LIVING WITH DEMENTIA EP. 6 | HOW'S JASON DOING AND OVERWHELMING RESPONSE
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- LIVING WITH DEMENTIA EP. 6 | HOW'S JASON DOING AND OVERWHELMING RESPONSE. 12/4/20 Huge thank you to everyone for all the love and support! We truly appreciate it!!! 💜 Want to help us continue to make videos? Donate on Paypal: www.paypal.com...
People don't understand what it is like when you sleep with someone who has restless leg syndrome. My husband and I stopped sleeping in the same bed 30+ years ago. He had a severe snoring problem and I have restless leg syndrome and I change sleeping positions frequently. We were keeping each other awake. It was so bad; we finally chose to sleep in separate bedrooms. It has absolutely nothing to do with our relationship or how we feel about each other. Shame on the trolls who have no idea what they are talking about.
I just don’t understand the negativity. I just don’t. The attacks people will make, 99% wouldn’t ever say to your face. You are both amazing.
Jason , you are a character !!! Your wife is an Angel !!!
You can clearly see that Jason has made you laugh for over 30 years. You now use that same laughter through good and bad times.
Laughing always makes you feel good. Your positive attitudes will take you far. 💞
I never ever thought for one moment you were making fun of Jason. That is so not you from what I’ve gathered from the videos. I always got the impression that you just enjoy him and his personality. I know we do. I am a major empath so I’m very in tune to the hurt you feel with angry words from him even though you know it’s not meant to hurt you. Words just hurt darn it. Always thinking of you both. ❤🙏❤
Thank you for addressing what people are saying that is not acceptable. How in the world do we out here in RUclips land even begin to know what you two are going through and how in the world can someone look at you Leslie and say you are not being nice to Jason!!!! If these people would get off their high horses and listen they wouldn't say those things. I say ( If you people don't like how these videos go Don't watch) Love you two.
Both of my parents had dementia at the same time. As a caregiver, it seems the harder times overwhelm the good/funny times. So it is a joy to see how you are managing and can find the funny. Those are the memories to hold tight. Your faith will see you through much.
You are the cutest couple. I love to hear you both laugh.
My mom had Alzheimer’s and unfortunately she knew how she was declining. Maybe many others don’t but my mom did and she was suffering greatly as she was so aware of what was happening to her. She would cry and say to me that she was slipping away. It was hard. I’m so happy for you Jason that this is not your experience. May you continue with your sense of humor and positivity. Take care😊❤
Great info. I’m a caregiver for those with dementia and I’m often just as worried about the caregivers.
Jason, I appreciate how you care for your wife❤ No one has permission to criticize. We all love you and are praying for others to trat you with respect. And I personally need the wisdom you are giving. 😊
The love and respect that you have for each other is so wonderful and uplifting! ❤
My Dad had Alzheimer’s and you learn you either laugh or cry. You just do what you need to do to get through things.
I just today discovered your channel. It is obvious that anyone making negative comments have never had to care for a person with any form a dementia. You are only human and have to deal with things however you can. I cared for my mom who had dementia and many days it was a nightmare. Thank you for sharing your story.
I've never been offended. You guys are wonderful. It's an honest portral. Bless you two.
I am so sorry people have the audacity to criticize you, Leslie, for how you are taking care of Jason. I am always shocked at what people find offensive. It’s like they wake up & decide they have to go find things to offend them that day. It’s sad that so many people are just that miserable. Both of you are incredibly brave & absolutely some of the strongest people I have seen on RUclips. This is your life, your story & I personally am so grateful for you both. I think your laughter is infectious, Leslie & you putting a smile on your face during the times I feel the pain cuts you like a knife, is you just being brave & strong. This is my interpretation, but regardless of the reason, it’s none of my business. Sending you both so much love and healing light. 🙏❤️✨🙏❤️✨
It was great to see Jason so talkative during this video. How nice. It was a great video
You two are so inspirational. Anyone that doesn’t like your laughing and having a good time in your videos can go kick rocks. I love that you can talk to each other about anything, even hard stuff. Always happy when you post a new video!
Thanks for all you do. My brother is in hospice for lewy body and I was diagnosed Thursday of dementia.
You guys are the best. I have learned so much from you. Jason you have a great attitude and Lesley, you are a delight. The way you both interact with each other is super good. God bless you both. Keep on being who you are. ❤️🙏
I am so glad I found your channel. I suspect my husband has the start of dementia. The way you two deal with it is encouraging for me.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I’m a caregiver for my husband with Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia. It’s a journey no one can fully comprehend unless they have walked it closely with a loved one. I think you two are amazing. I hope you can ignore the people who love to be offended and spread their negativity. ❤
Just love you guys!! Your humour comes from such a long wonderful marriage, my husband and I are like that after 38 yrs❤ Don't feel the need to respond or dwell on all the nasties, what small, insular lives they must lead. Try to silence or ban them. Life is hard enough without people who dine on lemons all day long😮. Treat others as you would like to be treated, a great way to live and you both do it so so well❤❤❤❤Love from New Zealand
Lesley and Jason, You are a Beautiful Couple. I love seeing Jason talking in the video. Stay Positive and trust in the Lord. God Bless you both!!!❤❤
I am an RN with 48 years experience and my partner has Dementia. It is by far the hardest job I have had. I found this series and shake my head in agreement with your struggles throughout. Anyone with advise or any negative comment has no idea what we caretakers are going through. They need to stop watching. I get comfort from you and other RUclipsrs just listening and knowing that I am not alone in my journey. Keep up this good work.
There's a reason you two have been together for so long - you both have a good sense of humor. Don't ever change that. Leslie - you're a beautiful person! Jason - you are too funny! lol
It is always such a great day when I see your posts, so thank you. My Mom passed of Dementia on Dec. 18, 2022. She had been sick approximately 6-7 years and definitely as time went on things got harder. This is a very terrible disease and in particular for the younger patients. Bless you.
As to the laughter, my husband and I chose to deal with my increasing disabilities with laughter. In addition to rheumatoid arthritis and other autoimmune illnesses, in my 60's, I developed atypical trigeminal neuralgia. It's one of the most painful disorders known. I couldn't eat, talk, feel a breeze across my cheek or brush my teeth without triggering pain that would last for hours or days. I was dealing with hyperthyroidism at the same time, and quickly lost weight, being described in medical offices as frail, a big source of trauma to me. I was on anti-epileptics which made me loopy. In school, I had been the nerdy girl studying physics and to suddenly not be able to finish sentences was humiliating. I'd been active and athletic, kayaking, jogging with my dogs, lifting weights, riding my Women's Trek on technical dirt trails. Now I needed a cane. I ultimately decided on a brain surgery and then a second one to deal with the TN on the opposite side. Both worked, but then RA and spinal damage took over. When I was at my pre-brain-surgeries worst, though, my husband would look up to find me twirling around a column in our house that I had grabbed for balance and rush to me, laughing all the time he was. After I'd accidentally thrown a can down that he'd had to dodge or dropped a canister of sugar, he'd use a mock rough voice, and say, "Get out of the kitchen, Linda, you're not helping." We laughed a lot, but it got him into trouble once in a Central Market. We were walking along and he looked back, noticing the look on my face. I was having trouble maneuvering through the crowd. Forgetting where he was, he said, "Grab on to my belt, Linda, and follow me!" Several women turned to glare at him. We really had a good laugh when we got to the car that time. People just don't understand that such humor can ease the feelings of the person who is seemingly being mocked. It can be saying, "Yes, you're humiliated and you want to cry, but we're together and we can choose to laugh about this." Now, I'm hoping as we deal with certain problems he's having that we can employ the same sense of humor, but he's not ready right now. He doesn't recognize what's happening. We've been married almost 54 years, and you stay attuned to what's working and what isn't.
These videos are really helping me - I'm binge watching,lol. Today is 10/10/23 and I can't stop watching. I'm a caregiver to my husband with dementia and this is helpful- thank you!
You guys are so great for helping people, sharing your lives! Your honesty is so refreshing! (I’m sure you’ve thought of this) I’ve seen some RUclipsrs who have volunteers who weed through the comments and pitch the mean or unhelpful ones - Then the ytber can go through the ones they really want to see - just a thought💕
I love you guys! I cracked up about the mood meds. When Jason said. Am I on them? I’m sorry you have to go through this but I love both your personality’s so much. Wish you were our neighbors. ❤️
In todays America, I shouldn’t be shocked that there are so many mean, nasty, ignorant people who make such unnecessary comments🤦🏻♀️ but shame on them🤨... Your videos are very informative, honest and hilarious, as Jason is so darn quick witted and funny 😆.. Leslie you do such a wonderful job of sharing and guiding your conversations along with disseminating some valuable information… continue to ignore the Negative Nellies of the world who only choose to criticize instead of imparting kindness and positivity to the conversation 🥰.. continued 🙏🙏 for your family😊
Y'all are just the sweetest couple. I always love seeing you together. The love is obvious!!
You are both doing great thanks for everything you teach and share with all of us
You both are amazing. The 10% probably find things wrong in everything. We appreciate your videos. Prayers for both of you. I like that you show real life because that is what can help others understand. My family laughs at the hard parts of life. It is a coping mechanism and a good one. Thank you.
You both are the best 😊. Don’t listen to the negative people, they are just miserable 😖. I have been following y’all for the last couple of years and I know you both have bad days , but you both are truly an inspiration!! Love y’all ❤😊
Leslie and Jason, you guys are so sweet. Thank you for being so pure. I appreciate what you share with us. Thank you.
I love your videos. They are so informative. Jason did really well. Thank you Jason. Sorry for the negativity and attacks. You guys rock. God bless you both.
Jason came into this video with an agenda and BOY did he ever do a good job of making each and every point he wanted to make. I appreciated the edit of Jason at 3 in the afternoon as opposed to his demeanor first thing in the morning.
Just want to drop a little comment. Don't change a thing. You are so focused on Jason that I don't even think I know your name! I often heard Jason's name in that video, but not yours. I have to click away to find out if it's Lindsay. You look like a Lindsay to me. I think your love for him and your love for life is why people watch. In fact, your laughter is why people love you. You are so bubbly and effervescent with joy and happiness. It's rare to see a couple so in love and to meet two such charming people. I absolutely love your light-hearted laughter and Jason's sense of humor, and you can see he just absolutely adores you even when there is the pain of dementia in his eyes and face sometimes. Everyone should be so lucky to have a marriage like yours, and everyone should be so lucky to have a caregiver who is a nurse and a wife who is so in love with them as a caregiver. You two have everything. As for those who thought you were being unkind - they are projecting their own feelings onto you and Jason. It's not you. All most of us see is love. I am so glad you told your story. I am sending you healing prayers. (I am 48 and getting an MRI for my memory issues in a few weeks and seeing a neurologist. Watching this is educational as well as enjoyable.)
Please don't take the negative comments to heart! They say ignorance is bliss so these people must be in 7th heaven! Love & prayers to you both & thank you for keeping us posted!
This was such a cute video. Jason cracks me up! He's got a lot of personality. You guys are great!
My step mother in law was 92 and had Dementia 2 yrs ago. Widowed, was active in golf, lunch at same place daily, active in business from her & late hubby, loved to garden, & shop. One day she told me she was " seeing angels dancing around her Christmas tree & her husband sat in loveseat looking at grandfather clock nightly. One night she saw him in bed fixing a light. It became obvious per her Dr. gave her news. Her nephew & wife lived near & did everything. She could not drive. Loosing that for her was hard. They took over bills. Called in 24 hr help as she fell broke hip, had surgery & much more. I am NOT TELLING you this to depress you. 24/7 home care costed a fortune. ( She had beautiful home paid for, investments, & extra medical Ins). Was not enough! They sold her car. She finally had to go to nursing home. Her $$ was gone. Her lawyer was in charge & sold home. Life Ins. covered her to be flown to where she was from. I pray for you both. Plan for a GO FUND ME ACCOUNT!!!! Spend EVERY MINUTE together you can. I was married to my High School sweetheart for 40 yrs. He had Hashimoto's Thyroidtitus & had inner mental problems, he took his life. We had our own business. One daughter with Epilepsy. Been 19 years that he is gone. She is 41, I have been with her through 5 brain surgeries & a stroke. Still no answers. We hold onto our FAITH & love for each other. Keep your Faith! Love n Blessings from Fla.
I can’t believe the negativity of some people. Don’t watch if your going to pick at things. 😢
I have only been watching this a few days. The impression I get at times is you laugh to conceal your pain. I completely get that. This is a complex journey and at times it is painful. Over the years of dealing with my husband’s brain injury and now mixed dementia what has evolved is this…..I used to look at him and say to myself “ please come back.” Now that I have reached the acceptance stage I find myself saying quietly instead “ don’t leave.”
Just keeping being you two! We, we’ll most of us appreciate your candour and truthfulness and buzz off to the naysayers and Pooh who’s! If you question the love and commitment of these two instead of listening and absorbing the information that they have shared with us all. I love the humour, the love and the genuine attachment that Lesley and Jase share. Don’t take any of the negatives to heart. We love you. 😘😌😁
PRAYERS 🙏 and BLESSINGS ✝️. Always trust in the Lord 🎚️
I know what you are going through my husband is in a nursing home most people don't understand .I like that you can laugh together Bless you both ❤❤
Jason, than you for sharing. It is great getting to know you. May God give you strength to endure this trial. It is a treat to watch you give glory to our Lord through your faith in Him. ❤
MY HUSBAND SLEEPS ALOT AND IT IS TRUE WE AS THE CAREGIVERS SEE THINGS THAT NOBODY ELSE DOES,IT IS SO HARD TO SEE HIM FROM THIS ENERGETIC MAN TO THE MAN WHO IS SO CONFUSED AND I AM ALONE IN THIS WITH HIM EVERYDAY.HE WEARS A PATCH BUT WAS TOLD BY HIS NEUROLOGIST NOTHING MORE CAN BE DONE.
Cheryl I am in the same boat. Hard to watch as time goes on. Husband cannot drive or dress himself. I am alone as well. He was diagnosed 4 years ago. Prayers for you and him as well
@@lifecontent6525 so sorry that you are alone to i worry every time he goes out the door i am just happy he dosent drive
@@lifecontent6525 if you ever need some one to talk to i will be here for you
Thank you for sharing your experiences with Dementia! I have been a caregiver for the past 3 years to elderly people with Dementia. Your videos will help a lot more patients & their families deal with it with courage & wisdom. It is a very challenging journey but laughter, love, hope & faith will be of great help. Keep on keeping on ! Praying for both of you! Please don’t hesitate to ask anything you probably would like to know more about it from the caregiver’s perspective. I will be more than willing to help you both in this journey. ❤🙏
There will ALWAYS be " haters." Your following are legit here because we either care about you two, to learn or to be a friend who is also dealing with this disease.
I know it must be hard to ignore those idiots that say such horrible negative stuff... but honestly don't give them "air" space. They are just not worth any time in your day, What you are both doing is amazing and educational to so many I looked after my mum for 10 years and I certainly understand your role Lesley as a Carer. You are doing an amazing job and your love and pain for Jason's journey is so very obvious., The love you have for each other is so wonderful and will make Jason's journey a little easier for him knowing the love of his life is 'there' for him .... for you Leslie it is a little different.... watching and seeing what "happens' throughout the day and over time is devastating for you, Please let the genuine caring vibes from all the people that respect you wrap you in a blanket of strength,. Those idiots have no understanding or respect for anyone, Ignore if you can, Wish I lived over there an meet, face to face, every one of those negative people and I would sort them out the Aussie way.
take care, stay strong and more importantly stay yourself. xxxxx
Why would anyone say anything negative to you two!? These people have to be just miserable individuals. We should just be sorry for them I guess. Keep up your videos and your sense of humor. You two are such an inspiration. God bless.
Thank you for sharing your journey. I'm so glad that despite all you're both going through, you still laugh together. I hope that never ends!
It would be okay if we saw that something took 3 times. You know, I have depression and Asperger's Syndrome. You guys show me different strategies for how to cope that I can adjust to my situation. I get lost in projects, I'm easily frustrated, and I have to do-over. You guys help give me courage to accept my limitations, and start over when necessary.
I love your relationship! It's hard for others to know how it works in your family. I love your videos and applaud you for your courage to talk and laugh about this. Glad your hanging in there Jason with a positive attitude. Good way to face challenges. Love you both.
Omg!! People that think you were laughing AT Jason sadly do not have a sense of humor. I feel so sorry for them. My husband and sons and I laugh all the time.
It doesn't really matter what other people think about your communication with each other as long as you two understand each other. That is the main aim to be comfortable with each other all the time! And to show each other love and appreciation. Even now under these circumstances I feel you have more as a couple than most healthy couples. So keep going! You are inspiring a lot of people.❤
It's a brave and informative video. You look at all aspects of living with dementia for both carer and those experiencing dementia. Sending good thoughts for you both.❤ from the UK
You guys are s strong couple. So glad you have supportive friends and family ♥
I get do sad when people are nasty. You can clearly see you guys have always been a fun couple. I've followed you from day one and as sad as this is you guys are handling it so well. So just keep going as you are and don't give up being yourselves. Jason enjoy your food I can see you are a great chef. Love to you both from Durban South Africa. 🤗 🤗
You both are amazing - so natural and very inspiring. Wishing you all the best - from Israel
Your both so cute. Jason you're so funny and Leslie you are amazing. My heart goes out to both of you. You are helping so many people and we need to hear what is going on. You never know what could happen in your life with your spouse, kid's or parents. No one has the right to judge. Keep doing what you're doing. I love watching you. 😘😘😘😘
First time watching . Love your openness to share your difficult journey . You are a beautiful couple doing the best you can to get through it together . I just don’t understand how anyone could make negative comments . God bless ❤
I just find your videos a breath of fresh air, so honest and open, and Jason you've answered the negativity so brilliantly. You are a wonderful team together and our hearts are with you Jason as the sufferer of this dreadful illness, but also to you Lesley as the wonderful, loving, compassionate carer that you are...Thank you for both for sharing this journey! Love to you both!
Hey there Leslie and Jason!!I think the two of you are amazing!!Sweet,honest,helpful,strong !!You both go together like peanut buttet and jelly!!!!You are quite a team and kudis to Jason for giving you the loving empathy you deserve Lesley!Your love shines through everything.God bless you both 😉🙏❤😁🌹🦋🌼🐞🌻
Laughing is healthy for you! You two are precious with each other!!
You guys are fantastic. Thankyou for your honesty.
There are just some not so nice people in this world. It's a shame but that's the way our world is today.. And Leslie if you didn't laugh you would be crying .. Love your video's Keep up the work.
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I just love both of you to pieces!! You are a wonderful example of what it means to love, respect, and care for your spouse or loved one! 💔🙏🏼🐾🙏🏼💔
I love you two so much. You're so inspiring and you are helping so many people. Don't let fools get you down.
This is good. I'm glad you are doing this. I'm single and if I get alzheimers I will have to go to a medicad nursing home. I'm 60 and still working but so scared.
This will be great for people, looking specifically for dementia, related videos, calling it now this name, and having it be your second channel.❤❤❤️❤️. Great idea, guys!
People in the comments seem to be quite confused. I
think they forgot that they are watching a different channel. Not “A Charming Abode”.
Leslie you're a rockstar
Love these vlogs & appreciate both of you putting your life out there for our benefit.
I’m a nurse & caregiver for my husband who has dementia. I’m very familiar with your experience, as it’s similar to ours. I’m learning so much from you. Thank you!❤️
That’s interesting that you can feel the fuzz rolling in.
Ignore the people who can’t tell how you guys are. I get it. My husband and I laugh at each other all the time and we laugh at our own selves. We do have fun 😊
You guys are BOTH amazing! We all love you very much!!!!
I missed this vlog. But very interesting. Glad it popped up. You two are such a sweet team. Stay strong❤️
Hello Jason ! Love it when you talk
I enjoy hearing you both laugh in your videos, you are both trying to get through your days the best way you know how and for laughter to still be a big part of that i would be rejoicing , sending love and hugs xx
I pray for you both every day ! I know both of you struggle with this . I look forward to all the updates . I enjoy all the decorating videos too !
That’s right, Jason, people need to BE KIND.
I think you two are so lovely together. Keep doing what you do. 🥰♥️
Love to you both!!! I just saw my Aunt who’s late stage 7 bed bound but I was so lucky last Saturday I got her in a Lucid time which has been a longggg time since I got that so I was so happy. But heartbreaking as she tears up to tell me to pray and she’s terrified of dying. Lost use of legs last April then last week myoclonic jerks. But I was so happy she the woman I modeled my life after was present just for a short time. I found a VHS tape from when she was a senior in high school graduating going to 2 proms and my Grandmother who at that time was a Mother. When I let her know about it and she wants to see it. Even remembered her boyfriend’s name from back then. My son put the dvd together cutting all out except her And her Mom my mom her older sister and in 1966 no sounds just the projection sounds that sound like a jack hammer so he put music tracks down that she loves so I’ll keep it on me in hopes of another lucid moment otherwise she won’t understand it. Keep up the great uploads share with us. They’re going to be so treasured by you down the road ♥️
Love all your videos! You both are amazing! Thank you fir keeping us up to date
Thanks for sharing again. I love you guus and it breaks my heart that anyone would say those horrible things to you. Hugs!
God bless u both. This journey u are on it hard an heartbreaking. U both are doing a wonderful job of loving an caring for each other. Leslie u are a wonderful wife a caregiver. Don’t ever let anyone put u down u know what u are doing for Jason. 🙏❤️
I love you guys and are so inspired by the way you deal with this terrible disease. I wish I could help in some way. I'm sending love and prayers and may God bless you both.❤
Thank you for this video. New subscriber. I was drawn in by your very positive attitude full of love, truth, and hope. Please accept my blessings and prayers. Glad you addressed negative comments with calmness, maturity and mindfulness.
You are such encouragers. Putting your lives out there for all to see in hopes of helping others is incredibly awesome. Ignore all negativity. It serves no purpose. God is using your family for His purpose. Keep up the loving spirit.
how could someone think you are mean. you are the sweetest person ever❤
Absolutely fascinating. Thank you for these amazing insights.
Thank you for making the videos. You both are providing such a great example for those of us that require extra care and those of us who are caregivers.
No one can understand how difficult health challenges can be in these type of situations. Humor is a requirement for us. Thank you for allowing us to travel this journey with you as we are sometimes on the same path and may not know it yet.
Thank you and God Bless you both. 24:33
You have the sweetest videos!! You can see the love between you both!!❤❤
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Thank you for sharing, and for caring about others to share your life and experience with❤️❤️
Thanks so much for being open and honest. I think you two are adorable and perfect together and anyone can clearly and so easily see how great of a relationship the two of you have together. Jason your taking this like a boss! We have no choices in what we get dealt many times but how we handle it varies from each of us. Leslie off topic here but I love your fireplace decorations!! Looking at them I thought wow taht is excatly what I need because it can be up all year. I am a Christmas fanatic!
Best Wishes to you both. 😊
You both are helping me so much. It’s so comforting to know how your lives are going. ❤
My mom has this, and now we know what my dad is going through. They both are in there 80’s. My sister and I just don’t know what to do. Mom sleeps a lot, has nothing to look for and sleeps most the day.
One of my close friends her dad is going thru deminita, And I feel super helpless but watching these videos is helping me to learn how to help and what things to look out for.
Is Jason still aloud to drive?