I cannot stress the importance of putting yourself on probation for at least 9 months after an ex comes back. If you don’t, you’ll go back to your old ways and lose them/ and your new self again. I’m talking to YOU
Hi Coach Craig. I'm watching your videos all the time to decrease my anxiety, I just had a break up. My ex broke up with me because I went to the philippines I was partying with my batchmate and not a drinker I was drunk and didn't knw what really happened I was raped and got pregnant. My ex told me that we can never be together but he keeps texting me and said he still care about me and said we can still be friends. He also texted me to keep in touch. Idk what to do??? Please help me😢😢😢😢 Thank you Coach! ❤️ -Edna.
My ex decided to contact me after 4 months of NC saying she misses me like crazy... after crucially working on myself and maintaining discipline. Plan on seeing her soon and see how it goes.. lol Edit: so we spoke and we had a great time. Towards the end, she admitted her mistakes and wants to work things out again but become better and stronger. I basically admitted to her that I've been learning so much on my own post break up and been doing a lot better and she seen the changes (which led her to feel more attracted). After hearing me out, she wants to not jump the ship, rather work slowly to get me back and wishes to commit to her own personal growth since she admitted she wants me to stay in her future. She also admitted she was thinking of me literally everyday and wished I had contacted her because she was sad and scared that I never contacted her for any special occasion and was scared the more she waited to contact me, the faster I'll move on . Its so funny how tables turn and how I said I dont need her but I want her and I want to see change. I basically put it in her head that I'm able to move on with or without you, just show me you can do the work. GUYS TRUST NC BECAUSE EVERYTHING I'VE EXPERIENCED ON RECONCILING WITH MY EX COACH CRAIG WAS RIGHT. EVERYTHING FROM EVERY VIDEO I WATCHED, MY EX MENTIONED. I WAS SHOCKED AT THE ACCURACY BECAUSE I KEPT SAYING "COACH CRAIG SAID THIS EXACT THING!!" Work on yourself and like coach said, they will "feel" you moving on.
Working on yourself should be a life mantra . It’s good she’s come back in a sense as she’s able to visibly observe the new you. You now have the power so she needs to win you over and if she has the maturity to grow and work on herself it could become a great thing.
My self worth was shattered after my ex left, I'm slowly building myself but a new version, the old me died the day she left and I've been like a wandering ghost/shell with no purpose. Everyone says i seem like a different man, I try not to let things bother me anymore, I'm more empathetic, emotionally self contained and I believe I'll be a completely different person if i ever see my ex again. I'm jealous of most of you, I've never wanted someone back in my life like i do her. I'm working today and got a bit miserable as she popped into my head with her smiling face. It really is a bereavement. Thanks for all you do
She left me by text, when she lived with me....and left in the middle of the night....a week before I was going to get a ring. That was last April, still no contact from her. Been working on myself the whole time and haven't reached out in months. I used to watch these videos daily, but it has gotten easier. But from time to time I need reassurance, so I come here! Thank you yaw!
Bro why not try contacting her think about may be she's afraid of texting you... Ego pride etcetera you shouldn't have let no contact goes so far or just get someone else
Yea, I tried contacting her back in September, no response, I just felt even worse. She said she left because of my anger....which makes no sense to anyone who knows me. I am sarcastic and when I do get mad I'm usually passive about it. Never hit/touched her in anger. I told her of that was true I would go to therapy, I have been going since last June. She talked to him but not to me. About a month ago I sent her back a few things she left at my house. High school diploma and a letter I had gotten her years ago that had our dog that passed aways paw print. Nothing. We where together for almost 4 years and lived together for 3. I guess I just wasn't worth the effort.
Writing out a list of everything that makes my ex human and little things that bothered me in the relationship made me realize that we are equals, we both had a part in the breakup and that I can give myself some self compassion. It didn't fix my self esteem issues but it certainly helped me see my worthiness as equal to his. Neutral view of the self is better than negative ❤
Of course you was good enough. If you did everything you could and they still wanted to leave they had to work on themselves. Let them go and let the universe plan it’s course. You are always good enough people.
I never felt good enough for my ex, she wanted someone with a better profession and more money than I had and could offer - but then again I believe the majority of women are like this!? She earned more than me and had a better job and a degree. After she left me I tired to remain in contact but she told me to move on and to stop wasting my time reaching out and messaging her!
My ex broke up with me 8 months ago, out of the blue- put an offer on a house 2 days before the bu. 🤷♀️. My ex was in a "rebound" 2 1/2 weeks later and they're STILL together! We've been in NC since July 1. I'm still on the struggle bus 😔💔
For me the most difficult part is feeling that this breakup DOES define my worth. I am successful in my career, having a lot of loving people around but not getting validation from THIS person makes me incredibly sad. I am dealing with it but still with setbacks...
Cant wait to watch, thank you...I know this one will be another insightful video....Im binge watching your videos like a new Netflix series......if it wasnt for you guys I wouldve gone crazy litterally, in therapy as I know I need to heal and talk,talk,talk...... for relationship and breakup guidance and growth, you guys are my go-to.....Thank God for you
I can definitely see why Coach Craig picked Coach Victoria to be a part of his circle. She has the same warmth that Coach Margaret has. That said, this couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve been feeling what you described in your videos for days. My self-esteem is essentially shot and I don’t know what to do anymore. I go to therapy, I’m on medication, but nothing seems to be enough. Sigh.
Hi Craig I decided to deactivate my Instagram for two months as I was fixated on whether my ex was checking my stories and post. I already feel a lot better. What are you thoughts on deactivating social media to focus on personal growth , letting go and moving on
I have to LEARN HOW to grieve. Maybe a good topic for you guys? Oh GOD this video is SO apropos for me. Thanks! I have that relationship value self worth thingy for sure!! UGH. Yes, yes, yes. I didn't see how a third party could be a benefit for your team. But man, Victoria is really a solid addition. I realize she's been in the background for a long time, but she's a great third personality and input in front of the camera! I feel Craig and Margaret are wonderfully empathetic, but V is a fabulous new voice, too. 💖💖💖
@@YouNolf THANK YOU SO MUCH! I WILL!! Hustling thru "The Body Keeps the Score " currently. But if Im assuming your tip correctly, I'll move on to her next. (Jeez, I'm never going to make it thru Craig's course at this rate. 🤣) Seriously, Thank you immensely for the recommendation . 💖
Hi Coach Craig. Can you please consider doing a video on the opposite issue; people in my social circle (not even friends, less close) who maybe mean well telling me I'm too good for my ex, that he's "beneath" me. Yes I'm biased cause I love him, but I think that's a rather arrogant statement among other issues with it. (If you do please do it with Margaret!! Love you guys together ❤) TY for being awesome.
The point about grieving was very good and on point. I didn't properly grieve for my father, and I've been dragging on the sadness and anger of the breakup for over a year and couldn't figure out why. It makes more sense now.
Even though I feel like that my relationship was good and that I was a good boyfriend, I can't get rid of the feeling that I could have done something better. We'll see how things turn out. Three months of NC, she still likes my FB posts, but I'm on my way to a good place in my life! :)
Well I definitely felt as though I wasn't good enough for my ex. We broke up almost a year ago now. In the beginning of the break up we were still seeing each other. I was chasing and too keen. Then someone else same onto the scene that she worked with. This threw me into a complete spin and I ended up pushing her further away, to the point she said she didn't think we should see each other. I had a coaching with Craig and Margaret who suggested NC. Actually, insisted NC. It was so, so hard and I was completely ridden with anxiety. To the point I was barely able to function. I'd forget appointments, didn't want to eat and was tired all the time but couldn't sleep when I really needed to. I started therapy, saw a psychiatrist, started medication and focusing on myself. 3 month into NC I got an indirect/direct text near Christmas time asking for a roast chicken recipe I cooked for her and her family (it's delicious btw). We always used to cook together. She said she missed cooking and then went on to ask how I was. I tired to set a date to meet. Initially she was keen and then went silent. Ouch. Back to NC. The whole time of NC I realised I wasn't really focusing properly on myself. I had been on a number of dates with lovely and beautiful women who were interested, but I just wasn't ready. I was still holding on hope. I wasn't ridden with anxiety any more but I hadn't let go. It finally clicked just this weekend. Somethig changed. As the coaches say, it's a process and doesn't happen immediately. I was ready to let go before. Since then I've stopped drinking and partying completely. I hit the gym 5 days a week and have been given a couple of promotions in the mean time. Things were getting better and better. I had a work meeting at the hospital where my ex works just a few days ago. I broke NC. Not out of anxiety, but out of a place of strength. I still care deeply about my ex, but now I am OK with where I am at. The breakup needed to happen for both of us. I just said that I got thinking about her because I was at the hospital and hopes she is well. She asked to meet for coffee straight away. I was a little nervous but feeling good. She was meant to be on a 15 Min break but we sat, talked laughed and cried a little together for over an hour. She said that she would like to see me again. I said that would be great. I really would like to see her again but I am also OK with it never happening. I don't know what the future holds and I'm OK with the feeling now. I actually feel so calm. To anyone out there hurting. Keep working on you, at your own pace and never give up. Step out of your comfor zone and do things that truly serve you and make you happy. If you adopt this mindset everything falls into place. Everything will be OK. ❤️
@Joana Landra we've seen each other a few more time since then. Hung out and cooked dinner together, gone to the beach etc. She asked if I was seeing anyone and told me she was seeing someone for a while but they broke up because she kept talking about me and the other guy wasn't in to that lol. She told me she loves me still and then pulls away. I reached out again to catch up when I was working in her building for a day but she said she was busy. Tbh, that hurt but I got over it pretty quickly. She is confused and going through her own growth. I've since met a beautiful, beautiful woman and just starting to see each other now. I wouldn't have been ready to meet someone like her without really focusing on myself and letting go of the outcome of getting back together with my ex. Who knows what will happen in the future....I have a feeling that when my ex finds out I'm dating someone new she will be back. It is a shame because we had so much in common and beautiful moments together...but she isn't the only person in the world who I can have a relationship like that with. People come into our lives to teach us something. I've learned to be true and be myself and that is worth more than any relationship....so as much as those process has been painful, I now realise they were all growing pains and I'm greatful for who I am now.
I really like Coach Victoria. I’ve been listening to you Craig for the last couple years. Victoria is super smart and gives a whole different perspective on things and very helpful. Margarett is great as well. Great choice on the addition to the family :)
Dear Coach , pls pls add paypal as a payment method for the workbooks, im from germany and CC are very unusual here. Thank you so much for your great work, watching you every day for so many hours and it helps me so much !
Snow Prince I do need 2 cents on this one: I broke up with my ex for giving me the silent treatment over nothing. We we’re having a very intimate moment in the morning and I stopped after an hour because I had to leave San Fran to make it to work in Redwood City (almost hour commute). She got angry at me for leaving her hanging and went off on me for using her for my pleasure and seeing her as an easy piece of meat. This is not the first time it happened and when she stops, I stop and I listen to her. After leaving for work; she gives me the silent treatment until the next day even though I apologized and said my piece to reassure her of no ill intentions. When I broke up with her, I told her how she treated me was not acceptable and we’re supposed to bring the best, not the worst in each other. Fast Forward to now; it’s been almost a month and I feel that I miss her. Even though she was wrong for treating me that way, my heart and mind is telling me to reach out to her
Is it common for an ex to completely change her life after a breakup, IE job, phone number and everything? I hear my ex who dumped me is super upset after 2 months No contact
@@dwightschrute8141 my ex completely changed things about them, and then was super angry as well. She didn’t come back though. She dated someone new at 9 months NC
ADVICE PLEASE. Me & my ex have been together for about 6 years. We had such a healthy & good relationship until covid hit last year & he went into a depression which caused our relationship to suffer. He broke up with me but with 3 weeks of no contact he came back & wanted to work things out. For about 5 months after getting back together we were so happy it was like we never broke up. Then aos he got distant again, didn’t wanna hangout, & just slept all the time. Then one night we met up to talk about our relationship & he just broke up with me. I was so lost & hurt cause it was out of nowhere. Then first 2 weeks he kept the line of communication open, still said he loved & missed me & answered everytime I called but then a couple days ago we got into a small argument because I was just so mad he didn’t try to make our relationship better & just gave up after all we been through. He ended up not replying to me & I started no contact yesterday. I still have hope for us, I miss him so much i don’t know what to do.
My father chose an abusive alcoholic idiot over me. I was the cause of everything bad and all her issues despite being a child at the time. I never got over it and never loved him again. The woman used him for money of course and left him. I was blamed for that too. I was everyone’s punching bag growing up so relationships aren’t easy for me though I am nothing at all like my selfish moron father. I don’t drink at all. You’re right, Victoria. Childhood experiences don’t define us. It wasn’t our fault.
@@sarah6932 no to being friends with your ex if you're still hoping you'll be back together. But if you feel that you genuinely dont have any romantic feelings for your ex anymore, then i think its great to be friends with your ex. Just be sure that you dont have any lingering desire to fix your relationship.
I cannot stress the importance of putting yourself on probation for at least 9 months after an ex comes back. If you don’t, you’ll go back to your old ways and lose them/ and your new self again. I’m talking to YOU
So if they come back don’t date them until 9 months?
@@alysonwitt5794 no just be super self aware
You are SO talking to me 😅 thank you for the reminder
Hi Coach Craig. I'm watching your videos all the time to decrease my anxiety, I just had a break up. My ex broke up with me because I went to the philippines I was partying with my batchmate and not a drinker I was drunk and didn't knw what really happened I was raped and got pregnant. My ex told me that we can never be together but he keeps texting me and said he still care about me and said we can still be friends. He also texted me to keep in touch. Idk what to do??? Please help me😢😢😢😢
Thank you Coach! ❤️
-Edna.
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My ex decided to contact me after 4 months of NC saying she misses me like crazy... after crucially working on myself and maintaining discipline. Plan on seeing her soon and see how it goes.. lol
Edit: so we spoke and we had a great time. Towards the end, she admitted her mistakes and wants to work things out again but become better and stronger. I basically admitted to her that I've been learning so much on my own post break up and been doing a lot better and she seen the changes (which led her to feel more attracted). After hearing me out, she wants to not jump the ship, rather work slowly to get me back and wishes to commit to her own personal growth since she admitted she wants me to stay in her future. She also admitted she was thinking of me literally everyday and wished I had contacted her because she was sad and scared that I never contacted her for any special occasion and was scared the more she waited to contact me, the faster I'll move on . Its so funny how tables turn and how I said I dont need her but I want her and I want to see change. I basically put it in her head that I'm able to move on with or without you, just show me you can do the work. GUYS TRUST NC BECAUSE EVERYTHING I'VE EXPERIENCED ON RECONCILING WITH MY EX COACH CRAIG WAS RIGHT. EVERYTHING FROM EVERY VIDEO I WATCHED, MY EX MENTIONED. I WAS SHOCKED AT THE ACCURACY BECAUSE I KEPT SAYING "COACH CRAIG SAID THIS EXACT THING!!" Work on yourself and like coach said, they will "feel" you moving on.
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Congrats!
+1 be cautious, my ex did came back too, but she left again forever, she realized that we so different. Just BS
Working on yourself should be a life mantra . It’s good she’s come back in a sense as she’s able to visibly observe the new you. You now have the power so she needs to win you over and if she has the maturity to grow and work on herself it could become a great thing.
That’s good can you tell us the story on what led to the break up and what she did after you guys broke up?
My self worth was shattered after my ex left, I'm slowly building myself but a new version, the old me died the day she left and I've been like a wandering ghost/shell with no purpose.
Everyone says i seem like a different man, I try not to let things bother me anymore, I'm more empathetic, emotionally self contained and I believe I'll be a completely different person if i ever see my ex again.
I'm jealous of most of you, I've never wanted someone back in my life like i do her.
I'm working today and got a bit miserable as she popped into my head with her smiling face.
It really is a bereavement.
Thanks for all you do
She left me by text, when she lived with me....and left in the middle of the night....a week before I was going to get a ring. That was last April, still no contact from her. Been working on myself the whole time and haven't reached out in months. I used to watch these videos daily, but it has gotten easier. But from time to time I need reassurance, so I come here! Thank you yaw!
Bro why not try contacting her think about may be she's afraid of texting you... Ego pride etcetera you shouldn't have let no contact goes so far or just get someone else
If she wants to get back with him enough, she will reach out first
@@empyric949 you're right N/C after 7 months got my ex calling my mom and sister (frustration) asking about me. I already moved on that's her lost...
Yea, I tried contacting her back in September, no response, I just felt even worse. She said she left because of my anger....which makes no sense to anyone who knows me. I am sarcastic and when I do get mad I'm usually passive about it. Never hit/touched her in anger. I told her of that was true I would go to therapy, I have been going since last June. She talked to him but not to me. About a month ago I sent her back a few things she left at my house. High school diploma and a letter I had gotten her years ago that had our dog that passed aways paw print. Nothing. We where together for almost 4 years and lived together for 3. I guess I just wasn't worth the effort.
@@empyric949 exactly
Writing out a list of everything that makes my ex human and little things that bothered me in the relationship made me realize that we are equals, we both had a part in the breakup and that I can give myself some self compassion. It didn't fix my self esteem issues but it certainly helped me see my worthiness as equal to his. Neutral view of the self is better than negative ❤
Of course you was good enough. If you did everything you could and they still wanted to leave they had to work on themselves. Let them go and let the universe plan it’s course. You are always good enough people.
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I never felt good enough for my ex, she wanted someone with a better profession and more money than I had and could offer - but then again I believe the majority of women are like this!? She earned more than me and had a better job and a degree. After she left me I tired to remain in contact but she told me to move on and to stop wasting my time reaching out and messaging her!
Keep us posted, stay strong.
Relationship contingent self esteem. I know that state of mind. It’s something I still grapple with but I’m getting much better
6 months no contact my ex has been in a rebound the last 5 months been hard starting to somewhat feel better thank you guys for ur videos
My ex broke up with me 8 months ago, out of the blue- put an offer on a house 2 days before the bu. 🤷♀️.
My ex was in a "rebound" 2 1/2 weeks later and they're STILL together! We've been in NC since July 1. I'm still on the struggle bus 😔💔
@@Vrxkzupdate?
For me the most difficult part is feeling that this breakup DOES define my worth. I am successful in my career, having a lot of loving people around but not getting validation from THIS person makes me incredibly sad. I am dealing with it but still with setbacks...
I’m in this same position so know that you’re not alone!
@@him3407, thank you! 🙏
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Cant wait to watch, thank you...I know this one will be another insightful video....Im binge watching your videos like a new Netflix series......if it wasnt for you guys I wouldve gone crazy litterally, in therapy as I know I need to heal and talk,talk,talk...... for relationship and breakup guidance and growth, you guys are my go-to.....Thank God for you
Good to see the family getting bigger & bigger..😁🥰😉
Coach Victoria really called me out with the rejection sensitivity and self esteem contingency !
Felt the same way !
I can definitely see why Coach Craig picked Coach Victoria to be a part of his circle. She has the same warmth that Coach Margaret has.
That said, this couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve been feeling what you described in your videos for days. My self-esteem is essentially shot and I don’t know what to do anymore. I go to therapy, I’m on medication, but nothing seems to be enough. Sigh.
Keep going. It will get better!
@@CoachCraigKennethI hope so. I think my ex is already seeing someone else.
Margaret, that red jacket is gorgeous on you
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Hi Craig I decided to deactivate my Instagram for two months as I was fixated on whether my ex was checking my stories and post. I already feel a lot better. What are you thoughts on deactivating social media to focus on personal growth , letting go and moving on
He did a video on this before I watched it earlier
@@RancidShyster what’s the video called
.update?
I have to LEARN HOW to grieve. Maybe a good topic for you guys? Oh GOD this video is SO apropos for me. Thanks! I have that relationship value self worth thingy for sure!! UGH. Yes, yes, yes. I didn't see how a third party could be a benefit for your team. But man, Victoria is really a solid addition. I realize she's been in the background for a long time, but she's a great third personality and input in front of the camera! I feel Craig and Margaret are wonderfully empathetic, but V is a fabulous new voice, too. 💖💖💖
Look up Irene Lyon!
@@YouNolf THANK YOU SO MUCH! I WILL!! Hustling thru "The Body Keeps the Score " currently. But if Im assuming your tip correctly, I'll move on to her next. (Jeez, I'm never going to make it thru Craig's course at this rate. 🤣) Seriously, Thank you immensely for the recommendation . 💖
Hi Coach Craig. Can you please consider doing a video on the opposite issue; people in my social circle (not even friends, less close) who maybe mean well telling me I'm too good for my ex, that he's "beneath" me. Yes I'm biased cause I love him, but I think that's a rather arrogant statement among other issues with it. (If you do please do it with Margaret!! Love you guys together ❤) TY for being awesome.
The point about grieving was very good and on point. I didn't properly grieve for my father, and I've been dragging on the sadness and anger of the breakup for over a year and couldn't figure out why. It makes more sense now.
It work on me My ex came back to me W..h...a.. t..z..p...p. h..i..m..f..o..r. h..e..l..p. ✝2 3 4 9 1 5 2 0 5 2 0 6 3......
Even though I feel like that my relationship was good and that I was a good boyfriend, I can't get rid of the feeling that I could have done something better. We'll see how things turn out. Three months of NC, she still likes my FB posts, but I'm on my way to a good place in my life! :)
Well I definitely felt as though I wasn't good enough for my ex. We broke up almost a year ago now. In the beginning of the break up we were still seeing each other. I was chasing and too keen. Then someone else same onto the scene that she worked with. This threw me into a complete spin and I ended up pushing her further away, to the point she said she didn't think we should see each other. I had a coaching with Craig and Margaret who suggested NC. Actually, insisted NC. It was so, so hard and I was completely ridden with anxiety. To the point I was barely able to function. I'd forget appointments, didn't want to eat and was tired all the time but couldn't sleep when I really needed to. I started therapy, saw a psychiatrist, started medication and focusing on myself. 3 month into NC I got an indirect/direct text near Christmas time asking for a roast chicken recipe I cooked for her and her family (it's delicious btw). We always used to cook together. She said she missed cooking and then went on to ask how I was. I tired to set a date to meet. Initially she was keen and then went silent. Ouch. Back to NC. The whole time of NC I realised I wasn't really focusing properly on myself. I had been on a number of dates with lovely and beautiful women who were interested, but I just wasn't ready. I was still holding on hope. I wasn't ridden with anxiety any more but I hadn't let go. It finally clicked just this weekend. Somethig changed. As the coaches say, it's a process and doesn't happen immediately. I was ready to let go before. Since then I've stopped drinking and partying completely. I hit the gym 5 days a week and have been given a couple of promotions in the mean time. Things were getting better and better.
I had a work meeting at the hospital where my ex works just a few days ago. I broke NC. Not out of anxiety, but out of a place of strength. I still care deeply about my ex, but now I am OK with where I am at. The breakup needed to happen for both of us. I just said that I got thinking about her because I was at the hospital and hopes she is well. She asked to meet for coffee straight away. I was a little nervous but feeling good. She was meant to be on a 15 Min break but we sat, talked laughed and cried a little together for over an hour. She said that she would like to see me again. I said that would be great. I really would like to see her again but I am also OK with it never happening. I don't know what the future holds and I'm OK with the feeling now. I actually feel so calm.
To anyone out there hurting. Keep working on you, at your own pace and never give up. Step out of your comfor zone and do things that truly serve you and make you happy. If you adopt this mindset everything falls into place. Everything will be OK. ❤️
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@@anitaeric5728 nah bra
@Joana Landra we've seen each other a few more time since then. Hung out and cooked dinner together, gone to the beach etc. She asked if I was seeing anyone and told me she was seeing someone for a while but they broke up because she kept talking about me and the other guy wasn't in to that lol.
She told me she loves me still and then pulls away. I reached out again to catch up when I was working in her building for a day but she said she was busy. Tbh, that hurt but I got over it pretty quickly. She is confused and going through her own growth.
I've since met a beautiful, beautiful woman and just starting to see each other now. I wouldn't have been ready to meet someone like her without really focusing on myself and letting go of the outcome of getting back together with my ex. Who knows what will happen in the future....I have a feeling that when my ex finds out I'm dating someone new she will be back. It is a shame because we had so much in common and beautiful moments together...but she isn't the only person in the world who I can have a relationship like that with.
People come into our lives to teach us something. I've learned to be true and be myself and that is worth more than any relationship....so as much as those process has been painful, I now realise they were all growing pains and I'm greatful for who I am now.
Nice vibes..keep it up, guys and girls❤️
I really like Coach Victoria. I’ve been listening to you Craig for the last couple years. Victoria is super smart and gives a whole different perspective on things and very helpful.
Margarett is great as well. Great choice on the addition to the family :)
Glad you enjoyed it :)
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Great video coaches, needed a little boost this morning
Scary stuff, I’ve been thinking this today. Get out my head, Craig!
I feel much better now
Please do a “its not you its me” video
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Coach Victoria is beautiful & intelligent. Perfect combo
You forgot funny. That’s what landed her the job 😜 jk
Good Job Coach Vicky!
Thank you!
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@@coachvictoria6405 hi coach Victoria 😊
Thank you craig, loving your videos! Can you do one on giving in to your ex after no contact and them disappearing again?
Dear Coach , pls pls add paypal as a payment method for the workbooks, im from germany and CC are very unusual here. Thank you so much for your great work, watching you every day for so many hours and it helps me so much !
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I do need 2 cents on this one: I broke up with my ex for giving me the silent treatment over nothing. We we’re having a very intimate moment in the morning and I stopped after an hour because I had to leave San Fran to make it to work in Redwood City (almost hour commute). She got angry at me for leaving her hanging and went off on me for using her for my pleasure and seeing her as an easy piece of meat. This is not the first time it happened and when she stops, I stop and I listen to her. After leaving for work; she gives me the silent treatment until the next day even though I apologized and said my piece to reassure her of no ill intentions. When I broke up with her, I told her how she treated me was not acceptable and we’re supposed to bring the best, not the worst in each other.
Fast Forward to now; it’s been almost a month and I feel that I miss her. Even though she was wrong for treating me that way, my heart and mind is telling me to reach out to her
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Is it common for an ex to completely change her life after a breakup, IE job, phone number and everything? I hear my ex who dumped me is super upset after 2 months No contact
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@@dwightschrute8141 my ex completely changed things about them, and then was super angry as well. She didn’t come back though. She dated someone new at 9 months NC
This video is on par with an all inclusive holiday.🏖🌞❣
But to where?
@@CoachCraigKenneth Somewhere warm and relaxing with beautiful scenery
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i'm not good enough for anyone.
🤔 what if I wasn't really good enough for some other person?
Thats their loss now isn't.
ADVICE PLEASE. Me & my ex have been together for about 6 years. We had such a healthy & good relationship until covid hit last year & he went into a depression which caused our relationship to suffer. He broke up with me but with 3 weeks of no contact he came back & wanted to work things out. For about 5 months after getting back together we were so happy it was like we never broke up. Then aos he got distant again, didn’t wanna hangout, & just slept all the time. Then one night we met up to talk about our relationship & he just broke up with me. I was so lost & hurt cause it was out of nowhere. Then first 2 weeks he kept the line of communication open, still said he loved & missed me & answered everytime I called but then a couple days ago we got into a small argument because I was just so mad he didn’t try to make our relationship better & just gave up after all we been through. He ended up not replying to me & I started no contact yesterday. I still have hope for us, I miss him so much i don’t know what to do.
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Hey dear do you need help on getting your ex back
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Dad always chose alcohol over me
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My father chose an abusive alcoholic idiot over me. I was the cause of everything bad and all her issues despite being a child at the time. I never got over it and never loved him again. The woman used him for money of course and left him. I was blamed for that too. I was everyone’s punching bag growing up so relationships aren’t easy for me though I am nothing at all like my selfish moron father. I don’t drink at all. You’re right, Victoria. Childhood experiences don’t define us. It wasn’t our fault.
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I added my ex in snap after 20 days of no contact and i told him > he accept the inv and say okay so please coach tell me is that a bad idea
@@sarah6932 no to being friends with your ex if you're still hoping you'll be back together. But if you feel that you genuinely dont have any romantic feelings for your ex anymore, then i think its great to be friends with your ex. Just be sure that you dont have any lingering desire to fix your relationship.