why y'all think he's lying, just because you cannot deprive yourself of worldly pleasures such as sex does not mean all people are like you. Celibacy or semen retention is possible through discipline, I've tried it and the benefits were great spiritually, mentally and physically.
Im female and i was a virgin till i was 24, i can fully relate with everything he says, some of my lowest moments in my life were associated with sex, i could easily live the the life he has chosen, he is not worried about STIs, its all spiritual to him 🙏🏾♥️
“ ultimately we want to have a great relationship with God” It got me ❤❤❤ That’s the whole point of being celibate. If you haven’t embark on this journey, I hope one day you will.
That would imply that self-control is the hardest thing to do. But that's just a reflection of the hypersexualization of men, and now women being on that. It might be hard, but it's not the hardest.
A lot of people lack discipline, and because of that, it's incomprehensible to them that someone can be disciplined and deny themselves the "pleasures" of life
I fully agree with Savya. The emotion of sex brings into being a state of mind. Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will power, persistence and creative ability unknown to them at other times. So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it. But! But! When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force maintains all of its attributes of keeness of imagination, courage, etc, which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or any other profession or calling. Abstinence calls for the exercise of willpower, to be sure, but the reward is worth the effort. The desire for sexual expression is inborn and natural, if controlled and directed in other ends such as creativity imagination etc, it is the most powerful weapon. Note that most famous scientists created discoveries young and not married. Constantly engaged in their work, their major discovery happened before day to day sexual engagement and family life.
I agree abstaining is good but isn’t it that you come to compress your emotions that your wheel of life will be imbalanced. Intimacy is a sacred ritual that’s why sex means Sacred Energy Exchanged that’s why you can do it with only your partner
Is Semen Retention Healthy? Semen retention occurs when a man avoids ejaculating for some time. You may achieve semen retention by abstaining from sex and masturbation, stopping sex before the point of ejaculation, or training your body to achieve orgasm without ejaculating. When you retain semen, the body breaks it down then reabsorbs it into the body. It is commonly believed that semen retention boosts the man’s physical, emotional and spiritual energy. But there is no medical evidence to prove whether semen retention is healthy or unhealthy.
If you can mantain semen in you body perfectly without any leakage via wet dreams, masturbation and sex this are three gates you must go through, If you managed to mantain hold your semen even for a year perfectly and not as an old men who already ran out of stamina, but at your prime there should be something special and unique about you, especially in terms of mental power and spiritual connection, there something special you should be doing or achieved, Most people might have defeated masturbation but still struggling with wet dreams due to the food they eat and subliminal sexual content on tv like is sexualising their mind to have sexual dreams Most men can't even resist women for a year, she will complain if she is not on the same path and you will lose
I respect this man's religious belief. As humans, we've been created to procreate and to multiply. All that we we are and all that we do is for the multiplication of our species. Sex done responsibly will not create any adverse effects. A healthy man will always wake up with an erection because we are here to procreate. Done with the right individual, it offers great offspring, great life experiences and a greater quality of life. Companionship is important as human beings, we are social animals after all. The problem is not sex but the current acceptance of promiscuity amongst our society.
With all due respect; this is BS. What happened to just being a decent human being with good character and disciplined self-will? This is no different to being promiscuous…it’s just the opposite end of the same spectrum. Living in extremes is a sign of a very low emotional quotient. And the irony of these two particular people talking about this particular subject is not lost on me at all!! The one person misused their autonomy by over-sexualising their identity while the other divests themselves of their autonomy by desexualising themselves…both to cope with a harsh world I suppose but still very interesting to watch. Maybe therapy? 🤷🏾♀️
Been celibate for 3 months and it’s been easy cuz I was single, I’m mostly on a fruit diet, do intermittent fasting, however, a few weeks ago I got a new gf. Now I’m gonna try semen retention cuz ain’t no way I ain’t gonna hit 😅🤷🏾♀️. I’ve seen the benefits of celibacy, I’m yet Thusi the benefits of semen retention, apparently they’re even greater. 🧘🏽 #StudentOfEckhartTollè
A Muntu monk is no different than a christian fanatic. Lomlisa in a metaphysical expr3ssion. Uyafana with a person othi eso Phongola sees the road sign ethi: Durban : mase ehlale beneath it. Athi usefikile ethekwini🎉. He will not find his way home this lifetime. 💫🌘🐘 bathule bayabuka nje okhokho bakhe elunywa isingisi!
Wait, so monks dont have kids becos they feel having a family to take care of is limiting... hence they view the whole world as their family. But that is a kak mindset to have becos "the whole world" are other people's kids. How can you forego having a family but you adopt other people's families.
i Can OverStand-Celibacy asa youth (teens-20's) for a moment but, After-Year(s) that "...suddle-Energy..." Becomes a Maturing-issue&a Sign of th-Process of Feminization.
This man has found a level of peace that I might never know
Eysaan😂😂😂😂😂
Powerful comment
I was for the year and it was the most peaceful time in my life …
😂😂😂
why y'all think he's lying, just because you cannot deprive yourself of worldly pleasures such as sex does not mean all people are like you. Celibacy or semen retention is possible through discipline, I've tried it and the benefits were great spiritually, mentally and physically.
🤣🤣🤣 so u think Sex is a worldy pleasure. u are lost
Real.
@ike...who said he is lying?we believe him
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok some people in the comments don't believe it's possible to retain your semen for a longer period
@@ikemojax long period is understandable not 20 years 🤣🤣🤣 thats a lifetime dont defend nonsense
Im female and i was a virgin till i was 24, i can fully relate with everything he says, some of my lowest moments in my life were associated with sex, i could easily live the the life he has chosen, he is not worried about STIs, its all spiritual to him 🙏🏾♥️
“ ultimately we want to have a great relationship with God”
It got me ❤❤❤
That’s the whole point of being celibate. If you haven’t embark on this journey, I hope one day you will.
He even looks very clean physically.great massage
God bless this Man. His answers are right on point...
We seriously need such conversations about sexual discipline and benefits in this sexually obsessed world ❤
This is a beautiful conversation. Human beings cannot operate in the same level of consciousness as animals.
Sexual discipline is important
Yohhhhh dude is glowing look at his radiant face
Its the semen retention pheremones bro from his celibacy streak
His glowing
@ntokozo...he is glowing & at peace🎉
❤
I know this guy from Wits back in the day. So inspiring that he’s still on his path ❤
This is the conversation we need to take as human. 😊
His voice tells that his on retention. Wonderful I'm now on my 30 days
This is the next level. Thank you for bringing this guy on the Show Pen.
Brahmacharya. No lies. 🧘🏼♂🌱🧠
THIS IS WHY MY MEMORY IS GETTING BETTER
Same here
He's a selfless man. When he said what's the point of limiting yourself to one household when you can plant the whole world. That's very selfless ♥️
Look how clear his face is the face says it all
HE IS DEFINITELY GLOWING!
It's vaseline poi
Its the semen retention glow
been celibate for 3 years now.
I could never 😢
Yerrrr
@@diskiloverscorner.7688 it gets easier with time 🤭
@@sedzesanimathavha9939 🤣🤣
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Over 5 years here 🙌🏽
This is the best argument I have heard for celibacy in a long while. SAVYA has been a friend. He does well here.
If all we participate it's over 4 gold diggers😂😂😂
And we start to respect humans the way God expects us to not treat them like utensils
😂😂😂
Man should be listed on world strongest men...periodt.
That would imply that self-control is the hardest thing to do. But that's just a reflection of the hypersexualization of men, and now women being on that. It might be hard, but it's not the hardest.
@@stephensphomolotsebe5952nothing is harder than self-control/self-descipline, especially the sexual part.
I've been on sement retention for abt 2 years and yes it is truly divine💯
People in comments are saying this guy is lying forgetting that this is spiritual for him ... its what he lives for and has committed to
A lot of people lack discipline, and because of that, it's incomprehensible to them that someone can be disciplined and deny themselves the "pleasures" of life
@@faizenka11 broooo 💯🎯
He is glowing❤
Clean Pure man🖤🖤
No need for him to get married he can control himself God says only Marry if you cannot control yourself
The purpose of marriage is not purely sex related
My guy 🤝🏽🙏🏾💆🏽♂️🙌🏾
Guys its true, mina i used to be short tempared been practicing celibacy for months im always calm now no matter what
Don't lie poi
Amazing❤❤❤
He is not wrong, but many won't believe him.
I Remember how light i was in complexion when i was on retention. I was glowing when i was outside in the sun.
he is so beautiful 🤩
I fully agree with Savya. The emotion of sex brings into being a state of mind. Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will power, persistence and creative ability unknown to them at other times. So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it. But! But! When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force maintains all of its attributes of keeness of imagination, courage, etc, which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or any other profession or calling. Abstinence calls for the exercise of willpower, to be sure, but the reward is worth the effort. The desire for sexual expression is inborn and natural, if controlled and directed in other ends such as creativity imagination etc, it is the most powerful weapon. Note that most famous scientists created discoveries young and not married. Constantly engaged in their work, their major discovery happened before day to day sexual engagement and family life.
Over time the urge atrophies.The longer you abstain the lesser the urge, so it is possible
I fully agree with you. You don't even think about sex at all.
I had to listen to this for a reason, my partner always stresses some of the points he spoke about.
I have been celibate for 5years , he must mension that sometimes you get hit by wetdreams.
🤣😂 we needed a lying detector here Pen.
The garment says it all!
Just coz you easily give into your carnal fleshy desires doesn’t mean no other man disciplined enough can resist them
@@babalomandela6792 🤣😂🤣
@@nonodlamini Have a good day 😂🤣. May God and your ancestors bless you more.
@@rendanineluvhola3670 He must form a celibate foundation
I agree abstaining is good but isn’t it that you come to compress your emotions that your wheel of life will be imbalanced. Intimacy is a sacred ritual that’s why sex means Sacred Energy Exchanged that’s why you can do it with only your partner
Straight up...
He is monk. And you can celebrate until marriage
Been trying to get some1 to watch this so he can see that he won't die
I like this guy
❤❤❤❤
Is Semen Retention Healthy?
Semen retention occurs when a man avoids ejaculating for some time. You may achieve semen retention by abstaining from sex and masturbation, stopping sex before the point of ejaculation, or training your body to achieve orgasm without ejaculating.
When you retain semen, the body breaks it down then reabsorbs it into the body. It is commonly believed that semen retention boosts the man’s physical, emotional and spiritual energy. But there is no medical evidence to prove whether semen retention is healthy or unhealthy.
If you can mantain semen in you body perfectly without any leakage via wet dreams, masturbation and sex this are three gates you must go through,
If you managed to mantain hold your semen even for a year perfectly and not as an old men who already ran out of stamina, but at your prime there should be something special and unique about you, especially in terms of mental power and spiritual connection, there something special you should be doing or achieved,
Most people might have defeated masturbation but still struggling with wet dreams due to the food they eat and subliminal sexual content on tv like is sexualising their mind to have sexual dreams
Most men can't even resist women for a year, she will complain if she is not on the same path and you will lose
Facts the diet also plays it's on part during celibacy path
I respect this man's religious belief. As humans, we've been created to procreate and to multiply. All that we we are and all that we do is for the multiplication of our species. Sex done responsibly will not create any adverse effects. A healthy man will always wake up with an erection because we are here to procreate. Done with the right individual, it offers great offspring, great life experiences and a greater quality of life. Companionship is important as human beings, we are social animals after all. The problem is not sex but the current acceptance of promiscuity amongst our society.
So well said!
“No man is free who is not a master of himself.” -Epictetus
With all due respect; this is BS. What happened to just being a decent human being with good character and disciplined self-will? This is no different to being promiscuous…it’s just the opposite end of the same spectrum. Living in extremes is a sign of a very low emotional quotient.
And the irony of these two particular people talking about this particular subject is not lost on me at all!!
The one person misused their autonomy by over-sexualising their identity while the other divests themselves of their autonomy by desexualising themselves…both to cope with a harsh world I suppose but still very interesting to watch.
Maybe therapy? 🤷🏾♀️
With the number of stunning huns here in Mzansi? I'd struggle honeslty
This is where lowering your gaze helps brother. When you see a woman, don’t look at her, lower your eyes. It will make your journey easier.
Been celibate for 3 months and it’s been easy cuz I was single, I’m mostly on a fruit diet, do intermittent fasting, however, a few weeks ago I got a new gf. Now I’m gonna try semen retention cuz ain’t no way I ain’t gonna hit 😅🤷🏾♀️.
I’ve seen the benefits of celibacy, I’m yet Thusi the benefits of semen retention, apparently they’re even greater. 🧘🏽
#StudentOfEckhartTollè
He’s right I’ve been on semen retention since 2019
Wow.
Mina ngeke bafethu. Not here in South Africa. I'd fail.
That's what you tell your mind! You can train it otherwise
@@dot510 This the only failure I will accept.
People are tired of dealing with other people 's bullshit especially where one has to act to satisfy and please the other partner
"Highly specialized field only 1% or 2% can do it"
What happened to "For it is not good for a man to be alone"And that we should bear kids and multiply.?
Sex becomes a minor detail of a deeper relationship 💯
I wonder who is gonna be de lucky girl who is gonna win his heart,in dis day & age of baby dadies it wil be refreshing 2 get a man wid a clean slate.
You can be lucky too.
Which levol ? As a man I don't believe him but I'll try it out for a month first then a year
WOW 😳.
Almost missed on another teachable moment because I ddnt know who was ok the thumbnail
😂😂😂😂😂
What about the saying " if you dont use it you lose it"
Bad memory don't sound like a bad idea to Me
5 years
The sex emotion brings in to being a state of mind- Napoleon Hill ✨
That's monkhood ...hau after 5 years then you've entered another ...monk 😮
I have been celibate since I was 29 I'm now 35
I can tell he read the book
"sex is for shopping on tinder"
A Muntu monk is no different than a christian fanatic. Lomlisa in a metaphysical expr3ssion. Uyafana with a person othi eso Phongola sees the road sign ethi: Durban : mase ehlale beneath it. Athi usefikile ethekwini🎉. He will not find his way home this lifetime. 💫🌘🐘 bathule bayabuka nje okhokho bakhe elunywa isingisi!
😂😂😂
😂
20 yearz? Cap 😂😂
Bro monks are in higher level of course with God love. We can celebrate forever
I’m one of the 1%
Pewwwuu
Wait, so monks dont have kids becos they feel having a family to take care of is limiting... hence they view the whole world as their family.
But that is a kak mindset to have becos "the whole world" are other people's kids.
How can you forego having a family but you adopt other people's families.
Souls are not limited to physical parents
So because I'm a virgin I have mastered this life thing neh? Mos I am a disciplined individual...
He’s been following celibacy Not celibate 😂
We all know the plan B 👀
Isn’t St Augustine came with the concept of celibacy because he had deficiencies so he introduced it to the church
Semen Retention
Mara why is sex so demonised everywhere?
Semen retantion
i Can OverStand-Celibacy asa youth (teens-20's)
for a moment but,
After-Year(s)
that "...suddle-Energy..."
Becomes a Maturing-issue&a Sign of th-Process of Feminization.
"TOO WOKE" Grammar!!👎🏼
@@MarksmanKnowsIt
iamStill Waking-Up but
Woke Long-enough
to Knw why
Age ain't just a #&2Know
✊🏾👎🏾knit-pickin/changin-subject2BFlattery👍🏾✊🏾
Sorry. The oldest religion in the. World in Judaism
Both Judaism and Hinduism are 4000 year old
SKOMORA KING LO
😂😂
This man is lying CAP
Amanga ahlaza cwe...
Haybo! There are God fearing men who live exactly like him, regular Sibusiso's who live amongst us some are adult virgins.
Cap
Lies
🤣🤣🤣 This one is serious Cap
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