Why Women Love Bad Boys And What You Can Learn From Them
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- In this video, Jeff from The Style O.G. talks about why women love bad boys and what you can learn from them. He discusses what traits men can adapt from bad boys to be more attractive to women.
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Be a "Denzel Washington"
Not an "Ike Turner"
Never a "Steve Urkel"
I’m Denzel from Training Day....
Urkel got swag.
Stefan Ur-kell
@@deyampert3738 protect the sheep, catch the wolf
Urkel = COOL
I would ask myself this question all the time! Growing up in a house hold full of sisters and a mom. Watching the men they are attractive to. They tend to follow a few of those traits. I could NEVER understand why! I have learned a lot throughout my life as I grew up on why this is. your explanation of it so far is the best I’ve heard. A lot of these traits although they show the signs of a strong alpha male can tend to have toxic, being self-centered and narcissistic tendencies which are not healthy in a relationship. But being able to pick out some of these traits and altering them can help make a man stronger and a lot more confident. More info to preach to my sons as they grow! Thank you Ol G! you’re a great teaching tool for young men out there!
Salute Dayshon!
I feel you. Bro Smith.
Well said bro
I’m ngl, my girl always told me she loved my bad side but deep down I always had a soft side, I was just raised differently and from the hood n fought a lot but I just never understood why they like that
Real conversation from a Grown Man that is assertive, mature and confident.... Great video Jeff.
Thanks Queen!
In most industries, assertive guys get promotions, aggressive guys get unemployed. Women in my experience, prefer guys with jobs.
Well said Henry !
Well, it’s a lot of things job, masculine, flirty, confident, among other things.
Never believe “happy wife, happy life”.....
You’d better..
Lmao!!
Ismael Ausua give her diamond rings everyday she’ll likely be happy but you would most likely not be
Ron Linden: NO WIFE...HAPPY LIFE!!!
The guys that tell me ( happy wife happy life bullshit) are either p”$#%y whipped or have low testosterone. They seem miserable in the relationship
Another classic! Speaks more to 20 and 30 year old crowd. When you a man in his late 40's, it comes across as immature if you trying to look too tough. However, you can still rock that edgy confident image with a strong aura by how you carry yourself. Something you've addressed numerous times.
Appreciate the input Jefe !
"Get in the Gym!" Love that line, it's so true. Being fit= confidence through the roof. Thanks for helping me find myself again, O.G.
The gym is gay though
@@khristionlouvatin6874 Got that right. It's a very HAPPY time in the gym. I'm always gay there!
You make a lot of good points..... I would add that the term "Bad Boys" is subjective. What a female may see as a "Bad Boy" could be a simp to other girls. A female should look at the relationship with her father, as it will have a major role with the types of guys she dates, or marries...
Appreciate the input Doc!
There are women who are in their 30.s 40 s 50 s who still think nice guys are boring and bad guys are more exciting
The higher the testosterone, the more masculine you become.
Problem is, once the "bad boy phase" is over, those women will likely have a high body count on them and FINALLY want the "nice guy". No nice guy that knows his value will want that though.
That's where the disconnect/problem comes in.
Also, side-note, NO ONE is exciting 24/7. I'm not going to be any women's all day entertainment/court jester while she does little to nothing.
Facts
@KingzJuster Exactly!
Facts
You know there is a middle ground...
@@TheStyleOG With the women liking bad boys over nice guys part? Sure, the guy can be a bit of both. But once the women has slept with a lot of bad boys then there's no reversing that.
Nice topic. I have always been the type of guy who will do my own thing. I really don't like wasting time nor wasting a woman's time. If we are not on the same page I will quickly remove my self from that situation. If she doesn't like my flavor then I will politely let her know to move around (sounds rough, but no need in being somewhere you don't want to be). Thanks for reminding me of all the ups and downs of dating😊 As always outstanding work on this video Sir!
Salute Shawn !
@Blessed Rivers & Streams it would certainly be nice if we would do each other better.🙂
You should do one on the stigma on men and mental health or just how to show emotions with out being criticized if you can please
Excellent insights, Jeff! I wouldn't change a word. Pay heed, ya'll.
Thanks Paul !
So who’s been reading their ‘word a day’ toilet paper? Reciprocity. Nice one, I learned a new world today. Thanks Jeff.
Ha !
i watched this guy because i needed to know if i could untuck my shirt but he feels like ur uncle who gives you life advice
That’s the perspective I’m coming from Matt!
Salute OG. I love how you’ve been bringing the old music back
Salute !
Truth on the fitness part Og
Salute!
Bad boys respect themselves!
They know how too hold their ground!
They never put women first!
They keep themselves mysterious!
They make her earn their validation and attention!
A lot of women usually end their "bad boy" phase after their knocked up and left alone. Then they wanna run to the "good guy" to save em.
You watch too many RUclips videos, did this happen to you ??
The Style O.G. Oh no lol. Just some observations I’ve seen i.e. future, Ciara, and Russell Wilson.
Whatever you do, don’t draw conclusions from anecdotal celebrity relationships...
@@TheStyleOG that’s truth I literally see it in the hood everyday all these church baby mommas want a Christ like man now u can’t make it up Kevin Samuels addressed it
I went to my high school prom with what I thought was nerdy quiet boring guy. Our drive to the prom he blasted "Freaky Tales" by Too Short. 👀🙉 I think that was the artist. Went home after prom and I jump out the car ran in the house. I've never been into bad boys. I like boring. Matter of factly I've been told I'm boring which is fine with me. Boring and predictable is good for me. To each her own though.
Just a comment - I enjoyed the vid.
Appreciate the personal input !
Here's the thing tho! LOOKS!!!! It's all about the looks. You can't be a bad boy without the looks. If you try to act tough, but look like a wimp, you'll get taken advantage of even more.
facts
Your commentary is on point. These people bad boy and good girl can sometimes find common ground and make it work but the statistics often work against them. He remains the same as she deteriorates.
Appreciate the input Allan !
"Be a man, make a plan!"....words to live by.
Yup !
Another great video Jeff! You are speaking volumes O.G. we do like them but thank God you wake up and see that it's not going anywhere and the drama and baggage bad boys come with too much. Maturity does teach you what you like and dislike when dating. 👍🏾
Salute Tineshia!
🥰
Can't relate. Never been attracted to people who need the media or anyone else to spoon feed them their preferences. Even when I was young.
@Yemi That doesn't change the the way I feel.
@Yemi you make it seem like I am objecting to their choice of a bad boy? Or that I care? They can feel free to do as they please without any request from me to change. I have made my choice also. I am good. Thanks for the info though.
@Yemi Again, thanks for the info.
Wow a lot good information, whether being a kind guy , bad boy it’s all determined by the situation and the woman. Again O.G another great video.
Salute Al !
When I think back on why my relationships failed in the past. A part of the reason why is because I failed to set boundaries in the beginning. Women are notorious for challenging a man's self esteem. Not setting boundaries comes off to a woman as you are afraid to lose her. Wants a woman becomes confident in that. the relationship is already over.
If you happen to be a nice guy, stay that way. Don't change who you are as a person. Hate it when people try to become something they are not naturally. If the women aren't flocking yet, it's okay because that means you can focus on other important shit: Like your job and career. Scarface said it best, get the money and power first.
Nice guys aren't really nice, they do those nice things to win a woman over.
@@nicoleharrington9086 There are no nice guys . Just guys desperate to get a woman's attention
@@nicoleharrington9086 many thugs aren’t really thugs just doing it to get a woman’s attention and often times lose their lives behind those females
Love everything you said! ❤️
Thanks Lisha !
Women do tend to like not love Martin Lawrence and Will Smith guy types but prefer Jeff Morgan type guys. GOD bless you and SALUTE
Ha. Salute George !
Your very interesting approach to a difficult topic reminded me of a book I was given 30 years ago about the Management Style of Atilla the Hun. It was a Business gift to me from the highest placed female executive in the largest Corporation in Australia. It was not a subtle message. Lol. Phil.
Ha !
This is all true. Sadly it takes some women forever to figure out that this is a weakness for them and why they always have toxic relationships.
I'm a women and I approve this message!! I dffinelty agree with the social cue. However as women get older the bad boy just doesn't do it for me. I think it's a stage female goes thru, but I'll take the corney dude(per say) over bad boys. There just to much work!! I love everything your say. You broke this down precisely bro ❤ good job!! " Be a man...make a PLAN💯💯
by tha time you'll wanna nice guy its too late. He"ll already be done moved on frm women
That jacket is Fantastic with that white shirt!..........Salute! 👍🏽
Salute John !
Nah stay true to self 💯
Thanks for the suggestions bro!
No problem !
On point again OG. I have to say i am changing my style and mannerisms a little . I'm a nice guy but I've notice over the last few years girls seems to really attractive to bad guys . So I'm changing my style a little .
Salute!
Thanks for the practical tips brother Jeff....SALUTE!!!
Salute Paul !
I hear u OG
Respect!
DON’T BE BORING
Please don’t !
Excellent points @Style OG. Gentlemen, please use your "bad boy" super powers for good . . . and with caution! 😎
Thanks Ms T!
Good topic. I was told by certain females that they like Bad Boys cause they feel protected, and they don't mind taking care of them.
That’s why many of them end up killed by those same men
Great advice. Great video. Thanks. Be safe and God bless Ciao
Thanks Anthony!
Another great video! You the man Jeff!!
Being successful and having your shit together is attractive to women...
Yup !
Another great video!
Thanks Craig !
It’s because our inner Mother Nature, we it’s all about sex and desire but we can’t fix them
Good day Mr Style OG, ever since I've known about your RUclips channel, I've never missed a single video coz I've picked up a lot from what you talk about🙌🏾, highly grateful for your consideration of us guys.
If I could request, please talk about how to overcome anxiety and depression due a breakup and mistakes done in the past. I think it'll really help my close friend 🙌🏾. Thank you
Salute !
Hello OG., I’m a new viewer... really enjoy your channel. Looking sharp ALL the time!!! My wife loves the new me! Keep up the good work, and thanks again for all the advise.
SALUTE!
You got it my friend !
Very informative all great points most of which I didn’t think of!
Thanks Desmond !
I was late watching this one, but like the content!
Thanks Kirkland!
Don't bully anyone because you want to impress women. stay kind stay single.
Man your content is so quality. Keep it up O.G.!
Appreciate it!
In my opinion,They like bad boys because she can violate his parole, when she wants or simply control the narrative in the relationship...or cheat? L.o.l
you are right, they like the bad boys until they wake up, and the novelty wears off. get it out of their system. I was both growing up. good points but then again, I will be anything they want.
Appreciate the input!
I'm watching X men orgins wolverine, and it hit me. The reason women love toxic men is that their femininity has gone rampant. Wolverines girl loves him, knowing he's been through 3 wars and has major mental instabilities and violence tendencies. Just as the thug demonstrates him manliness with high out of control man stereotypes; the woman demonstrates hers with high sexual prowless and/or a need to sooth and comfort a man that is broken to the extreme.
Salute 👊🏽
Salute!
Another banger. I've made several of the changes you have suggested. Great channel. Subscriber for life. SALUTE
Salute !
So did you get any changes?
@@natsudia4265 I feel that I look better and that boosts my confidence.
@@aceklub96 If you feel that you look better, than how you previously dressed/looked, from my experience in selling at CEO level, in the Top 100 Companies, is that feeling is contagious.
I noticed that when I first started out, and was at least 20 years younger than the very senior executives that I met and sold to, that because I went to a very strict college, and my father was a serving Naval Officer, who was always in uniform, that I felt comfortable always wearing a tie and keeping my suit coat buttoned up. It made me realise that I was being treated with respect, because I was viewed as a Social equal. You won't find that advice in any MBA course, but you will gain respect, results and promotions, because your style of dress shows respect for the people you are dealing with, and who you represent. Phil.
Real talk 💯
Salute !
Preach my brother
Salute CJ!
Fellas be confident, be assertive and whatever you do no bitchassness !!! Lol another great one Jeff
🤜🏾🤛🏾🙌🏾
Thanks Mark!
Once a woman's looks dissipate (aka "The Wall"), so does her ego; at that point, she'll take anything she can get!
Another great video Jeff ! I especially liked the ways you looked at the Male and Female perceptions of the topic, while acknowledging the positive qualities and rooting out the negative ones. Truly a great tool for assessing many challenges women and men face in society !💯💪👍❤
Thanks Jonathan!
How ya doing Style O.G.? I made a comment on one of your other videos. This is the perfect video to ask what I have to ask. I'm Italian and I was born into something if you can catch on. Women get scared when other people tell her what I was born into and they loose interest even if someone is out of line and needs to be straightened out for a minute. People watch too many movies and stereotype Italians but in my case I'm kinda of fucked you know. Any advice?
I've been saying that for years that alot not ALL but alot of women will choose a man that excites them. The only problem is when that same guy excites 6 other women at the same time and hurts that woman. I see it everyday at the nursing home where I work and the women that put all of the stock into the bad boys become bitter and try to take it out on the nice guy slash clean up man.
Very good information 👍
Thanks Tony !
I just started watching your video. I'm a big guy what suggestions do you have for style and dress. I can't shop at the store you named your video
We don't have to keep up with that type of woman..plus men awareness about women games is getting better all over the world.
Here's some advice: don't take dating advice from women, and don't take dating advice from men who cater to women. Women literally don't know what they want until they see it, so there's no point in changing for them. If she don't like you for you, keep it stepping.
So just assume you can’t learn from any source? Ok cool
Im naturally a cool guy !! Can definitely us ur tips OG !!
So that logic would mean, don’t take advice from a random RUclips commenter. Lol
I knew exactly what I wanted and what I liked and I am so happy I never settled.
Im deal with an odd situation right now with a female
Nice video salute
Salute Victor!
I'm half n half = balance.... it has worked for me for 22 wonderful years with my wife 13yrs my junior ;) Educated, Streetwize, Gentleman with good testosterone levels...Work out men!
you have ah wife, wow so cool. We dont give ah fucc
You are killing it!
How do you keep your shirt sides stay up and pocket square so sliced?
It seems like there is no square in that pocket, only a presidential fold poping from nowere...
Video on pocket squares coming soon
@@TheStyleOG what about the shirt?
Looks like you sewed the "milion dollar collar" on them, am I wrong?
I do
@@TheStyleOG I knew it!!!!!!
Thanks for helping us!
You are the best!
Like Iron man of the avengers, you are the Luke Cage of menfluentials!
I believe that women are very complex, manipulative, and smart. If you're in good physical health, you have all of your hair, it's not grey, don't walk in the path of a woman. Unless you really know what you're doing because you are dealing with a cunning creature.
Be a real bad boy don’t be a simp😎😎😎
Salute uncle Jeff !!!
☹☹☹👍👍👍
Salute Kayode !
O.G I know you enjoy your short responses but you keep skipping my question man haha with all due respect it's a simple one to answer but I'm sure it's mainly preference. For Chinos do you think Target or Old Navy is better if you want a variety of colors? Always appreciate your time!
Old navy
A saved mature Kingdom Woman would never entertain wasting her time and being unequally yoked with a “bad boy”. Most of the characteristics you named come in a Kingdom Man who confidently serves, leads, and takes responsibility for his woman/wife and family.
There are times that church women are caught in a dilemma whether to wait out for a Kingdom husband or date outside the church....
You'd be surprised. Your Kingdom Woman is still a woman. She'll be led by her emotions to hook up with the bad boy, then use logic to justify afterwards
Hey Leon, maybe we see or define “Kingdom”minded men and women differently. I wasn’t speaking of the average person who professes to be a Christian or goes to church. I also specified “mature” Kingdom women. I understand that there are people in the Church who can be lead by their emotions and compromise but there are also mature saints who know their worth and won’t waist their time/lives with unsaved dead end relationships.
The best explanation for this phenomenon comes from a book by Dr. Barbara DeAngelis who stated it is based on a causal relationship: if love = home and home = pain then love = pain. Avoid women of this type at all costs.
It’s super hard because I’m super nice…… I’m constantly taken advantage of …..
then stop being nice
Damn that’s a lot just for a women . So glad I never date
Do you say the same for other important pursuits ? Do you say that’s a lot of work to get a job, that’s a lot of work to get an education? Finding a mate should be easy ?
I understand that every thing takes work and even more work to progress. But Im speaking from my perspective
thanks cuz i was a real sucker and a nice guy thanks u for putting me on game !!!!!!!!
No problem!
Since when “bad boys for life” becomes “bad marriage for life”, if you know what I meant 😂😂😂
hey bro great video have you twitter or instagram
Puts on leather jacket... 👁👄👁 where my hunnies lol
Let’s face it women will settle for any guy it helps if you have confidence in yourself. I see lots of good woman with a bunch of insecure Puh-Butts
That shows a lot of issues with the woman themselves..stay away from them
Dam u speaking facts
I try !
If you are nice guy be a nice guy you got to be yourself you can't be what people want you to be especially when it comes to women if a woman wants a bad guy good luck b**** you get what your hand call for nice guys go to heaven bad guys go to hell
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It’s about to be a lot of nice guys gettin they ass whooped😄be yourself fellas have balance it’s ok to be a nice guy even "tough guys" take shit some way or the other don’t believe the myth of they hardly take L’s I’ve seen my share...also these guys operate off fear aggressive tone body language n shit lol be all mouth until you put your fist in it I’m a Leo so I’m pretty good at keeping a balance otherwise I’d be in jail never back down but don’t get physical over dumb shit it can go left quick you’ll know when to engage stay true cheers fellas god bless 🍻
BE A MAN, MAKE A PLAN!!🙌🏽💯
Tell me !
Key words Adam and eve most women loves the devil
Mannn, looking at all the comments below. Lol,.. O.G. fired a torpedo today, but it was right on the money. I did my best with women when I adopted a portion, or the best of the bad boy characteristic. Unfortunately at that time, when I was still learning, I also adopted " some " of the negative behavior and characteristics that can come along with it, and it bit me in the ass. I think O.G. is RIGHT on the money. Adopt the best of the bad boy persona; the independence, the assertiveness, clarity of your own direction in life, physical fitness, you're own personal style, and you'll be thankful that you did. Women hate boring guys.
Always appreciate the input Anthony !
So called nice dudes be hating alllllllll the time
Be a "Man" make strong "Men" decisions and you'll be ok! 👍🏿
👍
Salute !
It's not that I like bad boys, I like thier confidence, high energy, edge and masculine energy.
And then she is labeled by that same BAD BOY , Once he had her to the
fullest he is now looking for another Victim to expose and can I add
that Bad Boys don't follows life's Rules ,some are even uneducated but
know the streets to the point where they can make in one week what some
can make in a year and Ladies love the Money and fast life .. I am nice
but take no BS, and I stay well groomed and dressed and in the Gym.my
lifestyle points at a bad boy but I'am not
Appreciate the input Eric !
NEGATIVE!!! .............LOL!!!
Good topic...bad boys? Leave those guys alone.....those dudes you don't bring home to meet your parents.....PEACE..wear that mask
Peace Kenneth !