13 (Stoic) Strategies For Conquering Your Anxiety

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @the-Mafusal
    @the-Mafusal Месяц назад +14

    Hi dear, there is a tiny chance that you will see this, but your videos help me in my fight to stay calm. I just want to say thank you.

  • @MattRiceYoutube
    @MattRiceYoutube Месяц назад +43

    Marcus Aurelius's quote: "You have power over your mind-not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength."

    • @yoooyoyooo
      @yoooyoyooo Месяц назад

      I hate to break it to you, but you don't have control over "your mind" at all. It does what it does. You having control is a miss perception.

    • @mattr8537
      @mattr8537 Месяц назад

      @@yoooyoyooo😎😎

  • @charlessmith491
    @charlessmith491 3 дня назад

    I know this sounds dramatic but this episode made me emotional. I’ve never felt so understood in my life. This ep. Feels life changing to me.

  • @TonyStPierre
    @TonyStPierre Месяц назад +3

    It's amazing how timeless the Stoics' wisdom is. You’re right-anxiety, stress, and fear are constants across all human history. Marcus Aurelius dealt with pandemics, Seneca with tyranny, and Zeno with personal ruin, yet they showed us that the key isn’t escaping these challenges but learning to manage how we react to them. 'Is this in my control?' That question remains just as powerful today. Your message is a needed reminder that, while we can’t stop anxiety, we can use Stoic tools to reduce its power over us. Thanks for this empowering lesson!

  • @leemcmanus8427
    @leemcmanus8427 Месяц назад +17

    I used to spend far too much time worrying about scenarios that just never seemed to happen. After the thing I was worried about actually happened, it was never as bad as I was imagining. I'd then think to myself, that went much better than I'd expected. Yet I'd repeat this again and again. Through discovering Stoicism I've tried to apply this. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. Each time it fails I try to not beat myself up about it and try again. Over time it has helped me more and more. I suppose the practice over time has made life a little easier. I'd certainly recommend to anyone to try these steps.

  • @Tom-rg7le
    @Tom-rg7le 22 дня назад +1

    Simply brilliant, thank you

  • @MattRiceYoutube
    @MattRiceYoutube Месяц назад +2

    The reminder that anxiety is often self-inflicted and rooted in our perceptions really resonated. Loved the example of Zeno’s exposure therapy and how we often suffer more in imagination than in reality. This reinforces that true strength lies in facing discomfort and focusing on what's within our control.

  • @OvercomingAdversity2024
    @OvercomingAdversity2024 Месяц назад +4

    It's amazing how Stoicism encourages us to accept things as they are. Very enlightening!

    • @akuseru85
      @akuseru85 27 дней назад

      Which is exactly why Ryan is not a stoic.

  • @EchoedSerenity1
    @EchoedSerenity1 Месяц назад +5

    Thank you for the insightful content! It's great to have a community that loves Stoicism. 🌟

  • @dusty4047
    @dusty4047 7 дней назад

    Great episode, Thank you Ryan!!

  • @jonnysolaris
    @jonnysolaris Месяц назад

    Incredible, I love how practical and no-BS all of these are

  • @RosemarieSKikel
    @RosemarieSKikel Месяц назад +7

    Don't be too hard on yourself ... no body chooses to have anxiety. There is a good chance that something in your childhood made you this way. I believe it happens when you are always under stress because you don't know what to expect next. Do the best you can I don't believe you can overcome it all together but the self talk can surely help.

  • @kevinloggenberg6000
    @kevinloggenberg6000 Месяц назад +2

    Stoicism offers a remedy to the human condition, but much like the path to overcoming addiction, its power lies in daily practice. It is not a one-time solution, but a philosophy that must be embraced and lived, one day at a time.

  • @likesgood
    @likesgood Месяц назад +1

    so grateful , needed this one.

  • @АнтонГончаров-р8т
    @АнтонГончаров-р8т Месяц назад +11

    Смотрю Вас из России. Большое вам спасибо! Здесь всё мягко говоря хреново. Вот и приходится постоянно практиковать стоицизм. Вот и ваши видео помогают в этом и вдохновляют! Спасибо🙏!

  • @avx4281
    @avx4281 Месяц назад +1

    Thank u Ryan.

  • @atitlanmagic5718
    @atitlanmagic5718 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you

  • @Bobo_Murod-r9i
    @Bobo_Murod-r9i Месяц назад

    Great advice! Getting support from a CBT therapist is a game changer. I’ve also heard good things about Normotim for managing anxiety

  • @johnpatterson9219
    @johnpatterson9219 Месяц назад +5

    I truly enjoy these videos, Ryan; they are really well done!

  • @rakheebajaj4478
    @rakheebajaj4478 Месяц назад

    Thank you 👍

  • @MaihdilnLenar
    @MaihdilnLenar Месяц назад +1

    this format really suits me

  • @Fahim_Lalani
    @Fahim_Lalani Месяц назад

    ❤that’s what I’m talkin about thanks

  • @stanijev
    @stanijev Месяц назад +126

    Unveiling Your Hidden Potential by Bruce Thornwood(thank me later)

  • @tonyromero8284
    @tonyromero8284 Месяц назад +1

    Good stuff ❤

  • @iam_Leofit
    @iam_Leofit Месяц назад

    Great video

  • @TRXST.ISSUES
    @TRXST.ISSUES Месяц назад +27

    Quite the thumbnail 😂🔥

  • @nocturneuh
    @nocturneuh Месяц назад +1

    Thank you Mr. Holiday.

  • @stoiccrane4259
    @stoiccrane4259 Месяц назад +11

    Heavy weightlifting and cardio is the solution. Our minds and bodies and intertwined. To relieve the stress of the mind one must exert stress over the body. Men sana in corpre sano. Sound mind in a sound body.

    • @davecom3
      @davecom3 Месяц назад

      Very true. A cold shower has been proven to improve our response to stress. Our stomach is our second brain. Eat badly and you are more likely to think badly. Heavy weights have been proven to retain muscle and improve bone density even in 80+ year olds too.

  • @skrrskrr99
    @skrrskrr99 Месяц назад

    In project management, we call premeditio malorum, risk management.

  • @privatetatum
    @privatetatum Месяц назад +3

    Nice one. ❤

  • @AbogadoJay
    @AbogadoJay Месяц назад +1

    Thanks

  • @Deetroiter
    @Deetroiter Месяц назад +8

    “Our doubts are traitors,
    and make us lose the good we oft might win,
    by fearing to attempt.”
    ― William Shakespeare, Measure for Measure

  • @iamdigitalanmol
    @iamdigitalanmol 15 дней назад

    You can start reposting your video
    I used to watch it daily in morning while making coffee but now it's something it's not there on RUclips.
    I don't mind watching the same videos. After all it's a reminder to myself and not some tv show or movie which has an end.

  • @JayTheStoic
    @JayTheStoic Месяц назад

    "It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @J.Zekavica
    @J.Zekavica Месяц назад +2

    Great video 👍

  • @MYTHFROMNATURE
    @MYTHFROMNATURE Месяц назад +3

    Say this to yourself "I'm not doomed to catastrophizing"

  • @lsr2937
    @lsr2937 Месяц назад +1

    I’m having a really hard time getting over the anxiety of this election. I’ll do what I can and vote blue in a red state. I having a hard time letting this go. Thank you for the video.

    • @davecom3
      @davecom3 Месяц назад +1

      It's important to remember the result is out of your control. Anticipate the worst happening and how you would respond to it, how others will respond to it and the steps you might take ti mitigate any potential negative outcomes. Several stoic principles can be applied here.

    • @lsr2937
      @lsr2937 27 дней назад

      @davecom3 - you are right. I have already voted and I ask everyone I meet if they have voted yet. Now I have to sit back and wait, and maybe stop watching the news.

  • @MasonHalo
    @MasonHalo Месяц назад +1

    really liked this video

  • @anna_tarapygina
    @anna_tarapygina Месяц назад +1

    Love it ❤

    • @TheStoicPath-t9r
      @TheStoicPath-t9r 13 дней назад

      Absolutely! The creativity here is inspiring. I share a lot of similar vibes on my channel, diving into topics that spark joy and connection. If you’re into uplifting content, you might find some gems there too! Keep enjoying this amazing journey!

  • @balto8111
    @balto8111 Месяц назад

    I’d still be anxious to pull a lower title out of a horizontally stacked bookshelf 7:19

  • @jimkon1479
    @jimkon1479 Месяц назад +2

    To quote the Stoic practitioner Mr Spock, "Live Long and Prosper." Have a nice day, Ryan.

  • @smtabatabaie
    @smtabatabaie Месяц назад

    We must also question, how has anxiety helped me? As Robert Green says, it is essential in some of its forms.

  • @SteveR.Burdick
    @SteveR.Burdick Месяц назад +1

    best!!!

  • @NoComment1973
    @NoComment1973 Месяц назад

    At this point I feel like it’s mostly more-of-the-same with these videos. Been there done that

  • @TomokoKashiwagi
    @TomokoKashiwagi Месяц назад +1

    this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in ebook magnetic aura from Borlest

  • @EdwardLen-p4b
    @EdwardLen-p4b Месяц назад

    David Glens

  • @ChrisKAloha
    @ChrisKAloha Месяц назад +2

    Stay in the present moment and it’ll b conquered

    • @jitsu4872
      @jitsu4872 Месяц назад +1

      I like this. Thanks

    • @ChrisKAloha
      @ChrisKAloha Месяц назад

      @@jitsu4872 listen to some Eckhart Tolle if you haven’t done so already.

  • @alvaromoe
    @alvaromoe Месяц назад +2

    2:22 I'd also conquer my anxiety if I flew in a private jet instead of tourist 😂

    • @martingoldfire
      @martingoldfire Месяц назад +1

      I would get worse thinking about the damage to the climate a private jet has, and I was contributing to by being on one😰

  • @KenE808
    @KenE808 Месяц назад +1

    🤙🏼 Mahalo!

  • @messengerofgoodnews
    @messengerofgoodnews Месяц назад +14

    Sometimes, the anxiety is not about a possible FUTURE moment, but the actual moment you are IN! Overanalyzing the body language or thoughts of the person next to you. Just saying 🤔🤷‍♀️🙃

    • @naturalnia432
      @naturalnia432 Месяц назад +1

      In that moment, ask yourself “am I okay? If they don’t agree, approve or like me am is life going to end for me?”

    • @nicholasbolden1965
      @nicholasbolden1965 Месяц назад +1

      At that point it’s “Distress” because it’s a present moment thing

    • @drd0114
      @drd0114 Месяц назад +1

      Worry is anticipatory. When we aim to make a good impression on someone or if someone arouses suspicion, we are worrying about future interactions with the person or worrying about possibilities of being in their range of transgression.

    • @stoiccrane4259
      @stoiccrane4259 Месяц назад +2

      Heavy weightlifting and cardio is the solution. Our minds and bodies and intertwined. To relieve the stress of the mind one must exert stress over the body. Men sana in corpre sano. Sound mind in a sound body.

    • @nicholasbolden1965
      @nicholasbolden1965 Месяц назад

      @@drd0114 worry and distress are 2 different things

  • @topocum
    @topocum Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @JohnsonMark-m9u
    @JohnsonMark-m9u Месяц назад

    Guillermo Cliffs

  • @janzendavi
    @janzendavi Месяц назад +5

    Thumbnail arrow makes it seem like the answer is to get AirPods

  • @philparisi9175
    @philparisi9175 Месяц назад

    Your anxiety is obvious. It’s more than a simple focus. It’s almost obsession.

  • @no_one514
    @no_one514 Месяц назад

    9:58am 9-30-24

  • @nzeel6752
    @nzeel6752 Месяц назад

    I am stoic, and I really liked Ryan until I found that he wants hundreds of dollars to sign up to his website. He's not very in line with stoicism in this aspect in my belief.

    • @davecom3
      @davecom3 Месяц назад

      He still gives a lot of free advice and there's still a lot of free advice on his website

  • @raginald7mars408
    @raginald7mars408 Месяц назад +1

    Anxiety Conquers YOU!
    You do not conquer yourself!

  • @MiddletonElsie-v5s
    @MiddletonElsie-v5s Месяц назад

    Romaguera Prairie

  • @GreenLucas-z5v
    @GreenLucas-z5v Месяц назад

    Veronica Turnpike

  • @SuperAryan200
    @SuperAryan200 Месяц назад +1

    I can the new video editors work. 😂

  • @grantforrest5282
    @grantforrest5282 Месяц назад

    10:40

  • @Justin88800
    @Justin88800 Месяц назад +1

    Is that dude really wearing an OnlyFans shirt at 7:16?

    • @scottmichaels12
      @scottmichaels12 Месяц назад +1

      That "dude" is Casey Neistat, so yes he was.

    • @Justin88800
      @Justin88800 Месяц назад

      @@scottmichaels12 Pardon me, fanboy

  • @LucaKilgour
    @LucaKilgour Месяц назад +107

    read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.

  • @lisaforrester1097
    @lisaforrester1097 Месяц назад

    Roman emperors killed Jesus.

  • @akuseru85
    @akuseru85 27 дней назад

    How about not supporting a presidential candidate that advocates for abortion up until birth?
    Marcus would be disgusted to know someone like you were profiting of his teachings.

  • @Nenad-ICXC-Shuput-GFAMMA
    @Nenad-ICXC-Shuput-GFAMMA Месяц назад

    Lol

  • @deifor
    @deifor Месяц назад

    He’s just trying to sell his coins

    • @Austinesselink
      @Austinesselink Месяц назад

      if you work a job your just trying to make money

  • @SD_Canary_Corner
    @SD_Canary_Corner Месяц назад

    🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheRunpoker
    @TheRunpoker Месяц назад

    Oh no, another better help selllout:( don’t advertise Better help and teach ethics at the same time

  • @roberth1700
    @roberth1700 Месяц назад +1

    100 dollar haircut. 2 dollar face

  • @vman9591
    @vman9591 Месяц назад

    It is all about the stakes. High stakes cause really anxiety.

  • @lyaloka23
    @lyaloka23 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you