time. You are such a strong person it’s okay to cry. I had my mother and father to hold my hand. It’s hard to experience this by yourself. But, you can do it. One thing I wish I could have done was allow him to totally stay out of the picture and raise my son with my family. I’m 40 now and my son is 20. Looking back I ca

    • @jaccimurray3998
      @jaccimurray3998 4 года назад

      nt believe I did it. I did though. I’m a strong woman from my experiences. Your will and determination will allow you to make it love. I promise. And to all those young moms who have experienced this heartbreak while caring a baby. I’m praying for you. You can do it no matter how hard it gets. I love y’all!

  • @clairerenee1660
    @clairerenee1660 4 года назад

    You're beautiful, naturally beautiful! . Keep making youtube videos, and story times. Your channel will come far and you deserve all the coin sis!!

  • @RenaeRowena
    @RenaeRowena 4 года назад +15

    Your dog tho..... so on cue , lol
    Sorry you went through so much hun , Harper is beautiful just like her momma , you are so strong and mature for your age .... Continue to be a great mom to Harper 💕

  • @KendallArianna
    @KendallArianna 4 года назад +1

    Just came across your channel and instantly subscribed just because of your story! YOU ARE AMAZING THATS ON PERIODDDDDDDD GIRL I wish you nothing but love and happiness for the rest of your life

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад

      Thank you soooo much!

  • @zamyrajett
    @zamyrajett 4 года назад +2

    Im I’ll be 17 in 3 months and I’m currently experiencing what u been going through with my pregnancy as well and I’m 35 weeks pregnant . But I really loved your video And I loved how your getting yourself through this!!💖💖 because it’s not hard.

  • @KierraJayy
    @KierraJayy 4 года назад +1

    You are so beautiful, sweet, & strong! I don't even know you, but I love you, girl & I am so proud of you! I have never felt so connected to a RUclips, but you are a gift from God. I pray that God continues to use you to be an example for others.

  • @prfctlymprfctbeauty
    @prfctlymprfctbeauty 4 года назад +1

    You never know how strong you are until you're a mother ❤

  • @kaylamiska8393
    @kaylamiska8393 4 года назад

    Girl you are so strong. Glad you made it and are successful and have a baby girl now. You dealt with their shit and now he suffers because he dint have you.

  • @jadasugar22
    @jadasugar22 4 года назад

    God gives the toughest battles to the most strongest people. And baby you are STRONG. I had so much support from family and husband during my pregnancy and STILL was depressed and full of emotions. I can only imagine what you went through😭😭

  • @karaniqueskorner
    @karaniqueskorner 4 года назад +2

    Grown woman fighting with you like it’s going to change the fact that she was his baby.🙄 but I relate a lot to your story. I’m so sorry you had to go through something that should be so exciting, rough.
    I regret not taking enough photos when pregnant with all my babies (28 with 5). But I’m glad you got some.

  • @LizzerzWasX
    @LizzerzWasX 4 года назад +7

    Girl I went to the ER when my test came back positive too. 😹 the nurse scolded me & told me I was wasting time and everything. My friend had to treat her. Lbs I was 19 & scared asf.

  • @laurenscorner373
    @laurenscorner373 4 года назад +1

    Wow this was powerful I got pregnant at 21 and my daughters father left me and I was so depressed I didn’t function properly and it caused so many health problems I’ve never come across someone on RUclips who I felt like I related until now to I also did not embrace my pregnancy and it was heartbreaking thank you so much for sharing your story with the world although it was a heartbreaking story I can tell you have come out stronger. You are a bright light and so beautiful thank you for this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @wickededogirl
    @wickededogirl 4 года назад +9

    *OMFGGGGG* I thought I was the only one who doesn't know when my period is gon come!!!

  • @mstval3869
    @mstval3869 4 года назад

    Your so strong mama. Your enough for that baby and Ik you already know all dis Buh it makes you stronger and your such a beautiful woman Inside out.

  • @ninacubana
    @ninacubana 4 года назад +18

    Now that i am 24 i wish i got married sooner and had babies already. Life is not about working or studying to me i want to enjoy and feel happy

  • @kellzzjay2227
    @kellzzjay2227 4 года назад

    The most authentic, brave and heartfelt video I've ever seen on RUclips. Keep rising and may your enemies be your footstool!

  • @CARELIA16
    @CARELIA16 4 года назад +5

    You just gained a new follower❤️

  • @melissamenkeng1615
    @melissamenkeng1615 4 года назад +1

    your so strong, thank you for sharing your story ❤️

  • @DreeAndK3
    @DreeAndK3 4 года назад +1

    even though you have accepted it talking bout it brings you back to that time. i definitely can relate. idk how this showed up but thanks for sharing 💕

    • @ajanarie
      @ajanarie  4 года назад +1

      Thank YOU for watching 🤍

  • @daisykaee
    @daisykaee 4 года назад +1

    You’re so strong! This is the first video I’ve ever watched and I subscribed! Thanks for sharing your story 🤍🦋

  • @tupo_m
    @tupo_m 4 года назад +59

    "This some real suburban caucasian stuff" 💀😂

  • @briannadonado3829
    @briannadonado3829 4 года назад

    You were and ARE so strong mamas!! I wish you and your family nothing but the best in life ❤️✨💪🏼

  • @KeiyaHood
    @KeiyaHood 4 года назад

    Aja, Harper is your gift from heaven to give you the courage to carry on and do the impossible for the both of you. Although I was not a teen mom, my daughter changed my life also. She gave my life purpose and I grew up. Please baby girl, dry your tears. My heart goes out to you for what you have endured, but joy comes in the morning. Today... is ... morn. Bless you and your daughter always.

  • @user-kw8zh2mj7y
    @user-kw8zh2mj7y 4 года назад

    Aw bless you, you're so strong 🤍