Sooo true...and the jacked up part of this...there are women out there who once you tell them you don't want them, they can't take that for what it is and walk away no matter HOW many times you say it, show it or both.
Muhammad Ali basically said the same thing back in the day. He said " Never go where you're not wanted! Never force your company on anyone! And never beg anyone for their company!" And that goes for both men and women.
After being in a toxic relationship from 05/2015- 09/23/2019, I saw the 💡. Because on that day, after being supportive on a new endeavor that my ex was embarking on, he responded to me in this fashion….”F*** off, I don’t want you, & find somebody else.” As horrific as the remark was, on 11/06/2020 I met the Love of My Life & we’ll be getting married this summer 07/2022. So to my ex, Frank …THANK YOU FOR SETTING ME FREE!!!!
Looking back with hindsight on my situation...he SHOWED me everyday that he didn’t want me anymore. I chose to live in denial and pain for our daughter and my lifestyle. He never told me the words “I don’t want you” he showed me. He didn’t want to be the one to end things, so he pushed me. I left after three years, a shell of the woman I once was. I’m rebuilding my life and myself. So happy and excited to have another opportunity at a happy life and someday, a healthy love.
What you have said has exactly happened to me. Through his actions he showed me he didn't want me, even though I would try my hardest to keep him happy it was like anything I did was not good enough so il tell him "I think it's time we break up," but he didn't like the sound of that and would try & argue with me about it making me out that it's my fault. I wanted out because I would of rather be alone then be in a relationship with someone who wasn't 100% Real with me. It was all fake love. I ain't dumb I knew exactly why he tried to hang on to me was for his benefits. I'm now 6days out of this relationship and I know as each day goes by I'm more closer to getting myself back, getting myself healed again and living a happy life
You will be fine...the more you take care of yourself....the less effect he will have had on you. He was probably a narcissist. Those things are everywhere...they don't even seem like people....a different species I'd say🤔🤨🥴
a female friend once said to me.when she felt her ex was cold. she just packed up and left.now he was asking question.she lived her life the way she wanted and now she is engaged to a man who Massage her feet every night.meaning there is a better man out there for every woman. never settle for less.
the second women was right man dnt decide breakup quickly coz they always want keep that door open just incase they gt to go through again I have experience it ....
Shadia Ali your are 100 percent correct. Men like too keep the door open your the back up plan. If new the relationship don't work out. In his mind he believes. He can comeback too you. I nail the door shut not reopen again. I'm at place in my life right now. I don't need any details once you tell me you want out that's closure for me. It clear you don't want me their is nothing else too talk about deuces!!!!
Men always weight in all their options no man is just going to break up with a woman without having another girl in place. So he uses that month to weight the pros & cons and will finally decide if she worth it or not. If the answer is yes there will be no break up if the answer is no then he will leave you but already has that other girl lined up so there is no loss.
not necessarily... I had to break up with a girl cos after 6years, there were grey areas that i know for sure i can't allow or take into Marriage... It was painful but i had no girl lined up. I just had to do what was best for me. So your theory may not entirely be correct. BTW, she is my first and only relationship as of then
DeeRock Im sorry to hear that you two went on different paths but in my theory I was siding with what Steve said. The majority of men will have a side piece/back up plan if they do decide to leave there woman. not all men but a good 98%
+dj french you're right. it's like a job. A man isn't ending the relationship (even if he isn't satisfied) unless there's someone else to go to. It's why you see men in long relationships they aren't happy in. Haven't found a replacement so not enough impetus to leave.
***** That's the point...So assume the lady knows how to cook, or she is nice at something(whatever the thing may be).. A guy could get her to cook all his food, or just get whatever benefits she has until he's ready to move on.. You can call it dependency.. but that's a woman's language. A man really don't look at it that way since he has switched his emotion. Just say he will use her for as long as he can. Men tend to have control of their emotion more than women.
"Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once." True! She right, cuz there ain't no way imma let myself drag down to let a relationship stay together that you don't want no more. I'm not gonna let myself go crazy over no man.
They're all correct. 1. Lou-Anne: When women are done, they're done! 2. Kim: Keeping the bridge open! 3. Lynn: "Don't ever let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once!" 4. Steve: 98% it has something to do with another woman.
"When a woman is done, she's done" and "never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once"...SO TRUE!!! I knew a guy who held on for a loooooong time after his fiance broke up with him. He did this in vain hoping that she would change her mind, plus he wanted to know where he "stood" with her as well. After a while, he decided to move on because he realized that she had moved on shorty after the break up.
a woman will hold on for dear life. but when she's done she's done!!! so I do agree with the study. and also what Steve said....when a man's done it's normally because of another woman not because the current one isn't good enough. when a woman's done it's normally because she's tired of crap.
She's usually nagging you because you're not handling your responsibilities as a man and the fact that you would run away to another woman instead of being accountable and bettering yourself shows that you're not even worth holding on to.
my hubby left after new yr .left me with a baby. we been together for 6 yrs. married for 2 yrs. he left said bec he needed to save money n lived with his co wrker female n 3 of her minor kids. it hurts me to my core.until today i dnt undesrtand why he left. i done everything to be a good wife. im really hurt.
@@honeybarnett9299 I'm sorry that happened to you. Please watch assc direct on RUclips. Quinn specializes in NPD. I think this will help you now and in the future 😇
Great advice.. When says hes out. Let his sorry but go... I know it hurts and let him go anyway.. From that point forward you will have nothing but pain.. I had to learn the hard way....
A woman will take a time to heal from any breaking up situation, but when she's done its done. Unlike men at first they don't feel it until such time he realizes he hurt someone good then starts regretting it.
I agree with the last one, she's right, there's no 6 days, we are just obsessed with it and can't decide between reason and passion, we still want to believe that they love us, or idk maybe we think they are kind so we don't want to break up even though we don't love them anymore, cause that's exactly what's happening with me.
Judge Toler just made the other two ladies look stupid and Steve expression during their statements didn't help. The only people who made sense were Toler and Steve
Sadiya Halanle Although I agree with you, I also think the blonde woman made some sense too. I was able to agree with her 3rd point. I've lived that 3rd point on a few different occasions lol.
I’m honestly shocked no one on this panel said that women don’t take as long bc we’re detail oriented! Women are always noticing small things that could be red flags. And once they tell a friend they’re not sure, you best believe high lighters and pro con lists are about to go flying
The judge had the best advice. As for the "other women" talk, nah. Sometimes of a Man knows the relationship won't work because he's tried and is still trying but the break up is coming. However, it is true the car and clothes as explanation must be ready. Only hoes (both men and women) leave a relationship to jump into another relationship.
The third lady said it so true, it resonated with me and punched me in the gut. Now that I am through the dark tunnel and on the other side, I see how long it took for me to free myself from the feeling of loss of that relationship.
I talked bad about steve on another video...i may have to swallow my words...he told the truth here....to be honest with a woman is gonna bring major drama....experienced it every time.
Let him go the first time, if he loves you he'll come for you... What does that mean? If he wasn't good for you, wouldn't he be the same when he comes back?
I had a friend who got a lady to move from California to Evanston Illinois to be with him. She was a absolute sweetie pie. This fool decided he wanted to go back with his first girlfriend. When he told me what he was going to do I told him to remove all the throwables which he didn't do and he did a lot of ducking that day.
Since I grew up so much mentally. I would be in shock, but would move on right away and find myself a sugar daddy. Don't waste your time on men that don't want you.
No, it's because women have more options. Most men know they'll have to start the chase again. Divorces also affect men more, financially. The few men with resources who aren't married but dating, easily call things off because they have maky options.
I second that Steve...because as a woman..I give dread giving the breakup news because the Men I've been with cause drama and never want to leave...heck a left my first love 13yrs ago and he still wants closure...🤦♀️🤷♀️
Men show you but most women turn a blind eye , try do more for the man, hoping he’ll be convinced and love them back, then it becomes love of convenience
It took me 15 minutes to decide for sure I was done for good when I was done for GOOD! He was gone the next day! Excuse me, the next morning, this was the middle of the night!
If the saying of a " Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once ", what is it vice versa? I came to find out down the line she was literally dumping me for someone else but came back two days later saying she regretted the " break". I just came out to find out about the affair 3 months later.
I agree with Judge Lynn....he'll come for ya.... with a CHANGED ATTITUDE. AND I agree with what Steve said....men know whats coming and they are strategic...so If they say it...theres another woman somewhere helping him to MEAN IT!!!
If a man cheats on me... I let them go by not saying anything and just leave.... I know it's wrong but if they want their freedom I will give to them just like that.... I hate when they beg for forgiveness when they know what they did wrong.... I've been in three relationships and I am the one that just leave when they cheat on me.... The hard part is when I tell the men it's over they try to cage me so I just vanish from them.
Steve’s right. If a man wants to break up with you, whether he admits it or not - his nest is feathered elsewhere. Men, unlike many women, are afraid to be alone.
The first sentence summarizes it for me " When women are done - they are DONE " , unfortunately all of us have been raised to obsess about relationships - That's the conditioning patriarchy has ensured for women - to protect 'Masculinity (I feel sometimes) because men do not want to take decisions - they want all teh doors open - I can't say for everyone but I put my 100% when I was with my Ex for insane number of years but the day I was 'Done' I did not look back - didn't take a penny - and cut every contact absolutely 100%. Men are so indecisive that I sometimes feel bad for them - women manipulate them so many times - 90% women I have know who have dated men have actually 'baited' them ( could be typical to my culture )
Judge Lynn Toler always has amazing advice on divorce court and on Steve Harvey show here...but I hear about this 90 day rule and I'm pretty sure if I tried that as an Irish woman in Ireland then that man is just gonna sleep with someone until he gets at my cookie so I just stay by myself
Also consider the amount of time spent dealing with the break up (man breaking up with woman vs woman breaking up with man) that right there is a pain in itself. The one who gets broken up with likely doesn't feel the same way making it damn agonizing. As men, we don't come forward with our emotions as often as women tend to, so that will eat us up on the inside longer before we can actually get through.
I think they are all wrong women are not decisive have you ever asked the woman what they wanted to eat? Men are super decisive cause we have to come to decisions every day quick fast because men are more troubleshooting then women are men are more equipped to make a fast decision then women are its a fact when the pressure is on, women bring unique strengths to decision making. Men decide in all situations
That may be true in general, but I'm a woman, and I make clear decisions on most everything. But you are correct, when I'm with my girlfriends, it takes them forever to decide what to order. I look at the menu and in under 3 minutes, I know what I want.
"Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once." I love this.
Marina Concannon agreed
Hallelujah
I forget about this
Hey
It changed my life
ladies : men won't necessarily tell you they want to break up.They will show you with with their actions!
thats not good though. Its hard but you gotta buck up and do it.
Alfred Pardoe listen to what Steve said
Sooo true...and the jacked up part of this...there are women out there who once you tell them you don't want them, they can't take that for what it is and walk away no matter HOW many times you say it, show it or both.
Muhammad Ali basically said the same thing back in the day. He said " Never go where you're not wanted! Never force your company on anyone! And never beg anyone for their company!" And that goes for both men and women.
kncox81 bro do you have a link to that
That is true
Truth
Thank you 🙏
It's true.its foolish to go where you're not wanted.
Judge Lynn that was the best advice I took it last night and moved on
Amen!
Chances are, he's waiting on you to so it or attempting to lead you into doing it depending on his actions.
Men need to speak openly....... Just say it's not working out....I think they don't want to end up empty handed, but we ladies know we will survive.💁
Me too. I feel much better!
Yeah cause being open and honest with a woman always works out. Lol
After being in a toxic relationship from 05/2015- 09/23/2019, I saw the 💡. Because on that day, after being supportive on a new endeavor that my ex was embarking on, he responded to me in this fashion….”F*** off, I don’t want you, & find somebody else.” As horrific as the remark was, on 11/06/2020 I met the Love of My Life & we’ll be getting married this summer 07/2022. So to my ex, Frank …THANK YOU FOR SETTING ME FREE!!!!
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Wow congratulations 🥺🥺🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It's Men longer to break up because they trying to give you the time to break up with them first so they do not feel like the bad guy.
WIGAHOLIC 14 I don't believe that true after getting cheated I broke it off right away
exactly her point, you were the one who broke it off not him
I always thought it was the other way around.
Truth.. Cowards do that
I do this
Looking back with hindsight on my situation...he SHOWED me everyday that he didn’t want me anymore. I chose to live in denial and pain for our daughter and my lifestyle. He never told me the words “I don’t want you” he showed me. He didn’t want to be the one to end things, so he pushed me. I left after three years, a shell of the woman I once was. I’m rebuilding my life and myself. So happy and excited to have another opportunity at a happy life and someday, a healthy love.
You go girl🙌 It's never too late. I hope you're doing well 😊.
I am going through this now. Can I ask what his actions were
What you have said has exactly happened to me. Through his actions he showed me he didn't want me, even though I would try my hardest to keep him happy it was like anything I did was not good enough so il tell him "I think it's time we break up," but he didn't like the sound of that and would try & argue with me about it making me out that it's my fault. I wanted out because I would of rather be alone then be in a relationship with someone who wasn't 100% Real with me. It was all fake love. I ain't dumb I knew exactly why he tried to hang on to me was for his benefits. I'm now 6days out of this relationship and I know as each day goes by I'm more closer to getting myself back, getting myself healed again and living a happy life
Well done!!
Keep going.
You will be fine...the more you take care of yourself....the less effect he will have had on you. He was probably a narcissist. Those things are everywhere...they don't even seem like people....a different species I'd say🤔🤨🥴
Judge Lynn is so beautiful and wise. 💜💜💜
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The other woman is not nagging or getting on your nerves “YET!”
Waiting to get to the alter. Once the I do is done ✅. It’s on 🤣🤣🤣👶👶👶
FACTS!! They swear the mistress is much better. Whole time she plotting your murder. lol
@@StopSelfDoubting right 😂
a female friend once said to me.when she felt her ex was cold. she just packed up and left.now he was asking question.she lived her life the way she wanted and now she is engaged to a man who Massage her feet every night.meaning there is a better man out there for every woman. never settle for less.
the second women was right man dnt decide breakup quickly coz they always want keep that door open just incase they gt to go through again I have experience it ....
Shadia Ali your are 100 percent correct. Men like too keep the door open your the back up plan. If new the relationship don't work out. In his mind he believes. He can comeback too you. I nail the door shut not reopen again. I'm at place in my life right now. I don't need any details once you tell me you want out that's closure for me. It clear you don't want me their is nothing else too talk about deuces!!!!
Never be someone’s Option.
Men always weight in all their options
no man is just going to break up with a woman without having another girl in place.
So he uses that month to weight the pros & cons and will finally decide if she worth it or not. If the answer is yes there will be no break up if the answer is no then he will leave you but already has that other girl lined up so there is no loss.
not necessarily... I had to break up with a girl cos after 6years, there were grey areas that i know for sure i can't allow or take into Marriage... It was painful but i had no girl lined up. I just had to do what was best for me. So your theory may not entirely be correct. BTW, she is my first and only relationship as of then
DeeRock Im sorry to hear that you two went on different paths
but in my theory I was siding with what Steve said. The majority of men will have a side piece/back up plan if they do decide to leave there woman. not all men but a good 98%
+dj french you're right. it's like a job. A man isn't ending the relationship (even if he isn't satisfied) unless there's someone else to go to. It's why you see men in long relationships they aren't happy in. Haven't found a replacement so not enough impetus to leave.
DeeRock The exception doesn't negate the rule. You must be in the minority.
***** That's the point...So assume the lady knows how to cook, or she is nice at something(whatever the thing may be).. A guy could get her to cook all his food, or just get whatever benefits she has until he's ready to move on.. You can call it dependency.. but that's a woman's language. A man really don't look at it that way since he has switched his emotion. Just say he will use her for as long as he can. Men tend to have control of their emotion more than women.
Is there a part 2 on this? Why was it short? Love Judge Lynn Toler's wisdom always
"Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once." True! She right, cuz there ain't no way imma let myself drag down to let a relationship stay together that you don't want no more. I'm not gonna let myself go crazy over no man.
I will NOT subject myself to that pain by trying to hold on especially when he tells you it is over!
They're all correct.
1. Lou-Anne: When women are done, they're done!
2. Kim: Keeping the bridge open!
3. Lynn: "Don't ever let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once!"
4. Steve: 98% it has something to do with another woman.
First one seemed really dumb tbh.
@@feisalelkiwi4477 yes women can be very indecisive as well. The third one was the best and the burning of the bridges the second.
So true what Steve says… damn, wish I knew this when I was younger
5. Because of 4, it's not necessary your fault. The truth is that 98% of the time, you were an option and he just found a better option
@@noemie9579Not always necessarily better, but almost always a better target.
"When a woman is done, she's done" and "never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once"...SO TRUE!!! I knew a guy who held on for a loooooong time after his fiance broke up with him. He did this in vain hoping that she would change her mind, plus he wanted to know where he "stood" with her as well. After a while, he decided to move on because he realized that she had moved on shorty after the break up.
a woman will hold on for dear life. but when she's done she's done!!! so I do agree with the study. and also what Steve said....when a man's done it's normally because of another woman not because the current one isn't good enough. when a woman's done it's normally because she's tired of crap.
So true.
Arlene Williams
Arlene Williams He's done because he's doing wrong.
@@dorisnoel7881 yes I totally agree
I agree with judge lynn an steave Harvey so true 😆😆😍😍😙😙 well put😎
She's usually nagging you because you're not handling your responsibilities as a man and the fact that you would run away to another woman instead of being accountable and bettering yourself shows that you're not even worth holding on to.
i really dont understand when women say responsibility of a men you are confusing us, what is a men.
This is so true just went through this. Im very hurt but he is not worth it.
my hubby left after new yr .left me with a baby. we been together for 6 yrs. married for 2 yrs. he left said bec he needed to save money n lived with his co wrker female n 3 of her minor kids. it hurts me to my core.until today i dnt undesrtand why he left. i done everything to be a good wife. im really hurt.
@@honeybarnett9299 I'm sorry that happened to you. Please watch assc direct on RUclips. Quinn specializes in NPD. I think this will help you now and in the future 😇
It happens. It happened to me and If I could give a BIG ASS Thank you!!! What you hold on to is holding you back
love this Steve is speaking truth
i respect the judge response and Steve's! but mannnn NEVER LET A MAN TELL YOU MORE THAN ONCE HE DON'T WANT YOU IS DEEPPPP!!!
steve your so right i just went through this and everything you said is correct
Great advice.. When says hes out. Let his sorry but go... I know it hurts and let him go anyway.. From that point forward you will have nothing but pain.. I had to learn the hard way....
A woman will take a time to heal from any breaking up situation, but when she's done its done. Unlike men at first they don't feel it until such time he realizes he hurt someone good then starts regretting it.
If you no longer have feelings for someone it does not matter i she goood or bad if the relationship is over is over.
Judge Lynn said it BEST! Excellent advice.... MOVING ON RIGHT NOW!!!
I really love you judge lynnn ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Steve is so bloody wise!
Damn. Hit me hard. very useful advice, wow.
I strongly disagreed with the first lady
Im on a Steve Tv Show marathon right now LOVE THIS MAN
"They Decisive"
But they never know what they want to eat xD
Or wear or what hairstyle to use...or a multitude of other things.
Can't argue with you guys there,
Alex Chiu We decisive on everything besides that😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Women are impulsive, not decisive.
Alex Chiu more like impulsive
I agree with the last one, she's right, there's no 6 days, we are just obsessed with it and can't decide between reason and passion, we still want to believe that they love us, or idk maybe we think they are kind so we don't want to break up even though we don't love them anymore, cause that's exactly what's happening with me.
I agree with the judge 💯...know a friend that's hanging on, all depressed and it's sad to watch. If you ask more than 1x you are begging!
Judge Toler just made the other two ladies look stupid and Steve expression during their statements didn't help. The only people who made sense were Toler and Steve
Sadiya Halanle Although I agree with you, I also think the blonde woman made some sense too. I was able to agree with her 3rd point. I've lived that 3rd point on a few different occasions lol.
Judge lynn yes!!!
The judge is on point; women obsessed but once we are done, we’re done.
Hello....
I’m honestly shocked no one on this panel said that women don’t take as long bc we’re detail oriented! Women are always noticing small things that could be red flags. And once they tell a friend they’re not sure, you best believe high lighters and pro con lists are about to go flying
The judge had the best advice. As for the "other women" talk, nah. Sometimes of a Man knows the relationship won't work because he's tried and is still trying but the break up is coming. However, it is true the car and clothes as explanation must be ready.
Only hoes (both men and women) leave a relationship to jump into another relationship.
Why you say that.
I LOVE Judge Lynn Toler!!!
Hello
My ex took only 5 days to dump me. Now it’s nearly 3 months after that date, and my heart is still broke into pieces because of his decision :(
Hey!Hope your feeling better :)
Pain is temporary..
Eventually it will subside.
What's meant for you will never leave you.
You will be alright.
Yes Kim, they want to keep that door open. The lady in the blue nailed it💯
Judge Lynn on point.
I know of a powerful man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
Whtsaap him"**
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kim was on point so much where Steve was like "you giving up too many SECRETS!" XD
Steve comes with the truth. Keep it coming Steve.
PREACH Judge.
Judge Lynn and steve spoke the truth! That first woman is living in another world
The third lady said it so true, it resonated with me and punched me in the gut. Now that I am through the dark tunnel and on the other side, I see how long it took for me to free myself from the feeling of loss of that relationship.
I talked bad about steve on another video...i may have to swallow my words...he told the truth here....to be honest with a woman is gonna bring major drama....experienced it every time.
what the 3rd woman said is amazing......that's awesome advice....
do not get emotionally involved with any man unless he proposes
Be alone your whole life then.
Hello...
Let him go the first time, if he loves you he'll come for you... What does that mean? If he wasn't good for you, wouldn't he be the same when he comes back?
Hello...
That woman in black is so correct,,men are not decisive because I don't want to give up a regular sex,, that is so correct and true
Yes, a lot of it boils down to options.
I had a friend who got a lady to move from California to Evanston Illinois to be with him. She was a absolute sweetie pie. This fool decided he wanted to go back with his first girlfriend. When he told me what he was going to do I told him to remove all the throwables which he didn't do and he did a lot of ducking that day.
I admire Judge Lyn Toler so much!
Since I grew up so much mentally. I would be in shock, but would move on right away and find myself a sugar daddy. Don't waste your time on men that don't want you.
I love Judge Lynn!!!!
My ex and I had been together for seventeen years and one Friday morning seven years ago he just left without a word, I'm still not over that......
Paula Laye I’m sorry. :-/
me too. i feel u
Paula Laye
So sorry to hear that. Curious, what were his actions saying?
Sometimes God takes people out of our life for a reason.
Yaasss Judge Lynn dropped that knowledge ✊🏿
Hey...
Women are decisive? In the shopping mall or where?
... this makes me sad.
True , all of the statements are.
No, it's because women have more options. Most men know they'll have to start the chase again. Divorces also affect men more, financially. The few men with resources who aren't married but dating, easily call things off because they have maky options.
I agree with the last woman
I wish I had my own Kim Gravel
To wishfully nod in agreement like that to what I say and do
She's so motivating !! I love her
Hello...
Judge Lynn I needed to hear this. Thank you
Love when he let them talk first and then had the final saying.
I second that Steve...because as a woman..I give dread giving the breakup news because the Men I've been with cause drama and never want to leave...heck a left my first love 13yrs ago and he still wants closure...🤦♀️🤷♀️
Men show you but most women turn a blind eye , try do more for the man, hoping he’ll be convinced and love them back, then it becomes love of convenience
It took me 15 minutes to decide for sure I was done for good when I was done for GOOD! He was gone the next day! Excuse me, the next morning, this was the middle of the night!
If the saying of a " Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you more than once ", what is it vice versa? I came to find out down the line she was literally dumping me for someone else but came back two days later saying she regretted the " break". I just came out to find out about the affair 3 months later.
I agree with Judge Lynn....he'll come for ya.... with a CHANGED ATTITUDE.
AND I agree with what Steve said....men know whats coming and they are strategic...so If they say it...theres another woman somewhere helping him to MEAN IT!!!
Steve and the judge were right on this subject. Those other two are clueless.
Judge Lynn is the only person qualified to answer this question from all of those divorce court episodes.
I love these videos!!!! ^^
Periodt! Kim is on point as always.
If a man cheats on me... I let them go by not saying anything and just leave.... I know it's wrong but if they want their freedom I will give to them just like that.... I hate when they beg for forgiveness when they know what they did wrong.... I've been in three relationships and I am the one that just leave when they cheat on me.... The hard part is when I tell the men it's over they try to cage me so I just vanish from them.
When I am tired I am tired u got to go...
truth when the relationship is over is over no need to nag, cry and all sort of drama
Steve’s right. If a man wants to break up with you, whether he admits it or not - his nest is feathered elsewhere. Men, unlike many women, are afraid to be alone.
The first sentence summarizes it for me " When women are done - they are DONE " , unfortunately all of us have been raised to obsess about relationships - That's the conditioning patriarchy has ensured for women - to protect 'Masculinity (I feel sometimes) because men do not want to take decisions - they want all teh doors open - I can't say for everyone but I put my 100% when I was with my Ex for insane number of years but the day I was 'Done' I did not look back - didn't take a penny - and cut every contact absolutely 100%. Men are so indecisive that I sometimes feel bad for them - women manipulate them so many times - 90% women I have know who have dated men have actually 'baited' them ( could be typical to my culture )
Not even a minute in and we got a "Women know what they want" bish what? Hell no. That's why dating so hard.
Judge Lynn Toler always has amazing advice on divorce court and on Steve Harvey show here...but I hear about this 90 day rule and I'm pretty sure if I tried that as an Irish woman in Ireland then that man is just gonna sleep with someone until he gets at my cookie so I just stay by myself
So interesting to see how the roles have reversed in almost every way including women being more decisive than men
What percentage of the men and women are they talking about?
Judge Lynn speaking facts as per usual but the second lady made great points as well.
I feel you Steve.... Ayt!??
Lol Kim said exactly what I would have responded.
Women make quicker choices up until the point where they have to decide which pair of shoes to buy. Lol
The one blonde lady reminds me of a female Todd Chrisley. Lol
Sheez this panel...like no yelling?They waiting on their turn to talk? WAUW canSteve invite them more often!
Judge lynn ft steve is the best thing ever
Lynn Toler knocks it out the park once again.
Kim is telling the TRUTH!!
Men may care more about hurting feelings.
Completely real, Steve!!!
Oh my goooosh Judge Lynn
Also consider the amount of time spent dealing with the break up (man breaking up with woman vs woman breaking up with man) that right there is a pain in itself. The one who gets broken up with likely doesn't feel the same way making it damn agonizing. As men, we don't come forward with our emotions as often as women tend to, so that will eat us up on the inside longer before we can actually get through.
Is she serious? Men are less confrontational?
Yes judge, she is right
I think they are all wrong women are not decisive have you ever asked the woman what they wanted to eat? Men are super decisive cause we have to come to decisions every day quick fast because men are more troubleshooting then women are men are more equipped to make a fast decision then women are its a fact when the pressure is on, women bring unique strengths to decision making. Men decide in all situations
Judge Toler actually said she did not agree with the study. Women do obsess.
That may be true in general, but I'm a woman, and I make clear decisions on most everything. But you are correct, when I'm with my girlfriends, it takes them forever to decide what to order. I look at the menu and in under 3 minutes, I know what I want.
Men decide but dong know how to communicate because they are afraid of confrontations, dramas, nagging and crying..
I won't wait for the word. Once I see it. I am gone.........