2 Filipinas Talk
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
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@FlyMeToThePhilippines @Chrissyinlove1993 @ChachaTheMorenangFilipina7736
We travel to Bukinon Province on the Island of Mindanao Philippines, to interview Chacha the Morning Filipina. We ask the difficult questions about Age Gap Relationships, are they all about money, gold digging. Thailand or Philippines, do younger women date older Expats for the Money and Security or could it possibly be LOVE??
We discuss TAMPO, passive aggressive behavior, Family, Gold Digging, Customs, Culture, Food, Money, strange habits.
Stick around because we do a FAST TalK and see out takes from our trivia challenge with Chacha.
Chrissy rewrites the script and takes over the interview. Filipina interviews Filipina. Join us.
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Two Beautiful Women, it was a pleasure to spend the day in the Bukidnon mountains with them. Enjoy a very honest talk.
Dude you are so blinded how can you say that I think that you are must in a dark room dreaming
@@jamesrussell6736 I thought they were very honest and spoke directly to the importance of security in choosing a mate. Thanks for watching and offering your perspective.
Love the format, love the content. Interesting questions with the answers being just as interesting. Nice scenic back drop. Love the lack of close ups with heads as big as your screen. So nice to see body language/hand movements...thank you to all three of you! Thanks for posting. I'm engaged to a Filipina 63 vs 35. ❤
Awesome, thank you! Best wishes on your relationship.
Rob, more videos like this
Thanks for the suggestion and positive feedback
Thanks everyone this is good to hear your ideas on all these things which we all have different ideas on and love the 50 quick questions as it shows individuality 😊
From my point of view a single mum is ok to date and if it gets serious my thoughts on the kids are if I love her I will love the kids as they are part of her 🤷🏻♂️
Nice
What a great interview. Can I would like to order a clone of either one. You guys are lucky to have found one another.
Too funny thanks so much for watching
@@FlyMeToThePhilippinesHello. Sorry for the Novel, you can skip to the end. Lol I thought you were using a backdrop of that park, it was so beautiful and green. I was looking in the background for any movement. Apparently it was not windy so that plan failed. It wasn’t until you moved the camera closer that I realized the scene was live. I have been watching many videos from many different RUclipsrs and you guys are my favorite. I was looking into retiring in either the Philippines or Thailand. After communicating with a few Thai woman that I met on thaidate I realized that I would allow other men to pursue the Thai ladies. I had been to the Philippines when I was in the USAF stationed on Okinawa. I was only there a few times for a week or so and loved it, my first wife is Filipina so I am familiar with the culture and some of the nuances. Unfortunately, that marriage was meant to be. Haha that’s a story for another time. I am planning on retiring there and hopefully finding my soulmate. My plan is make the move by August 2024. I was wondering if I could keep in contact with you in case I had some questions. I promise not to email bomb you. Haha. Well let me know what your thoughts are. If you would rather I send a message this way then that’s ok. I am so happy for the 2 of you. In case you were wondering, I am 61. If you weren’t wondering you can ignore my age. Lol. Sincerely, Jeff L
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Wonderful, open and honest conversation. I would not want to be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t want financial security.
Awesome feedback. Thanks
Wow!!! Two actually Amazing and impressive beautiful Women !!!
This is only my second episode and I'm completely won over. The best channel out there!!
Well, thanks we’re blushing
A perfect example of how real Filipino woman are.
Yes, I thought so also
07:15 "I don't have money, I mean, I DO have money, but that's not MINE."
That is SO Precious! That's the right attitude. If I were married, I'd tell my wife, "I can make your life better, but I can't make EVERYBODY ELSE's life better. If your second cousin's son "needs" money for school (or whatever), you (my wife) can choose for me to make HIS life better or YOUR life better, but not BOTH of you."
Thanks for watching and what a great commentary
Yes, that was a great reply! "...Either one or the other... not both... you choose!" Genius!
Yes
Often a filipina will put her family before a husband if you can help her family in need and you don't your in hot water. However Often she will protect you from family as well it a balancing act
@@garrylafferty100 well said
Rob you love being around that positive energy? I feel the same way when I watch your channel and get to learn more and more about that wonderful place that is filled with so many amazing people. Thank you for putting out lots of fun and exciting videos, haters are gonna hate just promoveo .👍
Love seeing your feedback. 🙏
Good vlog. Some good questions and the girls did a great job answering the questions.
Glad you enjoyed it
I enjoyed the discussion ladies. I felt the honesty and sincerity. Thanks for keeping it real.
Glad you enjoyed it!
The laws are very strict on marriage, a lady with a child has to be checked out. A expat could end up in jail if not careful.
Yes it’s true- Chrissy has a legal annulment
You have an extremely insightful channel. Your wife is gorgeous and you are blessed beyond measure. I subbed about a week ago and thank you!
Thanks and welcome
After watching a video about the so call realities of age gaps and meeting the wrong person I was skeptical and it added to my confusion,after watching this video I kind of got teary eye because watching you and the girls made me see some light,I don't know what the future holds but I will do my best to make it work,ldr is very hard but there are no rules just be yourself,I'm 74 she's 43,it will be a while due to her being ofw,we'll see.
LDR is very difficult. Waiting for ofw is an added challenge. Wish you the best
@@bradleymiller7375 awesome thank you for subscribing merry Christmas
I have to say that this young lady is extremely well spoken and very mature, and appears to be a wonderful person.
I honestly hope that her and her family have a great life with many blessings.
I was a little surprised when both of you lady's started singing amazing grace.
Both of you have an amazing voices, felt like I was young again (almost 61 now) and going to revival, its literally made my hair on my arms tingle, and gave me a warm humble feeling in my heart.
I would not have a problem raising a child that is not biologically mind, I've done it before and he has grown up to be fine upstanding young man and father.
Even though we are not connected by blood he is my son and to him I am dad.
And that is how I would handle it now, if I'm going to have a relationship with an single mother it's my responsibility to treat the children as my own and let them know it every day.
God bless and take care I wish the best for all of you.
Thank you for sharing and your feedback
Thanks!
Wow, thank you Will. Such a nice thing to wake up to this morning. Thank you for your support.❤️🙏👍
Rob - My 2nd video of your. I love both videos, especially this one with the Rapid Fire 50 Questions. You and Dave are very fortunate. Chrissy & Chacha both seem amazing. I have been to SEA many times (Singapore, Thailand, Malaysia and Vietnam) over the years. But finding your videos and seeing your relationship with Chrissy makes me want to go to Philippines.
Thanks for washing it for such kind feedback I hope you do come to the Philippines, and have a great success
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Do you have a video that shares how you met Chrissy? I just created a Filipino Cupid acct. It's my 1st time with dating App. I had a GF in Thailand for about 6 mos. I lived with her for about 3 mos. Turns out she was totally fake and really wanted $$ sponsor. I wasn't looking for GF on my trips. I just met her at coffee shop and it happened.
@@jrnoles1984I’m with ya on that. I just joined Christian Filipina less than a month ago. I happened upon their Channel, and they have been VERY informative. I am determined to find My Filipina, because for me, there is no other…for ALL of the obvious reasons
Very informative and i love your honesty.
Thanks for your comment
Fun vlog, kicking back with a coffee on a Sunday morning with a smile 😃
Love that!
SINGLE MOTHERS - it depends on what your plans are. If I was looking for a LTR or marriage, I would see it as an advantage to date a single mother - because I do not want to raise another baby myself. Yet I understand that almost all young women are going to want a child. So better that she already has one (ideally of school age) so the woman feels fulfilled. Being in an LTR with a young woman who is aching to have a baby, if you are not, is just setting you up for conflict. Better that having a baby is out of her system, and out in the open, and accounted for in you budget, so you can just get on with the relationship you want to have together.
Well said
Great intro with those lovely voices 🤩
I hope it's OK so say how I've been intrigued by the features that come together with the Chinese and Spanish features of Filipinos. Of course, the words and wisdom make the relationship work, but I do have that initial impression for skin color and overall beauty that is quite alluring. Your guest is stunning!
"They have to be willing and ready" she said, and that's true. It's a whole package. After that initial "wow" of she's beautiful is a whole person.
👍
When Chrissy asked Rob how he felt about being with her or Filipinos , I had a big smile because the girls are a joy to be with lol most of the time
Yes Perry they are.
I think you are extraordinarily fortunate. Geez...their voices are wonderful!
I am very lucky 🍀
Hi, this is Mandy and Mark. We very much enjoyed your video. Your frank honesty and adorableness is really refreshing. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks so much! 😊
This is a super video. I enjoyed it so much .Thank you and keep on posting
Thank you, I will
I’m flying out tomorrow for Manila. My Filipina is meeting me at the airport then we are flying to Bali for 10 days. When we come back we are going to Cebu and then we will drive to other areas and islands near Cebu city. Long flights but well worth it. We haven’t seen each other since mid-march.
Well, sounds like a fantasy trip. Good luck on the reunion and I’d be interested in knowing if you have any difficulty getting your Filipina out of the country.
Love the honestly between the lines it's a balance of love and money ( she wants long term financial benefit ) you need to love your partner ( as long as he can support me financially ) I am a single mother ( I need someone to pay for my poor choice in a person I made a baby with ) don't say bad things about single mothers ( victim mentality ) a man would respect a single mother and stay on our good side or tampo. ( respect me, or you'll regret it )
Thank you for the clarity 🙏
I’m glad you liked it
Tampo doesn't work against most western men.
Most of us are so used to a woman screaming to us, fighting us and making all sorts of drama, so tampo is mainly a bit of peace for us.
Communication, honesty, love, care, respect and peace are key components in a good relationship.
Thanks for sharing
What about disciplining the kid? How is that dynamic? Since you are expecting the foreigner to accept the kid as his.
Good point
And that's the exact reason I wouldn't marry one UNLESS she's a widow...and even then.. we have to get a very clear understanding of my fathering skills are like..and she must be able to have a child by me too.
Good
Thanks
Money in love have no Factor money is nice to have in a relationship nice to have and take care of the the loved one you are with I would love to be in the Philippines with a beautiful Filipino woman and take care of her like she's is a queen 👑
Yes, agree
Beautiful conversation.
Glad you think so!
Okay I want a Filipina like that one with a mindset like that, I been living here in Makita since I got to the Philippines haven't headed out to any of the islands yet but I do know I don't want a city girl but I'll be going out to the islands soon maybe after the holidays are done to start looking for her.
Good luck, I am sure you will succeed.
I did subscribe,I like the positive vibes.
Thank you. 🙏
MY GIRLFRIEND HAS 3 DAUGHTERS, ONE SON IN LAW AND A WONDERFUL 4 YR OLD GRANDSON. tHEY ARE A BONUS TO ME.
Thanks for watching our video Daniel and For sharing your family story
I'm good with everything.......MONEY for Family is not. Money is earned. Big Cultural difference.
These young Ladies are absolutely Beautiful and so Sweet ❤❤❤!!! Such beautiful skin and hair 😊! God Bless them ❤!!!
Thank you so much
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I was in Olongapo when I was 19 and in the US Navy, the young Ladies were absolutely Beautiful and always so Happy and fun to be with and I always respected them 💖💖!!! Nicest people I have ever met!!!
@@waymore4472 thanks for watching our videos and taking the time to comment
BEAUTIFUL SKIN COLOR OF YOUR GUEST ♥ AS WELL OF THE TOPIC CONTENT.
Thank you
Hi ladies I'm not looking for a wife because I'm just looking for my Fathers reason why he wanted to help all Filipinos during WWII. I lost him when I was 4 🙏, now I'm 65, and I feel the Island pulling me to the Philippines for closure. I went to the Bahamas and Hawaii when I was younger but I wanted to leave a comment. I have a Single Father with 3 Children, they were 13,7 & 4 when I got custody and now their are 33, 27 & 24. I have had a stroke so I'm grounded but not out😁 so I don't know when or if I will make it but I will keep trying🤞I don't have money and I'm an ex-Musician so the money I had I gave to my Kids
Keep trying. I am rooting for you
I would date a Filipina, but I would never Marry one !!!
Thanks for watching. I hope you can subscribe
Great vlog and as a European what more can I say than GOUDA! 😋 Sooooo goood! Love it. And healthy too. Anyway I know cheese products in general are rather rare in Asia. Or have some high import tax added to them. I truly wonder HOW did you get a gouda wheel in the Philippines? Where can you find it? I really would like to know. I know I sound insane to all "non-cheesy" people out there, but hey I didn't see gouda in the PH when I was there.
Yes, good real cheese is very hard to find and can be very expensive when purchased in small quantities at better supermarkets here in the Philippines, they have some Michael SNR, which is the Costco of the Philippines. Normally we can buy 16 of a goodwill but the last month they’ve been out and this last time all they had was the big wheel available I paid approximately $65 Maybe $18 US per kilo. But it’s so hard to find and it last so I decided to buy it and just cut my own portion off one week at a time.
Good job
Thanks
Chrkissy I love your JOY !!!! So very sweet...
You are so kind
Very good conversation.
The only concern I have is the amount of single mothers. I've done this before. I have no interest in raising another man's child. I know how it plays out. Typically is not a good choice.
How typical is it for these women to be single mothers?
Is there a good way to tell from the beginning?
It seems the majority are single mothers after the age of 22 or 23
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines
That's too bad. Really would prefer not to go through that again.
It would be nice to have a more traditional relationship, the West is getting worse.
Americans really don’t have to go all the way to the Philippines to find a nice Filipino woman. In fact, I met my Filipino wife 37 years ago in California. There is a large concentration of Filipinos in Hawaii, California and Washington, for example. We’ve been together 37 years, and 36 years Kasal. Just as important is the fact that you won’t fall in the cultural trap of “utang na loob”. Which owed debt to the parents and siblings. Anyway, that’s just how I see it.
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts
I would love to date a Philippines woman
No time like the present. Thanks for watching it commenting.
I love to date a filapina. But at 52 I can not leave the states yet. As I have 13 years to work till I get my ss. To bad I can not find good ones here in the states.
Look in California
Of course…financial security is one of the basics of being a man, just as the woman looks upon managing the household as just the basics of being a woman. It all flows from the very basics of relationships…reciprocity. It is a naturally formed quid pro quo. In this case, the more that males and females differ, the more they get along. Problems arise when they become too much alike…when both wish to earn money…and then they both, essentially, want wives.
Yes, financial security is one of the things a woman must look for in a man if she wants children. A woman cannot be a woman unless her man will be a man. Just as male birds build their home, a female must look at how well he may fulfill his duties before she will pick him as a mate. A human female must do the same thing, and for the same reason…a woman must look for a man who will fulfill his duties as a man.
And, just as a female bird also looks at other male attributes, such as the volume and intricacy of his songs or the brilliance of his plumage, both of which indicate vibrant health and intelligence, so must women also look at other aspects of her potential mate. A man with at least average intelligence already knows this, and so, he knows he must prepare himself for the future by building his life to a level where he could provide a comfortable life for his future wife and brood (nest).
A man must look for loyalty in his woman, for without this, his life’s work will have been wasted. The man also must be sure that his mate has innate femininity, one who naturally has a giving and caring side, not only to ensure she will take care their progeny, but of him. This will allow him to work hard, as he knows he could recover at home under his mate’s care.
Were each to fulfill their respective roles, life would run smoothly. A problem occurs when one or the other “changes” mid course (they never really change…they merely unmask). And so, this is why it is so vital that the deep emotional bond of love exists before a final commitment takes place. This is the vital drive which keeps families together, and without which, everything eventually falls apart.
And so, so long as the man can assure the woman a good life, not only while they are together, but after his death, the woman then knows that her security has been met through her mate’s life planning, and she is then free to love fully. And it is love that drives her to want to care for her mate and their family. And, so long as the man feels his mate’s love through her caring, this is why he gladly sacrifices his time to provide.
Sorry for the long roundabout, but, this is why a woman must look at only viable mates from all angles before she commits her heart. This is why she may appear to be a good digger if she attempts to delve into the financial affairs of potential mates as a screening mechanism…she must, if she is to find her happiest life.
However, the man, if he is to have his happiest life, must screen out his potential mates for gold diggers…the women who prioritize money, and so, her level of comfort in life. Just so long as he understands a woman’s need to find out if he can provide a decent life for them, if he is particularly wealthy, he could initially hide most of his wealth and just portray himself as someone who can provide a modest, but secure future. This will ensure he attracts the right woman, and for the right reason.
And so, in this manner, both, the major fear of women (lack of financial stability), and that of men (being taken advantage of financially), can be alleviated…or at least mitigated, from the beginning. With the ground then becoming fertile, their relationship may bloom under the warmth of love…and so, why large age gap relationships are not only possible, but in many instances, actually do work.
Wow, wow wow I’m going to have to save this comment and refer back to it overtime it’s such a pleasure to have you as a viewer and supporter of our channel. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts on this very complicated subject. I think you expressed it perfectly, and took the time to really share a very very Well thought out response for very complicated question thanks again.
man, you must have a lot of time on your hands.
@@mcluvin65 I am retired, after all. :)
I finish reading your comment and this one is my favorite
You can't care what people say behind your back. Don't make what negative people say important.
Great advice thanks for watching supporting and commenting. It really helps our channel.
I wonder if they applied the same standard of …..
“Making sure they have enough for the present needs but also future needs”
If Filipina has for male Filipino partner ?
Thanks for watching and sharing your comment
So many videos like this on RUclips. Aside from all the B.S. Answers. E.g. "Age is just a number" "love" etc. No matter how much you/they sugarcoat it. It's all about the Benjamin's at the end of the day.
Thanks for watching and for sharing your comment. Don’t you think all women are seeking both security and romance regardless of age?
Seeking security and romance? Yes. Regardless of age? No! If age wasn't an issue, then why is it you rarely (if never) see a filipina lady in a relationship with an older filipino dude twice or more her age? -- Fast forward to 5 yrs in the future. Those same filipinas moved to the west or have a decent job. Do you think they'd date or get involved with an older guy? Hardly unlikely. They're mostly seeking guys same age or close. I've worked with lots of filipinos/filipinas. And the single filipinas mindset is same as western women. They go after the same age. Unless the old guy is loaded with the benjamins.
@@stk7308 Actually I am familiar with quite a few older Filipino men with age gap relationships, even a well known woman from wealthy family … and actress married to 25 year older. Name Beauty Gonzales
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines OK. So there is a 25yr gap between them. But he is also a successful businessman. So money marry money. I guarantee if he was a regular Joe, working a 9-5 job and earning minimum wage or even slightly above. She never entertain his broke-ass. Also, Her relationship a.k.a. Love story touched the ticker of many fans. Which is a huge publicity boost for her. Being a successful businessman, she knows he can maintain her lifestyle should her career tanks. Bottom line? I'm sorry but there is nothing you can say that will convince me that money is NOT the deciding factor.
I'm willing to trade security for a woman that has some energy! LOL most of the women my age unfortunately don't. Perhaps maybe I just haven't found the right one but so far that's what I've experienced
No shortage of energy here in the Philippines
God is the only one should be judging you not no one else people shouldn't judge only God judges you other people's opinions don't matter
Thanks for that
I know Chrissy got her marriage annulled. Was Cha cha married before to the father of her daughter. If so did she also get an annulment? Just curious. I’m not religious so having a child out of wedlock doesn’t bother me and wouldn’t be any of my business anyway I only ask because if she is still married the impact on her new partner could be difficult or even dangerous.
No she was not
An extremely high proportion of filipinas would describe themselves as religious, and a high proportion of filipinas have children outside of wedlock (and often when pretty young.) The insistance of the church in blocking any meaningful form of sex education is a big part of the problem!
Bugger me, she is pretty.
Single mothers don’t scare me as long as I’m allowed to step in as the biological father. If a relationship with a single mother should work out, both she and the child should accept me as a full member of the family. I grew up with a stepfather myself, and he took on the responsibles as if he was the biological parent to my brother, sister and me.
Agree
For a woman it's two things: love & $, do they feel safe he can provide? The man's two things are her attitude & beauty - so both sexes have their two things. I mean I
Well said
Every man would like to date and marry a young girl, its human nature. In the Philippines the girsl are desperate to get a foreigner to either get out of the Philippines or even to get her gands on his pension. I have met countless Filipina in the USA and they say they would not even date a man 2 years older far less, 10, 20 or 30. It is just that for the Filipina, there is a lack of options.
If you want a simple Filipino who can only cook, clean, and bare children, then that's fine. If you choose a Filipino nurse working abroad earning $90,000 per year, then you've really hit the jackpot.
Good point
I hit the jackpot
Handyman can raise a baby and takes a real man to raise it and treat it like his own and that's what I am trying❤ and if he loves the woman he will do anything to take care of and give her a good
Thanks for watching and sharing your comment
Hello Cha Cha !
Hello @Rory 😄
She is very beautiful young lady now a days western woman hardly cooks and clean
Thanks for watching and sharing your comment
You found a Western Woman (American) that will cook and clean? THAT, in itself is shocking. You could put her in a traveling circus in the Side Show venue. It's sad. I have lost ALL respect for American women... and they wonder why they are turning 40 and still single. AKA, never married.
It looks like you’re very near Malaybalay, my (hopefully) future home
Amazing mountains
4M that's what it boils down too, its not just an opinion, i will never see a young Pinay with and old poor pinoy
Practically all Filipina have at least 1 or 2 children, after being with a Filipino and realizing he is a waste of time then they are looking for a foreigner to take care of the other mans child.
True for many, possibly not all
Do the kids live with the mothers?
Yes
We always hear that Filipino men prefer chubby light skinned Filipina girls.... But every dating site or vlog shows Filipina women with kid kids that are dark, slim and hott. You do not see the fat, light skinned girls on the dating sites or any vlog... My conclusion is that Filipino men prefer the thins dark ones just as much as western men. Just my observation.
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You know, I am thinking to develop a bank account in the nearest future for my gf plus I am thinking to do some effective for “my” little daughter. In case I will die , getting sick or even if we will not get along well when we are together. I want her to be secure for at least 5 years. And my little daughter, well, she should start her life also in secure. What do you think about that?
Sounds like a good plan you could also purchase land or a home
🤔.. hmm.. $$ just a bit too close to the money-line talk for me..
Thanks for your comment
****You guys don't like any of the local Phillipine dudes because they don't have money?
You cant say that. Look how many babies they are having with them.
What? Why doesnt she get a job and provide HIM security...2023 yall can educate yourself and make good $$
Being a Father? No problem. Everyone else??? Get a job.
$$$$$$$$$$ no money no honey
Why do people always have to explain the age gap? because it is completely unnatural and is based on economics. If an older man or a substantially younger female would admit it instead of rationalizing with all the same tired tropes of "traditional values" I might disagree. Still, I would be less critical of their relationship. If you are an older man of course a young beautiful woman appeals to you and if you are a poor woman a man with money is better.
Love the McLuvin
Gold diggers
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