Teaching Kids to be POLITE (in Public!)
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- Опубликовано: 15 июл 2024
- Disclosure: My kids were definitely on their best behavior...In reality, politeness in public for us is a work-in-progress, and I loved learning so many key takeaways from Rachel Isgar, Etiquette Coach, Speaker & Author! www.pleasepassthemanners.com
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Politeness is so important. When our daughter started daycare at age 2 and a half the adults came to me after a week and told me that all the other kids had started saying "thank you" and "please" after my daughter started. That made a mamma proud.
Real Organized so sweet!
I still hear that about my daughter, and when they talk about how caring and positive she is it just warms my soul... but my son is a different story. Night and day over here, and the only thing they take turns with at home is mood swings. They can both be the sweetest, most polite little people, but the teachers think my girl is an angel and my boy is Dennis the Menace. Not sure what to do at this point, but I love the teamwork idea.
Thanks. :)
Also, you know who your son is. A good teacher gives second and third chances. Hopefully that will be the case.
Aww that's so sweet !
Real Organized awww that’s so sweet
I remember in kindergarten my teacher was passing out papers once and I said "thank you." When each tiny 5 year old had a paper, my teacher called me over to her desk, praised me for saying "thank you" without being asked, and gave me a prize from the treasure chest. I saw that good behavior was rewarded and now being in 10th grade, it's second nature to say "thank you" when papers are passed out in class. The reward didn't cause me to expect it every time but rather proved to me that people are always paying attention and how to stand out in a good way.
OMG....... THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE
Hi Ford, nice to meet you!
My name is Ford.
OMG that cracked me up!
Drama Llama Queen Productions hahaha hahaha omg
Ford is such a mood tho
Jen Rose though*
@@maryams3046 bro..
Drama Llama Queen Productions what!
THE UNIVERSE it supposed to be like that.. it’s a joke
@@maryams3046 its supposed to be like that. have you been living under a rock for your entire life?
“So who likes going on playdate?”
**everyone raises hand except Ford**
Me: Ford is the introvert we all were when we were little😂
I still am
I am still that introvert at age 8.
Not me
@@kachow12321 age 8 is still a kid
I didn’t notice that when I first watched thi video
I think being kind is a lot more important then being polite in life, because I think that being too polite can come off as less relaxed and somewhat rigid sometimes. I think it’s good for kids to learn manners, however, it may be a little odd at school especially when they’re in middle or high school, if they act very polite and formal, it’s less natural feeling
Wrong. Society has become so sloppy that everyone accepts it. Everyone, keep your standards high, don't allow Society to hold you back like this comment I'm replying to.
True, lol.
Fun Fact:
A hand shake actually transmits the most germs out of shake,high five, & fist bump. A fist bump is the most sanitary
Kid Vid lol.... yes...lol we know now cause COVID19
You said the future..
That is why us Indians use namaste 🙏
Ella ikr!
Ella Torgersen she edited it
0:28
I love how presley is sitting
“Hi Ford nice to meet you I’m Adrian” “I’m Ford” 😆
No fist bumps or high fives? Uh... are they forgetting which generation we are in currently? 😂
Overall, I agree with the handshake though. It depends who it is, like your boss or meeting new people.
My daughter elbow pumps, cause to many kids sneeze into their hands
Namaste is the new trend dude
Exactly not every adult will think that a little kid like that will shake there hand. Most adults will give say high five not shake my hand
On interruptions, I taught my daughter (currently 4 years old) to come hold my pinkie finger when she needs to talk to me and I'm preoccupied with another adult, even just talking with my husband. I squeeze her finger back and she knows I know, and I keep holding onto her pinkie. Whoever I'm talking to can usually tell she needs something, and a natural lull tends to happen pretty quickly so I'm able to address her. We've been doing this for about a year and she really does great with it!
I seen a woman who looked like meg and I asked does she work with what’s up Mom’s and she said no but she watches you all the time
Kita Scott OoFf that’s SOOOOO embarrassing lol
Gwendalynn Alvarado Ik
I have a problem with teaching kids they should introduce themselves with a handshake. A) because kids are dirty and germ-y, and you don't know when the other person/ child washed their hands of coughed in them.
But more importantly B) kids (and adults) with learning or behavioural difficulties are often uncomfortable with contact, so teaching kids it's 'impolite' to not shake hands stigmatises and isolates kids who don't like to touch.
C) It's also teaching kids that they have to make contact or interact with strangers. It's like when parents to force their kids to 'go give X a big hug and kiss'. If a kid is uncomfortable doing that, you're forcing them to interact with people they don't know in a way they're not comfortable with. It might be hard to believe but kids are people too, with their own individual boundaries.
A Better idea would be to teach kids to wave and say something polite, rather than force them to shake hands.
I agree I was always a shy kid when I was younger and an introvert.
i agree completely!! i am still pretty young but i remember a while ago i was seeing my uncle, who i had only met maybe two times prior to this time, he was getting really close and trying to force me to hug him and kiss him. me, being maybe five years old at the time, hardly even remembered who he was and felt very uncomfortable. even now i am only thirteen years old but i am still really shy, around both family members and strangers. i have trouble keeping eye contact when talking to most people and i talk really quietly.
@@azlyn8517 same I used hide behind my mom with her work friends/relatives.
Yes completely agree!
yes, im a total introvert and i hate touching. so when my moms like " go give [x] a hug" i fake it because it's just uncomfortable.
One thing I’ve seen for interruptions is taking mom’s hand so that mom has a physical reminder and will get to them as soon as there is a break in conversation.
I love how ford did not rise his hand when the lady asked if they loved when they had the play dates 😂😂😂😂😂
Her name is Rachel
a tip for eye contact. After your child meets someone new, you can ask them what colour their eyes are or something
my mom is also an etiquette teacher so growing up she always taught classes to my friends lol. at 16 now, i work in an ice cream shop and it's always so nice to hear when kids are very polite and have good manners. my boss likes to compliment them to encourage it haha
I’m a kid with allergies. A handshake is always the best option for me. Some kids eat things I’m allergic to and don’t wash their hands, and I have serious allergies. Meaning I can die from smelling them. So just remember that some kids won’t want a handshake and it’s not them being rude, it’s them being safe,
Presley is so beautiful! She’s growing up so fast!😍
The one in the blue dress and light curly brown hair is so pretty♥️👌🏻 all of them are beautiful 👌🏻♥️
I know, Kaitlyn is so pretty
armyyyy
Who else watches this channel and isn’t a mom? I do!
One thing with the interrupting is Presley was sort of correct. When I learned I was told that I can put my hand on my Mom's (or whoever I'm trying to get attention from's) shoulder, this way they will know that you want to talk to them but you aren't interrupting.
Also for whoever is receiving the hand on their shoulder can place your hand over their hand so that they know that you heard that they want your attention.
I am sorry if that was a confusing explanation. But thank you for your time
Hi presley nice to meet you
*KEEPS SHAKING HAND UNTIL THE VIDEO IS DONE
When my daughter wants to talk to me while I am speaking to an adult or on the phone, she will hold my hand to let me know and I will put my hand on top of hers her to acknowledge that she needs to soak to me and that she needs to wait.
2019 and earlier: When you greet someone, shake hands. It shows how polite you are. 2020: Please DON'T shake your hands no matter what! It'll show how responsible you are 😉
Wait until they’re teens 😂😂😂
Lol
Never force a kid to greet people in a way they arent comfortable with
.-. They were not forced
@@alexismailey445 Just saying
Carol W Why say that? They weren’t forced into anything.
Carol W yeah, manners are important; I totally agree with that, however if they are shy it’s alright you can always help.
Because if you do that they will become more shy or feel like they aren't enough of something.
OMG PRESLY IS GORGEOUS ❤️
Yes and the other girl IDK her name
Oh her name is Katlyn
To @Jackson Cravens . tru
Tru 😀
Grrr g hd
Interruptions when your kid comes up teach that when you put your hand on there shoulder it lets them know you are aware they are there. And when there’s a pause you will get to them 💜
2:03 stares without calling out
My parents : giving me the death stare lol
(I love my parents this is just a funny thing I wanted to share
This is such a truthful video !! I love WUM!
I don't even have children, nor having any anytime soon, but I love your videos ❤️
More vids like this please-different topics even!
Ahhh I love this, Presley is so grown up now!
Hi Elle! Youre my favourite from WhatsUpMoms! Im so happy I met your channel.
This is such a great idea for a class activity (I’m a preschool teacher). 👍🏼
Oh thank you wum for posting this vid ,I really wanted to teach my sister good manners , and I was puzzled to where to start sooo thank you u helped me ,love you guys
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Yay early love you guys I love this channel I'm expecting a little boy in August this channel is amazing.
Thank you for sharing because this is the most important to our Children
When you're early and don't know what to comment except...
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Hi Elle! Its good to see Rachel again 👍 Presley & Ford are getting so big!? I cant grasp it!
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I don’t like handshakes cause my hands are quite sweaty :(
The end of the movie is the best 😁😅
It's difficult for children who are shy to make friends. But with love they can change. And make friends it may be late but if they try it's possible. Awesome video.
Lol my parents never let me dye my hayonky when I’m high school but the special guest daughter dyed her hair
This is very good! I'm going to show this to my daughter.
Presley’s hair is so long and pretty 💕
This is a really good way to teach kids politeness . Thanks WUM it's really helpful 🙂
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I love watching this kind of stuffs
Thanks for the video !!!
I really appreciate how Ford is totally himself! Having a boy toddler almost little kiddo child myself, it’s nice to see that 😎
Ford is so cute!😍
Ahhh! Great video. Love them! These will help!
Man I really love Ford
Excellent! Thank you for making this video..🙏🇮🇳💖 My child is quite good with everything but there was one particular point which will help my child very much..
thank you🙏🇮🇳💖
First impressions the first I met my best friends dad I jumped into his car in my pjs 😂
Other kid : hi ford nice to meet u
Ford:hi my name is ford
Loooooollll
Kids are our future world and all of us want a better world and that is possible if we raise our kids accordingly.
These are good tips. Bit I don't agree with forcing children to shake hands or having contact with a person if they don't want to.
Haha I’m gonna use this for my future kids 😂😂👏🏻
At 2:40 when she said today it sounds like bratayley intro when they say “today on bratayley”!!
Love your videos 😍❣️❣️
Thanks for sharing ,I learn speaking English and American Culture too .
I walked out of my room and didn’t realize my mom was on the phones so I said oops sorry lol😂😂
I love these videossss
Ford is a WHOLE mood
Love your videos so much even thought him still a kid
My name is Kaelyn too
Totally loved this!! So helpful and informative and can’t wait to show my little one the video tomorrow. She loves watching your kids do all the cooking and crafts! Thank you sooooo much for this one! ❤️
Presley : hi how was your day
Ford : ????
These videos really help 👍
I tried to shake this girls hand and she’s like “ uhhhhhh I don’t do handshakes it’s unhygienic” and I’m like gurl I was just tryna be nice 😂
This amazing for me
My teacher used to call the weak handshake a dead fish
I am not a mom but a love these videos ❤
Amazing
0:31 Presley already looks like she’s polite! She literally folds her legs and puts her hands in her lap like she’s a mature adult.
Rachel should totally do a ettiquete series right here in whatsupmoms
wow ....
this is what I wanted
My parents always had me just put my hand on there arm until they stoped their conversation to see what I needed
I love you guys ❣
For when the parents are talking my mom had us put our hand on her leg (just long enough for her to get it) and that was our signal
Love u guys 💖
Early :)? Tapped right away
Gonna use this in like 10 years lol, I want my kids to be well mannered
Love this even though I’m 11 years old
Hihi
politeness is important, but we also have to teach kids its ok they dont have to make body contact with everyone (more for like hugs and stuff)
Hi super early love ya guys ❤️🇵🇭
The phrase I like best is "You don't get a second chance at a first impression."
The best way to teach kids is to be an EXAMPLE to your kids! In manners and other things in life 💜 would you want your kids behaving like you do in any aspect in life? They see you
I wasn’t taught good manners, and it went terrible when I was at a sleepover. I was sassy and interrupting my friends parents.
they are going to be really helpful
Adrien:hi ford I’m Adrien
Ford:I’m Ford
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No hand shake now 😂😂
Hy Elle
I am always trying to be polite in public and even not when I am anywhere
I’m so sorry I had work. (whichever one you consider 😉😂)