Summary guy here! 1. Compliment her clothes, shoes, or smile. 2. “I made plans for us!” 3. “You look great!” 4. “How was your day?” 5. “I’m sorry you had to go through that.” 6. Nothing at all. 7. “Thank you.” 8. “You’re good at….” 9. I love when you do….” 10. Ask for her opinion on something. 11. “I had so much fun spending time with you last night!” 12. “It’s you and me against the world!”
This is definitely some high quality, grown man information!!! So so good!! Jeff, you hit this out the ball park. "I made plans for us" is one of the sexiest things a man can utter out of his mouth!!! I hate, the what do you wanna do dialogue!! Man up and tell me where we are going baby!!! A woman loves and respects a masculine man who leads. All 15 tips were gold. I hope your tribe applies these tips. They will bless their partners. Great work HQOG!! And the presentation is impeccable! Sharp as always.!!
I just tell my wife "were going somewhere and it is a surprise," at least a minimum of 2 times a year. She loves it. I also make a lot of plans for us. As a result, I get treated with a lot of trust, love and respect.
@@byroncrigler1221 Yes Sir!!!! You sound like a keeper and a very wise man. We don't have to know all the details, we just need to believe that we can trust you with all of the details.
Every date that stands out in my mind is when the man took charge, made the plans for us in advance, and showed up looking well groomed ,smelling good, gave me a compliment on my appearance and ready to have fun! You looking handsome in your white shirt & jacket !!
I'm one of the 11 women subscribed to the Style OG. I consider it an honor. As a woman of a particular age, I think Jeff is on the right track. I like this channel because Jeff has mastered the art of being masculine and stylish all in one. You don't have to be a man or manly to appreciate that. Thank you Jeff for being so consistent and informative. So, to one of the most well-dressed and kind-spirited men on RUclips-SALUTE !
Great video Jeff. My dad told me something when I was 15 years old that I will never forget: If something looks good on a woman, tell her. A gentleman should always compliment a woman on certain things and treat her like a lady. A gentleman should always have good manners and respect for her.
Absolutely spot on! The most important thing is that he is genuine and authentic.. so even if he’s a little rough around the edges... we know his intent.
Brother I have come across this channel and think you are doing a wonderful job. My son who I have had these conversations with since he started high school and now headed to college. I have told all my friends, nephews they really need to subscribe to your channel. I am retired military and now I teach and coach at the high school level. I mentor a couple of young men and have them subscribing to your channel as well. One of our school counselors is doing the same thing. We are having young men to watch one of your videos and have discussions. Keep doing what you do. We are putting you out there and having good discussions with young black men. A new faithful follower.
Omg you nailed it Gentleman make plans!! It separates the men from the boys. It shows us you know how to get things done without someone holding your hand.
I'm so glad I found your vids. I started following you to encourage my 18 yo whose graduating and on his way to college to have a positive male role model since I'm a single mother and his father was not apart of his life to give him the advice I've been trying to tell him. He will accept it better coming from a man.
God bless you Sir..just imagine especially these days how many Young men that are fatherless out there ,that your channel is probably helping..A true Man respects women and treats them as such ..Thank you soo much..we love you Prime time OG!!!
This is very, very good. Thank you. Especially, "don't tell her to smile" As someone that is getting out there after 29 years of marriage and losing my husband 7 years ago, it's been very difficult to meet someone worthwhile, due to so many men not knowing what they want. The indecisiveness of men in their 50s & 60s is something I did not expect. So brother's please figure out what you want.
Wonderful advice! These tips are so basic... yet, only a fraction of men relate to women in this manner. This should absolutely be the standard. Maybe, the fact that this video received so many likes, shows the tide is changing. Thanks for informing the troops! 😉
Great advice OG. And the jacket has me wondering when we can look forward to your album release. I suspect it’ll be a soul album entitled “A Gentleman With Style “.
Yo Style Og, I love your channel. Not only do you teach us about style and fashion but you also teach us how to be charming and respectful to women. Salute!!!
Great content! My lady and I watched and agreed with it all. But she reminded me "in the bed, it's not a job." When you love what you do it not like work at all.
OG. Man I love your channel glad i found you. You seem so cool and down to earth. Man you need your own talk show. I know you got the ladies hollering at you. Peace my brotha!
I’m saving this video, since discovering your channel just over a month ago I’ve had the right tools to grow into a more well rounded and not so childish person with confidence, style and a little more class, salute from Australia O.G!!
Style OG is one of the most valuable channels for men, especially young men looking to grow the f up. Seriously. As a fellow OG, Jeff has my 100% Seal of Approval. You get everything from fashion tips to GAME up in here. Stay tuned, fellas. There is always something to learn.
Dang, I think the part with not trying to fix a problem, but rather just listen to her is pretty important. I messed that up on our first meet up today. 😖
Much respect O.G. I always compliment a womans eyes and that usually results in a smile. I plan on taking my lady out on a surprise date as soon as they open up the covid restrictions
You are definitely on point especially when it comes to being decisive. It’s sexy to have a man that can make decisions on their own and not ask what a woman wants to do.
You got it all right on the money, boss! Love how you truly make yourself well-learned on every topic you make a video about, it inspires me to be more literate on new things too
@StyleOG: Absolutely right about an indecisive brother, sisters HATE IT! Sisters love an assertive brother, who has direction. Another thing, when I come home from work I always ask my wife how was her day was. What I do if something went wrong with her day, speak kind words to her, and maybe crack a quick joke to lighten her mood. When my wife makes food, or laundry or any other thing, i always make sure to say "Thank you love". It goes along way, and guess what? It makes her go harder for whatever I ask. Great points made!
Gentlemen!!! I implore you to take heed to The Style O.G.’s advice on making plans (starts at the 2:30 mark of this video). We are innately given the ability to LEAD! Remember, most women do not have an issue with submitting, they have an issue with submitting to a man who doesn’t know how to effectively LEAD!
Your the truth man!! I’ve been watching your videos for quite some time now . Always positive energy and helpful mannerism. I’ll admit I’ve learned a lot from your videos . Thanks and appreciate the great advice you give out !!!!
Thanks for Salute OG. I wasn't expecting that one. This definitely one of the good vibes first noticed about your channel of acknowledging your audience plus inviting inclusion of the ladies too. The jacket is the shizzle and definitely pulled it off MY BROTHA👊 Definitely hit 💯 on the topic, especially don't be afraid to ask: How she would approach a situation? This made me think about First Lady Obama influences with President Obama on the Road to Presidency. Every man needs the drive to succeed, yet having a strong, feminine woman on your team makes the pitfalls and obstacles more manageable to achieve the goals in the long term & vice versa.
You killed the list O.G! 💯 I have a lil somethin extra “what to say when she has a bad day”. If she had a bad day-ask if she wants to talk about. I like that because it is an extension of the question with a thoughtful approach. If she says yes..maybe offer her a light shoulder massage while she’s tellin you. That seems to be a good way to relax someone that’s had a bad day and get their mind off of it. It also works both ways for the fellas.😉
@XZ. I am nearly 83 and I appreciate the tips, not because I don't know those points, but because it's very easy to become complacent as you age, and just slip back into bad habits ---- Not that I ever had any. Lol. Phil.
Thanks for the gold tips you've been providing on your channel. You're the best, man and I appreciate it. One suggestion for you: could you please post something about ''Things to tell when one finally meets the girl one has been targeting for long?'' I'd love to watch it. Salute, OG.
Excellent!!!! I truly can go ALL IN with a man who appreciates me sincerely. I will surely give him respect and honor that's due consistantly. Thanks this is definitely needed to be said. Be Blessed
You are on point! You are amazing on everything: just two more things: If you already intimate with the lady; It is ok to compliment a woman on a particular physical part of her:body or face, her hair, her feet, her curves, her shape in a tasteful and even poetic way, if you have the verbal skills. .. it can be done respectfully, especially by not using any vulgar or silly words. However, for a new date, you are right;:no mention of certain body parts; it is indeed in poor taste. .As for the conversation: one more thing::when a lady criticizes someone else, agree that the other person was in the wrong instead of trying to be impartial in king Solomon style, as most men do. Like Chris Rock said in his bit, "Always finish your lady 's rant by "I told that b..... is crazy!!!!" Nothing will make you lady happier!!! It all about validation and support!!!!
Great advice alot if men should dffinelty consider. Basic respect and courtesy!! Compliments is a plus just don't over do it. Listening 👍 good job bro .I approve this message 😍
Great stuff man. Will apply in my relationship with my fiancée. Here's my number 1 though: "I love you." This is a phrase for a committed love relationship, of course, but it's just magic to your lady. I tell my honey I love her frequently. Thanks for the solid advice and guidance and keep up the good work.
Magnificent points! I learned all of these tips during my time of trial and error. Keep coming with the great content, and I don't want to forget to mention that set up (outfit) you have on is NICE!!! Absolutely great video Sir!
😂😂 As one of the eleven ladies here I must say that all the points you made are true. When we share an issue with you it feels good when you apologize for how we feel even tbough it’s not your fault. Also, saying,” what can do do to make it better” goes along with a long. Most times we know what to do but just want to rant. Holding the small of our backs when we go out is also a very cute thing to do, it makes us all giggly on the inside. No matter how we love to plan, when our man spontaneously plans a date and tells us all we need to do is show up and also spontaneously sends beautiful flowers 💐 to our place of work, we feel on top of the world.
OG... this channel started off as advice in many areas to men over 40, but my 20+ yr old son and his crew devour all your clips, faster than you can release them. You kno you are a World Hit when you are loved by many generations. BTW... I have loads of women watching as well. They too want to kno what's in our heads.
Thank you for posting this video. I'm a 43 year old that's finally getting a change to live life to the fullest . The only problem, I've been out of the game for quite sometime. I respect the fact that you take time and provide GEMS to the viewers, Thank you for that. My request is , would you be able to provide a top 10 or top 15 first date options ? I'm trying to get myself ready once everything opens up again. I , as I'm sure others like myself, would greatly appreciate it Sir.
I would suggest first dates keep simple (wine bar, lite lunch & possibly Happy Hour). You want to qualify her to determine possibilities of a formal date. One thing I've joked is to have a 10 min "Mini-Date". This means should you decide when meet that connection (Push-Pull Attraction) is not there, then everyone has the option to politely excuse themselves or continue for another 10 min. If you feel the genuine curiosity is there then, let her know before ending that you will coordinate later the availability for an "Official Date". You have all the data to compile a meaningful date doing something both would enjoy sharing together, for example, Groupon has section for Couple Dates. The bottom line is CREATE AN EXPERIENCE. Everyone does Dinner or Movie that's boring predictable and puts pressure on everyone. You want to find Fun that makes her go through a range of emotions (nothing negative). Hope this gives some ideals and insight.
#EL Padrino. Just a tip from someone who has survived four wives ---- Take your time. There are a lot of people who miss the companionship of marriage, but you don't find that on Internet Dating sites. Get back into the real world, there are a lot of charming people in the workplace, or the Shopping Centre, that get overlooked because they are too modest, or shy, to indulge in "paid for" self promotion. Enjoy your new start. Phil.
Shalom Jeff to you for continually dropping these well needed and very timely gems !!! PS, Man that jacket is tight and you look Sharper than a Puerto Rican switch blade in Spanish Harlem !!! Salute.
I absolutely agree with you Brother Jeff!! 👍 I don't believe you left anything out. Everything you said we can say to her really works! I appreciate this advice!! Salute!!
Jeff, I learn and take action on your advice because you present the information without hype and teaching guys to manipulate women with tricks and games.
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Summary guy here!
1. Compliment her clothes, shoes, or smile.
2. “I made plans for us!”
3. “You look great!”
4. “How was your day?”
5. “I’m sorry you had to go through that.”
6. Nothing at all.
7. “Thank you.”
8. “You’re good at….”
9. I love when you do….”
10. Ask for her opinion on something.
11. “I had so much fun spending time with you last night!”
12. “It’s you and me against the world!”
Appreciated my man!
🙇🙇
You have something in your teeth
I wrote these down on a note card so when I vidcall call my girl, I'll just glance over and automatically be right. Salute
I like it !
Bum advice
Literally did the same thing lol We can’t do no wrong now
Good idea
SO sweet!
This is definitely some high quality, grown man information!!! So so good!! Jeff, you hit this out the ball park. "I made plans for us" is one of the sexiest things a man can utter out of his mouth!!! I hate, the what do you wanna do dialogue!! Man up and tell me where we are going baby!!! A woman loves and respects a masculine man who leads. All 15 tips were gold. I hope your tribe applies these tips. They will bless their partners. Great work HQOG!! And the presentation is impeccable! Sharp as always.!!
Thanks for the feedback as always Gail !
@@TheStyleOG You're welcome.
I just tell my wife "were going somewhere and it is a surprise," at least a minimum of 2 times a year. She loves it. I also make a lot of plans for us. As a result, I get treated with a lot of trust, love and respect.
@@byroncrigler1221 Yes Sir!!!! You sound like a keeper and a very wise man. We don't have to know all the details, we just need to believe that we can trust you with all of the details.
@@byroncrigler1221 That´s what you think , what she´s really doing is another thing...Of course she loves it because you´re spending your money on her
Every date that stands out in my mind is when the man took charge, made the plans for us in advance, and showed up looking well groomed ,smelling good, gave me a compliment on my appearance and ready to have fun!
You looking handsome in your white shirt & jacket !!
Why thank you Nikki !
Of course you like that but did you also precipitate it back?...
@@Proposal12 It's reciprocate. You're taking what she said and turning it negative. Don't do that; watch the video again.
@@marciawade9101 😂😂😂😂
@@Proposal12 Precipitate 🤣 WTF!
I'm one of the 11 women subscribed to the Style OG. I consider it an honor. As a woman of a particular age, I think Jeff is on the right track. I like this channel because Jeff has mastered the art of being masculine and stylish all in one. You don't have to be a man or manly to appreciate that. Thank you Jeff for being so consistent and informative. So, to one of the most well-dressed and kind-spirited men on RUclips-SALUTE !
Appreciate you Jocelyn !
Not to mention charismatic, charming, and hansome!
Great video Jeff. My dad told me something when I was 15 years old that I will never forget: If something looks good on a woman, tell her. A gentleman should always compliment a woman on certain things and treat her like a lady. A gentleman should always have good manners and respect for her.
Thanks Melvin !
Absolutely spot on! The most important thing is that he is genuine and authentic.. so even if he’s a little rough around the edges... we know his intent.
Appreciate the feedback Robyn !
Brother I have come across this channel and think you are doing a wonderful job. My son who I have had these conversations with since he started high school and now headed to college. I have told all my friends, nephews they really need to subscribe to your channel. I am retired military and now I teach and coach at the high school level. I mentor a couple of young men and have them subscribing to your channel as well. One of our school counselors is doing the same thing. We are having young men to watch one of your videos and have discussions. Keep doing what you do. We are putting you out there and having good discussions with young black men. A new faithful follower.
I appreciate you Kenneth !
I agree with everything u mentioned and none of it cost a dime but means a lot, also just giving a hug for no reason is priceless. ....
Appreciate the input Ms!
I totally agree with everything that you said!!!! The only thing that I would add is that, women also love when u tell them that they smell good!!!
Appreciate the feedback Andreia !
Bonus tip
Her: I can't stand this girl at my job
Me: "forget her" and " she just jealous of you".
Lol
I like that one ! Lol
LOL
Hell yeah! LOL
Yesss!! Because, it's true!😂💅
PHUCK’EM ALL! Don’t get caught up in the jibber-jabber! BOTH AIN’T $H!T
Just getting out a bad marriage I’ve been out the game so long I’ve lost my touch. Appreciate this knowledge OG
Omg you nailed it
Gentleman make plans!! It separates the men from the boys. It shows us you know how to get things done without someone holding your hand.
Appreciate the feedback Lady !
Things you should say to OG: that sports jacket is fire.
Appreciate it Marc !
No need to say it because this is fact.
Things you should say to the O.G: You're a life saver.
@@TheStyleOG where you get that jacket from OG?
Agreed. Dapper, yet superfine.
I'm so glad I found your vids. I started following you to encourage my 18 yo whose graduating and on his way to college to have a positive male role model since I'm a single mother and his father was not apart of his life to give him the advice I've been trying to tell him. He will accept it better coming from a man.
I appreciate you Rita !
“Yes” to all 15.
You’re on point. 👍🏾👍🏾
Appreciate the feedback Carla !
@@TheStyleOG You’re welcome.
Great advice Jeff. I’ve been married 19 years and I have to admit that I need to implement some of these things more often.
Salute Ricky !
God bless you Sir..just imagine especially these days how many Young men that are fatherless out there ,that your channel is probably helping..A true Man respects women and treats them as such ..Thank you soo much..we love you Prime time OG!!!
I don't think I've ever said this in a youtube comment before...I heartily endorse every word you said.
He is a MAN
This is very, very good. Thank you. Especially, "don't tell her to smile"
As someone that is getting out there after 29 years of marriage and losing my husband 7 years ago, it's been very difficult to meet someone worthwhile, due to so many men not knowing what they want. The indecisiveness of men in their 50s & 60s is something I did not expect. So brother's please figure out what you want.
Thanks Demita!
Wonderful advice! These tips are so basic... yet, only a fraction of men relate to women in this manner. This should absolutely be the standard.
Maybe, the fact that this video received so many likes, shows the tide is changing. Thanks for informing the troops! 😉
I appreciate the feedback Sandra !
Great advice OG.
And the jacket has me wondering when we can look forward to your album release. I suspect it’ll be a soul album entitled “A Gentleman With Style “.
Ha !
Tight jacket on you boi, you nailed it Jeff. SALUTE and enjoy the day and GOD bless you.
Blessings George!
Yo Style Og, I love your channel. Not only do you teach us about style and fashion but you also teach us how to be charming and respectful to women. Salute!!!
Salute Bobby !
Great content! My lady and I watched and agreed with it all. But she reminded me "in the bed, it's not a job." When you love what you do it not like work at all.
Salute to you and the lady !
OG. Man I love your channel glad i found you. You seem so cool and down to earth. Man you need your own talk show. I know you got the ladies hollering at you. Peace my brotha!
Peace!
Dope video. Keep holding that mirror up for us brothers to get it right OG!
Thanks BT!
I’m saving this video, since discovering your channel just over a month ago I’ve had the right tools to grow into a more well rounded and not so childish person with confidence, style and a little more class, salute from Australia O.G!!
Salute Chase !
Style OG is one of the most valuable channels for men, especially young men looking to grow the f up.
Seriously.
As a fellow OG, Jeff has my 100% Seal of Approval. You get everything from fashion tips to GAME up in here. Stay tuned, fellas. There is always something to learn.
Appreciate this family! Been locked in for the past month. Definitely has help me grow tremendously!
Salute!
I just discovered your channel recently. The content is needed by many of us. Salute.
Salute Melvin!
Hey OG I just ran across your page today and I’ve been listening since. Very informative videos. Keep them coming. Peace.
Peace Sean !
You killing them with the sports jacket!!!!!!!!! I need one of those in my wardrobe ASAP!!!!!!!
Thanks!
Dang, I think the part with not trying to fix a problem, but rather just listen to her is pretty important. I messed that up on our first meet up today. 😖
THANK YOU FIR THIS VIDEO ... KEEP'EM COMING
Much respect O.G. I always compliment a womans eyes and that usually results in a smile. I plan on taking my lady out on a surprise date as soon as they open up the covid restrictions
You are definitely on point especially when it comes to being decisive. It’s sexy to have a man that can make decisions on their own and not ask what a woman wants to do.
Jeff... so much info to digest. Speaking for your legion of fans, we are waiting for the BOOK
working on it Frank!
You got it all right on the money, boss! Love how you truly make yourself well-learned on every topic you make a video about, it inspires me to be more literate on new things too
“Let her know - she gotz skills” 😃😃😃 Love your channel Jeff. Thanks for the content.
No problem Michelle !
That list is banging and on point O.G. That’s how you keep a woman in general. Keep up the good work and salute. ✌🏾
Salute Clifton !
Women are hypergamic by nature. Can't keep em by words. Just enjoy your turn.
heat too funny bro 🤣
@StyleOG: Absolutely right about an indecisive brother, sisters HATE IT! Sisters love an assertive brother, who has direction. Another thing, when I come home from work I always ask my wife how was her day was. What I do if something went wrong with her day, speak kind words to her, and maybe crack a quick joke to lighten her mood. When my wife makes food, or laundry or any other thing, i always make sure to say "Thank you love". It goes along way, and guess what? It makes her go harder for whatever I ask. Great points made!
Love it Ezekiel!
Gentlemen!!! I implore you to take heed to The Style O.G.’s advice on making plans (starts at the 2:30 mark of this video). We are innately given the ability to LEAD! Remember, most women do not have an issue with submitting, they have an issue with submitting to a man who doesn’t know how to effectively LEAD!
Lead on !
This is the most important advice Jeff gave out. Most women are turned off by men who can not LEAD.
Indeed!!!
Absolutely!
I almost wanted to cry when I read this statement because it’s nothing but the truth and most men seem not to understand this.
The blazer is on point!!! And by the way, am one of your returning friend
Thanks Gregory!
💯%I agree with u👌
Where’s the blazer from?
That jacket tho, tell us where you got it from! Thank you once again for the content Jeff! Salute!
J Crew
That jackets Boss OG.Solid list too. Listening is the best form of communication.
Salute !
Your the truth man!! I’ve been watching your videos for quite some time now . Always positive energy and helpful mannerism. I’ll admit I’ve learned a lot from your videos . Thanks and appreciate the great advice you give out !!!!
Salute Christopher!
I wrote this down on my Notebook ur advice and tips is on point my g salute 🥶💯🎯
Salute Dreke!
Great video Bro!! Love what you do keep doing what you're doing you're a bright light in these dark times right now.
Thanks Chris !
Yes, yes, & yes....
It's sad that some men will get offended if I suggest that they watch this video.
Great video 💗.
Thanks!
Thanks for Salute OG. I wasn't expecting that one. This definitely one of the good vibes first noticed about your channel of acknowledging your audience plus inviting inclusion of the ladies too. The jacket is the shizzle and definitely pulled it off MY BROTHA👊
Definitely hit 💯 on the topic, especially don't be afraid to ask: How she would approach a situation? This made me think about First Lady Obama influences with President Obama on the Road to Presidency.
Every man needs the drive to succeed, yet having a strong, feminine woman on your team makes the pitfalls and obstacles more manageable to achieve the goals in the long term & vice versa.
My man !
Surely, experience is the best teacher! Observation, silence, remembering our elder generations etc
Totally awesome 👏. I Definitely agree with those tips!.... Men, take notes.
This was fire 🔥. Thank you.
That sports jacket is fire too.
You killed the list O.G! 💯 I have a lil somethin extra “what to say when she has a bad day”. If she had a bad day-ask if she wants to talk about. I like that because it is an extension of the question with a thoughtful approach. If she says yes..maybe offer her a light shoulder massage while she’s tellin you. That seems to be a good way to relax someone that’s had a bad day and get their mind off of it. It also works both ways for the fellas.😉
Appreciate the input Taylor !
The Style O.G. 🙏🏾
Congrats on reaching 288K subscribers Jeff! Happy for you man 🙌🏾
Thanks Michael !
The Style O.G. Yes sir!
SALUTE: STYLE OG, That blazer with that white shirt is just too fly. Keep skooln us with that game!!! Thanks bro
Salute Deon !
Great vid OG!... Right on. Thanks for the tips. I will definitely keep these in mind!
Salute brother and stay safe!
Salute Jimmy !
I'm enjoying all your videos very much. I'm glad I subscribed. Thanks for the info!
Awesome, thank you!
Thanks, Jeff. This video is an excellent reminder of that the little things go a long way for the special lady in my life 👊🏾
No problem!
I actually use some of those tips. They actually do work Jeff. 💪🏾
Appreciate the feedback!
I don't really need the tips, I just like watching you because of your personality.
Kind words indeed!
@XZ. I am nearly 83 and I appreciate the tips, not because I don't know those points, but because it's very easy to become complacent as you age, and just slip back into bad habits ---- Not that I ever had any. Lol. Phil.
@@phillipmoodie9071 lol
That blazer is subtle but also a conversation starter!!!
Thanks Malcolm!
Once again you hit the nail on the head ! All great advice and the blazer🔥🤜🏾🤛🏾
Appreciate you Mark !
Thanks for the gold tips you've been providing on your channel. You're the best, man and I appreciate it. One suggestion for you: could you please post something about ''Things to tell when one finally meets the girl one has been targeting for long?'' I'd love to watch it. Salute, OG.
Salute Cedric !
Excellent!!!! I truly can go ALL IN with a man who appreciates me sincerely. I will surely give him respect and honor that's due consistantly. Thanks this is definitely needed to be said. Be Blessed
Blessings Katrina!
You are on point! You are amazing on everything: just two more things: If you already intimate with the lady; It is ok to compliment a woman on a particular physical part of her:body or face, her hair, her feet, her curves, her shape in a tasteful and even poetic way, if you have the verbal skills. .. it can be done respectfully, especially by not using any vulgar or silly words. However, for a new date, you are right;:no mention of certain body parts; it is indeed in poor taste. .As for the conversation: one more thing::when a lady criticizes someone else, agree that the other person was in the wrong instead of trying to be impartial in king Solomon style, as most men do. Like Chris Rock said in his bit, "Always finish your lady 's rant by "I told that b..... is crazy!!!!" Nothing will make you lady happier!!! It all about validation and support!!!!
Excellent points my brother, keep spitting that knowledge and educate the brothers. Much respect,oh and I love that blazer man.
Much respect JT!
Truly some solid tips there Jeff. My style O.G.
I'm definitely taking all of these with me
SALUTE
Salute!
Great advice alot if men should dffinelty consider. Basic respect and courtesy!! Compliments is a plus just don't over do it. Listening 👍 good job bro .I approve this message 😍
Appreciate you Jeannine!
This is great advice, in fact, I found complimentary and respectful comments in general make the woman feels good and the man.
Great stuff man. Will apply in my relationship with my fiancée. Here's my number 1 though: "I love you." This is a phrase for a committed love relationship, of course, but it's just magic to your lady. I tell my honey I love her frequently. Thanks for the solid advice and guidance and keep up the good work.
You got it Kenneth !
Great content . I most say I enjoy your advice every time brother . Salute ..
Salute Mr Allen !
It really sonds like good advice . Thanks for sharing. The only thing I heard from my father was be quick.
So glad I fell upon these videos. Just what I needed to see; confirmation of some of my beliefs. Excellent work! Happy I subscribed.
Welcome aboard!
Thanks Jeff for All of the Great videos. I’m going to tell my daughters boyfriend to study you.He’s a great guy , he just needs a little help.❤️
no problem Riz!
Magnificent points! I learned all of these tips during my time of trial and error. Keep coming with the great content, and I don't want to forget to mention that set up (outfit) you have on is NICE!!! Absolutely great video Sir!
Thanks Shawn !
😂😂 As one of the eleven ladies here I must say that all the points you made are true. When we share an issue with you it feels good when you apologize for how we feel even tbough it’s not your fault. Also, saying,” what can do do to make it better” goes along with a long. Most times we know what to do but just want to rant. Holding the small of our backs when we go out is also a very cute thing to do, it makes us all giggly on the inside. No matter how we love to plan, when our man spontaneously plans a date and tells us all we need to do is show up and also spontaneously sends beautiful flowers 💐 to our place of work, we feel on top of the world.
The Lady has spoken !
OG... this channel started off as advice in many areas to men over 40, but my 20+ yr old son and his crew devour all your clips, faster than you can release them.
You kno you are a World Hit when you are loved by many generations.
BTW... I have loads of women watching as well. They too want to kno what's in our heads.
That is awesome!
Thank you for posting this video. I'm a 43 year old that's finally getting a change to live life to the fullest . The only problem, I've been out of the game for quite sometime. I respect the fact that you take time and provide GEMS to the viewers, Thank you for that. My request is , would you be able to provide a top 10 or top 15 first date options ? I'm trying to get myself ready once everything opens up again. I , as I'm sure others like myself, would greatly appreciate it Sir.
Appreciate the suggestion!
I would suggest first dates keep simple (wine bar, lite lunch & possibly Happy Hour). You want to qualify her to determine possibilities of a formal date.
One thing I've joked is to have a 10 min "Mini-Date". This means should you decide when meet that connection (Push-Pull Attraction) is not there, then everyone has the option to politely excuse themselves or continue for another 10 min.
If you feel the genuine curiosity is there then, let her know before ending that you will coordinate later the availability for an "Official Date".
You have all the data to compile a meaningful date doing something both would enjoy sharing together, for example, Groupon has section for Couple Dates. The bottom line is CREATE AN EXPERIENCE. Everyone does Dinner or Movie that's boring predictable and puts pressure on everyone. You want to find Fun that makes her go through a range of emotions (nothing negative).
Hope this gives some ideals and insight.
#EL Padrino. Just a tip from someone who has survived four wives ---- Take your time.
There are a lot of people who miss the companionship of marriage, but you don't find that on Internet Dating sites.
Get back into the real world, there are a lot of charming people in the workplace, or the Shopping Centre, that get overlooked because they are too modest, or shy, to indulge in "paid for" self promotion.
Enjoy your new start. Phil.
Aside from me beaming through this whole video as a woman, this music is amazing!
Great advice my brother. Your blazer killin the game! Great Content!
Thanks Professor!
All excellent points for men and women. 😉❤️. Thank you! Have a good evening!
Salute!
I totally agree with all 15 things and I absolutely love, love, love your jacket. Salute!!!
Salute!
Besides enjoying the content, that jacket is ROCKET FUEL ✅✅✅
Appreciate it!
@thebluecitybr. I agree with you and I think the monotone light grey gives a real sparkle to the total look. Phil.
i agree with everyone where did you get that jacket from ?
That blazer does look slick!👌🏽
I'm leveling up my game with this one. Thanks Jeff Style O.G. Salute!
Salute!
thanks for your sound advice sir I thank you keep up the good work
Style OG where did you get that blazer? It's awesome
J Crew
Good tips man! Good job! I actually used a couple of these tips before and they work pretty well. Very accurate.
Thanks Victor !
You the modern day "Hitch"
Haha !
Modern day? Hitch was released in 2004, not 1944.
@@orthotech9758 🤣🤣🤣👌
More like the real life “Hitch”
But the guy who played hitch his wife cheated lol
Shalom Jeff to you for continually dropping these well needed and very timely gems !!!
PS, Man that jacket is tight and you look Sharper than a Puerto Rican switch blade in Spanish Harlem !!!
Salute.
Shalom Dane !
Great list ... Great content 🙌☺️
Thank you 🙌
as a lady....this works both ways!! always show kindness and respect, no matter how mundane the problem might be.
Appreciate the input Jennifer!
Great video . Definitely a reality check for me . I’ve been slacking on the complimenting my wife lately
Thanks Tremonti!
Damn O.G., that jacket is awesome! Great video as always!
Thanks Ryan!
The Style O.G. Thank you sir!
Broooo! You're coming thru in my life when all my OG's are dying off. Respect 🙏
Respect!
Jeff, all of these tips are on point. 💯 Looking good as always
I appreciate the feedback!
I absolutely agree with you Brother Jeff!! 👍 I don't believe you left anything out. Everything you said we can say to her really works! I appreciate this advice!! Salute!!
Salute David !
Great channel. Thanks for being so insightful.😊
Thanks Felicia!
Great Video, Love the suit jacket you are wearing !!
Thanks Yetta !
Jeff, I learn and take action on your advice because you present the information without hype and teaching guys to manipulate women with tricks and games.
Happy to help Tom!