Your true personality is, your ability to mimic, and portray the traits of others that you admire. You're a collection of people that interest you and that you have a fondness for. You are selfless and that's not all that bad.
I agree with this, but some of what we do is learned through emotions, behavior and the environment around us. Which is why being careful of what I allow in to my mind in different situations is important. Also some of what we don't do is based on the effects of seeing others do those things.
Timestamps: 0:27 - Clothing Preference 1:03 - Shopping Habits 1:34 - Daily Routines 2:12 - Professional Stress 2:39 - The way you walk 3:19 - Hobbies 3:53 - Written Words
My mother grew up with a neighbor who analyzed an individuals character solely based off their handwriting. My grandma married my step grandpa when my mother was 11 years old and this neighbor did a free analysis for each of them. Within my step-grandpas analysis it was revealed that he was narcissistic and had abusive tendencies, flash forward to my mother moving out of her house at the age of 16 to escape the abuse he inflicted on her. It is insane how handwriting can reveal so much.
Reading people is very simple. You just have to look at five basic things and make a mental list of of the information. This will usually give you a general idea about their identity, background and intentions. The indicators are , 1. Face, this is by far the most important place to look at. You can tell someone, age, ethnicity, mood and even what they are thinking to some extent by looking at their face. 2. Hands, hand gestures, accessories, twitching, and moving fingers in a certain way reveal a lot about their personality. 3. Feet, the kind of shoes they wear, the way they stand, and the way that tap their feet all are indicators of different personality traits 4. Clothing, The way we dress is by far the most basic and important form of self-expression. This is the easiest way to tell how simple or sophisticated, indoorsy or outgoing, easy-going or high maintenance someone is. 5. Posture, Someone's posture is a direct reflection of their confidence and what they believe about themselves . I devised this method by studying police manuals, airport security and lots and lots of trial and error. The best way to get good at reading people is to practise. I used to be a martial arts teacher, I've worked in sales for years so I've had plenty of time to hone this skill. It will be difficult in the beginning and you'll be wrong most of the time but with time you'll become a real-life Sherlock Holmes or James bond. I'm not saying that I'm there yet I still make a lot of wrong guesses. But, mastering anything is a journey, not a destination
@@arooo1377 I said nothing about reading minds. I just tried to share a simple method of guessing people's intentions and other small details about their personalities. And just like I said you will kina get the hang of it as you go and it's difficult to explain simply by typing it out.
If you're struggling to discover yourself what helped me is I stopped viewing myself from others and stopped trying to portray myself as me and I just started doing what I wanted. Once I learned what I wanted to do and what I wanted in myself I developed a personality and now I just do what I want and let others perceive me how they will, stop micromanaging and start living
This really helped me dig deeper into myself and find some more of who I am. People have been trying to help me drift away from depression, which my parents think I chemically have. But the darkness just keeps luring me in, and I just lose myself. And watching your channel helped me understand more symptoms of depression, phobias I had, anxiety, etc. And your goal to spread psychology across the world is a big goal to have. But you keep going with a smile across your face! This channel is just amazing! Thank you!
@@Psych2go I would enjoy some videos talking about Hypnosis! I've been a bit curious lately! If you can squeeze that in, I would highly appreciate it! :)
1. Clothing preference - Depends on mood. Sweat pants, baggy tshirts if depressed; non-formal buttoned shirts, pants, fedoras, sometimes a blazer if feeling good and confident. I enjoy my freedom, but I also enjoy mixing it up with a bit of order in my sense of fashion. 2. Shopping habits - I personally prefer to shop in person, but I'm an introvert. I've gotten much better at not to spend impulsively. I treat myself only once in a while. 3. Daily routines - I hate cleaning, but do it anyway. I admit, I'm not always an agreeable person. 4. Professional stress - View from negative lens. True. I worry over minute details sometimes. 5. Walking style - My steps are soft, but I walk fast (or slow if I'm depressed, hahaha). Still introverted. 6. Hobbies - I write and play music. I do enjoy opening up to new experiences. 7. Written words - My writing style is... all over the place. Sometimes it's vertical, sometimes it's (moderately) right-slanted. P2G never talked about moderate right slant handwriting, so idk what it means.
I was 6 when I figured out that the faster you get from point A to point B, the more time you spend actually doing something at the point B. So I subconsciously always walk fast and seem super aggressive while I'm probably nicest person you'll meet. These are good traits to follow and recognize but exceptions will always be there lol
I walk fast because my siblings are all way taller than me so I'm used to keeping up the pace. I have not an ounce of aggressiveness, it's more like enthusiasm; i enjoy walking.
1) Clothing preference (Casual - low conformist, want to be free) 2) Shopping (Offline - extroverted. That's false I'm an introvert.) 3) Daily routine (high agreeable, wash dishes and sing in the shower 😆 that's true) 4) Professional stress (view from a negative lense. Neurotic and highly agreeable. Yep that's true too.) 5) Walking style (slow with soft steps - introverted) 6) Hobbies (open people will be likely to take part in literature, art and aesthetic which is true about me). 7) Writing. (I don't know about my writing style.)😕😆
@@youtubecommentergal4346 not social but outgoing like you like to go in big event or party but you are enjoying it by staying alone or with only few people. If you're social then you ain't introvert.
@@otakumonkey , there are four types of introverts. Social, thinking, anxious and reserved. Social introverts are like the most extroverted among the four. I don't like going to very loud, crowded places but like a small party with people I know is okay. Again it depends on the situation and my mood. There are times I won't mind a big crowd and others where I can't stand it for sure.
@@youtubecommentergal4346 You might be ambivert. I'm introvert but i like to go in crowd whether it's very loud party with huge crowd or small party with few people but i don't want to socialize with them. I just stay at the corner and enjoy the events.
On the one hand, I like homework because it's a learning opportunity for me, but on the other hand, there's something about specific deadlines and my lingering perfectionism that makes me hate it.
1. being on time. 2. smiling in order to respectfully/professionally/protectingly hide negative emotions from your peers. 3. Being comfortable looking someone in the eyes.
Your such a good RUclipsr! Really helping and encouraging young people to express themselves, get mental help, talk to people, or even realise how toxic they/friends/family are! Keep up what u are doing and u will go so far 😊
1. Casual Clothes 2. Online shopping 3. I am on the phone but not planning parties I am trying to find friends 4. Negative way 5. I walk slowly 6. Open to experiences 7. I write right most if the time but I will write left sometimes -- Thank you 💕
Wow. All these years I thought I was an introvert. I'm so extremely extroverted now after finding people I actually enjoy being around with similar interests it's truly insane.
Clothing Preference is a bit hard pick. I just like how casual, secured, yet formal looking some colored clothing are. I tend to wear casual business clothing like polo/shirt/blouse with jeans or skirts. Most of the "going out" clothes in my wardrobe are that since those are hand-me-downs from my mother, but my preference for casual business clothes was way before she gave me these clothes. In rush days, I wear a colored polo or shirt with jeans, and if not, I wear a polo or shirt with a skirt, or if it's available in my wardrobe, I wear dresses. How I pick my dresses tends to scale on how it can cover my chests, the skirt should be knee-length or longer-- I tend to lean closer to skirts that are "flowy" or the kind that looks like it has a bloomer underneath. If a dress shows a lot of shoulders, I would resort to covering it up with a cardigan or blazer. I don't really care of these criteria if being "flashy" is mandatory in a formal setting like parties and events. I received a few comments from my classmates that I dress like a teacher; if I was left to choose an outfit combination outside of my mom's hand-me-downs, she would make comments saying I looked too old (because I would wear a really frilly, long-sleeved polo with a "formal" looking skirt; some schoolmates would mistaken me for being a teacher too whenever casual clothes are allowed in school. Well, I could say that I wear casual business clothing that have colors or embroidery. I've also preferred adding a small shoulder bag in my person.
Well because human personality are rarely dominant towards one direction. Like you could be someone who's composed, but then you can suddenly panic. One example for a person of dominant personality trait is mother theresa in being kind. This is what I learnt in my psychology class though, you can search about it, because I don't want to give false information.
@@heyyo3746 Ahh, the one with Carl Jung's research, about Life is Full of Opposites? I had an intrapersonal psychology subject called Personal Development in my strand. I can see his point more with your comments 👍
Clothing preferences is extremely difficult for me because it's based on what fits me and what I can afford, not nessecarily what i would like or prefer fat chicks like looking cute also
I think that something else that shows your true personality is the way you talk. Loud and straightforward = Someone who wants to get something done or is very determined Soft and subtle = Someone who doesn't really like to express their true feelings and would rather aggre with others Expressive and Chill = Someone who is very laid back and would rather go with the flow than change it Opposite gender and Different = Someone who wants to be the Opposite gender of themselves so they try to talk and/or sound like the Opposite gender Inspired and Taken = Someone who tries to talk like someone famous or someone that has a great personality or use of words, so they decide to copy it Sorry that took so long-
After listening to, and enjoying many of your videos, I have come to the conclusion that you (The Narrator), have a wonderful voice. Tonally, it is very pleasant on the ears, and suggests kindness and compassion. I really do enjoy listening to how you speak.
In terms of writing, it looks like this also depends on your ethnicity or other factors because in my surrounding you can hardly see people writing in a left slant rather they prefer the right one. My friend writes in an extreme right slant and I have never seen her being an impulsive person or lacking self-control. Going further, there is either a correlation between the country and writing or this field is only in the process of discovering as different sources state opposite information
You might be onto something. I wright in a extreme right slant because I wanted to right just like my grandmother as a kid. I tend to overthink and don't have any emotional control issues.
Hard work just gives me that much more of an opportunity to improve myself in a day, wether it’s learning how to handle stress or just lifting lots of heavy stuff. It’s not stressful, it’s good.
Your videos are so relatable. Imma 15yo kid 😂. I don’t have that much friends so I don’t know what to expect from others. And guys I hope you guys grow though good mentality. God bless you all my lovely brother and sister
Yeah, we experience many different things and perceive them too. Our personality cannot be set in stone. But we also don't lose our uniqueness.......it is just so beautiful and fascinating!
Interesting paradox I found with writing styles. A moderate left slant was attributed to those who find it hard to verbalize their emotions, but also those who find them easy to verbalize. Not sure if there was a mixup with video creation or that’s just what the research says
I'm a true free spirit in my own world. I wear plain, casual clothes and live in the fantasy world. I feel very very unique and undrawn to others. However, I walk really fast and do not care about what others think of me. I'm an ambivert and my writing slants slightly to the right. I love expressing my happiness to others. Thank you so much and this has really helped me reflect on my inner self even more. ❣❣❣😁😁😁
I could never find my true self I've been stuck with so many different versions of myself that finding the one that expresses how I feel is truly a challenge. However I saw that you said introverts are in physical sports for me it's quite odd there is a sword art I do based from a style that dates back to 16th century Japan it is called Iaido, Iaido is a art of harmony and killing because this is when swordsmanship meant power back. My goal is to become better than the legendary swordsman Miyamoto Musashi by doing so I will go to every Iaido School in Japan and become a black belt in every one
What helped me is I stopped viewing myself from others and stopped trying to portray myself as me and I just started doing what I wanted. Once I learned what I wanted to do and what I wanted in myself I developed a personality and now I just do what I want and let others perceive me how they will, stop micromanaging and start living
I am an introvert and i walk fast, my hobbies are also singing, writing poems/stories, reading fictions and drawing. The number 6 about introverts, really suits my personality. I love your videos!
1. Mixed style/preferences or how the weather is that day 2. Online if I can't(or know I can't) find something I'm looking for at stores 3. High agreeableness, I do chores if no one else does them or I feel like something needs to be done. Singing in the shower sometimes 4. Professional stress, I'm always gonna be viewing it from a negative lens💀 5. I walk fast with quiet steps 6. Open to experiences but sporty at the same time but not really- I like doing sports with others but I get too nervous about messing it up(volleyball) or I don't have the motivation to actually try or really get into the game😥 7. I write with small letters ig, trying to make my letters perfectly fit in the lines. Vertical slant
I actually walk fast and pretend to be confident in order to prevent people talking to me or in general giving me attention…. And i like to dress both: comfortable and elegant. That’s one struggle i have
@@CMStrawbridge Handwriting analysis trends are pretty well documented and corroborated for the most part just as non-verbal communication cues are as well. Palmistry is on shaky ground in the hard science world but is a tradition that goes back centuries with its own knowledge base that is more handed down than peer reviewed in blind control studies, but you never know there might be some scholar looking into it seriously.
@@fluidikons i don't doubt you can identify people by their handwriting, but i do think it saying much about your personality is a stretch. I think that's what you're saying; i didn't know it was called palmistry
Very true my personality has changed a lot from when I was younger to now I was an extrovert back then but the older I get the more I realize that I am now an introvert
Looking down at my school workbooks and notebooks, I write slightly slanted left! I didn't even notice I do this often! (but then again I get my right confused with my left and my east confused with my south lol) Also when I was younger, as in early elementary range, when I was younger I was emo in about the first 3 years of elementary, I loved rock music, disliked school, and I even cussed... besides that is not the point, the point is I have changed a bunch over the years, especially over quarantine, compared to now, now I don't cuss at all, I despise rock music and prefer lofi, instrumental, jazz, pop, and k-pop music! I love school too! My personality has very much evolved over time!
Whoever is reading this, I pray that whatever you’re growing through gets better and whatever you’re battling with makes your situation better as you’re continuing to be a better person each day. I have faith that you’ll turn out great as your circumstances will change. Have a fantastic day! You got this! 🤗💪🏼❤️
sometimes it's cheaper to buy in store because shipping costs online 🙃 but i like online shopping because i sometimes get anxiety shopping for groceries
Honestly I found myself caught in the middle of a lot of these. I'm definitely an extrovert, but I only like to Ski, and I spend a lot of time indoors playing games with people online, or playing TTRPGs or reading. I have preferred professional clothes in the past, and I still have some sets, but I'm not career-oriented at all. I personally prefer shopping in real life because I like to see, feel, and touch my clothes before I buy them, but I also like buying clothes online, especially because it's a lot more convenient. I'm not particularly impulsive in my spending, though. I don't have a daily routine, at all, but I'm more of someone to plan events and such rather than doing domestic work. I'm pretty sure I'm pretty agreeable, though. Stresses in my work often just make me think negatively, like I'm not good enough if I don't get it done, and then I never do. I walk in fairly large strides, but my steps are quite light. My writing is written in a slight right slant, and I do it fairly quickly and larger than normal. I usually have small line spacing, and my i dots are often quite high. I write with a medium amount of pressure, and often connect some of my letters, mainly because I write so fast. I think I'm good at expressing my emotions and find it pretty easy, but it's not like I don't have any self-control or anything. So, that's me, and my take on me. Hope you enjoyed reading that paragraph about someone you don't know!
omg i thought no one else was gonna be like this ME TOO 😭 i sat here watching the whole video going: “well maybe i am extroverted *5 secs later* well maybe i am an introvert” “im not a big sports guy except maybe skiing and swimming in my free time” or with the writing part: “well my writing has a slight right lean but im left-handed so does that have anything to do with it? i write fast, large and have to connecting points in my words bc i hate cursive my hand writing look like a drunk 4 y/o so yay thx phychToGo i am now more confused than before! :’D
1: Casual cause I like comfortable clothes 2: Offline cause I’ve never used online shopping until a couple months ago 3: Wash dishes and sing shower ye 4: I view everything from a negative lens since I’m very pessimistic 5: I either walk with soft steps or just imitating someone I see since I don’t feel comfortable outside 6: I spend my days either doing one sport or just learning some language or with learning balisong.(so I guess more introverted) 7: I write in a right slant since I was taught to do that.
Clothes style - Cheerful and slightly fashionable, mostly colorful with bold patterns. Shopping habits - I do not shop as much, but I mainly prefer malls over staying at home. Daily routine - I sing in the shower and I like working with children. Professional stress - Depending on the day, it’s either positive or negative, though I am more likely to procrastinate then the average person. The way I walk - Very bouncy and usually looks like I’m dancing. Hobbies - I enjoy trying new things, but I mostly draw, play music, act, read, and a lot of other things that allow me to be creative. Writing style - Messy and unique with big capital letters and small lowercase letters.
Normally I can find something that I love and agree with in your videos (not that I couldn't in this one) I had trouble seeing myself but other then that I absolutely love you guys
Thanks much dears, very insightful. Thinking of mbti and the introverted or extroverted people. Yea, many extroverts seem to enjoy crowded places or being at mall lol. While some introverts prefer more of silent activities, homebodies or calm places.
@@Psych2go Thank you guys for doing that great job here. Mbti is very helpful to understand the self or others better, like different types of extros and intros, for example more thinking or feeling type or intuitive type or sensors... So yea would be very helpful 🙏🏻☺️💖
in middle school i was known in the class as the "quiet artsy kid", and everybody thought i have an extreme lack of confidence. i believed them without questioning, without even thinking about what i know about myself, so i was really surprised when i found out that writing in large letters usually means the person is confident, because i didn't (and i still don't) know anyone who writes bigger letters than me. this confused me a lot, because i always accepted the role of the shy loner, and this new information messed with the image of me that i had based on others opinions. now, many years later i know that my self confidence really wasn't that low as i let others make me believe, and i still find these little habits that tell a lot about your personality really interesting, especially handwriting!
4:45 I think this is the most important place Psych2Go could have ended this video. Take each point discussed with grain of salt. You shouldn't internalise traits just because a video says "this is the way people tend to be according to science"; there are some people prone to this. Even science has a margin of error.
I actually feel worse every week about myself that I don't posses the ability of self-control. This mostly happens with school but also around other friends and family too. It contemplates the fact that people with no self-control writes in an extreme right slant. Which I have noticed these months and weeks getting more excessive over time. Most of my classmates know that i am mentally unstable within my personality and how I am as a person, and every time I come home, I feel miserable cause I know I said or did something stupid at school that I am ashamed of my entire day, but well, I guess I'm trying to somehow fix it nowadays. 😔
"your personality traits will change over time" me who was extremely extroverted and spunky in elementary school but way more self aware and KIND of shy in middleschool
I wear casual clothes, but I’m very organized and love to make handmade charts. I study a lot and work hard for school, and I admit I freak out when I don’t see an A on a paper. I feel like I can be strong and stubborn, and I’m not afraid to make my opinion known, whether it freaks people out or gets my heart racing. When I want something, I work hard to get it, I love to read adult level books even though I’m just a little younger than 12. It’s important to me that everybody has an opportunity to live the life they want. I do tease and poke fun at people, but when they tell me to stop in a serious way, I will. That’s kind of my personality, and I’ve struggled with having a good time in the past, but my love for horses, riding, writing, and reading has changed that.
About number 7, I don’t write in print because I’m totally blind. So I either write in braille, or I use Voiceover on my Iphone. I don’t think blindness and other physical handicaps are talked about enough. Fun fact, if you have a physical handicap., it can cause mental health problems too.
Your peraonality is how you see yourself as a person, everybody has own including myself. Me, my personality is very high: I'm more fun, humorous, believing, loving, confidential, very active, healthy and always happy & giddy about things that are very funny. But I'm always easy-going, caring, friendly to others and always love cooking for others and myself. Now you see how high of a personality that I have. And everybody's personalities are different no matter how old you are because it does not make any difference.
Thank you so much for these videos, they have helped me understand why I feel the way I do, this has helped me target my problem and face it, keep up the great work ❤️
1. I wear very casual outfits and I despise uniform 2. I tend to shop online and I budget well 3. I love to do chores, but if I have a hectic day I choose to rest first instead of doing chores 4. I love and enjoy my job but I do get easily stressed over small details 5. I drag my feet so my bottom shoe soles are easily ruined, and I walk fast, I don’t stroll 6. I do cardio and sing almost everyday 7. I write ugly and very small
It's very interesting. I've been watching your video for a long time but that's my first time writing a comment here. Fun fact- I'm more of an introvert but I go fencing (for about 10 years). About hobbies, not long a go, I started to write poetry and post on my channel for those who are interested. But my question is, do you think that the type of my poetry could say something about my personality? (Sorry if I said something wrong)
I have been so all over the place for years, even more so the past decade and a half due to trauma. Trauma on top of trauma, I’m a naturally extroverted woman, but have become more introverted. I’ve struggled with chaos and depression all my life, I hope to be able to become more organized and well put together. That’s my goal I’m setting and achieving. I won’t allow my trauma to consume me anymore.
Hey, Psych2go? Would you mind doing a video on Autism vs Asperger syndrome? I feel like a lot of people can't tell the difference or miss it entirely, especially since I am on the extreme borderline of having Asperger syndrome. I think it could really help people understand other as well as themselves if they have such a condition. Thanks :)
Theoretically they are the same thing since Asperger’s syndrome is considered to be on the autism spectrum. However, Asperger’s syndrome is high functioning and is hard to discover in certain individuals.
Hey, fellow autistic here originally diagnosed (age 10) with Asperger's syndrome. These days, Asperger's is put into the autism spectrum as the similarities are far greater than the differences, but it's the severities that vary between individuals. People might prefer different labels, but it's not wrong to be one or the other. In my eyes, however, they're both related to autism. :)
My aesthetic is comfortable formal-ish casual. The kind of clothes you’d wear to a brunch date even though I never go on brunch dates because I’m an introvert. I might wear a pretty sweater and jeans, or a hoodie and leggings, or a button up shirt with jeans. I may accessorize in an artistic way if I have the choice
So the walking thing... What's it mean that I walk softly but with confidence? Like my stride isn't small, and I move like I know where I'm going, but you wouldn't hear me coming up behind you unless you were specifically listening for it.
*Clothing preference* : dungarees, t shirts and turtlenecks all the way. shorts only when its extremely hot. only wear formal clothes for school. *Shopping* : mall shopping. just because i usually go with friends. *Chores* : tidying up my room, vacuuming, cleaning. *Professional Stress* : n/a *Way I walk* : softer steps *Hobbies* : definitely more open. i crochet, draw, paint, read books sometimes, code… yeah. *Word slant* : moderate left.
I have a very "strong" personality - and I know myself very well. But one of the scariest things I've seen are the people who's entire personality changes depending on the people they're around. If they're around you, they'll mimic your personality. But when they're around different people, they act just like those people. They seem to have no set personality. I call them "salesmen" . Whatever you like, they like too, automatically , without hesitation. BEWARE of that kind of person
Yes, totally. Those types of people who are only mimicking and seem not to have a set personality could be very dangerous in nature. However, it should be made known that individuals can change slightly with each different group of people they are with and yet not be psychopaths. For example, if it is an individual's propensity to curse like a sailor with his friends, but he has a meeting in town hall the next day, it should not surprise you that he curses significantly less at the meeting than with his friends. People have different comfort levels with different groups of people and naturally change to suit the context. I believe this is actually rather healthy. But yes, you are correct. Those who completely change depending on the groups they are currently with are like venomous snakes and should be kept at arms length.
I'm not that extreme, but I do change a bit depending on my crowd. It's not for any specific reason other than the fact I'm an anxious person and have a very strong need to fit in. Nothing nefarious or dangerous going on here, and it's definitely not a conscious effort.
4:25 I have a habit of repressing my emotions without realizing it. But, doesn't left slanted writing happen just because you write with your right hand?
1. Hooded bathrobe and slippers 2. physical shopping and rarely shop 3. I do dishes and take down trees 4. I own my own business and love improving how I do things 5. I speed walk and kind of love flying past people 🤣 6. Making music 7. Large letters and scribble slight right slant
I’ve been struggling to find out my personality, but, most of the time I notice that I change myself due to the people around me, but when it’s someone I don’t know I tend to just stay quiet. Multiple of my friends have said I’m a “people pleaser” which I’m not quite sure what that means, but I think I have a good idea. (If you could elaborate that would be nice) I’m also pretty impulsive, and I find it hard to express my emotions around people, and if you know a website or something I could visit to help me with that, or just comment it, I would appreciate it. To be completely honest I sometimes find myself losing sleep over small things I think I did wrong in the past, and if they affected how people view me, and sometimes have a small panic attack. This probably isn’t good, but idk. I feel like I’m being a little too open, but who knows if this will help. But yeah, feel free to comment, or don’t, it’s up to you, I just would like a little input I guess.
hmmm same thing happened to me there's this guy makes me worries whatever i like about, and im worried what he'll think about it or what's what about it. but truly i just wanna be myself, like before.. not caring what people think about me and i think this could mean we care about their opinions, try not thinking whatever they'll think and distance yourself in them! well perhaps that's what your friend notices.. that you let people affects you still other people's opinions doesn't define you, but it's up to you if you let them do so.. learn to be alone but not lonely know you're never alone, feeling this way or anything! i think this could help being you.. like being in a room! there you can do or feel anything, without anyone's judgement "don't spend all your time trying to find yourself, spend your time creating yourself into a person you'll be proud of." i find it hard to just not blame myself at times, but remember that past is past, & your past mistake doesn't define you! i struggled with this too! are you a god's follower anyways? uhm or perhaps do you suffer from depression because it's one of the reasons why it's hard to vent what you're feeling in! well i found a test and it explains if you're a people pleaser too uhm you can try it out! psychologia.co/people-pleaser-quiz/ it's okay.. there are times sharing our feelings isn't that comfortable, and we think that mostly people wouldn't understand us. but know you're never alone in this. `this is just actually what i think about your situation and it's up to you what you'll do about it! goodluck anyways! and take care! :') & you matter.
people pleaser refers to how you make sure what you're doing or saying is ideal to the person you are talking to at that moment. You might try to help out a lot, and try to not bother others when you're not asked to. Basically when (how you mentioned) shift how you act for the thought of others that's called being a people pleaser. I tempt to become one when I meet my friend's parents, but I avoid engaging too much. So yeah that's what a people pleaser is
hey, it's alright not to be able to show your true emotions around people, I can't remember the last time I did so try to focus mainly on saying how when you're not very happy with something like 'mmm I don't know how to feel about that' and then maybe follow it by 'yeah, no.' it does depend on who you're around so don't rely on this :')
This really made me think because for the most part i was evenly balanced between Extrovert & Introvert for example i take long confident strides, and I'm setting up time with friends to hangout. But on the other hand i find myself more engrossed in "cultural aesthetic leisure" and prefer to buy things online.
This video just further proves that Idk wtf to label myself and why I space out when answering questions like "tell me about yourself" 😂 I don't have many clothing preferences, as long as I look okay. I walk awkwardly and differently constantly (sometimes I hunch, then suddenly keep a straight body, sometimes I skip then suddenly I walk slowly, then sometimes faster and there's never any real consistency) And then there's the way I write. Most of the time, my writing is understandable, but it's also understandably ugly because my handwriting constantly changes styles every word, every sentence and sometimes even mid words. I have almost no original handwriting And I know this wasn't part of the list but I also have no real favourite genre of music. I like artists who has like 8 subgenres in their album 😂
Lol yeah "tell me about yourself" is one of the question that I hate the most because... Idk man, I'm just me, I can't really describe that in labels And for shopping I do both online and offline, I scroll endlessly on online shops and walk a mile in shopping malls
@@kittenmimi5326 do you have a specific fav genre of music? Or fav medium of media? Like is it videos, music, film, series, comics or are you also all of the above like me? 🤣
"Extroverts tend to walk with confidence. Introverts tend to walk slowly with soft steps" Me, who walks both quickly and with completely silent footsteps while proceeding to sneak up on the same friend over and over completely by accident: _uh now what_
Most of my life I thought that I'm an introvert. Then I started a therapy and made personality test. I was actually an extrovert with small social anxiety. I was curious if I just didn't make mistakes in personality test. But now when I'm watching this it makes sense.
ref: #7 Writing Style... Would it also depend on whether the person is left-handed or right-handed? [BTW... I am left-handed]. PS. Is there a video showing the personality differences/types between left and right-handed individuals?
Your true personality is, your ability to mimic, and portray the traits of others that you admire. You're a collection of people that interest you and that you have a fondness for. You are selfless and that's not all that bad.
I agree with this, but some of what we do is learned through emotions, behavior and the environment around us. Which is why being careful of what I allow in to my mind in different situations is important. Also some of what we don't do is based on the effects of seeing others do those things.
I think this is only somewhat true. I don't believe, however, the entirety of personality is dictated by social learning.
True.
Nice comment thread
I wish that were true
Timestamps:
0:27 - Clothing Preference
1:03 - Shopping Habits
1:34 - Daily Routines
2:12 - Professional Stress
2:39 - The way you walk
3:19 - Hobbies
3:53 - Written Words
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Thank you 😊
My mother grew up with a neighbor who analyzed an individuals character solely based off their handwriting. My grandma married my step grandpa when my mother was 11 years old and this neighbor did a free analysis for each of them. Within my step-grandpas analysis it was revealed that he was narcissistic and had abusive tendencies, flash forward to my mother moving out of her house at the age of 16 to escape the abuse he inflicted on her. It is insane how handwriting can reveal so much.
Wow, that's wild.
O_0
It's called Graphology, a handwriting analysis method. This tool can reveal the real you
what the hell? what study is this even connected? History? Forensics? damn
@@shina7418 Psychology
"Watch your actions, they become your habits. Watch your habits, they become your character." - Vince Lombardi
Well said.. thanks for the quote! 🤗
They both are out of control
Thank you sir Vince for the truth
So your actions become your character🙂
I have my share of bad habits. 😅😳
Reading people is very simple. You just have to look at five basic things and make a mental list of of the information. This will usually give you a general idea about their identity, background and intentions.
The indicators are ,
1. Face, this is by far the most important place to look at. You can tell someone, age, ethnicity, mood and even what they are thinking to some extent by looking at their face.
2. Hands, hand gestures, accessories, twitching, and moving fingers in a certain way reveal a lot about their personality.
3. Feet, the kind of shoes they wear, the way they stand, and the way that tap their feet all are indicators of different personality traits
4. Clothing, The way we dress is by far the most basic and important form of self-expression. This is the easiest way to tell how simple or sophisticated, indoorsy or outgoing, easy-going or high maintenance someone is.
5. Posture, Someone's posture is a direct reflection of their confidence and what they believe about themselves
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I devised this method by studying police manuals, airport security and lots and lots of trial and error. The best way to get good at reading people is to practise. I used to be a martial arts teacher, I've worked in sales for years so I've had plenty of time to hone this skill. It will be difficult in the beginning and you'll be wrong most of the time but with time you'll become a real-life Sherlock Holmes or James bond.
I'm not saying that I'm there yet I still make a lot of wrong guesses. But, mastering anything is a journey, not a destination
This was really interesting insight, thank you 😊
I would love for you to do a reading on me, to see how far I would be right and what I could find out about myself
This is all true, as someone who studies cold reading I look at all of this when reading someone
This was helpful , thank you . I think this is a skill but I would like to know how you see people's faces and read thier mind without them noticing.
@@arooo1377 I said nothing about reading minds. I just tried to share a simple method of guessing people's intentions and other small details about their personalities.
And just like I said you will kina get the hang of it as you go and it's difficult to explain simply by typing it out.
If you're struggling to discover yourself what helped me is I stopped viewing myself from others and stopped trying to portray myself as me and I just started doing what I wanted. Once I learned what I wanted to do and what I wanted in myself I developed a personality and now I just do what I want and let others perceive me how they will, stop micromanaging and start living
This really helped me dig deeper into myself and find some more of who I am. People have been trying to help me drift away from depression, which my parents think I chemically have. But the darkness just keeps luring me in, and I just lose myself. And watching your channel helped me understand more symptoms of depression, phobias I had, anxiety, etc. And your goal to spread psychology across the world is a big goal to have. But you keep going with a smile across your face! This channel is just amazing! Thank you!
Glad to help :) What other topics would you like us to talk about next?
@@Psych2go I would enjoy some videos talking about Hypnosis! I've been a bit curious lately! If you can squeeze that in, I would highly appreciate it! :)
1. Clothing preference - Depends on mood. Sweat pants, baggy tshirts if depressed; non-formal buttoned shirts, pants, fedoras, sometimes a blazer if feeling good and confident. I enjoy my freedom, but I also enjoy mixing it up with a bit of order in my sense of fashion.
2. Shopping habits - I personally prefer to shop in person, but I'm an introvert. I've gotten much better at not to spend impulsively. I treat myself only once in a while.
3. Daily routines - I hate cleaning, but do it anyway. I admit, I'm not always an agreeable person.
4. Professional stress - View from negative lens. True. I worry over minute details sometimes.
5. Walking style - My steps are soft, but I walk fast (or slow if I'm depressed, hahaha). Still introverted.
6. Hobbies - I write and play music. I do enjoy opening up to new experiences.
7. Written words - My writing style is... all over the place. Sometimes it's vertical, sometimes it's (moderately) right-slanted. P2G never talked about moderate right slant handwriting, so idk what it means.
Yeah
YOU BASICALLY JUST DESCRIBED ME LOL
I love tweaking my personality. It's so satisfying to know it's doable. Each change is easier than the last.
I was 6 when I figured out that the faster you get from point A to point B, the more time you spend actually doing something at the point B. So I subconsciously always walk fast and seem super aggressive while I'm probably nicest person you'll meet. These are good traits to follow and recognize but exceptions will always be there lol
I walk fast because my siblings are all way taller than me so I'm used to keeping up the pace. I have not an ounce of aggressiveness, it's more like enthusiasm; i enjoy walking.
I’m tall that’s why I walk fast XD
Hong Kong ppl generally walk fast just because we are always busy and in a hurry😅
1) Clothing preference (Casual - low conformist, want to be free)
2) Shopping (Offline - extroverted. That's false I'm an introvert.)
3) Daily routine (high agreeable, wash dishes and sing in the shower 😆 that's true)
4) Professional stress (view from a negative lense. Neurotic and highly agreeable. Yep that's true too.)
5) Walking style (slow with soft steps - introverted)
6) Hobbies (open people will be likely to take part in literature, art and aesthetic which is true about me).
7) Writing. (I don't know about my writing style.)😕😆
You are outgoing introvert 😅
@@otakumonkey, yeah actually I'm a social introvert.
@@youtubecommentergal4346 not social but outgoing like you like to go in big event or party but you are enjoying it by staying alone or with only few people. If you're social then you ain't introvert.
@@otakumonkey , there are four types of introverts. Social, thinking, anxious and reserved. Social introverts are like the most extroverted among the four. I don't like going to very loud, crowded places but like a small party with people I know is okay. Again it depends on the situation and my mood. There are times I won't mind a big crowd and others where I can't stand it for sure.
@@youtubecommentergal4346 You might be ambivert. I'm introvert but i like to go in crowd whether it's very loud party with huge crowd or small party with few people but i don't want to socialize with them. I just stay at the corner and enjoy the events.
2:16 let’s be honest 90% of us don’t see deadlines/homework in a positive light
I wouldn't get anything done if I didn't have deadlines ._.
I don't like them, but I need it
On the one hand, I like homework because it's a learning opportunity for me, but on the other hand, there's something about specific deadlines and my lingering perfectionism that makes me hate it.
i will either get everyone thing done as soon as possible or wait untill the literal last second
I feel like your music taste is a big one too. Scrolling through old playlists always tells me what headspace I was in at that time.
This.
My music taste let's me know when shits good or not
1. being on time.
2. smiling in order to respectfully/professionally/protectingly hide negative emotions from your peers.
3. Being comfortable looking someone in the eyes.
Your such a good RUclipsr! Really helping and encouraging young people to express themselves, get mental help, talk to people, or even realise how toxic they/friends/family are! Keep up what u are doing and u will go so far 😊
Not just the young ones it helps me a great deal too when I feel down or at my worst
Almost 10 Million subs already.
u're*🙂
@@darkflightdreamer1698 lol'z
@@Billn1971 does it really matter weirdo
As a person who has difficulty recognising one self, this video helped me a lot. thankyou.
1. Casual Clothes
2. Online shopping
3. I am on the phone but not planning parties I am trying to find friends
4. Negative way
5. I walk slowly
6. Open to experiences
7. I write right most if the time but I will write left sometimes
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Thank you 💕
Wow. All these years I thought I was an introvert. I'm so extremely extroverted now after finding people I actually enjoy being around with similar interests it's truly insane.
To be honest, am so busy with study that could not concentrate on this video. But the voice of Amanda is so calming and soothing.......❤️❤️☘️☘️
Clothing Preference is a bit hard pick. I just like how casual, secured, yet formal looking some colored clothing are.
I tend to wear casual business clothing like polo/shirt/blouse with jeans or skirts. Most of the "going out" clothes in my wardrobe are that since those are hand-me-downs from my mother, but my preference for casual business clothes was way before she gave me these clothes. In rush days, I wear a colored polo or shirt with jeans, and if not, I wear a polo or shirt with a skirt, or if it's available in my wardrobe, I wear dresses.
How I pick my dresses tends to scale on how it can cover my chests, the skirt should be knee-length or longer-- I tend to lean closer to skirts that are "flowy" or the kind that looks like it has a bloomer underneath. If a dress shows a lot of shoulders, I would resort to covering it up with a cardigan or blazer. I don't really care of these criteria if being "flashy" is mandatory in a formal setting like parties and events.
I received a few comments from my classmates that I dress like a teacher; if I was left to choose an outfit combination outside of my mom's hand-me-downs, she would make comments saying I looked too old (because I would wear a really frilly, long-sleeved polo with a "formal" looking skirt; some schoolmates would mistaken me for being a teacher too whenever casual clothes are allowed in school. Well, I could say that I wear casual business clothing that have colors or embroidery. I've also preferred adding a small shoulder bag in my person.
Well because human personality are rarely dominant towards one direction. Like you could be someone who's composed, but then you can suddenly panic. One example for a person of dominant personality trait is mother theresa in being kind. This is what I learnt in my psychology class though, you can search about it, because I don't want to give false information.
@@heyyo3746 Ahh, the one with Carl Jung's research, about Life is Full of Opposites? I had an intrapersonal psychology subject called Personal Development in my strand. I can see his point more with your comments 👍
Clothing preferences is extremely difficult for me because it's based on what fits me and what I can afford, not nessecarily what i would like or prefer fat chicks like looking cute also
I think that something else that shows your true personality is the way you talk.
Loud and straightforward = Someone who wants to get something done or is very determined
Soft and subtle = Someone who doesn't really like to express their true feelings and would rather aggre with others
Expressive and Chill = Someone who is very laid back and would rather go with the flow than change it
Opposite gender and Different = Someone who wants to be the Opposite gender of themselves so they try to talk and/or sound like the Opposite gender
Inspired and Taken = Someone who tries to talk like someone famous or someone that has a great personality or use of words, so they decide to copy it
Sorry that took so long-
After listening to, and enjoying many of your videos, I have come to the conclusion that you (The Narrator), have a wonderful voice. Tonally, it is very pleasant on the ears, and suggests kindness and compassion. I really do enjoy listening to how you speak.
In terms of writing, it looks like this also depends on your ethnicity or other factors because in my surrounding you can hardly see people writing in a left slant rather they prefer the right one. My friend writes in an extreme right slant and I have never seen her being an impulsive person or lacking self-control. Going further, there is either a correlation between the country and writing or this field is only in the process of discovering as different sources state opposite information
You might be onto something. I wright in a extreme right slant because I wanted to right just like my grandmother as a kid.
I tend to overthink and don't have any emotional control issues.
In cyrillic they teach you to write only in right slant, the left slant is considered wrong
“Dare only to believe in yourselves- in yourselves and in your inward parts! He who does not believe in himself always lies.” - Friedrich Nietzsche
Wise words
Hard work just gives me that much more of an opportunity to improve myself in a day, wether it’s learning how to handle stress or just lifting lots of heavy stuff. It’s not stressful, it’s good.
I love this CHIBI art-style it’s always been adorable with this channel.
Your videos are so relatable. Imma 15yo kid 😂. I don’t have that much friends so I don’t know what to expect from others. And guys I hope you guys grow though good mentality. God bless you all my lovely brother and sister
I really liked the art style in this video, it's nice to see all the characters with more quirks than just a different color pallet and foliage
Psych2go: there has been a huge decline in mental health around the world.
Also Psych2go: Signs your crush doesn't love you back
They are speaking facts
😂
Yeah, we experience many different things and perceive them too. Our personality cannot be set in stone. But we also don't lose our uniqueness.......it is just so beautiful and fascinating!
Interesting paradox I found with writing styles. A moderate left slant was attributed to those who find it hard to verbalize their emotions, but also those who find them easy to verbalize. Not sure if there was a mixup with video creation or that’s just what the research says
HHHHOOOWWWWWWW
YOU GOT ME
I'm a true free spirit in my own world. I wear plain, casual clothes and live in the fantasy world. I feel very very unique and undrawn to others. However, I walk really fast and do not care about what others think of me. I'm an ambivert and my writing slants slightly to the right. I love expressing my happiness to others.
Thank you so much and this has really helped me reflect on my inner self even more. ❣❣❣😁😁😁
I could never find my true self I've been stuck with so many different versions of myself that finding the one that expresses how I feel is truly a challenge. However I saw that you said introverts are in physical sports for me it's quite odd there is a sword art I do based from a style that dates back to 16th century Japan it is called Iaido, Iaido is a art of harmony and killing because this is when swordsmanship meant power back. My goal is to become better than the legendary swordsman Miyamoto Musashi by doing so I will go to every Iaido School in Japan and become a black belt in every one
Me to
Yoshi: get it Together....
Your pfp gives me anxiety I like, what is it from?
What helped me is I stopped viewing myself from others and stopped trying to portray myself as me and I just started doing what I wanted. Once I learned what I wanted to do and what I wanted in myself I developed a personality and now I just do what I want and let others perceive me how they will, stop micromanaging and start living
@@guillaumem9953 it is from Tekken one, the character Yoshimitsu created by them I favour him the most
I am an introvert and i walk fast, my hobbies are also singing, writing poems/stories, reading fictions and drawing. The number 6 about introverts, really suits my personality. I love your videos!
2:39 I once seen some of the students in my school walking like game characters, and not just *One* A GROUP!
it's so satisfying yet hilarious.
1. Mixed style/preferences or how the weather is that day
2. Online if I can't(or know I can't) find something I'm looking for at stores
3. High agreeableness, I do chores if no one else does them or I feel like something needs to be done. Singing in the shower sometimes
4. Professional stress, I'm always gonna be viewing it from a negative lens💀
5. I walk fast with quiet steps
6. Open to experiences but sporty at the same time but not really- I like doing sports with others but I get too nervous about messing it up(volleyball) or I don't have the motivation to actually try or really get into the game😥
7. I write with small letters ig, trying to make my letters perfectly fit in the lines. Vertical slant
I somehow feel much better because of this. Thank you!
I actually walk fast and pretend to be confident in order to prevent people talking to me or in general giving me attention…. And i like to dress both: comfortable and elegant. That’s one struggle i have
This video really shows if you are an introvert or extrovert and really shows who you really are!!🌸🌸💜💜💘💘🌌
The handwriting analysis portion is only valid for right handers when it comes to which direction you slant. Reverse it for lefties like me.
Honestly, pretty sure the handwriting thing is bunk. No better than palm reading
@@CMStrawbridge Handwriting analysis trends are pretty well documented and corroborated for the most part just as non-verbal communication cues are as well. Palmistry is on shaky ground in the hard science world but is a tradition that goes back centuries with its own knowledge base that is more handed down than peer reviewed in blind control studies, but you never know there might be some scholar looking into it seriously.
@@fluidikons i don't doubt you can identify people by their handwriting, but i do think it saying much about your personality is a stretch. I think that's what you're saying; i didn't know it was called palmistry
@@CMStrawbridge no palmistry is palm reading. Looking at the lines and skin marks on the palms of hands.
Very true my personality has changed a lot from when I was younger to now I was an extrovert back then but the older I get the more I realize that I am now an introvert
Looking down at my school workbooks and notebooks, I write slightly slanted left! I didn't even notice I do this often! (but then again I get my right confused with my left and my east confused with my south lol) Also when I was younger, as in early elementary range, when I was younger I was emo in about the first 3 years of elementary, I loved rock music, disliked school, and I even cussed... besides that is not the point, the point is I have changed a bunch over the years, especially over quarantine, compared to now, now I don't cuss at all, I despise rock music and prefer lofi, instrumental, jazz, pop, and k-pop music! I love school too! My personality has very much evolved over time!
0:00 intro
0:27 1、Clothing Preference
1:02 2、Shopping Habits
1:34 3、Daily Routines
2:11 4、Professional Stress
2:38 5、The way you walk
3:17 6、Hobbies
3:52 7、Written Words
5:09 Outro
I already did them first but thank you!!!
Thank you for this
Thank you, sometimes idk even know who I am. It's like trying to get to know a person, this video helped me to understand myself better
Whoever is reading this, I pray that whatever you’re growing through gets better and whatever you’re battling with makes your situation better as you’re continuing to be a better person each day. I have faith that you’ll turn out great as your circumstances will change. Have a fantastic day! You got this! 🤗💪🏼❤️
Thank you
@Nathalie Laso And to you I say thank you for taking time out of your day to be so kind! Cheers!
You as well my friend
Thank you, and wish you the same❤
sometimes it's cheaper to buy in store because shipping costs online 🙃 but i like online shopping because i sometimes get anxiety shopping for groceries
It is quite possible, that this is my favorite RUclips channel altogether.
Everytime I watch these videos I love this channel more and more.Thanks so much
Glad you like them! How do you feel about this video?
The though of your personally changing in the video had me reflecting on how mine changed over the years
Honestly I found myself caught in the middle of a lot of these. I'm definitely an extrovert, but I only like to Ski, and I spend a lot of time indoors playing games with people online, or playing TTRPGs or reading. I have preferred professional clothes in the past, and I still have some sets, but I'm not career-oriented at all. I personally prefer shopping in real life because I like to see, feel, and touch my clothes before I buy them, but I also like buying clothes online, especially because it's a lot more convenient. I'm not particularly impulsive in my spending, though. I don't have a daily routine, at all, but I'm more of someone to plan events and such rather than doing domestic work. I'm pretty sure I'm pretty agreeable, though. Stresses in my work often just make me think negatively, like I'm not good enough if I don't get it done, and then I never do. I walk in fairly large strides, but my steps are quite light. My writing is written in a slight right slant, and I do it fairly quickly and larger than normal. I usually have small line spacing, and my i dots are often quite high. I write with a medium amount of pressure, and often connect some of my letters, mainly because I write so fast. I think I'm good at expressing my emotions and find it pretty easy, but it's not like I don't have any self-control or anything. So, that's me, and my take on me. Hope you enjoyed reading that paragraph about someone you don't know!
omg i thought no one else was gonna be like this ME TOO 😭
i sat here watching the whole video going: “well maybe i am extroverted *5 secs later* well maybe i am an introvert” “im not a big sports guy except maybe skiing and swimming in my free time” or with the writing part: “well my writing has a slight right lean but im left-handed so does that have anything to do with it? i write fast, large and have to connecting points in my words bc i hate cursive my hand writing look like a drunk 4 y/o so yay thx phychToGo i am now more confused than before! :’D
Most people are a combination, with one being
dominant; or so I've read. I'm mostly even, between the 2.
@@bellakrinkle9381 well i cant fuckin tell which one is takin over 😂
I love this channel. It makes me feel safe 😢❤
Oh, well this is nice to know that personality can change. Soon i shall unlock the achievement of "the quiet kid"
I'm an Introvert, yet I walk with confidence (or to be precise to save time)
1: Casual cause I like comfortable clothes
2: Offline cause I’ve never used online shopping until a couple months ago
3: Wash dishes and sing shower ye
4: I view everything from a negative lens since I’m very pessimistic
5: I either walk with soft steps or just imitating someone I see since I don’t feel comfortable outside
6: I spend my days either doing one sport or just learning some language or with learning balisong.(so I guess more introverted)
7: I write in a right slant since I was taught to do that.
Very helpful! I find it hard to find my personality and this helped so much! i
hope you make more
Clothes style - Cheerful and slightly fashionable, mostly colorful with bold patterns.
Shopping habits - I do not shop as much, but I mainly prefer malls over staying at home.
Daily routine - I sing in the shower and I like working with children.
Professional stress - Depending on the day, it’s either positive or negative, though I am more likely to procrastinate then the average person.
The way I walk - Very bouncy and usually looks like I’m dancing.
Hobbies - I enjoy trying new things, but I mostly draw, play music, act, read, and a lot of other things that allow me to be creative.
Writing style - Messy and unique with big capital letters and small lowercase letters.
Normally I can find something that I love and agree with in your videos (not that I couldn't in this one) I had trouble seeing myself but other then that I absolutely love you guys
"Remember that your character is the sum total of your habits." - Rick Warren
Thanks much dears, very insightful. Thinking of mbti and the introverted or extroverted people. Yea, many extroverts seem to enjoy crowded places or being at mall lol. While some introverts prefer more of silent activities, homebodies or calm places.
Thanks for sharing! :) Glad you enjoyed this video. Would you like us to make more videos on MBTI?
@@Psych2go Thank you guys for doing that great job here. Mbti is very helpful to understand the self or others better, like different types of extros and intros, for example more thinking or feeling type or intuitive type or sensors... So yea would be very helpful 🙏🏻☺️💖
in middle school i was known in the class as the "quiet artsy kid", and everybody thought i have an extreme lack of confidence. i believed them without questioning, without even thinking about what i know about myself, so i was really surprised when i found out that writing in large letters usually means the person is confident, because i didn't (and i still don't) know anyone who writes bigger letters than me. this confused me a lot, because i always accepted the role of the shy loner, and this new information messed with the image of me that i had based on others opinions. now, many years later i know that my self confidence really wasn't that low as i let others make me believe, and i still find these little habits that tell a lot about your personality really interesting, especially handwriting!
4:45 I think this is the most important place Psych2Go could have ended this video. Take each point discussed with grain of salt. You shouldn't internalise traits just because a video says "this is the way people tend to be according to science"; there are some people prone to this. Even science has a margin of error.
I actually feel worse every week about myself that I don't posses the ability of self-control. This mostly happens with school but also around other friends and family too. It contemplates the fact that people with no self-control writes in an extreme right slant. Which I have noticed these months and weeks getting more excessive over time. Most of my classmates know that i am mentally unstable within my personality and how I am as a person, and every time I come home, I feel miserable cause I know I said or did something stupid at school that I am ashamed of my entire day, but well, I guess I'm trying to somehow fix it nowadays. 😔
Fun Facts: Introverts also walk fast to avoid interactions and relieve anxiety
Personality has changed again around my 30's, these days i have become addicted to being alone and loving it
I had all the traits which enhance my personality.
- They had said this.
"your personality traits will change over time"
me who was extremely extroverted and spunky in elementary school
but way more self aware and KIND of shy in middleschool
2:00 Psych2Go really exposing all of us shower-singers 😂
I wear casual clothes, but I’m very organized and love to make handmade charts. I study a lot and work hard for school, and I admit I freak out when I don’t see an A on a paper. I feel like I can be strong and stubborn, and I’m not afraid to make my opinion known, whether it freaks people out or gets my heart racing. When I want something, I work hard to get it, I love to read adult level books even though I’m just a little younger than 12. It’s important to me that everybody has an opportunity to live the life they want. I do tease and poke fun at people, but when they tell me to stop in a serious way, I will. That’s kind of my personality, and I’ve struggled with having a good time in the past, but my love for horses, riding, writing, and reading has changed that.
Hello! Keep up the amazing work, psych2go. I love your videos
3:54 THAT MONIKA! I grinned knowingly with an approving nod. Very nice.
About number 7, I don’t write in print because I’m totally blind. So I either write in braille, or I use Voiceover on my Iphone. I don’t think blindness and other physical handicaps are talked about enough. Fun fact, if you have a physical handicap., it can cause mental health problems too.
Your peraonality is how you see yourself as a person, everybody has own including myself. Me, my personality is very high: I'm more fun, humorous, believing, loving, confidential, very active, healthy and always happy & giddy about things that are very funny. But I'm always easy-going, caring, friendly to others and always love cooking for others and myself. Now you see how high of a personality that I have. And everybody's personalities are different no matter how old you are because it does not make any difference.
Thank you so much for these videos, they have helped me understand why I feel the way I do, this has helped me target my problem and face it, keep up the great work ❤️
You are so welcome! Would you like to watch more videos about personality?
1. I wear very casual outfits and I despise uniform
2. I tend to shop online and I budget well
3. I love to do chores, but if I have a hectic day I choose to rest first instead of doing chores
4. I love and enjoy my job but I do get easily stressed over small details
5. I drag my feet so my bottom shoe soles are easily ruined, and I walk fast, I don’t stroll
6. I do cardio and sing almost everyday
7. I write ugly and very small
It's very interesting.
I've been watching your video for a long time but that's my first time writing a comment here.
Fun fact- I'm more of an introvert but I go fencing (for about 10 years).
About hobbies, not long a go, I started to write poetry and post on my channel for those who are interested. But my question is, do you think that the type of my poetry could say something about my personality? (Sorry if I said something wrong)
I have been so all over the place for years, even more so the past decade and a half due to trauma.
Trauma on top of trauma, I’m a naturally extroverted woman, but have become more introverted. I’ve struggled with chaos and depression all my life, I hope to be able to become more organized and well put together. That’s my goal I’m setting and achieving. I won’t allow my trauma to consume me anymore.
Hey, Psych2go? Would you mind doing a video on Autism vs Asperger syndrome? I feel like a lot of people can't tell the difference or miss it entirely, especially since I am on the extreme borderline of having Asperger syndrome. I think it could really help people understand other as well as themselves if they have such a condition. Thanks :)
That would really be an interesting topic!
Theoretically they are the same thing since Asperger’s syndrome is considered to be on the autism spectrum. However, Asperger’s syndrome is high functioning and is hard to discover in certain individuals.
Asperger syndrome is in the spectrum of autism, I know this, I have it 🤔
Hey, fellow autistic here originally diagnosed (age 10) with Asperger's syndrome. These days, Asperger's is put into the autism spectrum as the similarities are far greater than the differences, but it's the severities that vary between individuals. People might prefer different labels, but it's not wrong to be one or the other. In my eyes, however, they're both related to autism. :)
Oh good idea! I hope they see this! I would like to understand it better!
that was hella interesting to watch! i would also look at how someone treats animals and people who work in service or retail.
As an extroverted introvert or the other way around, a lot of it applies to me and a lot doesn't
Lot's of things I didn't know and the way you explain it is very entertaining, thank you for putting out these videos.
1:35 I'd never thought I would see Harvey in a psych2go video
My aesthetic is comfortable formal-ish casual. The kind of clothes you’d wear to a brunch date even though I never go on brunch dates because I’m an introvert. I might wear a pretty sweater and jeans, or a hoodie and leggings, or a button up shirt with jeans. I may accessorize in an artistic way if I have the choice
So the walking thing... What's it mean that I walk softly but with confidence? Like my stride isn't small, and I move like I know where I'm going, but you wouldn't hear me coming up behind you unless you were specifically listening for it.
Same here.
*Clothing preference* : dungarees, t shirts and turtlenecks all the way. shorts only when its extremely hot. only wear formal clothes for school.
*Shopping* : mall shopping. just because i usually go with friends.
*Chores* : tidying up my room, vacuuming, cleaning.
*Professional Stress* : n/a
*Way I walk* : softer steps
*Hobbies* : definitely more open. i crochet, draw, paint, read books sometimes, code… yeah.
*Word slant* : moderate left.
I have a very "strong" personality - and I know myself very well. But one of the scariest things I've seen are the people who's entire personality changes depending on the people they're around. If they're around you, they'll mimic your personality. But when they're around different people, they act just like those people. They seem to have no set personality. I call them "salesmen" . Whatever you like, they like too, automatically , without hesitation. BEWARE of that kind of person
Yes, totally. Those types of people who are only mimicking and seem not to have a set personality could be very dangerous in nature. However, it should be made known that individuals can change slightly with each different group of people they are with and yet not be psychopaths. For example, if it is an individual's propensity to curse like a sailor with his friends, but he has a meeting in town hall the next day, it should not surprise you that he curses significantly less at the meeting than with his friends. People have different comfort levels with different groups of people and naturally change to suit the context. I believe this is actually rather healthy. But yes, you are correct. Those who completely change depending on the groups they are currently with are like venomous snakes and should be kept at arms length.
Sounds like my ex hahah…
I'm not that extreme, but I do change a bit depending on my crowd. It's not for any specific reason other than the fact I'm an anxious person and have a very strong need to fit in. Nothing nefarious or dangerous going on here, and it's definitely not a conscious effort.
Have the character expressions and such always been this good or am I just now noticing!! They look so expressive
it’s 3:17 am and I am watching this..
*nice.*
3:36am for me 😅
@@bellafina1916 oh now for me it’s 5:57am
1-50 in the afternoon here
I walk fast with soft steps, well soft enough for people to get spooked that I'm suddenly beside them once I start talking
4:25 I have a habit of repressing my emotions without realizing it. But, doesn't left slanted writing happen just because you write with your right hand?
1. Hooded bathrobe and slippers
2. physical shopping and rarely shop
3. I do dishes and take down trees
4. I own my own business and love improving how I do things
5. I speed walk and kind of love flying past people 🤣
6. Making music
7. Large letters and scribble slight right slant
I’ve been struggling to find out my personality, but, most of the time I notice that I change myself due to the people around me, but when it’s someone I don’t know I tend to just stay quiet. Multiple of my friends have said I’m a “people pleaser” which I’m not quite sure what that means, but I think I have a good idea. (If you could elaborate that would be nice) I’m also pretty impulsive, and I find it hard to express my emotions around people, and if you know a website or something I could visit to help me with that, or just comment it, I would appreciate it. To be completely honest I sometimes find myself losing sleep over small things I think I did wrong in the past, and if they affected how people view me, and sometimes have a small panic attack. This probably isn’t good, but idk. I feel like I’m being a little too open, but who knows if this will help. But yeah, feel free to comment, or don’t, it’s up to you, I just would like a little input I guess.
hmmm same thing happened to me there's this guy makes me worries whatever i like about, and im worried what he'll think about it or what's what about it.
but truly i just wanna be myself, like before.. not caring what people think about me and i think this could mean we care about their opinions, try not thinking whatever they'll think and distance yourself in them!
well perhaps that's what your friend notices.. that you let people affects you still other people's opinions doesn't define you, but it's up to you if you let them do so..
learn to be alone but not lonely know you're never alone, feeling this way or anything! i think this could help being you.. like being in a room! there you can do or feel anything, without anyone's judgement
"don't spend all your time trying to find yourself, spend your time creating yourself into a person you'll be proud of." i find it hard to just not blame myself at times, but remember that past is past, & your past mistake doesn't define you! i struggled with this too! are you a god's follower anyways? uhm or perhaps do you suffer from depression because it's one of the reasons why it's hard to vent what you're feeling in!
well i found a test and it explains if you're a people pleaser too uhm you can try it out! psychologia.co/people-pleaser-quiz/
it's okay.. there are times sharing our feelings isn't that comfortable, and we think that mostly people wouldn't understand us. but know you're never alone in this.
`this is just actually what i think about your situation and it's up to you what you'll do about it! goodluck anyways! and take care! :') & you matter.
people pleaser refers to how you make sure what you're doing or saying is ideal to the person you are talking to at that moment. You might try to help out a lot, and try to not bother others when you're not asked to. Basically when (how you mentioned) shift how you act for the thought of others that's called being a people pleaser. I tempt to become one when I meet my friend's parents, but I avoid engaging too much. So yeah that's what a people pleaser is
hey, it's alright not to be able to show your true emotions around people, I can't remember the last time I did so try to focus mainly on saying how when you're not very happy with something like 'mmm I don't know how to feel about that' and then maybe follow it by 'yeah, no.' it does depend on who you're around so don't rely on this :')
This really made me think because for the most part i was evenly balanced between Extrovert & Introvert for example i take long confident strides, and I'm setting up time with friends to hangout. But on the other hand i find myself more engrossed in "cultural aesthetic leisure" and prefer to buy things online.
This video just further proves that Idk wtf to label myself and why I space out when answering questions like "tell me about yourself" 😂
I don't have many clothing preferences, as long as I look okay. I walk awkwardly and differently constantly (sometimes I hunch, then suddenly keep a straight body, sometimes I skip then suddenly I walk slowly, then sometimes faster and there's never any real consistency)
And then there's the way I write. Most of the time, my writing is understandable, but it's also understandably ugly because my handwriting constantly changes styles every word, every sentence and sometimes even mid words. I have almost no original handwriting
And I know this wasn't part of the list but I also have no real favourite genre of music. I like artists who has like 8 subgenres in their album 😂
Lol yeah "tell me about yourself" is one of the question that I hate the most because... Idk man, I'm just me, I can't really describe that in labels
And for shopping I do both online and offline, I scroll endlessly on online shops and walk a mile in shopping malls
@@kittenmimi5326 do you have a specific fav genre of music? Or fav medium of media? Like is it videos, music, film, series, comics or are you also all of the above like me? 🤣
The art in this video was very satisfying.
IM SO CLOSE TO BEING FIRST
"Extroverts tend to walk with confidence. Introverts tend to walk slowly with soft steps"
Me, who walks both quickly and with completely silent footsteps while proceeding to sneak up on the same friend over and over completely by accident: _uh now what_
Would love to see another video going more into personality types related to handwriting
Most of my life I thought that I'm an introvert. Then I started a therapy and made personality test. I was actually an extrovert with small social anxiety.
I was curious if I just didn't make mistakes in personality test. But now when I'm watching this it makes sense.
ref: #7 Writing Style...
Would it also depend on whether the person is left-handed or right-handed? [BTW... I am left-handed].
PS. Is there a video showing the personality differences/types between left and right-handed individuals?
Personality is such a fickle thing, the second you think you have figured yours out by doing so you accidentally change it. Paradigms